so u dont mind sharing ur husband?

And so what if

A guy that nice and is rich, u choose him. After 2 years economic crisis, he burn all his money and become as poor as a normal fisherman. What is ur decision by then?

Girls who only go after money totally miss the point. They'll have to give up their independence, interests, and personality, just to fit the rich husband's ego. Tell me, which rich husband can stand their wives being independent and capable to protect themselves?

I pity these girls who don't mind a lifetime of misery just being some other lusty men's sex toy.

Most posters in this (currently) 7-page thread seems to think:
rich men = 100% are evil, unfaithful, *insert negative comment*
poor/middle-class = must be good, faithful, sure to become rich, sure to be successful in career in the future

Talk about being simplistic. Talk about stereotyping. Somehow the words "sour grapes" spring to mind.

Here's the thing TS...
Men love wemon (be it bcos they are purty or whatever)
but wemon loves men's money............

..something's not right here

that also include gals -.-

TS....

lets get into the reality.... yes, security can be measured in any aspect... be it monetary, assets, love, caring, family, career, etc...

but in this now world.... it seem that monetary is being the main measurement tools for marriage / life partner.

yes, i do admit that monetary value does provide securities..... but is monetary value can buy happiness? health? freedom?

i still rekindle my more than 10 years r/s with my first love when i was 15... in which lasted 10 years.... the issue n motive of this story is simple, im just a reverse of the story u posted of the girl.

i had to endure almost 6 years hiding from the knowledge of her parents... as her father is a famous corporate figure n a tan sri title holder...where else, im just a normal not so well being family-borned.

later, when being introduced to her father, thats where the hell starts.... am i able to provide security, caring, shelter family, being a good husband n father, etc etc. this keep pressurized me to keep work hard, even double n sometimes triple employment, just to show monetary securities....

by end of the day... which i didnt regret making the decision (i guess u all readers will read n guess my decision) n i ask myself, am i working hard for myself or just to get monetary securities for my life partner?

till today, i still not regret to make the decision, as i truly believe my family needs me more than anything else.... my dad got into accident half a year ago n totally hadicapped as well as  totally lost source of income... being the eldest, i felt the responsibility should shoulder upon on me....

though all this happens, i kept a healthy finance balance... apart from financing my house n cars, i still able to fund my dad treatment n still could afford to keep substantial amount of investment in unit trusts, etc....

i believe this may not related.... but what would i want to point out is... though with hard life, u still make yr life meaningful, as long as fair amount of hard work... positive attitude and smart thinking.... whenever the challanges thrown to u, u would able to survive w/o monetary securities... though i felt tired, weak, no social-life, not many friends... i feel grateful that i try hard to pay my responsibility back to my parents... n i had answer to questions asked when i leave this world...

so, positively... monetary securities is important.... but family n health in which even billions or trillions of monetary securities cant buy... if these could be brought, then it not as same feelings as genuine!

to me... believe yr instincts, u could create a world of your own, if u n yr partner willing to work hard for the good of your future undertakings.

not necessary to get a rich life partner, just for monetary securities, n for the rest of your life being like nothing to do, as monetary had done everything to u... or chose a life in which u n yr life partner work hard for the sake of future undertakings.... n by yr old age, u felt a sense of achievements in which your future generation could boast about....

either decision make... u will get an apple... just the difference is, whether u buy the apple... or u start from planting the apple

i thinks this thread is full of girls who are too shallow minded... and b4 u say here is another with no money... i have enough to last a long time... and i was way poor to start with.... since then i have made it in life with the girl whom i love next to me every step of the way thru thick and thin... today we are more in love and stronger in love because of what we went thru...

change you view girls.. money is not everything... love, understanding, trust and belief is whats important... many a poor man has made it to the top on the back of true love... there is no guarantee that a rich man can make you happy just as there is no guarantee a poor one would make u sad. its all you.. if you are materialistic then what you beget in life in terms of sorrow and heart break is what you deserve.

I bet you either dont have a long relationship bf or your ex-ex-bf left you cuz they find you immature and an ugly slut.

So you insisit:

Go Rich husband > Security > Happy life (no regret for choosing rich husband)
But i say:

Go Rich husband > Kana cheated many time (u dont even know how many wife he has) > Happy life for all cars and houses you got from your husband but a sad pitiful life cuz no one really really love you.
Imma guy.

And i think you suck as a slut. Grow up some more nutbrain cells then you talk about maturity cuz i dont think you mature enough.. sorry.. you are INDEED MATURE enough to get cheated by many ex-bf

Dude, are you telling us indirectly that you are rich but u got many break-ups as most of your ex-gf only loves your money?

nex time , dont reveal or show them that you are rich...keep in low profile, and u will find one who love you. Its easy to notice girl who loves money and who dont.

No la. Physical attraction is always first. Not the most important, but always always first. It is true that everyone will have to pass a simple physical examination with minimal standard, b4 being considered for a relationship. For example, the super super rich guy might still be too fugly for you to swallow. So just move on to an average rich guy who's not so ugly.

Woman goes for the money, while man goes for her siham with fattchoy.
Woman gets moeny, men gets to eated her siham. woman happy, man also happy. 
Gals independent financially, will go flirt with young hot sexy boys also...    don tell me u don stim when u see a hot lengchai doing pole dance for you, rubbing you, massaging you.... oooooohhh...

Why mens cheated? Because you girls cannot maintain it after sometimes....Everthing went down....become lower quality after a few utilisation and something expired when the dates come.

Debbie, I've so many frens that went thru this route, and plenty more frens frens going thru this, a very close fren of mine 8 years ago got married to a guy, had a small stall selling accessories, his income is the struggling type. When her hubbys biz was going down the drain she went work at those foot massage at bukit bintang (no hanky panky place, clean roadside foot massage you see near sg wang). She can earn around 2k side income apart from her OL profession 1.8k. She help out with her husbands rental.

Few years later her hubbys biz picked up and he was doing quite well, travel monthly to china buy stock, last 3 years she came to me, found out her hubby kept a mistress in china, had a child somemore.

Shes now seperated from hubby waiting for divorce.

I'm not showing off here, I'm just advising young girls to be more careful and be smarter with thier choice, I was once a young and naive girl who believe love can bring food to the table.

I'm now recently upgraded to a mommy, and I'm still glad of my choice, you've any idea how much it cost to bring a child into planet Earth???

Every girl has a choice, they choose whomever to marry, so choose wisely. I'm not preaching girls to be materialistic  and blindly going for datuk K   but choose a husband who can love and provide at the same time.

It has nothing to do with gugujiao gatal deimos.
A suddenly flow of additional money means power. And that means the urge may come to expand or replace. In this case sadly is the wife.

These guys don't give guys a bad name at all. Unless you want to be sorry on their behalf. It is only natural for them.

I've known people like this too - guys and girls. People who've never been able to hold down a job. People who couldn't face life and hid behind alcohol or drugs. People who are well into their 30s and never found their feet in life.

The ones I've known all come from rich families. Yes, their families end up supporting them.

Something else to think about for any woman thinking about marrying for money.

This really makes me wonder.......next time instead of driving my car to meet gals at a gathering, i will just arrive with a kapchai. Even the helmet is the turtle type. Then I'll see what's their reaction.

What if the guy is not capable of getting rich and cannot provide a luxurious life?
What if the guy works extremely hard but still can't give you the life you want?
This is the real life, some people work hard but just can't achieve it.
So this guy does not deserve any gals' love??

**Relax......just giving my 2 cents**

My turtle helmet has two kitten ears and a tail.

My best fren is a very good example. His dad used to work as a tax auditor. But throughout his life, he never did
make it big, mainly due to his kind nature. He works very hard but can't provide any luxurious life to the family.
They've been driving an 18 year old car up till today. I know for a fact that his pay is almost stagnant year after year.
They could not even afford to buy any low cost flat or houses. They were renting houses their whole life. But having said
so, I've never seen any family so loving and understanding as theirs. Sometimes I envy how well their family get along
and love each other.

Holy cow.....the kitty helmet costs more than 150 bucks.....I think I rather use a coconut shell instead to reflect how poor I am.

It's fine, okay?

You are RIGHHHHHHHT about EVERYTHING.

Everybody, stand up and give her a hand!

*standing ovation*

Answer: tell him to buck up and get more money?