nice la this thread...
me? we r apart..msia & japan....

our ways of keeping it alive?
phone and the net mostly...

special stuffs we do?
share same accounts on sites...
have special friendster accounts just for the 2 of us only....
and most importantly...we share the same blog..one special blog about my life, my partner's, and our life, two accounts posting in one blog...

all these accounts and blog are very private...and nobody else knows about it.

thanx miyoko...and our blog is our diary..yes we have pictures.....of the times we spent together.....and times we were alone. Online diary.

aiyakk...
it is a personal private blog.....and it is like our diary....
so no can do meh

aiyohhh...
u notty la bidfordun

nothing else better to do meh?
Why key poh chi other people's private blog and relationship?

haha

No la..hows ur 'fren'? the one that is one year older than u la? hows it going?

aiyohh delarafi...
we r straying from the main topic here mah..
thats another thread...
anyway, im talking about the pawn shop girl....
the pregnant one is just creation only ...not real...drama

So...
What do u guys think about keeping ur partner's personal stuff?

When rindu always can hold can see can touch wan....

Is this good for LDR?

aiyohhhh...
this is LDR liao...
im talking about the alternative here....
of coz la being with your loved one is the best!

So...anyone else has an opinion?
and...what kind of stuff is good? personal stuffs of coz...how personal?

thanx miyoko...
i hope u get my gender rite...
doesnt really matter though

haha...
ok larrr...
i nak angkat diri jadik advisor now...
been in Japan for 5 and a half years now....
qualified liao....

haha

yeah i understand...
but sometimes...when people dont wanna see u....
bcoz they are afraid...
afraid of samting....

samting what?
thats different to different people...

maybe afraid of liking u back..
or maybe still like u but wanna forget u....

it takes a real man to cry

the man who cried touched u?
where? aiyoh...perverted la that man

what? that spot is soft for him? aiyakk!!

joking oni lorrr.... i understand laaa

what is considered LDR actually?

coz nobody replied to me....
let me tell u guys what i think LDR is...

LDR are relationships when u cant always see the other person because of the distance between u...meaning u have to travel for quite some time to see ur partner....Lovers in LDR resort to other means of communication....such as phone, letters and mails, internet....

hmmm...i miss my Sayang so much....

what type of comment is this?

shud be ban from LDR topic liao....

why, jealous ka?

by not bothering him or pestering him is supporting him. Understanding his needs shows that u r supporting him oso.Like u adi do...dont bother him, and just be there when he needs you....

of coz u r worried about his health...but what can u do? Just sending him sms to remind him to take care of his health, have proper meals is all u can do...Maybe sending some ginseng over there? or tongkat ali...haha

and write in ur sms that he doesnt hafto reply to u if he is bz, but pliz take care or ur health bla bla bla....

try checking voipstunt...
free calls for ground lines.....yeah...msia is free....UK i dont know...u can check

jdreamer...
dont worry...
ive been there...
me n my partner...4 years over...( we r both overseas, at the same place) but one day broke-up... the reason hurts me too....the reason that my partner told me...
then i found out the real reason...and it hurt me more....and the fact that my partner lied about the reason make it hurt even more...
the worst thing is....even though we broke-up...i can see my partner everyday....makes my pain more unbearable....(same school, same frens,can still see each other everyday)

i did felt like killing myself....esp there was nobody i can turn to....
but...life must go on....
after more than 6 months....i started to be myself again....
and after 1 and a half year....i started to love again....

dont worry jdreamer.....wounds will heal...
it just takes time...
what u shud do is...treat the wound...not make it deeper...or make a new wound...

dont go and get urself a rebound girl.....coz u arent ready for a new relationship yet...u'll feel u love her(rebound girl) but in fact it is just ur loneliness...
ull end-up hurting both of ya....

when the time comes...ull be ready to love again...

hey...maybe for me...i took about 1 and a half years to recover....maybe for someone else is longer....and maybe shorter...

time will tell....

be strong....

we r here for you...

now im happy with my new Sweetheart back home in Msia....
even though we r LDR now....

It shows...that i still can be happy after what has happened to to me...
But it taught me many things about relationships.....
Take the positive points....use it....
take out the negative points.....and leave it.....

Hope u are ok now....
it takes time to heal....
dont go and do somthing stupid to make it hurt more...to make the wound deeper...

be brave, be strong,

be urself again. cheer up!

Hi!!! thanks to all coz jaga quicksilver