I have no problem with these girls, afterall, this is reality and i just have to affix myself to that...

Still, i prefer a girl with decent attitude, and with realistic expectation of life and money...

Both the guy and the girl, need to think of the future, even the future of offsprings...

No point to have a child that eventually blame his or her misfortunes just because of what the his/her parent die in the past...

Just stick the relationship with reality tag

Loyalty or betrayal, knows no social strata...

Whenever someone intents to do so, it can be by hook or by crook

As long as one person judgement do not turn like Korean or Taiwanese drama............fine

Both the male and female need to set up education fund for kids

For me, marriage is an ultimate test of being tolerant and compromise to your partner...

Marriage is yin-yang, a balance and harmony of moolah and also emotional well being...

Why nobody can talk about balance?

Family belongs to each of two souls in the couple...it is selfish to see one sleeping partner in the business

Find someone who has decent balance

At the end of the day, both should sit down and talk rather squabbling "R must marry with who..."

Wrong term, not racist...

In any way, somehow i understand girls do consider the ability of winning breads for marriage, but....if someone (female and male) takes the consideration of the ability of breadwinning for most of the time, without considering emotional compatability or needs, then safe to say, the marriage is built based on money

Two extremes :

- One who chases those with moolah

- One that blindly follows love ala Korean drama

Ideally, one should not be in any of these two extremes

This post has been edited by Kampung2005: Mar 22 2009, 01:31 PM

Thus, i echo your view

Every car needs fuel....

No fuel, the car cannot move...

It is just a question of how many litres does the car consume?

How large is the fuel tank?

Self-sufficient

Balance, balance!

Attention of affection and decent household salary, is the main GOAL!

Objective remains, the only thing different is to how do you execute it

Money minded or not, money is the lubricant for the engine of livelihood...

Depends how much craving you have

For some RM xxxx maybe enough, for some, no matter how many RMs, it will never be enough

When a person's expectation and taste of life changes, so do the value chain of the person's purchasing preference

Ideally perfect, but finding one is like looking for a drop of water in desert

I am changing at my own pace