1) Look at the women who never married - What could you tell me about their physical appearance?
2) Look at the men who never married - What could you tell me about their ability to thrive in life?

Ezra.

The more time you take to understand women.

The more time you lose to understand yourself.

Vague?

Don't care. But if you have already read it, it goes right into your subconscious mind, you can't unread it.

Generally a guy would avoid a rich girl, it is already difficult to handle a normal girl, some more you wanna live with a rich girl?  Unless his primary mission is to siphon her money or maybe climb at his dads corporate ladder. Other wise I think guys cant tolerate the rich girls behavior.

Not only Girls are money minded as well as Boys. It is human's nature, just admit it. You want to be a high priest? or a monk? Then guess this topic just doesn't suits you. Money is the most important thing in our life. Without it, we can't live. Everytime we think about money, how to save it? how to spend it? HELLO! that is money minded la! You keep thinking of money. If you are not, then I guess you are just another spoon-feed baby under your parent's protection.

Tell me your definition of money minded then...Money is Duit. Minded is Pemikiran. So doesnt my definition makes sense? And what does it had to do with sex? It is my right, It is my opinion. You dont like it? Then do not reply. From your post, it is obvious you are having me as personal problem. You are carrying a debate here? or a quarell? Do not act childish anymore, please.

Jie Jie, I want ice creame oso... can?

She gave me adi

hehehe no need put ur statment ler, see ur face oso know u r moneyface type.   

ps: btw that lala blonde color doesn't suit you. it makes you look old and looks lala a bit....   

Potential doormat?

Perception matters.

haha! I met a lot of them...none of them can so far...even those PRC gals who wanna try to hipnosis on me!

different ppl different standard la, I may consider my husband as rich but some of my gf will just snub at him, coz they're eyeing for the new C-class.

Some ppl would be happy if hubby buys them a MYVI (me )

alot of them are, indeed. Men denied the facts that this the how the world is working and still living in their own fantasy world, instead of being more ambitious and hardworking to bring their own level up, and get the chun girls that they dream of ( but they cant get them initially because they can't even take care of themselves yet), they blame the girls for being materialistic and money minded, so come out with the statement " this kinda girl give me also I don't want"
ada duit ada ah moi. very true. and you think simply any girls can get rich, smart, presentable looking, responsible guys? you think guys that fit in this checklist are stupid? they are choosey as well! so this is the part that why girls we should have the initiative to  build up our own career, be financially independant, be smart and have the ability to stand on our own feet, and of course, be charming.

I don't understand why the guys in this thread make it such a big deal untill the extend of cursing TS that her marriage life will not last, when she just pointing out the fact?

it is so obvious rite.. if 2 men put in front for any girl to choose, both share the same standard of look, both love the same, both are sensitive, but one is already financially stable and another one is still struggling, isnt it obvious which 1 a girl will choose?

same goes to you guys wat, both girls for you to choose are equally gentle, nice, caring, but 1 with hot body and angelic face, another one is so so only some more no sense of fashion. which one you go for?

so my point here is, there is no free lunch. do not look down a girl that try to get a man whom is FINANCIALLY STABLE. Like I said, it's not easy to tie the heart of a succesful man, girls have to pay very much effort to keep herself up the standard, if not easily husband go out find ee lai lor like you all said.

same goes to guys, want to have chun and sexy and smart wife, go work harder and earn more money

heheh so girls that are smart, sexy, intelligent and financial stable but look for a good quality husband = better prostitute?

warh then you must have came from a nation with a very high standard defination for prostitutes man.

If i am so truly smart, sexy intelligent and financiall stable, i will insist to be very choosey on my husband. so in other words, i rather be called a BETTER PROSTITE, than to lower down my standard and get a lazy husband that cant even feed himself properly and I have to come home everyday to ask him how's his day and asking around among my famliy members if they have any jobs to offer to my this "poor but dunno why he's just better than a rich husband in your eye" husband.

you will be surprised that all girls sit together and talk bout this all the time. And i dont think by educationg the girls this will make the men's life easier. Look we have been talking about this topic, and instead of thinking through what we've said, you are being so defensive and start calling us prostiutes lar this and that. Men's ego making you unable to input what girls are thinking.

And, meaning to say that, if you have a female friend, or your sister or your daughter or whoever, whom is smart, pretty and capable, but for the word of LOVE, she is with a man that so called love her so much, but is too lazy and incapable to provide her a good and steady life, then she has to work double to feed the guy somemore. You will never ask her to leave him for a better man that can take care of her? or you will ask her to continue working hard to feed him becuse he loves her?

I'm not talking about the issue of getting a rich or poor husband. But the question of why girls should be blamed for setting ourselves guildelines on getting an assured relationship and a somehow promising future? well of course nothing is 100% promising. but something that we can foresee that will have potentially better future assurance?

Thats in Hollywood

I know you're getting a lot of flack for this but I actually see your point and to a large extent, I believe it to be true. Only, I'd changed your last sentence to, "go work harder and make something of yourself". When you use the word, "money" in the manner that you did, it's not hard to see how this may reinforce the thread title.

One thing I've noticed. Instead of gaining some insight into a woman's mind, male posters are by and large, being defensive. I for one believe that superficial things like looks and wealth do matter. They aren't the only components that determine if a person likes you or not, but it doesn't hurt to have either. Sometimes I feel people are pressured into giving the "right" answer instead of the real one.