If a pretty girl managed to get a rich man, it also like a time bomb ma. The rich man will play with her till bored den start go eat outside. Its a matter of time he fly kite the pretty girl also.

How do u define guy with a stable and good salary job?
What type of working field/line? Working experience more than 3-5 yrs +? , Salary range 5K+ or 10K++?
Savings in hand by age of 25/30/35 for tat guy?
50K / 100K/ 200K/ 500K?

Some girls only looking for guys working in professional line like Doctor, Engineers, family business earning close to 10K or higher.
These type of girls also known as "Kucing alim" only aim for those high roller guys. Look very decent and nice girl but when get to know them better.. they are actually wild type of girl.. likes clubbing, shopping branded clothes and girl accessories, eating at restaurant not food court, prefer imported cars and alwys suck the guy's hard earn money hard. They will give alot excuses like, other girls haf better bf, they duwan to live a boring normal life, etcs. These type of girls normally very dependant and desperate for money type and willing to do watever it takes to achieve their goal. Sad ..

Lol.. just because my username is viper88, u think i'm born in 1988 and 21 this year ?
For me 88 is Fatt fatt ma.. just sound nice n means good only.

I'm 30 this year, girl.. been working more than 10 years already supporting owneself and helping out my family quite well.
Have good savings and earning a decent pay work and have own investment as part time. How about u?

I've been working full time at the age of 19 and study part time to help out my parents who needs to support my bro n sisters in their studies.
Both my parents already retired and not working since 3 years back.

So at this moment, u still have nothing to discuss with me, girl?

She haf noting to reply me liao even after i reply here earlier.
She still a young girl and maybe what she wrote earlier is actually her ownself.

No need show my money to Debbieyss de.....
I've zero loans and money loaded in bank and stocks...maybe its still not good enuf for materialistic $$$$ minded girls.
Not just money they want... need fancy car and big house also ma...

Moorish should know sumting abt me coz i used to reply in lyn Stock forum.

Silverhawk is here already.. he's reply really good.

Cheers,
v_viper88

Lol...finally qualified to get ur reply.

Tats what i wrote earlier ma..
No need show my money to Debbieyss de.....

Read already but still tell me not to show u...

I didn't say u are a "materialistic" person.. dunno why u think tat.. maybe u qualified into tat catergory.
Eat chili feel hot ?

"I've zero loans and money loaded in bank and stocks...maybe its still not good enuf for materialistic $$$$ minded girls.
Not just money they want... need fancy car and big house also ma... "

I say some girls la.. same like the earlier "Kucing alim" type of girl.

Ya....no point debate with some1 who know wat is LOVE but still blinded by so called security ($$$$$) .
Just because of the extra security ($$$$) she will go for tat person and not the other person who have lesser ($$$$)

I read the 1st few pages she wrote, i already know its not right... bad influence for other girls.

Lol.. started calling ppl Noob after cant retaliate properly?
very childish.

Working life hard hor... go find a rich husband la since security ($$$$) is more important than find a normal average guy who earn a normal good pay.

Life is full of challenges and ppl will try "find short cut" to achieve their goal.
Some cant differentiate between wat is right or wrong coz blinded by extra $$$$$.. n make their decision based on $$$$ 1st.. others factor put for 2nd tot onli.

OMG.. u know how to read my reply onot? If dunno.. dun simply perasan tan la...

I didn't specifically mention u in my earlier reply. My reply with adv goes to those "Kucing alim", "materialistic" , "security ($$$$$)" type of girls only.
I reply to ur post earlier coz u think i'm 21 yrs still not expose to working life or hlping parent n not qualified to share my point of views ma..

Its not my intention to imply also lar.. if u get the wrong ideas from my simple reply too bad lar. coz maybe u r naive..
Ok la... if U really think tat person i say qualifies as u den..SURE it is u lar coz u wanted to think like tat ma..

No need wait until "one day" la.... coz now l already afford to feed myself and my parents.... u didn't read properly my previous reply r? I'm 30 yrs old ler... Go back n read la...

Hmmm ... yahh u dunno how to read properly rite... i write more here oso u still blurr...

This post has been edited by viper88: Oct 6 2009, 02:22 PM

Lol.. i like ur reply .... OUTSTANDING.

This post has been edited by viper88: Oct 6 2009, 02:17 PM

Lol... mixed up case?

Well said.

Cant blame him... he dun understd wat u wrote.. but i do.

This is wat she wrote earlier ma...

QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 06:23 PM)

"security took a new meaning, security = money. So girl will marry a guy when he is rich and this is why the quote ada wang ada amoi.

So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice.

So to girls who choose on love.... wait till you grow up, its always wiser like our ancestor has put the genetic on our blood, go for security!

To girls, money is a great temptation.

I love A, but he is so short and skinny and always get sick cannot hunt for food and B is tall and strong and will be able to hunt and protect me and the children.

2009: I love A but he is poor, but B is rich and can provide security (money)

What I'm saying is modern girls replaces security with money bcoz this world are fueled by money. And why I was saying if the girl who chooses love if she was given a choice with a rich guy who loves her is immature:

You're not thinking of your future, worse you allow your children to suffer just bcoz of your impulses on love.

Love grows thinner in most cases.

A - he earn money from the parent and his rich cause his parent is rich...
B - he earn Rm 4k a month a civil engineering salary grows as he gets older, maybe the earning can be RM 12k a month depends on business.

so which will you choose, a man who take money from the parent, or a man that works hard for the money?

Moorish answer.
If marriage I would pick A
If pak toh I would choose B.

Security (MONEY) takes up 60% of a womans decision when comes to choosing husband. And its perfectly normal.

The part where she wrote...

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What I'm saying is modern girls replaces security with money bcoz this world are fueled by money. And why I was saying if the girl who chooses love if she was given a choice with a rich guy who loves her is immature:

You're not thinking of your future, worse you allow your children to suffer just bcoz of your impulses on love.

Love grows thinner in most cases.

A - he earn money from the parent and his rich cause his parent is rich...
B - he earn Rm 4k a month a civil engineering salary grows as he gets older, maybe the earning can be RM 12k a month depends on business.

so which will you choose, a man who take money from the parent, or a man that works hard for the money?

Moorish answer.
If marriage I would pick A
If pak toh I would choose B.

Security (MONEY) takes up 60% of a womans decision when comes to choosing husband. And its perfectly normal.
[/

This is the big question... do u think its right or perfectly normal ?

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Added on October 6, 2009, 5:49 pmAttracted to it, is ok. But get closer .. too close and n get burned...
or blinded by it is is purely STUPID ...like some1 says earlier.

This post has been edited by viper88: Oct 6 2009, 05:49 PM

Still havent married right. Her answer earlier, $$$ comes 1st ... tat earlier boyfriend only for PAK TOR... or for buy time till can find more $$$$ security guy for marriage.

A - he earn money from the parent and his rich cause his parent is rich...
B - he earn Rm 4k a month a civil engineering salary grows as he gets older, maybe the earning can be RM 12k a month depends on business.

so which will you choose, a man who take money from the parent, or a man that works hard for the money?

Moorish answer.
If marriage I would pick A
If pak toh I would choose B.

Security (MONEY) takes up 60% of a womans decision when comes to choosing husband. And its perfectly normal.


This post has been edited by viper88: Oct 6 2009, 06:30 PM

Why make it sound so nice 1?
Since u with a bum for many years, then his attitude one kind and lotsa problem in relationship, why don't just break off with him earlier?
Why still hang on to this bum? If still cant find any other person with better $$$$ , better attitude, u will cont the relationship n later marry him ?
Opps.. get marry to him?

So u answer leh?
2)You leave your current boyfriend and make yourself "available" once you and the well of guy are friends.(Atm friends only, future dunno yet)
3)You leave your current boyfriend, once the guy begin his move to woo u.(He didnt know u have bf)
4)You leave your current boyfriend, once the guy ask u to become his gf.(He didnt know u have bf)

This reminds me of my friend real life experience.

My guy friend - A
Only child in his family. living with family.. average family type.. single storey house, drive Wira and Nissan old car.

ok ok leng lui - B
Living with family, average family,

In university, A met B.. try to make fren - success.
In uni 3.5 years time A want B more than fren..alwys try to confess - fail, reason given by A.. study time duwan involved into special BF& GF relationship.

A alwys hlp B in uni assignment and even spend alot of time with B instead of studyng well to get good grade..

Come out to working life.
1st year
A - work as a programmer. pay abt 2000.
B - still looking for work.. jobless.

A confess to B, B said no.. only good friends coz she wants to get a good career life 1st..Career important for her.
She like guys with spikey hair, body well build, confident and stable in financial.

2nd year.
A- still work as programmer have some experienced ady.. boss sent oversea SG & Thailan to do client work. pay abt 2500
Chg outlook. went to GYM workout .. etcs..
B - work as normal admin office work.

A confess to B, B still said no only can be good friend...she said working life is hard.. she wants to look for bf who is working as profesional in line eg.. Doctor, Engineer, etcs earn stable high income and can help take care of her and family.

3rd - 4 th year.
A - Senior Programmer. pay up ady Pay abt. 3K++
B - quit admin job, doing insurance coz heard alot ppl make big money in selling insurance line... dream big. but in the end no client, no good sales.. quit and kwai kwai go back into admin job line ...

A confess to B, B said can only be special friend, she still plans to look for bf/hubby who are professional n stable type.

This 4 years.. A try very hard to kaw B, bring her holiday, go movies, expensive restaurant dinning, buy hp and gifts etcs. BUT still the most SPECIAL friend only.

He told me many times during yam cha session, he is very sad and even have tears because he loves B very much but B cant accpt him as bf.
He also said he have tried improves alot to makes her accept him but still failed and wanted to give up on her already..coz spend alot MONEY and TIME. She only gives B some hints and abit hope there might be some changes coz she start to feel touched by my friends determination.

I told him.. u have try ur best so if she don't accpt you, go for other girls who can accpt him.
Breakoff is the best if A feel very hard to accpt the fact tat B set a very high expectation for her future bf/hubby.

A said he will not give up but still be special friends to B.

5th year.
A - Anlyst consultant pay abt 4K++
B - still normal admin job..

A - grandparents pass away, his father eldest son in family inherited one big lump sum of money.
His father buy new double-storey house, sold old wira and nissan car n change car Toyota vios and Nissan X-trail..
When i go his house i oso shock.. suddenly my friend

B - Age about 27 ady..

A stills goes out with B driving new car VIOS and bring B to his new parents bigger house for CNY... den.. the MIRACLE thing happen.. B finally accepted A's loves.!

A so happy he told me the feeling when B accpted him is like his soul flying out from his body heading to heaven liao..
I feel abit suspicious on B, coz after so many years.. 4 years not including uni years.. B alwys rejected A, only treat his as normal/best/special friend. Why suddenly B chg her mind. A said... maybe B feel touch by his sincerity n effort. I told him to be careful coz maybe she's saw his family and his work financial chges only accpted him.. not to mention she's getting older 26 and still cant find any DOCTOR/ ENGINEERS/ Professionals yet to become bf/husband. If A suddenly lost job, etcs.. maybe B will leave him la.. A said he don't care wat B thinks abt his financial but as long B accpt him now he is happy already. I wish A gud luck la..

Then by the age of 28.. B married to A ady. Finally A can reap all the harvest he sowed after many years.

This post has been edited by viper88: Oct 6 2009, 08:37 PM

Yup... sad.. i feel pity for those guy who have gf or wife like B type.
They should have dump B long time ago.

Wat say u moorish?

This post has been edited by viper88: Oct 6 2009, 10:24 PM

Ya.. tats why i feel he kinda dumb oso.. maybe can "pui fuk" him coz he can still chase her after so many rejection throughout the years.

Yup, market is alwys right. Only ppl make right or wrong decision.
Dun blindly follow the "Herd Mentality" as all or most of them will get slaughtered sooner or later.

Those girls tat prefer guys with more $$$ than a normal working guy.. most of the time they will get alot critics from others.
like those young girls marry Datuk.. etcs.. why only a few girls like tat but most of the girls still can satisfied n settle down with a normal working guy.
So is market/majority ppl alwys rite?

So wats ur answer to my questions??

This post has been edited by viper88: Oct 6 2009, 11:44 PM

I know some married girls no defective V but still insist wants to do C-sections.
Reason why.. they want to keep the lower part tight so can make hubby happy.
This is wat they told me la..*pssh.. they oso said if lower part tight still got some value if hubby duwan anymore maybe other rich guy wants ma

So spend RM6500 is worth spending for them.
Down point is cant make another baby so fast la....

Like tat SG comedian Kumar said.. bagi lelong saja lah..

Extract from the guy who post the videos.
"This video is just for entertainment. No offence to any races, nationalities or gender. Watch this with an open mind and hope you guys enjoy this hilarious comedy"

Don't want later got some ppl perasan tan again....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BfVpwvkgaUw

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0_gBlfFrLiE&feature=related

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Swr4eGnY6Xw&feature=related


This post has been edited by viper88: Oct 7 2009, 01:04 AM

Haiya. i didn't say u looking for Datuk la. Read properly what i wrote.


I ask 2 simple questions, you deliberately side-step and din answer properly.
1st questions.
Whether A should have dumb B long time ago?
A - normal hardworking guy earning good average pay
B - Girl tat only accept guys tat can provide more security (XXXXXX), no money can only be friend with A to buy some time 1st... use A as spare tayar in case got emergency.

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Earlier posting, u said market alwys rite ma..

2nd questions.
Those girls tat prefer guys with more $$$ than a normal working guy.. most of the time they will get alot critics from others.
like those young girls (not u) marry Datuk.. etcs.. why only a few girls like tat but most of the girls (market/majority) still can satisfied n settle down with a normal working guy. So is market/majority ppl alwys rite?

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Don't go beat around the bushes..market alwsy right, one mans meat is another mans poison?
I'm not asking the majority or other ppl. I just want to know wats ur answer only.
Simple direct answer like YES or NO can ady. If u want to give some supporting explaination also ok.

What sinchro wrote earlier also very direct to the point..

"the only reason i can think of why you're still in this 6 month old thread is because of, ego.
when you state something as shameless and bold as 'girls are money minded, and have every right to be' you just can't lose, losing means not only making you look bad but it also means contradicting yourself,
your views,
your beliefs,
and your this mission to reach out to girls that it is prideful to be money minded and in turn causing you to think on wether your choices you made were right....
or your marriage was right...
or that if you happy at all? and not false-believing in so?

if your life is as happy as u say, there shouldn't be any reason why you're still debating, you're already happy right?
so why the insecurity about this?
why the stubbornness?
if you truly believe you are right, then so be it..

6 months is way too long already babe, wether you have managed to reach out or convince the girls your ideology shouldn't matter already. 6 months is too long, anybody would be bored and tired already.

just stop posting and let this thread die honey, you seem to be the only consistent female poster.(other than miss debbieyss)"

This post has been edited by viper88: Oct 7 2009, 10:25 AM