From the topic http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/967243 it made me think deep why are girl money minded.

Thousands of years ago, money do not exist, girl will choose their partner base on security, they look for well built male who can protect them from wild animals and wild man or whatever wild things,they're vulnerable when they;re pregnant, and the years when they need to raise children. This has been genetic in female.

Fast forward to today, we no longer require mr. muscle to protect us, security took a new meaning, security = money. So girl will marry a guy when he is rich and this is why the quote ada wang ada amoi.

So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice.

not-so-rich guys will also cari makan, this is true.

but since both poor and rich guys also cari makan, why not choose a rich and self-agressive guy?

You can comment my statement and my personality in any way you like, I will not take what you've said.

How to determine if a poor guy's personality is lazy or self-agressive? By the income he earned. Simple. Self-agressive guy will be awarded by a stable and good salary job.

How to determine if a poor guy will not flirt and betray the marriage when he gets rich? Sorry. There's no way out for this. Woman has to take risk and take bet.

Choose a poor guy with good attitude/ambitious? Can. Any one can guarantee he won't betray the marriage? Can you?

Therefore, if you did read through my posts, I did mention that I will earn my own living expenses. I want love from a man, provided he can support his own living expenses and his family/parents. I hope his financial ability is to the extend where if any accident eg. parent falls sick, he doesn't have to care about the medical fees but to find a good doctor for the best medical option. I will not be his burden, neither does he.

deny all you want, in life, everyone has a price.

Lol.. just because my username is viper88, u think i'm born in 1988 and 21 this year ?
For me 88 is Fatt fatt ma.. just sound nice n means good only. 

I'm 30 this year, girl.. been working more than 10 years already supporting owneself and helping out my family quite well.
Have good savings and earning a decent pay work and have own investment as part time. How about u?

I've been working full time at the age of 19 and study part time to help out my parents who needs to support my bro n sisters in their studies.
Both my parents already retired and not working since 3 years back.

So at this moment, u still have nothing to discuss with me, girl?

What you are saying is completely different from what Moorish believes in, so unfortunately, by taking her side of the argument you only degrade your own point of views.

You're a lousy debater, Moorish

I've just checked
did it mention how much only qualified as rich? or do you not understand english?     

you stand an equal chance of him falling out of love and fooling around 10 years later in all the guys. So why not pick a rich guy?

oh you again   not yet lose face yesterday about english.

So in your mind only the rich will fool around,
lemme ask you this, those cheap prostitute den, cheap karaoke setup are for which classes of people?
You think poor people are holier and flirt any less than the rich?
Flirtation flaw are in the person not the pocket. The different between the 2 is the rich will have a higher chances of getting the girl as compared with the poor, the poor needs to work harder.

and you ever heard of the saying "kong sum mei chun sek sum yau hei"?

You're emo by calling me stupid, well I can lower my IQ and start a name calling war with you if thats what yu wan but pls open a new thread so I can do that.

btw I recall yesterday you cant even understand the dictionary you posted hahahha    

excuse me again you've slapped your face, the modern metropolitan city life girl will go for money, its the kampung girl who dun mind working as potong susu and continue to churn out children and worry later if the child gets their education.

Kampung mentality is simply, so I think yu're from kampung HAHAHAHA

tell you what, you're incapable to debate, if you continue you;ll keep slapping yourself. So safe yourselves and keep quiet and learn.

I tell you what: man always stands the privilidge to take care and bare the living expenses of a family, ALL on his own. Be it in olden days or modern days, this is the natural, originial and initial living culture.

However, due to the current economics status, a man who has average pay can no longer be the only person to support the whole family, in order to give their family a moderate educations, medicals, daily, monthly or annual bills or installments. And that's why women nowadays coming out and start working for another pack of monthly income. Sad to say, this issue has been manipulated by many men out there (mainly those who are not self-motiaveted and incapable men who likes to stay in comfort zone), that women working in corporate world is a common issue and who do not, are plain lazy or selfish women, that sucks their husbands' money and properties.

If you have time, read some economics reference books, I believe this would help you understand more about the economics status that the whole world is facing.

Last but not least, it's not for a man to ask his wife or gf to build up her own financial ability; It's for a gal that willing to share the burden with her man and therefore do not mind to leave her comfort zone and start going back to her working life.

p.s: above highlighted portions are the edited done for your kind perusal. You may need to brush up your English, too.

Yes, I know i have spelling mistake. And I never claim that my English is good. You who claim your English is good, having so many grammar mistake that being picked and edited by someone who has bad command of English like me. So, here shows what kind of attitude you have.

Again, back to the topic. Marry an average man with average salary pay is okay, as long as a man is self-motivated enough, even if no huge house or huge car, life will still be meaningful. But to marry an average man with average pay and BAD ATTITUDE and no self-motivated, dare not to admit English grammar mistakes and critisize people, is a big NO.

i'm amazed at how you interpret someone post, it's like you're try to spin around in circle by holding up your assumption on us without concrete facts,

you got pre-nuptial agreement ?

oh sry, i misunderstand it the wrong way