...::: Long Distance Relationship Version 2:::...., The Fellowship of LDR
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 Sep 11 2006, 02:38 PM
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is 50km apart consider LDR ?
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Sep 11 2006, 06:56 PM
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QUOTE(suiteng @ Sep 11 2006, 04:51 PM) Hmm... Mine was 964.8000000000001km apart let me guess, is he in Australia?  QUOTE(quebix @ Sep 11 2006, 06:38 PM) what is considered LDR actually? i'm trying to find out too |
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Sep 12 2006, 08:02 AM
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no need to miss him so much, time will tell you whether is he the one for you or not
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Sep 13 2006, 10:21 AM
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QUOTE(quebix @ Sep 12 2006, 10:28 PM) what type of comment is this? there isn't a need to be jealous lah, you think i'm still young meh shud be ban from LDR topic liao....  why, jealous ka?  QUOTE(miyoko @ Sep 13 2006, 09:58 AM) opps, maybe you wasnt in the 1st version, so you dont know. me and my dear no LDR now. hehehe... however, the place that we stay is quite far, 1 hour drive. so usually we take turn to drive lorr... cos if always he drive, then tired lorr... you can go all the way to his place and feed him. isn't that nice ? do bear in mind that driving alone isn't safe, so just becareful yeah, me plan to buy those ginseng for him and ask him to make it when he feel heaty. sometimes, i boil for him also. yeah, i guess by understanding his needs now is the best support that i can give him. thanks, quebix. |
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Sep 14 2006, 03:58 PM
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Sep 14 2006, 03:48 PM) Guys, I'm resigning from LDR Fellowship not because she's coming back or I'm going over but this morning, she just asked for a breakup. Reason - she fell in love with her course mate. There's nothing else I could do but to back off. The reason is the one which hurt the most, just like adding salt to your wound. Anyway, all the best to you and move on as soon as you could YukioDream: Monday, 29 April 2002 > Thursday, 14 September 2006 = 1600 days .. 4 years, 4 months, 17 days. (YukioDream is a mixed name from our nicknames & that's what we called our relationship) I, as a guy, admit that I cried badly just now. I went back home early from the uni because I needed some space. That's when I thought of what she said. The phrase.. "I fall in love with someone" kept on repeating in my mind. Hopefully I'll get over soon, yea soon.... |
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Sep 15 2006, 10:54 AM
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jdreamer, i dunno about you but music helps to make me feel better, not completely well but at least it accompany when the heart is most fragile.
miyoko, mind sharing about some details? hopefully it's not something petty that place a wall among you two. let's pray that jdreamer will get back on track soon and miyoko's relationship can be saved |
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Sep 15 2006, 11:16 AM
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she's part of your life, there's no way you can't get her out of your mind right now. i suggest a vacation for yourself if time permits, we always forget how beautiful the nature are after we got so engroessed with our so called busy life.
i wonder if anyone want to come out for a gathering to accompany jdreamer |
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Sep 20 2006, 03:24 PM
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jdreamer, dont worry about the future as it will worry about itself. whethere will there be any chance go get back together, that will depend on a little on fate and how much effort you put in. Do whatever you like but do keep in mind one thing, dont expect too much as you'll get disappointed once again
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Sep 22 2006, 12:39 AM
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QUOTE(quiksilver @ Sep 21 2006, 06:00 PM) hey guys.... I'm not sure if this works, let her know every friend you got over there, be it guy or girl. How long have you been with her and how old is she at the moment?how can i make my girl feel secure? im over here.....and i think sometimes she feels insecure about us.... if i go out...she asks if there is any girl around etc...  |
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Sep 22 2006, 11:10 AM
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quicksilver, you dont have to thank us, we are trying to help each other here. as for you situation, as long as you have done your best and not to worry too much. she is insecure because you dont spend enough time with her (as in online)? i got a feeling she's the sticky type of patners, need your maximum attention and care. maybe she's still young, hence will depend a lot on you. are you good in writing? perhaps you can cheer her up with some poem and fiction about you too, not sure will it works but do try
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Sep 30 2006, 01:56 AM
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i'm not sure but i think that's when friends play an important role here, get all the contact numbers of her housemates as she is not living with the parents. her housemates or close friends will be the one who can help in case of any emergency, you get the idea?
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Oct 4 2006, 02:49 PM
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did i hear someone mentioned about gathering ? let's go to miyoko's place
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Oct 4 2006, 11:07 PM
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quiksilver, lu manyak expierence, boleh jadi sipu liao
 jdreamer, follow the advise of the experienced one and you'll never go wrong |
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Oct 6 2006, 11:06 AM
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Biological Age List
============= max_cjs0101 : 20 quiksilver : 24 (25 this 21stOct,lol) suiteng: 25 jdreamer: 18 miyoko: 25 jdreamer, you are still young compare to all of us over here, so leave everything behind and you'll be doing fine. you are now stronger than before, so keep up the spirit |
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Oct 7 2006, 02:41 AM
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you have all the time in the world, just sit down and relax. just like when you drink a good wine, slowly enjoy and dont finish it in one gulp. let time prove to you that she's the one
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Oct 9 2006, 02:54 PM
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QUOTE(quiksilver @ Oct 9 2006, 02:41 PM) what happened? Stress? the bipolar thingy? Her dear is not a guy lah lucky to have ur dear with u. Such a sweet guy. Hope u get well soon. But what happened?  What happened to suisui ?  |
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Oct 11 2006, 03:42 PM
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QUOTE(suiteng @ Oct 11 2006, 03:30 PM) Me recovered a bit but chest still tight when breathing.. nothing much here ask you not to smoke so much, you never listen  now thinking about xmas gift |
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Oct 12 2006, 05:11 PM
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Seriously, mum's love tops all, appreciate while she's still around
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Oct 14 2006, 10:37 AM
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QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Oct 14 2006, 09:41 AM) Guys, especially quiksilver. you stated need to be cool when discussing. But what if he/she doesn't want to cool at all and keep raising, what can be done? Everyone has it own patient rite? I just want to know how 2 calm her since she doesn't want to calm at all? Joshua_0718, since she doesnt stay calm in a conversation, you have to be really patient with her, I'm sure she will be touched with your patience sooner or later. Yes, it's really tired to be a gentleman but it's worth the price you pay for. Well, of course if you seriously can't stand such impatient girls, I guess there's no future in such relationship then.Anyway, does girl really like something new? I mean something never be done before? Something like 新鲜 Girls or should I say most girls like suprises and fresh ideas. You dont have to do it too often too, surprise her when she least expected. It will make your bond between both of you stronger than before. Disclaimer : All the above are based on my area of studies and analysis, may not be applied to all. |
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Nov 8 2006, 01:06 AM
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Joshua_0718, i know how it feels when your suprise plan are not a surprise anymore. maybe she will like what you have in mind for her. cheer up soon
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