I know some married girls no defective V but still insist wants to do C-sections.
Reason why.. they want to keep the lower part tight so can make hubby happy.
This is wat they told me la..*pssh.. they oso said if lower part tight still got some value if hubby duwan anymore maybe other rich guy wants ma

So spend RM6500 is worth spending for them.
Down point is cant make another baby so fast la....

Like tat SG comedian Kumar said.. bagi lelong saja lah..

Extract from the guy who post the videos.
"This video is just for entertainment. No offence to any races, nationalities or gender. Watch this with an open mind and hope you guys enjoy this hilarious comedy"

Don't want later got some ppl perasan tan again....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BfVpwvkgaUw

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0_gBlfFrLiE&feature=related

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Swr4eGnY6Xw&feature=related


This post has been edited by viper88: Oct 7 2009, 01:04 AM

I think that this is a very sick culture. +_+

If vagina cannot be used for childbirth then it means defective vagina already lah. You see in the future next time, no Chinese women will be able to give birth naturally without surgery. So we will all become extinct. Because no mother. +_+"



I saw the video and then faster kolos. The guy is so geli.

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Added on October 7, 2009, 1:29 amIf a doctor give my wife episiotomy, I WILL BREAK HIS NECK!

This post has been edited by Dickson Poon: Oct 7 2009, 01:29 AM

To those losers who aren't self-motivated to aim higher, insist to stay at comfort zone, and claim that gals who look for financial capable bf/husbands are materialistic, below are something for your pleasure reading.




























This post has been edited by debbieyss: Oct 7 2009, 08:18 AM

debbie tomoro no work ka...so free wan.

moorish, your posts reek of inconsistency.

this thread should have been done with since people like noob13 and silverhawk stepped in, they could have not put it any better than they could, some of them were really enlightening.

but nooooo, u had to side-step most of the questions like silverhawk said, and all of a sudden your views and arguements differ from your previous statements

I'm sure me or other people can point out your inconsistencies deliberately, but it'll be too tiring to scour through an 6 month old thread.

i mean come on... don't expect to not be flamed or challenged heavily with a topic title like Girls are money minded and be proud of it?

come on, proud of it? really? is money that righteous of a thing?

you may be happy now, but you may not be in the future? bear in mind that money is always only temporary happiness, everything changes when the baby grows up.

the only reason i can think of why you're still in this 6 month old thread is because of, ego.
when you state something as shameless and bold as 'girls are money minded, and have every right to be' you just can't lose, losing means not only making you look bad but it also means contradicting yourself,
your views,
your beliefs,
and your this mission to reach out to girls that it is prideful to be money minded and in turn causing you to think on wether your choices you made were right....
or your marriage was right...
or that if you happy at all? and not false-believing in so?

if your life is as happy as u say, there shouldn't be any reason why you're still debating, you're already happy right?
so why the insecurity about this?
why the stubbornness?
if you truly believe you are right, then so be it..

6 months is way too long already babe, wether you have managed to reach out or convince the girls your ideology shouldn't matter already. 6 months is too long, anybody would be bored and tired already.

just stop posting and let this thread die honey, you seem to be the only consistent female poster.(other than miss debbieyss)

just live your happy life.

beautiful baby btw....

This post has been edited by sinchro: Oct 7 2009, 02:30 AM

actually sometimes really hard to understand, those materialistic gals want a guy who is self motivated or plain rich guy. And i guess those gals are tend to think that self motivated guy = must be rich, no rich = not self motivated/aimless in life.

heard of one mans meat is another mans poison? and I thought you're clear that I wasnt looking for datuks? you disappoint me.

Thank you

not another one.... perhap I should change the first post.

Btw since you emphasize on career so much, may I ask you
is there a problem SAHM has for you?
Do you look down on them?

yup

this quote confirm you're just a kiddo.

Only defective people do Csec?

You dont believe people in malaysia still do episiotomies?

Next time when you get a real wife you'll know, but make sure you change your attitude first, otherwise you'll never get a wife.

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Added on October 7, 2009, 9:14 amyou know why silverhawk is no more active here?
its coz he knows he cant prove me wrong.

I'm only adding money to the husband criteria list, is that wrong?
I did not remove love, romance, blah blah and everything else.

reason, I wanna take care of my baby full time. is this wrong?

Do you agree I need money for this?

if you want this thread to die off then why are you posting in here? again blame the female?

This post has been edited by moorish: Oct 7 2009, 09:37 AM

^lol still defending your horseshit post.

still here to embarrass yourself?

sinchro said your post is reek of inconsistency, plus ego.
noob13 said you are a lousy debater.
dickson said alot. I do not know where to start pointing your flaws
redduke/silverhawk said your post is flawed/inconsistent.

Half of these members are great debaters. Whos still here to embarras herself/himself? LOL

@debbie, I just re-read your quote on my english mistakes. Apparently, I left out an "a" in my sentence, and capital letters. Thats it? what a fkn pathetic excuse to attack my english. Should I start pinpointing your english mistakes too? so sad, I prefer not to waste my time on you. LOL


edit* i wont leave this thread though. I ll come back here occasionally* to have fun with you two.

This post has been edited by Looi: Oct 7 2009, 10:06 AM

great debaters say means correct? then they no need to debate, come in only win the debate?
Automatically you admit you're poor debater?

They like to put the word inconsistency to try their best to point out flaws, in reality human are always inconsistent and that is considered normal.
Its like I like to drink milo, but I dun drink milo everyday, somedays when mood is good I crave for teh tarik.

I say and declare dont like eating spicy food, but someday I crave for tom yam. ???

Till now can any of those so call great debater answer me this, is there anything wrong with SAHM?
are they looking down on SAHM?

Left out an "s" isn't a mistake? Mistaken capital letters isn't a mistake?

Sure, you're most welcome to pinpoint my English! I have much to improve my English! Even if I gain the title of best spoken or written English person in the world, I will not claim that my English is the best of all and take this advantage to critisize people's English.

I pinpointed you because of the way you debate in the forum showing rude manner.

Haiya. i didn't say u looking for Datuk la. Read properly what i wrote.


I ask 2 simple questions, you deliberately side-step and din answer properly.
1st questions.
Whether A should have dumb B long time ago?
A - normal hardworking guy earning good average pay
B - Girl tat only accept guys tat can provide more security (XXXXXX), no money can only be friend with A to buy some time 1st... use A as spare tayar in case got emergency.

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Earlier posting, u said market alwys rite ma..

2nd questions.
Those girls tat prefer guys with more $$$ than a normal working guy.. most of the time they will get alot critics from others.
like those young girls (not u) marry Datuk.. etcs.. why only a few girls like tat but most of the girls (market/majority) still can satisfied n settle down with a normal working guy. So is market/majority ppl alwys rite?

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Don't go beat around the bushes..market alwsy right, one mans meat is another mans poison?
I'm not asking the majority or other ppl. I just want to know wats ur answer only.
Simple direct answer like YES or NO can ady. If u want to give some supporting explaination also ok.

What sinchro wrote earlier also very direct to the point..

"the only reason i can think of why you're still in this 6 month old thread is because of, ego.
when you state something as shameless and bold as 'girls are money minded, and have every right to be' you just can't lose, losing means not only making you look bad but it also means contradicting yourself,
your views,
your beliefs,
and your this mission to reach out to girls that it is prideful to be money minded and in turn causing you to think on wether your choices you made were right....
or your marriage was right...
or that if you happy at all? and not false-believing in so?

if your life is as happy as u say, there shouldn't be any reason why you're still debating, you're already happy right?
so why the insecurity about this?
why the stubbornness?
if you truly believe you are right, then so be it..

6 months is way too long already babe, wether you have managed to reach out or convince the girls your ideology shouldn't matter already. 6 months is too long, anybody would be bored and tired already.

just stop posting and let this thread die honey, you seem to be the only consistent female poster.(other than miss debbieyss)"

This post has been edited by viper88: Oct 7 2009, 10:25 AM

What is SAHM? Mind to elaborate what SAHM stands for?

I agree with you that girls are money minded. Men are money minded to.
So both men and women are money minded.

Men work for it. What about women? Statistic shows more women are entering the working society.


Here are some facts.

No pain. No gain.
You want money. You have to work for it. Then you will have the money you deserve.
Life is never easy. This is reality. Face it with courage.
Nothing is free in this world. Another reality.
Money only favours those who works hard and work smart for it regardless of gender.
There is no shortcut to wealth it continuous effort and planning is required. That's why we have banks to help people plan.
School never teach us about money, we learn it through exposure in the working society.
The work you do to earn money will contribute to the society as a whole.
If you don't work, you don't contribute to the society. What do we call someone who exist but no contribution? You name it.

OK facts aside. Back to your topic.

You mentioned that you put money in the criteria of choosing a husband. Sounds fair enough. You never want a jobless man to be your husband. Jobless = no money. Also fair enough. Now let's look at the mirror. You have expectations, and so do us men have our expectations.

Moorish by the way may I ask are you working or running a business?
What do you do for a living?

No offence here. Those are just facts.

Money minded is not a major problem. Everybody loves money including me. But the main problem now is why some girls choose to married the husband because of the money? That means money can buy girls. Hot girls! Buy the blood. Buy the maruah. Buy the life. WOW! I didn't know human are so cheap.

Totally agreed.

Both men and women work nowadays. Even after married both parents are working in order to build a family.

Let me share my case here. Me and my fiancee both working and we love each other, and always be there to support morally for each other should something fails. We mutually agrees that we work to create our own wealth to build a family instead of relying on our parents. I am a banker and she works as an accountant. She partially controls my money. and sometimes I advised her to spend responsibly.
But sometimes she respect my needs of spending because I already contribute my share($$$) to the pool.

If say the debate is about baby: I like baby and some of my fren insist baby is a burden and saps up love and money in a marriage, I debate with them it'll bring more love and meaning into the marriage turning the marriage into a real family.

does it mean that I've doubt about my believe when I debate I like baby?

The only thing this debate had brought me as mention last nite when I read thru is I'm glad you guys made me feel so right about my choice. and this only shows you guys phailed to show your point about marrying a rich man is a flaw, a prostitute, a woman stay home to take care of her baby is considered lazy. A great and right choice is to marry a man who is not capable to bring up a family and need you to work.

ok la, let just say today u din met ur current husband, and u din met any rich man. So are u going to stay single until u meet a rich man ?

SAHM - Stay at home mothers, meaning parents who share this believe that they want to bring up a child like the good old days where mother will give her best attention to the baby and breast feed her until she has no more milk to give. Instead of relying on baby sitter, nowadays baby sitter just take care of your babys need, like food, change diapers and sleep.

when we take care of our own baby, we spend every possible moment with her when she is awake and talk and play with her, early interaction is important for development. Besides I dun trust strangers with my baby, I trust me and my hubby.

In order to achieve this the mother needs to quit her job and hubby takes over providing food - money.

Anything wrong with this believe? Do you agree hubby needs to be capable in order to achieve this?

Anything lazy about being a mother?

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Added on October 7, 2009, 11:13 amThe answer is yes, and yes not only to rich, as mention 1 million times, money is only part of the criteria, husband quality material is needed too. I've never mention about running after the richest man I can find.

This post has been edited by moorish: Oct 7 2009, 11:13 AM

Yes, good one!

Only those incapable man will need and ask wives and gf to work.
A man if he is a real man with self-motivated attitude, will try his best to settle his financial capability, ALWAYS, despite of how hard it is!

My father even goes to work when he is sick, he brought his medicine along to work. He even works during public holidays.

I could hardly see any of the youngsters or those who claim they are average man have this kind of attitude. Basically, it's just wasting of time to talk to those who are not married and haven't set up a family yet.