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post Jul 14 2006, 03:25 AM, updated 19y ago

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The Long Distance Relationship Version 2

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If you have involved in a long distance relationship, what will you do in order to make the relationship works and sparks? The long distance relationship that I meant is whereby you have to travel by air then only can see each other. What surprises or actions that you can do to make your loved ones to be touched and secured of the relationship?
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hello everyone. i'm reporting in. hehehe... never thought that i'll be the 2nd highest poster in here after mandy. geez... i'm flattered with lots of butterflies in me. some more it's colouful butterflies. hehehe...

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actually, the value of the birthday present is not important. what is more valuable and important is your heart and thoughts. anyway, wish you happy birthday oh... (i dunno when's your birthday, so wish you in advance lah...) hehehe...
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hello everyone. i'm reporting in. hehehe... never thought that i'll be the 2nd highest poster spammer in here after mandy.
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reporting in too...
im back from cameron and was very tiring but nice trip!
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QUOTE(spanker @ Jul 14 2006, 09:49 AM)
I took the liberty of correcting your wording for you.
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Jul 14 2006, 11:28 AM)
woi! where got spam that much oh? a bit nia... apalah... make me malu only.
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Jul 14 2006, 09:42 AM)
northasian,
actually, the value of the birthday present is not important. what is more valuable and important is your heart and thoughts. anyway, wish you happy birthday oh... (i dunno when's your birthday, so wish you in advance lah...) hehehe...
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Hi miyoko,

Thanks for your greetings!! My birthday is not so soon la, I am a Leo girl, so it's gonna be end of July wink.gif

Yes I know the heart is more important, so everytime I wanna find something that he really needs or likes... Finally I found the thing in my mind yesterday, lucky~~~ ^.^

QUOTE(skysherly @ Jul 14 2006, 09:53 AM)
reporting in too...
im back from cameron and was very tiring but nice trip!
later will post up some pix to share wif u all!
btw...im mc today  doh.gif
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Hi sherly,

I'll be going to Cameron Highlands on 24/7 for 3D2N trip. How was your trip? Nice place to visit? Is it your first time visiting CH?
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QUOTE(devince83 @ Jul 14 2006, 04:57 PM)
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QUOTE(northasian @ Jul 14 2006, 12:54 PM)
Reporting in too~ (^0^)/
Hi miyoko,

Thanks for your greetings!! My birthday is not so soon la, I am a Leo girl, so it's gonna be end of July wink.gif

Yes I know the heart is more important, so everytime I wanna find something that he really needs or likes... Finally I found the thing in my mind yesterday, lucky~~~ ^.^
Hi sherly,

I'll be going to Cameron Highlands on 24/7 for 3D2N trip. How was your trip? Nice place to visit? Is it your first time visiting CH?
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thats not my 1st trip to CH,i went there wif my family b4 and previously his dad brought me there too...quite ok the trip,was a bit tiring cos friday tat day both of us were rushing bak to ipoh then at tat nite could not get a nice sleep cos i had some work havent finish yet then early in the morning woke up to finish up dy and went to morning market wif his mum...then after tat when reach there busy prepare the steamboat wif his ah yi...quite fun that time...but too bad cos i had bad gastric prob ended up i couldnt eat much...but the next day while we on the way down to ipoh of cos we went to grab some cheap veges and flowers..but those flowers aint that cheap and nice also...just tat stall we bought from lar...then after dinner at ipoh onli came back to kl which around midnite dy...then the next morning sick cos at CH tat time was cold (even though for me not very cold)but then when reach ipoh tat time too hot dy...1 cold 1 hot ended up all not feeling well a bit ... doh.gif doh.gif
now i uploading some pix...later show u all...of cos at my friendster tongue.gif tongue.gif
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hey,how r u recently?long time no c u dy tongue.gif tongue.gif
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QUOTE(skysherly @ Jul 14 2006, 09:25 PM)
hey,how r u recently?long time no c u dy  tongue.gif  tongue.gif
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of cos lar... how r u and ur gf? tongue.gif tongue.gif
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QUOTE(skysherly @ Jul 14 2006, 09:33 PM)
of cos lar... how r u and ur gf? tongue.gif  tongue.gif
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Unfortunately, me n my gf broke up already sad.gif LDR is definately not for her lo...
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QUOTE(thom_chai @ Jul 14 2006, 09:36 PM)
Unfortunately, me n my gf broke up already  sad.gif  LDR is definately not for her lo...
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er... sweat.gif sweat.gif .....sorry....sad to hear that,dont worry,im sure u will get ur mrs right soon wink.gif
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QUOTE(skysherly @ Jul 14 2006, 09:37 PM)
er... sweat.gif  sweat.gif .....sorry....sad to hear that,dont worry,im sure u will get ur mrs right soon  wink.gif
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It's ok la, dun worry bout me, i'm ok... i'm glad to see tat u and ur bf is goin strong rclxms.gif rclxms.gif icon_rolleyes.gif
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QUOTE(thom_chai @ Jul 14 2006, 09:40 PM)
It's ok la, dun worry bout me, i'm ok... i'm glad to see tat u and ur bf is goin strong  rclxms.gif  rclxms.gif  icon_rolleyes.gif
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hhehee....we r going to celebrate our 1st anniversary next week tongue.gif tongue.gif
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QUOTE(skysherly @ Jul 14 2006, 09:46 PM)
hhehee....we r going to celebrate our 1st anniversary next week  tongue.gif  tongue.gif
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QUOTE(metsatsu @ Jul 14 2006, 08:18 PM)
1st time reporting in, my girl lives in penang and i live in perak. we r both working. sad.gif
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hello guys~! Reporting in tongue.gif

Just two days didnt log in, my previous thread already more than 3k posts tongue.gif Anyway, I wish to appreciate devince83 for opening the LDR V2. All merits belong to you, haha!

Anyway, sorry guys for so late to drop in here cause as what I have told all of you, I have taken 2 days leave from office to accompany my penang friend to stroll around Sabah.

So tired!!! Yesterday I just went to the Mt Kinabalu resort as well as Poring Hot Spring resort. We went to canopy walk for almost 1 hour (like half dead fish already tongue.gif). Then we went to Mt Kinabalu Resort for jungle walk for almost 1 hour. Never in my life I have done so many "exercises" in one day.

Now I just come back to office. So many works waiting for me to complete but my whole body feels so numb. I feel sooooo tired. I am going to die soon tongue.gif Anyway, I am really happy to see all of you still leaving posts here. The previous thread, I should close it is it? Then it will lost from the Cupid thread from now onwards is it?
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QUOTE(skysherly @ Jul 14 2006, 08:35 PM)
thats not my 1st trip to CH,i went there wif my family b4 and previously his dad brought me there too...quite ok the trip,was a bit tiring cos friday tat day both of us were rushing bak to ipoh then at tat nite could not get a nice sleep cos i had some work havent finish yet then early in the morning woke up to finish up dy and went to morning market wif his mum...then after tat when reach there busy prepare the steamboat wif his ah yi...quite fun that time...but too bad cos i had bad gastric prob ended up i couldnt eat much...but the next day while we on the way down to ipoh of cos we went to grab some cheap veges and flowers..but those flowers aint that cheap and nice also...just tat stall we bought from lar...then after dinner at ipoh onli came back to kl which around midnite dy...then the next morning sick cos at CH tat time was cold (even though for me not very cold)but then when reach ipoh tat time too hot dy...1 cold 1 hot ended up all not feeling well a bit ...  doh.gif  doh.gif
now i uploading some pix...later show u all...of cos at my friendster  tongue.gif  tongue.gif
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Thanks for your info~ So you just stay there for 1 nite only? Visited any impressed place in CH?
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QUOTE(northasian @ Jul 15 2006, 02:18 PM)
Thanks for your info~ So you just stay there for 1 nite only? Visited any impressed place in CH?
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CH not much place to visit though...well...just went to some places take some photos and i cant miss my strawberry farm!!! tongue.gif ya,we just stay 1 nite mayb we been there b4 so we would feel bored if stay 2nites...cos 1 day u can walk around the whole cameron dy... depends on how u walk around lar tongue.gif tongue.gif
btw, i would advice u try not to buy the flowers from those flowers stall near dont know wat equatorial hotel ....those flowers aint fresh and nice and expensive though...if u wan when u on the way up to CH tat time...b4 the equatorial hotel u would c many stores there selling flowers and foods and veges...there r much better...after tat the strawberry farms if u never try to pick ur own strawberry u can try it but for us its quite expensive...cos i dont know how to choose but i onli know how to eat tongue.gif
btw,try those fried mushroom also...quite nice o...and also there r some foods like fried beans,some corns which got 2 colours 1 also quite nice but a bit expensive lar... tongue.gif tongue.gif
CH there so cold is nice to eat steamboat there ... even though will b expensive a bit if u eat at those restaurant but cos just 2 of u will b nice neh tongue.gif
er....i forgot liao wat to say...well...i onli good in flowers and foods....other like those location name or watever name u should ask my lougong cos i cant remember at all tongue.gif tongue.gif
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QUOTE(skysherly @ Jul 15 2006, 08:35 PM)
CH not much place to visit though...well...just went to some places take some photos and i cant miss my strawberry farm!!! tongue.gif ya,we just stay 1 nite mayb we been there b4 so we would feel bored if stay 2nites...cos 1 day u can walk around the whole cameron dy... depends on how u walk around lar tongue.gif tongue.gif
btw, i would advice u try not to buy the flowers from those flowers stall near dont know wat equatorial hotel ....those flowers aint fresh and nice and expensive though...if u wan when u on the way up to CH tat time...b4 the equatorial hotel u would c many stores there selling flowers and foods and veges...there r much better...after tat the strawberry farms if u never try to pick ur own strawberry u can try it but for us its quite expensive...cos i dont know how to choose but i onli know how to eat tongue.gif
btw,try those fried mushroom also...quite nice o...and also there r some foods like fried beans,some corns which got 2 colours 1 also quite nice but a bit expensive lar...  tongue.gif  tongue.gif
CH there so cold is nice to eat steamboat there ... even though will b expensive a bit if u eat at those restaurant but cos just 2 of u will b nice neh tongue.gif
er....i forgot liao wat to say...well...i onli good in flowers and foods....other like those location name or watever name u should ask my lougong cos i cant remember at all tongue.gif tongue.gif
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Sherly,

Thank you very much for your information and advices, it's very kind of you~~ notworthy.gif

I think we will have steamboat and definitely will visit the strawberry farm! I know that 2 colours corn, is it with white and yellow in 1 corn? That's call "Super Sweet Corn"... In HK, markets use to sell this kind of corn instead of normal corn. So if expensive then I won't eat there lu~~ ;p Mushroom!!! Lovely! I love mushroom!!! ;D~ Are the flowers there expensive? If not very then I will ask my Honey to buy me some, heheeeeee.... Stalls near Equatorial Hotel of coz more expensive la 'cuz Equatorial Hotel is kinda 5 stars, most foreign tourists stay there ma...

Really looking forward to the CH trip~ Though it's not a very far away trip, I think I will love the cool weather there. To chill out! It's hot like hell in HK this summer!!! >_<~

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QUOTE(mandysu @ Jul 15 2006, 09:24 AM)
hello guys~! Reporting in tongue.gif

Just two days didnt log in, my previous thread already more than 3k posts tongue.gif Anyway, I wish to appreciate devince83 for opening the LDR V2. All merits belong to you, haha!

Anyway, sorry guys for so late to drop in here cause as what I have told all of you, I have taken 2 days leave from office to accompany my penang friend to stroll around Sabah.

So tired!!! Yesterday I just went to the Mt Kinabalu resort as well as Poring Hot Spring resort. We went to canopy walk for almost 1 hour (like half dead fish already tongue.gif). Then we went to Mt Kinabalu Resort for jungle walk for almost 1 hour. Never in my life I have done so many "exercises" in one day.

Now I just come back to office. So many works waiting for me to complete but my whole body feels so numb. I feel sooooo tired. I am going to die soon tongue.gif Anyway, I am really happy to see all of you still leaving posts here. The previous thread, I should close it is it? Then it will lost from the Cupid thread from now onwards is it?
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QUOTE(northasian @ Jul 15 2006, 09:21 PM)
Sherly,

Thank you very much for your information and advices, it's very kind of you~~  notworthy.gif

I think we will have steamboat and definitely will visit the strawberry farm! I know that 2 colours corn, is it with white and yellow in 1 corn? That's call "Super Sweet Corn"... In HK, markets use to sell this kind of corn instead of normal corn. So if expensive then I won't eat there lu~~ ;p Mushroom!!! Lovely! I love mushroom!!! ;D~ Are the flowers there expensive? If not very then I will ask my Honey to buy me some, heheeeeee.... Stalls near Equatorial Hotel of coz more expensive la 'cuz Equatorial Hotel is kinda 5 stars, most foreign tourists stay there ma...

Really looking forward to the CH trip~ Though it's not a very far away trip, I think I will love the cool weather there. To chill out! It's hot like hell in HK this summer!!! >_<~
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its ok...just to share up some info only...well...not all expensive geh,u can get those which quite cheap also...tat super sweet corn very nice neh tongue.gif but the mushroom the best...soon i will buy some n fried by myself cos really miss it very much tongue.gif tongue.gif
im pretty sure u will enjoy ur trip...Take care ya..btw,malaysia also very hot tongue.gif tongue.gif
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I just made 4 posts in LDR V1. Just came back from CH. We went there for 'Khimat Masyarakat'. We went to Perkampungan Orang Asli Kuala Boh. Stayed 3 days 2 nights. Wow... I wanted to cry out the first day when found out toilets there were 'unsecured'. I ate less during the stay as takut sakit perut. But I like the trip... It has widened my knowledge...

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QUOTE(loveyna @ Jul 16 2006, 02:20 AM)
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Kepala hotak engkau... Since when? U think I so free go futsal every saturday night meh if I got gf
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hahaha...chill laa dudes ... no need so emo ....
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QUOTE(mxxuang @ Jul 16 2006, 11:04 PM)
Kepala hotak engkau... Since when? U think I so free go futsal every saturday night meh if I got gf
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got gf kenot futsol every weekend meh sleep.gif
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woit. ver2  already? interesting.

update: gf is coming back in feb next yr.  dunno whether to  cry.gif  or to  rclxms.gif
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hello everyone... it's monday.... another one hour, it's the end of a working monday... hehehe...

anyway, how's everyone? i had a great weekends. have a nice day ahead, everyone.
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QUOTE(mandysu @ Jul 17 2006, 04:20 PM)
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5 more days and my gf is back for a week, hehe.. rclxm9.gif
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5 more days and my gf is back for a week, hehe..  rclxm9.gif
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Well... after this, Im not sure when we will see each others anymore.. sad.gif
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Hi all,

I'll be flying to meet my bf tomorrow lu, and will stay there for about 2 weeks so cannot post la I think... See you all again after I come back~! wave.gif

jdreamer,

Enjoy the time with your gf later~ Treasure every second you're with her, ok? I will go see The Lakehouse with my bf too, it will be shown from 20July, remember to get the ticket earlier and choose the best seats, ok?
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What are the numbers next to each nickname?

Well, I guess I can be called as one of those with an LDR. Or should I say mine is always So Near Yet So Far?
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hhehee....we r going to celebrate our 1st anniversary next week  tongue.gif  tongue.gif
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QUOTE(Muffins @ Jul 17 2006, 01:10 AM)
woit. ver2  already? interesting.

update: gf is coming back in feb next yr.  dunno whether to  cry.gif  or to  rclxms.gif
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Hi all,

I'll be flying to meet my bf tomorrow lu, and will stay there for about 2 weeks so cannot post la I think... See you all again after I come back~! wave.gif

jdreamer,

Enjoy the time with your gf later~ Treasure every second you're with her, ok? I will go see The Lakehouse with my bf too, it will be shown from 20July, remember to get the ticket earlier and choose the best seats, ok?
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QUOTE(northasian @ Jul 18 2006, 01:23 AM)
Hi all,

I'll be flying to meet my bf tomorrow lu, and will stay there for about 2 weeks so cannot post la I think... See you all again after I come back~! wave.gif

jdreamer,

Enjoy the time with your gf later~ Treasure every second you're with her, ok? I will go see The Lakehouse with my bf too, it will be shown from 20July, remember to get the ticket earlier and choose the best seats, ok?
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Thanks northasian. Yea, Im going to bring her to watch the movie as well. Hmm, enjoy ur days with ur bf as well. Cheers. smile.gif
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QUOTE(Casanova @ Jul 18 2006, 08:12 AM)
What are the numbers next to each nickname?

Well, I guess I can be called as one of those with an LDR. Or should I say mine is always So Near Yet So Far?
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The numbers beside the nickname is the total post in this topic.
LDR is like this, your heart is so near to each other but you're physically so far from each other..


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QUOTE(suiteng @ Jul 18 2006, 10:51 AM)
Suiteng reporting in, baru realize got new version...  rclxs0.gif
A bit lost liao coz under my favorite topic no changes I tot what happened tongue.gif

The numbers beside the nickname is the total post in this topic.
LDR is like this, your heart is so near to each other but you're physically so far from each other..
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HHmm.... if you love someone... you are never far.... icon_rolleyes.gif

As long as there is love, distance is just a few hundred KM away.... a few hours drive or by flight.... but at least the both of you are connected to each others heart.......

Waaaahhhh......miss my gf so far away........... cry.gif
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HHmm.... if you love someone... you are never far....  icon_rolleyes.gif

As long as there is love, distance is just a few hundred KM away.... a few hours drive or by flight.... but at least the both of you are connected to each others heart.......

Waaaahhhh......miss my gf so far away........... cry.gif
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Haha.. you say you are never far, then you say miss your gf so far away.. Apalah you..

Luckily I've been thru those days, now I'm happily together with my honey already. All the hard work and holding on, believing in each other, have faith.. all paid off. icon_rolleyes.gif
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She lives in Ipoh and I live in PJ. I travel up to ipoh every 2weeks to see her although it's tiring as I work from mon-fri but it's all worth it smile.gif She'll be going to singapore to work soon and I have planned to see her every month by taking a train or bus down.

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Hi ppl..3days ago i drove my gf back to klang after we paktoh almost a whole day on saturday..We went and watch movies and window shopping and on that dai i bought her flowers oso..haha..It was almost 1 and 1/2 month since we din spend so much time 2gether but it was fun...Anyway,im staying in Setapak and i didn't know Klang was so so far..Wahlau,drive to and fro Klang's so very tiring(for me la..) but it was enjoyabble spending time with her..Wonder when can i spend time like that agaih..haih..
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how far is klang from setapak? shouldn't be more than 2 hrs drive gua?
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how far is klang from setapak? shouldn't be more than 2 hrs drive gua?
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QUOTE(max_cjs0101 @ Jul 18 2006, 04:59 PM)
to and fro is 3 hours plus adi..not counting the traffic jams sumore..
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3 hours...u din use highway ?
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to and fro is 3 hours plus adi..not counting the traffic jams sumore..
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Muahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaa
my 1st anniversary wif my dear dear is coming sooooooooooooonnnnnnnn  wub.gif  wub.gif  tongue.gif
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ooI~ belanja makan~
we here at least 20 table !! icon_rolleyes.gif
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QUOTE(max_cjs0101 @ Jul 18 2006, 04:59 PM)
to and fro is 3 hours plus adi..not counting the traffic jams sumore..
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OMG 3 hours ....
from KL can go johore already worrr....
if i , even with jam
within 1 and half hours i can reach klang ( bukit raja )
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QUOTE(doink! @ Jul 18 2006, 03:43 PM)
She lives in Ipoh and I live in PJ. I travel up to ipoh every 2weeks to see her although it's tiring as I work from mon-fri but it's all worth it smile.gif She'll be going to singapore to work soon and I have planned to see her every month by taking a train or bus down.

The power of love can never stop anyone from seeing their loved one no matter what it takes laugh.gif
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both of u just totally the opposite of me and my dear...cos he is from ipoh and im from pj...when starting tat time no matter how difficult or tiring still he comes up to pj to pay me a visit every 2 weeks...now both of us already stop that....cos he moves to here...all the best to u ya tongue.gif tongue.gif

QUOTE(devince83 @ Jul 18 2006, 10:50 PM)
ooI~  belanja makan~
we here at least 20 table !! icon_rolleyes.gif
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apasal belanja makan? sleep.gif
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oic, i understand how u feel. btw, why did it take so long for u to see her ah? 1 month + leh
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she owes buzy with her work and her mom oso dun let her go out that time coz she got lotsa things to do at home..Suiteng,i'll get your mmc card when im ready k..Im broke now..haha..
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Haha.. no problem. Just wanna inform that the mmc card price drop already. tongue.gif
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Haha.. no problem. Just wanna inform that the mmc card price drop already. tongue.gif
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Wanna ask something ... my GF is currently overseas .. and today she changed her MSN nick into this .. :

** Fill me with your love, let me trust in you **


now I wonder ..
1. How do you fill someone with your love ? ..
2. How do you instill the Trust in her ? ...

when both of us are far apart ? ...
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QUOTE(Biscuit @ Jul 19 2006, 04:57 PM)
Wanna ask something ... my GF is currently overseas .. and today she changed her MSN nick into this .. :

** Fill me with your love, let me trust in you **
now I wonder ..
1. How do you fill someone with your love ? ..
2. How do you instill the Trust in her ? ...

when both of us are far apart ? ...
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There are many ways.. just make sure your actions come from your true heart enough already. You wouldn't know how much difference it make by saying a simple "hi, had your lunch?" Or MSN at night... "how's your day today? miss me?" make.

Ofcoz, your gf will feel insecure coz you're so far away. But make sure you always remind her that she's still in your life. smile.gif
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3 more days for ??? huh.gif
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QUOTE(DevilKia @ Jul 19 2006, 04:29 PM)
3 more days for ??? huh.gif
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My gf is coming back from KL. biggrin.gif

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Reunion biggrin.gif
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Well ... mine long distance already 3 years and counting sad.gif *sigh*
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QUOTE(affinity_07 @ Jul 19 2006, 06:44 PM)
Long Distant Relationship pun ade fellowship tongue.gif

Well ... mine long distance already 3 years and counting sad.gif *sigh*
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hope can reunion soon
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QUOTE(DevilKia @ Jul 19 2006, 06:52 PM)
good for u rclxms.gif
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hope can reunion soon
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Nope not so soon ... soonest is IF we get married ... coz she'll be teaching in another state for another 3 ~ 5 years sad.gif cry.gif
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QUOTE(affinity_07 @ Jul 19 2006, 06:56 PM)
Nope not so soon ... soonest is IF we get married ... coz she'll be teaching in another state for another 3 ~ 5 years sad.gif  cry.gif
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no going there to see her meh?
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wah lau eh... sweat.gif u sure suffer...
no going there to see her meh?
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How abt u ?? a club member too ??
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Faith  wub.gif
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3 days more wil b the day for our 1st anniversary  tongue.gif  tongue.gif
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Wah, nice and congraz!! rclxms.gif

QUOTE(affinity_07 @ Jul 19 2006, 06:44 PM)
Long Distant Relationship pun ade fellowship tongue.gif

Well ... mine long distance already 3 years and counting sad.gif *sigh*
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3 years, nice. Keep it going. smile.gif

QUOTE(Andrewhajime @ Jul 19 2006, 08:42 PM)
wahh...
everyone is counting down ...
i got ntg to count down ...
counting the my age..
getting older older and single .... T_T
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first time reporting, i am oversea but still can keep the relationship with my gf for 3 years...
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first time reporting, i am oversea but still can keep the relationship with my gf for 3 years...
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ya lor... gf move back to her hometown last year.. damm lonely here cry.gif
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Don't mean to be rude but I don't intend to continue it sad.gif
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I wanna get back with her (NO LDR I mean) tongue.gif
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Heloo Devil Kia.. why dun you go and look for her if u miss her?
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macha.. lazy to drive la... u think drive so syok meh doh.gif
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Sien sad.gif ... my gf got sickness and I can't go accompany her *sigh*
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sorry to hear that but this is the fact of ldr ....cant always b there whenever ur love 1 is sick or upset or watever.......but im sure the good day will come soon
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macha.. lazy to drive la... u think drive so syok meh doh.gif
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Drive once a while still okay lah.. I gotto drive from sban to Penang leh......
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one proverbs from old ppl......
"bitter now..... sweet later"
i hope all of u will da same.. blush.gif
left me lonely now.. no gf no money no car cry.gif
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Sien sad.gif ... my gf got sickness and I can't go accompany her *sigh*
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sorry to hear that but this is the fact of ldr ....cant always b there whenever ur love 1 is sick or upset or watever.......but im sure the good day will come soon
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Hi Devince didn know ur the thread starter her.
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yala.. i also dun understand why..
i also din involve in LDR anymore somemore no gf cry.gif cry.gif
but seem like fun in this thread.. everyone wish to keep this thread alive icon_rolleyes.gif
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QUOTE(affinity_07 @ Jul 21 2006, 03:02 PM)
Sien sad.gif ... my gf got sickness and I can't go accompany her *sigh*
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nevermind lah... sms her and call her. check on her condition.
anyway, when i'm sick and when my dear cannot be by my side, i always tell myself to be strong and always remind myself that even if my dear by my side also, i wont cure so fast one lah... later infect my dear lagi not good. hehehe... i feel better when i tell myself these. well, at least not so miss my dear liao lorr... then when he finally call me or sms me whenever he is available, i feel so much better and happy.

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Haha... mm goi sai. This year no cake cry.gif This year didn't really celebrate with honey cry.gif
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Whats sai meng ? unsure.gif Hahax, btw, no offense okie.. I just have nowhere to express my excitement and happiness and I just wanted to share the joy with u all (as u guys are the ones who accompany me all these while). Thanks everyone! smile.gif
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hello everyone~! How's all of you? Recently I was very busy preparing a "special" present for my bf for our 100 days anniversary (he didnt aware of it, wish to give him a surprise). Though it might take some time for me to complete everything but I think it's worth it. Really hope that he will appreciate the gifts. Take care everyone ya!
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happy belated birthday oh.... why no celebrate with honey leh?
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QUOTE(mandysu @ Jul 25 2006, 09:25 AM)
hello everyone~! How's all of you? Recently I was very busy preparing a "special" present for my bf for our 100 days anniversary (he didnt aware of it, wish to give him a surprise). Though it might take some time for me to complete everything but I think it's worth it. Really hope that he will appreciate the gifts. Take care everyone ya!
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Haha... mm goi sai. This year no cake cry.gif This year didn't really celebrate with honey cry.gif
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lolx...no cake onli mah,u got honey sweet enough lar
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Eh... so ngam hahaha... good lor.. then you surely remember my birthday liao. I expect gifts tongue.gif tongue.gif tongue.gif

QUOTE(j6sh @ Jul 25 2006, 03:28 PM)
wow!! serious ar? how u doing now?
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Erm.. still asthma every morning. Kinda getting worst than last time sad.gif Have to rely on inhaler lor...
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i tot this is Long Distance Relationship thread... how come none is relevant geh?? shakehead.gif
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Got relevant la.. those who are meeting their love one soon keep on sai meng here. Those who are far away from their love one keep on grumbling here. This topic very happening leh... tongue.gif

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I am meeting my gal this coming october....
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Not need to say others sai meng leh. We should be happy that either one of us here are able to meet their partners what. Its actually something joyful to share with everyone here but then u guys making it sounded bad. Cant we just have a happy family here ? sleep.gif
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QUOTE(suiteng @ Jul 25 2006, 03:39 PM)
Eh... so ngam hahaha... good lor.. then you surely remember my birthday liao. I expect gifts tongue.gif tongue.gif tongue.gif
Erm.. still asthma every morning. Kinda getting worst than last time sad.gif Have to rely on inhaler lor...
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i i i......... i onli remember my anniversary tongue.gif tongue.gif

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Not need to say others sai meng leh. We should be happy that either one of us here are able to meet their partners what. Its actually something joyful to share with everyone here but then u guys making it sounded bad. Cant we just have a happy family here ? sleep.gif
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aikz,they all just kidding lar.....dont take it so serious lar doh.gif doh.gif
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Okie, it can be funny in the beginning but when u tend to overdo it, it might gets annoying, be it joking or not.

Anyway, its my bad to share my happy moments with u guys, probably a mistake.
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Okie, it can be funny in the beginning but when u tend to overdo it, it might gets annoying, be it joking or not.

Anyway, its my bad to share my happy moments with u guys, probably a mistake.
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No, dont have to. Im fine with it now. Cheers.
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hehe... my gal gal coming back for my convo... but next year is her convo.. i'm not very sure if i will be abe to attend her convo since my work need me to travel alot... erm.... dont know when this LDR will turn to SDR..... mayb bring her together to travel with me? hahaha
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Yay~~~ 2 more months to go lor...
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3 more months sad.gif we meet about 6 months once or a year twice....

QUOTE(areankim @ Jul 26 2006, 01:29 PM)
hehe... my gal gal coming back for my convo... but next year is her convo.. i'm not very sure if i will be abe to attend her convo since my work need me to travel alot... erm.... dont know when this LDR will turn to SDR..... mayb bring her together to travel with me? hahaha
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Okie, it can be funny in the beginning but when u tend to overdo it, it might gets annoying, be it joking or not.

Anyway, its my bad to share my happy moments with u guys, probably a mistake.
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QUOTE(areankim @ Jul 26 2006, 01:29 PM)
hehe... my gal gal coming back for my convo... but next year is her convo.. i'm not very sure if i will be abe to attend her convo since my work need me to travel alot... erm.... dont know when this LDR will turn to SDR..... mayb bring her together to travel with me? hahaha
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Such a long time didnt see you post up anything here. So sweet your gal gal! You should be extremely happy on that day since she is willing to attend your convo. Try your best to make it to her convo cause I believe your presence will be the best convo present for her. Just have faith in your heart and sooner or later, your relationship will sure turn to SDR. Good luck!
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QUOTE(areankim @ Jul 26 2006, 01:29 PM)
hehe... my gal gal coming back for my convo... but next year is her convo.. i'm not very sure if i will be abe to attend her convo since my work need me to travel alot... erm.... dont know when this LDR will turn to SDR..... mayb bring her together to travel with me? hahaha
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so close yet so far, so far yet so close...

in the end, mah also far... cry.gif
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hello everyone... how are you all? friday liao. this weekend can meet my dear dear liao smile.gif wub.gif yesterday got a bit conflict, well, not conflict actually, kind of misunderstanding in our communication and caused by my attitude lah... but we resolved it there and then. now, still happily in love. anyway, some point to ponder ---> i think, there really isnt any need to quarrel in a relationship. when there's any conflict, better if we talk in a low tone and control our emotion, then to shout and blame at each others. well, this is from my experience lah... my bf have always be on the patient and calm side will i sometimes can be explosive. well, from his advice, i try to change my explosive attitude and it works good for both of us. well, sometimes, i will accidentally explode lah... like yesterday, but i really thanks him for being patient with me and guide me when i did wrong. he never shout at me before. when i explode, he would try to calm me down. really love him a lot. guess, sometimes girls are just emotional, especially when it's that time of the month.
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Well it's gets kind of frustated in a LDR sometimes ... it's hard on both parties so it helps in controlling your emo. Quarelling is sometimes unavoidable ... the MOST important thing is that you don't explode out some harsh words ... when they come out it's NO WAY of getting them back. Try to be rational sometimes ... it's hard that you seldom see each other, it's even herder when you realise that it'll be kinda permanent (until THE time comes la) tongue.gif
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Jul 28 2006, 03:56 PM)
hello everyone... how are you all? friday liao. this weekend can meet my dear dear liao smile.gif wub.gif yesterday got a bit conflict, well, not conflict actually, kind of misunderstanding in our communication and caused by my attitude lah... but we resolved it there and then. now, still happily in love. anyway, some point to ponder ---> i think, there really isnt any need to quarrel in a relationship. when there's any conflict, better if we talk in a low tone and control our emotion, then to shout and blame at each others. well, this is from my experience lah... my bf have always be on the patient and calm side will i sometimes can be explosive. well, from his advice, i try to change my explosive attitude and it works good for both of us. well, sometimes, i will accidentally explode lah... like yesterday, but i really thanks him for being patient with me and guide me when i did wrong. he never shout at me before. when i explode, he would try to calm me down. really love him a lot. guess, sometimes girls are just emotional, especially when it's that time of the month.
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im fine thanks..My gf and i had an argument on wednesday..argued very teruk 1 sumore but i had to say sorry to her and say everything is my fault although mostly its because of her..it was totally an explosion that day..Haih..How i would wish my gf had the same thinking like you,miyoko..2moro she duwan to go out with me.. cry.gif  cry.gif  cry.gif
edit..i forgot to write..my gf's the most explosive thing to me..very super fragile and have to be handled very properly..I normally will say what she wants to hear..If not,i'll get a headshot..I did try to ask her to control but dunno la..She cant..I think im a very very calm person to her adi..She scolds me for no reason oso i always tahan 1..
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dont compare. i use to have a weakness that my bf point to me, which is, i always wanna win, no matter it's my fault or not (well, i still have it now, but i'm improving on it). i just wouldnt wanna lose and i will become very defencive and my word is kind of rude. after he pointed this, i'm working hard to improve this. now, whenever i have the urge to act that way, i will keep on reminding myself that no point if i win the battle if i lose the essense of relationship. therefore, i will try to change my attitude, for both my own good and my bf's too. however, there will still be the time that i would have exploded and need my bf to remind me that i'm acting that way again. however, both of us knows that changing an attitude needs time. reading lots of self-help book on this matter do help a lot. well, maybe you really gotta take time and talk with your girl and explain to her very very nicely. as i tell you, i use to be defensive when people point out my weakness, even my bf. but always he stay calm and control his temper and explain to me nicely and slowly. i guess, the way he speaks and send the message to me triggers my inner instinct to tell myself that my kind of attitude will not bring any positiveness to me, so i decided to change. of course, with his help. therefore, i really treasure him a lot, because, he taught me a lot, i grew a lot from our relationship, and i certainly matures from here. therefore, i love him very much wub.gif i wish you all the best also, ok? slowly, and hope she will get the light after some time.
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dont compare. i use to have a weakness that my bf point to me, which is, i always wanna win, no matter it's my fault or not (well, i still have it now, but i'm improving on it). i just wouldnt wanna lose and i will become very defencive and my word is kind of rude. after he pointed this, i'm working hard to improve this. now, whenever i have the urge to act that way, i will keep on reminding myself that no point if i win the battle if i lose the essense of relationship. therefore, i will try to change my attitude, for both my own good and my bf's too. however, there will still be the time that i would have exploded and need my bf to remind me that i'm acting that way again. however, both of us knows that changing an attitude needs time. reading lots of self-help book on this matter do help a lot. well, maybe you really gotta take time and talk with your girl and explain to her very very nicely. as i tell you, i use to be defensive when people point out my weakness, even my bf. but always he stay calm and control his temper and explain to me nicely and slowly. i guess, the way he speaks and send the message to me triggers my inner instinct to tell myself that my kind of attitude will not bring any positiveness to me, so i decided to change. of course, with his help. therefore, i really treasure him a lot, because, he taught me a lot, i grew a lot from our relationship, and i certainly matures from here. therefore, i love him very much wub.gif i wish you all the best also, ok? slowly, and hope she will get the light after some time.
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haha.... looks like we are having the same thing ler.
well.. i always let her "win" and then when everything cool down... it;s my turn already... i will "catch" her and talk to her.... by that time.. i do not need to do alot of talking... she will guai guai.. admit.. haha... not bad huh?
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Actually, I had a quarrel with my gf yesterday. Well, Im not a person who love to go out or something and Im not good in social skill as well. Then yesterday's afternoon, her friends asked us to go out yum cha. I was forced by my gf to go with them. So yea, when we arrived I only realised that Im the only guy there. So, the girls were like talking about their cosmetic stuffs lah, fingernails lah, yoga, this and that.

Im a guy, u dont expect me to join in those talks right ? Therefore, I sat still, looking at my gf, hinting her that I wanted to go back. She was not really happy about it. Its like, she wanted me to join in their talks. Fine, I tried but well.. some of them do ignored me. Okie.. I dont keep it in heart. I turned back to my gf and continue talking to her. After everyone finish their food, I paid the bill and we left the cafe.

Then, in the car, from their conversations, I only knew that my gf went to sing K with her friends which she never told me (before this she never goes to those places). I was definitely mad because as for me, its kind of disrespect me. I mean, at least she should let me know about it. Instead of knowing those through her friends, I prefer that she tells me herself but then... Sigh..

Anyway, she apologized after everyone went back. So.. hmm.. yea, we're okie now. She took this morning's flight back to KL.

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Actually, I had a quarrel with my gf yesterday. Well, Im not a person who love to go out or something and Im not good in social skill as well. Then yesterday's afternoon, her friends asked us to go out yum cha. I was forced by my gf to go with them. So yea, when we arrived I only realised that Im the only guy there. So, the girls were like talking about their cosmetic stuffs lah, fingernails lah, yoga, this and that.

Im a guy, u dont expect me to join in those talks right ? Therefore, I sat still, looking at my gf, hinting her that I wanted to go back. She was not really happy about it. Its like, she wanted me to join in their talks. Fine, I tried but well.. some of them do ignored me. Okie.. I dont keep it in heart. I turned back to my gf and continue talking to her. After everyone finish their food, I paid the bill and we left the cafe.

Then, in the car, from their conversations, I only knew that my gf went to sing K with her friends which she never told me (before this she never goes to those places). I was definitely mad because as for me, its kind of disrespect me. I mean, at least she should let me know about it. Instead of knowing those through her friends, I prefer that she tells me herself but then... Sigh..

Anyway, she apologized after everyone went back. So.. hmm.. yea, we're okie now. She took this morning's flight back to KL.

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maybe u can get to know her friend more to so tat u can understand her well...
being with their friend is not awful...
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Cameron's trip was nice, my bf and I both love the weather and environment there!! We've been to BOH Tea Plantation, a little temple beside Sam Poh Temple to meet the famous monk, The Smokehouse to have English Afternoon Tea, Rose Centre, Vegetable Market near Brinchang to buy loads of veggie back home, and also the Moonlight Bungalow (where the Thai Silk King - Jim Thompson disappeared, but I wasn't allowed to take photo!!) Had lots of fun during the trip~ Nice hotel & nice steamboat!!! thumbup.gif Will visit there again for sure, and will try jungle trekking next time!


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May I know the situation for those student who study engeneering programme at Australia?

Is they busy until can't msn or make a short call?

And will they busy until suddenly forget your birthday b'coz of assignment?
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May I know the situation for those student who study engeneering programme at Australia?

Is they busy until can't msn or make a short call?

And will they busy until suddenly forget your birthday b'coz of assignment?
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May I know the situation for those student who study engeneering programme at Australia?

Is they busy until can't msn or make a short call?

And will they busy until suddenly forget your birthday b'coz of assignment?
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May I know the situation for those student who study engeneering programme at Australia?

Is they busy until can't msn or make a short call?

And will they busy until suddenly forget your birthday b'coz of assignment?
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everyone is different one mah... some people might be busy, some might not. some might forget, some might remember mah... why not you talk with her about it leh?
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Actually I ask in behalf of my female friend.

She complainted that her bf veryx2 busy in his study at Australia. Why she don't ask him or whether she asked b4? I donno...

But will you forget to send a birthday msg to your another half b'coz of some1 pop out suddenly while you 'thinking' to send a birthday msg?

Personally I think no matter how busy you are, at least remember to send a msg to your another half on her "big" day, not few days later when they meet at MSN.... rclxub.gif

B'coz of this situation, I'm really curious that whether those taking engeneering programme at Australia are so busy? Any b/f or b/f taking engeneering programme at Australia too?
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^well, i think there are possibility that he forgot after someone pop up while he's typing the birthday message. well, anything can happen mah... as long as he apologize after that, is ok liao lorr...

engineering is on of the busy course mah... actually, whatever course also will be busy one lah... ask her to talk with him lorr... moreover, different uni, different one mah...
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Aug 2 2006, 01:00 PM)
^well, i think there are possibility that he forgot after someone pop up while he's typing the birthday message. well, anything can happen mah... as long as he apologize after that, is ok liao lorr...

engineering is on of the busy course mah... actually, whatever course also will be busy one lah... ask her to talk with him lorr... moreover, different uni, different one mah...
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I think the one who understands the guy most is your friend herself. There can be lots of reason for someone to forget sending b-day message to the beloved. Whether his explanation is acceptable or not, it depends on how well your friend understands and trusts her bf in OZ la...

Say, I know my bf is a very forgetful and hardworking guy at the same time a very trustworthy, single-hearted guy, then I will accept his reason of forgetting to send msg becoz of someone's interruption or too busy at schoolwork.

So your friend should have the answer in her heart, unless she doesn't know her bf well or being too suspicious and sensitive.
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Maybe... sometimes honey forget our anniversary too. All you have to do is give some hint. It's not about hoping for your other half to remember your birthday or anniversary etc.

I have a friend who cannot manage dates. Always forget special dates. So his gf will keep on reminding him starting a week before their anniversary. Dear ar.. 6 more days to our anniversary.. then dear ar.. 5 more days.. etc.. Then he will remember. biggrin.gif

Remember, relationship only work if you understand each other and try to fill in each others demerits. Not about hoping for your other half to change. You compromise, don't hope.
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QUOTE(suiteng @ Aug 2 2006, 01:51 PM)
Maybe... sometimes honey forget our anniversary too. All you have to do is give some hint. It's not about hoping for your other half to remember your birthday or anniversary etc.

I have a friend who cannot manage dates. Always forget special dates. So his gf will keep on reminding him starting a week before their anniversary. Dear ar.. 6 more days to our anniversary.. then dear ar.. 5 more days.. etc.. Then he will remember. biggrin.gif

Remember, relationship only work if you understand each other and try to fill in each others demerits. Not about hoping for your other half to change. You compromise, don't hope.
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well same here.....me n him will count down for everything..like sometimes he promise to bring me out to kai kai or do something special n of cos i do scare hemay forgot then i will remind him by the way saying im very happy o dear!5 days to go or sometimes just weeeeeeee finally we can go XXX to kai kai or something like that....if not sometiems will b very direct...dear,u remmeber whens my birthday ar? tongue.gif
well,direct oso good ghe,depends on how u take it..
i do remember once i rush to work and was so busy till i din even sms him i reach my work place dy n antyhing at all cos normally when i reach my work place then i will just give him 1 sms ...then he worried like siao ....n now he oso used to it dy...not i forgot him but sometimes...well... tongue.gif tongue.gif
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QUOTE(outsider @ Aug 2 2006, 01:08 PM)
yaya...............what miyoko said is rite.......i very trust her....i'm her fan smile.gif  smile.gif
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wah... blush.gif flattered. i sometimes made mistakes too.

anyway, in my opinion, we shouldnt really put that much of emphathy on those special dates such as valentines and things like that. well, what's more important is, everyday also in love with each others and show affection for each others everyday, other than only just on those special occasion. well, of course me and my dear will celebrate those days, but if really busy and cant make it, also nevermind lorr... if didnt put so much emphathy on it, then will be better geh...
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I hope my friend be pre-active a bit blush.gif but she is a conservative minded girl, means guy should take action....like guy should call girl, etc...

I know what you girls/guys mentioned...but the problem is the LDR, she already felt sad abt the communication impaired/break down btw her and her bf (b'coz the boy was 'too' busy in his studies, according to her) furthermore this belated birthday wish doh.gif

Although it's seems a small matter but it make her down...

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QUOTE(miyoko @ Aug 2 2006, 02:26 PM)
wah... blush.gif flattered. i sometimes made mistakes too.

anyway, in my opinion, we shouldnt really put that much of emphathy on those special dates such as valentines and things like that. well, what's more important is, everyday also in love with each others and show affection for each others everyday, other than only just on those special occasion. well, of course me and my dear will celebrate those days, but if really busy and cant make it, also nevermind lorr... if didnt put so much emphathy on it, then will be better geh...
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I very pui-fook you oso leh..You very keng coz you can and try to control ur anger.. notworthy.gif
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well, not 100% successful one leh, but at least i try. there's once that my dear was away from kl on valentine's due to his work. so didnt celebrate lorr... that was our first valentines. was down, but manage to think positively. well, as for anniversary, my dear is forgetful, so i would remind him lorr. but if he still forgets, then i plan for some activities lorr... in this way, both also happy mah, instead of me get angry that he forget our anniversary and both be unhappy because of quarrel, better still, i put some effort and plan the activities and enjoy together lorr... i definitely feel better this was than to get angry and quarrel with him.

well, sometimes, we have to see things from a different angle that we always see. "forget" is an accident. nobody can purposely forget one. try purposely forget something and see whether you can make it or not? cannot mah, because when you purposely forget means, you remember lorr.. so, if forget those birthday, anniversary or whatever occasion, it's not wrong mah, cos it's not intentional. so, look from a different angle, fix the problem and be happy. i would choose to fix the problem and be happy than to be sad and angry that he forgets.

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QUOTE(miyoko @ Aug 2 2006, 05:27 PM)
well, not 100% successful one leh, but at least i try. there's once that my dear was away from kl on valentine's due to his work. so didnt celebrate lorr... that was our first valentines. was down, but manage to think positively. well, as for anniversary, my dear is forgetful, so i would remind him lorr. but if he still forgets, then i plan for some activities lorr... in this way, both also happy mah, instead of me get angry that he forget our anniversary and both be unhappy because of quarrel, better still, i put some effort and plan the activities and enjoy together lorr... i definitely feel better this was than to get angry and quarrel with him.

well, sometimes, we have to see things from a different angle that we always see. "forget" is an accident. nobody can purposely forget one. try purposely forget something and see whether you can make it or not? cannot mah, because when you purposely forget means, you remember lorr.. so, if forget those birthday, anniversary or whatever occasion, it's not wrong mah, cos it's not intentional. so, look from a different angle, fix the problem and be happy. i would choose to fix the problem and be happy than to be sad and angry that he forgets.
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miyoko went to some anger management blink.gif sound pro ledi ~ laugh.gif
anyway, not many ppl can do like this~ somehow and someway, ppl will get angry if their dear forget something very important such as annivessary, birthday, ect etc...
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QUOTE(devince83 @ Aug 3 2006, 09:41 AM)
miyoko went to some anger management blink.gif sound pro ledi ~ laugh.gif
anyway, not many ppl can do like this~ somehow and someway, ppl will get angry if their dear forget something very important such as annivessary, birthday, ect etc...
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No, i didnt attend any anger management course. i learnt from past experiences and self-help books. also with my bf's guidance.

always have to remind myself that getting angry will not solve the problem but will create another problem. and always try to look at the matter in a different angle.

well, people will get angry when they expect their dear to remember those dates. what if we dont expect and already be prepared and know that they'll forget. so, when there's no expectation, there's no disappoinment, no anger lorr.
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Well said Miyoko. That's how to make couple happy. biggrin.gif
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adding on to that, another point to ponder is ---> dont compare.

when we starts to compare. that's the bench mark, marking the starts of a doom relationship. that is where when those "my friend's bf can this and that, why you cannot?" and also "she can this and that, why you cannot?" and there goes the blaming and quarreling. not worth, aye?

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waah ... forget aniversary oso can ah? I forget the day her first pimple oso kena scold le tongue.gif but to some gf it's really unacceptabl ... I understand it coz my gf is like that ... sensitive girls are like tht wan
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So busy these days sad.gif login the web oso no time sad.gif

@shysherly, suiteng
waah ... forget aniversary oso can ah? I forget the day her first pimple oso kena scold le tongue.gif but to some gf it's really unacceptabl ... I understand it coz my gf is like that ... sensitive girls are like tht wan
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if she fprget ur birthday.. how!?
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Afternoon all! sorry for miss in action. very extremely busy with work recently. for my relationship, so far so good. he just bought me a novel and my favourite cartoon cd. haha! anyway, i was still thinking hard what to prepare for his surprise. the date is coming soon. i really scared i cant make it. must not be lazy anymore. anyway, have nice and blessful relationships ya!
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if she fprget ur birthday.. how!?
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forgive and work out ways to have a happy day lorr... as i said, forget is not intentional one mah...
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forgive and work out ways to have a happy day lorr... as i said, forget is not intentional one mah...
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if she fprget ur birthday.. how!?
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1ST thing is that she won't coz my bday easiest to remember but even if she forgets .... hmm ... I'll .... flex.gif then ... icon_question.gif then she'll be rclxub.gif whistling.gif

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hmm.. just want to know from girls..
When u ask a girl that whether she loves to receive flowers or not and she answered no.
And u insists to send her flower, will she get annoyed or happy?
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hmm.. just want to know from girls..
When u ask a girl that whether she loves to receive flowers or not and she answered no.
And u insists to send her flower, will she get annoyed or happy?
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she will disappointed..
she already told u wat her dont like..
and u still do... shakehead.gif btw, did u ask her wat she like!?
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hmm.. just want to know from girls..
When u ask a girl that whether she loves to receive flowers or not and she answered no.
And u insists to send her flower, will she get annoyed or happy?
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If the girl is ur gf, pls buy her flowers even she answered no....she will complain in future!!!

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If the girl is ur gf, pls buy her flowers even she answered no....she will complain in future!!!
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hmm.. just want to know from girls..
When u ask a girl that whether she loves to receive flowers or not and she answered no.
And u insists to send her flower, will she get annoyed or happy?
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If a girl answers no to flowers, she might want money instead or bring her go shopping instead. biggrin.gif

QUOTE(TarePanda @ Aug 6 2006, 10:12 PM)
If the girl is ur gf, pls buy her flowers even she answered no....she will complain in future!!!
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If I'm your gf, I will be disappointed tongue.gif

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if the girls is allegic leh!??
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Yalor.. coz I'm allergic to flowers and yet I get them every birthday sleep.gif
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If I'm your gf, I will be disappointed tongue.gif

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For 1st 2 years in my relationship, i never bought even a rose to my gf coz she said it waste of money (yea, include valentine day coz rose shoot up to sky high!!)...i agreed...coz money can well spend on some where else like good dining...

After that, she told her friends that I never bought her flowers rclxub.gif and I 'tag' as a non-romantic guy rclxub.gif Finally I bought her a bouquet of flowers in her birthday, well, she happy for whole week

So my advice is, no matter girls said she don't want flowers...it halfly true!!! Give them a suprise in appropriate time and place!! thumbup.gif

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If a girl answers no to flowers, she might want money instead or bring her go shopping instead. biggrin.gif
If I'm your gf, I will be disappointed tongue.gif
Yalor.. coz I'm allergic to flowers and yet I get them every birthday sleep.gif
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QUOTE(TarePanda @ Aug 7 2006, 11:43 AM)
I experienced it sweat.gif
For 1st 2 years in my relationship, i never bought even a rose to my gf coz she said it waste of money (yea, include valentine day coz rose shoot up to sky high!!)...i agreed...coz money can well spend on some where else like good dining...

After that, she told her friends that I never bought her flowers rclxub.gif and I 'tag' as a non-romantic guy rclxub.gif Finally I bought her a bouquet of flowers in her birthday, well, she happy for whole week 

So my advice is, no matter girls said she don't want flowers...it halfly true!!! Give them a suprise in appropriate time and place!! thumbup.gif
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tat's because she like flower..
if the girls nv tell they like or dun like flowers.. then can give..
if she tell already, then dun give lo..
give her others like necklace, bear bear and etc etc lo

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most of u here having ldr right???why ?? is it because one of u is studying overseas???or working????

will u still consider having LDR if ur partner doesn't wanna work in Malaysia..........
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hi everyone,

most of u here having ldr right???why ?? is it because one of u is studying overseas???or working????

will u still consider having LDR if ur partner doesn't wanna work in Malaysia..........
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FYI, i'm single smile.gif  icon_rolleyes.gif
love is blind....
when u fall for someone, no matter is LDR or SDR~
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hello everyone, miyoko reporting in. yesterday i was sick, now back on track liao.

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hello everyone, miyoko reporting in. yesterday i was sick, now back on tract liao.
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hello everyone, miyoko reporting in. yesterday i was sick, now back on tract liao.
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hello everyone, miyoko reporting in. yesterday i was sick, now back on track liao.
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Sigh.. I was also having bad asthma for a few weeks already. Hazy hazy..
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wei, you guys really dont remember me ah? am i in dejavu land?
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I puifook you a lot I sure remember u 1!haha..maybe valen is a new member here gua..
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hi everyone,

most of u here having ldr right???why ?? is it because one of u is studying overseas???or working????

will u still consider having LDR if ur partner doesn't wanna work in Malaysia..........
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i need to hear some response from u guys.....please take some time...thanks
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i need to hear some response from u guys.....please take some time...thanks
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ok, if my partner doesnt wanna work in Malaysia, i would consider these few things:

1) Does he plan to come back to Malaysia after a certain period of time?
2) How long will that certain period of time be?
3) How stable is our relationship?
4) If he will not be coming back to Malaysia, will there be any possibility that I can also develop my career there?
5) Do I wanna be in that country?
6) Will I be able to leave Malaysia? (family, particularly)
7) What is his plan if he will not be coming back to Malaysia?
8) What is his plan if he wanna bring me there?

Anyway, above all, i would say that i would look and evaluate the future, not the current condition. if his plan is just to go oversea to work a few years and gain some money, and come back to malaysia, then no problem with me. suffer now, but enjoy in the future. however, if he doesnt plan to come back, then the things above will be evaluated and the result will be used for me to make my decision.

as a conclusion, i look at the future, not the current condition.

hope this could help.
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I puifook you a lot I sure remember u 1!haha..maybe valen is a new member here gua..
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single?sure boh?haha..
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wei, you guys really dont remember me ah? am i in dejavu land?
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back in action!!! reporting in. hehehe... have a nice week ahead, guys. going vacation with my dear soon. so happy.
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back in action!!! reporting in. hehehe... have a nice week ahead, guys. going vacation with my dear soon. so happy.
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wooo...seronoknya..Going where?
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hi, this seems to be a nice tread,good idea miyoko...bout ur idea post 248
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haha..1st time i see ppl quote post number..Anyway,new here?
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wooo...seronoknya..Going where?

haha..1st time i see ppl quote post number..Anyway,new here?
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haha... somewhere near only. so, wherever we go also nevermind geh, it's the moment to be together with my dear that makes it so valuable.
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7chai dun pretend innocent
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Devince i got ur phone number d from sports section..hehe..later i kacau..jk..Anyway,where part of setapak are you from?
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^^be strong. how long does she still needs to be there? time flies fast if we didnt wait. hope you can understand what i'm trying to say.
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Probably 2 more years, maybe more if she plans to work there for a while.

Dont worry about me miyoko, I'm used to it. We've been like this for the past 2 years, although we're coming to our 5th anniversary together end of this year.
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Tell us your story  rclxm9.gif
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it not really far la between us. i'm near ipoh and she's at shah alam. 2 months already we didn't meet. no time to visit her. quite busy with my studies. her too. but few day ago, she got this problem. i also dunno what the problem is. ask her, she told me "i dunno". she sometime feel irritates with me and her closest fren. her other fren ok pulak. sigh~ i talked to her last nite, and plan to meet her this weekend to settle it. how can i regain back her smile eh? aaaaaaa..~

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Devince i got ur phone number d from sports section..hehe..later i kacau..jk..Anyway,where part of setapak are you from?
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anyway, me stay at jln genting kelang, the condo area there~
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paka? apa paka?
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Aaww.... *gives jhcj a pat on the back*
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Thanks *sniff*

She called earlier when she arrived, and said she missed me.

I wish I could be there to hold her. cry.gif
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Sometimes cry myself to sleep at night coz miss her too much. Miss her touch, her voice... But hold on, have faith, continue to love her, and both of you will be together at last.

My honey almost off work now, can see her later lu. Can't wait~
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I've just moved to Kuching and started my uni life. Recently, my gf and I go into a dull period. Im not sure why .. its like everytime that I call her, she doesnt really wish to talk to me. And even sms, also like very sianz. Sigh..
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anyway, me stay at jln genting kelang, the condo area there~
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GF just returned to US yesterday to resume her studies. She was here for 3 months on summer holidays.

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^^be strong. how long does she still needs to be there? time flies fast if we didnt wait. hope you can understand what i'm trying to say.
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Hello everyone..My gf oso just went back last night after spending 2 days with me in kl..When she went back yesterday i was like so sad.Was even crying in the bus..Wahlao,so paiseh..Luckily i got to cover my face and pretend to sleep..
I miss her so so much..Write this oso feel like breaking down adi..
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Hello everyone..My gf oso just went back last night after spending 2 days with me in kl..When she went back yesterday i was like so sad.Was even crying in the bus..Wahlao,so paiseh..Luckily i got to cover my face and pretend to sleep..
I miss her so so much..Write this oso feel like breaking down adi..
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Cool down cool down.. think positive, trust her. She will be back soon. Don't sad sad ya.. if wanna grumble then you can grumble in this topic ya.. Mandy don't mind wan. laugh.gif

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Wanna ask u guys something..

How would u guys feel when ur gf, or bf went out with opposite sex for like erm, shopping etc ? And s/he didnt tell u about it at all...

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Hmm, wonder why ... I can see my LDR .. kinda ... going down ....

She left for Masters in Singapore .. when we both just started 1 - 2 weeks .. our relationship wasn't even strong yet .. sigh ..

now like .. after a month already ...
Everyday, on the phone you'll just hear " Dear, I love you, I miss you " from both sides .. just merely talking ...

I just felt like it's a matter of time before it all gets worst ..

Any .. suggestions ? ..
I'm really stuck with job from Monday to Friday .. and studying on Sat and Sun ..
Couldn't even get my passport to renew in order to be able to go there ..
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Aug 18 2006, 08:22 PM)
Wanna ask u guys something..

How would u guys feel when ur gf, or bf went out with opposite sex for like erm, shopping etc ? And s/he didnt tell u about it at all...
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I sure get angry like hell 1..Serious..But i dunno what i'll do oso..Maybe i'll think too much and get sad..
QUOTE(Biscuit @ Aug 19 2006, 01:13 AM)
Hmm, wonder why ... I can see my LDR .. kinda ... going down ....

She left for Masters in Singapore .. when we both just started 1 - 2 weeks .. our relationship wasn't even strong yet .. sigh ..

now like .. after a month already ...
Everyday, on the phone you'll just hear " Dear, I love you, I miss you " from both sides .. just merely talking ...

I just felt like it's a matter of time before it all gets worst ..

Any .. suggestions ? ..
I'm really stuck with job from Monday to Friday .. and studying on Sat and Sun ..
Couldn't even get my passport to renew in order to be able to go there ..
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I dont really get you..you mean both of you cant really talk to each other and you feel that there's something in ur relationship?
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QUOTE(BaByNicole @ Aug 19 2006, 11:59 PM)
~i'm sorry to said that... i had no confidence on myself or my relationship especially it come to long distance.. i need to see my bf everyday... at least few hours or even few minutes... if not... is easy for my mind to think too many things... so.. i'm not into long distance so much....~
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hi... this is my 1st post here i guess... don't worry too much Biscuit... this is normal la... i assume that ur relationship had just started... when i just started with my now almost 5year gf i left to study and at that time the same thing happens like what u have now... n it's even worse that we didn't talk on phone for weeks when v r quarrelling over some 'small' matters... but v still 2gether till 2day n m still in ldr... anyway... i m not suggesting u 2 quarrel... from wat i learn from that is that talk more to each other besides i love u i miss u coz she might get bored or even u r now already bored.... juz talk anything from what happen since u woke up till u r talking to her as though u r writing a very detailed diary but of course can't leave out some la hehe.... i guess she has connection there right.... so instead of calling mayb u all can use msn... sort of setting things like everyday msn then call once in a few days.... juz some opinions lol.... gd luck...
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Aug 18 2006, 08:22 PM)
Wanna ask u guys something..

How would u guys feel when ur gf, or bf went out with opposite sex for like erm, shopping etc ? And s/he didnt tell u about it at all...
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how you know if he/she didnt tell you? hehehe...

anyway, no problem for me. i absolutely trust my bf. wont think so much. if wanna think also think the positive ones, such as ---> maybe he went out to get some gift for me and wanted a girl's point of view and wanna keep it as a surprise for me? hehe... anyway, so far, my bf never hide lah... if he go also he'll tell me before hand. he said, dont wanna create unnecessary misunderstanding.

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I sure get angry like hell 1..Serious..But i dunno what i'll do oso..Maybe i'll think too much and get sad..

I dont really get you..you mean both of you cant really talk to each other and you feel that there's something in ur relationship?
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dont always think negatively lah, think positively lah...

i tell you, sometimes, girls feels more comfortable being friend with guys than other girls. cos when with girls, so much gossips and comparisons. so, sometimes, girls will feel more comfortable with guys friends. anyway, i personally have got a few good guy friends. and my bf knows about them.

actually, being in a relationship is about trusting. sometimes, our mind just play a fool with us and make us think lots of negative thoughts. try not to let our mind lingers and spoil the relationship. sometimes, it's really nothing, but it's just our mind which tells us there's something. just trust and think positively. things will be alright.
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Aug 21 2006, 09:16 AM)
how you know if he/she didnt tell you? hehehe...

anyway, no problem for me. i absolutely trust my bf. wont think so much. if wanna think also think the positive ones, such as ---> maybe he went out to get some gift for me and wanted a girl's point of view and wanna keep it as a surprise for me? hehe... anyway, so far, my bf never hide lah... if he go also he'll tell me before hand. he said, dont wanna create unnecessary misunderstanding.
dont always think negatively lah, think positively lah...

i tell you, sometimes, girls feels more comfortable being friend with guys than other girls. cos when with girls, so much gossips and comparisons. so, sometimes, girls will feel more comfortable with guys friends. anyway, i personally have got a few good guy friends. and my bf knows about them.

actually, being in a relationship is about trusting. sometimes, our mind just play a fool with us and make us think lots of negative thoughts. try not to let our mind lingers and spoil the relationship. sometimes, it's really nothing, but it's just our mind which tells us there's something. just trust and think positively. things will be alright.
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thanks a lot miyoko..today i really was thinking way too much..felt like im going to be crazy adi..Anyway,just wanna ask that if you say 'i love you',do you expect to get it back from your beloved?

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QUOTE(max_cjs0101 @ Aug 21 2006, 12:40 PM)
thanks a lot miyoko..today i really was thinking way too much..felt like im going to be crazy adi..Anyway,just wanna ask that if you say 'i love you',do you expect to get it back from your beloved?
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no, i dont expect to get it back from my love. when i say "i love you", what i meants is just "i love you". no other intention behind it. i found that if we put expectation of our partner replying "i love you too" or things like that, it would not be a "spark" but instead it's just merely a reply. so, me and my love only say it when we really mean it. hehehe...

may i know what are you thinking about? maybe can share here and i can help shed some light into you?
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Aug 21 2006, 12:45 PM)
no, i dont expect to get it back from my love. when i say "i love you", what i meants is just "i love you". no other intention behind it. i found that if we put expectation of our partner replying "i love you too" or things like that, it would not be a "spark" but instead it's just merely a reply. so, me and my love only say it when we really mean it. hehehe...

may i know what are you thinking about? maybe can share here and i can help shed some light into you?
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can..its just that i dunno why she doesnt like or want to say these words..She says she wants to keep it and when she says it,then it'll be like erm,very meaningful..
I dunno whether you understand anot coz i dunno how to put it in another way..
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can..its just that i dunno why she doesnt like or want to say these words..She says she wants to keep it and when she says it,then it'll be like erm,very meaningful..
I dunno whether you understand anot coz i dunno how to put it in another way..
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same apply to me. i dun simply go n say 'i love u' one... it's a very deep word for me.
if i say it, i really really mean it.

so whenever he say those words to me, i jz keep quiet... blush.gif feel so sorry also got, but let's hope my other half understand that that 3 words is very very deep n meaningful to me...
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QUOTE(smoochiesayn @ Aug 21 2006, 01:14 PM)
same apply to me. i dun simply go n say 'i love u' one... it's a very deep word for me.
if i say it, i really really mean it.

so whenever he say those words to me, i jz keep quiet... blush.gif feel so sorry also got, but let's hope my other half understand that that 3 words is very very deep n meaningful to me...
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i know you dun simply say those 3 words but isnt he ur only bf so it should be okay if you say it to him rite?

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i know you dun simply say those 3 words but isnt he ur only bf so it should be okay if you say it to him rite?
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maybe bcoz we jz started seeing each other, so i jz wan to be sure of my feeling 1st then say tat 3 words tongue.gif
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QUOTE(max_cjs0101 @ Aug 21 2006, 12:50 PM)
can..its just that i dunno why she doesnt like or want to say these words..She says she wants to keep it and when she says it,then it'll be like erm,very meaningful..
I dunno whether you understand anot coz i dunno how to put it in another way..
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yeah, i understand it. that's exactly like what i say lorr, she wanna say it when she really mean it lorr...

i give you a scenario. would you like for her to say it just to please you but she dont mean it, or she say it from the bottom of her heart?

also, some people just couldnt say it from the mouth. not even write/typed it into paper. they just couldnt. so how does this type of people express their love? ---> by action. some people can say so many "i love you" and all sorts of things, but their action just doesnt show that. which one would you prefer?

not saying the 3 words doesnt means she dont love you. i'm sure you could feel her love, eventhough she's not saying it. dont think so negatively. it's bad for your health and bad for your relationship too. all the best yeah.
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Aug 21 2006, 02:11 PM)
yeah, i understand it. that's exactly like what i say lorr, she wanna say it when she really mean it lorr...

i give you a scenario. would you like for her to say it just to please you but she dont mean it, or she say it from the bottom of her heart?

also, some people just couldnt say it from the mouth. not even write/typed it into paper. they just couldnt. so how does this type of people express their love? ---> by action. some people can say so many "i love you" and all sorts of things, but their action just doesnt show that. which one would you prefer?

not saying the 3 words doesnt means she dont love you. i'm sure you could feel her love, eventhough she's not saying it. dont think so negatively. it's bad for your health and bad for your relationship too. all the best yeah.
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u mean LDR or wa??
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Aug 23 2006, 02:29 PM)
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Hey long time no post ^0^)/

Hm.. a little romantic surprise will do, I think~ icon_idea.gif
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if a relationship is quiet,i personally think that its dangerous lor..Ask the pro,miyoko..hehe
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hihi .. i also want to join this club ... my gf yestreday flew to uk to study.....
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Hmm, bloomings.. ? Safe or not ?
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Its safe..But expensive..Why not you take a leave and buy her a big bouquet of flowers then wait for her after her office hours?
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She's studying, and me too. Both of us are actually still uni students loh.
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She's studying, and me too. Both of us are actually still uni students loh.
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Then just fetch her or wait for her outside her class with some flowers lo..Paiseh izit?Nothing to paiseh 1..
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Then just fetch her or wait for her outside her class with some flowers lo..Paiseh izit?Nothing to paiseh 1..
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Wai.... bro, already LDR.. how to fetch or wait for her.. sweat.gif

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ok, jdreamer, mind to tell me where are you and your girl? let me have some idea of your distance, then i give some suggestion?
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Thought I mentioned before.. shes in KL and Im in Kuching. sad.gif
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Any special days coming? Like birthday, anniversary, etc.. Merdeka? sweat.gif

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Birthday, anniversary... all in next year liao. Maybe mooncake festival ? hahahahahx...
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For example.. ? sweat.gif
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Order her a bouquet of flower from bloomings.com?
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This is one of the example~ tongue.gif

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Birthday, anniversary... all in next year liao. Maybe mooncake festival ? hahahahahx...
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Mooncake can only show you are thinking of her all the time, but not romantic enough... Actually no need to wait until any special occasion to give surprise (if surprise is for special occasion then it's not surprise enough la... as girls usually expect a surprise on special occasion) If you think flower is out of your budget or she doesn't like flower at all, then just send her a little gift la~ Anything you think she may like, and something you've never given her as gift before. Some ideas like bed cover/pillow cover, sweet cute photo frame with you two's pic on it, mug, keychain, fashion jewellery, cute pajamas, mobile strap, cute bath towel...etc. All those thing she can use in daily life, let her think of you when she use your gift~ wink.gif
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mooncake festival okay oso wat...a good chance..
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This is one of the example~  tongue.gif
Mooncake can only show you are thinking of her all the time, but not romantic enough... Actually no need to wait until any special occasion to give surprise (if surprise is for special occasion then it's not surprise enough la... as girls usually expect a surprise on special occasion) If you think flower is out of your budget or she doesn't like flower at all, then just send her a little gift la~ Anything you think she may like, and something you've never given her as gift before. Some ideas like bed cover/pillow cover, sweet cute photo frame with you two's pic on it, mug, keychain, fashion jewellery, cute pajamas, mobile strap, cute bath towel...etc. All those thing she can use in daily life, let her think of you when she use your gift~  wink.gif
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Yea, true. I actually dont know she likes flowers or not. It will be my first time buying roses for her. I'll think about it. smile.gif

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Yea, true. I actually dont know she liks flowers or not. It will be my first time buying roses for him. I'll think about it.  smile.gif
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Does anyone miss me? I know I know, all of you sure miss me till dead tongue.gif

Sorry for lost in action for such a looooooooooong time but i am glad that all of you still will drop some message in this thread.

At last, I successfully giving him the "surprise" that I have planned for such a long time for our 100 days anniversary. He was pretty happy to receive them and it caused all of my efforts paid off!

Anyway, just a brief details of the surprise I gave him:-

1) A t-shirt which I think he will look nice wearing it

2) A bottle containing a secret message (100 reasons why I love him <= I think of this for few days sweat.gif )

3) A souvenir that I bought during my vacation with my friend (to prove that I still think of him even I am enjoying with my friends)

4) A cd with 100 meaningful love songs (I even made the cd cover by myself to make it unique which only both of us having it) <= This really gave me a headache as I needed to search for 100 love songs that didnt have any negative meanings and not the type of songs which guys are singing for their gfs

5) A decoration (a guy which was awarded as the best and No. 1 in the world) <= To resemble him as the best bf in the world

I know the above might sound silly to some of you here but I think all of the gifts have special meanings in it and I am really glad that he appreciates them.

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Hmm, I'll see what I can do about it. Anyway, anymore suggestions.. ?
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Wow, nice. Thats good for u and ur bf. Im glad that u enjoyed ur anniversary. And thanks for the suggestion, I'll go and take a look at the site later..

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QUOTE(mandysu @ Aug 25 2006, 11:32 AM)
hello guys!

Does anyone miss me? I know I know, all of you sure miss me till dead  tongue.gif

Sorry for lost in action for such a looooooooooong time but i am glad that all of you still will drop some message in this thread.

At last, I successfully giving him the "surprise" that I have planned for such a long time for our 100 days anniversary. He was pretty happy to receive them and it caused all of my efforts paid off!

Anyway, just a brief details of the surprise I gave him:-

1) A t-shirt which I think he will look nice wearing it

2) A bottle containing a secret message (100 reasons why I love him <= I think of this for few days  sweat.gif )

3) A souvenir that I bought during my vacation with my friend (to prove that I still think of him even I am enjoying with my friends)

4) A cd with 100 meaningful love songs (I even made the cd cover by myself to make it unique which only both of us having it)  <= This really gave me a headache as I needed to search for 100 love songs that didnt have any negative meanings and not the type of songs which guys are singing for their gfs

5) A decoration (a guy which was awarded as the best and No. 1 in the world) <= To resemble him as the best bf in the world

I know the above might sound silly to some of you here but I think all of the gifts have special meanings in it and I am really glad that he appreciates them.
You can refer to the above for some suggestions or you can also refer to http://www.lovingyou.com for more ideas. They have stated lots of nice ideas for maintaining LDR relationship. Hope that it would help!
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Aug 25 2006, 11:36 AM)
Wow, nice. Thats good for u and ur bf. Im glad that u enjoyed ur anniversary. And thanks for the suggestion, I'll go and take a look at the site later..

Posting in uni now.. cough, paiseh to surf it here. laugh.gif
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ok ok my story ... she went to oxford brooks to study law.. third year .... so will be there for 1 year lor...

so far not yet do anythign just bought webcam for her..... now she on tour so nice with her sister but me alone at home ahiz
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wahlao eh..so romantic of you...
Can i know which uni are you in?
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Swinburne University.

QUOTE(ello @ Aug 25 2006, 05:18 PM)
ok ok my story ... she went to oxford brooks to study law.. third year .... so will be there for 1 year lor...

so far not yet do anythign just bought webcam for her..... now she on tour so nice with her sister but me alone at home ahiz
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1 year.... my LDR's length will be 7 years...... so, u should be grateful thats she's only going there for 1 year. sad.gif
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Swinburne University.
1 year.... my LDR's length will be 7 years...... so, u should be grateful thats she's only going there for 1 year.  sad.gif
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She will be going to Japan after 2 years in KL also noh.. sad.gif
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She will be going to Japan after 2 years in KL also noh.. sad.gif
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what's she studying?Why so long 1?
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Yea, 3 years diploma in Engineering, then 2 years for degree mah. cry.gif And now 2 years in KL for japanese language. cry.gif Haiz, she kana JPA loh.. actually I should be happy for her....

Im... just sad for myself.. sad.gif
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yo jdreamer

Is she a Japanese Associate Degree Program student?
When she will go to Japan?
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I actually didnt ask much about her course or anything, because I was too sad to ask about those stuffs. And, she will be going to Japan in 2 years time.

Why ?
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Aug 25 2006, 09:48 PM)
I actually didnt ask much about her course or anything, because I was too sad to ask about those stuffs. And, she will be going to Japan in 2 years time.

Why ?
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I was the previous JAD program student. During my time it was 2 (Malaysia) + 3 (Japan). 1st year in Malaysia was a preparation program (language + science + math etc) and the 2nd year in Malaysia we already started and learned Japanese University's First Year syllabus. After completed 2 years study in Malaysia, we went to Japan for 3 years and entered university as a Second Year Student. This program was quite tough because the language problem and some of transfer credits (subjects) that already we passed was not approve/accept by university. So you have to take more subjects than other (normal) students and have to play catch-up beside you have to learn new subjects for 2nd Year syllabus flex.gif

For me, I only can polished my Japanese language after I went to Japan. Experience living in Japan is very precious. Sometimes I'm jealous to see the AAJ (JPA) students because they have opportunity to stay 1 year longer (4 years) in Japan. I was selected to enter a National University and the pioneer student (experiment mouse) of this kind of program at that university. A lot of mis-understanding, problems at first and I've to berhempas-pulas until I graduated. My friends who entered Private University have a lot easier and better live.

If you gf is the new 3 (Malaysia) + 2 (Japan) JAD, I predict is a lot more tougher because she will go to Japan as a 3rd Year Student. When I heard when they created 3+2 JAD, I said "OMG, they're crazy!! tak kesian ke kat students?" If she enters a Japanese Private University, should be less problematic because we pay a lot of money to them mar.
Good luck to her and I wish her success. Nothing is impossible wink.gif

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Thats really nice, I mean ur infomation. Its the same course as urs, I guess but she said she wanted to stay for more, for the degree. Thats why.
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I don't know whether her course same as me. If same kena kerja keras lar blush.gif
But there's a hint according where she is studying

a) Unisel (JAD, previous at KYPM Bangi, degree)
b) UM (Ambang Asuhan Jepun, degree)
c) UTM KL (only diploma)

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1 year is long ler.. hahaha how arrr people so nice hol i suffering here
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The diploma, UTM KL one.
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The diploma, UTM KL one.
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Normally for UTM diploma student who want to do degree, it takes total 5 years in Japan to complete their study.

3 years diploma at Technical College + 2 years at University
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Yea, thats why I said, she will be in Japan for 5 years, and currently 2 years in KL which adds it up to 7 years altogether..
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recipe for a lasting long-distance relationship:

1. be spontaneous
2. have faith and trust in each other
3. be patient. extremely.
4. decrease the level of jealousy and paranoia.

those are what i can think of right now.

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It have been quite sometimes already, I didnt post up anything on this thread. I wish most of the LDR couples ... 'All the Best and Good Luck in your relationship' ... smile.gif

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recipe for a lasting long-distance relationship:

1. be spontaneous
2. have faith and trust in each other
3. be patient. extremely.
4. decrease the level of jealousy and paranoia.

those are what i can think of right now.

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I think sometimes being tolerant is a good thing too.
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I think sometimes being tolerant is a good thing too.
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Hey LDR isn't for everyone, that's for sure.
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Patient
Can accept any consequences
Prepare for the worse result.
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Get ready to be cheated.

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How is that so ?
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Coz maybe when if for example,your gf always scold and look down on you,can you be tolerant enough?
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Why? Reason?
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It really depends on how long is the timeframe we're talking here.

Communication is the major tool that connects and enhance the relationship of the couple. Verbal and image comunication(through 3G and all that) can only do so much. After that phone line is cut off, the feeling of being alone will eventually creep in again.

There are other communicative elements much needed for a healthy relationship thought on its own it's not exclusive like


touch
hugging
affection
kissing
presence
sharing
caring
mild jealousy
encouraging
constructive arguments
etc etc

When you are so far away from your love one say after a year or so,
That longing to be with somebody will come on its own. This is where unfounded freedom will test and strain the said person. Loyalty will be hard tested as the person away could practicaly do anything without the other person knowing.

Humans are imperfect and fall able creatures. Everyone is guilty of something somewhere along his or her life.

All tolerance have limitations. We don't 100% person trust anyone after not seeing each other for so long.

Anyhow this is my personal POV. Don't have to take it as it doesnt neccesary apply to everyone. There are successful LDR too.








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GF mad at me because last week got a gal fren ask me to join their hiking trip during 31st August.
She mad because she dun understand why she so close to me until ask me for hiking but dint ask her BF...FYI, im a fren of her BF. We know tat her BF will not join the trip, but then later we got ask him to join, just tat he dun want.

She so mad, yesterday whole day ignore my sms even i told her tat the trip already cancel. Until yesterday i still dunno why she ignore my sms, i just thought may be out of credit. Why i dint call her? Because she was out with fren, dun want to disturb her. Last night i sleep early, so cant talk with her.

Until this morning chatting in msn, she ask me some quest like wat do i feel if she go out with male fren, i told her im OK with tat, then she said "fine, u go out with ur gal fren and i go out with my guy fren"

From there i know she is jelous already....i ask her is it she jelous, she just said 'forget it, just forget it' and said next time dun tell her tat im going out with other girl as she dun want to feel heartache anymore....

But i just dun want to hide anything from her, and i thought tat is ok as we're going out as a group, other fren joining also...

After think for whole day, i decide that later tonite give her a call to say sorry because causing she feel like tat...

tomolo going to meet her, i dun want to feel cold btw us....

during Bon-odori already kena b4 as i took pic of ah lian....

why she is so sensitive....? sad.gif sad.gif

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^^ i tot you're gay..hahaha..Anyway,hello everyone..So sien sunday..
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LanEvoX,
from your story, i guess you could be some kind of flirtatious guy, thus causing your gf feel insecure. try to give more sense of security to her. doesnt mean that giving sense of security to her means you have to stop flirting and stop looking at other girls (i know guys just couldnt stop that). but perhaps, you should try building the security and trust within her first. after you have built the trust and security within her, i hope she would be able to control her jealousy lorr...

wish you all the best, yeah.
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Sep 4 2006, 10:39 AM)
LanEvoX,
from your story, i guess you could be some kind of flirtatious guy, thus causing your gf feel insecure. try to give more sense of security to her. doesnt mean that giving sense of security to her means you have to stop flirting and stop looking at other girls (i know guys just couldnt stop that). but perhaps, you should try building the security and trust within her first. after you have built the trust and security within her, i hope she would be able to control her jealousy lorr...

wish you all the best, yeah.
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hmmm....flirtatious? Like to flirt around? All of the girl that i talk with and joke around is just a fren wor....may be sometime i talk too much
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haha..good luck to you then..Sometimes gals dun like their boyfriend to talk or communicate too much with other gals 1 la..
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haha..good luck to you then..Sometimes gals dun like their boyfriend to talk or communicate too much with other gals 1 la..
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QUOTE(LanEvoX @ Sep 4 2006, 02:18 PM)
hmmm....flirtatious? Like to flirt around? All of the girl that i talk with and joke around is just a fren wor....may be sometime i talk too much
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i dont know how to explain. but sometimes sensitive girls just couldnt take it when you go over the border with your friends who are girl. some girls dont even mind if you put your hand on other girl's shoulder when taking picture. but some who see it might go ballistic over it. honestly saying, i'm ok with it. i mean, the trust is there, the commitment from both of us is there and the understanding between both me and my bf is also there. so, i dont mind that much about it lorr...

as for your girl, i guess maybe you ought to talk with her. get to know how she feel everytime you be too close to your friends (girl). then, maybe explain to her what you think and both of you come to a term of agreement agreeable to both of you. dont pick a fight and dont fight fire with fire. fight fire with water. sadly to say, if your gf really really cant accept it even after you discussed and talked with her, then the last resort will have to come from your side whereby you might have to look into your acts with your friends (girl).

wish you all the best, yeah!

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Hi all, I need some advices here smile.gif

So me and my GF are together for a month and I would say our relationship is quite fragile at this point. I wouldn't say we are in LDR because she is in KL and I am in Singapore now. Both of us are studying and my workload is getting heavier as week passes by but I think this shouldn't be an excuse. We do chat in MSN 4-5 days a week, sms everyday and I would call her on the weekend to close our gap. But lately she has been complaining that I am not being caring enough and I agree with what she said.

Is there anything I could do to make her feel cared? I really have no clue in these. I do go back KL once in 3 weeks to meet her. For those who is in LDR can you share some ideas with me how you keep the close bond with your partner when you don't get to see her/him as often as you could?

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Hi all, I need some advices here smile.gif

So me and my GF are together for a month and I would say our relationship is quite fragile at this point. I wouldn't say we are in LDR because she is in KL and I am in Singapore now. Both of us are studying and my workload is getting heavier as week passes by but I think this shouldn't be an excuse. We do chat in MSN 4-5 days a week, sms everyday and I would call her on the weekend to close our gap. But lately she has been complaining that I am not being caring enough and I agree with what she said.

Is there anything I could do to make her feel cared? I really have no clue in these. I do go back KL once in 3 weeks to meet her. For those who is in LDR can  you share some ideas with me how you keep the close bond with your partner when you don't get to see her/him as often as you could?

Any input(s) are welcome!
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post Sep 7 2006, 03:27 AM

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wahh version 2 already..and in version 1 i only do 2 posting?? wahh wahh..

anyway..still distance and last 15th August, its our 8th Anniversary.
i gave her a cozy maroon cute cofartable comforter. and she give me 1 shirt for my birthday 3 days b4 and 1 tshirt for our anny.. both in 1 box..heheh 2 card. rclxms.gif

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post Sep 7 2006, 06:57 AM

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nice la this thread...
me? we r apart..msia & japan....

our ways of keeping it alive?
phone and the net mostly...

special stuffs we do?
share same accounts on sites...
have special friendster accounts just for the 2 of us only....
and most importantly...we share the same blog..one special blog about my life, my partner's, and our life, two accounts posting in one blog...

all these accounts and blog are very private...and nobody else knows about it.


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post Sep 7 2006, 09:26 AM

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can i give the blog a sneak peek. pleaseee
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post Sep 7 2006, 10:09 AM

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QUOTE(Futurisco @ Sep 5 2006, 11:14 PM)
Hi all, I need some advices here smile.gif

So me and my GF are together for a month and I would say our relationship is quite fragile at this point. I wouldn't say we are in LDR because she is in KL and I am in Singapore now. Both of us are studying and my workload is getting heavier as week passes by but I think this shouldn't be an excuse. We do chat in MSN 4-5 days a week, sms everyday and I would call her on the weekend to close our gap. But lately she has been complaining that I am not being caring enough and I agree with what she said.

Is there anything I could do to make her feel cared? I really have no clue in these. I do go back KL once in 3 weeks to meet her. For those who is in LDR can  you share some ideas with me how you keep the close bond with your partner when you don't get to see her/him as often as you could?

Any input(s) are welcome!
Thank you in advance!
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i know what you mean. far in distance, but close at heart. that is why you dont consider your and your gf LDR. am i right? smile.gif

anyway, things that you could do are such as writing a diary for her. or make a diary from pics that both of you took. this is one of my suggestion lah...

i wish you all the very best.

QUOTE(quebix @ Sep 7 2006, 06:57 AM)
nice la this thread...
me? we r apart..msia & japan....

our ways of keeping it alive?
phone and the net mostly...

special stuffs we do?
share same accounts on sites...
have special friendster accounts just for the 2 of us only....
and most importantly...we share the same blog..one special blog about my life, my partner's, and our life, two accounts posting in one blog...

all these accounts and blog are very private...and nobody else knows about it.
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that's so sweet of you guys. anyway, welcome to the thread.
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Sep 7 2006, 10:09 AM)
i know what you mean. far in distance, but close at heart. that is why you dont consider your and your gf LDR. am i right? smile.gif

anyway, things that you could do are such as writing a diary for her. or make a diary from pics that both of you took. this is one of my suggestion lah...

i wish you all the very best.
that's so sweet of you guys. anyway, welcome to the thread.
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That is so sweet. My aunt's fren who has a relationship with a new zealander...for 5 years the long distance relationship been going on.. den got married 2 years back, nw staying in new zealand.Who says long distance relationship doesnt work? cheers whistling.gif
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post Sep 7 2006, 02:06 PM

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QUOTE(miyoko @ Sep 7 2006, 11:09 AM)
i know what you mean. far in distance, but close at heart. that is why you dont consider your and your gf LDR. am i right? smile.gif

anyway, things that you could do are such as writing a diary for her. or make a diary from pics that both of you took. this is one of my suggestion lah...

i wish you all the very best.
that's so sweet of you guys. anyway, welcome to the thread.
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thanx miyoko...and our blog is our diary..yes we have pictures.....of the times we spent together.....and times we were alone. Online diary.

QUOTE(DeLarafi @ Sep 7 2006, 10:26 AM)
can i give the blog a sneak peek. pleaseee
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aiyakk...
it is a personal private blog.....and it is like our diary....
so no can do meh

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QUOTE(quebix @ Sep 7 2006, 06:57 AM)
nice la this thread...
me? we r apart..msia & japan....

our ways of keeping it alive?
phone and the net mostly...

special stuffs we do?
share same accounts on sites...
have special friendster accounts just for the 2 of us only....
and most importantly...we share the same blog..one special blog about my life, my partner's, and our life, two accounts posting in one blog...

all these accounts and blog are very private...and nobody else knows about it.
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but we know about the blog liao. next thing is we are gonna dig it up. biggrin.gif
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miyoko... sooner i'm gonna seek ur advice sad.gif
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QUOTE(devince83 @ Sep 7 2006, 04:50 PM)
miyoko... sooner i'm gonna seek ur advice sad.gif
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gonna jatuh in LDR dead trap again wink.gif

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You mean death trap?

Why so negative about LDRs? It's workable, if only both parties are really committed to it and each other.

Mine's been going on for more than 2 years now (although I've been with my gf for almost 5), and we're still pretty much in love.
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miyoko... sooner i'm gonna seek ur advice sad.gif
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yeapp comitment.. me 8 years. 6 years LDR + 2 year near.
we can only see each other bout1 a year.. adn take us only bout 3 or 4 days when we meet.

when we first meet.. we staying bout 20 minute drive. but then.. after 2 year.. she in melaka and im in miri.

then i study at kuching.. she still melaka.. holiday not in the same time.
so im in kuching..when she holiday..she abck to miri..
when im in kuching.. shes in melaka.

then...when im going to kl, her family move to kuching.
so every year. when im going back to miri.. i take a flight and stay at kuching for 3 days or 4. then i back to miri.

we never celebrate raya together. coz her granfather in kuching.. so since our first year together.. she always back to kuching and im in miri.

lanning gong to kuching this oct. almost a year since our last met.

we also live together bout 4 month in kl after she finished her study.. but its really a real disaster..when you stay together for 4 great month..but then have to saparate again..
the first few week is like hell..

sometime... i feel like.. god dont want us to be together.. coz everytime we try to be near... we will be more far apart..

there the time she almost move to australia. i get really sad.. thank god its canceled.




going to get married by the end of 2007.

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QUOTE(bidfordun @ Sep 7 2006, 05:34 PM)
but we know about the blog liao. next thing is we are gonna dig it up. biggrin.gif
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aiyohhh...
u notty la bidfordun

nothing else better to do meh?
Why key poh chi other people's private blog and relationship?

haha

No la..hows ur 'fren'? the one that is one year older than u la? hows it going?
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hehehe.. the case about the pregnent one or the one bout the pawn shop girl?? hehehe i also want to know.
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QUOTE(DeLarafi @ Sep 7 2006, 08:05 PM)
hehehe.. the case about the pregnent one or the one bout the pawn shop girl?? hehehe i also want to know.
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aiyohh delarafi...
we r straying from the main topic here mah..
thats another thread...
anyway, im talking about the pawn shop girl....
the pregnant one is just creation only ...not real...drama
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So...
What do u guys think about keeping ur partner's personal stuff?

When rindu always can hold can see can touch wan....

Is this good for LDR?
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QUOTE(quebix @ Sep 7 2006, 07:16 PM)
So...
What do u guys think about keeping ur partner's personal stuff?

When rindu always can hold can see can touch wan....

Is this good for LDR?
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Sure good la..But being wth your loved one's the best..
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Sure good la..But being wth your loved one's the best..
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aiyohhhh...
this is LDR liao...
im talking about the alternative here....
of coz la being with your loved one is the best!
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QUOTE(DeLarafi @ Sep 7 2006, 06:57 PM)
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QUOTE(quebix @ Sep 7 2006, 07:29 PM)
aiyohhhh...
this is LDR liao...
im talking about the alternative here....
of coz la being with your loved one is the best!
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I know.im just compairing.
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QUOTE(quebix @ Sep 7 2006, 08:16 PM)
So...
What do u guys think about keeping ur partner's personal stuff?

When rindu always can hold can see can touch wan....

Is this good for LDR?
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So...anyone else has an opinion?
and...what kind of stuff is good? personal stuffs of coz...how personal?
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Personal stuffs ? I dont really have her personal stuffs tho.

Hmm, I came to another city for my studies and guess what, I only brought a small bottle which filled with stars that she made for me. It's enough for me. Each time I look at it, it reminds me of her. smile.gif

P/s: The bottle was actually filled with sweets which I bought for her during my aus trip (before she accept me) and then, years back, she gave me back, on our anniversary day, with stars filled.

So, its quite a meaninful thing for me.
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QUOTE(quebix @ Sep 7 2006, 07:16 PM)
So...
What do u guys think about keeping ur partner's personal stuff?

When rindu always can hold can see can touch wan....

Is this good for LDR?
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personal stuffs? hmm... how personal? how abou pillow? hehehe...

i have an idea. maybe each time when you go shopping, or any outin, you buy something for her and you note it down in the diary when you buy it, why you buy it and things like that. then when you guys meet with each other, give her as a surprise lorr...

at least can show that she's always at your heart eventhough for from each others and you always have her in heart, even when you go enjoy yourself lorr...

anyway, the things can always be a cheape thing. no need to be very expensive one. this is my idea lah... hope it works for you.

all the best, everyone.
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Sep 7 2006, 09:36 PM)
personal stuffs? hmm... how personal? how abou pillow? hehehe...

i have an idea. maybe each time when you go shopping, or any outin, you buy something for her and you note it down in the diary when you buy it, why you buy it and things like that. then when you guys meet with each other, give her as a surprise lorr...

at least can show that she's always at your heart eventhough for from each others and you always have her in heart, even when you go enjoy yourself lorr...

anyway, the things can always be a cheape thing. no need to be very expensive one. this is my idea lah... hope it works for you.

all the best, everyone.
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thanx miyoko...
i hope u get my gender rite...
doesnt really matter though
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Sep 7 2006, 08:36 PM)
personal stuffs? hmm... how personal? how abou pillow? hehehe...

i have an idea. maybe each time when you go shopping, or any outin, you buy something for her and you note it down in the diary when you buy it, why you buy it and things like that. then when you guys meet with each other, give her as a surprise lorr...

at least can show that she's always at your heart eventhough for from each others and you always have her in heart, even when you go enjoy yourself lorr...

anyway, the things can always be a cheape thing. no need to be very expensive one. this is my idea lah... hope it works for you.

all the best, everyone.
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Sep 7 2006, 06:01 PM)
opps, dont lah make me look like i'm the only expert here. there's so many other members here who are willing to share advice with you. maybe you can post your problems here and we'll see how we can help.

right? guys (all LDR fellowship members)
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mandy not here.. so now u become advisor ledi laugh.gif
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QUOTE(devince83 @ Sep 8 2006, 12:07 AM)
mandy not here.. so now u become advisor ledi laugh.gif
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haha...
ok larrr...
i nak angkat diri jadik advisor now...
been in Japan for 5 and a half years now....
qualified liao....

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QUOTE(quebix @ Sep 7 2006, 08:45 PM)
thanx miyoko...
i hope u get my gender rite...
doesnt really matter though
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opps, did i get your gender wrongly? hmm... sorry yeah. but the idea that i gave can be done by bf to gf or vice versa.

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QUOTE(devince83 @ Sep 7 2006, 11:07 PM)
mandy not here.. so now u become advisor ledi laugh.gif
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wei... dont lah say like that. I'm just another member, sharing ideas and advices and opinions.
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my love is going to uk and yeah , she still hate me laugh.gif

this is f*cking painfull , I want to go cry cry.gif

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QUOTE(guest18 @ Sep 8 2006, 11:20 AM)
my love is going to uk and yeah , she still hate me laugh.gif

this is f*cking painfull , I want to go cry cry.gif

smile.gif smile.gif smile.gif
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Hear b4 if u love em, let em leave, dont control em.. as if faithed it always will be yours. suggested that u buy em a gift b4 she leaves. and always remember 1 thing, real man dont cry.
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no no no ... what IM trying to say is
atleast I want her forgiveness before she go
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no no no ... what IM trying to say is
atleast I want her forgiveness before she go
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yeah i understand...
but sometimes...when people dont wanna see u....
bcoz they are afraid...
afraid of samting....

samting what?
thats different to different people...

maybe afraid of liking u back..
or maybe still like u but wanna forget u....


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QUOTE(kenjio @ Sep 8 2006, 01:18 PM)
Hear b4 if u love em, let em leave, dont control em.. as if faithed it always will be yours. suggested that u buy em a gift b4 she leaves. and always remember 1 thing, real man dont cry.
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A real man does cries. smile.gif
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the man who cried touched u?
where? aiyoh...perverted la that man

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the man who cried touched u?
where? aiyoh...perverted la that man

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i mean i have a soft spot for guy who cries for his other half la doh.gif tongue.gif
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i mean i have a soft spot for guy who cries for his other half la doh.gif tongue.gif
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what? that spot is soft for him? aiyakk!!

joking oni lorrr.... i understand laaa tongue.gif
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QUOTE(quebix @ Sep 8 2006, 05:08 PM)
yeah i understand...
but sometimes...when people dont wanna see u....
bcoz they are afraid...
afraid of samting....

samting what?
thats different to different people...

maybe afraid of liking u back..
or maybe still like u but wanna forget u....
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nalah ... cause IM jerk that why she dont like me or see me
I try soo hard but sometimes , I deserve what I deserve
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QUOTE(kenjio @ Sep 8 2006, 01:18 PM)
Hear b4 if u love em, let em leave, dont control em.. as if faithed it always will be yours. suggested that u buy em a gift b4 she leaves. and always remember 1 thing, real man dont cry.
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haha...
ok larrr...
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been in Japan for 5 and a half years now....
qualified liao....

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QUOTE(miyoko @ Sep 8 2006, 08:44 AM)
opps, did i get your gender wrongly? hmm... sorry yeah. but the idea that i gave can be done by bf to gf or vice versa.
wei... dont lah say like that. I'm just another member, sharing ideas and advices and opinions.
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wait... something happen.. maybe i might not have to involve in LDR
anyway,update later tongue.gif
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Afternoon guys! How are all my friends here? I just have one word to describe my life recently "BUSY". That's why seldom post anything here. Really sorry ya. Anyway, hope to see all of you happy with your loved ones!
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mandy, so busy til no time to post here. you are the advisor leh... must always come in look look one. hehehe...
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Afternoon guys! How are all my friends here? I just have one word to describe my life recently "BUSY". That's why seldom post anything here. Really sorry ya. Anyway, hope to see all of you happy with your loved ones!
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Sep 11 2006, 01:51 PM)
okok, will wait for your updates.

mandy, so busy til no time to post here. you are the advisor leh... must always come in look look one. hehehe...
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and since you have time these days so you become the top person here lor..VIP..haha
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is 50km apart consider LDR ? laugh.gif
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wait... something happen.. maybe i might not have to involve in LDR
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is 50km apart consider LDR ? laugh.gif
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what is considered LDR actually?

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Hmm... Mine was 964.8000000000001km apart smile.gif
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QUOTE(quebix @ Sep 11 2006, 06:38 PM)
what is considered LDR actually?
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Maintaining LDR is especially HARD nowadays. She's just in Johor but I'm in KL sad.gif It's been 4 years apart already at first she was in Penang but now she is transfered to johor. She keeps asking me to work there but I told her that I have commitments and will go there ... not now but soon. We have this arguement like evryday and everytime we chat through the phone.

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thinking of ending this relationship .... not just because of that but we sometimes have a lot of difference. She's very negative while I'm in the optimistic side. Well, only time will tell ...

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QUOTE(miyoko @ Sep 11 2006, 02:44 PM)
noleh... i just come in on and off to post some replies leh...
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what is considered LDR actually?
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coz nobody replied to me....
let me tell u guys what i think LDR is...

LDR are relationships when u cant always see the other person because of the distance between u...meaning u have to travel for quite some time to see ur partner....Lovers in LDR resort to other means of communication....such as phone, letters and mails, internet....

hmmm...i miss my Sayang so much.... sad.gif

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I have logged in here to have a look everyday. Just that I didnt leave any post only. Miyoko, you are such a great advisor. I can put my 100% trust in you. Haha. Anyway, for those LDR couples, I understand the feeling of miss in your heart but dont let that to weaken your love for your loved one ok? We must strive hard together ok?
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QUOTE(mandysu @ Sep 12 2006, 12:58 PM)
I have logged in here to have a look everyday. Just that I didnt leave any post only. Miyoko, you are such a great advisor. I can put my 100% trust in you. Haha. Anyway, for those LDR couples, I understand the feeling of miss in your heart but dont let that to weaken your love for your loved one ok? We must strive hard together ok?
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well, me blushing liao lah... well, we just share problems and advice only mah...

lately my dear is very stress with his work. hmm... and he seems like falling sick too. wish that i can always be by his side and help him whenever he needs me.
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no need to miss him so much, time will tell you whether is he the one for you or not whistling.gif
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what type of comment is this?

shud be ban from LDR topic liao.... tongue.gif

why, jealous ka?

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QUOTE(mandysu @ Sep 12 2006, 12:58 PM)
I have logged in here to have a look everyday. Just that I didnt leave any post only. Miyoko, you are such a great advisor. I can put my 100% trust in you. Haha. Anyway, for those LDR couples, I understand the feeling of miss in your heart but dont let that to weaken your love for your loved one ok? We must strive hard together ok?
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see..see..i said she's a good advisor adi..haha..miyoko malu malu kucing adi..
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see..see..i said she's a good advisor adi..haha..miyoko malu malu kucing adi..
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wei... wei... enough liao.

now miyoko wanna share heart talk liao. hehehe... nowadays, my dear is superly busy with his work (starting own business). so, naturally, there will be lesser time for me than usual. not only lesser time for me, he dont even have time for his ownself. so, most of the time, when is sms, he reply late or no reply. but i'm ok... but somehow, sometimes, that little devil in me just keeps prompting me to lose my control.

well, i always wanted to support him in his career, be the lady behind his back. but it seems like now, i couldnt help much cos his field is not my expertise. so, what i can do is just dont bother him, let him have his own time and when he needs me, always be there for him. i know that when he's available, he'll always reserve it for me.

now, my question is, how else could i help him? well, obviously i'm worried about his health lorr... not enough rest and seems stressful and tired. so heart pain...
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wei... wei... enough liao.

now miyoko wanna share heart talk liao. hehehe... nowadays, my dear is superly busy with his work (starting own business). so, naturally, there will be lesser time for me than usual. not only lesser time for me, he dont even have time for his ownself. so, most of the time, when is sms, he reply late or no reply. but i'm ok... but somehow, sometimes, that little devil in me just keeps prompting me to lose my control.

well, i always wanted to support him in his career, be the lady behind his back. but it seems like now, i couldnt help much cos his field is not my expertise. so, what i can do is just dont bother him, let him have his own time and when he needs me, always be there for him. i know that when he's available, he'll always reserve it for me.

now, my question is, how else could i help him? well, obviously i'm worried about his health lorr... not enough rest and seems stressful and tired. so heart pain...
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by not bothering him or pestering him is supporting him. Understanding his needs shows that u r supporting him oso.Like u adi do...dont bother him, and just be there when he needs you....

of coz u r worried about his health...but what can u do? Just sending him sms to remind him to take care of his health, have proper meals is all u can do...Maybe sending some ginseng over there? or tongkat ali...haha

and write in ur sms that he doesnt hafto reply to u if he is bz, but pliz take care or ur health bla bla bla....


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QUOTE(quebix @ Sep 13 2006, 09:48 AM)
by not bothering him or pestering him is supporting him. Understanding his needs shows that u r supporting him oso.Like u adi do...dont bother him, and just be there when he needs you....

of coz u r worried about his health...but what can u do? Just sending him sms to remind him to take care of his health, have proper meals is all u can do...Maybe sending some ginseng over there? or tongkat ali...haha

and write in ur sms that he doesnt hafto reply to u if he is bz, but pliz take care or ur health bla bla bla....
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opps, maybe you wasnt in the 1st version, so you dont know. me and my dear no LDR now. hehehe... however, the place that we stay is quite far, 1 hour drive. so usually we take turn to drive lorr... cos if always he drive, then tired lorr...

yeah, me plan to buy those ginseng for him and ask him to make it when he feel heaty. sometimes, i boil for him also.

yeah, i guess by understanding his needs now is the best support that i can give him. thanks, quebix.

p/s: quebix, i still couldnt get your gender. mind telling me? sorry yeah...
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what type of comment is this?

shud be ban from LDR topic liao.... tongue.gif

why, jealous ka?
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Sep 13 2006, 09:58 AM)
opps, maybe you wasnt in the 1st version, so you dont know. me and my dear no LDR now. hehehe... however, the place that we stay is quite far, 1 hour drive. so usually we take turn to drive lorr... cos if always he drive, then tired lorr...

yeah, me plan to buy those ginseng for him and ask him to make it when he feel heaty. sometimes, i boil for him also.

yeah, i guess by understanding his needs now is the best support that i can give him. thanks, quebix.

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you can go all the way to his place and feed him. isn't that nice ? do bear in mind that driving alone isn't safe, so just becareful smile.gif
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Sep 13 2006, 09:26 AM)
wei... wei... enough liao.

now miyoko wanna share heart talk liao. hehehe... nowadays, my dear is superly busy with his work (starting own business). so, naturally, there will be lesser time for me than usual. not only lesser time for me, he dont even have time for his ownself. so, most of the time, when is sms, he reply late or no reply. but i'm ok... but somehow, sometimes, that little devil in me just keeps prompting me to lose my control.

well, i always wanted to support him in his career, be the lady behind his back. but it seems like now, i couldnt help much cos his field is not my expertise. so, what i can do is just dont bother him, let him have his own time and when he needs me, always be there for him. i know that when he's available, he'll always reserve it for me.

now, my question is, how else could i help him? well, obviously i'm worried about his health lorr... not enough rest and seems stressful and tired. so heart pain...
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Dear miyoko,

You can go buy those nutrious food such as ginseng, bird nest or just the chicken essence for him. Besides that, you could also buy those food/drinks/snacks that he enjoys a lot and store them in the refrigerator when he didnt notice it. He will sure feel surprised or happy when he sees that. You could also buy those medicine that he might need such as flu, cough, headache, fever etc. for emergency use. These actions can show that you really care for him. Anyway, just my advice ya!

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QUOTE(miyoko @ Sep 13 2006, 09:26 AM)
wei... wei... enough liao.

now miyoko wanna share heart talk liao. hehehe... nowadays, my dear is superly busy with his work (starting own business). so, naturally, there will be lesser time for me than usual. not only lesser time for me, he dont even have time for his ownself. so, most of the time, when is sms, he reply late or no reply. but i'm ok... but somehow, sometimes, that little devil in me just keeps prompting me to lose my control.

well, i always wanted to support him in his career, be the lady behind his back. but it seems like now, i couldnt help much cos his field is not my expertise. so, what i can do is just dont bother him, let him have his own time and when he needs me, always be there for him. i know that when he's available, he'll always reserve it for me.

now, my question is, how else could i help him? well, obviously i'm worried about his health lorr... not enough rest and seems stressful and tired. so heart pain...
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Gomen..I understand what are you going through as my gf is also very very buzy with her work.Like i said in my previous posts,my gf gets stressed easily and normally,i wont get a replay at all if she's buzy.this can happen for a few days with me not getting any messages or calls or anything.
I also cant take it and in my brain its like 'walao,so buzy till like that meh?'
But eventually,i learned to thing like what you said and dun kacau her.Anyway,you only can advise him about his health and ask him to sleep more unless you're staying with him..I always ask my gf to take lots of water.
Dont worry too much k..Im sure he'll be happy inside to know that you care about him..
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QUOTE(mandysu @ Sep 13 2006, 12:12 PM)
Dear miyoko,

You can go buy those nutrious food such as ginseng, bird nest or just the chicken essence for him. Besides that, you could also buy those food/drinks/snacks that he enjoys a lot and store them in the refrigerator when he didnt notice it. He will sure feel surprised or happy when he sees that. You could also buy those medicine that he might need such as flu, cough, headache, fever etc. for emergency use. These actions can show that you really care for him. Anyway, just my advice ya!
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wow, good idea lah... hmm... ok, will go buy those stuffs. hehehe...
as for storing the food in his fridge without him noticing, is a bit hard. cos when i go his house, he sure will notice my big bag one lah... hehehe... anyway, i guess if just buy and pass it to him is good enough liao. thanks mandy for your suggestions!

QUOTE(max_cjs0101 @ Sep 13 2006, 01:03 PM)
Gomen..I understand what are you going through as my gf is also very very buzy with her work.Like i said in my previous posts,my gf gets stressed easily and normally,i wont get a replay at all if she's buzy.this can happen for a few days with me not getting any messages or calls or anything.
I also cant take it and in my brain its like 'walao,so buzy till like that meh?'
But eventually,i learned to thing like what you said and dun kacau her.Anyway,you only can advise him about his health and ask him to sleep more unless you're staying with him..I always ask my gf to take lots of water.
Dont worry too much k..Im sure he'll be happy inside to know that you care about him..
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yeah, i guess he knows that i care about him. i also always ask my dear to drink more water. now, i'm gonna do what mandy suggested. get him those nutritious foods, snacks and vitamins. smile.gif
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wow, good idea lah... hmm... ok, will go buy those stuffs. hehehe...
as for storing the food in his fridge without him noticing, is a bit hard. cos when i go his house, he sure will notice my big bag one lah... hehehe... anyway, i guess if just buy and pass it to him is good enough liao. thanks mandy for your suggestions!
yeah, i guess he knows that i care about him. i also always ask my dear to drink more water. now, i'm gonna do what mandy suggested. get him those nutritious foods, snacks and vitamins. smile.gif
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wah..good lar..buy him more and maybe he'll ask you to spoon feed him..haha..romantic..
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LDR is not easy.... my gf for more then a week cant contact her.. hp,sms.email,msn.. all also cant.. how... dont think anythign heppan to her... missing her like crasy......she so busy?
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QUOTE(ello @ Sep 14 2006, 02:53 AM)
LDR is not easy.... my gf for more then a week cant contact her.. hp,sms.email,msn.. all also cant.. how...  dont think anythign heppan to her... missing her like crasy......she so busy?
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go and find her during lunch hour or when she finishes her work.
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QUOTE(ello @ Sep 14 2006, 02:53 AM)
LDR is not easy.... my gf for more then a week cant contact her.. hp,sms.email,msn.. all also cant.. how...  dont think anythign heppan to her... missing her like crasy......she so busy?
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have you tried calling her? i understand that it feels so bad to feel worried about someone so far away and yet we couldnt reach them. give her some time. but after you've manage to get hold of her, tell her how much you are worried about her and maybe discuss it over, as in tell her to sms you at least once a day even how busy she is because you are very worried about her.
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Sep 14 2006, 09:20 AM)
have you tried calling her? i understand that it feels so bad to feel worried about someone so far away and yet we couldnt reach them. give her some time. but after you've manage to get hold of her, tell her how much you are worried about her and maybe discuss it over, as in tell her to sms you at least once a day even how busy she is because you are very worried about her.
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ya lor... hahha no heart do what also fake ... any ways... i guess cuz she not yet settle down..(hope so thats the reason).. btw guys/gurls you all got any method to save money to call UK land live?? as in what brand of call card is the best or cheapest?? skype phone good idea??
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Sometimes,when he/she doesnt want or do not have the heart to do something,it's just useless to ask him/she to do it.As in messaging/emailing or calls..
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yeah... all in all, depends on that person themselves.

QUOTE(ello @ Sep 14 2006, 01:21 PM)
ya lor... hahha no heart do what also fake ... any ways... i guess cuz she not yet settle down..(hope so thats the reason).. btw guys/gurls you all got any method to save money to call UK land live?? as in what brand of call card is the best or cheapest??  skype phone good idea??
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yeah, maybe she really hasnt settle down. or she dont have line there or it could be some certain reasons. i'm not quite sure about the call card but i think if she calls you, it will be very much cheaper that you call her.
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Guys, I'm resigning from LDR Fellowship not because she's coming back or I'm going over but this morning, she just asked for a breakup. Reason - she fell in love with her course mate. There's nothing else I could do but to back off.

YukioDream: Monday, 29 April 2002 > Thursday, 14 September 2006 = 1600 days .. 4 years, 4 months, 17 days. (YukioDream is a mixed name from our nicknames & that's what we called our relationship)

I, as a guy, admit that I cried badly just now. I went back home early from the uni because I needed some space. That's when I thought of what she said. The phrase.. "I fall in love with someone" kept on repeating in my mind. Hopefully I'll get over soon, yea soon....

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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Sep 14 2006, 03:48 PM)
Guys, I'm resigning from LDR Fellowship not because she's coming back or I'm going over but this morning, she just asked for a breakup. Reason - she fell in love with her course mate. There's nothing else I could do but to back off.

YukioDream: Monday, 29 April 2002 > Thursday, 14 September 2006 = 1600 days .. 4 years, 4 months, 17 days. (YukioDream is a mixed name from our nicknames & that's what we called our relationship)

I, as a guy, admit that I cried badly just now. I went back home early from the uni because I needed some space. That's when I thought of what she said. The phrase.. "I fall in love with someone" kept on repeating in my mind. Hopefully I'll get over soon, yea soon....
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The reason is the one which hurt the most, just like adding salt to your wound. Anyway, all the best to you and move on as soon as you could smile.gif
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Sep 14 2006, 03:48 PM)
Guys, I'm resigning from LDR Fellowship not because she's coming back or I'm going over but this morning, she just asked for a breakup. Reason - she fell in love with her course mate. There's nothing else I could do but to back off.

YukioDream: Monday, 29 April 2002 > Thursday, 14 September 2006 = 1600 days .. 4 years, 4 months, 17 days. (YukioDream is a mixed name from our nicknames & that's what we called our relationship)

I, as a guy, admit that I cried badly just now. I went back home early from the uni because I needed some space. That's when I thought of what she said. The phrase.. "I fall in love with someone" kept on repeating in my mind. Hopefully I'll get over soon, yea soon....
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i feel sad reading what you posted. i feel your pain. hey, you still have us supporting you here. i hope that you will recover soon. it's ok if you wanna cry. crying is a way to show that we are in pain. there is no such a rule which says that guys cannot cry. if you feel better after cry, by all mean, just do it. take care and you have my support. if you need someone to talk to, you can find me smile.gif
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I'm really hurted, badly. After crying, I still felt so sad. My heart as if it's locked with all the sorrow. I dont know how to explain the feeling but then, live still goes on. I need to move on. I wish u guys best of luck and may God be with u all, all the time.

Thanks for all these times that u guys supported me. Thanks, really. I appreciate u guys a lot.
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I'm really hurted, badly. After crying, I still felt so sad. My heart as if it's locked with all the sorrow. I dont know how to explain the feeling but then, live still goes on. I need to move on. I wish u guys best of luck and may God be with u all, all the time.

Thanks for all these times that u guys supported me. Thanks, really. I appreciate u guys a lot.
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i totally understand how you feel. the feel of a sudden unexpected break up. the hurt and the pain. i know how it is. hey, dont force yourself to be strong now. give yourself some rest. just be yourself. do whatever you wanna do that would make you feel better. cry, sleep, or whatever. just dont hurt yourself and dont hurt others. find your friends. they are who you need now. wish you all the best.
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I tried not to think about her. But my mind is keep repeating those few sentences.

"I fall for someone"...."I dont have any feeling on u anymore"...."I want to break up"...............

It hurts u know... especially when she talked about that guy. She told me that he's a good guy, nice to everyone. But anyway, that guy hasnt knows that she likes him.....

I feel like doing everything in a very numb way. It's like my body is doing something, while my heart feels so empty. But then, it's very heavy, like locked with lots of things inside. Sigh...
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post Sep 14 2006, 08:29 PM

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i'm sorry to hear that man.
everyday, we are actually living on the edge. looking at another falling relationship. Where LDR only count on words and voices... it's getting harder each day. We try hard to get it going but ended that what we have been trying is fall back to ZERO again.

I did tell myself, if she fall for another man, i guess i know why. Simply becos she needed someone who can be there for her. Love aint everything in the end...
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post Sep 14 2006, 08:41 PM

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Yea, she said that she's tired of the distance. Probably thats why. And I know that Im not good enough for her. I was a lousy bf and I regreted that I didnt treat her the fullest when she was still my gf. But then, it's too late now. Nothing else I could do. All I can do for now is .. move on and wish her the best.
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Sep 14 2006, 08:41 PM)
Yea, she said that she's tired of the distance. Probably thats why. And I know that Im not good enough for her. I was a lousy bf and I regreted that I didnt treat her the fullest when she was still my gf. But then, it's too late now. Nothing else I could do. All I can do for now is .. move on and wish her the best.
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Im sorry to hear that,jdreamer.really do.Try coping up with your daily life and keep on posting here to share everything inside k.I definitely know how much you're going through now but I mysely do not know how to take this if i was in your place now.
Anyway,you take more rest for the day and try to start the day after this like a brand new day.

Best wishes.Move on k.

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I tried so hard to forget her. But I realised that I cant. Everything that I do, or even the words from the others keep reminding me of her. How can she forget about the 1,600 days so fast while I cant ? I'm really suffering. I tried to be strong, and act like Im okie in front of my friends.. but I realised that, once I got into my room.. I felt so lonely and Im really sad.... I really miss her and love her so much......

This morning, the first thing I did was to check my hp to see whether she sends any morning sms to me or not which she used to. And I realised that she's not there anymore.......

I realised that.. I loved her, too much, even more than myself.
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Sep 15 2006, 06:49 AM)
I tried so hard to forget her. But I realised that I cant. Everything that I do, or even the words from the others keep reminding me of her. How can she forget about the 1,600 days so fast while I cant ? I'm really suffering. I tried to be strong, and act like Im okie in front of my friends.. but I realised that, once I got into my room.. I felt so lonely and Im really sad.... I really miss her and love her so much......

This morning, the first thing I did was to check my hp to see whether she sends any morning sms to me or not which she used to. And I realised that she's not there anymore.......

I realised that.. I loved her, too much, even more than myself.
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Come on. You have to cheer up yourself. The most important task now is to carry on with your life. You need to get used to yourself with this kind of situation. Try not to think so much, mix around, and have fun around. My best suggest is mix more around in churches activities(since you are christian, right?) You will find you will less missing/thinking about her.

All the best to you

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Seriously, I did tried. I tried my best not to think about it, but the more I avoid, the more the memory haunts me. And my tears..... they just keep flowing out....... Im really weak and I felt that I cant get over it just by a day. Its really painful.......

How can she forget a 4 years relationship just like that ... while I cant.........
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Sep 15 2006, 08:39 AM)
Seriously, I did tried. I tried my best not to think about it, but the more I avoid, the more the memory haunts me. And my tears..... they just keep flowing out....... Im really weak and I felt that I cant get over it just by a day. Its really painful.......

How can she forget a 4 years relationship just like that ... while I cant.........
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I know the deep deep cut in your heart, I could feel that too. What else can you do? All you need is forget about the past, look forward and carry on.

Just cry it out if you are sad. That's the best solution to make you comfortable. Much more comfortable than not crying.

Why she can't? Is because she don't appreciate/value this relationship. Of course everyone won't easy forget such a long period of relationship, I am sure she won't forget what you guys done for 4 years easily too.

But over is over and you can't do much. Maybe she is just want to try something 'fresh' which is inmature. If she think that you are more suitable or more understand her the most, she will come back to you.

Pray to God more often to ask for guidance. wink.gif

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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Sep 14 2006, 07:01 PM)
I tried not to think about her. But my mind is keep repeating those few sentences.

"I fall for someone"...."I dont have any feeling on u anymore"...."I want to break up"...............

It hurts u know... especially when she talked about that guy. She told me that he's a good guy, nice to everyone. But anyway, that guy hasnt knows that she likes him.....

I feel like doing everything in a very numb way. It's like my body is doing something, while my heart feels so empty. But then, it's very heavy, like locked with lots of things inside. Sigh...
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i know this kind of feeling. it's very familiar to me. i had it 3 years ago. my advice is to endulge in loving yourself and pampering yourself more. you have been loving and pampering her for 4 years liao, now is the time for you to pamper yourself.

do the things that you like to do. as for me last time, i went for lots and lots of shopping spree. i bought things that i like and want and pamper myself. i went for vacation and i refurnish and change the furniture arrangement in my room.

my advice is, do whatever things that will make you feel better. PAMPER yourself is the key. i wish you all the best, yeah.

p/s: i myself is not in a good condition with my bf now. in the verge of breaking up cry.gif
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QUOTE(ello @ Sep 14 2006, 02:53 AM)
LDR is not easy.... my gf for more then a week cant contact her.. hp,sms.email,msn.. all also cant.. how...  dont think anythign heppan to her... missing her like crasy......she so busy?
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Dear ello,

If possible, pay her a surprise visit to her place. Sometimes you should be considerate cause busy this kind of situation is hard to control and I believe that your gf also dont wish to be so busy and some sort of neglecting you. Just try not to think any stupid thinking and trust in her. Wish you all the best.
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Sep 15 2006, 08:39 AM)
Seriously, I did tried. I tried my best not to think about it, but the more I avoid, the more the memory haunts me. And my tears..... they just keep flowing out....... Im really weak and I felt that I cant get over it just by a day. Its really painful.......

How can she forget a 4 years relationship just like that ... while I cant.........
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Dear jdreamer,
I was so surprised when you told us about your break up. Actually you dont need to force yourself not to think or reflash good memories between both of you last time as a 4-year relationship could not be so easily forgotten just like that.

No need to avoid them, be relax and calm. Try your best to think in different point of view: Be grateful and treasured as both of you could spend the 4-years happy moments together. Try to do some activities that you enjoy so much but might have neglected them during your coupleship. Mingle around with your friends, try to involve in more group activities.

Try to plan activities for every day so that you wont have any free time to be sad. Honestly, it's kind of useless to keep on thinking the reason she could forget easily a 4-year relationship as it wont turn back the time. As I have said before, not everyone are suitable for long distance relationship. A LDR could only work if BOTH committed to the relationship and BOTH are willing to sacrifice to make the relationship works. Do you realise that I mentioned the word BOTH for both of the ways?

Try not to always remind yourself how she could be so cruel to you or why she could fall in love for someone else. Hope that my advices could help you a bit.

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