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TSmoorish
post Mar 18 2009, 06:23 PM, updated 17y ago

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From the topic http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/967243 it made me think deep why are girl money minded.

Thousands of years ago, money do not exist, girl will choose their partner base on security, they look for well built male who can protect them from wild animals and wild man or whatever wild things,they're vulnerable when they;re pregnant, and the years when they need to raise children. This has been genetic in female.

Fast forward to today, we no longer require mr. muscle to protect us, security took a new meaning, security = money. So girl will marry a guy when he is rich and this is why the quote ada wang ada amoi.

So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice.

to avoid repeating myself 1000X

I'm not saying choose money but no love, no romance, your husband only love you for sex, and so on, I'm saying you hv a normal couple life just that your husband is rich.

I'm not saying when he is rich you flaunt his wealth and spend lavishly, as pointed up there, the intention is SECURITY.

I'm not saying aim for DATUK!

The purpose of the wealth is SECURITY, so you can have children with him and knowing he is capable.

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I have no problem with these girls, afterall, this is reality and i just have to affix myself to that...

Still, i prefer a girl with decent attitude, and with realistic expectation of life and money...
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Saya setuju. So ... how much $ does a guy need to have to get a moorish?
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 06:23 PM)
From the topic http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/967243 it made me think deep why are girl money minded.

Thousands of years ago, money do not exist, girl will choose their partner base on security, they look for well built male who can protect them from wild animals and wild man or whatever wild things,they're vulnerable when they;re pregnant, and the years when they need to raise children. This has been genetic in female.

Fast forward to today, we no longer require mr. muscle to protect us, security took a new meaning, security = money. So girl will marry a guy when he is rich and this is why the quote ada wang ada amoi.

So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice.
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harrr........u look down to those who poor la doh.gif money is not everything n sumthing tat money u cant buy if my gf is MATA $$$ i sure dump her.....
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QUOTE(Malefic @ Mar 18 2009, 06:30 PM)
Saya setuju. So ... how much $ does a guy need to have to get a moorish?
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post Mar 18 2009, 06:33 PM

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when ur hubby got alot $$
outside got alot girls biggrin.gif

ada wang ada amoi laugh.gif

best is gal is independent and got a stable job.
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post Mar 18 2009, 06:34 PM

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Whatever u choose to think is fine....
Just don't think everything ends there...
You choose, people can choose too.

with all the money in the world, why should they choose you??
After they're bored they'll leave ur sorry asses and by then u will be
old and ugly and noone else wants you laugh.gif
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so now my question to u .. is how much security do u need?
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ada wang ada amoi

but girl, we got cash, what you can offer?? =p
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QUOTE(looqsonline @ Mar 18 2009, 06:35 PM)
so now my question to u .. is how much security do u need?
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sigh.... unlimited.
Women can't be pleased....
haven't u heard of the shopping joke?

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A store that sells husbands has just opened where a woman may go to choose a husband from among many men. The store is composed of 6 floors, and the men increase in positive attributes as the shopper ascends the flights.

There is, however, a catch. As you open the door to any floor you may choose a man from that floor, but if you go up a floor, you cannot go back down except to exit the building.

So a woman goes to the shopping center to find a husband.

On the first floor the sign on the door reads:

Floor 1 - These men have jobs.

The woman reads the sign and says to herself, "Well, that's better than my last boyfriend, but I wonder what's further up?" So up she goes.

The second floor sign reads:

Floor 2 - These men have jobs and love kids.

The woman remarks to herself, "That's great, but I wonder what's further up?" And up she goes again.

The third floor sign reads:

Floor 3 - These men have jobs, love kids and are extremely good looking.

"Hmmm, better" she says. "But I wonder what's upstairs?"

The fourth floor sign reads:

Floor 4 - These men have jobs, love kids, are extremely good looking and help with the housework.

"Wow!" exclaims the woman, "very tempting. BUT, there must be more further up!" And again she heads up another flight.

The fifth floor sign reads:

Floor 5 - These men have jobs, love kids, are extremely good looking, help with the housework and have a strong romantic streak.

"Oh, mercy me! But just think... what must be awaiting me further on?" So up to the sixth floor she goes.

The sixth floor sign reads:

Floor 6 - You are visitor 6,875,953,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please.

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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 06:23 PM)
From the topic http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/967243 it made me think deep why are girl money minded.

Thousands of years ago, money do not exist, girl will choose their partner base on security, they look for well built male who can protect them from wild animals and wild man or whatever wild things,they're vulnerable when they;re pregnant, and the years when they need to raise children. This has been genetic in female.

Fast forward to today, we no longer require mr. muscle to protect us, security took a new meaning, security = money. So girl will marry a guy when he is rich and this is why the quote ada wang ada amoi.

So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice.
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Following your logic... guys shouldn't be ashamed if they play around with many girls... after all it's genetic with guys ... so guys be proud when you choose a younger lovelier wife every few years... better yet... why bother with a wife... just love them and leave them... ignore all those silly people who insist love is more important... they're immature or they haven't had a chance to live with a gold digging harlot... after a few years of marriage those guys will regret thier choice.
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QUOTE(JapanKid89 @ Mar 18 2009, 06:36 PM)
ada wang ada amoi

but girl, we got cash, what you can offer?? =p
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offer the amount all of ur cash flex.gif
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QUOTE(Thradash @ Mar 18 2009, 06:37 PM)
Following your logic... guys shouldn't be ashamed if they play around with many girls... after all it's genetic with guys ... so guys be proud when you choose a younger lovelier wife every few years... better yet... why bother with a wife... just love them and leave them... ignore all those silly people who insist love is more important... they're immature or they haven't had a chance to live with a gold digging harlot... after a few years of marriage those guys will regret thier choice.
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Well said. I agree, despite the fire I am playing with.
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QUOTE(BuBuCai @ Mar 18 2009, 06:38 PM)
offer the amount all of ur cash flex.gif
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huh??

i mean we can give the girl the security of cash/richness

but what can the girl offer us?
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post Mar 18 2009, 06:46 PM

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QUOTE(King83 @ Mar 18 2009, 06:34 PM)
Whatever u choose to think is fine....
Just don't think everything ends there...
You choose, people can choose too.

with all the money in the world, why should they choose you??
After they're bored they'll leave ur sorry asses and by then u will be
old and ugly and noone else wants you laugh.gif
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There is another side of the story, thousands of years ago, male are like dogs(they still are) , they will do who ever they can, this has been in male genetic, male can do 365 girls a year, but girl can only afford to do 1 time with guy a year, meaning girls will get pregnant.

So male do not need to think much to do a girl, whereelse girl need to think a lot before letting him do, so back to the male problem, how many male will stay loyal throughout marriage?

The male instinct has always been on the hunt, in modern times male find it a huge challenge to stay loyal and faithful, its like a joke god put on them, their eyes will keep scanning and temptation will be an everyday issue, bcoz girls are made to attract guy thats why girl shops and dressed up.

So back to topic, male will stray at least one time after marriage be it chicken or mistress. And they think its an acceptable tolerance when girls who stray once are classified as sluts.

So to girls who choose on love.... wait till you grow up, its always wiser like our ancestor has put the genetic on our blood, go for security!
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QUOTE(Thradash @ Mar 18 2009, 06:37 PM)
Following your logic... guys shouldn't be ashamed if they play around with many girls... after all it's genetic with guys ... so guys be proud when you choose a younger lovelier wife every few years... better yet... why bother with a wife... just love them and leave them... ignore all those silly people who insist love is more important... they're immature or they haven't had a chance to live with a gold digging harlot... after a few years of marriage those guys will regret thier choice.
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nice reply ... u must have some karpal singh in u
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moorish guy or girl?
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QUOTE(JapanKid89 @ Mar 18 2009, 06:45 PM)
huh??

i mean we can give the girl the security of cash/richness

but what can the girl offer us?
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yes i agree. who want to stay poor. money can buy many thing. include love.
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 06:46 PM)
There is another side of the story, thousands of years ago, male are like dogs(they still are) , they will do who ever they can, this has been in male genetic, male can do 365 girls a year, but girl can only afford to do 1 time with guy a year, meaning girls will get pregnant.

So male do not need to think much to do a girl, whereelse girl need to think a lot before letting him do, so back to the male problem, how many male will stay loyal throughout marriage?

The male instinct has always been on the hunt, in modern times male find it a huge challenge to stay loyal and faithful, its like a joke god put on them, their eyes will keep scanning and temptation will be an everyday issue, bcoz girls are made to attract guy thats why girl shops and dressed up.

So back to topic, male will stray at least one time after marriage be it chicken or mistress. And they think its an acceptable tolerance when girls who stray once are classified as sluts.

So to girls who choose on love.... wait till you grow up, its always wiser like our ancestor has put the genetic on our blood, go for security!
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Thousands of years ago...
men with the biggest dicks gets the chicks...

today, it still has not changed.
btw, did i mention i'm huge? brows.gif
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QUOTE(Phenom @ Mar 18 2009, 06:48 PM)
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moorish guy or girl?
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short answer: both

long answer: tl;dr
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SAD and hurting words.
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QUOTE(HappyPic @ Mar 18 2009, 06:51 PM)
yes i agree. who want to stay poor. money can buy many thing. include love.
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can money buy extend life-spend human life time warranty???buy love probably u buy her body u still cant get her heart fully......

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To girls, money is a great temptation.
To guy, pretty sexy girls are great temptation.





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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 06:58 PM)
To girls, money is a great temptation.
To guy, pretty sexy girls are great temptation.
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I pity ur husband.

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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 06:58 PM)
To girls, money is a great temptation.
To guy, pretty sexy girls are great temptation.
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temptation/desire can be control.
Can i pay money to ask you to love me fully? cool2.gif
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 06:58 PM)
To girls, money is a great temptation.
To guy, pretty sexy girls are great temptation.
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So wat is stopping rich guys from playing around?

Just because u marry a rich guy, does not mean he will be faithful, usually not.

Maybe society is better off without marriage, girls just be prostitutes, and guys just make money and spend it on the prostitutes....according to your argument.

Both sides get what they want...many prostitutes earn a lot of money (security). For child bearing, just go to sperm bank.
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 06:58 PM)
To girls, money is a great temptation.
To guy, pretty sexy girls are great temptation.
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If u say like this, I can get a dozen of pretty girls already.

Earning money is extremely much easier than getting the one that is SMART enough to click with ur mind.
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QUOTE(Xepz @ Mar 18 2009, 07:05 PM)
So wat is stopping rich guys from playing around?

Just because u marry a rich guy, does not mean he will be faithful, usually not.

Maybe society is better off without marriage, girls just be prostitutes, and guys just make money and spend it on the prostitutes....according to your argument.

Both sides get what they want...many prostitutes earn a lot of money (security). For child bearing, just go to sperm bank.
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+1

i believe TS never think the meaning of paying for love means something like prostitution. brows.gif
what the world coming too...

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QUOTE(JapanKid89 @ Mar 18 2009, 07:04 PM)
temptation/desire can be control.
Can i pay money to ask you to love me fully?  cool2.gif
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nice one bro......nice shocking.gif
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QUOTE(JapanKid89 @ Mar 18 2009, 07:07 PM)
+1

i believe TS never think the meaning of paying for love means something like prostitution.  brows.gif
what the world coming too...
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Prostitute dont love you la.
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 07:16 PM)
Prostitute dont love you la.
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so conclusion money can't buy me love rite??
so why do i give money to a girl who can't love me???
get the picture

ada wang ada amoi
but what can the girl offer me?
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you guys still dun get it la:

100 thousand years ago girls would be cracking their head with I love A, but he is so short and skinny and always get sick cannot hunt for food and B is tall and strong and will be able to hunt and protect me and the children.

2009: I love A but he is poor, but B is rich and can provide security (money)


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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 06:46 PM)
There is another side of the story, thousands of years ago, male are like dogs(they still are) , they will do who ever they can, this has been in male genetic, male can do 365 girls a year, but girl can only afford to do 1 time with guy a year, meaning girls will get pregnant.

So male do not need to think much to do a girl, whereelse girl need to think a lot before letting him do, so back to the male problem, how many male will stay loyal throughout marriage?

The male instinct has always been on the hunt, in modern times male find it a huge challenge to stay loyal and faithful, its like a joke god put on them, their eyes will keep scanning and temptation will be an everyday issue, bcoz girls are made to attract guy thats why girl shops and dressed up.

So back to topic, male will stray at least one time after marriage be it chicken or mistress. And they think its an acceptable tolerance when girls who stray once are classified as sluts.

So to girls who choose on love.... wait till you grow up, its always wiser like our ancestor has put the genetic on our blood, go for security!
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Seriously human being are not monogamy creature,wink.gif

thousands years ago there is not such thing is marriage
marriage is a culture thing, not a thing made by mother nature

that is y guy will keep screwing around and look for other girls,
coz they want to pass on their genes, and have as many offspring as possible. wink.gif

so the chances of his genes surviving are higher laugh.gif

girls are also the same, they will keep looking for better n stronger male
so their baby wil have the the stronger genes and the chances of them to
grow up to adulthood n hav the next generation are better icon_rolleyes.gif

this is y the girls like bad guys alot more then good guys rolleyes.gif

girls you can ask yourself
do u want to kids to grow up to b macho guy or a or a computer geek rolleyes.gif

who will get the girls? brows.gif what do you think? biggrin.gif


guess I must b watching too much National Geographic or Discovery Channel ph34r.gif

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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 07:22 PM)
you guys still dun get it la:

100 thousand years ago girls would be cracking their head with I love A, but he is so short and skinny and always get sick cannot hunt for food and B is tall and strong and will be able to hunt and protect me and the children.

2009: I love A but he is poor, but B is rich and can provide security (money)
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TS so poor ppl can go die ad la like tat......am i rite? laugh.gif
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QUOTE(BuBuCai @ Mar 18 2009, 07:26 PM)
TS so poor ppl can go die ad la like tat......am i rite?  laugh.gif
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no la, but if you're poor and you manage to get a pretty girl, then its like a time bomb la, coz so many rich guys will chase her. Its only a matter of time she run off.
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I give u 1st prize for stupidity... be grateful
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You're 13 year old kid...wait till you grow up and you'll know what is ada wang ada amoi.
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 07:35 PM)
You're 13 year old kid...wait till you grow up and you'll know what is ada wang ada amoi.
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TS mean tak wang pergi mati la thumbup.gif

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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 07:35 PM)
You're 13 year old kid...wait till you grow up and you'll know what is ada wang ada amoi.
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u got 0 out of 2 again

u seriously suck
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 08:30 PM)
no la, but if you're poor and you manage to get a pretty girl, then its like a time bomb la, coz so many rich guys will chase her. Its only a matter of time she run off.
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Ok lets look on the guys side,guys if can will go for the cun and hot one.

What if i see a hotter chic beside you?Well,obviously i would choose the hotter cun one.

Why?
Well she's more good looking then you~

But in certain reasons,love DO take place.

example:

Why i choose you as you are less good looking when i can go for the hot one?Because i love you.Because you matters the most for me,for instance.

Or maybe "terpaksa". sleep.gif

Here's a secret,im fukken rich~ laugh.gif

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QUOTE(Xhiro @ Mar 18 2009, 07:37 PM)
u got 0 out of 2 again

u seriously suck
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why do you think rich ppl get all the chicks?
why do you think actress and modals, beautiful singers, beautiful celebrities all married rich dude?


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QUOTE(BuBuCai @ Mar 18 2009, 07:36 PM)
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Added on March 18, 2009, 7:37 pm

TS mean tak wang pergi mati la  thumbup.gif
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i'm not saying love do not exist, i'm only saying girl who goes for money is not as bad as guys portrait them to be...its in their instinct

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QUOTE(HappyPic @ Mar 18 2009, 06:51 PM)
yes i agree. who want to stay poor. money can buy many thing. include love.
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money can also buy affair outside. smile.gif
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 07:41 PM)
why do you think rich ppl get all the chicks?
why do you think actress and modals, beautiful singers, beautiful celebrities all married rich dude?
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why do u think rich people has many wives/husbands?
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why do u think rich people has many wives/husbands?
why do u think actrress and models always end up in divorce?  doh.gif
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 07:35 PM)
You're 13 year old kid...wait till you grow up and you'll know what is ada wang ada amoi.
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Dear TS,

the word ada wang ada amoi, its true but it apply back what girl can offer to make that guy want her in the first place?

When comes to love, money its only a ticket to make the girl attracted to the guy if i'm rite cause its provide security and a future.
Yes i do agree a relationship can't survive without money when comes to wedding, raising a family, etc.

But a relationship as in love does not need money. Like i said money its just a Bonus++ to makes her attracted to the guy. But what can the girl offer to make the guy want the girl? Body? her beauty? please i got money, if i want to pay for sex and body/beauty i might as well go for prostitute.

But went comes to love, money only its an attraction nothing more. So dont make mistake with the term ada wang ada amoi. icon_rolleyes.gif

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You're 13 year old kid...wait till you grow up and you'll know what is ada wang ada amoi.
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At first you have to love him,not because of his money.

Because,if he fell poor your in deep trouble.

Money is just a bonus.
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QUOTE(JapanKid89 @ Mar 18 2009, 07:45 PM)
Dear TS,

the word ada wang ada amoi, its true but it apply back what girl can offer to make that guy want her in the first place?

When comes to love, money its only a ticket to make the girl attracted to the guy if i'm rite cause its provide security and a future.
Yes i do agree a relationship can't survive without money when comes to wedding, raising a family, etc.

But a relationship as in love does not need money. Like i said money its just a Bonus++ to makes her attracted to the guy. But what can the girl offer to make the guy want the girl? Body? her beauty? please i got money, if i want to pay for sex and body/beauty i might as well go for prostitute.

But went comes to love, money only its an attraction nothing more. So dont make mistake with the term ada wang ada amoi.  icon_rolleyes.gif
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QUOTE(Turnip @ Mar 18 2009, 07:48 PM)
At first you have to love him,not because of his money.

Because,if he fell poor your in deep trouble.

Money is just a bonus.
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money not juz a bonus.........money everyday life also hav to use wink.gif
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money not juz a bonus.........money everyday life also hav to use wink.gif
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lol im rich, im gonna buy you, name a price =p
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QUOTE(JapanKid89 @ Mar 18 2009, 07:45 PM)
Dear TS,

the word ada wang ada amoi, its true but it apply back what girl can offer to make that guy want her in the first place?

When comes to love, money its only a ticket to make the girl attracted to the guy if i'm rite cause its provide security and a future.
Yes i do agree a relationship can't survive without money when comes to wedding, raising a family, etc.

But a relationship as in love does not need money. Like i said money its just a Bonus++ to makes her attracted to the guy. But what can the girl offer to make the guy want the girl? Body? her beauty? please i got money, if i want to pay for sex and body/beauty i might as well go for prostitute.

But went comes to love, money only its an attraction nothing more. So dont make mistake with the term ada wang ada amoi.  icon_rolleyes.gif
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wait...if you read post #1, i was refering to the other thread, the girl was confuse to choose A or B, I was not encouraging girls to be a rich mans slut. Some guys says if she choosed A they would feel she is not worth it of respect and degrading her like some kinda slut.

What I'm saying is modern girls replaces security with money bcoz this world are fueled by money. And why I was saying if the girl who chooses love if she was given a choice with a rich guy who loves her is immature:

You're not thinking of your future, worse you allow your children to suffer just bcoz of your impulses on love. Love grows thinner in most cases.

2nd, Rich dude chances of having mistress is high, but poor dude 2 timing is equally high, poor dude cannot afford to have mistress and not because they're more loyal.

Guys are guys, you think rich guys are freak? and poor guys are saint?
why do we see chicken with so many price and standard? Some cater for poorer dude and rich guys go for higher class, its just that simple,

so if you choose and suffer with the poor dude, your chances of heart breaking is equal for the 2. But if you pick the rich guy, he may keep his mistress and still provide for you and the children.


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its like saying...why i would choose you?you fugly...! laugh.gif
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Dear TS,

I agree what you said, no money no survival.

But girl should also learn to set a limit of what they can offer if the guy can give money. If your relating with the thread A & B, truthfully B has even more good prospect, Although he earn Rm 4k a month a civil engineering salary grows as he gets older, maybe the earning can be RM 12k a month depends on business. So its actually more of a career then the money if you see this point of view.

Where as A he earn money from the parent and his rich cause his parent is rich... so which will you choose

a man who take money from the parent,
or a man that works hard for the money?
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 08:17 PM)
wait...if you read post #1, i was refering to the other thread, the girl was confuse to choose A or B, I was not encouraging girls to be a rich mans slut. Some guys says if she choosed A they would feel she is not worth it of respect and degrading her like some kinda slut.

What I'm saying is modern girls replaces security with money bcoz this world are fueled by money. And why I was saying if the girl who chooses love if she was given a choice with a rich guy who loves her is immature:

You're not thinking of your future, worse you allow your children to suffer just bcoz of your impulses on love. Love grows thinner in most cases.

2nd, Rich dude chances of having mistress is high, but poor dude 2 timing is equally high, poor dude cannot afford to have mistress and not because they're more loyal. <<<<  i seldom see stupider statements then this

Guys are guys, you think rich guys are freak? and poor guys are saint?
why do we see chicken with so many price and standard? Some cater for poorer dude and rich guys go for higher class, its just that simple,

so if you choose and suffer with the poor dude, your chances of heart breaking is equal for the 2. But if you pick the rich guy, he may keep his mistress and still provide for you and the children.
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so if you choose and suffer with the poor dude, your chances of heart breaking is equal for the 2. But if you pick the rich guy, he may keep his mistress and still provide for you and the children.


so u dont mind sharing ur husband?

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QUOTE(JapanKid89 @ Mar 18 2009, 08:24 PM)
Dear TS,

I agree what you said, no money no survival.

But girl should also learn to set a limit of what they can offer if the guy can give money. If your relating with the thread A & B, truthfully B has even more good prospect, Although he earn Rm 4k a month a civil engineering salary grows as he gets older, maybe the earning can be RM 12k a month depends on business. So its actually more of a career then the money if you see this point of view.

Where as A he earn money from the parent and his rich cause his parent is rich... so which will you choose

a man who take money from the parent,
or a man that works hard for the money?
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If marriage I would pick A
If pak toh I would choose B.

But what I'm trying to emphasize is, its not shameful or social b**** if I were to pick A, I'm only thinking of security. But guys in there kept saying the rich fella will not be faithful la, blah blah, so are they trying to say

guys earring below 4K are very faithful and loyal?
Guys earning below 4K cannot afford to have a mistress and not bcoz they dun want to have a mistress.
Guys earning below 4k are as potential heart breaker as a rich guy.


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QUOTE(Xhiro @ Mar 18 2009, 08:29 PM)
so u dont mind sharing ur husband?
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guys earring below 4K are very faithful and loyal?
Guys earning below 4K cannot afford to have a mistress and not bcoz they dun want to have a mistress.
Guys earning below 4k are as potential heart breaker as a rich guy.

Are you saying poor guys are loyal and a saint?

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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 08:30 PM)
If marriage I would pick A
If pak toh I would choose B.

But what I'm trying to emphasize is, its not shameful or social b**** if I were to pick A, I'm only thinking of security. But guys in there kept saying the rich fella will not be faithful la, blah blah, so are they trying to say

guys earring below 4K are very faithful and loyal?
Guys earning below 4K cannot afford to have a mistress and not bcoz they dun want to have a mistress.
Guys earning below 4k are as potential heart breaker as a rich guy.


Added on March 18, 2009, 8:31 pm

guys earring below 4K are very faithful and loyal?
Guys earning below 4K cannot afford to have a mistress and not bcoz they dun want to have a mistress.
Guys earning below 4k are as potential heart breaker as a rich guy.

Are you saying poor guys are loyal and a saint?
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 08:30 PM)
If marriage I would pick A
If pak toh I would choose B.

But what I'm trying to emphasize is, its not shameful or social b**** if I were to pick A, I'm only thinking of security. But guys in there kept saying the rich fella will not be faithful la, blah blah, so are they trying to say

guys earring below 4K are very faithful and loyal?
Guys earning below 4K cannot afford to have a mistress and not bcoz they dun want to have a mistress.
Guys earning below 4k are as potential heart breaker as a rich guy.


Added on March 18, 2009, 8:31 pm


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guys earring below 4K are very faithful and loyal? i nvr said anything about this
Guys earning below 4K cannot afford to have a mistress and not bcoz they dun want to have a mistress. so u believe ALL men want to have a mistress?
Guys earning below 4k are as potential heart breaker as a rich guy.

Are you saying poor guys are loyal and a saint?
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so issit like this?

Guys like hot,cun,pretty girls?

Girls like money and security?

So the conclusion is....

if your poor and fugly you know how your husband/wife would be.

if your rich and good looking you know how your husband/wife would be.


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one day u married a guy who can giv u 'secure'(money) n after few years u meet a guy which can giv u more 'secure' n he want to be with u.

will u leave ur husband?
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QUOTE(blek @ Mar 18 2009, 08:37 PM)
queation for ts,

one day u married a guy who can giv u 'secure'(money) n after few years u meet a guy which can giv u more 'secure' n he want to be with u.

will u leave ur husband?
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hmm.gif nice question
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QUOTE(Turnip @ Mar 18 2009, 08:37 PM)
so issit like this?

Guys like hot,cun,pretty girls?

Girls like money and security?

So the conclusion is....

if your poor and fugly you know how your husband/wife would be.

if your rich and good looking you know how your husband/wife would be.
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100% agree.
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QUOTE(blek @ Mar 18 2009, 08:37 PM)
queation for ts,

one day u married a guy who can giv u 'secure'(money) n after few years u meet a guy which can giv u more 'secure' n he want to be with u.

will u leave ur husband?
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nope...I'm not a b****. You're not getting my point, and you're not believing what I'm saying. Security takes up 60% of a womans decision when comes to choosing husband. And its perfectly normal.
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QUOTE(blek @ Mar 18 2009, 08:37 PM)
queation for ts,

one day u married a guy who can giv u 'secure'(money) n after few years u meet a guy which can giv u more 'secure' n he want to be with u.

will u leave ur husband?
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good question....... thumbup.gif SH!T most the time cant think ad now.... doh.gif
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 09:43 PM)
nope...I'm not a b****. You're not getting my point, and you're not believing what I'm saying. Security takes up 60% of a womans decision when comes to choosing husband. And its perfectly normal.
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i don't think your normal....at all. sweat.gif

Looks takes up 90% of a guy decision when comes to choosing a wife.

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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 08:43 PM)
nope...I'm not a b****. You're not getting my point, and you're not believing what I'm saying. Security takes up 60% of a womans decision when comes to choosing husband. And its perfectly normal.
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girl are just complicated

Understand GUYS?? smile.gif
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The thread is about,
Both guys love you, one is rich and one is not. which do you choose to marry.

I'm not talking about those girls that goes after rich dude
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 08:43 PM)
nope...I'm not a b****. You're not getting my point, and you're not believing what I'm saying. Security takes up 60% of a womans decision when comes to choosing husband. And its perfectly normal.
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1. ur acting like a b**** fyi
2. i dun see how any reasonable ppl (excluding k-tards) will believe u
3. "Security takes up 60% of a womans decision when comes to choosing husband. "

QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 06:23 PM)
From the topic http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/967243 it made me think deep why are girl money minded.

Thousands of years ago, money do not exist, girl will choose their partner base on security, they look for well built male who can protect them from wild animals and wild man or whatever wild things,they're vulnerable when they;re pregnant, and the years when they need to raise children. This has been genetic in female.

Fast forward to today, we no longer require mr. muscle to protect us, security took a new meaning, security = money. So girl will marry a guy when he is rich and this is why the quote ada wang ada amoi.

So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice.
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it seems different from what u originally said

and it also depends ur

Security = ?
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 08:46 PM)
The thread is about,
Both guys love you, one is rich and one is not. which do you choose to marry.

I'm not talking about those girls that goes after rich dude
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you just like the attention your getting rite? brows.gif
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QUOTE(JapanKid89 @ Mar 18 2009, 08:45 PM)
girl are just complicated

Understand GUYS??  smile.gif
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ya is way more complicated then juz kickin da clutch.....
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 08:43 PM)
nope...I'm not a b****. You're not getting my point, and you're not believing what I'm saying. Security takes up 60% of a womans decision when comes to choosing husband. And its perfectly normal.
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u make urself slap ur own face then rolleyes.gif
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 09:46 PM)
The thread is about,
Both guys love you, one is rich and one is not. which do you choose to marry.

I'm not talking about those girls that goes after rich dude
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Girls are money minded, And be proud of it.

and now....wtf?

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QUOTE(Turnip @ Mar 18 2009, 08:44 PM)
i don't think your normal....at all.  sweat.gif

Looks takes up 90% of a guy decision when comes to choosing a wife.
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not 90%

for me 30% only
can she be a good wife is more important to me
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QUOTE(Thradash @ Mar 18 2009, 06:37 PM)
Following your logic... guys shouldn't be ashamed if they play around with many girls... after all it's genetic with guys ... so guys be proud when you choose a younger lovelier wife every few years... better yet... why bother with a wife... just love them and leave them... ignore all those silly people who insist love is more important... they're immature or they haven't had a chance to live with a gold digging harlot... after a few years of marriage those guys will regret thier choice.
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you just like the attention your getting rite?  brows.gif
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she jus lowering her own image...

QUOTE(Turnip @ Mar 18 2009, 08:49 PM)
Girls are money minded, And be proud of it.

and now....wtf?
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exactly why i say it contra's the starting post

QUOTE(blek @ Mar 18 2009, 08:52 PM)
not 90%

for me 30% only
can she be a good wife is more important to me
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 08:46 PM)
The thread is about,
Both guys love you, one is rich and one is not. which do you choose to marry.

I'm not talking about those girls that goes after rich dude
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ok both guy wif different way,

(1st guys)he is rich n u no feel wif him

(2nd guys) he juz a now dude n u love him he also love u

bad come to worse in the end of the day both guy's answer should be similar.....

is depend wat's person want n how he/she play their past themself oni
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QUOTE(Xhiro @ Mar 18 2009, 08:54 PM)
she jus lowering her own image...
exactly why i say it contra's the starting post
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again....wtf?

if you really stand for the "Girls are money minded, And be proud of it" ,like Tradash said,if we guys like cun,pretty girls,then we should be proud of it?Because its in our genetics right?Just like you womans.

Comonla TS tongue.gif tongue.gif
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yea i started a lame thread just to enjoice~ too boring already cupid corner, it like alot of complain then enjoice sad.gif
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the world now is like this.

user posted image

okla its fair. laugh.gif both get what they want.

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I agree with TS point with an exception that this is demand and supply case...

If the gal is unattractive, money minded & poor background, then she is going to have difficulty to find attractive, & rich guy... This applies the same to guy's scenario...

Sometimes, we let feeling to take over the logic's & security point... but when serious problem keep cropping up in the future, then its sad to say that divorce is a way out...
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Kinda true.
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untill now no 1 has pointed out, how do u use the 4k or be it 10k+ in your standard of living.

Those usage might b the WANT and not the NEED

in that case like what our GOV said
time to change to lifestyle

4K is more then enough liou icon_rolleyes.gif


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like what our GOV said
time to change to lifestyle

4K is more then enough liou  icon_rolleyes.gif
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 08:43 PM)
nope...I'm not a b****. You're not getting my point, and you're not believing what I'm saying. Security takes up 60% of a womans decision when comes to choosing husband. And its perfectly normal.
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I thought modern girls are very intelligent enough to work and hold the high position jobs where can earn a lot of money. So, why still want to PAW guy’s money? Except if the girls are lazy to go to work and hope their husband can spoonfeed them for shopping and entertainment. Correct me if I’m wrong.
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And so what if

A guy that nice and is rich, u choose him. After 2 years economic crisis, he burn all his money and become as poor as a normal fisherman. What is ur decision by then?
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Girls who just wants a guy just for mone is just and idoit. Wht the most importnat is the heart. Yes, money is it important, but when it comes to love money is secondary
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QUOTE(louislee1991 @ Mar 18 2009, 10:04 PM)
Girls who just wants a guy just for mone is just and idoit. Wht the most importnat is the heart. Yes, money is it important, but when it comes to love money is secondary
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QUOTE(POYOZER @ Mar 18 2009, 11:13 PM)
Never accept money minded girls to be a gf/wife. Let the playboy settle them down.
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Agreed. All they want is money. And after when they get wht they wan, wht do they want after that???? MORE MONEY TO GET SECURITY SO THAT THEIR HUSBANDS DONT DUMP THEM LATER
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Whatever since they just like money, just give them and we take what we want thats all
they ask for it anyway
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TS run away liao... =/

i still havent finish ranting...
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QUOTE(Xhiro @ Mar 18 2009, 10:19 PM)
TS run away liao... =/

i still havent finish ranting...
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money money money sweat.gif wat is gal thinking

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QUOTE(anti-informatic @ Mar 18 2009, 11:17 PM)
Whatever since they just like money, just give them and we take what we want thats all
they ask for it anyway
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If we give them money but wht do we get in return? Just temp love and not genuine love. Just fake love. Love caanot be run by money or by the way of kesian
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moorish: u will be a "trading" item 1 day for men!
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QUOTE(BuBuCai @ Mar 18 2009, 11:20 PM)
money money money  sweat.gif  wat is gal thinking
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QUOTE(louislee1991 @ Mar 18 2009, 10:22 PM)
I work all night, I work all day, to pay the bills I have to pay
Ain't it sad
And still there never seems to be a single penny left for me
That's too bad
In my dreams I have a plan
If I got me a wealthy man
I wouldn't have to work at all, I'd fool around and have a ball

Money, money, money
Must be funny
In the rich man's world
Money, money, money
Always sunny
In the rich man's world
Aha-ahaaa
All the things I could do
If I had a little money
It's a rich man's world

A man like that is hard to find but I can't get him off my mind
Ain't it sad
And if he happens to be free I bet he wouldn't fancy me
That's too bad
So I must leave, I'll have to go
To Las Vegas or Monaco
And win a fortune in a game, my life will never be the same

Money, money, money
Must be funny
In the rich man's world
Money, money, money
Always sunny
In the rich man's world
Aha-ahaaa
All the things I could do
If I had a little money
It's a rich man's world

Money, money, money
Must be funny
In the rich man's world
Money, money, money
Always sunny
In the rich man's world
Aha-ahaaa
All the things I could do
If I had a little money
It's a rich man's world

It's a rich man's world
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QUOTE(BuBuCai @ Mar 18 2009, 11:25 PM)
giv u a BIG LOL song of the day....... thumbup.gif
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spoiler done
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QUOTE(JapanKid89 @ Mar 18 2009, 07:04 PM)
temptation/desire can be control.
Can i pay money to ask you to love me fully?  cool2.gif
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i wonder y nobody notice the part I bolded. it is so untrue... y i said that? ask urself, if a kinda good looking gal come and be close with u/flirts, can u hold urself not to do anything?? despite dat u hv gf/wife...uh uh... nuff said.

QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 08:17 PM)
so if you choose and suffer with the poor dude, your chances of heart breaking is equal for the 2. But if you pick the rich guy, he may keep his mistress and still provide for you and the children.
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wth of a statement I read...excuse me TS, are u a woman? if u r, am worried bout u gal. so u r saying u rather choosed A (dat rich one) but u ain't love him dat much however he can provide ur so called security and u dun mind eventhough he has mistress as long he can keep 'providing' ??

wht is marriage is for? wht is relationship, love...wth... rclxub.gif
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wht is marriage is for? wht is relationship, love...wth...  rclxub.gif
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Marriage is yin-yang, a balance and harmony of moolah and also emotional well being...
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i wonder y nobody notice the part I bolded. it is so untrue... y i said that? ask urself, if a kinda good looking gal come and be close with u/flirts, can u hold urself not to do anything?? despite dat u hv gf/wife...uh uh... nuff said.
wth of a statement I read...excuse me TS, are u a woman? if u r, am worried bout u gal. so u r saying u rather choosed A (dat rich one) but u ain't love him dat much however he can provide ur so called security and u dun mind eventhough he has mistress as long he can keep 'providing' ??

wht is marriage is for? wht is relationship, love...wth...  rclxub.gif
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and i agree with ur 2nd statement...... thus came my post earlier
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QUOTE(J_pandapuppet @ Mar 18 2009, 10:57 PM)
i wonder y nobody notice the part I bolded. it is so untrue... y i said that? ask urself, if a kinda good looking gal come and be close with u/flirts, can u hold urself not to do anything?? despite dat u hv gf/wife...uh uh... nuff said.
wth of a statement I read...excuse me TS, are u a woman? if u r, am worried bout u gal. so u r saying u rather choosed A (dat rich one) but u ain't love him dat much however he can provide ur so called security and u dun mind eventhough he has mistress as long he can keep 'providing' ??

wht is marriage is for? wht is relationship, love...wth...   rclxub.gif
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shakehead.gif you dont know me, yes i can proudly say i can avoide myself coming close with a miss world if she sits next to me when i have a wife/girlfriend. I dont need to ask myself, i turn down many pretty girl before.

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oh ok, u r talkin' bout urself..aite respect that. but in my opinion, most of the man will not refuse when it comes such opportunity! smile.gif
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This point (ada wang ada amoi) only make sense in tackling the opposite sex...

As for future.. who the hell can predict the future... if you can, please let me know the 4D number... hmm.gif
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QUOTE(arthurlwf @ Mar 18 2009, 11:38 PM)
This point (ada wang ada amoi) only make sense in tackling the opposite sex...

As for future.. who the hell can predict the future... if you can, please let me know the 4D number...  hmm.gif
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 06:23 PM)
...

So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice.
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yeah, right.

marry

a rich but not loyal cheating husband wife not happy

or

not so rich yet but loyal husband successful in career soon become rich and stable both happy

guess who's regretting now?

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AGREE!! money is important!! biggrin.gif

as guy we should be the one able to earn enough to support a family in the future...

haha
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QUOTE(slazhx9 @ Mar 18 2009, 11:48 PM)
AGREE!! money is important!! biggrin.gif

as guy we should be the one able to earn enough to support a family in the future...

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QUOTE(slazhx9 @ Mar 18 2009, 11:48 PM)
AGREE!! money is important!! biggrin.gif

as guy we should be the one able to earn enough to support a family in the future...

haha
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But, like what few forumers here said, money is secondary. So, money is after love and not as a primary. Good couple will work together to find money.

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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 08:30 PM)
If marriage I would pick A
If pak toh I would choose B.

But what I'm trying to emphasize is, its not shameful or social b**** if I were to pick A, I'm only thinking of security. But guys in there kept saying the rich fella will not be faithful la, blah blah, so are they trying to say

guys earring below 4K are very faithful and loyal?
Guys earning below 4K cannot afford to have a mistress and not bcoz they dun want to have a mistress.
Guys earning below 4k are as potential heart breaker as a rich guy.


Added on March 18, 2009, 8:31 pm

guys earring below 4K are very faithful and loyal?
Guys earning below 4K cannot afford to have a mistress and not bcoz they dun want to have a mistress.
Guys earning below 4k are as potential heart breaker as a rich guy.

Are you saying poor guys are loyal and a saint?
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marriage u will pick A ?
how long the parent can live to feed their child ?

hurm.....
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QUOTE(POYOZER @ Mar 18 2009, 11:51 PM)
But, like what few forumers here said, money is secondary. So, money is after love and not as a primary. Good couple will work together to find money.
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hey i like this one, hv this thoughts too! thumbup.gif
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QUOTE(J_pandapuppet @ Mar 18 2009, 11:28 PM)
oh ok, u r talkin' bout urself..aite respect that. but in my opinion, most of the man will not refuse when it comes such opportunity! smile.gif
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Girls who only go after money totally miss the point. They'll have to give up their independence, interests, and personality, just to fit the rich husband's ego. Tell me, which rich husband can stand their wives being independent and capable to protect themselves?

I pity these girls who don't mind a lifetime of misery just being some other lusty men's sex toy.
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Most posters in this (currently) 7-page thread seems to think:
rich men = 100% are evil, unfaithful, *insert negative comment*
poor/middle-class = must be good, faithful, sure to become rich, sure to be successful in career in the future

Talk about being simplistic. Talk about stereotyping. Somehow the words "sour grapes" spring to mind.
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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Mar 18 2009, 06:29 PM)
I have no problem with these girls, afterall, this is reality and i just have to affix myself to that...

Still, i prefer a girl with decent attitude, and with realistic expectation of life and money...
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in fact, ppl survive becoz of money.......
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QUOTE(kenixkenix @ Mar 19 2009, 02:59 AM)
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money is the root of all evil..

anyway, i think TS is just trying to say that even when a girl choose a rich guy instead of a poor guy, it doesnt mean that the girl is bad/materialistic or that girl should be shameful of her choice.. honestly, love is so fragile.. hmm.. so it's noth wrong if the girl choose based on her perception of security..

as i grow older, my perspective in love has changed.. i mean, of coz i still want to find the one i could love till i die, but i think not many in this world are fortunate enough to find The One.. if couldnt find then we might just settle for smth else or for smth lesser.. like financial security? blush.gif

i can be independent and earn my own money but i would only consider his proposal if he can support me financially.. whistling.gif

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QUOTE(Malefic @ Mar 19 2009, 12:37 AM)
Most posters in this (currently) 7-page thread seems to think:
rich men = 100% are evil, unfaithful, *insert negative comment*
poor/middle-class = must be good, faithful, sure to become rich, sure to be successful in career in the future

Talk about being simplistic. Talk about stereotyping. Somehow the words "sour grapes" spring to mind.
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character, personality and background of a person u should look for...the rest is just secondary traits expanded from the primary...

if decision is made solely on bread n butter...u r going to miss alot of marriage life...
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Oh screw it, it's all about money anyway

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QUOTE(Malefic @ Mar 19 2009, 12:37 AM)
Most posters in this (currently) 7-page thread seems to think:
rich men = 100% are evil, unfaithful, *insert negative comment*
poor/middle-class = must be good, faithful, sure to become rich, sure to be successful in career in the future

Talk about being simplistic. Talk about stereotyping. Somehow the words "sour grapes" spring to mind.
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You are right... most forumer are stereotyping that rich men are bad guy...

but I believe TS is referring to a situation where A & B guy are having a slightly different character but huge different in $$$ status..

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QUOTE(ace.princess @ Mar 19 2009, 01:27 AM)
Girls who only go after money totally miss the point. They'll have to give up their independence, interests, and personality, just to fit the rich husband's ego. Tell me, which rich husband can stand their wives being independent and capable to protect themselves?

I pity these girls who don't mind a lifetime of misery just being some other lusty men's sex toy.
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I TOTALLY AGREE WITH THIS. And there are some husbands that are able to stand these type of wives. Trust ME. I have seen some of them. An if the guy is too soft, the husbands losses but he still loves his wife and lest his wife control his money. And some woves is like 100% minded but the good part is that hey can anage money propely. From wht i know so far, wives who wants money become rich sooner or later cause their usbands like to spend tehir money all around and doesnt know how to mange their own money. For example, BEJAYA BOSS, he is a nice guy but likes to spend his money but his wife is the one that likes to save money for him. Some wifes are good and bad. IT DEPENDS.

QUOTE(Malefic @ Mar 19 2009, 01:37 AM)
Most posters in this (currently) 7-page thread seems to think:
rich men = 100% are evil, unfaithful, *insert negative comment*
poor/middle-class = must be good, faithful, sure to become rich, sure to be successful in career in the future

Talk about being simplistic. Talk about stereotyping. Somehow the words "sour grapes" spring to mind.
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Rich men=Not all 100% are like these, some guys are just worried that heir gf or whoever may just cheat them. So thats why they take carefull steps. Sometimes these happen because of wht they have experience.
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QUOTE(Xhiro @ Mar 18 2009, 08:29 PM)
so u dont mind sharing ur husband?
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QUOTE(billytong @ Mar 18 2009, 10:02 PM)
And so what if

A guy that nice and is rich, u choose him. After 2 years economic crisis, he burn all his money and become as poor as a normal fisherman. What is ur decision by then?
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THat's another story. If already marriage, then of course will be with him even if he got fired or whatsoever. We're talking who will you go for BEFORE marriage.

Understand?

QUOTE(ace.princess @ Mar 19 2009, 12:27 AM)
Girls who only go after money totally miss the point. They'll have to give up their independence, interests, and personality, just to fit the rich husband's ego. Tell me, which rich husband can stand their wives being independent and capable to protect themselves?

I pity these girls who don't mind a lifetime of misery just being some other lusty men's sex toy.
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NO!

QUOTE(Malefic @ Mar 19 2009, 12:37 AM)
Most posters in this (currently) 7-page thread seems to think:
rich men = 100% are evil, unfaithful, *insert negative comment*
poor/middle-class = must be good, faithful, sure to become rich, sure to be successful in career in the future

Talk about being simplistic. Talk about stereotyping. Somehow the words "sour grapes" spring to mind.
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Yes, you're right.

Why would ppl think this way? I have many admirers, some are rich some are poor some are hardworking some are 'tidak apa' kind of character. I will of course choose the one that financial stable, these guys are rich not because they cling on their parents, but they work hard and be ambitious in their career, they are promising and matured in life.

I'm not a materialistic gal, i don't buy perfumes, branded, cosmetics; I buy new clothes (RM25/clothe at Time Square) once or twice a month and everytime i purchase only below RM100. But I will go for rich guy or financial stable one. This is not because I want money from him, we gals just want to see guys who work hard and be ambitious in his career, not all the time think about love & sex or "dream" to become a rich man. Gal won't go for a guy who can't even earn enough for themselves, if that's the case, a gal can also feed herself on her own. You all get what i mean?? If finally the guy will leave the gal, gal will get hurt; but what if you follow a poor man till one day he gets rich and he leaves you? You get what I mean?

Again, I emphasize here: Gal just want a life with no cares, gals are willing to work even after marriage to lighten husband's burden, but a gal will definitely choose the financial stable ones, just to have no care about when their husband has no money to feed himself and wants the wife to think of his daily life.
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Here's the thing TS...
Men love wemon (be it bcos they are purty or whatever)
but wemon loves men's money............

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QUOTE(Xhiro @ Mar 18 2009, 11:00 PM)
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and i agree with ur 2nd statement...... thus came my post earlier
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you said this bcoz you've never had the opportunity. rclxms.gif

QUOTE(Deimos Tel`Arin @ Mar 18 2009, 11:40 PM)
yeah, right.

marry

a rich but not loyal cheating husband wife not happy

or

not so rich yet but loyal husband successful in career soon become rich and stable both happy

guess who's regretting now?

materialistic b1t(hes sleep.gif
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And you actually believe that poor guys are all faithful and saint?
These girls wanna marry the poor dude and pray hard he become rich one day, but earlier they say the rich one is unfaithful.
So why take the unknown route?
you duno if your husband will ever be rich
but you do know that if one day he is rich he will have a mistress like your earlier prospect?

QUOTE(JapanKid89 @ Mar 19 2009, 12:13 AM)
i'm not like most man, i'm a gentleman :bow:
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self advertisement? or lack of opportunity?

QUOTE(ace.princess @ Mar 19 2009, 12:27 AM)
Girls who only go after money totally miss the point. They'll have to give up their independence, interests, and personality, just to fit the rich husband's ego. Tell me, which rich husband can stand their wives being independent and capable to protect themselves?

I pity these girls who don't mind a lifetime of misery just being some other lusty men's sex toy.
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I've seen plenty of poor family where the wife have to work and in the end find out the husband is 2 timing, she come crying to me and duno what to do, I've also seen rich woman find out their husband keeping mistress.

You see in both scenerio the wifes heart is crushed, but the rich woman can still enjoy splashing the husbands money in revenge, and strange thing is these guys all dun jump ship, they will continue to provide.

QUOTE(Malefic @ Mar 19 2009, 12:37 AM)
Most posters in this (currently) 7-page thread seems to think:
rich men = 100% are evil, unfaithful, *insert negative comment*
poor/middle-class = must be good, faithful, sure to become rich, sure to be successful in career in the future

Talk about being simplistic. Talk about stereotyping. Somehow the words "sour grapes" spring to mind.
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Exactly what I'm trying to say, these guys are just talking about the extreme.

QUOTE(kenixkenix @ Mar 19 2009, 02:59 AM)
money ish da real life deviL
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correction, the lack of money is the real devil,
poor people rob
poor people kidnap

QUOTE(lollypop77 @ Mar 19 2009, 04:33 AM)
money is the root of all evil..

anyway, i think TS is just trying to say that even when a girl choose a rich guy instead of a poor guy, it doesnt mean that the girl is bad/materialistic or that girl should be shameful of her choice.. honestly, love is so fragile.. hmm.. so it's noth wrong if the girl choose based on her perception of security..

as i grow older, my perspective in love has changed.. i mean, of coz i still want to find the one i could love till i die, but i think not many in this world are fortunate enough to find The One.. if couldnt find then we might just settle for smth else or for smth lesser.. like financial security?  blush.gif

i can be independent and earn my own money but i would only consider his proposal if he can support me financially..  whistling.gif
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QUOTE(arthurlwf @ Mar 19 2009, 08:42 AM)
You are right... most forumer are stereotyping that rich men are bad guy...

but I believe TS is referring to a situation where A & B guy are having a slightly different character but huge different in $$$ status..
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yup.

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The lack of quality men out there forces women to come out and be financial independent. Ofcoz women are money minded, they work hard for it (in whichever way) whistling.gif

Ok seriously, a man who couldn't even support himself shall deserve no woman. Wanna let ppl say that you're eating selipar rice? Long long time ago a stone age man will just grab a bat and ketuk the woman pengsan then bring her to the cave and reproduce. But now, it's all different. Try to have more than 2 children see see.

The real sense of security is the ability to bring food to the table.

If I'm a guy, I would want to be able to support myself and allocate more to support my family. If I'm a girl, I would want to be able to have my own financial independence and wouldn't want to burden my man.

That's life right? It sucks.
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 19 2009, 09:39 AM)
correction, the lack of money is the real devil,
poor people rob
poor people kidnap
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Don’t look down on poor people. Rich and poor, both sides also have bad people. Rich people they kena kan people in professional way where the law cannot protect the victim.


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QUOTE(louislee1991 @ Mar 18 2009, 10:16 PM)
Agreed. All they want is money. And after when they get wht they wan, wht do they want after that???? MORE MONEY TO GET SECURITY SO THAT THEIR HUSBANDS DONT DUMP THEM LATER
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If I’m rich and I found out my wife is a money minded girl, I will straight way go for divorce and find the other girl who is not that needy. There are tons of high-quality girl who are still single beside that girl. That girl is not my ending of my relationship life. What for I want to waste my time and effort to maintain that girl. It’s like I maintaining old proton car.

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hey cmon..dont tell me you men are not money-minded as well?
heck, is there any human in this world who is not money minded?

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QUOTE(slushie @ Mar 19 2009, 12:14 PM)
hey cmon..dont tell me you men are not money-minded as well?
heck, is there any human in this world who is not money minded?
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money is just a tool for entertainment and happiness and not a tool for love
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yala..wat i meant was, everyone is money-minded..but it depends how we view the importance of it only..

ultimately, still everyone wants and craves more of it
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QUOTE(slushie @ Mar 19 2009, 12:23 PM)
yala..wat i meant was, everyone is money-minded..but it depends how we view the importance of it only..

ultimately, still everyone wants and craves more of it
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Yeap...agree with you.

But I don't agree to some people if the girls choose to marry the guys because of the money.

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QUOTE(POYOZER @ Mar 19 2009, 12:26 PM)
Yeap...agree with you.

But I don't agree to some people if the girls choose to marry the guys because of the money.
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Some of them were born in poverty.. I guess everyone has their own reasons for doing something.

Either they are just plain poor and wanna get a rich hubby to ease the burden, or they are just plain materialistic
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QUOTE(King83 @ Mar 19 2009, 09:39 AM)
Here's the thing TS...
Men love wemon (be it bcos they are purty or whatever)
but wemon loves men's money............

..something's not right here hmm.gif
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i feel you.

But sad to say, not every man is as loyal and faithful as you.
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correction, the lack of money is the real devil,
poor people rob
poor people kidnap


Right, I'm not sure which country you're living in but even the rich(apart from the kidnap(happens in very rare occasions)) perform such actions as well (cough cough *corruption*). It's just not obvious like the poor people. Besides, don't you think it's ridiculous to stereotype Rich=badass , poor= nice or evil?? End of the day, it depends on the individual. shakehead.gif


With regards on the topic, sure you can be money minded. There's no harm in sticking into your beliefs, but there's something wrong with you if you try to *feed/convert* your beliefs to someone else.




There's an email joke circulating few years back, I believe it fits to your scenario really well, in defense for the rich and poor males.

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I'm pretty sure with the right seduction techniques you can possibly find a rich husband.

But when the rich husband realise that you are demanding too much $$ and not worth the trouble, hiring someone to (plant a C4 on)/(PoisonYourFood)/(InsertNastyKillingMethod) you would be better with the insurance reinbursement. Besides, with the insurance money I get to get myself a new thropy wife and cover my losses with you ... whistling.gif


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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Mar 19 2009, 09:33 AM)
Xhiro, i think you can't get what TS is trying to say  sweat.gif
nah... that was jus a quote bcus that was how i read it... didnt have anything to do with my rants

QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 19 2009, 09:39 AM)
you said this bcoz you've never had the opportunity. rclxms.gif  <<< yes or no does it matter to u?
And you actually believe that poor guys are all faithful and saint?
These girls wanna marry the poor dude and pray hard he become rich one day, but earlier they say the rich one is unfaithful.
So why take the unknown route?
you duno if your husband will ever be rich
but you do know that if one day he is rich he will have a mistress like your earlier prospect?
self advertisement? or lack of opportunity?
I've seen plenty of poor family where the wife have to work and in the end find out the husband is 2 timing, she come crying to me and duno what to do, I've also seen rich woman find out their husband keeping mistress.
its up 2 u who u wanna marry, but you're statement "So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice."

especially the bolded part... tells me how dumb it is the way u choose ur partner in life

QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 19 2009, 09:39 AM)
You see in both scenerio the wifes heart is crushed, but the rich woman can still enjoy splashing the husbands money in revenge, and strange thing is these guys all dun jump ship, they will continue to provide.
Exactly what I'm trying to say, these guys are just talking about the extreme.
correction, the lack of money is the real devil,
poor people rob
poor people kidnap

Yes I can see you're person who speak of the real world, and not some kid still dreaming of their fairytale white knight on a horse back taking them to happily ever after.
yup.
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You must be blind... rich ppl rob and kidnap too... and even more, rich ppl have more potential to be corrupted
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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Mar 19 2009, 02:37 PM)
i feel you.

But sad to say, not every man is as loyal and faithful as you.
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that also include gals -.-
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QUOTE(RCrex @ Mar 19 2009, 10:38 PM)
that also include gals -.-
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Gal is loyal to her husband, genuinly and initially.
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QUOTE(slushie @ Mar 19 2009, 01:34 PM)
Some of them were born in poverty.. I guess everyone has their own reasons for doing something.

Either they are just plain poor and wanna get a rich hubby to ease the burden, or they are just plain materialistic
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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Mar 19 2009, 10:56 PM)
Gal, it's cruel only when the husband done something too over to her though given many times of chances.

Gal is loyal to her husband, genuinly and initially.
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*cough.... not all gals are like this
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QUOTE(lollypop77 @ Mar 19 2009, 04:33 AM)
money is the root of all evil..

anyway, i think TS is just trying to say that even when a girl choose a rich guy instead of a poor guy, it doesnt mean that the girl is bad/materialistic or that girl should be shameful of her choice.. honestly, love is so fragile.. hmm.. so it's noth wrong if the girl choose based on her perception of security..

as i grow older, my perspective in love has changed.. i mean, of coz i still want to find the one i could love till i die, but i think not many in this world are fortunate enough to find The One.. if couldnt find then we might just settle for smth else or for smth lesser.. like financial security?  blush.gif

i can be independent and earn my own money but i would only consider his proposal if he can support me financially..  whistling.gif
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Would you go for a rich husband or someone you really love? biggrin.gif
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Adui.. I'm talking to kids here. Need to speak kids language.

Look here, girls want guys who are and have:
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Lol...cant blame girls for being materialistic, guys you should grow up and stop living in a fantasy world and start being realistic as well.
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Love, money, security, loyalty and appearance make a very complicated chemistry.

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not exactly,i can say guys are money minded too tongue.gif
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QUOTE(SpikeTwo @ Mar 20 2009, 04:13 PM)
easy question....moorish, how much per night ah? if too expensive i go get taiwanese or japanese instead. thank you. Please use PM ya...thanks.
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 20 2009, 06:48 PM)
was your mother a whore?
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QUOTE(lishoney @ Mar 20 2009, 06:07 PM)
not exactly,i can say guys are money minded too  tongue.gif
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petrol need pay
house bills (electric, Water)
nice cloth need to buy to attract girl
need to eat also leh~
Still need buy perfume to attract girl
car need buy nice nice at least! a Lamborgini rite? for me honda CRV...
If got kids need to provide them pocket money and education fee, cloth, food, etc...
what else did i miss out?
if got girlfriend need to spend for her (we dont mind) wub.gif
if got wife need the items also need to think...
yea we quite money minded

at least we would like in return its a morning coffee from our women in the morning as a sign of love, or any sign of love.
not so much to ask rite? smile.gif

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QUOTE(suiteng @ Mar 20 2009, 09:41 AM)
Adui.. I'm talking to kids here. Need to speak kids language.

Look here, girls want guys who are and have:
Bungalow
Independent
Gentleman
Properties
Entertaining
Never give up
Interesting
Sexy

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B I G P E N I S? brows.gif
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 06:23 PM)
From the topic http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/967243 it made me think deep why are girl money minded.

Thousands of years ago, money do not exist, girl will choose their partner base on security, they look for well built male who can protect them from wild animals and wild man or whatever wild things,they're vulnerable when they;re pregnant, and the years when they need to raise children. This has been genetic in female.

Fast forward to today, we no longer require mr. muscle to protect us, security took a new meaning, security = money. So girl will marry a guy when he is rich and this is why the quote ada wang ada amoi.

So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice.
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So.. base on the what you commented... you are telling the whole world that.. poor men do not deserve to get marry and find their love ones???

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This is obviously a racist....
Girls married a rich guy... husband bankrupt...wife cepat cepat divorce the husband and find another rich guy... what a slut...
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QUOTE(20thCentury @ Mar 21 2009, 02:08 PM)
This is obviously a racist....
Girls married a rich guy... husband bankrupt...wife cepat cepat divorce the husband and find another rich guy... what a slut...
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Wrong term, not racist...

In any way, somehow i understand girls do consider the ability of winning breads for marriage, but....if someone (female and male) takes the consideration of the ability of breadwinning for most of the time, without considering emotional compatability or needs, then safe to say, the marriage is built based on money hmm.gif
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QUOTE(Glocker @ Mar 20 2009, 09:54 AM)
Lol...cant blame girls for being materialistic, guys you should grow up and stop living in a fantasy world and start being realistic as well.
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I fully agree on this! smile.gif

QUOTE(dawnreaver @ Mar 20 2009, 03:27 PM)
Ada wang ada ahmoi. You can even buy a wife. So there.
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So if you just intend to BUY a wife, yeah you can. but LOVE? sorry dude. smile.gif
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 06:23 PM)
From the topic http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/967243 it made me think deep why are girl money minded.

Thousands of years ago, money do not exist, girl will choose their partner base on security, they look for well built male who can protect them from wild animals and wild man or whatever wild things,they're vulnerable when they;re pregnant, and the years when they need to raise children. This has been genetic in female.

Fast forward to today, we no longer require mr. muscle to protect us, security took a new meaning, security = money. So girl will marry a guy when he is rich and this is why the quote ada wang ada amoi.

So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice.
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QUOTE(Glocker @ Mar 20 2009, 09:54 AM)
Lol...cant blame girls for being materialistic, guys you should grow up and stop living in a fantasy world and start being realistic as well.
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Same thing apply to girls, don’t dream too much one day can get Prince Charming who are almost perfect in any aspects of life. Thanks to Disney cartoon because of brainwashing girls since they are young.

The best solutions for both sides, just think logic, don’t dream too much. Sure, it fair for all, but I don’t think this is possible to happen. Because human are too needy.

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QUOTE(louislee1991 @ Mar 18 2009, 10:16 PM)
Agreed. All they want is money. And after when they get wht they wan, wht do they want after that???? MORE MONEY TO GET SECURITY SO THAT THEIR HUSBANDS DONT DUMP THEM LATER
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that's when they start hiring private detectives laugh.gif
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QUOTE(blek @ Mar 21 2009, 07:05 PM)
to get a girl or wife, man must able to provode living basic.
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Of course guys must provide the basics, but the girls shouldn't expect too much and beyond the reality of life. All those are fantasy. Come on, why not just think logic. That will be much better. Am I right?

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QUOTE(POYOZER @ Mar 21 2009, 07:19 PM)
Of course guys must provide the basics, but the girls shouldn't expect too much and beyond the reality of life. All those are fantasy. Come on, why not just think logic. That will be much better. Am I right?

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what logic? the girl had 2 guys after her.
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 21 2009, 07:26 PM)
what logic? the girl had 2 guys after her.
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It’s common for girls to have a lot of admires. Now we are talking about other things, not about that girl. Correct me if I’m wrong.
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QUOTE(POYOZER @ Mar 21 2009, 07:35 PM)
It’s common for girls to have a lot of admires. Now we are talking about other things, not about that girl. Correct me if I’m wrong.
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its not about girl blindly hunt for rich man, pls read first post
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 22 2009, 01:15 PM)
its not about girl blindly hunt for rich man, pls read first post
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Ok then.

Btw, I still don’t agree with this…

“So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice.”

I don't know why. icon_rolleyes.gif

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QUOTE(POYOZER @ Mar 22 2009, 01:29 PM)
Ok then.

Btw, I still don’t agree with this…

“So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice.”

I don't know why.  icon_rolleyes.gif
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Two extremes :

- One who chases those with moolah

- One that blindly follows love ala Korean drama

Ideally, one should not be in any of these two extremes

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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Mar 22 2009, 01:30 PM)
Two extremes :

- One who chases  those with moolah

- One that blindly follows love ala Korean drama

Ideally, one should not be in any of these two extremes
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thats why i said security should be one of the important factor when choosing a husband
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 22 2009, 01:48 PM)
thats why i said security should be one of the important factor when choosing a husband
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Thus, i echo your view smile.gif
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 22 2009, 01:48 PM)
thats why i said security should be one of the important factor when choosing a husband
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I don’t think rich is important when choosing a husband and of course not really poor.
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 06:23 PM)
From the topic http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/967243 it made me think deep why are girl money minded.

Thousands of years ago, money do not exist, girl will choose their partner base on security, they look for well built male who can protect them from wild animals and wild man or whatever wild things,they're vulnerable when they;re pregnant, and the years when they need to raise children. This has been genetic in female.

Fast forward to today, we no longer require mr. muscle to protect us, security took a new meaning, security = money. So girl will marry a guy when he is rich and this is why the quote ada wang ada amoi.

So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice.
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TS!

I agreed with you. As proverb "a kick in the teeth will feel the pain". Thats why you'll see many early marriage & lead to divorcy. But your "security=money" has been convert to the members think gals are materialistic but indeed is not. But debate in detail, the most important is depend on the guy individual attitude & behaviour. Because be it the guy has a luxurious family background may not ending good. As i had replied to the tread u mentioned, judge the guys attidude & by not the rich assets he has.

For those disagree with TS judgement, may you has make up with divorcy friends & get their feedback. You will feedback with the reality world of life.Btw, Im a guy & i has 5 divorcy gals friend to share their valuable experience & what lead to their marriage failure at young age. This had been surfing in my head that is it due to guy incapability or the immature of girl to make decision at young age(puppy love is everything), but history always grow a person to maturity with the pay off to bare.

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I agreed with you. As proverb "a kick in the teeth will feel the pain". Thats why you'll see many early marriage & lead to divorcy.  But your "security=money" has been convert to the members think gals are materialistic but indeed is not. But debate in detail, the most important is depend on the guy individual attitude & behaviour. Because be it the guy has a luxurious family background may not ending good. As i had replied to the tread u mentioned, judge the guys attidude & by not the rich assets he has.

For those disagree with TS judgement, may you has make up with divorcy friends & get their feedback. You will feedback with the reality world of life.Btw, Im a guy & i has 5 divorcy gals friend to share their valuable experience & what lead to their marriage failure at young age. This had been surfing in my head that is it due to guy incapability or the immature of girl to make decision at young age(puppy love is everything), but history always grow a person to maturity with the pay off to bare.
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Are you trying to say we are not mature yet to understand the reality of real world?

Come on, good relationship always work together to improve their life. Not 1 side work very hard and another side just lepak at home or hangout with friends.

And, have you heard about hamsap Datin? If yes, you wanna know why it happen?


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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 06:23 PM)
From the topic http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/967243 it made me think deep why are girl money minded.

Thousands of years ago, money do not exist, girl will choose their partner base on security, they look for well built male who can protect them from wild animals and wild man or whatever wild things,they're vulnerable when they;re pregnant, and the years when they need to raise children. This has been genetic in female.

Fast forward to today, we no longer require mr. muscle to protect us, security took a new meaning, security = money. So girl will marry a guy when he is rich and this is why the quote ada wang ada amoi.

So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice.
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Hahaha! Ogay, ogay. Ahem, so y'all like a guy who's rich, AND handsome, ALWAYS romantic, ALWAYS CARING AND NEVER CHEATS on you? (Basically, the entire PERFECT PACKAGE)

Pleaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaase. sweat.gif, would you stop dreaming already? Where the hell is such a man? But you know what, before you can find a guy such as the one I mentioned above, you'll prolly got married FIRST, and then REGRET when you found that KIND OF GUY............................................................................AFTER.

Worst is, when you found out a guy with such qualities...are mostly gays, lol! Or more likely, taken.

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TS, you must realize that money isnt everything... just as beauty isnt everything to guys.


That said, girls would much more readily empathize (ie. notice the "nice" characteristics) with guys who have money. And guys would much more readily empathize (ie. notice the "nice" characteristics) with girls who are fit and fertile (read: hourglass figures & youth).



I disagree on your point regarding monogamy.

Despite what I've written in my threads (that deal with the first step of dating), I do realize that in the CIVILIZED world, infedelity is quite inconvienient. Even IF a guy has the desire to fvck around, MOST GUYS WILL NOT HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY to do so with women they find reasonably attractive (as those women are likely to be taken/attached).


Hence, society does not break down even in first world secular countries. It's all about supply and demand. Yeah, the pretty girls that the guys hunt are almost never available to the guys who hunt em. That's reality.


..of course, the human ego is such that they would rather tell themselves that "love is more important" or "I am being a good muslim/christian/buddhist/jew/hindu/etc". EVEN when they never had the opportunity to fvck around. Sheesh... the things people tell themselves to feel good about themselves.

I contend that MOST PEOPLE ARE MONOGAMOUS NOT BY CHOICE BUT OUT OF NECESSITY/CIRCUMSTANCE.


Face The Truth™

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From this topic I can tell that 90% of the posters have not been in a long term relationship before. Long term as defined over a period of at least 1.5 years.
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QUOTE(Gary1981 @ Mar 22 2009, 11:51 PM)
TS!

I agreed with you. As proverb "a kick in the teeth will feel the pain". Thats why you'll see many early marriage & lead to divorcy.  But your "security=money" has been convert to the members think gals are materialistic but indeed is not. But debate in detail, the most important is depend on the guy individual attitude & behaviour. Because be it the guy has a luxurious family background may not ending good. As i had replied to the tread u mentioned, judge the guys attidude & by not the rich assets he has.

For those disagree with TS judgement, may you has make up with divorcy friends & get their feedback. You will feedback with the reality world of life.Btw, Im a guy & i has 5 divorcy gals friend to share their valuable experience & what lead to their marriage failure at young age. This had been surfing in my head that is it due to guy incapability or the immature of girl to make decision at young age(puppy love is everything), but history always grow a person to maturity with the pay off to bare.
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yup, you know how the real world is coz you personally have divorcee frens, but these kids still in fantasy land.

QUOTE(ezralimm @ Mar 23 2009, 06:14 AM)
I've been holding off for awhile.
TS, you must realize that money isnt everything... just as beauty isnt everything to guys.

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I'm not implying every female should be like this, I'm saying if female put security as high assessment on thier would be husband, there is nothing wrong with the decision (provided they qualify with a rich guy hot on their trail).

Same like if you're guy and there r 2 woman crazily in love wit you, 1 wild super sexy and beautiful, another just normal ah lian but very religious, there is nothing wrong if you choose beauty over character.

QUOTE(Glocker @ Mar 23 2009, 08:37 AM)
From this topic I can tell that 90% of the posters have not been in a long term relationship before. Long term as defined over a period of at least 1.5 years.
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my long term would be over 5 years, this is when love starts to cool down and reality kicks in, this is when finance plays a part in the rship.
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QUOTE(ezralimm @ Mar 23 2009, 06:14 AM)
Even IF a guy has the desire to fvck around, MOST GUYS WILL NOT HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY to do so with women they find reasonably attractive (as those women are likely to be taken/attached).
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I believe such statements truly define by the experience you felt and been into. It varies from people to people. From my point of view, it depends on how guys define sex. Each of us has our own definition of pleasures. You and i know it. And please define what you meant by opportunity. Its broadly define especially when it comes to secularism.

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Yeah, the pretty girls that the guys hunt are almost never available to the guys who hunt em. That's reality.


Not that i against this statement but as a sort of encouragement, just HUNT the damn chick and use your own intelligence to optimize your talents to try and score the winning goal to her heart. Now this is reality. To try, its of course much better then to not try when comes to introducing yourself to a woman.

Your statement isn't wrong, but its likely to induce people to stop trying. Results after all depends on each possible action we made. The reason why people fail to get the girl that believe its attractive to their eyes is because of their expectation they made from their own faulty actions be it consciously and subconsciously. Some are certain with their moves and some are not. The level of certainty varies through every thoughts we process in our brains hence the birth of competitive advantage comparatively to other men, through the process of creation. Now this is absolute truth.

That's why you see some guys though they are fugly, but they are charming as hell and talk smoothly. And some knows what mostly women want and need to offset their other bad quality. Note here, i don't use MOST like you did, because i know my statement does not represent the whole male population. Which is why 'SOME' is much more profound and 'interesting' in a way.

On the good side, every faulty actions pays a good price towards experience provided optimism is being held firmly in them which i rarely see in this society.

You want to define reality in a context of argument. Just effing try your best and hunt the chick. If they phailed badly, let them come to CC, let us hear their cries and help them. Advices and listening after all cost lest than 2 cents wink.gif

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Sheesh... the things people tell themselves to feel good about themselves.


And it's wrong? It's wrong to induce ourselves to feel good about ourselves? No it isn't, but its wrong to foolishly not willing to admit the lost that we made. I guess you forgot to wrote down the admittance part which i find it very important to put into context. Egoism shuns away from admittance. Lack of proper guidance is the reason why.

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I contend that MOST PEOPLE ARE MONOGAMOUS NOT BY CHOICE BUT OUT OF NECESSITY/CIRCUMSTANCE.


Face The Truth™


How do you define truth? Is it a part of reality? Is it always meant to be cold blooded? Is it always have to be harsh, so people can actually learn and grow from the excruciating past and pain? Or is it because of the small little step that we make each day both consciously and subconsciously? You do know the possibility that each of us has, which is simple. Be it positive and negative. Let's don't talk about the grey area as it will tangled our minds bashing each other trying to convince who is truer than the other but at the end of the day, we're the fools out of it. You care for your own interest, i care for mine. Its how i arouse your interest that matters to you.

Its easy to pinpoint on other things than to pinpoint your faulty & flawed actions and decision. Not to mention how we are capable enough to persuade other human beings by affecting them with our own experiences through communications for example. That's the scary part, the way we affect and influence others.

And if you believe that we men are the creature of circumstances, good luck to you. But i strongly believe that circumstances are our own creature. They depend on us.

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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 23 2009, 09:49 AM)
yup, you know how the real world is coz you personally have divorcee frens, but these kids still in fantasy land.

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If like that, mind to explain why most of rich wife (especially datin) they got bela few young naughty guys to have sex? If they really love their husband, why do they still choose to play with other guys? From my opinion, they not love their husband. They choose to married with their husband just because of those rich guys can provide them very good financial security.

I don’t believe you never heard about this before, except if you still study in secondary.

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QUOTE(slushie @ Mar 21 2009, 02:14 PM)
I fully agree on this!  smile.gif
So if you just intend to BUY a wife, yeah you can. but LOVE? sorry dude. smile.gif
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QUOTE(POYOZER @ Mar 23 2009, 11:16 AM)
If like that, mind to explain why most of rich wife (especially datin) they got bela few young naughty guys to have sex? If they really love their husband, why do they still choose to play with other guys? From my opinion, they not love their husband. They choose to married with their husband just because of those rich guys can provide them very good financial security.

I don’t believe you never heard about this before, except if you still study in secondary.
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her husband play around she still have a datin title under her belt and tons of money to splash around.

If you marry a poor dude and all your hope is on his misearable EPF, then one day when its time to take the loot opps the retired saving you realize he gave the cash to some prc!!!!

I've known plenty of poorer husband still play around, why do all those cheaper karaaoke and chicken farm existing?
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money can buy ur a security, but canot asure you a secure family
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lolol..
Narrow minded

guess im super lucky.

Super poor with no problem finding girls brows.gif
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QUOTE(styrwr91 @ Mar 24 2009, 10:41 AM)
money can buy ur a security, but canot asure you a secure family
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nothing can assure a secure family, money is only a complimentary... but no money can lead to family disharmony.
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Bull shit. moorish is just another money minded sick gals.

There are still girl out there who prefer loyal poor guy.
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QUOTE(InitialB @ Mar 24 2009, 11:57 AM)
Bull shit. moorish is just another money minded sick gals.

There are still girl out there who prefer loyal poor guy.
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QUOTE(InitialB @ Mar 24 2009, 11:57 AM)
Bull shit. moorish is just another money minded sick gals.

There are still girl out there who prefer loyal poor guy.
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ask your self this...what is the odd of a normal RM3000/mth salary guy at hitting on a super sexy chick?

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money is needed no matter how... you can't ditch money for a successful relationship...
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TS....

lets get into the reality.... yes, security can be measured in any aspect... be it monetary, assets, love, caring, family, career, etc...

but in this now world.... it seem that monetary is being the main measurement tools for marriage / life partner.

yes, i do admit that monetary value does provide securities..... but is monetary value can buy happiness? health? freedom?

i still rekindle my more than 10 years r/s with my first love when i was 15... in which lasted 10 years.... the issue n motive of this story is simple, im just a reverse of the story u posted of the girl.

i had to endure almost 6 years hiding from the knowledge of her parents... as her father is a famous corporate figure n a tan sri title holder...where else, im just a normal not so well being family-borned.

later, when being introduced to her father, thats where the hell starts.... am i able to provide security, caring, shelter family, being a good husband n father, etc etc. this keep pressurized me to keep work hard, even double n sometimes triple employment, just to show monetary securities....

by end of the day... which i didnt regret making the decision (i guess u all readers will read n guess my decision) n i ask myself, am i working hard for myself or just to get monetary securities for my life partner?

till today, i still not regret to make the decision, as i truly believe my family needs me more than anything else.... my dad got into accident half a year ago n totally hadicapped as well as totally lost source of income... being the eldest, i felt the responsibility should shoulder upon on me....

though all this happens, i kept a healthy finance balance... apart from financing my house n cars, i still able to fund my dad treatment n still could afford to keep substantial amount of investment in unit trusts, etc....

i believe this may not related.... but what would i want to point out is... though with hard life, u still make yr life meaningful, as long as fair amount of hard work... positive attitude and smart thinking.... whenever the challanges thrown to u, u would able to survive w/o monetary securities... though i felt tired, weak, no social-life, not many friends... i feel grateful that i try hard to pay my responsibility back to my parents... n i had answer to questions asked when i leave this world...

so, positively... monetary securities is important.... but family n health in which even billions or trillions of monetary securities cant buy... if these could be brought, then it not as same feelings as genuine!

to me... believe yr instincts, u could create a world of your own, if u n yr partner willing to work hard for the good of your future undertakings.

not necessary to get a rich life partner, just for monetary securities, n for the rest of your life being like nothing to do, as monetary had done everything to u... or chose a life in which u n yr life partner work hard for the sake of future undertakings.... n by yr old age, u felt a sense of achievements in which your future generation could boast about....

either decision make... u will get an apple... just the difference is, whether u buy the apple... or u start from planting the apple smile.gif
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cant make all the girls chasing the money either.. because we live in capitalism economy and only handful of people are rich, the rest is average/poor

if all the girls were money minded, then we'll have lots of women not getting married in this world because only handful of rich people available? then human population dwindled? lol
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TS, jus out of curiosity? nothing on agreeing or disagreeing on the topic "ada wang ada amoi" i jus wanted to ask u, im sure you would pick the rich guy over the poor person, but wat if someday all the money he has goes down d drain, "bankrupt". wat would u do? run away? hmm.gif
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 08:17 PM)
wait...if you read post #1, i was refering to the other thread, the girl was confuse to choose A or B, I was not encouraging girls to be a rich mans slut. Some guys says if she choosed A they would feel she is not worth it of respect and degrading her like some kinda slut.

What I'm saying is modern girls replaces security with money bcoz this world are fueled by money. And why I was saying if the girl who chooses love if she was given a choice with a rich guy who loves her is immature:

You're not thinking of your future, worse you allow your children to suffer just bcoz of your impulses on love. Love grows thinner in most cases.

2nd, Rich dude chances of having mistress is high, but poor dude 2 timing is equally high, poor dude cannot afford to have mistress and not because they're more loyal.

Guys are guys, you think rich guys are freak? and poor guys are saint?
why do we see chicken with so many price and standard? Some cater for poorer dude and rich guys go for higher class, its just that simple,

so if you choose and suffer with the poor dude, your chances of heart breaking is equal for the 2. But if you pick the rich guy, he may keep his mistress and still provide for you and the children.
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WOW I FEEL VERY INSULTED BY YOUR POSTINGS.

BTW IM A GUY. AND EVERYTHING YOU HAVE SAID IN THIS POST POINTS TO ONE CONCLUSION FROM YOUR SIDE.

"MAN CANNOT BE LOYAL TO THEIR SPOUSE" THEREFORE WOMAN SHOULD CHOOSE MONEY FIRST THEN LOVE.

YOUR FORMULA IS FLAWED. IF THAT WERE TRUE THEN OUR SOCIETY WOULD BE BASED ON A POLYGAMY TYPE OF MARRIAGE SOCIETY.

THIS IS NEWS FOR YOU. NOT EVERY MAN WILL JUMP ON THE OPPORTUNITY TO BANG A WOMAN.

I AGREE MONEY IS IMPORTANT TO A CERTAIN EXTENT. BUT THINK ABOUT THIS! YOU CAN HAVE ALL THE MONEY IN THE WORLD BUT IF U CANT SLEEP WITH THE PERSON NEXT TO YOU EVERY NIGHT THEN HOW DIFFERENT ARE YOU TO THE PROSTITUTE DOWN THE STREET? SAME SHIT DIFFERENT PRICE ONLY.

NOW I THROW THIS BACK AT YOU WOMEN. DONT BULLSHIT US GUYS. SECURITY AND MONEY MEAN THE SAME THING. DONT MASK IT AND CALL IT SECURITY.

I BELIEVE LOVE CONQUERS ALL. IF I LOVE MY SPOUSE, I WILL DO EVERYTHING IN MY POWER TO MAKE HER HAPPY. FIRST THERE MUST BE LOVE(NOT MONEY). WITH LOVE YOU CAN ACHIEVE ANYTHING.

AM I DREAMING? WELL IM GETTING MARRIED THIS JUNE. I AM VERY SURE MY FUTURE WIFE IS MARRYING ME BECAUSE SHE LOVES ME VERY MUCH AND NOT BECAUSE HOW THICK MY WALLET IS. AND IF MY BUSINESS COLLAPSES TOMORROW SHE WILL STILL BE AT MY SIDE SHARING MY TROUBLES.

DONT TALK ABOUT LOVE IF YOU DONT KNOW WHAT IT MEANS.

PS: MY FRIENDS WANT TO ARRANGE A BACHELOR PARTY FOR ME COMPLETE WITH "SPECIAL ENTERTAINMENT" ALL FULLY PAID FOR. I HAVE GRACIOUSLY REFUSED INSTEAD OPTING FOR A NICE DINNER AND PLENTY OF BOOZE. I GUESS I DONT FIT YOUR GENETIC MAKE-UP OF A MAN DO I? FREE SEX OFFERED TO ME AND I DIDNT TAKE IT? WOW WHAT HAPPEN TO THE POOR MAN CANT AFFORD TO TWO TIME SO THEY WONT DO IT? BULLSHIT.


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WOW I FEEL VERY INSULTED BY YOUR POSTINGS.

BTW IM A GUY. AND EVERYTHING YOU HAVE SAID IN THIS POST POINTS TO ONE CONCLUSION FROM YOUR SIDE.

"MAN CANNOT BE LOYAL TO THEIR SPOUSE" THEREFORE WOMAN SHOULD CHOOSE MONEY FIRST THEN LOVE.

YOUR FORMULA IS FLAWED. IF THAT WERE TRUE THEN OUR SOCIETY WOULD BE BASED ON A POLYGAMY TYPE OF MARRIAGE SOCIETY.

THIS IS NEWS FOR YOU. NOT EVERY MAN WILL JUMP ON THE OPPORTUNITY TO BANG A WOMAN.

I AGREE MONEY IS IMPORTANT TO A CERTAIN EXTENT. BUT THINK ABOUT THIS! YOU CAN HAVE ALL THE MONEY IN THE WORLD BUT IF U CANT SLEEP WITH THE PERSON NEXT TO YOU EVERY NIGHT THEN HOW DIFFERENT ARE YOU TO THE PROSTITUTE DOWN THE STREET? SAME SHIT DIFFERENT PRICE ONLY.

NOW I THROW THIS BACK AT YOU WOMEN. DONT BULLSHIT US GUYS. SECURITY AND MONEY MEAN THE SAME THING. DONT MASK IT AND CALL IT SECURITY.

I BELIEVE LOVE CONQUERS ALL. IF I LOVE MY SPOUSE, I WILL DO EVERYTHING IN MY POWER TO MAKE HER HAPPY. FIRST THERE MUST BE LOVE(NOT MONEY). WITH LOVE YOU CAN ACHIEVE ANYTHING.

AM I DREAMING? WELL IM GETTING MARRIED THIS JUNE. I AM VERY SURE MY FUTURE WIFE IS MARRYING ME BECAUSE SHE LOVES ME VERY MUCH AND NOT BECAUSE HOW THICK MY WALLET IS. AND IF MY BUSINESS COLLAPSES TOMORROW SHE WILL STILL BE AT MY SIDE SHARING MY TROUBLES.

DONT TALK ABOUT LOVE IF YOU DONT KNOW WHAT IT MEANS.

PS: MY FRIENDS WANT TO ARRANGE A BACHELOR PARTY FOR ME COMPLETE WITH "SPECIAL ENTERTAINMENT" ALL FULLY PAID FOR. I HAVE GRACIOUSLY REFUSED INSTEAD OPTING FOR A NICE DINNER AND PLENTY OF BOOZE. I GUESS I DONT FIT YOUR GENETIC MAKE-UP OF A MAN DO I? FREE SEX OFFERED TO ME AND I DIDNT TAKE IT? WOW WHAT HAPPEN TO THE POOR MAN CANT AFFORD TO TWO TIME SO THEY WONT DO IT? BULLSHIT.
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Err actually u dont need to be angry or insult....

People who know what is the truth will know what it is,
people who is blinded and treat thing as truth got a chance to know the truth sooner or later,
people who is blinded yet dont want to know the truth is their own decision to lead themselve into infinite arrogance.

TS, so u asking ur bf/gf to be proud when he/she choose another guy that is richer than u as well as ur future mate when they dump u coz of other ppl is richer? How bout giving those people who got dumped bcoz of this a feeling, happy, sad or proud? How bout people who is poor?
May i know did u gone through altruistic thinking before opening this thread?
IF the answer is no, seriously i dont need to care about u, coz i dont bother teaching a baby how to breath.
But if ur anwer is yes, than thats a big problem for the future living being.
Anyhow, from my observation now, i only can say that u had waste quite some time and meaning living even u are 50,60.
I not trying to offend u but in this world think and talk by looking at the very surface of thing never happy and never know whats the truth. Think twice.
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QUOTE(anti-informatic @ Mar 24 2009, 08:16 PM)
Err actually u dont need to be angry or insult....

People who know what is the truth will know what it is,
people who is blinded and treat thing as truth got a chance to know the truth sooner or later,
people who is blinded yet dont want to know the truth is their own decision to lead themselve into infinite arrogance.

TS, so u asking ur bf/gf to be proud when he/she choose another guy that is richer than u as well as ur future mate when they dump u coz of other ppl is richer? How bout giving those people who got dumped bcoz of this a feeling, happy, sad or proud? How bout people who is poor?
May i know did u gone through altruistic thinking before opening this thread?
IF the answer is no, seriously i dont need to care about u, coz i dont bother teaching a baby how to breath.
But if ur anwer is yes, than thats a big problem for the future living being.
Anyhow, from my observation now, i only can say that u had waste quite some time and meaning living even u are 50,60.
I not trying to offend u but in this world think and talk by looking at the very surface of thing never happy and never know whats the truth. Think twice.
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you can be pissed...but this is sadly the fact.
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You want to define reality in a context of argument. Just effing try your best and hunt the chick. If they phailed badly, let them come to CC, let us hear their cries and help them. Advices and listening after all cost lest than 2 cents wink.gif
And it's wrong? It's wrong to induce ourselves to feel good about ourselves? No it isn't, but its wrong to foolishly not willing to admit the lost that we made. I guess you forgot to wrote down the admittance part which i find it very important to put into context. Egoism shuns away from admittance. Lack of proper guidance is the reason why.
How do you define truth? Is it a part of reality? Is it always meant to be cold blooded? Is it always have to be harsh, so people can actually learn and grow from the excruciating past and pain? Or is it because of the small little step that we make each day both consciously and subconsciously? You do know the possibility that each of us has, which is simple. Be it positive and negative. Let's don't talk about the grey area as it will tangled our minds bashing each other trying to convince who is truer than the other but at the end of the day, we're the fools out of it. You care for your own interest, i care for mine. Its how i arouse your interest that matters to you.
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chill dude.

Nothing wrong about that, just that on the long run it is very counterproductive.



Oh and pls dont misunderstand the title of my threads. FACE THE TRUTH™ is gonna be the title of _my_ book one day. It will not only deal with relationships but will actually focus on the kinda stuff you see in RWI (i've already got a few threads there but only one is up the standard).
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well I understand few of you whom are disturb by reality....so start making money or settle for less tongue.gif
you can be pissed...but this is sadly the fact.
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QUOTE(adrianck @ Mar 24 2009, 02:31 PM)
TS....

lets get into the reality.... yes, security can be measured in any aspect... be it monetary, assets, love, caring, family, career, etc...

but in this now world.... it seem that monetary is being the main measurement tools for marriage / life partner.

yes, i do admit that monetary value does provide securities..... but is monetary value can buy happiness? health? freedom?

i still rekindle my more than 10 years r/s with my first love when i was 15... in which lasted 10 years.... the issue n motive of this story is simple, im just a reverse of the story u posted of the girl.

i had to endure almost 6 years hiding from the knowledge of her parents... as her father is a famous corporate figure n a tan sri title holder...where else, im just a normal not so well being family-borned.

later, when being introduced to her father, thats where the hell starts.... am i able to provide security, caring, shelter family, being a good husband n father, etc etc. this keep pressurized me to keep work hard, even double n sometimes triple employment, just to show monetary securities....

by end of the day... which i didnt regret making the decision (i guess u all readers will read n guess my decision) n i ask myself, am i working hard for myself or just to get monetary securities for my life partner?

till today, i still not regret to make the decision, as i truly believe my family needs me more than anything else.... my dad got into accident half a year ago n totally hadicapped as well as  totally lost source of income... being the eldest, i felt the responsibility should shoulder upon on me....

though all this happens, i kept a healthy finance balance... apart from financing my house n cars, i still able to fund my dad treatment n still could afford to keep substantial amount of investment in unit trusts, etc....

i believe this may not related.... but what would i want to point out is... though with hard life, u still make yr life meaningful, as long as fair amount of hard work... positive attitude and smart thinking.... whenever the challanges thrown to u, u would able to survive w/o monetary securities... though i felt tired, weak, no social-life, not many friends... i feel grateful that i try hard to pay my responsibility back to my parents... n i had answer to questions asked when i leave this world...

so, positively... monetary securities is important.... but family n health in which even billions or trillions of monetary securities cant buy... if these could be brought, then it not as same feelings as genuine!

to me... believe yr instincts, u could create a world of your own, if u n yr partner willing to work hard for the good of your future undertakings.

not necessary to get a rich life partner, just for monetary securities, n for the rest of your life being like nothing to do, as monetary had done everything to u... or chose a life in which u n yr life partner work hard for the sake of future undertakings.... n by yr old age, u felt a sense of achievements in which your future generation could boast about....

either decision make... u will get an apple... just the difference is, whether u buy the apple... or u start from planting the apple smile.gif
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You're definitely a nice guy and you're rich, too, not in monetary base but your thoughts and positive attitude that make you a charming man... Keep it up!

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Moorish i agreed with you girl money minded its ok.And i also can understand why you would prefer to choose richer man to be your husband.

From what i read from page 1~12 i can see that u are a girl that have prepared to have a husband that might be unloyal to you.

But there is another reality in this world...High risk high return...

If u marry a rich man, yes you have alot of cash to spend or u can call it revenge(if he playing a fool behind your back) like what u said in ur previous post.What if 10 years later he say bye bye to you ?

By the time, you are old and divorce.So what could you do ?
Start from ZERO with the age of 35 or 40?

I agree that poor man is not saint...some poor man doesnt fool aound outside be cause they CANT not they DONT WANT...

Of cause poor man can be unloyal.But which 1 have a higher risk ?
the poor or the rich ?

Why not choose the poor but he love you ?The chances for him to leave you in future is lower right ?

Does this secure u more ?



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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 06:23 PM)
From the topic http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/967243 it made me think deep why are girl money minded.

Thousands of years ago, money do not exist, girl will choose their partner base on security, they look for well built male who can protect them from wild animals and wild man or whatever wild things,they're vulnerable when they;re pregnant, and the years when they need to raise children. This has been genetic in female.

Fast forward to today, we no longer require mr. muscle to protect us, security took a new meaning, security = money. So girl will marry a guy when he is rich and this is why the quote ada wang ada amoi.

So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice.
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if u are rich?
can you buy a life now?
dont relate to baby...
lets say anyone is after 18 years old....can you buy them with your money? hmm.gif


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QUOTE(DethKnell @ Mar 25 2009, 01:39 AM)
Moorish i agreed with you girl money minded its ok.And i also can understand why you would prefer to choose richer man to be your husband.

From what i read from page 1~12 i can see that u are a girl that have prepared to have a husband that might be unloyal to you.

But there is another reality in this world...High risk high return...

If u marry a rich man, yes you have alot of cash to spend or u can call it revenge(if he playing a fool behind your back) like what u said in ur previous post.What if 10 years later he say bye bye to you ?

By the time, you are old and divorce.So what could you do ?
Start from ZERO with the age of 35 or 40?

I agree that poor man is not saint...some poor man doesnt fool aound outside be cause they CANT not they DONT WANT...

Of cause poor man can be unloyal.But which 1 have a higher risk ?
the poor or the rich ?

Why not choose the poor but he love you ?The chances for him to leave you in future is lower right ?

Does this secure u more ?
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QUOTE(DethKnell @ Mar 25 2009, 01:39 AM)

Why not choose the poor but he love you ?The chances for him to leave you in future is lower right ?

Does this secure u more ?
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QUOTE(DethKnell @ Mar 25 2009, 01:39 AM)
Moorish i agreed with you girl money minded its ok.And i also can understand why you would prefer to choose richer man to be your husband.

From what i read from page 1~12 i can see that u are a girl that have prepared to have a husband that might be unloyal to you.

But there is another reality in this world...High risk high return...

If u marry a rich man, yes you have alot of cash to spend or u can call it revenge(if he playing a fool behind your back) like what u said in ur previous post.What if 10 years later he say bye bye to you ?

By the time, you are old and divorce.So what could you do ?
Start from ZERO with the age of 35 or 40?

I agree that poor man is not saint...some poor man doesnt fool aound outside be cause they CANT not they DONT WANT...

Of cause poor man can be unloyal.But which 1 have a higher risk ?
the poor or the rich ?

Why not choose the poor but he love you ?The chances for him to leave you in future is lower right ?

Does this secure u more ?
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Every single girl dream their husband will be rich one day, how rich is up to individuals taste or appetite. So if that really happen (20% chance of rags to riches case) the guy would turn womanizer as what everyone agrees that rich man will have mistress or worse you share the hardworking part and he share the wealth part with another woman who aims at rich dude.

BTW you guys keep saying the rich man will leave me one day, you guys know any divorce lawyer? try asking him the majority of his client are rich people or working class, what are the odds of working class marriage end up in divorce case as compared to the rich?

I prefer to choose A bcoz
1.Its easier when someone loves you more than you love that person

2.If somehow later he cheats, its not so hurting as if I choose B the person I love and struggle wit,
80% chance we will suffer for life, chances might still be later he still cheat on me which will be 1000X more hurting. Dun forget financial strain can really breaks a marriage equally as a rich husband fooling part.

3. Tho I'm not really in love wit A, but I strongly believe with all the gifts, he'll manage to melt my heart eventually, olden days people can have fix marriage and still yield successful result.





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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 25 2009, 10:18 AM)
Every single girl dream their husband will be rich one day, how rich is up to individuals taste or appetite. So if that really happen (20% chance of rags to riches case) the guy would turn womanizer as what everyone agrees that rich man will have mistress or worse you share the hardworking part and he share the wealth part with another woman who aims at rich dude.

BTW you guys keep saying the rich man will leave me one day, you guys know any divorce lawyer? try asking him the majority of his client are rich people or working class, what are the odds of working class marriage end up in divorce case as compared to the rich?

I prefer to choose A bcoz
1.Its easier when someone loves you more than you love that person

2.If somehow later he cheats, its not so hurting as if I choose B the person I love and struggle wit,
80% chance we will suffer for life, chances might still be later he still cheat on me which will be 1000X more hurting. Dun forget financial strain can really breaks a marriage equally as a rich husband fooling part.

3. Tho I'm not really in love wit A, but I strongly believe with all the gifts, he'll manage to melt my heart eventually, olden days people can have fix marriage and still yield successful result.
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Erm..Acording to your first post, the girl dint know which to choose.The rich 1 but no feel which is A or the poor 1 and she love him which is B.
So please let me correct you.

1.Its not easier when someonce loves you more than you love that person but its easier when someonce love you but you dont love him ?

2.If someday he cheats its not so hurting.Erm...Should i replace the word 'hurt' to 'worry'?
It wont hurt if you dont love him..But you will start to worry for your financial in future?

3.ARGH!! I hate to admit this but its very true blush.gif

BTW in my previous post i dint say rich man will leave you one day.I guess i did mention WHAT IF. smile.gif

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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 07:23 PM)
From the topic http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/967243 it made me think deep why are girl money minded.

Thousands of years ago, money do not exist, girl will choose their partner base on security, they look for well built male who can protect them from wild animals and wild man or whatever wild things,they're vulnerable when they;re pregnant, and the years when they need to raise children. This has been genetic in female.

Fast forward to today, we no longer require mr. muscle to protect us, security took a new meaning, security = money. So girl will marry a guy when he is rich and this is why the quote ada wang ada amoi.

So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice.
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I bet to differ. I do not agree with your statement. You got to understand that not all girls are the same. I believe true love conquers all.
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 24 2009, 01:01 PM)
ask your self this...what is the odd of a normal RM3000/mth salary guy at hitting on a super sexy chick?
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For sex with a pretty ladies of coz. ONS get what i mean?

But not for long term relationship. Usually housewife is those girl who are average looking and ability to do housewhole.

For those girl like you yourself, often achieve an ONS or a short term relationship basically to fullfill men lust and satisfy men urge.

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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 25 2009, 10:18 AM)
Every single girl dream their husband will be rich one day, how rich is up to individuals taste or appetite. So if that really happen (20% chance of rags to riches case) the guy would turn womanizer as what everyone agrees that rich man will have mistress or worse you share the hardworking part and he share the wealth part with another woman who aims at rich dude.

BTW you guys keep saying the rich man will leave me one day, you guys know any divorce lawyer? try asking him the majority of his client are rich people or working class, what are the odds of working class marriage end up in divorce case as compared to the rich?

I prefer to choose A bcoz
1.Its easier when someone loves you more than you love that person

2.If somehow later he cheats, its not so hurting as if I choose B the person I love and struggle wit,
80% chance we will suffer for life, chances might still be later he still cheat on me which will be 1000X more hurting. Dun forget financial strain can really breaks a marriage equally as a rich husband fooling part.

3. Tho I'm not really in love wit A, but I strongly believe with all the gifts, he'll manage to melt my heart eventually, olden days people can have fix marriage and still yield successful result.
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And for sure, when you choose a rich husband, don't you think the rich husband will be choosy too?

There are pretty ladies out there by 3/1 male dominant. Why they choose you who are only average looking girl?

Think twice before you said this out loud.

Like you choose rich husband, but the rich husband may choose prettier wife or make you just their toys for lust.

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QUOTE(llmaelynn87 @ Mar 25 2009, 03:43 PM)
I bet to differ. I do not agree with your statement. You got to understand that not all girls are the same. I believe true love conquers all.
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I never say all girl should choose security, I'm saying for those who choose security be proud of your choice bcoz you're following the evolution of life.

QUOTE(InitialB @ Mar 25 2009, 03:48 PM)

And for sure, when you choose a rich husband, don't you think the rich husband will be choosy too?

There are pretty ladies out there by 3/1 male dominant. Why they choose you who are only average looking girl?

Think twice before you said this out loud.

Like you choose rich husband, but the rich husband may choose prettier wife or make you just their toys for lust.
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I'm saying for those girls who have the option to choose rich husband, eg the topic I was refering to, for those who do not have this option this thread doesnt apply to you, and your opinion will be bias , maybe jealous or you could be supportive to this idea, i dun know.

Obviously this is not to target every female on this planet, they're those who choose another girl to be thier spouse or those who wish to be nun, or those who believe on the romance of true love, the choice is all yours, This thread is for those who choosed a rich husband, no need to feel guilty about your choice, enjoy the good times. icon_rolleyes.gif
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moorish : rich man only few.. and girls got many. how the all girls able to choose rich man?
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QUOTE(jong52yuara @ Mar 25 2009, 05:59 PM)
moorish : rich man only few.. and girls got many. how the all girls able to choose rich man?
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Only apply for those who are lucky that rich dude chasing them, pls read first post. For those not qualify sorry, doesnt apply
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 25 2009, 10:18 AM)
Every single girl dream their husband will be rich one day, how rich is up to individuals taste or appetite. So if that really happen (20% chance of rags to riches case) the guy would turn womanizer as what everyone agrees that rich man will have mistress or worse you share the hardworking part and he share the wealth part with another woman who aims at rich dude.

BTW you guys keep saying the rich man will leave me one day, you guys know any divorce lawyer? try asking him the majority of his client are rich people or working class, what are the odds of working class marriage end up in divorce case as compared to the rich?

I prefer to choose A bcoz
1.Its easier when someone loves you more than you love that person

2.If somehow later he cheats, its not so hurting as if I choose B the person I love and struggle wit,
80% chance we will suffer for life, chances might still be later he still cheat on me which will be 1000X more hurting. Dun forget financial strain can really breaks a marriage equally as a rich husband fooling part.

3. Tho I'm not really in love wit A, but I strongly believe with all the gifts, he'll manage to melt my heart eventually, olden days people can have fix marriage and still yield successful result.
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Moorish, u wanna go out on a date with me?
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sorry to say that if you are so money minded, you will most probably will end up with a man that is rich but need your body as entertainment use only, getting dumped is higher chances that getting loved.
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QUOTE(King83 @ Mar 25 2009, 06:08 PM)
Moorish, u wanna go out on a date with me?
I have money.
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QUOTE(King83 @ Mar 25 2009, 06:12 PM)
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QUOTE(avenger @ Mar 25 2009, 06:11 PM)
sorry to say that if you are so money minded, you will most probably will end up with a man that is rich but need your body as entertainment use only, getting dumped is higher chances that getting loved.
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are you saying divorce cases are higher with rich people as compared to poorer ones?
are you saying there're no love with rich people? love only existed for poorer people?

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moorish : work in porn film pays a lot of money too.. are you interested? you can have fun and sex at the same time, aint that great? laugh.gif
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QUOTE(jong52yuara @ Mar 25 2009, 06:17 PM)
moorish : work in porn film pays a lot of money too.. are you interested? you can have fun and sex at the same time, aint that great?  laugh.gif
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 25 2009, 06:18 PM)
was your mom a porn star?
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QUOTE(jong52yuara @ Mar 25 2009, 06:20 PM)
no, get back to your own topic please. if theres ppl willing to pay you a lot of money for porn films.. then i assume you would take it?  whistling.gif
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my topic was never about porn movie, you brought it up, so i assume you know the industry well, maybe it runs in your family.
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 25 2009, 06:22 PM)
my topic was never about porn movie, you brought it up, so i assume you know the industry well, maybe it runs in your family.
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no its not, ok let me give you a scenario.

1.) you said girls should choose rich guy right?

2.) theres this man which is rich but he is porn film producer and bang this and that all the time.


the questions here is, you would still encourage girls to get married with that film producer guys since hes rich? please confirm.
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QUOTE(jong52yuara @ Mar 25 2009, 06:25 PM)
no its not, ok let me give you a scenario.

1.) you said girls should choose rich guy right?

2.) theres this man which is rich but he is porn film producer and bang this and that all the time.
the questions here is, you would still encourage girls to get married with that film producer guys since hes rich? please confirm.
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its like career:
some love their job even it pays little
some work bcoz they;re motivated by money

but what you're asking is illegal, and if you continue I'll report you.
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 25 2009, 06:29 PM)
its like career:
some love their job even it pays little
some work bcoz they;re motivated by money

but what you're asking is illegal, and if you continue I'll report you.
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YES THANK YOU. i got your answers now..


you said some work because they're motivated by money. then i ASSUME you would encourage girls(for those who r motivated by money) to get married with that porn film producer guy since hes rich. (usually producer are rich, thats a fact laugh.gif )

ITS THE SAME, right?


im not asking anything from you, i just give you a scenario and nothing is illegal here. smile.gif

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QUOTE(jong52yuara @ Mar 25 2009, 06:32 PM)
YES THANK YOU. i got your answers now..
you said some work because they're motivated by money. then i ASSUME you would encourage girls to get married with that porn film producer guy since hes rich. (usually producer are rich, thats a fact  laugh.gif )

ITS THE SAME, right?
im not asking anything from you, i just give you a scenario and nothing is illegal here.  smile.gif
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scroll back up....do not deny what you've just asked me to do.
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jong, u got it wrong...
wemon loves money and they're lazy.

They're not gonna work for money if that's what u're asking.
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 25 2009, 06:33 PM)
scroll back up....do not deny what you've just asked me to do.
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i just give you an example/scenario and asked if you would take it or not?
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QUOTE(King83 @ Mar 25 2009, 06:33 PM)
jong, u got it wrong...
wemon loves money and they're lazy.

They're not gonna work for money if that's what u're asking.
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its every man and woman's dream to be rich and no need to work, woman are lucky they can achieve this faster.
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QUOTE(King83 @ Mar 25 2009, 06:33 PM)
jong, u got it wrong...
wemon loves money and they're lazy.

They're not gonna work for money if that's what u're asking.
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does your mum loves money and lazy? laugh.gif
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 25 2009, 06:36 PM)
its every man and woman's dream to be rich and no need to work, woman are lucky they can achieve this faster.
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Nah.... everyone but me.
I dun wanna be filthy rich.... then having to worry about my safety or the people close to me's safety.. e.g. getting kidnapped etc..
I just want a simple life.

QUOTE(jong52yuara @ Mar 25 2009, 06:37 PM)
does your mum loves money and lazy?  laugh.gif
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which woman doesn't?
i bet your mom do too..... and your grandmother.
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 25 2009, 06:36 PM)
its every man and woman's dream to be rich and no need to work, woman are lucky they can achieve this faster.
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let me ask you another question.

women can make porn films to get rich & its a fact, would you encourage girls or any other female friends around you to do that?


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QUOTE(King83 @ Mar 25 2009, 06:38 PM)
which woman doesn't?
i bet your mom do too..... and your grandmother.
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so you admit your own mother loves money and lazy.. huh? whistling.gif

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QUOTE(jong52yuara @ Mar 25 2009, 06:38 PM)
let me ask you another question.

women can make porn films to get rich & its a fact, would you encourage girls or any other female friends around you to do that?


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so you admit your own mother loves money and lazy.. huh?  whistling.gif
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you have a porn fetish
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yeah...she likes to ask such questions. maybe her mum married to the poor and hence this.

to answer to your previous post. no. my mum is a normal woman, married happily to my father which isn't rich. and they got me. I got rich and i give them both money to spend. happily ever after.

but compared to money face girl like this, you gotta be kidding me. you are not even qualified to compare with anything. man would rather spend money on else where or other more beautiful and hotter girls rather than this. reality check!

i'll rest my case here. laugh.gif
thanks for the lulz. this just proves my theory money is useful for men.
keep the gold rollin guys!



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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 25 2009, 06:44 PM)
you have a porn fetish
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i guess you cant even answer my questions with a simple YES or NO
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QUOTE(King83 @ Mar 25 2009, 06:33 PM)
wemon loves money and they're lazy.

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LOL....dumbest statement of the year; don't worry, you're not the only deluded fool who said it.

Women loves money? Who don't love money? If you don't love money please give yours to me, I will PM you my bank account details. I am a guy, I love money, and I'm as lazy as hell too. But for money I'm willing to work hard for it, because money can give me choice, and with choice comes freedom. Women are not attracted to the fact I've got money, women are attracted to the FACT I'm hardworking and ambitious and KNOW how to make money, and I am willing to do what it takes to make sure my family has an easy life. You think easy life just come by just like that? You think easy life is just for the gf/wife? She's also thinking about the kids she'll have with you! She's also thinking if you can provide the best for the kids! She's also thinking of what she'll have to do if you don't have the means to support a decent family life!

The truth is, women don't love a man's money, women loves a man's ABILITY to make money. And that's why they pick the rich men, because the rich men have proven they KNOW how to make money and are already making it!

Stop slinging insults at moorish and her opinion; a hot and smart babe like her would never be with someone who's thinking is as childish and backwards as you guys. Sour grapes indeed. rolleyes.gif
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QUOTE(SpikeTwo @ Mar 25 2009, 06:44 PM)
yeah...she likes to ask such questions. maybe her mum married to the poor and hence this.

to answer to your previous post. no. my mum is a normal woman, married happily to my father which isn't rich. and they got me. I got rich and i give them both money to spend. happily ever after.

but compared to money face girl like this, you gotta be kidding me. you are not even qualified to compare with anything. man would rather spend money on else where or other more beautiful and hotter girls rather than this. reality check!

i'll rest my case here. laugh.gif
thanks for the lulz. this just proves my theory money is useful for men.
keep the gold rollin guys!
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QUOTE(Glocker @ Mar 25 2009, 06:51 PM)
LOL....dumbest statement of the year; don't worry, you're not the only deluded fool who said it.

Women loves money? Who don't love money? If you don't love money please give yours to me, I will PM you my bank account details. I am a guy, I love money, and I'm as lazy as hell too. But for money I'm willing to work hard for it, because money can give me choice, and with choice comes freedom. Women are not attracted to the fact I've got money, women are attracted to the FACT I'm hardworking and ambitious and KNOW how to make money, and I am willing to do what it takes to make sure my family has an easy life. You think easy life just come by just like that? You think easy life is just for the gf/wife? She's also thinking about the kids she'll have with you! She's also thinking if you can provide the best for the kids! She's also thinking of what she'll have to do if you don't have the means to support a decent family life!

The truth is, women don't love a man's money, women loves a man's ABILITY to make money. And that's why they pick the rich men, because the rich men have proven they KNOW how to make money and are already making it!

Stop slinging insults at moorish and her opinion; a hot and smart babe like her would never be with someone who's thinking is as childish and backwards as you guys. Sour grapes indeed. rolleyes.gif
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QUOTE(Glocker @ Mar 25 2009, 06:51 PM)
LOL....dumbest statement of the year; don't worry, you're not the only deluded fool who said it.

Women loves money? Who don't love money? If you don't love money please give yours to me, I will PM you my bank account details. I am a guy, I love money, and I'm as lazy as hell too. But for money I'm willing to work hard for it, because money can give me choice, and with choice comes freedom. Women are not attracted to the fact I've got money, women are attracted to the FACT I'm hardworking and ambitious and KNOW how to make money, and I am willing to do what it takes to make sure my family has an easy life. You think easy life just come by just like that? You think easy life is just for the gf/wife? She's also thinking about the kids she'll have with you! She's also thinking if you can provide the best for the kids! She's also thinking of what she'll have to do if you don't have the means to support a decent family life!

The truth is, women don't love a man's money, women loves a man's ABILITY to make money. And that's why they pick the rich men, because the rich men have proven they KNOW how to make money and are already making it!

Stop slinging insults at moorish and her opinion; a hot and smart babe like her would never be with someone who's thinking is as childish and backwards as you guys. Sour grapes indeed. rolleyes.gif
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there are someone else will always richer than moorish husband, would you ask her to divorce and get married with another richer person? well.. this new rich guy able to provide better lifes to her children and future thou.. so tempting isnt it? whistling.gif

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I salute you.

You're definitely a nice guy and you're rich, too, not in monetary base but your thoughts and positive attitude that make you a charming man... Keep it up!

Cheers~
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QUOTE(jong52yuara @ Mar 25 2009, 07:03 PM)
there are someone else will always richer than moorish husband, would you ask her to divorce and get married with another richer person? well.. this new rich guy able to provide better lifes to her children and future thou.. so tempting isnt it?  whistling.gif
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CAN YOU PLEASE STOP THINKING LIKE A POOR MAN? FFS.

Is your penis so small that your relationship will be threatened by the fact other men has a couple more zeroes at the end of their bank statements? "OH NOES I'LL NEVER GET MARRIED WITH HOT BABES, THEY WILL ALWAYS SLEEP WITH THE RICHEST GUY THEY MEET!"

I think you need icon_question.gif, seriously.
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QUOTE(Glocker @ Mar 25 2009, 07:12 PM)
CAN YOU PLEASE STOP THINKING LIKE A POOR MAN? FFS.

Is your penis so small that your relationship will be threatened by the fact other men has a couple more zeroes at the end of their bank statements? "OH NOES I'LL NEVER GET MARRIED WITH HOT BABES, THEY WILL ALWAYS SLEEP WITH THE RICHEST GUY THEY MEET!"

I think you need icon_question.gif, seriously.
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its moorish encourage all girls should choose rich guy only wor.. laugh.gif
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QUOTE(jong52yuara @ Mar 25 2009, 07:15 PM)
its moorish encourage all girls should choose rich guy only wor..  laugh.gif
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QUOTE(Glocker @ Mar 25 2009, 07:19 PM)
And I wholeheartedly support her as it will eradicate the likes of you from the gene pool.
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youre her supporter? good

let me ask you a question. women can make porn films to get rich & its a fact, would you encourage girls or any other female friends around you to do that?

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thats why girl give me the motivation to get more money...for me she is everything worth striving^^
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QUOTE(jong52yuara @ Mar 25 2009, 07:21 PM)
youre her supporter? good

let me ask you a question. women can make porn films to get rich & its a fact, would you encourage girls or any other female friends around you to do that?
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Let me ask you the same question.

If you are together with a girl, and both of you are experiencing financial difficulties, will you ask her to become a prostitute or pornstar to solve the money problem? I think you would, I think you would indeed.

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QUOTE(jong52yuara @ Mar 25 2009, 07:03 PM)
there are someone else will always richer than moorish husband, would you ask her to divorce and get married with another richer person? well.. this new rich guy able to provide better lifes to her children and future thou.. so tempting isnt it?  whistling.gif
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a rich guy doesnt mean that he is willingly to give her fortune to the one he loved..a gal is searching a guy who is willingly to give almost everything for her becoz a guy loves a gal who deserves it and a gal loves a guy who really willing to give her all his love~~

Dont tell me if u are a rich guy u would like to love many gals by deviding ur fortune into parts ~ as if it is like what u said~
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QUOTE(Glocker @ Mar 25 2009, 07:31 PM)
Let me ask you the same question.

If you are together with a girl, and both of you are experiencing financial difficulties, will you ask her to become a prostitute or pornstar to solve the money problem? I think you would, I think you would indeed.
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if i said yes, is that mean moorish also willing to divorce her current husband and get married with another richer guy than her current husband now?

assume newer husband able to provide BETTER future and lifes to children and her current life... hahahaha


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a rich guy doesnt mean that he is willingly to give her fortune to the one he loved..a gal is searching a guy who is willingly to give almost everything for her becoz a guy loves a gal who deserves it and a gal loves a guy who really willing to give her all his love~~

Dont tell me if u are a rich guy u would like to love many gals by deviding ur fortune into parts ~ as if it is like what u said~
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thats not my point, im just asking if moorish would divorce her current husband if theres another richer guy. since she said all girls should pursue better and better.. whistling.gif

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i think it is ok.. for gals to be money-minded..

seriously why guys care so much for this n that..
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hahaha, i ROFL seeing you people bickering like crazy over this issue. Luckily I choose my woman based on what kind of family she want to have. For me, instead of I invest on the woman, I rather invest on my children. Im preparing them for the future. better for me and my keturunan. The trick is to make them work for you. Sure yeah you want my money, are you worth a dime of my money? If you are, then work like you are suppose to. With this practice, I can eliminate those who are not willing to share her life with me.

In the end, if she walks away from me, I would have my children. Before marriage, I`ll make sure that my children will belong to me because they are the real investment. You can change wives but you can never change the fact that your children is your children. Its your seed. I like the lesson learn from Pursuit of Happyness (starring Will Smith). Woman with weak will are insecure and give up easily. A little push they`ll cling to something else. Weak and pathetic. This is not the type of mother for my children. I would choose more of those who are strong willed. Weaker willed woman are easily to dump and toyed with. Why not, they deserve it. Serve them right (same goes to those casanova men, they`ll fit each other dont you think? I believe good woman for good man while bad woman is for bad man)

Woman should rather focus on how to be independant rather than dependant to their husband. This thus will create more security to their children's life. The aim is to raise the children, dont make it about you (woman) all the while. If the couple got financial problem, they can always improve it. But if the couple have materialistic problem, well I guess you should just dump them from the start of the beginning.

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QUOTE(juine @ Mar 25 2009, 07:49 PM)
i think it is ok.. for gals to be money-minded..

seriously why guys care so much for this n that..
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Dear juine, the only reason why SOME guys would care about that is because they are poor, jealous and immature.

I shall no longer argue nor reply to a person who cannot discuss logically for it is a waste of my time.
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QUOTE(ice_prince7 @ Mar 25 2009, 07:53 PM)
hahaha, i ROFL seeing you people bickering like crazy over this issue. Luckily I choose my woman based on what kind of family she want to have. For me, instead of I invest on the woman, I rather invest on my children. Im preparing them for the future. better for me and my keturunan. The trick is to make them work for you. Sure yeah you want my money, are you worth a dime of my money? If you are, then work like you are suppose to. With this practice, I can eliminate those who are not willing to share her life with me.

In the end, if she walks away from me, I would have my children. Before marriage, I`ll make sure that my children will belong to me because they are the real investment. You can change wives but you can never change the fact that your children is your children. Its your seed. I like the lesson learn from Pursuit of Happyness (starring Will Smith). Woman with weak will are insecure and give up easily. A little push they`ll cling to something else. Weak and pathetic. This is not the type of mother for my children. I would choose more of those who are strong willed. Weaker willed woman are easily to dump and toyed with. Why not, they deserve it. Serve them right (same goes to those casanova men, they`ll fit each other dont you think? I believe good woman for good man while bad woman is for bad man)

Woman should rather focus on how to be independant rather than dependant to their husband. This thus will create more security to their children's life. The aim is to raise the children, dont make it about you (woman) all the while. If the couple got financial problem, they can always improve it. But if the couple have materialistic problem, well I guess you should just dump them from the start of the beginning.
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QUOTE(Glocker @ Mar 25 2009, 07:56 PM)
Dear juine, the only reason why SOME guys would care about that is because they are poor, jealous and immature.

I shall no longer argue nor reply to a person who cannot discuss logically for it is a waste of my time.
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rclxms.gif rclxms.gif yup, I mention this earlier, its those that do not wanna work hard, and expecting a sexy beautiful wife chasing them, dreamer.

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wow this thread is still going??

i read this statement from a book from John gray, Man from Mars, women from Venus.

it stated that:
As a woman's financial needs are fulfilled she becomes more aware of her emotional needs.

true?
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QUOTE(ice_prince7 @ Mar 25 2009, 07:53 PM)
hahaha, i ROFL seeing you people bickering like crazy over this issue. Luckily I choose my woman based on what kind of family she want to have. For me, instead of I invest on the woman, I rather invest on my children. Im preparing them for the future. better for me and my keturunan. The trick is to make them work for you. Sure yeah you want my money, are you worth a dime of my money? If you are, then work like you are suppose to. With this practice, I can eliminate those who are not willing to share her life with me.

In the end, if she walks away from me, I would have my children. Before marriage, I`ll make sure that my children will belong to me because they are the real investment. You can change wives but you can never change the fact that your children is your children. Its your seed. I like the lesson learn from Pursuit of Happyness (starring Will Smith). Woman with weak will are insecure and give up easily. A little push they`ll cling to something else. Weak and pathetic. This is not the type of mother for my children. I would choose more of those who are strong willed. Weaker willed woman are easily to dump and toyed with. Why not, they deserve it. Serve them right (same goes to those casanova men, they`ll fit each other dont you think? I believe good woman for good man while bad woman is for bad man)

Woman should rather focus on how to be independant rather than dependant to their husband. This thus will create more security to their children's life. The aim is to raise the children, dont make it about you (woman) all the while. If the couple got financial problem, they can always improve it. But if the couple have materialistic problem, well I guess you should just dump them from the start of the beginning.
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 25 2009, 08:03 PM)
rclxms.gif  rclxms.gif yup, I mention this earlier, its those that do not wanna work hard, and expecting a sexy beautiful wife chasing them, dreamer.
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So you mean that an not so attractive girl can't chase a rich guy?
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This thread confuses me.

I thought women these days seeks equality.

Why do they need a providing man if they think they are equally capable of generating money? That's a double standard. You don't even want to work hard yourself to earn money?

Conclusively, women are leeches. Even if I have the money/capabilities, any women who picked me because of those qualities immediately gets my shoes.

EDIT: Ada wang ada moi.

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girls should self satisfied, understand wat u really wan!
if u keep asking for more, u never had 1 in the end!
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Jong i guess you miss understand moorish meaning...

What she meant was IF a girl(NO HUSBAND) have a choice 2 marry a rich man that she dont love and marry a poor man that she love she rather choose the rich man...

Your example/ scenario is out of question...

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QUOTE(jong52yuara @ Mar 25 2009, 07:21 PM)
youre her supporter? good

let me ask you a question. women can make porn films to get rich & its a fact, would you encourage girls or any other female friends around you to do that?
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Erm.. women dont get rich making porn films. A vast majority are out for a quick buck. VERY FEW become pornstars.


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And I wholeheartedly support her as it will eradicate the likes of you from the gene pool.
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rclxms.gif Ouch.

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what if girls are money minded, but use their own money leh?
hmm
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what if girls are money minded, but use their own money leh?
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Labia swinging detected! LOL How's the friends ladder treatin ya? LOL fkn boyscout

SOooooooooooo glad i swung by here....LOLLLLL This thread is funny as FK. LOL!!!! Hows that labia swingin mate? hhiihihhihihihi Does it smell fishy? LOL

Firstly, to the guys, MAN THE FK UP OK. Jeeeezus FFS, put down the double cheese and hit the fkn gym, and start making some real money goddamit, and when you do, start reading below. LOL

Dear TS.

I have met and dealt with plenty of women like you. While (fortunately) not all women proudly stoop so low, you my dear, falls into this special segment of what i used to call the CC's AKA CUNNING ( UNTS.

And, you see,.. initially, i didnt know what they were after. Took me quite a while to find out. But when i did, I started learning their traits, their signs, the characteristics, that makes these CC's the CC's that they are, boy was i excited! One after another, just like you,...they hooked, real good, like a fish on a fkn bait.

The possibilities were endless. The amount of bollocks (in and out of bed) and acting they will do for money is SUBLIME, live entertainment at its BEST. LOL. The BEST part of it all, is that they're confident that THEY are the one taking ME for a ride,...


Let me tell you off the bat, if you continue with your current mindset, you WILL be falling into the abyss sooner than you think. Money, its just as good as coke, CC's LOVE it, and the FK for it LOL !!!


Again, to the guys who are whining abt what she said, STFU and get fit, get money, and get some pu55y. When you're done, FIND THESE CC's, PLAY YOUR GAME, and have your way. When you've sucked the life out of them, dump them stinks to the abyss back to where they belong, and BE PROUD OF IT. LOL!!!!!!!!!

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QUOTE(drunkenmaster @ Mar 26 2009, 10:22 PM)
Labia swinging detected! LOL How's the friends ladder treatin ya? LOL fkn boyscout

SOooooooooooo glad i swung by here....LOLLLLL This thread is funny as FK. LOL!!!! Hows that labia swingin mate? hhiihihhihihihi Does it smell fishy? LOL

Firstly, to the guys, MAN THE FK UP OK. Jeeeezus FFS, put down the double cheese and hit the fkn gym, and start making some real money goddamit, and when you do, start reading below. LOL

Dear TS.

I have met and dealt with plenty of women like you. While (fortunately) not all women proudly stoop so low, you my dear, falls into this special segment of what i used to call the CC's AKA CUNNING ( UNTS.

And, you see,.. initially, i didnt know what they were after. Took me quite a while to find out. But when i did, I started learning their traits, their signs, the characteristics, that makes these CC's the CC's that they are, boy was i excited! One after another, just like you,...they hooked, real good, like a fish on a fkn bait.

The possibilities were endless. The amount of bollocks (in and out of bed) and acting they will do for money is SUBLIME, live entertainment at its BEST. LOL. The BEST part of it all, is that they're confident that THEY are the one taking ME for a ride,...
Let me tell you off the bat, if you continue with your current mindset, you WILL be falling into the abyss sooner than you think. Money, its just as good as coke, CC's LOVE it, and the FK for it LOL !!!
Again, to the guys who are whining abt what she said, STFU and get fit, get money, and get some pu55y. When you're done, FIND THESE CC's, PLAY YOUR GAME, and have your way. When you've sucked the life out of them, dump them stinks to the abyss back to where they belong, and BE PROUD OF IT. LOL!!!!!!!!!
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QUOTE(drunkenmaster @ Mar 26 2009, 10:22 PM)
Labia swinging detected! LOL How's the friends ladder treatin ya? LOL fkn boyscout

SOooooooooooo glad i swung by here....LOLLLLL This thread is funny as FK. LOL!!!! Hows that labia swingin mate? hhiihihhihihihi Does it smell fishy? LOL

Firstly, to the guys, MAN THE FK UP OK. Jeeeezus FFS, put down the double cheese and hit the fkn gym, and start making some real money goddamit, and when you do, start reading below. LOL

Dear TS.

I have met and dealt with plenty of women like you. While (fortunately) not all women proudly stoop so low, you my dear, falls into this special segment of what i used to call the CC's AKA CUNNING ( UNTS.

And, you see,.. initially, i didnt know what they were after. Took me quite a while to find out. But when i did, I started learning their traits, their signs, the characteristics, that makes these CC's the CC's that they are, boy was i excited! One after another, just like you,...they hooked, real good, like a fish on a fkn bait.

The possibilities were endless. The amount of bollocks (in and out of bed) and acting they will do for money is SUBLIME, live entertainment at its BEST. LOL. The BEST part of it all, is that they're confident that THEY are the one taking ME for a ride,...
Let me tell you off the bat, if you continue with your current mindset, you WILL be falling into the abyss sooner than you think. Money, its just as good as coke, CC's LOVE it, and the FK for it LOL !!!
Again, to the guys who are whining abt what she said, STFU and get fit, get money, and get some pu55y. When you're done, FIND THESE CC's, PLAY YOUR GAME, and have your way. When you've sucked the life out of them, dump them stinks to the abyss back to where they belong, and BE PROUD OF IT. LOL!!!!!!!!!
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self proclaim playboy? but wonder what kinda quality chicks you're hanging out wit brows.gif brows.gif brows.gif

why you guys so extreme one ah , if a girl choose to marry the richer dude then she must be a whatever, since you guys are not playing a fair game and always judging to the extreme end lemme give an extreme example:

Your future daughter is dating 2 guys
A a jobless 30 years old SPM cert, whom the last job pays 1.5k/mth, never had a job lasting more than 9 mths, but both of them deeply inlove.

B a successful doctor, current salary 25k/mth 30 years old, head over heals over your daughter, and have been chasing her since highschool. Will immediately buy her a bungalow at damansara cash, a BMW, a posh wedding, and 1million FD so she wont feel he is playing her.

which would be your choice? would you allow your daughter to marry A?


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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 24 2009, 10:04 AM)
her husband play around she still have a datin title under her belt and tons of money to splash around.

If you marry a poor dude and all your hope is on his misearable EPF, then one day when its time to take the loot opps the retired saving you realize he gave the cash to some prc!!!!

I've known plenty of poorer husband still play around, why do all those cheaper karaaoke and chicken farm existing?
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I’m not talking about the poor, but I’m talking about the average guys. Btw, most of people in my circle are rich, and most of them don’t like girls who are extremely money minded. They don’t respect to this kind of people and serious relationship for sure is no no. Except just for entertainment. At least this is happen in my circle. I’m not really sure about other rich guys.



QUOTE(adrianck @ Mar 24 2009, 02:31 PM)
TS....

lets get into the reality.... yes, security can be measured in any aspect... be it monetary, assets, love, caring, family, career, etc...

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QUOTE(POYOZER @ Mar 27 2009, 11:05 AM)
I’m not talking about the poor, but I’m talking about the average guys. Btw, most of people in my circle are rich, and most of them don’t like girls who are extremely money minded. They don’t respect to this kind of people and serious relationship for sure is no no.  Except just for entertainment. At least this is happen in my circle. I’m not really sure about other rich guys.
Hey bro, I really support you man.  notworthy.gif  thumbup.gif
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you're refering to those girls choosing her husband putting money as the sole reason, which is not what I'm discussin here, you're again taking things to the extreme.

So which would you prefer for your daughter

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Your future daughter is dating 2 guys
A a jobless 30 years old SPM cert, whom the last job pays 1.5k/mth, never had a job lasting more than 9 mths, but both of them deeply inlove.

B a successful doctor, current salary 25k/mth 30 years old, head over heals over your daughter, and have been chasing her since highschool. Will immediately buy her a bungalow at damansara cash, a BMW, a posh wedding, and 1million FD so she wont feel he is playing her.

which would be your choice? would you allow your daughter to marry A?


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hi all, just post some of my views.
to me its a reasonable request for a woman wanting to find a man that is financially stable for future securities. however when i asked myself if one day i should go bankrupt would this woman want to continue to stay with me? truth to be told 50% of the girls i dated would, the other 50% would not. it is filtering these girls that would stay with me that requires a bit of effort to identify. call me insecure but it is because of the other 50% that would dump me made me always ask myself this question. in case you are wondering i am not a player.

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im surprise this still continue as i expect TS will stopped replying....

anyway, whatever all of yours here opinions.. conclusion is very simple.... either u buy the apple... or make effort to plant apple trees, wait to growth n bear fruit enjoy the harvest....

either way, it would be the same ending...
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 27 2009, 09:01 AM)
self proclaim playboy? but wonder what kinda quality chicks you're hanging out wit brows.gif  brows.gif  brows.gif
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The quality similar to the likes of you, probably higher Q on the physical side, PROUD of being MONEY MINDED. brows.gif brows.gif brows.gif

If youd like to call me a playboy i cant change your opinion, but i dont consider myself as one. In my opinion, playboys look specifically for ONS, they look cheat on their GF's, satisfaction in numbers, and anything for a cheap fk. The bonafied male-slut.

Im no playboy, I just know how to deal with women like you, as you said FAIR GAME. =)

QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 27 2009, 09:01 AM)
Your future daughter is dating 2 guys
A a jobless 30 years old SPM cert, whom the last job pays 1.5k/mth, never had a job lasting more than 9 mths, but both of them deeply inlove.

B a successful doctor, current salary 25k/mth 30 years old, head over heals over your daughter, and have been chasing her since highschool. Will immediately buy her a bungalow at damansara cash, a BMW, a posh wedding, and 1million FD so she wont feel he is playing her.

which would be your choice? would you allow your daughter to marry A?
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Thanks for the fortune telling, apparently im getting a girl !!! rolleyes.gif

But to answer your question, WHY SHOULD IT BE MY CHOICE FIRST OF ALL? She'll be an educated adult should i ever have a daughter, and if she's adamant, confident, and driven, why not? What is wrong with the notion that they will collectively try to work things out????

If nothing happens, i'll go down myself and kick this jobless chap into gear so he can get MOVING. LOL !!!!!!!!! I'll make my 'daughter' happy, and i get to help him, maybe learn the business too, and by being friends with him... All in good faith. NEXT EXAMPLE PLS.

And please.. dont throw 10 million IF's or PERHAPS,.. save it. Anyone can try and justify anything. I just did my justification, and hopefully, it'll be a wake up call for all of the whiny boyscouts out there in hopes that they'll wake the fk up.

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QUOTE(drunkenmaster @ Mar 27 2009, 05:25 PM)
The quality similar to the likes of you, probably higher Q on the physical side, PROUD of being MONEY MINDED.  brows.gif  brows.gif  brows.gif

If youd like to call me a playboy i cant change your opinion, but i dont consider myself as one. In my opinion, playboys look specifically for ONS, they look cheat on their GF's, satisfaction in numbers, and anything for a cheap fk. The bonafied male-slut.

Im no playboy, I just know how to deal with women like you, as you said FAIR GAME. =)
Thanks for the fortune telling, apparently im getting a girl !!!  rolleyes.gif

But to answer your question, WHY SHOULD IT BE MY CHOICE FIRST OF ALL? She'll be an educated adult should i ever have a daughter, and if she's adamant, confident, and driven, why not? What is wrong with the notion that they will collectively try to work things out????

If nothing happens, i'll go down myself and kick this jobless chap into gear so he can get MOVING. LOL !!!!!!!!! I'll make my 'daughter' happy, and i get to help him, maybe learn the business too, and by being friends with him... All in good faith. NEXT EXAMPLE PLS.

And please.. dont throw 10 million IF's or PERHAPS,.. save it. Anyone can try and justify anything. I just did my justification, and hopefully, it'll be a wake up call for all of the whiny boyscouts out there in hopes that they'll wake the fk up.

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base on 2 scenario and think.

'A' girl married to a man because of love at the first place. Years later she got fed up with many thing and start to feel regret bcoz marrying a guy who got no bright future and cant enjoy life like other auntie.

'B' girl married to a rich man. Years later she found the money life is not as simple as she thought at the beginning and at the mean time lots of trouble stuff too.

And the conclusion for both situation is they regret for marrying to the man.

So the question is, who ask u marry a guy so that u wont regret?

and the main point is, "Your Problem loh"

after all the round talking whose fault for not being rich and who who dont earn more money for better wife no one really realize the one who ask the question is the one who create trouble for him/herself?


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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 27 2009, 05:44 PM)
no more if or perhaps, coz I'm talking to a kiddo...continue your dream pls tongue.gif
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Model response, hats off to you my dear. LOL !

I sure am lovin my 'dream' rclxms.gif
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ts , the avatar is you? then you will fail in searching rich hubby. good luck
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Hmm... I got divorced because I cannot afford an above average life and I am not alone according to the lawyer, money is everything in life and that we have to spend the majority of our lifetime working for money in order to stay alive, if you found a compatible partner who are willing to share the burden, you are lucky.

I was married to one of those who refuse to grow up, man too are stupid and unreal, I am not defending any party just the reality.

It is lust at first sight for men, we offer financial security and get sex in return, if you have got extra, you can have children. Average income earners will have financial hiccups and must anticipate with preparations.

Average income is consider poor people in the city, car installment extended is because the bank knows we cannot afford it to a stage that crippled the economy.

Living on credit is fooling ourselves that many people are doing, create a feasible business in the first two years and you are eligible to get loans and fooled the girls too.
when the business hit a dead end, everything tumble and blame it on the economic recession but it is such gamble that cause the recession in the first place.

So you see, an average man's option is to tap on loans and try to find ways to pull through otherwise it is almost certain that we cannot rely on a pair of hands and 8 hours of work unless for a professional.

Now, men who survive this recession are the true warrior and deserves the attention, woman.




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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 27 2009, 09:01 AM)
self proclaim playboy? but wonder what kinda quality chicks you're hanging out wit brows.gif  brows.gif  brows.gif

why you guys so extreme one ah , if a girl choose to marry the richer dude then she must be a whatever, since you guys are not playing a fair game and always judging to the extreme end lemme give an extreme example:

Your future daughter is dating 2 guys
A a jobless 30 years old SPM cert, whom the last job pays 1.5k/mth, never had a job lasting more than 9 mths, but both of them deeply inlove.

B a successful doctor, current salary 25k/mth 30 years old, head over heals over your daughter, and have been chasing her since highschool. Will immediately buy her a bungalow at damansara cash, a BMW, a posh wedding, and 1million FD so she wont feel he is playing her.

which would be your choice? would you allow your daughter to marry A?
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Moorish, i'm impressed and speechless, cruel yet factual.
However, ur daughter will probably be well behaved and "untouched". In fact i think most rich people do, so girls dont give ur "specials" before the wedding day. Trust me, this im 99.999% sure im right on this one!!! It is the "untouched" that makes a woman's value soar high high up.


Added on March 28, 2009, 3:49 pm
QUOTE(Cloud9Nos3 @ Mar 28 2009, 12:28 PM)
ts , the avatar is you? then you will fail in searching rich hubby. good luck
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Another cruel yet factual, some of my rich mates already show some thumbs down


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QUOTE(kanzakicyn @ Mar 25 2009, 09:04 PM)
they can, but they will fail
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Not 100% certain, they "may" fail. Come on, show some action first mah, but if u are in solely for the money in the first place..then most likely FAIL even u are BEAUTIFUL. For some rich playboy most play play then ditch.

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QUOTE(TheLastFew @ Mar 28 2009, 03:41 PM)

Added on March 28, 2009, 3:49 pm
Another cruel yet factual, some of my rich mates already show some thumbs down


Added on March 28, 2009, 3:55 pm

Not 100% certain, they "may" fail. Come on, show some action first mah, but if u are in solely for the money in the first place..then most likely FAIL even u are BEAUTIFUL. For some rich playboy most play play then ditch.
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I think you phail to read post #1

1st I'm already married
2nd The girl had a choice to marry the rich dude and that was the discussion about.

Is it so wrong if the girl put security/financial stability as high priority? all the while I'm not talking about aiming for millionaire, I'm only saying to choose a more financial capable guy, a 10k/mth income, some saving is rich to me, so I feel secure to have children with him and I hope my children will have a better life. Does this automatically makes the person bad?

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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 28 2009, 04:03 PM)
I think you phail to read post #1

1st I'm already married
2nd The girl had a choice to marry the rich dude and that was the discussion about.

Is it so wrong if the girl put security/financial stability as high priority? all the while I'm not talking about aiming for millionaire, I'm only saying to choose a more financial capable guy, a 10k/mth income, some saving is rich to me, so I feel secure to have children with him and I hope my children will have a better life. Does this automatically makes the person bad?
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1) "I think you phail to read post #1"
I miss took this thread to be "v2" of "Girls are money minded, And be proud of it." my mistake.

2) "1st I'm already married"
Time to laugh back at my mates, most are single and GFless, fail mates laugh.gif

3)"Is it so wrong if the girl put security/financial stability as high priority? all the while I'm not talking about aiming for millionaire, I'm only saying to choose a more financial capable guy, a 10k/mth income, some saving is rich to me, so I feel secure to have children with him and I hope my children will have a better life. Does this automatically makes the person bad?"

Never did say u were/are wrong, just cruel yet factual.
Im sure people with daughters/sisters will want them to have security/financial stability.
If the girl has no bf in the first place, make the best man wins. If she did, well this will open to debate(Two sides), which explains the existence of this (yours) thread.

4) "I hope my children will have a better life."
Pretty much most of us can't ignore this. I guess if anyone here wants to dethrone her, I think u peeps can start from arguing about, "I hope my children will have a better life.". IMO very well said. notworthy.gif

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Girls are not money-minded. just realistic I would say.
and I don't see anything wrong with that.
We might not being those naive girls, but then, being realistic isn't bad either.
at least we're smart to live in the real world. Lolz...
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^i bet you "realistic" girls would not say it to your men's face that you're attracted to him because of his money.

Realistic, but with deception.
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QUOTE(LittleGhost @ Mar 28 2009, 05:09 PM)
^i bet you "realistic" girls would not say it to your men's face that you're attracted to him because of his money.

Realistic, but with deception.
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 28 2009, 05:11 PM)
and you hope we being sweet talk and suffer later?
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No, I'd like you to be more realistic and straight to the point, by letting your men know the consequences if he suddenly loses all his wealth and you're not there to support him. biggrin.gif


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QUOTE(LittleGhost @ Mar 28 2009, 05:12 PM)
No, I'd like you to be more realistic and straight to the point, by letting your men know the consequences if he suddenly loses all his wealth and you're not there to support him. biggrin.gif
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Will u accept if a girl(Not ur gf yet) pick the other guy if she thinks u cant provide her children will have a better life?

My 2cents
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QUOTE(LittleGhost @ Mar 28 2009, 05:12 PM)
No, I'd like you to be more realistic and straight to the point, by letting your men know the consequences if he suddenly loses all his wealth and you're not there to support him. biggrin.gif
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I hope not, we can only try our best to secure our future, because the ultimate aim is to raise our kid in the best enviroment, divorcing doesnt quite cut for me.

But if you wanna think negative then the poor dude have equal chance of losing his job, but at least I've tried my best to secure a good future for my kids.


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QUOTE(TheLastFew @ Mar 28 2009, 05:18 PM)
Will u accept if a girl(Not ur gf yet) pick the other guy if she thinks u cant provide her children will have a better life?

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You would?


It's not 1+1=2. It's much more complex than that.

I'd say the wrong thing is to be lazy, incompetent, and do nothing in hard times. You would give up your GF so soon and do NOTHING to improve your life side by side?

EDIT: So men should work all day long and women do their household thingy? Sorry I think both partners should give equal effort in raising the child or when living together. I always treat women equally so this is how i roll.

EDIT2: I'm spending my love, my time, with a COMPANION for the rest of the life. I'm not "BUYING" a pet that provides me sex and children. Get mein drift?

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QUOTE(LittleGhost @ Mar 28 2009, 08:06 PM)
You would?
It's not 1+1=2. It's much more complex than that.

I'd say the wrong thing is to be lazy, incompetent, and do nothing in hard times. You would give up your GF so soon and do NOTHING to improve your life side by side?

EDIT: So men should work all day long and women do their household thingy? Sorry I think both partners should give equal effort in raising the child or when living together. I always treat women equally so this is how i roll.

EDIT2: I'm spending my love, my time, with a COMPANION for the rest of the life. I'm not "BUYING" a pet that provides me sex and children. Get mein drift?
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Bro, she's not even ur gf yet. If she is already ur gf, probably very hard to accept, that i understand.
If she's not ur gf yet, y not?!?
Bro, do u have a sister?
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Girl choosing a rich husband considered shallow
but guy avoiding fat ugly woman is what?

In the end human are selfish, we want the best for ourself... its like the pot calling the kettle black.

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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 28 2009, 08:47 PM)
Girl choosing a rich husband considered shallow
but guy avoiding fat ugly woman is what?

In the end human are selfish, we want the best for ourself... its like the pot calling the kettle black.
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both are shallow.

So what's the point? Should be become the devil itself just because most of them are evil?

EDIT: Saying in the end human are selfish is AN EXCUSE.

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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 28 2009, 08:47 PM)
Girl choosing a rich husband considered shallow
but guy avoiding fat ugly woman is what?

In the end human are selfish, we want the best for ourself... its like the pot calling the kettle black.
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Being selfish does not give u any reason to hurt one another.
Being realistic does not mean money minded.
People not realistic enough does not mean they dont know this world is very cruel.
Cause not everything is really about money, if u really think everything in this world is all money,
i have to pity that.
Cause living with a world that everything is about money is nothing but its like
having money is like having everything while without money is without everything.


Added on March 28, 2009, 11:06 pm
QUOTE(LittleGhost @ Mar 28 2009, 09:18 PM)
both are shallow.

So what's the point? Should be become the devil itself just because most of them are evil?

EDIT: Saying in the end human are selfish is AN EXCUSE.
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I dont know why but many people had mislead by this "humans are selfish"
doing that way is giving best thing to urself by take away something from other people
thats totally out of the sense and theory of egoism

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Girl choosing a rich husband considered shallow
but guy avoiding fat ugly woman is what?


Girls behave the same pretty or not, it is the same as this rich BF topic.
Those who think they are less attractive assume that the creator is not being fair and will develop a nasty attitude, a relationship is indeed a financial plan just like making any major decisions in life and I work hard trying to make more money and be above average but I am going for the ordinary girl.

Personally, I think the ordinary looking people are the majority and they get marry and have children without much interest to debate on this topic, taking chances just like people in the past, trouble begins when we become wary and think we deserve better.

I wonder about the ratio between rich man and pretty girl, my ex wife is pretty and I learned my lesson, so this topic is for men too, if you get involve with someone for the wrong reason just because you are young and naive, you are asking for trouble but most people are optimistic and ignorant, that is why we need failures to put us in the right direction and make rational decisions.

Human are product of the society, our perceptions is based on memories and live according to current standard and environment, unfortunately not everyone abide to proper ethics and conduct. Example; a criminal know what is right and wrong but do it anyway, a smoker know cigarettes is bad for everyone but they continue to smoke.

Money can't buy love and love cannot survive without money laugh.gif



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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 28 2009, 08:47 PM)
Girl choosing a rich husband considered shallow
but guy avoiding fat ugly woman is what?

In the end human are selfish, we want the best for ourself... its like the pot calling the kettle black.
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Ohhhh SNAP!

Everybody likes to think that they are not shallow...

Girls want the good providers and genetic material for their children - socially dominant, rich, tall(er), and not too deficient in other aspects such as looks.
Guys want the fertile ladies - youthful, hourglass figured with glowing complexion.

Relationships are based on empathy and understanding... it's not surprising that girls are more willing to be empathetic and understanding towards the socially dominant, rich, taller and reasonably good looking guys... in the same way guys are more willing to be empathetic to the hot fertile ladies.


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QUOTE(3dassets @ Mar 28 2009, 11:24 PM)
Money can't buy love and love cannot survive without money  laugh.gif
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I fully agree with this quote of yours smile.gif

A lot of people here take things so straight forward without considering the complexity of human, just because I would choose A they prejudge that I'm money minded like a parasite sucking the life out from my husband. But thats not true in reality, I'm thrifty and would rather save money for the children later in life.

I choosed a MYVI instead of CRV, coz i think car is a waste of money buying expensive cars just to show off.
I choosed fake LV instead of the real thing, coz I dun believe in buying a 7K bag, for the purposed of showing off.

I dun mind going shopping on my husbands honda cub thumbup.gif its convenient, now how many chinese girl willing to do that? you tell me.






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Yup ! Girls are really money minded, that's why you can see so many girls pursue for Accounting !
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If you see no wrong in girls being money minded, then don't ever fight for gender equality. Girls who choose their guys based on money shouldn't complain when their husbands have one affair after another, after all its in our genes to be attracted to pretty young girls. They will have lost the right to b**** about doing all the cooking, cleaning, child rearing while the husband plays his PS3 all day.

If money is the criteria for men, then women should shut up, spread their legs and clean the house.
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 29 2009, 12:27 PM)
I fully agree with this quote of yours smile.gif

A lot of people here take things so straight forward without considering the complexity of human, just because I would choose A they prejudge that I'm money minded like a parasite sucking the life out from my husband. But thats not true in reality, I'm thrifty and would rather save money for the children later in life.

I choosed a MYVI instead of CRV, coz i think car is a waste of money buying expensive cars just to show off.
I choosed fake LV instead of the real thing, coz I dun believe in buying a 7K bag, for the purposed of showing off.

I dun mind going shopping on my husbands honda cub thumbup.gif its convenient, now how many chinese girl willing to do that? you tell me.
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QUOTE(3dassets @ Mar 28 2009, 11:24 PM)
Girl choosing a rich husband considered shallow
but guy avoiding fat ugly woman is what?
Girls behave the same pretty or not, it is the same as this rich BF topic.
Those who think they are less attractive assume that the creator is not being fair and will develop a nasty attitude, a relationship is indeed a financial plan just like making any major decisions in life and I work hard trying to make more money and be above average but I am going for the ordinary girl.

Personally, I think the ordinary looking people are the majority and they get marry and have children without much interest to debate on this topic, taking chances just like people in the past, trouble begins when we become wary and think we deserve better.

I wonder about the ratio between rich man and pretty girl, my ex wife is pretty and I learned my lesson, so this topic is for men too, if you get involve with someone for the wrong reason just because you are young and naive, you are asking for trouble but most people are optimistic and ignorant, that is why we need failures to put us in the right direction and make rational decisions.

Human are product of the society, our perceptions is based on memories and live according to current standard and environment, unfortunately not everyone abide to proper ethics and conduct. Example; a criminal know what is right and wrong but do it anyway, a smoker know cigarettes is bad for everyone but they continue to smoke.

Money can't buy love and love cannot survive without money  laugh.gif
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QUOTE(parsona @ Mar 29 2009, 04:07 PM)
If you see no wrong in girls being money minded, then don't ever fight for gender equality.  Girls who choose their guys based on money shouldn't complain when their husbands have one affair after another, after all its in our genes to be attracted to pretty young girls.  They will have lost the right to b**** about doing all the cooking, cleaning, child rearing while the husband plays his PS3 all day. 

If money is the criteria for men, then women should shut up, spread their legs and clean the house.
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 29 2009, 07:56 PM)
you;re the type who talk big here only, you dare tell this to your gf or wife (that is even if you do have one) or you musta been badly abuse by your gf thats why all the hate tongue.gif
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You're not understanding me. I'm the type that believes in equality in all, be it race or gender, hence I do not believe that women should be treated like a sex object or as a cook. I'm saying that for those women who choose men based on how rich they are, these women do not deserve gender equality, instead they should be treated like how women were treated thousands of years ago. They should shut up when men are talking, obey when men want sex, and cook when men are hungry.

I did tell this to my gf, and she agrees with me. I treat her as an equal and I expect to be treated the same.

So go on ahead an be proud of choosing a guy based on his cash, but don't you dare complain when he cheats on you with younger sexier girls or when he demands that you shut up and cook.


Women have come a long way from your example of 'thousands of years ago'. Your suggestion of being proud to choose a man based on how rich they are has just set womenkind back a few decades. If I were a woman, I'd hate you.

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QUOTE(parsona @ Mar 29 2009, 10:55 PM)
You're not understanding me.  I'm the type that believes in equality in all, be it race or gender, hence I do not believe that women should be treated like a sex object or as a cook.  I'm saying that for those women who choose men based on how rich they are, these women do not deserve gender equality, instead they should be treated like how women were treated thousands of years ago.  They should shut up when men are talking, obey when men want sex, and cook when men are hungry. 

I did tell this to my gf, and she agrees with me.  I treat her as an equal and I expect to be treated the same. 

So go on ahead an be proud of choosing a guy based on his cash, but don't you dare complain when he cheats on you with younger sexier girls or when he demands that you shut up and cook.
Women have come a long way from your example of 'thousands of years ago'.  Your suggestion of being proud to choose a man based on how rich they are has just set womenkind back a few decades.  If I were a woman, I'd hate you.
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QUOTE(parsona @ Mar 29 2009, 10:55 PM)
You're not understanding me.  I'm the type that believes in equality in all, be it race or gender, hence I do not believe that women should be treated like a sex object or as a cook.  I'm saying that for those women who choose men based on how rich they are, these women do not deserve gender equality, instead they should be treated like how women were treated thousands of years ago.  They should shut up when men are talking, obey when men want sex, and cook when men are hungry. 

I did tell this to my gf, and she agrees with me.  I treat her as an equal and I expect to be treated the same. 

So go on ahead an be proud of choosing a guy based on his cash, but don't you dare complain when he cheats on you with younger sexier girls or when he demands that you shut up and cook.
Women have come a long way from your example of 'thousands of years ago'.   Your suggestion of being proud to choose a man based on how rich they are has just set womenkind back a few decades.   If I were a woman, I'd hate you.
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why do you think only the rich will cheat? are you implying the poorer are all saints?
Money or status cannot judge if the person is bad, they're bad people at all level of life.
I've seen plenty of rich womanizer man but I've also seen plenty of poor womanizer man.
Are you saying marrying a person base truly on love is the sure way?
I've seen plenty who uses this formula ended up in divorce and walk out empty handed.

QUOTE(parsona @ Mar 29 2009, 10:55 PM)
You're not understanding me.  I'm the type that believes in equality in all, be it race or gender, hence I do If I were a woman, I'd hate you.
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There is no need to hate me, you can choose love for all you want if you're girl, you can struggle feeding the baby all you want, it is your life, I'm not your mom to tell you or convince you what to do. but there is a saying:

if your parents are poor it is not your fault
if you husband is poor it is fully your fault.




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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 29 2009, 12:27 PM)
I fully agree with this quote of yours smile.gif

A lot of people here take things so straight forward without considering the complexity of human, just because I would choose A they prejudge that I'm money minded like a parasite sucking the life out from my husband. But thats not true in reality, I'm thrifty and would rather save money for the children later in life.

I choosed a MYVI instead of CRV, coz i think car is a waste of money buying expensive cars just to show off.
I choosed fake LV instead of the real thing, coz I dun believe in buying a 7K bag, for the purposed of showing off.

I dun mind going shopping on my husbands honda cub thumbup.gif its convenient, now how many chinese girl willing to do that? you tell me.
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Hurmmm, I think I agree with you about this. Now, I can see your points already. Sorry about I got the wrong idea from your previous posts.
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I think men must be rich so that his wife can enjoy a good life lo, who wants their wife to sit behind a restaurant and become a dish washer?
Men and women equal? Not all fields.

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I think men must be rich so that his wife can enjoy a good life lo, who wants their wife to sit behind a restaurant and become a dish washer?
Men and women equal? Not all fields.
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"I dun mind going shopping on my husbands honda cub"

I think not and I ride a motorbike, fine at first because everyone deserves a chance, girls do love a man for who they are, but time will change a person.
Everyone of us here speaks their mind which is good and one day, you may develop a different view or learn from others by experience rather than ego talk.

I am afraid a lot of guys will share my fate, this debate is the sign that the girls become money conscious and the guys have to import wives from less developed neighboring countries like what happen to Singapore. A lady who can survive on their own does not have to service the guy and every man want sex even if they can't afford a marriage, so prostitution will raise so as the demand for porno VCD.

Later, girls to average men are see no touch and lead to social problems that are ever increasing, what goes around comes around, I like to see some constructive solutions than releasing tension alone. What an average man can do to meet the challenge not relying on fate or let nature take its course (extinction), girls should be conscious about financial issue but money minded sounds materialistic and that pisses the average guy. Hopping to marry someone loaded is not because you don't have to work.

To the guys, hard working lead you no where until you work smart, winning a girl's heart is just the beginning and you must be aware of the maintenance costs, we go to school so that we can start somewhere but the school does not teach us how to live a life and forge a contingency plan, most of us came to the real world with an attitude.


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QUOTE(POYOZER @ Mar 30 2009, 09:55 AM)
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QUOTE(3dassets @ Mar 30 2009, 10:56 AM)
"I dun mind going shopping on my husbands honda cub"

I think not and I ride a motorbike, fine at first because everyone deserves a chance, girls do love a man for who they are, but time will change a person.
Everyone of us here speaks their mind which is good and one day, you may develop a different view or learn from others by experience rather than ego talk.

I am afraid a lot of guys will share my fate, this debate is the sign that the girls become money conscious and the guys have to import wives from less developed neighboring countries like what happen to Singapore. A lady who can survive on their own does not have to service the guy and every man want sex even if they can't afford a marriage, so prostitution will raise so as the demand for porno VCD.

Later, girls to average men are see no touch and lead to social problems that are ever increasing, what goes around comes around, I like to see some constructive solutions than releasing tension alone. What an average man can do to meet the challenge not relying on fate or let nature take its course (extinction), girls should be conscious about financial issue but money minded sounds materialistic and that pisses the average guy. Hopping to marry someone loaded is not because you don't have to work.

To the guys, hard working lead you no where until you work smart, winning a girl's heart is just the beginning and you must be aware of the maintenance costs, we go to school so that we can start somewhere but the school does not teach us how to live a life and forge a contingency plan, most of us came to the real world with an attitude.
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I come from a poor family, and thank god I've never been suck into the lifestyle thingy, chap fan and roti canai is fine with me. I know my hubby in 03, married at 05, and till today we still go sg wang on his bike on the weekend. I seldom shop at MV or KLCC, prices of cloths are too expensive. A lot of my gf will not get caught riding on a honda cub, status and glamour is important to them. Everyone has the right to choose their lifestyle, nothing wrong with that, but I would like to stick to this down to earth habit as I want to pass this down to my children. I dont want them to grow into a world of pride and ego.

I'm thrifty and down to earth but financial stability is still very important. I agree with you on the part, at first the guy would sweet talk you and love grows, you think you can make it with only love as the base and foundation of your rship, but in this world today especially in city, money is more important to sustain a happy rship in long run.

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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 30 2009, 09:29 AM)
why do you think only the rich will cheat? are you implying the poorer are all saints?
Money or status cannot judge if the person is bad, they're bad people at all level of life.
I've seen plenty of rich womanizer man but I've also seen plenty of poor womanizer man.
Are you saying marrying a person base truly on love is the sure way?
I've seen plenty who uses this formula ended up in divorce and walk out empty handed.
There is no need to hate me, you can choose love for all you want if you're girl, you can struggle feeding the baby all you want, it is your life, I'm not your mom to tell you or convince you what to do.  but there is a saying:

if your parents are poor it is not your fault
if you husband is poor it is fully your fault.
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You still do not understand. You are just trying to justify your own money mindedness by assuming beforehand that all men will cheat so might as well take his money before he does. No one is saying that poor men do not cheat, but what I'm trying to say is that when you choose money over love, you have lost the right to demand a good husband-wife relationship. Your husband may or may not cheat or treat you like dirt if you choose him based on money, but morally you've already lost, the moment you said your vows to him.

If you really are not the materialistic kind but just require a stable husband, I think thats totally fine. Your topic however is misleading and promotes girls to choose rich guys only. If I were a girl, my principles would be:

I will only allow a man that is self sustaining as well as capable to give my kids a basic life to marry me. He need not be rich, need not be able to buy me a Coach bag but he must at least have a steady income and show that he is a responsible person that can get and keep a job. If I want my kids to have something better than a basic life, I understand that it will be my responsibility as much as his to provide and cater for it, it will not be solely my hubby's responsibility. This is called gender equality.

The problem with your view is that you think the husband is duty bound to provide everything while the wife probably just earns her own money to enjoy herself. A marriage should be a shared responsibility, so if you choose a man based on how rich it is, theres no other name to call you other than a money grabbing whore. If you choose a man that is proven to be responsible and self sustaining, then its called being realistic.


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QUOTE(parsona @ Mar 30 2009, 11:59 AM)
You still do not understand.  You are just trying to justify your own money mindedness by assuming beforehand that all men will cheat so might as well take his money before he does.  No one is saying that poor men do not cheat, but what I'm trying to say is that when you choose money over love, you have lost the right to demand a good husband-wife relationship.  Your husband may or may not cheat or treat you like dirt if you choose him based on money, but morally you've already lost, the moment you said your vows to him. 
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From the first post it is obvious both man is head over heal for the girl, so the chances of both gets corrupted later is equal. But you put it as if the rich will change while the poorer one will remain adamant which is not true in real life.

QUOTE(parsona @ Mar 30 2009, 11:59 AM)
If you really are not the materialistic kind but just require a stable husband, I think thats totally fine.  Your topic however is misleading and promotes girls to choose rich guys only.  If I were a girl, my principles would be:

I will only allow a man that is self sustaining as well as capable to give my kids a basic life to marry me.  He need not be rich, need not be able to buy me a Coach bag but he must at least have a steady income and show that he is a responsible person that can get and keep a job.  If I want my kids to have something better than a basic life, I understand that it will be my responsibility as much as his to provide and cater for it, it will not be solely my hubby's responsibility.  This is called gender equality. 

The problem with your view is that you think the husband is duty bound to provide everything while the wife probably just earns her own money to enjoy herself.  A marriage should be a shared responsibility, so if you choose a man based on how rich it is, theres no other name to call you other than a money grabbing whore.  If you choose a man that is proven to be responsible and self sustaining, then its called being realistic.
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Everyone in this world is looking for Mr.Right or Mr.Perfect, I'm not saying this man do not exist but maybe only 0.0001% of girl in this world will get to marry this elusive man. The other 99.999% will have to settle for someone lesser, and here is why give and take have to be weight.

Love is something exciting in the beginning but eventually love subside and reality kicks in, struggling putting dinner on the table is not exactly romantic and will sap the love so quickly like you've been electrocuted.

You talk about equality, do you like to come home to a house clean and tidy, where warm food are cooked and a glass of coffee made for you after dinner?

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QUOTE(parsona @ Mar 29 2009, 10:55 PM)
You're not understanding me.  I'm the type that believes in equality in all, be it race or gender, hence I do not believe that women should be treated like a sex object or as a cook.  I'm saying that for those women who choose men based on how rich they are, these women do not deserve gender equality, instead they should be treated like how women were treated thousands of years ago.  They should shut up when men are talking, obey when men want sex, and cook when men are hungry. 

I did tell this to my gf, and she agrees with me.  I treat her as an equal and I expect to be treated the same. 

So go on ahead an be proud of choosing a guy based on his cash, but don't you dare complain when he cheats on you with younger sexier girls or when he demands that you shut up and cook.
Women have come a long way from your example of 'thousands of years ago'.  Your suggestion of being proud to choose a man based on how rich they are has just set womenkind back a few decades.  If I were a woman, I'd hate you.
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Your advise to choose a husband in terms of monetary value is seriously flawed.

So lets say

A. Not very rich. But hardworking, industrious, thrifty, saves every penny, smart in investing, a natural entrepreneur. This category fits a lot of young adults these days.

B. Rich. Drives a sports car, father's a datuk in big time corporation. Holds a managing position in dad's company.

If we follow your advise, I guess you will ask the girl to go for B isnt it? Even if she doesnt love B at all.

Tsk tsk tsk how narrow minded women these days are.

By the way I was the A guy. My fiancee chose me over B. I wonder why eh?


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QUOTE(twosonsaudio @ Mar 30 2009, 05:03 PM)
Your advise to choose a husband in terms of monetary value is seriously flawed.

So lets say

A. Not very rich. But hardworking, industrious, thrifty, saves every penny, smart in investing, a natural entrepreneur. This category fits a lot of young adults these days.

B. Rich. Drives a sports car, father's a datuk in big time corporation. Holds a managing position in dad's company.

If we follow your advise, I guess you will ask the girl to go for B isnt it? Even if she doesnt love B at all.

Tsk tsk tsk how narrow minded women these days are.

By the way I was the A guy. My fiancee chose me over B. I wonder why eh?
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Well its not a formula, and I never say always go for the richer dude, I've mention many times, everybody has their own standard in terms of rich, for me those who earn above 10k/mth is good enuf. If b4 getting married I've 2 guy chasing me, my hubby and the datuks kids I'll go for my hubby.

Maybe some girls dream is to drive a BMW so they'll probably go for the datuks kid.

I guess you just simple shoot without reading or following this thread.
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You're theories and philosophy are very historical.
Caveman age, where the women took care of the babies, they will choose among the strongest man. Correct.
And a few centuries ago, a lot of women are still illiterate, stays at home and still mothers the man's child. They don't mind if their husband is polygamous, the more wives, the richer, the prouder, the stronger. Correct.

And now, this era, come on, woman, you still need to leech on a rich man in order to survive? In order to be happy? In order to be proud?

We have the right to fight for monogamous relationship. We have the right to earn our own cash. Do you still think woman should not work, and just taking what the man brought home? And be happy if the man brought home a loooot of money.

I don't think I can be proud, if my husband is filthy rich but doesn't loves me or treat me accordingly, or the other way round.

I don't think wealth can guarantee happiness.


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QUOTE(parsona @ Mar 29 2009, 10:55 PM)
You're not understanding me.  I'm the type that believes in equality in all, be it race or gender, hence I do not believe that women should be treated like a sex object or as a cook.  I'm saying that for those women who choose men based on how rich they are, these women do not deserve gender equality, instead they should be treated like how women were treated thousands of years ago.  They should shut up when men are talking, obey when men want sex, and cook when men are hungry. 

I did tell this to my gf, and she agrees with me.  I treat her as an equal and I expect to be treated the same. 

So go on ahead an be proud of choosing a guy based on his cash, but don't you dare complain when he cheats on you with younger sexier girls or when he demands that you shut up and cook.
Women have come a long way from your example of 'thousands of years ago'.   Your suggestion of being proud to choose a man based on how rich they are has just set womenkind back a few decades.   If I were a woman, I'd hate you.
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I back-read a few previous debate here and somewhere in between, I read that Moorish stressed on financial stability. Yes, that's very very important.

But what I do not agree is your first post

"So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice."

I still insist love is more important. Love can sail the boat a loong loooong way. Yes, of course, money are important but still wealth doesn't guarantee happiness.



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No matter who u choose , as long as u are happy is ok but got money but not happy, will u choose that? u may have everything in this world that can get by money but not love and loyalty. can u stay by that? U have friends that only come to u because u have money , without money ur like a rubbish to them.
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 30 2009, 12:09 PM)
From the first post it is obvious both man is head over heal for the girl, so the chances of both gets corrupted later is equal. But you put it as if the rich will change while the poorer one will remain adamant which is not true in real life.
Everyone in this world is looking for Mr.Right or Mr.Perfect, I'm not saying this man do not exist but maybe only 0.0001% of girl in this world will get to marry this elusive man. The other 99.999% will have to settle for someone lesser, and here is why give and take have to be weight.

Love is something exciting in the beginning but eventually love subside and reality kicks in, struggling putting dinner on the table is not exactly romantic and will sap the love so quickly like you've been electrocuted.

You talk about equality, do you like to come home to a house clean and tidy, where warm food are cooked and a glass of coffee made for you after dinner?
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Most of your posts in this thread is simply excuses for you to justify your 'money mindedness'. You seem to stress that love is eventually pointless in life. You are entitled to your opinion on love of course, so let me ask you this. Since you believe that women should go back to your 'thousands of years' ago period where they select men that give them security (money in this era), would you agree to your husband cheating on you, disrespecting you, etc since thats how women were treated back then? After all, you don't really believe in love, so why would you care if your husband cheats rite?

Another question for you. Since you always claim that the money that you are after is for your kids, and not for your Myvi driving self, why don't you put in the effort to be as rich as your hubby so you can provide for your kids? Why must it be the husband who does it? Why do you take the easy way in life by just choosing a rich husband to get rich, instead of getting rich by your own doing?

Like I said earlier, if you only mean to tell people that its ok to girls to choose men who are responsible and can manage to bring up your kids decently, thats totally agreeable with everyone I'm sure. But your posts says that girls should be proud to choose rich husbands... that justs points to you being a money grabber who prefers to get rich on someone else's effort.

Finally, to answer your question.
Yes, I would like to come home to that clean tidy house. Who wouldn't? But in no way will I demand or even ask that my wife be the one that ensures a clean tidy house. I acknowledge that a home and a family is a combined responsibility, chores at home will be shared equally among equals.
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QUOTE(<3<3<3 @ Mar 30 2009, 09:26 PM)
No matter who u choose , as long as u are happy is ok but got money but not happy, will u choose that? u may have everything in this world that can get by money but not love and loyalty. can u stay by that? U have friends that only come to u because u have money , without money ur like a rubbish to them.
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Odds are slim, but trust me they do exist!! But these gems have their standard also but not as high as u think =p
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It is not up to us to decide if a man changes his heart, I do not agree with sharing my man if given a choice, but unfortunately I've seen too many man fooling outside. I've seen the poorer man and the richer man womanizing, the consequences of the both

The richer one can still provide for the wife and kids
The poorer one will sweet talk you to work and fend for yourself and the kids while he fend for the one outside.

How many times had I emphasize that the possibility of the rich or poor man womanize or fall out of love after 7 years tying the knots chances are equal ? what makes you think that just becoz you're lovey dovey with your bf and he will remain like that eternally?

If you;ve frens, or relative who had divorce, try to CSI her case, are they not so in love to the point that even parent object they still go ahead and then what happen?

And I'm sure you also have frens or relative who had married the richer or poorer and still going strong too. And so you know the chance are equal.

What makes you think those who are rich isnt enjoying their life? touring europe with their children on school holidays, getting a 1carat diamond ring for your birthday, enjoying your SPA and facial treatment at exclusive place, driving your BMW, having a maid to take care of choir, and shop like crazy with a 300sq/ft walk in wardrobe to fit in all your dress. And dont be fool into thinking that love doesnt exist for the rich man, he is afterall also a man.

Those woman that shed tears everynight are those with husband that are fooling around outside and has fallen out of love and definitely they dun cry because their husband is rich, because the poorer man's chances of this are equal.

Wealth doesnt guarantee happiness but love also do not guarantee happiness, you're again talking on extreme end here.

I'm not trying to change your perception or choice, obviously you can can choose love or whatever, but why insist those who do are wrong or hate them just because you disagree when they dont hate you for your choices? Am I spose to hate and not talk to my fren who had chosen love and got divorce and tell her dai sei?

if you look at the extreme end, you divorce a rich man you still able to get a house or a fat alimony for your kids, when you divorce a poor man you most probably have to even pay the divorce lawyer fee! or some cases haunt by ah long.


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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 31 2009, 11:41 AM)
if you look at the extreme end, you divorce a rich man you still able to get a house or a fat alimony for your kids, when you divorce a poor man you most probably have to even pay the divorce lawyer fee! or some cases haunt by ah long.
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I LOL at this, I don’t know why. From the way you explain, look like you trying to look down on poor people. Don’t forget you are poor last time. Now I start to lost respect to you again.

I don’t know why poor girls when suddenly become rich, sure act very lansi and look down on the poor. What a shame. Real rich girls (since small) normally don’t have this kind of thinking, because they already bored with materialistic world. And they need something beside the money, which is love.

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QUOTE(POYOZER @ Mar 31 2009, 11:56 AM)
I LOL at this, I don’t know why. From the way you explain, look like you trying to look down on poor people. Don’t forget you are poor last time. Now I start to lost respect to you again.

I don’t know why poor girls when suddenly become rich, sure act very lansi and look down on the poor. What a shame. Real rich girls (since small) normally don’t have this kind of thinking, because they already bored with materialistic world. And they need something beside the money, which is love.
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I do not look down on poor people as I'm not even a millionaire or close to it, I do not drive a BMW or stay in a bungalow, I do not have maid myself.

But we're debating on the rich and poor wife's chances and the possibility of her future. Because most of you think that marrying a rich man will end up a disaster like as if marrying a poor man is the correct and absolute choice.
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 31 2009, 12:00 PM)
I do not look down on poor people as I'm not even a millionaire or close to it, I do not drive a BMW or stay in a bungalow, I do not have maid myself.

But we're debating on the rich and poor wife's chances and the possibility of her future. Because most of you think that marrying a rich man will end up a disaster like as if marrying a poor man is the correct and absolute choice.
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What if I am not think like that? Actually, marrying rich guys is ok. But, the way you explain it is like insulting the poor.
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QUOTE(POYOZER @ Mar 31 2009, 12:03 PM)
What if I am not think like that? Actually, marrying rich guys is ok. But, the way you explain it is like insulting the poor.
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Because if you open the spoiler "kii"'s theory, mention that marrying a rich man will end up unhappy and most probably disastrous. So this is why I point out what makes you think rich people are unhappy?
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Saying rich guys or poor guys fooling around girls huh? I now even scared girl cheat my feelings tim...

TS... being selfish is OK... but if you went too extreme... outcome will be extreme too...

LOVE is essential among humans...
MONEY can lay foundation of a stable relationship...
FUTURE PROSPECT is what girls have their eyes on guys to guarantee their relationship will last...
After girls get those 3 things above, they tend to forget something and simply blame to guy.
The things that can guarantee the relationship will last is the effort of MAINTAINING RELATIONSHIP.

TS... you claimed you seen too many cases of many poor/rich guys fooling around and direct assume that guys at fault....

Actually there are various cause when thing goes wrong. You never think what makes men fooling around except than their own fault.

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I think the problem is the title of this topic that make people think negative, while everyone have a point and meant righteous but the direction is wrong which boosted such practice.

I am one of the casualty who got divorced because I turned out to be a bad choice for a husband, her parents gave her the impression that a man should provide a comfortable living for her even if she choose not to work but my profession can only earn RM1800 to RM2,500 back then.

As a boyfriend, I am doing well but not as a husband with a lazy wife and let me tell you this; you are either good luck, bad luck or no luck in life, and it cycles, no one is lucky forever.

When struck by bad luck, everything will crumble because most of the average income earner can only lasts 1 to 2 months if become unemployed, illness / hospitalized or anything can drain your savings, when that happens you need time to recover and then time caught up with your age and wasted years of affords.

Don't just say you have seen or heard stories that it won't happen to you unless you are better prepared to face the unexpected, even so, I want to feel love again and will find someone with the same ideology and nobody is to blame just the big reality beyond our control.

You could get cancer even if you adhere to proper diet, no smoking nor drinking and killed in a road accident that wasn't your fault. No one is completely right or wrong just exchanging thoughts here.

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QUOTE(parsona @ Mar 30 2009, 10:03 PM)
Most of your posts in this thread is simply excuses for you to justify your 'money mindedness'.  You seem to stress that love is eventually pointless in life.  You are entitled to your opinion on love of course, so let me ask you this.  Since you believe that women should go back to your 'thousands of years' ago period where they select men that give them security (money in this era), would you agree to your husband cheating on you, disrespecting you, etc since thats how women were treated back then? After all, you don't really believe in love, so why would you care if your husband cheats rite? 
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Just because a man has standards and chooses to ask a pretty girl out and ignores an ugly girl, it does not mean that he is only looking for sex. He just wants to make sure he FALLS IN LOVE WITH A PRETTY GIRL.

Just because a woman has standards and chooses to ask a rich dominant guyl out and ignores poor shy losers, it does not mean that she is "money minded". She just wants to make sure he FALLS IN LOVE WITH A GOOD PROVIDER who could help raise successful offspring.




How the hell did you come to the conclusion that people who have standards dont believe in love?????





EVERYONE BELIEVES IN LOVE. It's just that some people are picky and want to fall in love with other people they perceive they can attract. The game of love is cruel... many end up settling for less...and falling in love with people who arent jessica alba or some hot, monogamous rich guy.
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Human being is greedy, hard to be pleased and very few people will feel satisfy with whatever they currently have now. Regardless is money, power or love & caring.

To me, TS is a 'quite' insecure feeling person, who wish to get hand on either money, power or love & caring to make her feel more secure. There is nothing wrong with it as everyone in this world deserve to seek for thing they want.

But isn't that learn to let go and learn not to 'own" anything make us happier? As we needn't to scare to loss anything.

I use to heard something like this from the movie Star Wars III:
"If we don't learn to let go something/someone that we scare to loss, we will be the slave to that."

So to say, TS becomes the slave to the insecure feeling that she make up by herself. Remember, whatever action or thinking we input, we will get the same opposite output from the people around us.

You demand for a rich husband that can give you lot of security feeling, you will end up payback the same amount of other thing (something only you will know) to balance up that. If you think you feel happy about that, go ahead, be my guest. wink.gif

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Guys and girls, ladies and gentlemen. It seems useless to debate with TS, because she is spoil and corrupted.
Sorry TS, i have no bad intention but that's what i think.

Remember that money can be gone as fast as u get it. Maybe today u're rich, but it can be totally upside down
the next day. It's not like love, respect and trust.

That's all i wanna say..... Seriously it's useless to debate with TS, the more we say, the more she will answer with
her corrupted opinions.
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QUOTE(Ghost-Squad @ Mar 31 2009, 10:09 PM)
Guys and girls, ladies and gentlemen. It seems useless to debate with TS, because she is spoil and corrupted.
Sorry TS, i have no bad intention but that's what i think.

Remember that money can be gone as fast as u get it. Maybe today u're rich, but it can be totally upside down
the next day. It's not like love, respect and trust.

That's all i wanna say..... Seriously it's useless to debate with TS, the more we say, the more she will answer with
her corrupted opinions.
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QUOTE(POYOZER @ Mar 31 2009, 10:12 PM)
Rich Kid is here  brows.gif
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Hahah. Normally rich guys are highly alerted about materealistic girls. Moreover,
they won't even respect this type of girl. I think TS is dreaming of a big house,
nice luxury car, emperor size bed etc. She can't afford all this, so she go for rich guys
and expects the guy to give him everything......

She is just immature, but she think she aren't. Come on, I have a lot of girl-friends,
and only a few of them are materealistic but not until your level. Your level is critical.

If you're corrupted, please don't drag others to be like you, it will just ruin the entire community.
Not all girls are like u, there are girls who still can think properly using their mind and inner values.

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QUOTE(Ghost-Squad @ Mar 31 2009, 10:23 PM)
Hahah. Normally rich guys are highly alerted about materealistic girls. Moreover,
they won't even respect this type of girl. I think TS is dreaming of a big house,
nice luxury car, emperor size bed etc. She can't afford all this, so she go for rich guys
and expects the guy to give him everything......

She is just immature, but she think she aren't. Come on, I have a lot of girl-friends,
and only a few of them are materealistic but not until your level. Your level is critical.

If you're corrupted, please don't drag others to be like you, it will just ruin the entire community.
Not all girls are like u, there are girls who still can think properly using their mind and inner values.
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actualy you are wrong, rich guys tend to F*** and dump these materialistic girls, its so dam easy, buy them somethings which they really want and they could not afford it and you could bed them aredy, owh i did forgot to say that provided you are rich, drives big car and lives in a big house...

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QUOTE(BouncyBall @ Mar 31 2009, 10:36 PM)
actualy you are wrong, rich guys tend to F*** and dump these materialistic girls, its so dam easy, buy them somethings which they really want and they could not afford it and you could bed them aredy, owh i did forgot to say that provided you are rich, drives big car and lives in a big house...
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That's right bro, that's why i say rich guys don't respect this type of girl, u understand ? They just take this type
of girls for granted...... That's what i'm trying to say. Hahah.

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That's right bro, that's why i say rich guys don't respect this type of girl, u understand ? They just take this type
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QUOTE(Ghost-Squad @ Mar 31 2009, 10:23 PM)
Hahah. Normally rich guys are highly alerted about materealistic girls. Moreover,
they won't even respect this type of girl. I think TS is dreaming of a big house,
nice luxury car, emperor size bed etc. She can't afford all this, so she go for rich guys
and expects the guy to give him everything......

She is just immature, but she think she aren't. Come on, I have a lot of girl-friends,
and only a few of them are materealistic but not until your level. Your level is critical.

If you're corrupted, please don't drag others to be like you, it will just ruin the entire community.
Not all girls are like u, there are girls who still can think properly using their mind and inner values.
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That's right bro, that's why i say rich guys don't respect this type of girl, u understand ? They just take this type
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Harsh words from a rich kid who drive ‘Brabus’ car.

I just wondering, weither my sister is a materialistic or not? What do you think? whistling.gif

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Because of those minded, more and more girls getting rape

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how you guys quarrel also no use lar... your will end up in rounds....

no money means no honey
no honey means need money
so move ur arse get to work to earn some money to get some honey k?

-enuff said-
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QUOTE(POYOZER @ Mar 31 2009, 11:27 PM)
Harsh words from a rich kid who drive ‘Brabus’ car.

I just wondering, weither my sister is a materialistic or not? What do you think?  whistling.gif
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QUOTE(anti-informatic @ Apr 1 2009, 12:37 AM)
Because of those minded, more and more girls getting rape
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Yes, I can't deny that. But in this situation, we can't put the blame on one side only.
Both cause this thing to happen, the girl is willing to do anything for money and the guy
is desperate for sex. So what happen ?

It's going to be a trade...... Money for sex (boys) and sex for money (girls)
Then..... u faham faham lar.....
Sometimes the girl is willing to have it, so it's not a rape case (mahu sama mahu)
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QUOTE(Ghost-Squad @ Mar 31 2009, 10:09 PM)
Remember that money can be gone as fast as u get it. Maybe today u're rich, but it can be totally upside down
the next day. It's not like love, respect and trust.


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Do you know this world got people actually divorce?
If you hang around CC long enuf you see love also can be gone in 60 seconds.


Added on April 1, 2009, 9:31 amyou 2 hackel and jackel seem to think that only rich guys can play and dump some materialistic girls, but there're also plenty of dumb rich guys that some smart materialistic girl had suck the life outta them. brows.gif joking only, the trouble is, no matter how smart a person is be it male or female, when you see tha special person which you fall for immediately, you're slave to him or her. So dun ever think you're smart. there is no escaping unless you're so unfortunate to never meet your dream girl.

So the world is back to equal.

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lolita, why are u still in this thread?
what are u trying to prove?
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i'm thankful my gf is not like u TS.if my gf is thnking all about money,i will ask her to kiss my feet then i will give her all what she want smile.gif
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QUOTE(NiceGuyEddie @ Apr 1 2009, 11:11 AM)
lolita, why are u still in this thread?
what are u trying to prove?
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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 1 2009, 11:30 AM)
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Dont so naive, gals 100% money minded.....
they like money...... true....
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Hate those gals..... think $$$

see all the monash /sunway gals.....

if have chance fark them kau kau like garyng singapore
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wassup with monash/sunway ?
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wassup with monash/sunway ?
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The gals expect u drive altis/ minicooper or some rx8 car....

i did try to approach many gals accross the region of sunway

turn down 100% not cause the attitude towards them but money......

feel guilty but promise to myself wont be gary ng the 2nd......

but will fark them kau kau la.... if hv chance
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QUOTE(NiceGuyEddie @ Apr 1 2009, 12:04 PM)
what they say ?
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They said Fark OFF
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How they know what car u drive?
U ask them while in ur car?

dang.... dunno what they see in altis.
Altis is an uncle/family car lah
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QUOTE(NiceGuyEddie @ Apr 1 2009, 12:13 PM)
How they know what car u drive?
U ask them while in ur car?

dang.... dunno what they see in altis.
Altis is an uncle/family car lah
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Bro.... gals like mature guys la....

altis is for those high executive that have mature thinking , mature not mean old......

some gals i ask during 1st time date, some i ask during phone call..... and etc.....

i just try approach to 2nd time date also hard....

i feel demotivated until now....
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If they are looking for executives, means they're not dating their peers loh... no students?

damn... most of them must be single then.
screw those superficial btiches lah,
find someone else.

There are more girls than guys in this world anyway lol

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QUOTE(NiceGuyEddie @ Apr 1 2009, 12:22 PM)
If they are looking for executives, means they're not dating their peers loh... no students?

damn... most of them must be single then.
screw those superficial btiches lah,
find someone else.

There are most girls than guys in this world anyway lol
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So next time if i know that gals from sunway or monash, screw them kau kau

fark them like animal and like no tomorrow.....
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You see what happen to this kind of scenario leads to? I am laughing and don't know what to say liau.
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QUOTE(3dassets @ Apr 1 2009, 12:28 PM)
You see what happen to this kind of scenario leads to? I am laughing and don't know what to say liau.
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because" gals money minded and proud of it
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Let them be lah...
they are on the losing end the way i see it...
They just missed an opportunity with a nice guy
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QUOTE(NiceGuyEddie @ Apr 1 2009, 12:36 PM)
Let them be lah...
they are on the losing end the way i see it...
They just missed an opportunity with a nice guy
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Go out to all the major shopping centre like KLCC, Midvalley, look around, all these places catered for WOMAN! for their shopping needs!!! look at pavillion and starhill.

Now tell me do you think money is not important to girls?
And they're also plenty of nice rich/financial capable guys around who can pampered you better than just sweet empty talks.


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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 1 2009, 12:54 PM)
Go out to all the major shopping centre like KLCC, Midvalley, look around, all these places catered for WOMAN! for their shopping needs!!! look at pavillion and starhill.

Now tell me do you think money is not important to girls?
And they're also plenty of nice rich/financial capable guys around who can pampered you better than just sweet empty talks.
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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 1 2009, 12:54 PM)
Now tell me do you think money is not important to girls?
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Nop....
You're confusing luxury with necessity
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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 1 2009, 12:54 PM)
Go out to all the major shopping centre like KLCC, Midvalley, look around, all these places catered for WOMAN! for their shopping needs!!! look at pavillion and starhill.

Now tell me do you think money is not important to girls?
And they're also plenty of nice rich/financial capable guys around who can pampered you better than just sweet empty talks.
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luxury is a want, not a need. not required to survive.

are modest girls who does not indulge in luxury extinct already?

QUOTE(NiceGuyEddie @ Apr 1 2009, 01:02 PM)
Nop....
You're confusing luxury with necessity
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quoted for truth.

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QUOTE(Deimos Tel`Arin @ Apr 1 2009, 01:08 PM)
luxury is a want, not a need. not required to survive.

are modest girls who does not indulge in luxury extinct already?

quoted for truth.
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The existence of all these primary shopping centre proves money is important to girls, and I believe talibans also have female, just because you cannot have it doesnt mean you dont want it. There is also a difference. tongue.gif


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QUOTE(Fruit @ Apr 1 2009, 12:57 PM)
blush.gif moorish, i like ur puppy ~
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thank you biggrin.gif

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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 1 2009, 01:11 PM)
The existence of all these primary shopping centre proves money is important to girls, and I believe talibans also have female, just because you cannot have it doesnt mean you dont want it. There is also a difference. tongue.gif


Added on April 1, 2009, 1:12 pm

thank you biggrin.gif
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well, from my point of view, it just proves that girls' money is the most easiest to be earned. 女人的钱最容易赚
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QUOTE(Deimos Tel`Arin @ Apr 1 2009, 01:14 PM)
女人的钱最容易赚
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but the money are fueled by man rclxms.gif
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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 1 2009, 01:15 PM)
but the money are fueled by man rclxms.gif
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that is correct, like say 99% of the time.

there still exist powerful career girls in their 30's, top manager level, already have own house, own car, etc.

single, not married.

as per the saying goes,

a successful boy means that he is able to generate more than enough revenue for his girl to spend
a successful girl will find such a boy
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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 1 2009, 01:11 PM)
The existence of all these primary shopping centre proves money is important to girls.
Again, you are wrong.
The existence of these stuff are only to milk stupid and gullible rich c*nts.
Since you mentioned starhill and KLCC, i assume you're talking about designer goods.
The products are no way near what it's worth... they're just priced so high because of the brand.
Everyone wants to get rich quick you know? It's sorta a get-rich-quick scheme.

.... only stupid people go for it, in which case it's wemon...
'cos the money are not from them anyway, so they do not know the value on money.
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QUOTE(NiceGuyEddie @ Apr 1 2009, 01:19 PM)
Again, you are wrong.
The existence of these stuff are only to milk stupid and gullible rich c*nts.
Since you mentioned starhill and KLCC, i assume you're talking about designer goods.
The products are no way near what it's worth... they're just priced so high because of the brand.
Everyone wants to get rich quick you know? It's sorta a get-rich-quick scheme.

.... only stupid people go for it, in which case it's wemon...
'cos the money are not from them anyway, so they do not know the value on money.
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so you saying all those people like prime minister, movie director, corp CEOs, lawyers, doctors who drive porsh, ferraris, mercedes, BMW, are all stupid?
All those executive, salesman, clerk who ride honda cub and drive 2nd hand proton are smart?
hmm.gif hmm.gif hmm.gif

You're pathetic, but I sympathize your gf more that is if you able to get one rclxms.gif

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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 1 2009, 01:23 PM)
so you saying all those people who drive porsh, ferraris, mercedes, BMW are all stupid?

i would say that such people are not modest and likes to indulge in luxury.

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these people either cannot afford those more expensive cars, or simply they are contented with what they have.

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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 1 2009, 01:23 PM)
so you saying all those people who drive porsh, ferraris, mercedes, BMW are all stupid?
All those who ride honda cub and drive proton are smart?
hmm.gif  hmm.gif  hmm.gif

You're pathetic, but I sympathize your gf more that is if you able to get one rclxms.gif
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You cannot compare handbags to cars....
Super cars are not expensive becos of looks only...
They are mostly because of performance...

unlike handbags, the functions are all the same.
And to pay 5 or 6 figures for a handbag? yeah, that's pretty stupid.
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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 1 2009, 01:23 PM)
so you saying all those people like prime minister, movie director, corp CEOs, lawyers, doctors who drive porsh, ferraris, mercedes, BMW, are all stupid?
All those executive, salesman, clerk who ride honda cub and drive 2nd hand proton are smart?
hmm.gif  hmm.gif  hmm.gif

You're pathetic, but I sympathize your gf more that is if you able to get one rclxms.gif
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I noticed the girls they have on their side usually look like airheads.

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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 1 2009, 01:23 PM)
so you saying all those people like prime minister, movie director, corp CEOs, lawyers, doctors who drive porsh, ferraris, mercedes, BMW, are all stupid?
high profile figures like prime minister, movie director, corp CEOs dun really have a choice, do they?

lawyers, doctors on the other hand, they can choose to live a modest and low profile life, if they wish to.

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this is called living within their means. they are "smart" for not overspending their limited earnings.

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QUOTE(NiceGuyEddie @ Apr 1 2009, 01:27 PM)
You cannot compare handbags to cars....
Super cars are not expensive becos of looks only...
They are mostly because of performance...

unlike handbags, the functions are all the same.
And to pay 5 or 6 figures for a handbag? yeah, that's pretty stupid.
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you obviously do not know what is lifestyle, if the world were to follow you we would be back at stoneage. You've probably never seen real money in your life. For those who have 30 million in their account what is spending 7k for a handbag? its only 0.02% of their wealth. Dont just assume people who dresses up with designer cloths or bags are dumb, they do so because they can afford to.



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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 1 2009, 01:31 PM)
you obviously do not know what is lifestyle, if the world were to follow you we would be back at stoneage. You've probably never seen real money in your life. For those who have 30 million in their account what is spending 7k for a handbag? its only 0.02% of their wealth. Dont just assume people who dresses up with designer cloths or bags are dumb, they do so because they can afford to.
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they do so because they prefer to indulge in luxury than to use those excess funds on charity.

of course, they are folks who both indulge in luxury, and spend much money on charity.

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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 1 2009, 01:31 PM)
you obviously do not know what is lifestyle, if the world were to follow you we would be back at stoneage. You've probably never seen real money in your life. For those who have 30 million in their account what is spending 7k for a handbag? its only 0.02% of their wealth. Dont just assume people who dresses up with designer cloths or bags are dumb, they do so because they can afford to.
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That's just called materialism.

Anyway Warren Buffet drives an old car, and hardly spends on anything even though he can.

That's one rich guy I respect.
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In the end you can give all your opinion, but you cannot change the world, shopping is synonymous with girls, and shopping needs money. I'm talking in terms of generally woman LOVE shopping. Yes you can give me a few example of who and who or your gf who do not mind being poor. But if you look out at the street, with all the major shopping complex from KLCC catering to the rich to the smaller pudu or komtar or sg wang catering for the lower end, all these places target girls.

Look at facial product frm SK-II to Olay, these are all girls neccesity in life!
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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 1 2009, 01:31 PM)
you obviously do not know what is lifestyle, if the world were to follow you we would be back at stoneage. You've probably never seen real money in your life. For those who have 30 million in their account what is spending 7k for a handbag? its only 0.02% of their wealth. Dont just assume people who dresses up with designer cloths or bags are dumb, they do so because they can afford to.
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For people who can afford, good for them.
There's nothing wrong if that's the case...

But for ppl who can't afford, why go beyond ur means and save up just to buy something which u can do without in the first place?
I'm sure u've heard of bf/gf giving each other designer stuff after few months of ikat perut-ing. It's not like it can change the person's life.
That money would have been better spent elsewhere.

And you wanna talk about people having 30Million in their bank accounts? Ok, here's the problem...
How many people in msia have 30Million? Not a lot...
another question.... How many rich people in msia have 30M in their bank accounts?
Not many at all.... most rich ppl have property over 30M, not cash...

................. and you're telling girls it's ok to be money minded?
How many people are there in Msia? 25Million ?...
ok, for argument's sake... suppose half of that are girls (altho we know this is not true, cos there are more girls than guys, but for arguments' sake... let's set it at 50:50 ratio).... That's 12,500,000 girls............... and you telling them it's ok to be money minded and go for rich guys??
I can honestly tell you you'll be breaking 98% of these girls' hearts when they found out the truth.

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QUOTE(NiceGuyEddie @ Apr 1 2009, 01:42 PM)
For people who can afford, good for them.
There's nothing wrong if that's the case...

But for ppl who can't afford, why go beyond ur means and save up just to buy something which u can do without in the first place?
I'm sure u've heard of bf/gf giving each other designer stuff after few months of ikat perut-ing. It's not like it can change the person's life.
That money would have been better spent elsewhere.

And you wanna talk about people having 30Million in their bank accounts? Ok, here's the problem...
How many people in msia have 30Million? Not a lot...
another question.... How many rich people in msia have 30M in their bank accounts?
Not many at all.... most rich ppl have property over 30M, not cash...

................. and you're telling girls it's ok to be money minded?
How many people are there in Msia? 25Million ?...
ok, for argument's sake... suppose half of that are girls (altho we know this is not true, cos there are more girls than guys, but for arguments' sake... let's set it at 50:50 ratio).... That's 12,500,000 girls............... and you telling them it's ok to be money minded and go for rich guys??
I can honestly tell you you'll be breaking 98% of these girls' hearts when they found out the truth.
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The topic was money is important to girl, and I'm trying to point out to you that, that is the fact of life. You're trying to convince me or whichever girl you're trying to con that this isnt true. Of coz you can quote me Mother teresa disagree with me, but then again I'm sure you're not trying to marry a person like her.

Todays world security = money, be it health, places you stay, schools you go to, places you hangout, jobs you take, the world are slave to money. As mention a thousand times already, how rich, now that is up to individuals taste or appetite.

If money is not important, why do we send our children to extra classes and hope he becomes a doctor or a pilot? why not tell him to go potong susu and live an organic life? why do you work and hope to be promoted? why do you complaint that your salary is never enuf?



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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 1 2009, 01:48 PM)
The topic was money is important to girl, and I'm trying to point out to you that, that is the fact of life. You're trying to convince me or whichever girl you're trying to con that this isnt true. Of coz you can quote me Mother teresa disagree with me, but then again I'm sure you're not trying to marry a person like her.

Todays world security = money, be it health, places you stay, schools you go to, places you hangout, jobs you take, the world are slave to money. As mention a thousand times already, how rich, now that is up to individuals taste or appetite.

If money is not important, why do we send our children to extra classes and hope he becomes a doctor or a pilot? why not tell him to go potong susu and live an organic life? why do you work and hope to be promoted? why do you complaint that your salary is never enuf?
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Money is important to a certain extent.
Money is not the deciding factor in life like what u're saying go for the richest guy etc...

So many things are better in life than money.
Love, trust and friendship for example...
People will kill own family members, betray good friends bcos of money.
IMHO finding people whom we can trust and love is way more important than money.
Money can be made.
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Who doesnt wanna be rich? everyone wanna be rich and that was the whole purpose why we study so hard, work so hard and hope to be somebody one day.

But not everybody makes it in life, the girl who are fortunate to have the chance to marry a rich man, so why not?

The aim is to have a lot of money, but how or what person it changes you is totally a different story, You can be rich but a stuck up or you can be rich but down to earth but unfortunately is not covered in this thread. You've to start your own thread about this topic.

In chinese tradition marriage does not contain just the 2 of you. Marriage you've to think of your kids, your parents and your bro and sister, how it affect their lifes. That is also the reason why you work so hard to make money so you can give the best to your kids.

Anyway for those who think money is not important in marriage definately are those single person or those who had just fallen in love and still in honeymoon mode. Wait till you wake up.

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They're my precious, you would have to kill me first flex.gif
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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 1 2009, 02:01 PM)
Who doesnt wanna be rich? everyone wanna be rich and that was the whole purpose why we study so hard, work so hard and hope to be somebody one day.

But not everybody makes it in life, the girl who are fortunate to have the chance to marry a rich man, so why not?

The aim is to have a lot of money, but how or what person it changes you is totally a different story, You can be rich but a stuck up or you can be rich but down to earth but unfortunately is not covered in this thread. You've to start your own thread about this topic.

In chinese tradition marriage does not contain just the 2 of you. Marriage you've to think of your kids, your parents and your bro and sister, how it affect their lifes. That is also the reason why you work so hard to make money so you can give the best to your kids.

Anyway for those who think money is not important in marriage definately are those single person or those who had just fallen in love and still in honeymoon mode. Wait till you wake up.
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Not everybody wanna be super rich...
and no, we don't study so we can buy gucci or lamborghini.
more like we study so we can lead a better and easier life...
Being a boss in the office rather than flipping burgers by the road side.
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QUOTE(NiceGuyEddie @ Apr 1 2009, 02:17 PM)
Not everybody wanna be super rich...
and no, we don't study so we can buy gucci or lamborghini.
more like we study so we can lead a better and easier life...
Being a boss in the office rather than flipping burgers by the road side.
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actually, being a boss in the office does not necessarily mean a better and easier life lmao.

that boss could be badly in debt. thumbup.gif

on the other hand, the guy flipping burgers by the road side could be leading a happy life every day. rclxms.gif

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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 1 2009, 01:11 PM)
The existence of all these primary shopping centre proves money is important to girls, and I believe talibans also have female, just because you cannot have it doesnt mean you dont want it. There is also a difference. tongue.gif


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FArk u la.... gals so materialistic.....

not thing can buy with money. love cant buy in starhill , pavillion and etc.....
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QUOTE(Bees @ Apr 1 2009, 02:23 PM)
FArk u la.... gals so materialistic.....

not thing can buy with money. love cant buy in starhill , pavillion and etc.....
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sweat.gif no nid so rude, calm down........ sweat.gif This world is very realistic and materialistic....

For guys,
No money no amoi, so they study hard and work hard...to earn as much as they can

For gals,
(Maybe some of u all read my topic b4)...u can seen that a polite gal that have a lot promise to me...at last also become money minded people..
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QUOTE(Bees @ Apr 1 2009, 02:23 PM)
FArk u la.... gals so materialistic.....

not thing can buy with money. love cant buy in starhill , pavillion and etc.....
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Money can't buy love but it can buy 'love'.  laugh.gif  laugh.gif  laugh.gif

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Money cant buy love but can make love......

guys use whole life to work and earn money,

what gals know??? spread legs only la....!!!

I am maybe rude for my speech here as i am serious about this as i experience this type of gals many time and i hate that
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QUOTE(NiceGuyEddie @ Apr 1 2009, 02:17 PM)
Not everybody wanna be super rich...
and no, we don't study so we can buy gucci or lamborghini.
more like we study so we can lead a better and easier life...
Being a boss in the office rather than flipping burgers by the road side.
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Can you highlight to me in where you read I wrote about hoping to be super rich?

Girls have a unique ability to reach to your dream financial level much faster, just because they use the kers doesnt imply it is wrong or immoral to do so. As mention in first post, thousands of years ago girl had choosen guys for her/children security and well being, and we will continue to do so whether you like it or not.

They will be guys who will continue to offer girls all the luxury she can indulge in, you can continue to argue and deny this fact but this is happening, had been happening and will continue to be happening. So I suggest you work harder and not stand to lose out in life.

QUOTE(Bees @ Apr 1 2009, 02:23 PM)
FArk u la.... gals so materialistic.....

not thing can buy with money. love cant buy in starhill , pavillion and etc.....
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you must be a retard or you worry your gf learn the truth so she dump you? thats why you so emotional.
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actually, being a boss in the office does not necessarily mean a better and easier life lmao.

that boss could be badly in debt.  thumbup.gif

on the other hand, the guy flipping burgers by the road side could be leading a happy life every day.  rclxms.gif
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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 1 2009, 02:33 PM)
Can you highlight to me in where you read I wrote about hoping to be super rich?

Girls have a unique ability to reach to your dream financial level much faster, just because they use the kers doesnt imply it is wrong or immoral to do so. As mention in first post, thousands of years ago girl had choosen guys for her/children security and well being, and we will continue to do so whether you like it or not.

They will be guys who will continue to offer girls all the luxury she can indulge in, you can continue to argue and deny this fact but this is happening, had been happening and will continue to be happening. So I suggest you work harder and not stand to lose out in life.
you must be a retard or you worry your gf learn the truth so she dump you? thats why you so emotional.
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The... i wanna buy all things in pavillion and KLCC part.
and also the i want my spouse to have 30M in his bank part.
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blink.gif this world is very realistic 1, even there's no way to let gal choose guy, this is the world that... guy should choose gal.. smile.gif gals are always choose guy that has financial stable.....Now the guy should choose those gal tat able to support everything not even housework too.. biggrin.gif
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QUOTE(NiceGuyEddie @ Apr 1 2009, 02:34 PM)
The... i wanna buy all things in pavillion and KLCC part.
and also the i want my spouse to have 30M in his bank part.
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Go take linguistic tuition from GRO, and re-read what I wrote.

I gave the example of pavillion to prove to you that shopping is important and money is behind shopping.
About the 30million coz yu mention that buying luxury is dumb.

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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 1 2009, 02:33 PM)
Can you highlight to me in where you read I wrote about hoping to be super rich?

Girls have a unique ability to reach to your dream financial level much faster, just because they use the kers doesnt imply it is wrong or immoral to do so. As mention in first post, thousands of years ago girl had choosen guys for her/children security and well being, and we will continue to do so whether you like it or not.

They will be guys who will continue to offer girls all the luxury she can indulge in, you can continue to argue and deny this fact but this is happening, had been happening and will continue to be happening. So I suggest you work harder and not stand to lose out in life.
you must be a retard or you worry your gf learn the truth so she dump you? thats why you so emotional.
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I dont have gf and i do not need.

guys can live without woman but woman cant live without fark
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QUOTE(Bees @ Apr 1 2009, 02:36 PM)
I dont have gf and i do not need.

guys can live without woman but woman cant live without fark
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sweat.gif sweat.gif no nid so rude gua =.=" rolleyes.gif care ur manners....we all discussing only.. no nid too emotional......
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QUOTE(Bees @ Apr 1 2009, 02:36 PM)
I dont have gf and i do not need.

guys can live without woman but woman cant live without fark
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correction, guys like you cannot and will not get a gf rclxms.gif thats why you;re so emotionally filled.
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QUOTE(Fruit @ Apr 1 2009, 02:37 PM)
sweat.gif  sweat.gif no nid so rude gua =.="  rolleyes.gif care ur manners....we all discussing only.. no nid too emotional......
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Sorry i know i am quite emo......

sorry moorish....
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hands.gif *hug moorish dog* hands.gif


Added on April 1, 2009, 2:40 pm
QUOTE(Bees @ Apr 1 2009, 02:39 PM)
Sorry i know i am quite emo......

sorry moorish....
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smile.gif if wan emo, i should be the 1 emo 1st....as u can seen my personal topic at the CC... smile.gif

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QUOTE(Fruit @ Apr 1 2009, 02:39 PM)
hands.gif *hug moorish dog* hands.gif
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hug?? no need
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QUOTE(Bees @ Apr 1 2009, 02:39 PM)
Sorry i know i am quite emo......

sorry moorish....
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no problem we're all just discussin only
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but it is true, moneycan buy love

how long u can buy?

if 1 days u r dead, ur love will go pray 4 u?

this the questiioon
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hug?? no need
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sweat.gif i'm hugging moorish's dog =.=" why no need -,-
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sweat.gif i'm hugging moorish's dog =.=" why no need -,-
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i thought u going hug me.......
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does the word contentment mean anything to materialistic boys and girls at all? sweat.gif

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lolita, are you pure chinese or mixed?
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QUOTE(Bees @ Apr 1 2009, 02:42 PM)
but it is true, moneycan buy love

how long u can buy?

if 1 days u r dead, ur love will go pray 4 u?

this the questiioon
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it is much easier to generate love with money, you;ve chase girl b4 in your life I'm sure and tell me is it easier to chase a girl and melt her heart if you can buy her Diamond, buy her the latest handphones, the limited edition LV bags, spoil and pampered her with luxury dining and SPAs, or you think by just empty sweet talking?
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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 1 2009, 02:47 PM)
it is much easier to generate love with money, you;ve chase girl b4 in your life I'm sure and tell me is it easier to chase a girl and melt her heart if you can buy her Diamond, buy her the latest handphones, the limited edition LV bags, spoil and pampered her with luxury dining and SPAs, or you think by just empty sweet talking?
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yeah, but sometime we can use our both hand to make something for the love 1, i think it is more meaningfull

last time i used to make thing for gift to my ex but end up said cheap la.... not nice la.....

i was demotivated as i use up few weeks to do.....
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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 1 2009, 02:47 PM)
it is much easier to generate love with money, you;ve chase girl b4 in your life I'm sure and tell me is it easier to chase a girl and melt her heart if you can buy her Diamond, buy her the latest handphones, the limited edition LV bags, spoil and pampered her with luxury dining and SPAs, or you think by just empty sweet talking?
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erm, those are luxurious, materialistic pursuits. sweat.gif

not every girl is like that, okay? rclxms.gif

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QUOTE(Bees @ Apr 1 2009, 02:49 PM)
yeah, but sometime we can use our both hand to make something for the love 1, i think it is more meaningfull

last time i used to make thing for gift to my ex but end up said cheap la.... not nice la.....

i was demotivated as i use up few weeks to do.....
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the problem is you think it is meaningful, but to most girl an LV or tiffany would be our dream
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QUOTE(Bees @ Apr 1 2009, 02:49 PM)
yeah, but sometime we can use our both hand to make something for the love 1, i think it is more meaningfull

last time i used to make thing for gift to my ex but end up said cheap la.... not nice la.....

i was demotivated as i use up few weeks to do.....
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true.

but not every girl will appreciate what you have done.

especially materialistic girls who indulge in luxury and seeks to life a luxurious and materialistic lifestyle.

find a girl that is contented to be with you.
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QUOTE(Deimos Tel`Arin @ Apr 1 2009, 02:50 PM)
erm, those are luxurious, materialistic pursuits.  sweat.gif

not every girl is like that, okay?  rclxms.gif
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The question is who do you think will get the girl faster if lets say the both the man look equally handsome and same quality character.
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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 1 2009, 02:51 PM)
the problem is you think it is meaningful, but to most girl an LV or tiffany would be our dream
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incorrect.

the correct word to use should be: biggrin.gif

but to materialistic girls an LV or tiffany would be our dream

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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 1 2009, 02:51 PM)
the problem is you think it is meaningful, but to most girl an LV or tiffany would be our dream
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but the gals nvr think of how many % of salary will encoutered for their bf?

they didnt think how the bf work condition, gals are selfish.....

I can see from SPA some guys their are relaxing without gals calling them......

dream is 1 thing, reality is 1 thing....

let said u r my gf, i like ferrari then u hav to buy 4 me in order make me happy?
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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 1 2009, 02:53 PM)
The question is who do you think will get the girl faster if lets say the both the man look equally handsome and same quality character.
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that strongly depends on how materialistic the girl is.

if the girl is 100% materialistic, she will pick the rich guy.

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QUOTE(Deimos Tel`Arin @ Apr 1 2009, 02:53 PM)
that strongly depends on how materialistic the girl is.

if the girl is 100% materialistic, she will pick the rich guy.
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i also dunno...

sometime gals think what i dunno...
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lmao... moorish ignoring me
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The question is, are those materialistic girls mostly pretty/hot/sexy?
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The question is, are those materialistic girls mostly pretty/hot/sexy?
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all la.....
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QUOTE(dawnreaver @ Apr 1 2009, 03:06 PM)
The question is, are those materialistic girls mostly pretty/hot/sexy?
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not necessarily pretty / hot / sexy.

most of the time, it is they themselves who they think they are pretty / hot / sexy only.

they are so full of themselves lol. rclxms.gif

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I find it surprising that the thread title is even a subject of discussion. That girls are money minded, especially those in the city, is something everyone knows but apparently few admit. Why that is so is something I don't quite understand. And I'm not even saying this to criticize girls, for the demands of modern-day living and the natural desire of humans (both male and female btw) to live a better life surely propels us all to try to gain more of the ability to achieve that, and that ability comes in the form of money.

I do not know if the OP is a male or female, but that is actually quite irrelevant. He/she simply stated something that's been true for centuries. Yet, I would opine that all is not lost for us poorer guys out there, for every rule has its exception. Different girls attach different weights to the value of money relative to their expectation of a good life, and this can range from wild obsession to mere indifference. Don't try to fight it or deny it, for there is indeed a market for every type of girl out there. It is up to us guys to find one who places the meter at a realistic value and something that we individually can achieve. Why worry about the rest?
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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 1 2009, 01:31 PM)
you obviously do not know what is lifestyle, if the world were to follow you we would be back at stoneage. You've probably never seen real money in your life. For those who have 30 million in their account what is spending 7k for a handbag? its only 0.02% of their wealth. Dont just assume people who dresses up with designer cloths or bags are dumb, they do so because they can afford to.
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QUOTE(Ghost-Squad @ Apr 1 2009, 06:09 AM)
Your sister ? Hmm. Maybe a bit but still ok lar
Yes, I can't deny that. But in this situation, we can't put the blame on one side only.
Both cause this thing to happen, the girl is willing to do anything for money and the guy
is desperate for sex. So what happen ?

It's going to be a trade...... Money for sex (boys) and sex for money (girls)
Then..... u faham faham lar.....
Sometimes the girl is willing to have it, so it's not a rape case (mahu sama mahu)
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 06:23 PM)
From the topic http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/967243 it made me think deep why are girl money minded.

Thousands of years ago, money do not exist, girl will choose their partner base on security, they look for well built male who can protect them from wild animals and wild man or whatever wild things,they're vulnerable when they;re pregnant, and the years when they need to raise children. This has been genetic in female.

Fast forward to today, we no longer require mr. muscle to protect us, security took a new meaning, security = money. So girl will marry a guy when he is rich and this is why the quote ada wang ada amoi.

So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice.
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QUOTE(trinityz @ Apr 1 2009, 03:52 PM)
girls are money minded (even though they said they're not) and guys are sex minded. fact of life. full stop.
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Guys are also money minded to be exact. We buy so many things and what makes our world goes round, is that we impress girls with the materials we have (ask any experienced male e.g our dad and uncles) and trade it for sex indirectly. I think, assume here, if we vice-versa both men and women, women too will lure us men for sex. I think materialism boost sex appeal in a way. If girls are aiming at our materials, indirectly we're to blame because we're the one who provide the material for them to crave on. As the saying goes, no money, no sex. If we were to blame money, blame sex too. Unfortunately, we can't put a blame on sex. So, might as well don't blame money.

Guess the only way, is to accept this trade of interest and don't whine about any loss or losses...

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Money minded is ok, but be proud of it is not ok.
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QUOTE(POYOZER @ Apr 1 2009, 04:10 PM)
Money minded is ok, but be proud of it is not ok.
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If we're the one earning it, then priding over our loots and wealth is fine. But if you're tagging along with my pride and boast about it, then of course its wrong.

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QUOTE(Tawara_Bunshichi @ Apr 1 2009, 04:13 PM)
If we're the one earning it, then priding over our loots and wealth is fine. But if you're tagging along with my pride and boast about it, then of course its wrong.
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Sorry man, what you trying to say now is different case than the original discussion.
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QUOTE(POYOZER @ Apr 1 2009, 04:19 PM)
Sorry man, what you trying to say now is different case than the original discussion.
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Talking about women i believe?
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QUOTE(Tawara_Bunshichi @ Apr 1 2009, 04:20 PM)
Talking about women i believe?
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the original discussion was about how materialistic girls in general are. thumbup.gif

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QUOTE(Deimos Tel`Arin @ Apr 1 2009, 04:23 PM)
the original discussion was about how materialistic girls in general are.  thumbup.gif
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QUOTE(Tawara_Bunshichi @ Apr 1 2009, 04:25 PM)
Well, we all are. Just gotta live the day and earn our cents and right.
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Before that, are you working already?

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Before that, are you working already?
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QUOTE(Tawara_Bunshichi @ Apr 1 2009, 04:29 PM)
Yeah?
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Do you have experience dealing with materialistic girls?
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Why not? They're still human?

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QUOTE(Tawara_Bunshichi @ Apr 1 2009, 04:33 PM)
Why not? They're still human?
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QUOTE(Deimos Tel`Arin @ Apr 1 2009, 02:53 PM)
incorrect.

the correct word to use should be:  biggrin.gif

but to materialistic girls an LV or tiffany would be our dream

rclxms.gif
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I totally disagree, which girl do not dream of a diamond engagement ring?
which girl do not like beautiful cloths?
which girl do not like shopping?
So girls who like LV or diamond are automatically classified into materialistic?

QUOTE(Bees @ Apr 1 2009, 02:53 PM)
but the gals nvr think of how many % of salary will encoutered for their bf?

they didnt think how the bf work condition, gals are selfish.....

I can see from SPA some guys their are relaxing without gals calling them......

dream is 1 thing, reality is 1 thing....

let said u r my gf, i like ferrari then u hav to buy 4 me in order make me happy?
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This is not call selfish, this are only personal standard, just like you do not marry fat ugly girl can I say you're selfish?

QUOTE(Deimos Tel`Arin @ Apr 1 2009, 02:53 PM)
that strongly depends on how materialistic the girl is.

if the girl is 100% materialistic, she will pick the rich guy.
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Again I disagree, why the girl could be thinking she can give her children better life, or she could be thinking of her parents or bro n sister.

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One of the richest man in Malaysia, he didn’t buy branded things. His primary car is just Proton Perdana. Half of his income goes to charity.  thumbup.gif
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we're talking interm of general, dun gimme one person and conclude everyone is like that, then it would be easy to prove me wrong that mother teresa do not wear LV or a tiffany diamond ring tongue.gif

Cars like ferraris are millionaires toys, they exist because millionaires buys them and that is the standard of life, not by your quote of someone you know who are rich but thrifty.

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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 1 2009, 05:40 PM)
I totally disagree, which girl do not dream of a diamond engagement ring?
which girl do not like beautiful cloths?
which girl do not like shopping?
So girls who like LV or diamond are automatically classified into materialistic?
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Not every girl the same if u understand what im talking
give u choose love and diamond ring,
many will choose love
They immature? Nope, they just know what life is about

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Not every girl the same if u understand what im talking
give u choose love and diamond ring,
many will choose love
They immature? Nope, they just know what life is about
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hehehe...those are girl whom had not choosen yet so dun gimme those they know about life, ask those matured and had choosen like her mom.

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actually not every gulz is like dis... bt around me have dis such of gulz...== is it impossible 4 gulz dint use guys @ bf money...???
but i think hv to depand...
based on the ori topic... dis kind of gulz hv 2 reason to be like dis...1) really poor 2) dint love the guy at all

agree..???
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girls like rich men because it's in our genes.

in the animal kingdom, some male animals will build nests as part of a courting ritual. The female will then choose her potential mate based on the size of their nest. The bigger the nest the higher the chance to be selected. An example of the top of my head is the dung beetle xD Go google it! biggrin.gif

In the human world, the size of the nest translates to amount of money. Everything is so material today. Which girl wouldn't want an awesome nest (mansion) to raise her family in. It would ensure her children's future too (university, health, food etc)

It is part of nature biggrin.gif
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QUOTE(*baob3i* @ Apr 1 2009, 07:13 PM)
actually not every gulz is like dis... bt around me have dis such of gulz...== is it impossible 4 gulz dint use guys @ bf money...???
but i think hv to depand...
based on the ori topic... dis kind of gulz hv 2 reason to be like dis...1) really poor 2) dint love the guy at all

agree..???
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they're girls whom are purely out to get a guys money with absolutely no love involve, but they're also guys whom purely want to get into the girls pant with absolutely no love involve.

They're also girl whom are attracted to his money and soon grow to love him, but they're also guy whom are attracted to her body and soon grow to love her.

Human are complex thing, when girl wanna marry a guy, ok lemme put it this way, a mature girl when considering to marry a guy, security=money is always one of the top priority.
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post Apr 2 2009, 12:25 AM

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Guys and girls, ladies and gentlemen. It seems useless to debate with TS, because she is spoil and corrupted.
Sorry TS, i have no bad intention but that's what i think.

Remember that money can be gone as fast as u get it. Maybe today u're rich, but it can be totally upside down
the next day. It's not like love, respect and trust.

That's all i wanna say..... Seriously it's useless to debate with TS, the more we say, the more she will answer with
her corrupted opinions.
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I agree.. Don't think I wanna bother debating my points to her anymore when she ignores and keeps repeating the same thing that poor guys also cheat bla bla so might as well choose a rich guy.

She can't even answer my question to her regarding why she can't work hard to be as rich as she wants, instead of taking the easy way out by leeching some guy's hard earned money (or his parents).

Girls, I just wanna say that most guys will have zero respect for you if you think like the TS. If they are smart, they can see through your money mindedness and will despise you. Of course if you're lucky, you will still manage to trick some stupid rich guy into loving you and marrying you but other people around you can see your shameful intentions. If you want to be rich, WORK for it. Be a modern girl that does not need to depend on a guy. Don't go back to the caveman era where women are disrespected and degraded. Its ok to set some standards for your husband, such as being responsible, able to keep a steady job, able to earn enough to take care of your kids etc. But to insist your husband earns like 10k/month is just shameful and unfair. You don't need 10k/month to support your kids. You need 10k/month to buy LV bags and bling bling. Again, if you want to be rich, WORK for it, not marry a rich guy.


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QUOTE(Ghost-Squad @ Mar 31 2009, 10:09 PM)
Guys and girls, ladies and gentlemen. It seems useless to debate with TS, because she is spoil and corrupted.
Sorry TS, i have no bad intention but that's what i think.

Remember that money can be gone as fast as u get it. Maybe today u're rich, but it can be totally upside down
the next day. It's not like love, respect and trust.

That's all i wanna say..... Seriously it's useless to debate with TS, the more we say, the more she will answer with
her corrupted opinions.


QUOTE(parsona @ Apr 2 2009, 12:25 AM)
I agree.. Don't think I wanna bother debating my points to her anymore when she ignores and keeps repeating the same thing that poor guys also cheat bla bla so might as well choose a rich guy. 

She can't even answer my question to her regarding why she can't work hard to be as rich as she wants, instead of taking the easy way out by leeching some guy's hard earned money (or his parents).

Girls, I just wanna say that most guys will have zero respect for you if you think like the TS.  If they are smart, they can see through your money mindedness and will despise you.  Of course if you're lucky, you will still manage to trick some stupid rich guy into loving you and marrying you but other people around you can see your shameful intentions.  If you want to be rich, WORK for it.  Be a modern girl that does not need to depend on a guy.  Don't go back to the caveman era where women are disrespected and degraded.  Its ok to set some standards for your husband, such as being responsible, able to keep a steady job, able to earn enough to take care of your kids etc.  But to insist your husband earns like 10k/month is just shameful and unfair.  You don't need 10k/month to support your kids.  You need 10k/month to buy LV bags and bling bling.  Again, if you want to be rich, WORK for it, not marry a rich guy.
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both post quoted for truth.

my conclusion,

TS is an extremely materialistic girl.

boys take care not to find girls with similar mind set like her.

i am done voicing out my opinions as well.

apparently, the term "contentment is happiness" means nothing to her.

poor girl is unable to differentiate the simple difference between luxury and necessity.

god bless the boy who decides to propose and marry her.
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QUOTE(parsona @ Apr 2 2009, 12:25 AM)
She can't even answer my question to her regarding why she can't work hard to be as rich as she wants, instead of taking the easy way out by leeching some guy's hard earned money (or his parents).

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The answer had been repeated too many times, its just that you're lazy to go back reading it. I've never mention about no need study and just wait for a rich person and grab. This thread is about marrying a poorer or richer person, there is a choice involve here beside your career. If based on your perception all girls who marry rich are casted materialistic then all the rich people are doom!

Lets analyse how attractive you are during proposal:
So you're the type of man

that insist your wife should share equal burden into raising the kid,
Go work and find money if she wants a diamond ring
if she even mention to you LV or diamond she is branded as materialistic
be contended and should feel lucky she even get someone to proposed to her.
Rich people are pure evil, they will flirt, so you dun intend to be rich one day.

Well Thank god I dont have a husband like you rclxm9.gif

And what if at the same time a young doctor came and propose to your gf, if she chooses the doctor she is materialistic? of coz in your mind she is. Coz you're loser!

The way you put it, marrying a rich man are considered materialistic, are you saying all the rich people in the world married materialistic woman with no love involve? I really pity all those young engineers, architect, doctors, entrepreneur's if life is so misearable that in their world love cease to exist. Then we better tell our children not to be rich or somebody because its hell hahahaha.

What you phail to understand about human,

Male are attracted to beautiful/sexy female
Female are attracted to mature/rich/understanding/faithful/responsible/romantic/caring/handsome male

If girl go with handsome guy, I bet you'll say he is playboy.

I think you're just trying to con some girls with your lazy attitude, and trying to scare them rich people are all evil and you would be casted as a materialistic b***h.... pure nonsense, you're just sour grape.

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morning moorish, morining to all
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QUOTE(Bees @ Apr 2 2009, 08:55 AM)
morning moorish, morining to all
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morning morning
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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 2 2009, 08:59 AM)
morning morning
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how are you? still think u gals are the best?

but i think man are like animal today...........
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QUOTE(Bees @ Apr 2 2009, 09:04 AM)
how are you? still think u gals are the best?

but i think man are like animal today...........
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This thread is not about girl or man are better, its not a pissing contest.

Just that many people brand a woman materialistic when they've rich husband, if as love do not exist in the rich world. I think its a propaganda so the poorer ones dont have headache
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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 2 2009, 09:07 AM)
This thread is not about girl or man are better, its not a pissing contest.

Just that many people brand a woman materialistic when they've rich husband, if as love do not exist in the rich world. I think its a propaganda so the  poorer ones dont have headache
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Ya, actually it is related....

Guys will like to spend more if they really get into the gals.

Sometime guys will feel bored as they spend too much time with the gals.....

woman materialistic??? some gals willing sell body for some price, what can u said?
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QUOTE(Bees @ Apr 2 2009, 09:17 AM)
Ya, actually it is related....

Guys will like to spend more if they really get into the gals.

Sometime guys will feel bored as they spend too much time with the gals.....

woman materialistic??? some gals willing sell body for some price, what can u said?
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OF coz they're all kinda people that make up this world, those that sell their body, those that take drugs, those that kill, but they're also people like mother teresa.....they're devils and so they're aslo saints, so whats the point? what are you're trying to prove?

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smile.gif I'm agreed that girls quite have money minded. Coz they wan rely to the guys in the future. smile.gif like my love story, money can change and breach the gal's promise eventhough it was a promise, if got money, they will say..."THIS IS ANOTHER STORY" smile.gif so that , they still happy and comfortable that already breached their own rule and promises that they made b4...
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QUOTE(Fruit @ Apr 2 2009, 09:34 AM)
smile.gif I'm agreed that girls quite have money minded. Coz they wan rely to the guys in the future.  smile.gif like my love story, money can change and breach the gal's promise eventhough it was a promise, if got money, they will say..."THIS IS ANOTHER STORY"  smile.gif so that , they still happy and comfortable that already breached their own rule and promises that they made b4...
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thats why I say with money, it is easy to make a girl happy, so this is the world, actually not only girl, even man and this is why the world is so corrupted. you can bend people with money.

Old chinese saying

有钱能使鬼推磨

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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 06:23 PM)
From the topic http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/967243 it made me think deep why are girl money minded.

Thousands of years ago, money do not exist, girl will choose their partner base on security, they look for well built male who can protect them from wild animals and wild man or whatever wild things,they're vulnerable when they;re pregnant, and the years when they need to raise children. This has been genetic in female.

Fast forward to today, we no longer require mr. muscle to protect us, security took a new meaning, security = money. So girl will marry a guy when he is rich and this is why the quote ada wang ada amoi.

So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice.
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you are CHEAP.
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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 2 2009, 09:44 AM)
thats why I say with money, it is easy to make a girl happy, so this is the world, actually not only girl, even man and this is why the world is so corrupted. you can bend people with money.

Old chinese saying

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nod.gif 99% lo, blink.gif but money can't change my mind too. Only my beloved will have tis right to change my mind smile.gif
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QUOTE(EastSoil @ Apr 2 2009, 09:49 AM)
you are CHEAP.
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If I'm cheap I would be with a poor man right? hence you;re cheap I'm expensive rclxms.gif

QUOTE(Fruit @ Apr 2 2009, 09:49 AM)
nod.gif 99% lo,  blink.gif but money can't change my mind too. Only my beloved will have tis right to change my mind  smile.gif
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I believe anyone anything has a price if proposed at the right time
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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 2 2009, 09:51 AM)
If I'm cheap I would be with a poor man right? hence you;re cheap I'm expensive rclxms.gif
I believe anyone anything has a price if proposed at the right time
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smile.gif i already fed up with those ppl betray own personality included my ex, i will won't to let myself bcome 1 of them.
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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 2 2009, 09:34 AM)
because it bothers you she is poor in class
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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 2 2009, 09:51 AM)
If I'm cheap I would be with a poor man right? hence you;re cheap I'm expensive rclxms.gif


He was obviously talking about your dignity.

Personally I do not mind if a girl goes for a rich guy. Provided she is willing to work a little for the family rather than merely leeching off her husband.

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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 2 2009, 09:51 AM)
If I'm cheap I would be with a poor man right? hence you;re cheap I'm expensive rclxms.gif
I believe anyone anything has a price if proposed at the right time
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Straight forward question. are you money minded?
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 06:23 PM)
..and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice.
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Totally disagree with you.. They are not immature, I only can say they treasure bonding and feeling more than money. even if you are rich, can you list out your true best friend? The friends that wont betray you no matter what. Friend that is so close like the other half of you..

Maybe people who're so lucky they never experience some pain and sour in life, or maybe they're some people who're from comfort zone so they dont appreciate or care about "feelings" anymore.

Money alone is not enough to build a family, you have money and married then settle everything with money. You think your children will be happy from the inside when lack of parents love? They'll just envy why other family although poor but they're happy family, happy people.

People who choose love and relationship first is not immature. Because they know feelings and those happy memories are things you cannot buy with the dam money.
Of course, they also know without money love cant go on either. Here's one thing, money you can earn through work, but feeling you can buy with money. It follows you throughout your WHOLE LIFE. This explains the situation for celebrity like Britney Spears.


Think about this situation - You marry a rich husband, suddenly 1 day he bankrupt, lend money from ah long, then runaway leaving you and your child. You're left with no money, no husband, few child to raise and you're lost. Cuz you're so proud with your rich husband and now u're on ground 0, what should you do?? No true love cuz you chosemoney and no one to help you. Your rich friend wont help you cuz you're no longer rich. hmm.gif

~Just my 2 cents, no offence laugh.gif My advice - True love + stable income. We're all educated, it'll be a waste if we just marry a rich guy and do nothing. IMO people like that makes no contribution to the society = rubbish. So, I say, we work, we care for our lover, we have enough money, happy family. Even if he's down, im still able to support myself. I wont regret if I did my part well. I still have my best friends. Friend who accept me for who i am not my money.

I have few male friends who're rich, and girls around him just want his money. He's quite sad about it and very defensive against women. All they want is a girl who loves him not aiming his money unsure.gif Say no to money slave!! thumbup.gif
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the common formula -
beautiful gurl for rich man..
so if u are not beuatiful or rich, u have to settle down..
don't blame rich man looking for beautiful gurl because beautiful gurl also looking for rich man..

(no matter if the beautiful gurl/rich man is bad because that is not 1st impression, perhaps will be considered later)

and sometimes non-rich man looking for beautiful gurl.....
and non-beautiful gurl looking for rich man....
but u must have good internal qualities to win because u are not in the common formula..




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I think you're confusing yourself and everyone here, happiness and disastrous marriage has no limit to only the rich, the poor suffers equally on this aspect. They're poor man who gamble heavily, involve in illegal activity or drugs. But there is an advantage in the rich

If the husband womanize the rich wife can still enjoy spending his money
If the poor man womanize the wife need to continue working to keep the family afloat now which is worse?

Why do you keep stressing there is no love in rich people?

They're unhappy family/children/wife/husband with the poor and rich, but i find the rich always have a better advantage.

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Cuz most of the rich men I saw is kaki perempuan? 8 out of 10 always go out curi makan still tell us how shiok it is.. they say i love my wife but i just want to test my power rolleyes.gif lols ~

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