May I know the situation for those student who study engeneering programme at Australia?

Is they busy until can't msn or make a short call?

And will they busy until suddenly forget your birthday b'coz of assignment?

Actually I ask in behalf of my female friend.

She complainted that her bf veryx2 busy in his study at Australia. Why she don't ask him or whether she asked b4? I donno...

But will you forget to send a birthday msg to your another half b'coz of some1 pop out suddenly while you 'thinking' to send a birthday msg?

Personally I think no matter how busy you are, at least remember to send a msg to your another half on her "big" day, not few days later when they meet at MSN....

B'coz of this situation, I'm really curious that whether those taking engeneering programme at Australia are so busy? Any b/f or b/f taking engeneering programme at Australia too?

I hope my friend be pre-active a bit but she is a conservative minded girl, means guy should take action....like guy should call girl, etc...

I know what you girls/guys mentioned...but the problem is the LDR, she already felt sad abt the communication impaired/break down btw her and her bf (b'coz the boy was 'too' busy in his studies, according to her) furthermore this belated birthday wish

Although it's seems a small matter but it make her down...

This post has been edited by TarePanda: Aug 2 2006, 03:20 PM

If the girl is ur gf, pls buy her flowers even she answered no....she will complain in future!!!

I experienced it
For 1st 2 years in my relationship, i never bought even a rose to my gf coz she said it waste of money (yea, include valentine day coz rose shoot up to sky high!!)...i agreed...coz money can well spend on some where else like good dining...

After that, she told her friends that I never bought her flowers and I 'tag' as a non-romantic guy Finally I bought her a bouquet of flowers in her birthday, well, she happy for whole week

So my advice is, no matter girls said she don't want flowers...it halfly true!!! Give them a suprise in appropriate time and place!!

This post has been edited by TarePanda: Aug 7 2006, 11:45 AM

Skype, MSN, ICQ....

I doubt anyone can help you except yourself. Let face the truth, either you follow her to her country or she come back for u...which might be impossible.

My solution when I face this problem is step backward, become friend again 1st...u will feel more release as time pass by.

jdreamer, seem like you r progessing well...

1st few days will be the toughest day after broke off, I rarely eat anything too for 3 consecutive days after I broke off with my ex b'coz of LDR.

Maybe the heck feeling will obsess in your mind for 1st few months but you will eventually open your mind days by days.

What u say are right...she not marry yet thus u still have chance. Maybe not now but who know what happen in future. Let the fate decide our destiny if the situation in beyond our control.

Hmm... beside emotional and security reason, I may think that female usually think more rationale and more further than male.

She worry that LDR will create communication crack down/problem which eventually lead to hate/blame each other...She just don't want such lovely couple will turn to that stage one day...

She worry that she will not love/no feeling with the guy due to the long period seperation...Ppl change all the time...

She worry that she will fall in love with other guy due to loneliness... which is usually uncontrollable...

She worry that she will be the same with her friends, when love gone due to LDR...left only sadness and unhappy memories...

She has no confidence in LDR...scare being hurt...especially burt by her love 1...

As a male, I admit that I will not think that much...I just think that we can do it...

But as a female, will think deeper and more rationale...LETS STEP BACKWARDS, BE A FRIEND AGAIN...so that we able to handle those worries with lesser pain...instead of hurting each other in long term period...

This post has been edited by TarePanda: Oct 17 2006, 06:43 PM