strawman concept is great but i dont think it applies here on these kiddo's talk. I see it more obvious on RWI
Allow this 80yo nanny blabbing and catching her breath to voice out one more thing:
The true WRONG concept u guys are having here is that: MONEY has only very little or surface influence to all Love/Relationship/Marriage/Romance. It could be a factor that a girl/boy in love/want to be in love with the other richer boy/girl, even got married as long as two are happy... but at the end (where is the end? wedding day? divorce day? death?) if they are truly happy or not, and if they regret their choices or not, we wont know.
To many youngsters, not until u personally experience romance->love->relationship->marriage->divorce, you are NOT capable to get to know why is this old nanny trying to SEPARATE these few VERBs cos they all look miserable/complicated and yet SIMPLE to you cos they are all same, which she insist they are NOT the same one thing.
For young poor guys, when you notice 'most girls are money minded/handsome guys-oriented', i can tell you, it is only your Delusion. U simply oversee some other who are NOT. Or u might have received info wrongly. Remember? what girls tell might not the whole truth... yea women are complicated, especially to young kiddos. The only piece of advice i can give u is that, Study hard, Work hard, if there are girls come along, swallow everything and gain experience, if not, let it be cos ur true love is out there somewhere When U R truly deserved her. Btw, please check out NLP so that u can climb a ladder to get messages across better.
For older richer guys, the way you posted msg here doesnt sound like a true wise old guy that Im looking for, therefore I believe there r still a lot more you ought to learn, which I believe you arent very old indeed. Apparently life experiences is important when we are talking about dealing with love issues. again, if u havent heard/started NLP, pls do so if u think u do have miserable life from time to time... it is usually the major cause of the majority to get angry easily/fast...
For gals, love and romance is everything to you till you are 80yo (like me). When you are lucky enough to grab a handsome, young, rich, kind, romantic, wonderful husband, treasure it like TS said, but it still doesnt guarantee u for a life time happiness, like i said, when it the end? wedding? kids's family life? divorce? death? LIfe is full of surprises... Please feel free to pm me for further girls talk - i long for it

Be well everyone.
succient and to the point. but i doubt that ppl would still be able to go past their deluded emotions and fantasies to understand the intricate meaning of life as you have put it. i take my hats (only) off for you.