Actually, human nature is just that simple. Who doesn't want to be rich? Who doesn't want to be handsome or pretty? Who doesn't want to earn more money?

Why every one here is so hypocrite and lack of wisdom to differenciate case by case?

Pursue rich guy = materialistic?

Pursue money = greedy?
One who pursue money can maintain low expenses, too. Keeping money just for uncertain urgency in the future, like this cannot? Ever think of how much inflation gains each year? Ever think of the job opportunities getting more computerised and unemployment rate may increase? Unless you are capable and innovative enough.

In that case we also can say guys who smoke are bad guys/irresponsible, rude and immoral guys. Can we say that? We can't, right? Guys who smoke can also be a loving father and responsible man to their families. Guys who humorous say vulgar words while telling jokes don't mean they are rude instead spice up the conversation quality.

Cant blame him... he dun understd wat u wrote.. but i do.

what is this war all about.. picking the rich, richer, richest guy around? wealthy guy having the hottest gal?

everyone are rich..
depends on which perspective or direction we are looking at..
why not pick a potential ones rather than just a rich fellar?

yup, gals prefer wealthier guy when other criteria are met..
some ignore the consequences and even being a mistress, why??

Everyone likes to be with, or around winners. Having money is merely an indicator, possibly the most obvious one because it is tangible. Therefore, people who go after rich people are deemed to be superficial.

I couldnt agree more!

To those who work hard to earn their money and those who tirelessly getting themself fit, its only fair for them to get what they deserved, no?

i think what moorish trying to said that,

rich guy = give more priority

rich guy but with attitude problem = test drive 1st if boh ngam then ditch and find new 1.

not-rich guy = asked them main buntut themself.

thats what i understand

What they deserve is money and a fit body.

Whether or not they deserve love is another matter.



This post has been edited by n00b13: Oct 6 2009, 05:07 PM

...which is actually the basis for this debate.

what im getting too is that it apply to the "flames attracts moths" theory
since you're "outstanding" then others its only natural for you to be noticed,
and most people who "just deserve money and a fit body" is not aiming for those purpose only

This is wat she wrote earlier ma...

QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 06:23 PM)

"security took a new meaning, security = money. So girl will marry a guy when he is rich and this is why the quote ada wang ada amoi.

So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice.

So to girls who choose on love.... wait till you grow up, its always wiser like our ancestor has put the genetic on our blood, go for security!

To girls, money is a great temptation.

I love A, but he is so short and skinny and always get sick cannot hunt for food and B is tall and strong and will be able to hunt and protect me and the children.

2009: I love A but he is poor, but B is rich and can provide security (money)

What I'm saying is modern girls replaces security with money bcoz this world are fueled by money. And why I was saying if the girl who chooses love if she was given a choice with a rich guy who loves her is immature:

You're not thinking of your future, worse you allow your children to suffer just bcoz of your impulses on love.

Love grows thinner in most cases.

A - he earn money from the parent and his rich cause his parent is rich...
B - he earn Rm 4k a month a civil engineering salary grows as he gets older, maybe the earning can be RM 12k a month depends on business.

so which will you choose, a man who take money from the parent, or a man that works hard for the money?

Moorish answer.
If marriage I would pick A
If pak toh I would choose B.

Security (MONEY) takes up 60% of a womans decision when comes to choosing husband. And its perfectly normal.

The part where she wrote...

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What I'm saying is modern girls replaces security with money bcoz this world are fueled by money. And why I was saying if the girl who chooses love if she was given a choice with a rich guy who loves her is immature:

You're not thinking of your future, worse you allow your children to suffer just bcoz of your impulses on love.

Love grows thinner in most cases.

A - he earn money from the parent and his rich cause his parent is rich...
B - he earn Rm 4k a month a civil engineering salary grows as he gets older, maybe the earning can be RM 12k a month depends on business.

so which will you choose, a man who take money from the parent, or a man that works hard for the money?

Moorish answer.
If marriage I would pick A
If pak toh I would choose B.

Security (MONEY) takes up 60% of a womans decision when comes to choosing husband. And its perfectly normal.
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This is the big question... do u think its right or perfectly normal ?

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Added on October 6, 2009, 5:49 pmAttracted to it, is ok. But get closer .. too close and n get burned...
or blinded by it is is purely STUPID ...like some1 says earlier.

This post has been edited by viper88: Oct 6 2009, 05:49 PM

I can't help to laugh crazily at this!

LOL

Moorish, I have an enquiry.
If u have been with ur boyfriend(very very average income) for years and nothing is happening.
A single guy(well-off) pops into your life, currently as a friend.

1) You would have left your boyfriend long before you met the well-off guy.
2)You leave your current boyfriend and make yourself "available" once you and the well of guy are friends.(Atm friends only, future dunno yet)
3)You leave your current boyfriend, once the guy begin his move to woo u.(He didnt know u have bf)
4)You leave your current boyfriend, once the guy ask u to become his gf.(He didnt know u have bf)


I respect your answer in anyway, feel free to elaborate/explain ur answer, like telling him u have a bf, etc =)

Cheers

This post has been edited by TheLastFew: Oct 6 2009, 06:17 PM

but that is individual choice what, nothing much we can do about it also right ?

but of course not all the gal are lucky enough to get a rich person la.

i see u laugh like this, i also laugh

Still havent married right. Her answer earlier, $$$ comes 1st ... tat earlier boyfriend only for PAK TOR... or for buy time till can find more $$$$ security guy for marriage.

A - he earn money from the parent and his rich cause his parent is rich...
B - he earn Rm 4k a month a civil engineering salary grows as he gets older, maybe the earning can be RM 12k a month depends on business.

so which will you choose, a man who take money from the parent, or a man that works hard for the money?

Moorish answer.
If marriage I would pick A
If pak toh I would choose B.

Security (MONEY) takes up 60% of a womans decision when comes to choosing husband. And its perfectly normal.


This post has been edited by viper88: Oct 6 2009, 06:30 PM

I was in that same situation you described, but mine a bit diff, was with a bum for many years, then his attitude also one kind and lotsa problem with our rship, then hubby came into my life, try to date me many times, and finally I gave in and...he spannered me from ex.

Why make it sound so nice 1?
Since u with a bum for many years, then his attitude one kind and lotsa problem in relationship, why don't just break off with him earlier?
Why still hang on to this bum? If still cant find any other person with better $$$$ , better attitude, u will cont the relationship n later marry him ?
Opps.. get marry to him?

So u answer leh?
2)You leave your current boyfriend and make yourself "available" once you and the well of guy are friends.(Atm friends only, future dunno yet)
3)You leave your current boyfriend, once the guy begin his move to woo u.(He didnt know u have bf)
4)You leave your current boyfriend, once the guy ask u to become his gf.(He didnt know u have bf)

depending on the point of criteria, i'm just merely trying to prove that money issin't a big deal in finding a partner, issin't that's what people in here debating about ?

i'm not being stuck up, just trying to understand people that put money as a big deal in their criteria, and the reasons behind them

Sorry, can't resist giving my 2 cents

Regarding choosing a guy for his potential, most guys never realise their early promise. Most will remain middle-class, only a few will make it to the ranks of upper management or the newly rich while a minority will fall down the hole cause of bad habits, illnesses and so on. So IMHO, it's better to choose someone who has already "made it" or has made so much progress that success is inevitable. It's like choosing a completed property over an under construction one

This post has been edited by Angel On Fire: Oct 6 2009, 07:04 PM