If u say like this, I can get a dozen of pretty girls already.

Earning money is extremely much easier than getting the one that is SMART enough to click with ur mind.

u know TS has changed my perception, may be I should start Bull*shiting how thick my wallet is and start "hunting" *cough. *lets start spread our genes. *cough
















only if I really Agree with her/him.

And so what if

A guy that nice and is rich, u choose him. After 2 years economic crisis, he burn all his money and become as poor as a normal fisherman. What is ur decision by then?

You dont need to be feel insecure about money minded woman as long an you are holding your major money and Asset under your name. There is always a limit of expenses when dating, a woman that comments, turn off because you are not spending enough for them, imo they are only making they blow off they chance of getting a nice guy like you.

To be honest, it is more costly for them to spend 20years trying to impress you, making you happy, cheat your money but end up if you are holding you money tight, you will always win and walk away and restart get a new relationship.

Generous does not have to be = sharing asset/money to gain "trust". Trust comes from trusting someone ability to take care of you if you are down.

look back to your ancestors, you'll know if something is working for them, it will work for you too.

So just date whatever woman that you think it is attractive to you. Dont worry you will find one.

If you re-read the post, I did not refer to a woman that is looking for a reliable man as her soulmate. I was referring to those who sole only purpose is to get a man and be lazy, spend their whole life enjoying, dumping the full responsibility of being a mother. Thought the number of these women are still minority, but it seems getting more common in the new generation.

First, I had never said being a mother is enjoying. I am curious to know where and which part of post I had said being a mother is enjoying.

I have to agree that being a mother is very taxing. I am glad I am born as man, being a woman means one have carry baby for 9 months of weight, endure 9 months of 'boring' healthy food, pain when getting the baby out, then have to hold the baby's hand, fulfilling her responsibility as a mother as much as she can. If a woman gone through all that, she is well deserve of having my money base on her contribution. I am very well aware of what makes a good mother, my grandma is one for my dad, my mom is one good mom for me.


Nothing personal here, it seems you like come up something out of nowhere. Even thought clearly didnt mean that.

Perhaps may be I should clear this up a little more for ur understanding.

I have meet families that are rich, and the mothers spend less time than the maid with their children, it is not that they do not have time. They have no jobs but they put their personal interest ahead of their children. They may allow take a break sometimes from children responsibility but not every week/every day.Thought such women it is still a minority but it is getting more common than b4.