I believe such statements truly define by the experience you felt and been into. It varies from people to people. From my point of view, it depends on how guys define sex. Each of us has our own definition of pleasures. You and i know it. And please define what you meant by opportunity. Its broadly define especially when it comes to secularism.



Not that i against this statement but as a sort of encouragement, just HUNT the damn chick and use your own intelligence to optimize your talents to try and score the winning goal to her heart. Now this is reality. To try, its of course much better then to not try when comes to introducing yourself to a woman.

Your statement isn't wrong, but its likely to induce people to stop trying. Results after all depends on each possible action we made. The reason why people fail to get the girl that believe its attractive to their eyes is because of their expectation they made from their own faulty actions be it consciously and subconsciously. Some are certain with their moves and some are not. The level of certainty varies through every thoughts we process in our brains hence the birth of competitive advantage comparatively to other men, through the process of creation. Now this is absolute truth.

That's why you see some guys though they are fugly, but they are charming as hell and talk smoothly. And some knows what mostly women want and need to offset their other bad quality. Note here, i don't use MOST like you did, because i know my statement does not represent the whole male population. Which is why 'SOME' is much more profound and 'interesting' in a way.

On the good side, every faulty actions pays a good price towards experience provided optimism is being held firmly in them which i rarely see in this society.

You want to define reality in a context of argument. Just effing try your best and hunt the chick. If they phailed badly, let them come to CC, let us hear their cries and help them. Advices and listening after all cost lest than 2 cents



And it's wrong? It's wrong to induce ourselves to feel good about ourselves? No it isn't, but its wrong to foolishly not willing to admit the lost that we made. I guess you forgot to wrote down the admittance part which i find it very important to put into context. Egoism shuns away from admittance. Lack of proper guidance is the reason why.



How do you define truth? Is it a part of reality? Is it always meant to be cold blooded? Is it always have to be harsh, so people can actually learn and grow from the excruciating past and pain? Or is it because of the small little step that we make each day both consciously and subconsciously? You do know the possibility that each of us has, which is simple. Be it positive and negative. Let's don't talk about the grey area as it will tangled our minds bashing each other trying to convince who is truer than the other but at the end of the day, we're the fools out of it. You care for your own interest, i care for mine. Its how i arouse your interest that matters to you.

Its easy to pinpoint on other things than to pinpoint your faulty & flawed actions and decision. Not to mention how we are capable enough to persuade other human beings by affecting them with our own experiences through communications for example. That's the scary part, the way we affect and influence others.

And if you believe that we men are the creature of circumstances, good luck to you. But i strongly believe that circumstances are our own creature. They depend on us.

This post has been edited by peinsama: Mar 23 2009, 10:38 AM