You're 13 year old kid...wait till you grow up and you'll know what is ada wang ada amoi.

why do you think rich ppl get all the chicks?
why do you think actress and modals, beautiful singers, beautiful celebrities all married rich dude?

Dear TS,

the word ada wang ada amoi, its true but it apply back what girl can offer to make that guy want her in the first place?

When comes to love, money its only a ticket to make the girl attracted to the guy if i'm rite cause its provide security and a future.
Yes i do agree a relationship can't survive without money when comes to wedding, raising a family, etc.

But a relationship as in love does not need money. Like i said money its just a Bonus++ to makes her attracted to the guy. But what can the girl offer to make the guy want the girl? Body? her beauty? please i got money, if i want to pay for sex and body/beauty i might as well go for prostitute.

But went comes to love, money only its an attraction nothing more. So dont make mistake with the term ada wang ada amoi. 

wait...if you read post #1, i was refering to the other thread, the girl was confuse to choose A or B, I was not encouraging girls to be a rich mans slut. Some guys says if she choosed A they would feel she is not worth it of respect and degrading her like some kinda slut.

What I'm saying is modern girls replaces security with money bcoz this world are fueled by money. And why I was saying if the girl who chooses love if she was given a choice with a rich guy who loves her is immature:

You're not thinking of your future, worse you allow your children to suffer just bcoz of your impulses on love. Love grows thinner in most cases.

2nd, Rich dude chances of having mistress is high, but poor dude 2 timing is equally high, poor dude cannot afford to have mistress and not because they're more loyal. <<<<  i seldom see stupider statements then this

Guys are guys, you think rich guys are freak? and poor guys are saint?
why do we see chicken with so many price and standard? Some cater for poorer dude and rich guys go for higher class, its just that simple,

so if you choose and suffer with the poor dude, your chances of heart breaking is equal for the 2. But if you pick the rich guy, he may keep his mistress and still provide for you and the children.

so if you choose and suffer with the poor dude, your chances of heart breaking is equal for the 2. But if you pick the rich guy, he may keep his mistress and still provide for you and the children.

If marriage I would pick A
If pak toh I would choose B.

But what I'm trying to emphasize is, its not shameful or social b**** if I were to pick A, I'm only thinking of security. But guys in there kept saying the rich fella will not be faithful la, blah blah, so are they trying to say

guys earring below 4K are very faithful and loyal?
Guys earning below 4K cannot afford to have a mistress and not bcoz they dun want to have a mistress.
Guys earning below 4k are as potential heart breaker as a rich guy.

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Added on March 18, 2009, 8:31 pm

queation for ts,

one day u married a guy who can giv u 'secure'(money) n after few years u meet a guy which can giv u more 'secure' n he want to be with u.

will u leave ur husband?

nope...I'm not a b****. You're not getting my point, and you're not believing what I'm saying. Security takes up 60% of a womans decision when comes to choosing husband. And its perfectly normal.

From the topic http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/967243 it made me think deep why are girl money minded.

Thousands of years ago, money do not exist, girl will choose their partner base on security, they look for well built male who can protect them from wild animals and wild man or whatever wild things,they're vulnerable when they;re pregnant, and the years when they need to raise children. This has been genetic in female.

Fast forward to today, we no longer require mr. muscle to protect us, security took a new meaning, security = money. So girl will marry a guy when he is rich and this is why the quote ada wang ada amoi.

So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice.

you just like the attention your getting rite? 

Girls are money minded, And be proud of it.

and now....wtf?

not 90%

for me 30% only
can she be a good wife is more important to me

i wonder y nobody notice the part I bolded. it is so untrue... y i said that? ask urself, if a kinda good looking gal come and be close with u/flirts, can u hold urself not to do anything?? despite dat u hv gf/wife...uh uh... nuff said.
wth of a statement I read...excuse me TS, are u a woman? if u r, am worried bout u gal. so u r saying u rather choosed A (dat rich one) but u ain't love him dat much however he can provide ur so called security and u dun mind eventhough he has mistress as long he can keep 'providing' ??

wht is marriage is for? wht is relationship, love...wth... 

This point (ada wang ada amoi) only make sense in tackling the opposite sex...

As for future.. who the hell can predict the future... if you can, please let me know the 4D number... 

AGREE!! money is important!!

as guy we should be the one able to earn enough to support a family in the future...

haha

Xhiro, i think you can't get what TS is trying to say 

you said this bcoz you've never had the opportunity.   <<< yes or no does it matter to u?
And you actually believe that poor guys are all faithful and saint?
These girls wanna marry the poor dude and pray hard he become rich one day, but earlier they say the rich one is unfaithful.
So why take the unknown route?
you duno if your husband will ever be rich
but you do know that if one day he is rich he will have a mistress like your earlier prospect?
self advertisement? or lack of opportunity?
I've seen plenty of poor family where the wife have to work and in the end find out the husband is 2 timing, she come crying to me and duno what to do, I've also seen rich woman find out their husband keeping mistress.

You see in both scenerio the wifes heart is crushed, but the rich woman can still enjoy splashing the husbands money in revenge, and strange thing is these guys all dun jump ship, they will continue to provide.
Exactly what I'm trying to say, these guys are just talking about the extreme.
correction, the lack of money is the real devil,
poor people rob
poor people kidnap
Yes I can see you're person who speak of the real world, and not some kid still dreaming of their fairytale white knight on a horse back taking them to happily ever after.
yup.

Gal, it's cruel only when the husband done something too over to her though given many times of chances.

Gal is loyal to her husband, genuinly and initially.