hi... this is my 1st post here i guess... don't worry too much Biscuit... this is normal la... i assume that ur relationship had just started... when i just started with my now almost 5year gf i left to study and at that time the same thing happens like what u have now... n it's even worse that we didn't talk on phone for weeks when v r quarrelling over some 'small' matters... but v still 2gether till 2day n m still in ldr... anyway... i m not suggesting u 2 quarrel... from wat i learn from that is that talk more to each other besides i love u i miss u coz she might get bored or even u r now already bored.... juz talk anything from what happen since u woke up till u r talking to her as though u r writing a very detailed diary but of course can't leave out some la hehe.... i guess she has connection there right.... so instead of calling mayb u all can use msn... sort of setting things like everyday msn then call once in a few days.... juz some opinions lol.... gd luck...

hey i rarely post anything... but i m realy surprise that u had such a problem at this moment... i think for now u better juz let go n move on with ur life... u also know that ur relationship had been 4+years n she had call for an end... for her to call for an end n yet to have said something like tis i will say that she's already very tired with it...

for now i will suggest u to share ur problem with ur best frens who really can share ur problem with because by merely sending msg-es here like this will not be much help... it will be even better if both of u have a same good fren... then make him or her to talk to her n c wat had made her make such a decision...

not that ppl here r not willing to help u... but i will say that direct conversation can calm u down even better... it's obvious that u can put her away from your head as u guys had been for 4years so if she really had made such a decision then juz let her go... if u really want to think of her then just think of the sweet memories n juz stop there for a while n don't relate it back to the statement that she makes to u when she wan to end everything...

n for now when u thought of calling her or msg-ing her juz do it as though both of u r good frens n don remind her that u still love her a lot n u will waiting for her or wateva that reminds her of the relationship...

hopefully u guys will get back soon... if not u will still have to move on... anything i m sure everyone here is willing to help n so do i.... live on n b strong

that's nice jdreamer... hope that u can put this down slowly for the moment... but remember don't push urself too much... there's nothing wrong for u to still miss her but don't pressure her by telling how much u miss her for the time being...

wish u good luck n all the best...

no u r not stupid n u shdn't think that u r... at tis moment it is normal for u to stil think of her all the time... n it's even rare to have someone like to still support her... continue to support her from stress n pressure...

mayb she will find that u r still the one who cares her even she had hurt u... it's no surprise that u have no appetite... sometime when i quarrel with my gal n didn't get any msg from her for a few days i also will kinda of lost appetite... so rugi when go buffet to celeb fren's b'day...

anyway once again all the best...

hey u shdn't have say that u failed for it... though yes it had end... but at least u had maintained it for 4years.... think of the positive ok... don't think too much of the failure n b strong...

hey dreamer lots of them will think tat u shd not get back to her but i will say y don't u juz give both of u another chance u had wanted all these all the while... no doubt she's been selfish to hurt u n no one can be sure that she will not do this again... but u had alredi gone through the 'hurt' part n u had grew with it... anyhow both of u r still young n at time it mite b to ur 'presence' tat makes her feel lonely... so my advice is y don't u just give a chance to start over a new relationship... who knows tis time both of u will treasure each other more... all the best...