Yeah....
Sorry if any gurls here have different opinions about our statements here...

U oso LDR for 6 months?
how far? and what happened?

perlis : selangor.
at that moment i worked at perlis..
since last year i start work here,s'gor

we dun care about that at that time because still in process to know with each other. couple with her for 1 years at that time but stil in process.. huhuhu.. but my prob appear after SDR.. solve already..


still couple with her

well....they say..."absence makes the heart grow fonder"

i bet u have different types of problems with SDR rite....

hehe...spending too much time with someone with no strong ties (like marriage) is hard....

ya ya...

Hmm.... itu macam ar..

hello everyone, hmm... i seems not to be able to think of anything to post today. mind blank. hahaha... anyway, nice topics you guys have got there. however, i would still say, both guys and girls do cheat also. not just one gender.

true...both gender cheats....

but what i meant was....in LDR...harder for the girl....

and one more thing....
when a guy cheats, it is quite common....but when a girl cheats...thats serious...lol

i guess it's kind of true because girls tend to be more emotionally attached. i would say...

so....what helps then?
sense of security on the relationship?

or just companionship? if companionship, the best a LDR partner can do is....online and phone rite?

how to make the more emotionally attached girl not to be emotionally disturbed and end-up looking for other guy?

hmm... that's a tough question. i would say, all these lies in the girl and how she handles those feelings. well, you can do all the things in the world, but if the girls doesnt or isnt able to control her emotional feelings, i guess, is hard to maintain lorr... i dunno about others, i guess, thise has to come both ways. the guys and girls trying putting effort to eliminate those lonely feelings, and both also have to try to control ownselves' emotional despair?

what say the others?

Hmm... beside emotional and security reason, I may think that female usually think more rationale and more further than male.

She worry that LDR will create communication crack down/problem which eventually lead to hate/blame each other...She just don't want such lovely couple will turn to that stage one day...

She worry that she will not love/no feeling with the guy due to the long period seperation...Ppl change all the time...

She worry that she will fall in love with other guy due to loneliness... which is usually uncontrollable...

She worry that she will be the same with her friends, when love gone due to LDR...left only sadness and unhappy memories...

She has no confidence in LDR...scare being hurt...especially burt by her love 1...

As a male, I admit that I will not think that much...I just think that we can do it...

But as a female, will think deeper and more rationale...LETS STEP BACKWARDS, BE A FRIEND AGAIN...so that we able to handle those worries with lesser pain...instead of hurting each other in long term period...

This post has been edited by TarePanda: Oct 17 2006, 06:43 PM

Hi everyone.....newbie here..
anyway, just started a LDR 7 mths ago....She's in KL , I'm in S'pore...
Every Friday evening will take 5 hr bus just to see her and go back at sunday evening, next day mon go work...I admit it's tough...needs a lot of trust..
Thank God for MSN and Skpe phone..

For those who are in it..just hang on there and learn to trust one another..

hi trafox...
Good Luck to you to....

I still envy u though....at least u can see her once a week.
Whats ur plan for the future?
till when will be LDR?

Hey. Same gang here. Same place. But I KL, she Singapore.
Wah, at least u will come and see her, for me, she doesn't allow me to go down that often.

haha...i tot u both are a couple....

just like suiteng and jorineb in the thread oso....

hehe...actually my girl is oso a forumer in LYN...and she posted in LDR thread oso before....(guess who? lol)

now she seldom online....
bz at work...
and just moved into a new house...no internet yet....

well, let me try guessing first. is it Quebix?

by the way, sometimes, travelling too often is very tiring. eventhough when meet up, the emotional part is being fed, but the physical part is always very tired. really ought to balance up oh.

hi there~
plans? Well planning to get married in 2 yrs time..now Saving up for it..lol..and she will stay in Singapore after that...

hmmmm..so where's yr gf at and yr plans?

hey Joshua~....ya..just go down every week to spend time with her..since there are so many bus services going to KL and I'm used to the five hrs journey..zzz all the way, wake up reach liao..

so how often u go down Singapore?

This post has been edited by trafox10: Oct 18 2006, 10:11 AM

trafox
every week spend time with and ur relationship still new.. wait till when u start bz and dun have time to visit her... she will think that u not love her and bla bla... then u know LDR.. hahahahaha.. hope u not face this situation..

joshua
m'sia - s'pore = quit xpencive
s'pore - m'sia = cheap lor..

myb ur gf wanna save ur budget.. so can mary her fast2 lor..

me? im in japan, my girl in msia.
gonna live in msia....
wanna marry her as soon as it is possible for me to do so....
if it is ever possible...
i just feel so guilty leaving her alone all these while...and for a few more months to come....