self proclaim playboy? but wonder what kinda quality chicks you're hanging out wit    

why you guys so extreme one ah , if a girl choose to marry the richer dude then she must be a whatever, since you guys are not playing a fair game and always judging to the extreme end lemme give an extreme example:

Your future daughter is dating 2 guys
A a jobless 30 years old SPM cert, whom the last job pays 1.5k/mth, never had a job lasting more than 9 mths, but both of them deeply inlove.

B a successful doctor, current salary 25k/mth 30 years old, head over heals over your daughter, and have been chasing her since highschool. Will immediately buy her a bungalow at damansara cash, a BMW, a posh wedding, and 1million FD so she wont feel he is playing her.

which would be your choice? would you allow your daughter to marry A?

ts , the avatar is you? then you will fail in searching rich hubby. good luck

they can, but they will fail

I think you phail to read post #1

1st I'm already married
2nd The girl had a choice to marry the rich dude and that was the discussion about.

Is it so wrong if the girl put security/financial stability as high priority? all the while I'm not talking about aiming for millionaire, I'm only saying to choose a more financial capable guy, a 10k/mth income, some saving is rich to me, so I feel secure to have children with him and I hope my children will have a better life. Does this automatically makes the person bad?

No, I'd like you to be more realistic and straight to the point, by letting your men know the consequences if he suddenly loses all his wealth and you're not there to support him.

You would?
It's not 1+1=2. It's much more complex than that.

I'd say the wrong thing is to be lazy, incompetent, and do nothing in hard times. You would give up your GF so soon and do NOTHING to improve your life side by side?

EDIT: So men should work all day long and women do their household thingy? Sorry I think both partners should give equal effort in raising the child or when living together. I always treat women equally so this is how i roll.

EDIT2: I'm spending my love, my time, with a COMPANION for the rest of the life. I'm not "BUYING" a pet that provides me sex and children. Get mein drift?

I fully agree with this quote of yours

A lot of people here take things so straight forward without considering the complexity of human, just because I would choose A they prejudge that I'm money minded like a parasite sucking the life out from my husband. But thats not true in reality, I'm thrifty and would rather save money for the children later in life.

I choosed a MYVI instead of CRV, coz i think car is a waste of money buying expensive cars just to show off.
I choosed fake LV instead of the real thing, coz I dun believe in buying a 7K bag, for the purposed of showing off.

I dun mind going shopping on my husbands honda cub its convenient, now how many chinese girl willing to do that? you tell me.

Girl choosing a rich husband considered shallow
but guy avoiding fat ugly woman is what?
Girls behave the same pretty or not, it is the same as this rich BF topic.
Those who think they are less attractive assume that the creator is not being fair and will develop a nasty attitude, a relationship is indeed a financial plan just like making any major decisions in life and I work hard trying to make more money and be above average but I am going for the ordinary girl.

Personally, I think the ordinary looking people are the majority and they get marry and have children without much interest to debate on this topic, taking chances just like people in the past, trouble begins when we become wary and think we deserve better.

I wonder about the ratio between rich man and pretty girl, my ex wife is pretty and I learned my lesson, so this topic is for men too, if you get involve with someone for the wrong reason just because you are young and naive, you are asking for trouble but most people are optimistic and ignorant, that is why we need failures to put us in the right direction and make rational decisions.

Human are product of the society, our perceptions is based on memories and live according to current standard and environment, unfortunately not everyone abide to proper ethics and conduct. Example; a criminal know what is right and wrong but do it anyway, a smoker know cigarettes is bad for everyone but they continue to smoke.

Money can't buy love and love cannot survive without money 

No matter who u choose , as long as u are happy is ok but got money but not happy, will u choose that? u may have everything in this world that can get by money but not love and loyalty. can u stay by that? U have friends that only come to u because u have money , without money ur like a rubbish to them.

I was in that same situation you described, but mine a bit diff, was with a bum for many years, then his attitude also one kind and lotsa problem with our rship, then hubby came into my life, try to date me many times, and finally I gave in and...he spannered me from ex.

I'm really doubt of the mathematics level of bunch of people here.

Have they really counted a budget of a living expenses for one person and current employee salary report? I'm really doubt.

I'm doubt each of you who are trying to be a hero/heroin, how much you really know what you are talking about!

In that case, I will only response to those who can flame me with a FACT, figure, real life issues.

All posts extended to me with vulgar words and insulting words and unfavourable terms and with no facts will be facepalmed.

Thanks.