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chinese ed gf vs english ed gf, let the debates begin lulz
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GUYS! what are the differences would u list down between chinese ed gf n english ed gf that you have discovered so far?
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chinese ed girls seem to be more emo.
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I agree there's difference between chinese ED vs english/BM ED. I am still analyzing the differences though
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chinese ed are more close minded...
not only gals.same goes to the guys.no offend.but most of them.. |
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Mar 1 2008, 07:59 PM
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As long as they have what they're supposed to have, who cares?
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Mar 1 2008, 08:01 PM
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but it doesnt matter..every individual has different preference.. .Both also has pro n cons..
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Mar 1 2008, 08:02 PM
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Chinese ed more shy yet more tend to "tarik harga" (even when they have nothing to tarik)
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I prefer english ed. Easier to talk to about stuff, and from my experience, less prejudiced/racist.
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Mar 1 2008, 08:12 PM
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english ed FTW
They are more open minded, easier to talk to and its more comfortable to be with |
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Mar 1 2008, 08:12 PM
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QUOTE(Malefic @ Mar 1 2008, 08:02 PM) Chinese ed more shy yet more tend to "tarik harga" (even when they have nothing to tarik) I memang hate those ppl that act "tarik harga" |
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Mar 1 2008, 08:29 PM
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well, if the guy's english ED, then he'll prefer the english ed girl, and vice versa.
the relationship dies if theres no common interest or if there's communication breakdown. I'm english ed, so yeah. take a wild guess. edit: typo This post has been edited by liew90kw: Mar 1 2008, 08:30 PM |
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Mar 1 2008, 08:36 PM
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i'm so eager to noe...the result...
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Mar 1 2008, 08:41 PM
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This is where the advantages of being Chinese Ed and speaking English at home comes in.
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Mar 1 2008, 08:53 PM
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QUOTE(Gr3yL3gion81 @ Mar 1 2008, 07:59 PM) As long as they have what they're supposed to have, who cares? Quoted for the truth. |
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Mar 1 2008, 09:04 PM
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i think is no "much: different between chinese ed or english ed girl during the relation cos love is "BLIND" anyway ....
But a big different is where the two brakeup .. chinese ed girl are very very emotion and because the way that they are educated ... words ... means lots to them ( or anyone whom are chinese ed not only apply to girl ).... some chinese words has deeper meaning ... by just one single words .. like "Ai ne " means Love you in english .. cannot be simply use if you do not mean it....... but i guess like english ... saying " I like you " does not mean " i love you" as for chinese ed people .. saying I like you... will eventually link to i love you.... as my own opinion .... |
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Mar 1 2008, 09:25 PM
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QUOTE(bonedragon @ Mar 1 2008, 08:05 PM) I prefer english ed. Easier to talk to about stuff, and from my experience, less prejudiced/racist. yeah..do agree about the less prejudiced/racist part. It all goes back to the upbringing and environment... i prefer eng ed guy. Easier to communicate, more open minded, their mindset is different. |
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Mar 1 2008, 09:26 PM
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english ed FTW
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Mar 1 2008, 09:28 PM
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QUOTE(LoveMeNot @ Mar 1 2008, 09:25 PM) yeah..do agree about the less prejudiced/racist part. It all goes back to the upbringing and environment... i prefer eng ed guy. Easier to communicate, more open minded, their mindset is different. Im english educated  |
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Mar 1 2008, 09:29 PM
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chinese ed are more like conservative, maybe cause they are more focus on education then mixing around
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QUOTE(Malefic @ Mar 1 2008, 08:02 PM) Chinese ed more shy yet more tend to "tarik harga" (even when they have nothing to tarik) hahaha .. like wat we chinese say " rambutan's with durian price tag " .. |
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Mar 1 2008, 09:32 PM
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is not based on chinese ed or english ed...is bcoz different ppl with different personality....nothing related with their ed
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Mar 1 2008, 09:32 PM
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QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Mar 1 2008, 09:29 PM) chinese ed are more like conservative, maybe cause they are more focus on education then mixing around Not really true.... sometimes they are just more shy especially with guyz. And english ed are actually serious about their studies as well... its very rare to see a english ed girl which is not good at studies |
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Mar 1 2008, 09:35 PM
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QUOTE(Wolf516 @ Mar 1 2008, 09:28 PM) Im english educated really a wolf.... |
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Mar 1 2008, 09:36 PM
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chinese ed gals tend like to add words like 'oh' or 'hu hu hu' to their sentences on top of the typical 'la'.
in addition to that, they love to pose in what we 'english' speaking blokes like to summarise as the top-5-picture-taking-poses. 1. index finger on one side of their cheek. 2. two open palms right below their chin, mimicking a blooming flower 3. the peace sign (of course) 4. open palm with the thumb and the rest of the four digits resembling a 90 degree angle (an L shape) 5. the peace sign adjacent to one side of their eyebrow of course, i do not intend to offend anyone here as i am speaking in general (from what i gather from my friends). to be fair, i would definitely say about 40 plus guys (plus minus) have a good weekend people! Added on March 1, 2008, 9:40 pmoh yeah, they love to use this '~~~~~' icon. for what reason? i have the slightest clue. This post has been edited by nokia2003: Mar 1 2008, 09:40 PM |
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Mar 1 2008, 09:45 PM
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really got difference??
i thought any gals jus the same to guys.. |
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Mar 1 2008, 09:53 PM
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QUOTE(nokia2003 @ Mar 1 2008, 09:36 PM) chinese ed gals tend like to add words like 'oh' or 'hu hu hu' to their sentences on top of the typical 'la'. haha.have u ever interviewed any of them?? Usually those between 12 - 16 loves to do that.Over 20, no i guess? Not too sure though. But i do notice this as well. Came across those pictures posted.in addition to that, they love to pose in what we 'english' speaking blokes like to summarise as the top-5-picture-taking-poses. 1. index finger on one side of their cheek. 2. two open palms right below their chin, mimicking a blooming flower 3. the peace sign (of course) 4. open palm with the thumb and the rest of the four digits resembling a 90 degree angle (an L shape) 5. the peace sign adjacent to one side of their eyebrow of course, i do not intend to offend anyone here as i am speaking in general (from what i gather from my friends). to be fair, i would definitely say about 40 plus guys (plus minus) have a good weekend people! Added on March 1, 2008, 9:40 pmoh yeah, they love to use this '~~~~~' icon. for what reason? i have the slightest clue. And how sure r u the gals with all the cutie signs are chinese ed?? |
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QUOTE(LoveMeNot @ Mar 1 2008, 09:53 PM) haha.have u ever interviewed any of them?? Usually those between 12 - 16 loves to do that.Over 20, no i guess? Not too sure though. But i do notice this as well. Came across those pictures posted. they are la for sure. trust meAnd how sure r u the gals with all the cutie signs are chinese ed?? because secretly i mock them at times *ahem ahem cough cough* |
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Mar 1 2008, 10:04 PM
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QUOTE(nokia2003 @ Mar 1 2008, 09:36 PM) chinese ed gals tend like to add words like 'oh' or 'hu hu hu' to their sentences on top of the typical 'la'. i'm english ed, but i do 1 out of your 6 symptoms, meaning your hypothesis is incorrect ah? in addition to that, they love to pose in what we 'english' speaking blokes like to summarise as the top-5-picture-taking-poses. 1. index finger on one side of their cheek. 2. two open palms right below their chin, mimicking a blooming flower 3. the peace sign (of course) 4. open palm with the thumb and the rest of the four digits resembling a 90 degree angle (an L shape) 5. the peace sign adjacent to one side of their eyebrow of course, i do not intend to offend anyone here as i am speaking in general (from what i gather from my friends). to be fair, i would definitely say about 40 plus guys (plus minus) have a good weekend people! Added on March 1, 2008, 9:40 pmoh yeah, they love to use this '~~~~~' icon. for what reason? i have the slightest clue.  or am i... not one of the general people... muahahahaha...  GIRLS FTW |
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Mar 1 2008, 10:06 PM
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QUOTE(map @ Mar 1 2008, 10:04 PM) i'm english ed, but i do 1 out of your 6 symptoms, meaning your hypothesis is incorrect ah? HEY!!! its not my hypothesis. come on gals, give me a break will ya! ~huhuhu~ or am i... not one of the general people... muahahahaha... GIRLS FTW besides, i forgot to add; to fulfill that requirement, you need to satisfy at least 50% oh... |
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QUOTE(nokia2003 @ Mar 1 2008, 09:36 PM) chinese ed gals tend like to add words like 'oh' or 'hu hu hu' to their sentences on top of the typical 'la'. Hello~~~ in addition to that, they love to pose in what we 'english' speaking blokes like to summarise as the top-5-picture-taking-poses. 1. index finger on one side of their cheek. 2. two open palms right below their chin, mimicking a blooming flower 3. the peace sign (of course) 4. open palm with the thumb and the rest of the four digits resembling a 90 degree angle (an L shape) 5. the peace sign adjacent to one side of their eyebrow of course, i do not intend to offend anyone here as i am speaking in general (from what i gather from my friends). to be fair, i would definitely say about 40 plus guys (plus minus) have a good weekend people! Added on March 1, 2008, 9:40 pmoh yeah, they love to use this '~~~~~' icon. for what reason? i have the slightest clue. |
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QUOTE(Radar @ Mar 1 2008, 10:26 PM) chinese ed naturally only hangout with chinese, hence more chinese culture i.e always magnified they emotion oh... you're nasty!eng ed naturally hangout with other races ,hence less emo and chinese ed 1 usually dont shave armpit hair 1,i think |
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Mar 1 2008, 10:37 PM
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this topic last time sudah buka before lahhhhh..
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Mar 1 2008, 10:41 PM
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QUOTE(LoveMeNot @ Mar 1 2008, 09:35 PM) really a wolf.... Thanks  |
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QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Mar 1 2008, 09:29 PM) chinese ed are more like conservative, maybe cause they are more focus on education then mixing around yup yup.. but if you are chinese ed, getting a chinese ed gf will communicate better and easier. i mean if you're trying to say something, you just need to say it short and she will understand it..if you are chinese ed and your gf is english ed, both of you are not thinking alike and arguements will occur.. and also she wont easily understand why you wanna do this why you wanna do that.. |
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QUOTE(smacky @ Mar 1 2008, 11:12 PM) yup yup.. but if you are chinese ed, getting a chinese ed gf will communicate better and easier. i mean if you're trying to say something, you just need to say it short and she will understand it.. lol.. agree with this.if you are chinese ed and your gf is english ed, both of you are not thinking alike and arguements will occur.. and also she wont easily understand why you wanna do this why you wanna do that.. |
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chinese ed tends to mature slower
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Mar 1 2008, 11:34 PM
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English edu gal are more open minded. But is some is racist about thing and too addicated to Christian =.= same like chinese =.=
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QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Mar 1 2008, 09:29 PM) chinese ed are more like conservative, maybe cause they are more focus on education then mixing around english ed ones like to say bad words.  |
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I don't really think all the above reason are because of either they are English ed or Chinese ed. To me all those are influence from the way you are brought up,where you are brought up and the people you mixed with.After all "birds of the same feather,flocks together"
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QUOTE(smacky @ Mar 1 2008, 11:12 PM) yup yup.. but if you are chinese ed, getting a chinese ed gf will communicate better and easier. i mean if you're trying to say something, you just need to say it short and she will understand it.. i used to be in chinese ed during primary, and one day one of the girl accidently get kissed by a guy, the girl was like study hard type, just average appearance overall she go crying all day long if you are chinese ed and your gf is english ed, both of you are not thinking alike and arguements will occur.. and also she wont easily understand why you wanna do this why you wanna do that..  , then in secondary everyone was busy about love letter  |
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Mar 2 2008, 12:21 AM
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eng ed gals rox comparing chinese ed's...
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QUOTE(liew90kw @ Mar 1 2008, 08:29 PM) well, if the guy's english ED, then he'll prefer the english ed girl, and vice versa. i don't think its much of preference... if the english ed bloke can click with a chinese ed girl, why not?the relationship dies if theres no common interest or if there's communication breakdown. I'm english ed, so yeah. take a wild guess. edit: typo i'm english ed, aussie grad and my gf is pure chinese ed, so?  you have no idea how much mandarin you can learn by speaking with a chinese ed... i'm a banana by the way and nobody noticed until i tell them, i communicate with my China business people in mandarin and they didn't know until they sent over a doc for me to read, i told them i can't, buahahah never tried english ed before but one thing you can be sure of... if you speak english with an accent, you get the girls |
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Haha.. I english ed and my ex is chinese ed. That's why it is my ex now.
No hate to any types of girl. Just that able to click better with english ed. Agree that chinese ed are too emo. And just don't like those wannabe with accent, that's lame. |
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I'm an English educated Chinese guy (studied in UK) but I prefer Chinese-educated girls. Think all the girls I've ever dated came from a Chinese-educated/speaking family.
 I love listening to them speak Mandarin Chinese the most. Not sure why, when I hear a girl speak Mandarin well, I think she's very cultured. For me it's a big turn-on.  I think because I brainwashed by old Chinese films/dramas, showing Chinese Princesses (who of course never ever spoke English). As for English-educated Chinese girls, from my experience, very fun to be around with, easiest for me to talk to. But if their Mandarin cannot make it... big turn off.  |
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QUOTE(Amaru @ Mar 2 2008, 02:02 AM) I'm an English educated Chinese guy (studied in UK) but I prefer Chinese-educated girls. Think all the girls I've ever dated came from a Chinese-educated/speaking family. Me too Its just a matter of communication. If ur familiar wif what they like, u'd knoe how to handle them. Now I also speak mandarins well enough to pass of as a C-ed... and engrish well enuf to pass of as an E-ed... |
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Chinese educated gf is often more submissive and passive. English educated gf is often more strong character, outgoing and active.
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Mar 2 2008, 10:30 AM
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are we discussing Chinese-ed/English-ed Indian girls or Chinese-ed/English-ed Malay girls ?
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Mar 2 2008, 10:49 AM
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hmm... my gf is a chinese ed n i m an eng ed.....
its been 2 years since our relationship start... at 1st gt a few problem bout communication but after tat i always speak eng wit her n she speak chinese to me.... (i'm a banana ) but she can und eng la n i can und chinese a bit n need my fren to translate... after almost 1 year v kinda talk mix eng n chinese... she is top student in her sch but i din c her study also.... till now v live hapily ever after.. act chinese ed r childish.. from my experience la... n less mature... |
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QUOTE(dantck @ Mar 1 2008, 11:35 PM) english ed ones like to say bad words. Talking about me?  |
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hi guys,
mind i join in? i new to this forum. well i find that chinese ed girl does have different thinking than the eng ed girl. in terms of the way they think. being with eng ed gal is easier for me cozs i am eng/bm ed. it will be a bit hard to talk to those chinese ed gal cozs the way we think its different. the chinese ed gal seems like to be close minded and can't think futher/deeper. |
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TS: my god, what a topic...
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QUOTE(northiswara @ Mar 2 2008, 11:01 AM) well i find that chinese ed girl does have different thinking than the eng ed girl. in terms of the way they think. being with eng ed gal is easier for me cozs i am eng/bm ed. it will be a bit hard to talk to those chinese ed gal cozs the way we think its different. the chinese ed gal seems like to be close minded and can't think futher/deeper. hi TS reporting in yeah i must agree with that n one more important point that u 4got 2 mention is that most chinese ed gf r not independent at all they also not mentally strong overall  thats y got so many nervous breakdown case n suicide case among chinese ed gf because of their weak ablility 2 solve their own problems  Added on March 2, 2008, 11:17 am QUOTE(ezralimm @ Mar 2 2008, 11:04 AM) TS: my god, what a topic... indeed i dun intend 2 promote racism but from 2days environment, it seems impossible 4 eng ed 2 click with chi ed from my own experience  it applies 2 some cases only ah  if u can find chi ed gf or opposite who likes fall out boy n other rock mainstream band instead of GHEY CHOU, then i shall congratulate u one day Added on March 2, 2008, 11:19 am QUOTE(froz3nnoob @ Mar 1 2008, 11:34 PM) English edu gal are more open minded. But is some is racist about thing and too addicated to Christian =.= same like chinese =.= if that was the case then reject the conversion n break up lo This post has been edited by skylinegtr34rule4life: Mar 2 2008, 11:20 AM |
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This applies to most as the thread suggest and in no way they apply 100%....
English ed girls when meet with chinese ad guys/gals they somehow think they're higher standard English ed girls shops in KLCC, Midvalley, the curve and do not want to be assosiate with sg. wang English ed girls try thier best not to watch chinese movies so whenever friends ask eh that chinese movie is nice they answer with a hint of arrogant in thier eyes ohhh, sorry I dun watch chinese movies....as if its helluva high class. pls dun flame me...as I've mention yes I've met quite a few with this behaviour and btw I'm not english ed but studied in SK means malay school as the real english school is the one my dad studied which btw he is 69 yrs old |
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i find it a little hard to communicate with chinese ed girls maybe coz i dont know mandarin lol...but if they speak in cantonese....no problem
 but id still prefer english ed coz they're more fun to talk to |
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QUOTE(Malefic @ Mar 1 2008, 08:02 PM) Chinese ed more shy yet more tend to "tarik harga" (even when they have nothing to tarik) they always think tarik kuat kuat will bring them good at the end they are alone |
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QUOTE(map @ Mar 1 2008, 10:04 PM) i'm english ed, but i do 1 out of your 6 symptoms, meaning your hypothesis is incorrect ah? peace sign is still ok but dun do 2 ah lian looks can liao or am i... not one of the general people... muahahahaha... Added on March 2, 2008, 11:35 am QUOTE(Disciple @ Mar 2 2008, 11:28 AM) i find it a little hard to communicate with chinese ed girls maybe coz i dont know mandarin lol...but if they speak in cantonese....no problem good 4 u lo...if only i know canto, then i wouldnt have this perception...sadly i must have this perception since i was born in chinese speaking state where the gap of eng/chi is very huge...johor/melaka paling teruk one but id still prefer english ed coz they're more fun to talk toThis post has been edited by skylinegtr34rule4life: Mar 2 2008, 11:37 AM |
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QUOTE(shawn2k4 @ Mar 2 2008, 12:10 AM) I don't really think all the above reason are because of either they are English ed or Chinese ed. To me all those are influence from the way you are brought up,where you are brought up and the people you mixed with.After all "birds of the same feather,flocks together" This is the smartest answer so far. |
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Mar 2 2008, 11:56 AM
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dun bother. gal all are the same, be it english or chinese educate.
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i have to say something here....
i have to agree to most forumers here about Chinese Ed and English Ed gals. Chinese ad -Very Emo -when they know someone trying to chase her and she has some feeling too to the same person, they wont say "YES" if that guy confess, they will TARIK HARGA abit and prefer actions more than words. -i would say more very mature as in think far far away because of the chinese educations -easily get hurt -very protective -do things all by the book -if something they want dont work out, they mati mati also will achieve it English/malay ED -very open minded -easily clicked -can talk about anything -very straight forward (if you confess and the answer u get from her would be either YES or NO) -always break the rules as in dont follow the book -they dont look too far away 1st -things dont work out? just take another path la I have to say i am chasing a chinese ed girl now. I communicate with her 100% mandarin and honestly i like it that way. It made me feel a little different as i speak english to most people. The best of all, she knows my motive and she likes me too as we always hang out together alone and got sms and call almost everyday but yet....when i confess to her about 3 weeks back....she wasn't scared at all and was expecting me to say it already. Yet the answer i got was in between YES and NO. But after that confession we still hang out like we normally do alone and i treat her like my own GF. Just that we haven't really hold hands. Now....conclusion, chinese ed are not straightforward and very protective. If can they will tarik harga bit but if you stop entertainning her, chances they will come back looking for u where english ed would say "dun 1 chase me already ar? nvm...i'll move on" They wont really commit until it's right and if they do commit....die die also they will try and get/maintain it. a piece if advice...to chase a Chinese ed....if the WORDS dont work, all you need is ACTION. Trust me...they love ACTIONS more than WORDS (you know la...not straightforward person) . Btw...i am doing actions now too |
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Mar 2 2008, 12:16 PM
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QUOTE(Radar @ Mar 1 2008, 11:18 PM) u chinese or english ed 1? i'm chinese ed , then english edme chinese then malay ed 1... haha |
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Mar 2 2008, 12:31 PM
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bananas are hard to understand for chinese boys
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Mar 2 2008, 02:21 PM
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QUOTE(tesla34 @ Mar 2 2008, 12:31 PM) bananas are hard to understand for chinese boys That's because there's nothing to understand. You can hear a banana girl's accent from a Starbucks a mile away... |
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Mar 2 2008, 02:41 PM
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chinese ed or english ed doesn't matter.... it just different on the communication medium. The only matter is how impress of her to you....hehe
But for english ed you can always hear the bad word around. So be calm on that!!!!haha |
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Mar 2 2008, 03:33 PM
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english ed suits me better
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Mar 2 2008, 07:22 PM
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 2 2008, 11:26 AM) This applies to most as the thread suggest and in no way they apply 100%.... not to flame you, just to let you know at least 1 girl here English ed girls when meet with chinese ad guys/gals they somehow think they're higher standard English ed girls shops in KLCC, Midvalley, the curve and do not want to be assosiate with sg. wang English ed girls try thier best not to watch chinese movies so whenever friends ask eh that chinese movie is nice they answer with a hint of arrogant in thier eyes ohhh, sorry I dun watch chinese movies....as if its helluva high class. pls dun flame me...as I've mention yes I've met quite a few with this behaviour and btw I'm not english ed but studied in SK means malay school as the real english school is the one my dad studied which btw he is 69 yrs old makes fren with chinese educated guys as well shop everywhere, from thrift stores to branded shops (looks nice can already ma) i like to watch chinese, korean and esp jap dramas, animes, movies, manga just so you know la |
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Mar 2 2008, 07:28 PM
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English educated's will visit LYN?
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actually edu don affect the diff among gals... only among guys...
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Mar 2 2008, 07:44 PM
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I wonder which one do I fit in,English educated or Chinese educated?
For those of u who claimed yourself to be English educated,I don't see how English educated u all are Hahahaha your written English is just as poor as my Chinese educated friends' |
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Mar 2 2008, 07:51 PM
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QUOTE(map @ Mar 2 2008, 07:22 PM) i like to watch chinese, korean and esp jap dramas, animes, movies, manga Yea, you chinese educated b*tches just love to mix everything in 1And pretending you're one of the english educated one. |
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Mar 2 2008, 08:04 PM
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QUOTE(lovelyduckling @ Mar 2 2008, 07:44 PM) I wonder which one do I fit in,English educated or Chinese educated? lolz... who...? For those of u who claimed yourself to be English educated,I don't see how English educated u all are Hahahaha your written English is just as poor as my Chinese educated friends' QUOTE(Kosai @ Mar 2 2008, 07:51 PM) Yea, you chinese educated b*tches just love to mix everything in 1 she ain't claiming anything tat says she's eng ed.... And pretending you're one of the english educated one. |
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Mar 2 2008, 08:15 PM
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QUOTE(7chai @ Mar 2 2008, 11:56 AM) dun bother. gal all are the same, be it english or chinese educate. yea,who cares wat ed r they as long they don like the same sex is good enough for me,haha... |
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Mar 2 2008, 08:40 PM
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this is just one big flamebait...
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Mar 2 2008, 09:37 PM
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I'm banana. I can speak English and bad English. Where are those people who say they are educated? Owh, I speak Chinese and bad Chinese too.
People are still people. The only difference is how they communicate |
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Mar 2 2008, 11:07 PM
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QUOTE(barney @ Mar 2 2008, 11:57 AM) I have to say i am chasing a chinese ed girl now. I communicate with her 100% mandarin and honestly i like it that way. It made me feel a little different as i speak english to most people. The best of all, she knows my motive and she likes me too as we always hang out together alone and got sms and call almost everyday but yet....when i confess to her about 3 weeks back....she wasn't scared at all and was expecting me to say it already. Yet the answer i got was in between YES and NO. But after that confession we still hang out like we normally do alone and i treat her like my own GF. Just that we haven't really hold hands. hahaha i hope your interest will stay the same with her 4 life or else its bye bye Now....conclusion, chinese ed are not straightforward and very protective. If can they will tarik harga bit but if you stop entertainning her, chances they will come back looking for u where english ed would say "dun 1 chase me already ar? nvm...i'll move on" They wont really commit until it's right and if they do commit....die die also they will try and get/maintain it. a piece if advice...to chase a Chinese ed....if the WORDS dont work, all you need is ACTION. Trust me...they love ACTIONS more than WORDS (you know la...not straightforward person) . Btw...i am doing actions now too another reason y chi ed/eng ed must be separated is bcoz of the interest  This post has been edited by skylinegtr34rule4life: Mar 2 2008, 11:08 PM |
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QUOTE(smacky @ Mar 1 2008, 11:12 PM) ............ yes..yes...yes...!i agreed.. >...if you are chinese ed and your gf is english ed, both of you are not thinking alike and arguements will occur.. and also she wont easily understand why you wanna do this why you wanna do that.. im english ed...and my gf is chinese ed....and we alwz argue...  |
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Mar 3 2008, 12:42 AM
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what happens if they are chinese and english ed, but they aren't asian?...
yeah... what firmware is those sort of girls?...ahahaha... their house got install windows Vista chinese edition ?...ahahahah... honestly, I know they are different, but mainly is school, friends and parentage background.... I know even a girl that has those chinese clips in her front fringe hair, but she is super cute and speaks incredible english, but comes from chinese ed.... I don't see how eds has to do with arguments or any sort of related relationship dispute...(liao)?, or which "sample" is better... chinese ed X english ed... english ed X english ed.. chinese ed X chinese ed.... who knows...if u ask your parents...they might one of those combos...and you are one of those hybrid genes as well....does that make you X-men?....ehehhehe... |
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Mar 3 2008, 12:46 AM
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English Ed girl just not suit me...
they r more out rages |
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Mar 3 2008, 12:51 AM
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one thing i have to admit is yes chinese ed girls tend to "jual mahal" when guys go after them.i have seen one case.n the girl is not really that pretty at all.juz typical girls u see when u walk on the streets
english ed girls are more friendlier i think i prefer english ed guys.they giv me the impression that they r more gentlemen compared to some chinese ed.but i do hav frens who are chinese ed n they are gentlemen too im english ed but i speaks fluent chinese with frens as i grew up speaking mandarin n cantonese |
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Mar 3 2008, 01:30 AM
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I know I'm generalizing here, but here are a few differences I see in Chinese ed vs English ed. I dated a Chinese ed guy once and my best friend's first girlfriend was Chinese ed too. I'm English ed.
Chinese eds (in a very big generalization) are: 1. Clingy. Very. Clingy. 2. Easily jealous. 3. Controlling. 4. Passive relationship partners English eds (in another very big generalization) are: 1. More outgoing and sociable. 2. Very touchy feely (they like hugs a lot) 3. More open-minded about things. 4. Active relationship partners (most of the time) 5. The girls tend to be the ones more likely to be gamers. I'm not saying that English eds won't ever be clingy, easily jealous, or controlling...but that's the tendency that I see in both types. This post has been edited by spunkberry: Mar 3 2008, 01:33 AM |
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QUOTE(sRh @ Mar 3 2008, 12:51 AM) one thing i have to admit is yes chinese ed girls tend to "jual mahal" when guys go after them.i have seen one case.n the girl is not really that pretty at all.juz typical girls u see when u walk on the streets "i speaks". thats seriously hilarious! now thats what i call a genuine irony... english ed girls are more friendlier i think i prefer english ed guys.they giv me the impression that they r more gentlemen compared to some chinese ed.but i do hav frens who are chinese ed n they are gentlemen too im english ed but i speaks fluent chinese with frens as i grew up speaking mandarin n cantonese This post has been edited by nokia2003: Mar 3 2008, 02:17 AM |
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Mar 3 2008, 02:25 AM
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i like english ed girls who can't speak chinese well
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Mar 3 2008, 02:29 AM
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I don't understand a word of mandarin. I can understand cantonese and hakka but prefer not to speak them because I sound so weird. xD my intonation is a complete basket case. Sometimes I wish was chinese ed just so I could speak chinese better.
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Mar 3 2008, 02:37 AM
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looks like everyone goes for english ed girl than chinese ed girl...
wat i think is both the same.. since now it's undeniable that girls/guys are easily spoilt.. don u think english ed girls sometimes is over-open-minded? they are too westernize till their attitude and the way they speak also sometimes aggressive and sarcastic chinese ed girls at least they're filled in wif more moral lessons during primary and more follow family's culture  anyway, it all depends on which kind of groups that the girl mix wif, and wat kind of environment she's exposed to.. got pros and cons lor p/s: although i'm english ed, sometimes i prefer chinese ed girl more than eng ed.. This post has been edited by wwlai87: Mar 3 2008, 02:44 AM |
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accidents do happen
typo MISTER  i can be said to be a chinese ed coz i speak chinese my whole life,juz that i don write in chinese and i admit my english is not that good compared to some ENGLISH ED  i found one thing i don like about english ed is they are intimidating toward other ppl sometimes y am i the only one being picked ?? so many mistakes made by other ppl  This post has been edited by sRh: Mar 3 2008, 10:41 AM |
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Mar 3 2008, 11:37 AM
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QUOTE(Kosai @ Mar 2 2008, 07:51 PM) Yea, you chinese educated b*tches just love to mix everything in 1 why is kosai so emo? what? what? *look left, look right* first time i'm being scolded for enjoying other people's culture! And pretending you're one of the english educated one. actually i'm a banana eh, friend. but... you... believe what you want to lah. once again, technomancer to the rescue! hope you finished your assignment already! |
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Mar 3 2008, 12:22 PM
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how come most are siding with english ed? is english ed really so much better than chinese ed ppl?? some of the english ed are oso quite arrogant.. dono y but i really believe what some say about english ed ppl thinks that they are way more advanced than some...
if u ask me.. well.. to me there's not much difference.. i mean there is in the extremes of both sides, but generally all are quite the same and those differences is negligable.. a matter of taste~ haha...but i don like those typical english ed ppl.. if compared to typical chinese ed.. but seriously the top 5 picture taking poses.. damn.. haha oh ya, am a english ed.. speak fluent chinese tho (for a banana)~ at least that's what i think.. in public U so d whole world speaks mandarin.. so i have first hand experience on both types and like it or not 2 me i think its a matter of preferences... |
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Mar 3 2008, 12:31 PM
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oh, if u ppls dun like d chinese ed gals, thats fine. in fact its GREAT.
leave 'em to me. less competition for me, better. |
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Mar 3 2008, 12:52 PM
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i don think chinese ed and english ed can click together....
my mom a chinese ed while my dad an english ed... both of them always argue because of different opinion.... my dad prefer risky stuff while my mom def cant take risk.... and i because of eng ed feel difficult to communicate with my mom and the rest of my chinese ed exes...... i mean what the hell they are calling the gf and checking what they do every now and then..... |
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Mar 3 2008, 01:04 PM
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QUOTE(vey99 @ Mar 3 2008, 12:31 PM) oh, if u ppls dun like d chinese ed gals, thats fine. in fact its GREAT. i am a competition to u... leave 'em to me. less competition for me, better. |
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Mar 3 2008, 01:08 PM
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I am english educated, my gf is chinese educated i cant even speak a hint of mandarin, maybe i know wo ai ni. My gf dont really fall into any of your stereotypical category found in this thread. Shes open minded, not emo, maybe i am more of the emo one sometimes when i dont get enough attention. We've been going out for 2 and the half years, initially we had communication problems due to different family backgrounds, but now the relationship is healthy. I dont understand why you stereotype english ed and chinese ed. When you fall for someone it doesnt matter wether their englsih or chinese educated, poor or rich, u just fall for them unconditionally, and try to work out the differences, if it doesnt then end it la. simple.
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QUOTE(ZomgWtfHax @ Mar 3 2008, 02:08 PM) I am english educated, my gf is chinese educated i cant even speak a hint of mandarin, maybe i know wo ai ni. My gf dont really fall into any of your stereotypical category found in this thread. Shes open minded, not emo, maybe i am more of the emo one sometimes when i dont get enough attention. We've been going out for 2 and the half years, initially we had communication problems due to different family backgrounds, but now the relationship is healthy. I dont understand why you stereotype english ed and chinese ed. When you fall for someone it doesnt matter wether their englsih or chinese educated, poor or rich, u just fall for them unconditionally, and try to work out the differences, if it doesnt then end it la. simple. good word u have there..but eventually eng ed is more open.. but they tend to be drinker & party goers. chi-ed is more sentimental like crazy.. my ex-gf is chi ed.. she acted kind of shy at public places... like kissing or stuff.. and to her.. its like need to be at a place for just 2 of us.. which makes me feel weird.. and kind-of sentimental.. but well.. some that is well exposed to the outside world will be more open and minus sentimental part current ones is eng-ed.. yah.. everything seems fine to me... like we click more.. but the problem arouse.. that she do drink... alas.. drink is ok.. but.. she get drunk.. so.. both is having pro & cons.. |
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Mar 3 2008, 01:21 PM
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QUOTE(wwlai87 @ Mar 3 2008, 01:04 PM) i am a competition to u... 为什么你也要... lol... |
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Mar 3 2008, 01:26 PM
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QUOTE(vey99 @ Mar 3 2008, 01:21 PM) 为什么你也要... lol... although i'm not chinese-ed, but luckily i know wat u're writting...ask me y? becuz i prefer chinese-ed gurl more |
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Mar 3 2008, 01:35 PM
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well, frankly i prefer the England educated...if...only i were in England.
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QUOTE(wwlai87 @ Mar 3 2008, 01:26 PM) although i'm not chinese-ed, but luckily i know wat u're writting... WHY WHY WHY......为什么 为什么 为什么..........KENAPA KENAPA KENAPA..............TIM GAI TIM GAI TIM GAI..........ask me y? becuz i prefer chinese-ed gurl more CHO MA KAI CHO MA KAI CHO MA KAI............WUI XIA MI WUI XIA MI WUI XIA MI |
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Mar 3 2008, 03:24 PM
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QUOTE(map @ Mar 3 2008, 11:37 AM) why is kosai so emo? what? what? *look left, look right* first time i'm being scolded for enjoying other people's culture! wait. if i can speak hokkien and cantonese, am i considered as a twinkie (or banana) as well?actually i'm a banana eh, friend. but... you... believe what you want to lah. once again, technomancer to the rescue! hope you finished your assignment already! Added on March 3, 2008, 3:26 pm QUOTE(sRh @ Mar 3 2008, 10:37 AM) accidents do happen ha ha. i do admit that im exaggerating. my apologies gal. typo MISTER i can be said to be a chinese ed coz i speak chinese my whole life,juz that i don write in chinese and i admit my english is not that good compared to some ENGLISH ED i found one thing i don like about english ed is they are intimidating toward other ppl sometimes y am i the only one being picked ?? so many mistakes made by other ppl This post has been edited by nokia2003: Mar 3 2008, 03:26 PM |
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QUOTE(JS5016 @ Mar 3 2008, 03:04 PM) WHY WHY WHY......为什么 为什么 为什么..........KENAPA KENAPA KENAPA..............TIM GAI TIM GAI TIM GAI.......... JS jie very emo to me.. CHO MA KAI CHO MA KAI CHO MA KAI............WUI XIA MI WUI XIA MI WUI XIA MI |
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Mar 3 2008, 03:40 PM
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QUOTE(wwlai87 @ Mar 3 2008, 03:36 PM) JS jie very emo to me.. u balik liek ur english ed gals lar ...i will defeat the lalaboys and ahbengs and rescue the gals... |
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Mar 3 2008, 03:43 PM
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QUOTE(wwlai87 @ Mar 3 2008, 03:36 PM) JS jie very emo to me.. QUOTE(wwlai87 @ Mar 3 2008, 01:26 PM) although i'm not chinese-ed, but luckily i know wat u're writting... i jus ask the question tat u wan ppl to ask.................ask me y? becuz i prefer chinese-ed gurl more |
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Mar 3 2008, 03:43 PM
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QUOTE(vey99 @ Mar 3 2008, 03:40 PM) u balik liek ur english ed gals lar ... sorry, chinese ed girls pls... i will defeat the lalaboys and ahbengs and rescue the gals... i already stated my opinion, u didn't read meh? |
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Mar 3 2008, 04:13 PM
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yoyo ...all go choose eng ed gal...left the chinese ed to me , thx
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QUOTE(luvjim @ Mar 1 2008, 09:32 PM) is not based on chinese ed or english ed...is bcoz different ppl with different personality....nothing related with their ed i do agree with u on the personality, but it is also based on Ed... u are stating that EDUCATION does not affect one's person mind / thinking ?? |
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Added on March 3, 2008, 3:26 pm ha ha. i do admit that im exaggerating. my apologies gal. [/quote]  apology accepted  n it really haunts me when i went classes juz now thinking of the criticism/correction made.tot i really should improve on my english especially grammar forgive && forget |
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Mar 3 2008, 04:48 PM
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[quote=sRh,Mar 3 2008, 04:28 PM]
Added on March 3, 2008, 3:26 pm ha ha. i do admit that im exaggerating. my apologies gal. [/quote] apology accepted n it really haunts me when i went classes juz now thinking of the criticism/correction made.tot i really should improve on my english especially grammar forgive && forget [/quote] gal, UGPM! |
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Mar 3 2008, 04:56 PM
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ouch how did my topic bcum war zone dy
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QUOTE(skylinegtr34rule4life @ Mar 3 2008, 04:56 PM) ouch how did my topic bcum war zone dy hahahaha peace peace...no war here... we live in a "peaceful" country...we are juz in some sort of like a sharing session |
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Mar 3 2008, 05:13 PM
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sharing is caring...
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Mar 3 2008, 05:32 PM
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Be it Chinese edu or English edu. I hate it when English edu looks down on Chinese edu people who can't speak fluent english, well at least the are trying but meh, shouldn't laugh at them -.-. Shame on you guys/girls too when you could not speak your on language while some of the "guai lou" can speak better Chinese than us.
Hey i'm referring to English edu who look down on their own race ;>. I mean don't look down people on general. No offense kay |
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QUOTE(map @ Mar 3 2008, 11:37 AM) why is kosai so emo? what? what? *look left, look right* first time i'm being scolded for enjoying other people's culture! thx for the wishes... but wat do u mean to the rescue again...? actually i'm a banana eh, friend. but... you... believe what you want to lah. once again, technomancer to the rescue! hope you finished your assignment already! QUOTE(nokia2003 @ Mar 3 2008, 03:24 PM) wait. if i can speak hokkien and cantonese, am i considered as a twinkie (or banana) as well? if u can read and write in chinese u r no banana... i can speak also cuz my frenz and family speak 3 chinese languages... Added on March 3, 2008, 3:26 pm ha ha. i do admit that im exaggerating. my apologies gal. but i can't read and write in chinese... QUOTE(Nub! @ Mar 3 2008, 08:27 PM) Be it Chinese edu or English edu. I hate it when English edu looks down on Chinese edu people who can't speak fluent english, well at least the are trying but meh, shouldn't laugh at them -.-. Shame on you guys/girls too when you could not speak your on language while some of the "guai lou" can speak better Chinese than us. yes... agreed... but chinese ed also got anti eng ed ppl... don be 2 1 sided or general... Hey i'm referring to English edu who look down on their own race ;>. I mean don't look down people on general. No offense kay for me... eng ed and chinese ed gals are absolutely no diff... cuz they are "tor chi tor choi"... but eng/chinese ed guys got big diff... |
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Mar 3 2008, 10:18 PM
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Then if chinese ed but speak+write english and also mandarin in the same proportion? LOL
Considered to have personality leaning towards chinese ed gals? |
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Mar 3 2008, 10:24 PM
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i ed both ways, eng @ skool, chinese @ tuition
so now i dunno i am E or C ed ... oni know, both type gals also i liek lolzzzz |
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I don't want to be biased, but I have to say that after the experience of dating a Chinese ed, it won't be my preference. But I won't say I will never ever go out with a Chinese ed again.
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Mar 3 2008, 11:57 PM
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QUOTE(t3chn0m4nc3r @ Mar 3 2008, 10:06 PM) thx for the wishes... but wat do u mean to the rescue again...? Hey sorry, maybe i have not heard any complains from Chinese edu friends toward English edu yet. if u can read and write in chinese u r no banana... i can speak also cuz my frenz and family speak 3 chinese languages... but i can't read and write in chinese... yes... agreed... but chinese ed also got anti eng ed ppl... don be 2 1 sided or general... for me... eng ed and chinese ed gals are absolutely no diff... cuz they are "tor chi tor choi"... but eng/chinese ed guys got big diff... Of cause i'm not one sided or something |
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Mar 4 2008, 09:23 AM
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QUOTE(t3chn0m4nc3r @ Mar 3 2008, 10:06 PM) thx for the wishes... but wat do u mean to the rescue again...? are you not the young knave that defended my maiden's honour a while ago? must be i salah orang AHAHAHHAHA SI BEH PAI SEH but eng/chinese ed guys got big diff... english ed guys got big difference between themselves also ma. you see, edison chen study in canada become like what. wang lee hom study in america become like what. |
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Mar 4 2008, 09:47 AM
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QUOTE(map @ Mar 4 2008, 09:23 AM) you see, edison chen study in canada become like what. wang lee hom study in america become like what. those are down to individual character, edison i am sure is someone many boys wanna emulate his "success".a lot of factor has to do with the environment they brought up oso ... |
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Mar 4 2008, 02:43 PM
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It's all about communication. Some are conservative, some are not. If you talk to me, you will know that I can say whatever sh|t I like coz I don't bother. That's me.
Some people just listened to the word fvck straightaway condemn the person who say it without knowing why it is said. Bleh.. I am banana. My ex is chinese educated. My ex used to text someone using chinese language and keep assuring me that it's fwded message. End up I realized that my ex had been cheating on me for months by communicating with a biatche who is chinese ed too. It's life. |
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Mar 4 2008, 03:04 PM
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suiteng...
*pounce on suiteng! |
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Mar 4 2008, 03:43 PM
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QUOTE(map @ Mar 4 2008, 03:04 PM) suiteng... *terjatuh *pounce on suiteng! aiyak |
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Mar 4 2008, 05:02 PM
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like this then eng ed better find eng ed one better.
if find chinese ed gf, she wrote chinese love letter to other ppl u also dun know. haha............ |
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Mar 4 2008, 06:45 PM
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hi, i'm new in this thread. looks like this is a rage now.
anyway, i prefer the hybrid ones, ( can speak both). i dun noe if got chinese+eng ed or notlar. i'm chinese ed, but i speak english at home. so u can say i'm half banana.( my definition of myself as i can read, write chinese but my thinkin mostly in eng) the gal i'm wooing is also a hybrid, like me. the funny thing with her is, both of us speak wif our frens mainly mandarin or cantonese. but when both of us speak together, automatically it changes to eng. i find it very funny........ the good thing of hybrid is, u can catch her cheating on you or she can catch you cheating on her. and can get the best of both worlds. u wont' get intimidated by those pure eng ed or chinese ed but i dun really like the eng ed gals sometimes. some gals i met are very rude, sikit sikit *beep* word come out. u look at mayzhee.blogspot.com . it's like every sentence at *beep* word. b4 i end, hybrid thinking also diff from pure form. |
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Mar 4 2008, 06:54 PM
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QUOTE([vogue]angel @ Mar 4 2008, 06:45 PM) some gals i met are very rude, sikit sikit *beep* word come out. i tend to hear much swearing wif the engrish ones also ... a bit a bit !@#$ ... |
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Mar 4 2008, 07:08 PM
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QUOTE(map @ Mar 4 2008, 09:23 AM) are you not the young knave that defended my maiden's honour a while ago? must be i salah orang AHAHAHHAHA SI BEH PAI SEH err... yeah... but u sound like i have a habit of saving u like tat... english ed guys got big difference between themselves also ma. QUOTE(suiteng @ Mar 4 2008, 02:43 PM) It's all about communication. Some are conservative, some are not. If you talk to me, you will know that I can say whatever sh|t I like coz I don't bother. That's me. yeah... tat's y i say eng and chinese ed no diff... it's "tor chi tor choi"... Some people just listened to the word fvck straightaway condemn the person who say it without knowing why it is said. Bleh.. I am banana. My ex is chinese educated. My ex used to text someone using chinese language and keep assuring me that it's fwded message. End up I realized that my ex had been cheating on me for months by communicating with a biatche who is chinese ed too. It's life. QUOTE(vey99 @ Mar 4 2008, 06:54 PM) i tend to hear much swearing wif the engrish ones also ... a bit a bit !@#$ ... hmm... swearing in eng is pretty common for me... hearing hot babes swearing in hokien in bah kut teh stalls i also biasa d... in fact they can be sexy sometimes... This post has been edited by t3chn0m4nc3r: Mar 4 2008, 07:09 PM |
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Mar 4 2008, 07:29 PM
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I swear in both languages. Does it make me a hybrid now?
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Mar 4 2008, 10:41 PM
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QUOTE(suiteng @ Mar 4 2008, 07:29 PM) I swear in both languages. Does it make me a hybrid now? u still don read chinese u banana... i also swear in both languages... |
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Mar 5 2008, 02:39 AM
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QUOTE(t3chn0m4nc3r @ Mar 4 2008, 10:41 PM) u still don read chinese u banana... i swear in many languages.. i also swear in both languages... |
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Mar 5 2008, 07:05 AM
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i dun noe bout u all. but my fren got scolded by his gf b4 in public, eng ed gal. the words the came out was almost all swear words. if u cut all the swear words out of the sentence, there is nothing left for u. so humiliating my fren, the gal is hot but attitude cacatlar, so he dump her.
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Mar 5 2008, 10:32 AM
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QUOTE(atlantis2007 @ Mar 3 2008, 01:20 PM) good word u have there.. u sure? Cause i think my gf is much more wild than me, she goes to party like theres no tomorrow, always want to display public affection. Sometimes i just get so irritated with that. So i guess it depeneds on the person la, chinese ed or english ed, every individual got their own likes and dislikes.but eventually eng ed is more open.. but they tend to be drinker & party goers. chi-ed is more sentimental like crazy.. my ex-gf is chi ed.. she acted kind of shy at public places... like kissing or stuff.. and to her.. its like need to be at a place for just 2 of us.. which makes me feel weird.. and kind-of sentimental.. but well.. some that is well exposed to the outside world will be more open and minus sentimental part current ones is eng-ed.. yah.. everything seems fine to me... like we click more.. but the problem arouse.. that she do drink... alas.. drink is ok.. but.. she get drunk.. so.. both is having pro & cons.. |
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Mar 5 2008, 11:19 AM
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QUOTE(suiteng @ Mar 4 2008, 07:29 PM) I swear in both languages. Does it make me a hybrid now? suiteng, even if you are a hybrid, i still like you.  |
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Mar 5 2008, 11:23 AM
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QUOTE(map @ Mar 5 2008, 11:19 AM) suiteng, even if you are a hybrid, i still like you. Aaaw.... |
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Mar 5 2008, 01:20 PM
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I'm a banana. lol I should try to stop swearing. xD
my boyfriend doesn't help that either. ahhaha |
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Mar 5 2008, 09:41 PM
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the difference between a chinese educated girl and an english educated girl is like night n day
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Mar 6 2008, 02:48 PM
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[quote=min_min,Mar 3 2008, 10:18 PM]Then if chinese ed but speak+write english and also mandarin in the same proportion? LOL
Considered to have personality leaning towards chinese ed gals? [/quote] thats hybrid advantage 2 both side chicks/chickens lulzi dun noe bout u all. but my fren got scolded by his gf b4 in public, eng ed gal. the words the came out was almost all swear words. if u cut all the swear words out of the sentence, there is nothing left for u. so humiliating my fren, the gal is hot but attitude cacatlar, so he dump her. [/quote] well my ex housemate did have fuking problem with emo unstable gf plus personal issues inside b4 that ardy blow up on the verge of personal vendetta his body was battered pretty badly on that day when she blow up she was dumped in2 the dustbin after he finish study n i finally feel happy 4 that now i seldom c her liao bcoz she was missing on scene after thatThis post has been edited by skylinegtr34rule4life: Mar 6 2008, 03:00 PM |
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Mar 6 2008, 02:54 PM
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QUOTE(b3ta @ Mar 5 2008, 09:41 PM) the difference between a chinese educated girl and an english educated girl is like night n day chinese ed = day while eng ed = night? |
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Mar 6 2008, 03:02 PM
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QUOTE(*devilelle* @ Mar 6 2008, 02:54 PM) chinese ed = day while eng ed = night? NO its opposite eng ed - hot sun while chi ed - thick surface of cloudseng ed easily cheerful...every time hear their cheerful talks makes u feel cheerful n i like it chi ed easliy emo...every time hear their emo talks makes u feel emo n i dont like that APPLIES 2 MAJORITY YO This post has been edited by skylinegtr34rule4life: Mar 6 2008, 03:04 PM |
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Mar 6 2008, 08:00 PM
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im eng ed but i prefer chinese ed, provided she can study along like me.
chinese ed dress up better :/ |
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Mar 6 2008, 09:03 PM
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Generally, I would say that english educated girls are hotter!!!
Yo! |
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Mar 6 2008, 10:05 PM
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QUOTE(zephyrus9999 @ Mar 6 2008, 07:00 AM) im eng ed but i prefer chinese ed, provided she can study along like me. they dress up better? I thought they're more conservative than us english ed girls so they're covered up a little more?chinese ed dress up better :/ no wait, based on what I've seen, that's not true. Some of them dress like drag queens. |
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Mar 7 2008, 11:12 AM
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from my observation,
some chinese ed girl like to wear mini skirt, so short til can see underwear to make them look pretty. while those eng ed would wear a jeans & t-shirt, something more casual and sporty. |
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Mar 7 2008, 03:03 PM
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QUOTE(northiswara @ Mar 7 2008, 11:12 AM) from my observation, lol true...totaly agree...some chinese ed girl like to wear mini skirt, so short til can see underwear to make them look pretty. while those eng ed would wear a jeans & t-shirt, something more casual and sporty. most of the chinese ed girls i met like to wear mini skirt and more revealing, eng ed tend to wear jeans & T.. btw, although chinese ed girls are more emo, but they are smarter compared to eng ed in terms of education.. |
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Mar 7 2008, 03:18 PM
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QUOTE(izglory @ Mar 7 2008, 03:03 PM) they are smarter compared to eng ed in terms of education.. i disagree with you, why would you call them 'SMART' when all they think is money/reputation/looks/fu*ked-up entertainment and not education?? |
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Mar 7 2008, 03:50 PM
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i noe more english ed gals wear more like spagethi or G-strings...
chinese ed gals usuali wear very conservative... and those short...mini skirts... they're nt in the lower end of ed list... oni ahlians wud do tat... |
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Mar 7 2008, 03:52 PM
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it's just whom u met that's making the difference...i personally found no way to clarify the difference between chi ed n eng ed girls
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Mar 7 2008, 05:54 PM
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Who are you to judge x.x everyone is unique in their own way.
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Mar 8 2008, 04:42 AM
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hmm... i've dated a few of both... doesn't have any clear indications of whether they're either chinese ed or english ed aside from their language skills wor... both sides can be equally hot, smart, outgoing, conservertive...
i think family upbringing affects more on their grown up personalities and preferences... |
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Mar 8 2008, 09:44 AM
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QUOTE(izglory @ Mar 7 2008, 03:03 PM) lol true...totaly agree... from my observation i found that ch educated gal are more super glue. hehe..................most of the chinese ed girls i met like to wear mini skirt and more revealing, eng ed tend to wear jeans & T.. btw, although chinese ed girls are more emo, but they are smarter compared to eng ed in terms of education.. while eng ed one not so super glue larr. guys wat u think from ur experience? |
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Mar 8 2008, 10:02 AM
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End-ed girls used to be more open-minded and they always so direct in conversation, like using the f-word or bitxx. Well, chinese ed are more polite, providing you don't meet the wrong person
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Mar 9 2008, 09:24 AM
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guys, where got eng ed here? its between sek kebangsaan and sek jenis kebangsaan duh..but there's really a diff mind set between this 2 ed..
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Mar 9 2008, 03:41 PM
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QUOTE(Kosai @ Mar 7 2008, 03:18 PM) i disagree with you, why would you call them 'SMART' when all they think is money/reputation/looks/fu*ked-up entertainment and not education?? lol..ur so funny, ok lets dont use "smart" word, lets just say those chinese ed girl i met are good in education than those english ed girl i met, they care bout education, i believe theres many other eng ed who are good in education which i have not met..Its all about personal perception,u made an immature remark which seems lik u hate chinese ed, eng ed girl doesnt lik money ? doesnt care bout reputation ? doesnt even bother bout entertainment ? Think again...girls is still girls..No offense... |
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QUOTE(bonedragon @ Mar 1 2008, 08:05 PM) I prefer english ed. Easier to talk to about stuff, and from my experience, less prejudiced/racist. ya.maybe this is right.they are more prejudice and racist for chinese ed girls.Added on March 9, 2008, 3:50 pm QUOTE(Larrylow @ Mar 6 2008, 09:03 PM) Generally, I would say that english educated girls are hotter!!! hotter? so what?.. Yo! Added on March 9, 2008, 3:51 pmi prefer english ed guy.. This post has been edited by tchaikovsky: Mar 9 2008, 03:51 PM |
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Mar 9 2008, 03:59 PM
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Actually there's ongoing trend between the chinese ed and the english ed.
Most of the chinese educated girls would follow mostly Taiwanese style. And the english educated girls would follow the Western style. Thats explains why english educated girls are more open minded because of the influence of the western society that are so open minded. And of course, vice versa for the chinese educated chicks. But here's the thing I noticed about chinese and english ed girls about their wearing styles. When a english educated girl wears sexily, she's just thinking that's the best dress she has, thats why she's wearing it, and to attract guys of course. But when a chinese ed girl is wearing those dress that shows their cleavage + mini skirt. LOLz, these are the girls who wants random guys to pick them up. I can't generalize though, let me just get myself straightened out here, when I say english ed girls and chinese ed girls, I mean some of them. Not all. Alright ? Oh yeah, my cousin, is a chinese ed girl, and her heart melts when guys speak broken chinese |
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Mar 9 2008, 04:36 PM
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QUOTE(SeeD @ Mar 9 2008, 03:59 PM) Actually there's ongoing trend between the chinese ed and the english ed. why her heart melts when guy speak broken chinese?.. barely understand Most of the chinese educated girls would follow mostly Taiwanese style. And the english educated girls would follow the Western style. Thats explains why english educated girls are more open minded because of the influence of the western society that are so open minded. And of course, vice versa for the chinese educated chicks. But here's the thing I noticed about chinese and english ed girls about their wearing styles. When a english educated girl wears sexily, she's just thinking that's the best dress she has, thats why she's wearing it, and to attract guys of course. But when a chinese ed girl is wearing those dress that shows their cleavage + mini skirt. LOLz, these are the girls who wants random guys to pick them up. I can't generalize though, let me just get myself straightened out here, when I say english ed girls and chinese ed girls, I mean some of them. Not all. Alright ? Oh yeah, my cousin, is a chinese ed girl, and her heart melts when guys speak broken chinese |
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Mar 11 2008, 09:49 PM
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its cute when a guy speaks broken mandarin ^^ like me
accent very funny wan, you can laugh all night.. but now my mandarin improved alot since I had my gf (chinese ed) This post has been edited by badboyboy: Mar 11 2008, 09:50 PM |
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Mar 11 2008, 10:17 PM
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Back to the original thread question
It really depends on taste, I find chinese-ed and english-ed have different outlook in life, not to mention different mentality and social tastes. It can get tricky at times So it really depends which one you have more "feel" for in the end. |
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Mar 11 2008, 10:37 PM
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i dont have a preference... heck.. even if she is diff race i dont give a damn... as long as there is love... anything will go...
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Mar 12 2008, 11:56 AM
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QUOTE(puliamo @ Mar 8 2008, 04:42 AM) hmm... i've dated a few of both... doesn't have any clear indications of whether they're either chinese ed or english ed aside from their language skills wor... both sides can be equally hot, smart, outgoing, conservertive... Agree! Family upbringing affects their perspective towards things too.i think family upbringing affects more on their grown up personalities and preferences... I've seen both chinese ed and english ed types and they do have differences. Some big difference, some just slight ones. oh, my friend(chinese ed girl) do laugh at my broken mandarin |
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Mar 13 2008, 04:28 PM
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I tell u lar...
Got one chinese ed girl i know, she is very shy about sex. Strangely she got married at 23. Not even 9 months after she got married she delivered one baby. Now i think about it, these days she is so shameless when it comes to sex. |
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Mar 14 2008, 11:49 AM
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hmmm..who said English n Chinese ed is different??
I wander which I am [english or chinese] haiz~ |
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Mar 14 2008, 12:04 PM
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One time we were dating in the movies, it was a horror show i forgot what horror show. At one scene, the monster was chasing the girl in the movie. It was full of suspense, and my heart was beating very fast.
But guess what? My date was LAUGHING away as if the hero getting chased by that monster/ It was like watching that Tom and Jerry cartoon show. 'Wahahahahahahaa!' like that Oh mi gosh... maniac! |
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Mar 14 2008, 01:13 PM
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my ex-bf was a chinese ed.... and I'm english ed. It did'nt work. It's kind of difficult to speak or express something to him, coz he just wont understand. Our interest also totally down the drain.
It also did'nt work partly bcos I speak mandarine like i just came back from japan = = in short... horrible |
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Mar 14 2008, 01:43 PM
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I'm dating a eng ed guy since 3 years ago and now we are getting married...very soon.
Well, no doubt there will be communication problem because some time i found myself very hard to explain to him certain things. But yet, we trying our best to understand each other. He teach me English, i teach him cantonese. Well, i can said that our effort is not waste. Eng ed or Chinese ed? it doesnt really matter, it just about whether you meet thee right person or not. |
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Mar 14 2008, 02:23 PM
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I need to teach my boyfriend my languages...he only knows english. HAHAH
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Mar 14 2008, 04:39 PM
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QUOTE(Kosai @ Mar 7 2008, 04:18 PM) i disagree with you, why would you call them 'SMART' when all they think is money/reputation/looks/fu*ked-up entertainment and not education?? Oh~~ so the eng educated chiks are not thinkin of money/reputation/looks/fu*ked-up entertainment and nothing but education.Which century r u from?grown up *##*! |
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Mar 16 2008, 04:30 PM
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QUOTE(complicated_Blue @ Mar 14 2008, 04:39 PM) Oh~~ so the eng educated chiks are not thinkin of money/reputation/looks/fu*ked-up entertainment and nothing but education.Which century r u from?grown up *##*! Bravo !! |
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Mar 16 2008, 10:14 PM
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wow topic still surviving eh
keep that up |
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Mar 17 2008, 01:59 AM
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QUOTE(skylinegtr34rule4life @ Mar 1 2008, 07:51 PM) GUYS! what are the differences would u list down between chinese ed gf n english ed gf that you have discovered so far? for banana like me the biggest difference would be communication |
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Apr 1 2008, 11:57 AM
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i think we need to classify the groups.. of chinese / english ed gals in order to compare them with just.
1. lvl of education 2. upbringing (location, family wise) 1. 1st we need to determine the education lvl of both segment of gals. you cannot compare a lady that has attended uni vs primary. they would fair differently, with a huge gap. 2. i've often heard of this comment: gals from pj are more arrogant while from cheras more friendly. or ppl in pj are arrogant while the pj would comment the cheras as lalas. now, location and family upbringing influence a lady's 'presentation'. cheras is considered as the grassroot, and many of whom speak chinese. as pj utara (specifically), which is regarded as the highest lvl education among all other areas due to immigrants from other states, all with high lvl of education, hence the upbringing of a gal, regardless of chinese or eng ed would be different from cheras, of course i do know gals in pj being rotten and cheras being excellent, there are exceptions of course. but i think chinese / english ed doesnt matter, as long as they are intelligent and sociable, i think i'd like both. |
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Apr 2 2008, 12:01 PM
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lol girls from pj are arrogant? lol i've not heard this before. how about subang girls then? ahem
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Apr 2 2008, 12:29 PM
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oh dear penny, here we meet again! hahahahaha
how have you been?!?!?! subang? total crap :P dont get offended ya.. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA... |
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Apr 2 2008, 01:50 PM
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QUOTE(complicated_Blue @ Mar 14 2008, 04:39 PM) Oh~~ so the eng educated chiks are not thinkin of money/reputation/looks/fu*ked-up entertainment and nothing but education.Which century r u from?grown up *##*! Say whatever you want, I'm hardheaded and won't change what I think about them. Even if it means I'm an immature person. |
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Apr 2 2008, 01:55 PM
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OMG WHEIMENG!!! AHHAHAHAHA i'm in aussie now! wtf subang girls crap? zzzz
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Apr 2 2008, 02:03 PM
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yea shows how crap sj gals are.. didn't even notice WHEIMENG!
with laura? lol, this became a chatting page. |
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Apr 2 2008, 02:42 PM
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QUOTE(Nub! @ Mar 3 2008, 08:27 PM) Be it Chinese edu or English edu. I hate it when English edu looks down on Chinese edu people who can't speak fluent english, well at least the are trying but meh, shouldn't laugh at them -.-. Shame on you guys/girls too when you could not speak your on language while some of the "guai lou" can speak better Chinese than us. Support you Hey i'm referring to English edu who look down on their own race ;>. I mean don't look down people on general. No offense kay Why proud of guai lou language while look down on your own language? Our ancestor is dragon... LOL!!!??? (龙的传人ma ) |
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Apr 2 2008, 02:46 PM
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i think this look down phenomena was being discussed in another section. and i think we shouldn't derail from the topic.
just be yourself and proud to be one. if you aint good in english, brush it up. if you aint good in mandarin, brush it up too. |
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Apr 2 2008, 03:50 PM
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QUOTE(smacky @ Mar 1 2008, 11:12 PM) yup yup.. but if you are chinese ed, getting a chinese ed gf will communicate better and easier. i mean if you're trying to say something, you just need to say it short and she will understand it.. Erm..not always the case though.. My bf is from Chinese Ed and I'm from English and we comminucate just fine if you are chinese ed and your gf is english ed, both of you are not thinking alike and arguements will occur.. and also she wont easily understand why you wanna do this why you wanna do that.. |
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Apr 2 2008, 03:57 PM
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the english ed ppl will say the chinese ed girls are more shy, because the ENGLISH ED GUYS CANT SPEAK TO THE GIRLS WITHOUT SOUNDING LIKE AN IT FREAK
anyway, english ed guys, stop flaming the chinese ed ppl just because they can speak chinese! ich~~ no matter what, both are equal, chinese ed girls are not more "shy" or "emo"/. its that u english ed ppl cant talk to them. Imagine u bringing ur gf to chinese restaurent, u cant even order a single dish, how embarresing is that? Face it. u lose at communication and lose out alot on society. U phailed Added on April 2, 2008, 4:01 pm QUOTE(Nub! @ Mar 3 2008, 08:27 PM) Be it Chinese edu or English edu. I hate it when English edu looks down on Chinese edu people who can't speak fluent english, well at least the are trying but meh, shouldn't laugh at them -.-. Shame on you guys/girls too when you could not speak your on language while some of the "guai lou" can speak better Chinese than us. the english edu ppl wil look down on chinese ppl cause of jealouzy, nothing else.Hey i'm referring to English edu who look down on their own race ;>. I mean don't look down people on general. No offense kay the english edu ppl should be ashame as chinese edu can speak both chinese and english whereby english edu ppl can only speak one. the chinese edu should look down on english, but they dont. but the englidh edu look down on chinese edu, so low class=.= This post has been edited by icypetals: Apr 2 2008, 04:01 PM |
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Apr 2 2008, 06:02 PM
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QUOTE(icypetals @ Apr 2 2008, 03:57 PM) the english ed ppl will say the chinese ed girls are more shy, because the ENGLISH ED GUYS CANT SPEAK TO THE GIRLS WITHOUT SOUNDING LIKE AN IT FREAK hmmm...sound a bit bias here dun you... hahaha... how do you know that the chinese ed doesnt look down on the eng ed ppl? anyway, english ed guys, stop flaming the chinese ed ppl just because they can speak chinese! ich~~ no matter what, both are equal, chinese ed girls are not more "shy" or "emo"/. its that u english ed ppl cant talk to them. Imagine u bringing ur gf to chinese restaurent, u cant even order a single dish, how embarresing is that? Face it. u lose at communication and lose out alot on society. U phailed Added on April 2, 2008, 4:01 pm the english edu ppl wil look down on chinese ppl cause of jealouzy, nothing else. the english edu ppl should be ashame as chinese edu can speak both chinese and english whereby english edu ppl can only speak one. the chinese edu should look down on english, but they dont. but the englidh edu look down on chinese edu, so low class=.= |
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Apr 2 2008, 07:24 PM
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It doesn't matter if that person is Chinese or English ed. It depends on the person on how they choose to express themselves. They can be English ed or Chinese ed if they choose to be.
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Apr 3 2008, 12:12 AM
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QUOTE(icypetals @ Apr 2 2008, 03:57 PM) the english ed ppl will say the chinese ed girls are more shy, because the ENGLISH ED GUYS CANT SPEAK TO THE GIRLS WITHOUT SOUNDING LIKE AN IT FREAK bit hot under the collar, old chap? oh dear.anyway, english ed guys, stop flaming the chinese ed ppl just because they can speak chinese! ich~~ no matter what, both are equal, chinese ed girls are not more "shy" or "emo"/. its that u english ed ppl cant talk to them. Imagine u bringing ur gf to chinese restaurent, u cant even order a single dish, how embarresing is that? Face it. u lose at communication and lose out alot on society. U phailed Added on April 2, 2008, 4:01 pm the english edu ppl wil look down on chinese ppl cause of jealouzy, nothing else. the english edu ppl should be ashame as chinese edu can speak both chinese and english whereby english edu ppl can only speak one. the chinese edu should look down on english, but they dont. but the englidh edu look down on chinese edu, so low class=.= look, i'm pretty much what you can call an english-educated fella, but i don't sound like an it freak. heck, i'm like borderline computer-illiterate, but i make it up by telling lame jokes based on puns and sarcasm (not funny ones, sad to say). i have to say that those educated at chinese schools tend to exude less confidence in mixed crowds. i mean, yeah, its great that she can open up in a group of fellow chinese-eds, but then it's gonna be a very small group of people. where's the fun? where as we perhaps fail to communicate with chinese ed girls, those girls rather fail to communicate to a much larger group of people, on balance. i say it is they who phail. i speak a bit of a few languages, just that i don't speak chinese. i might have trouble ordering food in a chinese restaurant, but no big deal, i'll bring her to a malay one, polish one, a french one, or a german one. it is not that we look down on them as 'low-class', nor do we look them as somehow more thick, its the confidence that seems to lack. you might be all that with your own community, but if you don't mix around that'll not be impressive. there is more to society than just being able to speak chinese. |
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Apr 3 2008, 01:27 PM
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I think wat hv u all mentioned abt the "chinese ed" gals are mainly from out stations(purely chinese ed family with mandarin speaking). Those locals here are not much different. We all studied in 2ndary kebangsaan sch after our 6yrs chinese ed in primary
The only different is, we have a bonus -->chinese(mother language) literate |
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it doesn't really matter if you speak chinese, english or even any dialects, sometimes it's just the way they think. I believe that chinese-ed ppl tend to be more traditional & seldom think out of the box. They're forever trapped by certain so called "moral values" and "responsibilities" which I think things can be more flexible as long as you can take the consequences of it. Most of the times, I think these people just can't afford to be "wrong" because of the upbringing and also pressure around them.
I'm not trying to condemn because I'm also considered "half chinese-ed". I know there're certain responsibilities you can't run away from, but you can always improve the situation by adjusting things around & stand firm on it. To put it in another way, some of these people are just very rigid & don't know how to THINK. They do what they're taught to do, follow & stick hard to it. SIGH~ |
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i always hope the my partner will know how to read chinese and tell me all the HK gossip news to me but unfortunately things doesn't turns out what i want...but i'm satisfy with my current gf.....btw she's a eng-ed...so it's all fated by God....when u r in love means u r in love...doesn't matter eng-ed or chinese-ed or maybe no-ed...love is love...
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Apr 3 2008, 10:28 PM
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 n40 i is 3ngl2sh 4nd ch1n3s3 3d j00 kn0 h4h4h4h4h4h4h4h4 |
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Apr 3 2008, 10:36 PM
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QUOTE(map @ Apr 3 2008, 10:28 PM) n40 i is 3ngl2sh 4nd ch1n3s3 3d j00 kn0 h4h4h4h4h4h4h4h4 |
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Apr 3 2008, 10:49 PM
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QUOTE(wheimeng @ Apr 3 2008, 10:36 PM) j00 sp43k 31337! j00 4g41n???!!! |
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Apr 4 2008, 12:56 AM
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chi-ed gals and eng-ed gals dont mix along well
when i was still in TARC,it was clearly shown that the 2 'tribes' dont mix well.its like 2 big gangs,Eng-ed at the left...Chi-ed at the right FOR 2 YEARS!and never in the 2 yrs there saw them mixing around. proud to be a hybrid,i can enjoy best of both worlds |
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Apr 4 2008, 03:09 AM
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QUOTE(besaid @ Apr 4 2008, 12:56 AM) chi-ed gals and eng-ed gals dont mix along well same here ... i am chinese ed but speaks english at home... but i mix with everyone in my course one wor .... lolzwhen i was still in TARC,it was clearly shown that the 2 'tribes' dont mix well.its like 2 big gangs,Eng-ed at the left...Chi-ed at the right FOR 2 YEARS!and never in the 2 yrs there saw them mixing around. proud to be a hybrid,i can enjoy best of both worlds |
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Apr 4 2008, 08:22 AM
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what abt gals det went thru chinese ed sch and national sch b4 le?
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Apr 4 2008, 08:54 AM
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hmm i'm english ed but i don't find it a problem mixing with other chinese ed ppl.. not all.. i try to speak chinese to them.. and along the way they help me.. i have quite a number of classmates from china.. i find it rather fun trying to slowly pick up the language..
misunderstandings might happen if two people do not speak the same language fluently.. ultimately, it's an individual thing.. so you can't really generalize it |
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Apr 4 2008, 10:03 AM
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my wife...eng ed, malay speaking preference, chinese ed mentality...
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Apr 4 2008, 07:52 PM
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QUOTE(wheimeng @ Apr 3 2008, 10:36 PM) j00 sp43k 31337! j00 m355 w1f m4 t41 k4r j13 j00 m355 w1f th3 b35t... 4nd my n1ck sh0w5 1'm th3 tru3 l33t sp34k3r... |
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Apr 4 2008, 09:18 PM
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QUOTE(t3chn0m4nc3r @ Apr 4 2008, 07:52 PM) j00 m355 w1f m4 t41 k4r j13 j00 m355 w1f th3 b35t... 4nd my n1ck sh0w5 1'm th3 tru3 l33t sp34k3r... pwnz! |
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Chinese ed girls, one thing i discovered is that they go by the "chinese unwritten rules". English ed girls tends to be open minded to these things, although not all.
Please note that family upbringing is very important. It affects the way the child thinks. It does not matter if the child is eng ed, or chinese ed, it will more or less affect the thinking of the girl. Do realise this : chinese ed girls tend to think in the chinese way of life - fengsui, ghost, auspicious or whatever go to do with it (most chinese go this experience i believe), and all the pantang larang thing. Eng ed girls are more "modernise", but due to the influense from the family, they tend to believe in that as well, although they might do in the sake of " better do it than feel sorry later". Emotional or not, all girls, no matter they edu background is, are emotional. Men are too, just they tend to hide it better than the girls. |
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Apr 5 2008, 11:20 AM
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QUOTE(t3chn0m4nc3r @ Apr 4 2008, 07:52 PM) j00 m355 w1f m4 t41 k4r j13 j00 m355 w1f th3 b35t... ph33r *lol* 4nd my n1ck sh0w5 1'm th3 tru3 l33t sp34k3r... |
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Apr 5 2008, 11:32 AM
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QUOTE(runemastertan @ Apr 5 2008, 01:03 AM) Chinese ed girls, one thing i discovered is that they go by the "chinese unwritten rules". English ed girls tends to be open minded to these things, although not all. it goes way back to the family and friends... i believe most of us are influenced by our frenz... who we grew up wif, who we hang out wif, who we flame, and so on... it's not really a matter who of wat education u r... juz ur own personality... there are all sorts of people out there these days... Please note that family upbringing is very important. It affects the way the child thinks. It does not matter if the child is eng ed, or chinese ed, it will more or less affect the thinking of the girl. Do realise this : chinese ed girls tend to think in the chinese way of life - fengsui, ghost, auspicious or whatever go to do with it (most chinese go this experience i believe), and all the pantang larang thing. Eng ed girls are more "modernise", but due to the influense from the family, they tend to believe in that as well, although they might do in the sake of " better do it than feel sorry later". Emotional or not, all girls, no matter they edu background is, are emotional. Men are too, just they tend to hide it better than the girls. |
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Apr 5 2008, 11:51 AM
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QUOTE(halglory @ Apr 4 2008, 10:03 AM) my wife...eng ed, malay speaking preference, chinese ed mentality... hahaha dude, that's like the worst combo |
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Apr 5 2008, 12:06 PM
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QUOTE(besaid @ Apr 4 2008, 12:56 AM) chi-ed gals and eng-ed gals dont mix along well That's not always the case as well.. Hahahaha..Apparently my super best friend is from Chinese Ed.. Wuakakaka... when i was still in TARC,it was clearly shown that the 2 'tribes' dont mix well.its like 2 big gangs,Eng-ed at the left...Chi-ed at the right FOR 2 YEARS!and never in the 2 yrs there saw them mixing around. proud to be a hybrid,i can enjoy best of both worlds |
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Apr 5 2008, 01:36 PM
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She practices Tai Chi
She'd never lose her nerve She's more than you deserve She's just far better than me Hey, hey So don't bother I won't die of deception I promise you won't ever see me cry Don't feel sorry And after all I'm glad that I'm not your type Promise you won't ever see me cry So don't bother, be unkind |
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Apr 5 2008, 03:38 PM
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First off I think if this discussion were to have any validity we should divide these girls into age groups first.
Chinese Educated (Private school,SMJK, you name it ) Age group 14-16 (Form 2 - Form 4) In my personal opinion, which is also in tandem with the views of most forumers who replied here is that those who fall under this category of age and education tends to be more impulsive and rebellious. (Most of the case) I've been teaching tuition for a few years and most of the students I got from co-ed schools which are SMJKs. Due to the fact that they are exposed to boys early on with their lives in school, they tend to have no problems in being more friendly to strangers and mixing around with boys. Some had gone overboard and went to the extent of having dreamy thoughts of boys in their school for their relationships. I had a few students who were talking about boys 24/7 in their and they were like picking apples (which are the riper ones) to start a relationship with. But its undeniable that a minority of these girls exhibit a sense of maturity in socializing with the people from opposite sex, as expected because of their early exposure. Age group 17-25 (Form 5 - University) Really once when someone grows up, their level of maturity usually goes up with them. Except for some special cases As for this group I think you all know the answers more than I do. English Educated (Private school,SMKs you name it ) Age group 14-17 (Form 2 - Form 5) Personally, I hail from a english speaking community and school life so I'd try not to be biased here. Convents are our main issue here as they make up a bulk of the population of the girls in this group. Well, what can I say? Having only girls to be with in their school life and usually going out for functions in school is the only way for them to know boy (friends). Once the friendship starts to kick off, they spend their time with their newfound friend in cinemas,hanging out and eventually maybe becoming a couple. So, the main difference here is between the girls above is that English educated girls do their socializing outside of school with boys. And isn't that what we always do when we're in a date? As for the rest of the age group, you guys/girls give a shot at it and it'll be interesting to read |
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Apr 5 2008, 11:44 PM
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Not to mention english ed girl is more meterialistic and more arrogant...
Talk is first class, but when comes to work they r third class... They think they r high class and rich but actually alot of them r not... Open minded is good... But not over open-minded... This only make them act like a B*tch... As for me, chinese ed girls is more suitable to be a wife (Provided both of u have no communication problem or etc) English ed girl is more suitable as a playmates, for sex, one night stand, clubbing frens etc.. P/S: These apply to most of the english ed girl, BUT NOT ALL OF THEM... Some is still pretty good.... |
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Apr 6 2008, 10:16 PM
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Newsflash !
There are no more english-ed in malaysia, it should be Malay-ed. Just because you speak broken english doesn't mean you are english-ed. There are quite a number of chinese-ed who speak better english than so-called 'english-ed'. Both malay-ed and chinese-ed do learn english in school. Chinese-ed learn more chinese books. Malay-ed learn more malay books. |
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Apr 19 2008, 05:45 AM
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QUOTE(pucman @ Apr 6 2008, 10:16 PM) Newsflash ! Girls from GIS not considered english-ed? There are no more english-ed in malaysia, it should be Malay-ed. Just because you speak broken english doesn't mean you are english-ed. There are quite a number of chinese-ed who speak better english than so-called 'english-ed'. Both malay-ed and chinese-ed do learn english in school. Chinese-ed learn more chinese books. Malay-ed learn more malay books. |
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Apr 19 2008, 07:45 PM
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I stick to this.
It's not really Chinese Ed vs. English Ed. It's Chinese people vs. Banana people. Whenever I speak English, people think highly of my status quo. Why? Non-English Speaking People know. We think they are lalas, they think we are lanci. We think they are uncivilized peasants, they think we are arrogant royals. This post has been edited by Noobimus: Apr 19 2008, 08:06 PM |
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Apr 20 2008, 01:36 AM
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I do not agree with Noobimus ... I never thought people that way ... not even when they speak broken english. That's because I can't speak fluent chinese as well
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Apr 20 2008, 02:55 AM
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chinese ed girls...communication harder with her friends if ur english ed.
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Apr 20 2008, 04:33 AM
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The differences don't just apply to girls, apply to guys as well.
I'm speak good Mandarin, but I'm mainly English ed due to the missionary sch education. Mandarin speaking people: community based - always move in groups, and always in the same groups. Speak in a subtle, around the bush manner. Have a weird fascination of English speakers' way of thinking. Thinks than English speakers 'action lebih'/LCLY, not as willing to brush up their English and mix with English speakers. English speaking people: very individualistic/independent - often seen as a loner by the Mandarin speakers. Vocal & direct - will say whatever they think/feel if needed. Open to suggestions. Have a weird frustration on Mandarin speakers' way of thinking. Generally more willing to learn Mandarin by trial & error from Mandarin speakers. |
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Apr 20 2008, 10:43 AM
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wow, you understand these people well
Applaud. I'm english ed and now I can sing chinese songs by just reading the chinese words . After years of practice of course :S |
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Apr 20 2008, 12:27 PM
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same....... no different....still a girl
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Apr 20 2008, 12:30 PM
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I like english speaking girls with chinese mentality. very kawaii.
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Apr 20 2008, 01:40 PM
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QUOTE(iamyuanwu @ Apr 20 2008, 04:33 AM) The differences don't just apply to girls, apply to guys as well. I do agree with ur point of view. Generally, those r da differences I see between da two also. But, those don't apply to each n every1. There are certain english ed/speaking ppl who have the mindset of mandarin ed/speaking ppl n vice versa. So, I think it still depends on individuals.I'm speak good Mandarin, but I'm mainly English ed due to the missionary sch education. Mandarin speaking people: community based - always move in groups, and always in the same groups. Speak in a subtle, around the bush manner. Have a weird fascination of English speakers' way of thinking. Thinks than English speakers 'action lebih'/LCLY, not as willing to brush up their English and mix with English speakers. English speaking people: very individualistic/independent - often seen as a loner by the Mandarin speakers. Vocal & direct - will say whatever they think/feel if needed. Open to suggestions. Have a weird frustration on Mandarin speakers' way of thinking. Generally more willing to learn Mandarin by trial & error from Mandarin speakers. |
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Apr 20 2008, 03:09 PM
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i dunno.....just my dua sen.
english-ed girls are more mature and easy going. malay-ed girls seem more normal cause they mix around. chinese-ed girls got too much of that kawaii/hk/taiwan influence......always wanna act cute, pretend to merajuk and love money anyone dated indian-ed girls? |
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Apr 20 2008, 04:14 PM
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IM from chinese school, my chinese speaking damn good.
my parents are from english school, so i have damn good english too. best of both world XD? |
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Apr 20 2008, 11:53 PM
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lol I find this thread interesting
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Apr 21 2008, 02:25 AM
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QUOTE(icypetals @ Apr 20 2008, 04:14 PM) IM from chinese school, my chinese speaking damn good. yes, you're the chosen one my parents are from english school, so i have damn good english too. best of both world XD? QUOTE(spunkberry @ Apr 20 2008, 11:53 PM) lol I find this thread interesting in what way? |
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Apr 21 2008, 02:54 AM
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this discussion on english and chinese-ed girls, it's just very interesting to see what guys prefer.
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Apr 21 2008, 01:46 PM
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hampalang sapu lah....why discriminate
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Apr 21 2008, 03:04 PM
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I are non ed
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Jul 23 2008, 05:52 PM
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humans are egocentric
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Jul 24 2008, 02:37 AM
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i do agree with the chap above, but the way i see it is this: the language is an inhibitor.
let's say you know mandarin and a bloody genius at it. all well and good, nothing wrong with it. however, when you speak only mandarin the only people you're going to interact with are other chinese. yes, some say theres tonnes of people from various nations learning mandarin but i guess i missed their party or something because i don't see many of them around. anyway, once you start mixing only with your own people, the usual problem crops up: you become indoctrinated with your cultural norms (and hence become pretty much stereotypical), you become xenophobic, and sometimes you become racist. doesn't really apply only to the chinese, replace mandarin in the above paragraphs with malay, tamil, hindi, or even english, and you'll get the same thing. in this country however, when you speak passably good english, it'll most definitely be as a second language. you'll interact with more people, and you become less bigotted and more free. in the cities, english helps you get along with more people. in the rural areas, just simply knowing malay (if you're chinese) or some cantonese (if you're malay) or some hindi will help you get along well and become free. look at it this way, english people who only speak english can also tend to become bigots. it's the ability to mix around afforded by being multilingual that is the key here. its not chi-ed vs eng ed. in b4 tl;dr |
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Jul 24 2008, 06:57 AM
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I feel that noobimus and iamyuanwu has a point.
I am an English-ed Chinese and I use English most of the time during my schooling days. When I ended up in uni, most of the students there are Chinese-ed Chinese even my housemates are. From what I have just read in this topic, the points pointed out does apply from what I've experienced. Most of Chinese-ed are more emotional together with their Taiwan fashion and their attitude is totally different from the English-eds. The English-ed are much more open and down to earth. In other words..I prefer English-ed ones |
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Jul 24 2008, 08:42 AM
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Some people actually mentioned that. What made u say that?
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Jul 24 2008, 10:19 PM
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QUOTE(iamyuanwu @ Apr 20 2008, 04:33 AM) The differences don't just apply to girls, apply to guys as well. I'm speak good Mandarin, but I'm mainly English ed due to the missionary sch education. Mandarin speaking people: community based - always move in groups, and always in the same groups. Speak in a subtle, around the bush manner. Have a weird fascination of English speakers' way of thinking. Thinks than English speakers 'action lebih'/LCLY, not as willing to brush up their English and mix with English speakers. English speaking people: very individualistic/independent - often seen as a loner by the Mandarin speakers. Vocal & direct - will say whatever they think/feel if needed. Open to suggestions. Have a weird frustration on Mandarin speakers' way of thinking. Generally more willing to learn Mandarin by trial & error from Mandarin speakers. i kinda agree with most of your points there but how did you manage to find out that most chinese-ed people think english-ed people LCLY? by the way i'm an english-ed guy, a dying community hahahaahha |
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Jul 24 2008, 11:44 PM
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QUOTE(whirlwind @ Jul 24 2008, 10:19 PM) i kinda agree with most of your points there but how did you manage to find out that most chinese-ed people think english-ed people LCLY? im chinese ed. and i think ppl who are english ed the way they talk like dam lanci.... by the way i'm an english-ed guy, a dying community hahahaahha dunno why la english ed ppl like dam suka bercakap loudly.... |
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Jul 24 2008, 11:47 PM
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oh pfft excuse me .. I think the loudness is something Chinese have in common whether chinese or english ed.
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Jul 24 2008, 11:48 PM
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how come.......................we are just expressing ourselves................ |
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Jul 24 2008, 11:53 PM
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im english ed..i dunno mandarin..i kena ejek banana..
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Jul 24 2008, 11:56 PM
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jul 24 2008, 11:47 PM) oh pfft excuse me .. I think the loudness is something Chinese have in common whether chinese or english ed. hmm i think those chinese ed ppl u saw is pasar pagi ppl....i dont know why i have this concept of english ed ppl like argue loudly think they pandai or something.... the experience is that time in church.... got 1 guy suggest 1 trip... then 1 english ed guy come stand up kacao him.... keep argue .... if u disagree then say i dont think its good place.... that english ed guy still say go my house better la this and that la .....soemore the person who suggested is an uncle abt 40 years old... ppl old liao let him la still argue... eng ed not much fillial or knowing respect... i think... no flame pls This post has been edited by CluelessNick: Jul 24 2008, 11:57 PM |
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Jul 25 2008, 12:05 AM
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Aha, I'm probably one of those people somewhere in between. My close friend said, I'm half banana (if there's such a thing?
)Went to chinese primary school, secondary kebangsaan school and university all in english. Though I went to Primary Chinese school, due to parents were English Ed, they pass on the mentality to me. I never really assimilated as a Chinese Ed person either, but I did grow to appreciate Chinese Education. My friends are more English ed in primary school, more of the Chinese Ed circle of friends in Secondary school. In Uni, a mixture of both. I guess now, my primary mode is more of English ed, and secondary chinese ed. My education ideals are more towards Chinese ed (education style), though I do recognise the benefits of being English ed. as well(flexibility and less rigid). Well, I guess being "english ed" with Chinese Ed background, I have the experience of chinese ed ppl thinking that I and other English ed are showing off. But ah well, what to do, we just state things as they are but not trying to deliberately show off(at least not for more). Besides,as I grew up, I also realised having a bit of peranakan background also let me have slightly different thought patterns and ideals from a typical english-ed or chinese-ed person. Well, I guess that's probably one of the "wonder" of being born in Malaysia, theres beauty in diversity. Not everyone sees it the same way though... |
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Jul 25 2008, 12:06 AM
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QUOTE(vey99 @ Jul 24 2008, 08:42 AM) Some people actually mentioned that. What made u say that? the story made me say thatAdded on July 25, 2008, 12:06 am QUOTE(Aztec @ Jul 24 2008, 11:53 PM) im english ed..i dunno mandarin..i kena ejek banana.. You have experience in this before?Added on July 25, 2008, 12:07 am QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jul 24 2008, 11:47 PM) oh pfft excuse me .. I think the loudness is something Chinese have in common whether chinese or english ed. you have experience in this before?This post has been edited by bonedragon: Jul 25 2008, 12:07 AM |
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Jul 25 2008, 12:08 AM
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i experiance until i dont care already la..play basketball also susah..freaking coach talk in mandarin..wanna tackle chinese girls also limited..
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Jul 25 2008, 12:33 AM
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QUOTE(Aztec @ Jul 24 2008, 11:53 PM) im english ed..i dunno mandarin..i kena ejek banana.. Don't say so u just date with marshieee how izzit? |
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Jul 25 2008, 12:39 AM
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jul 24 2008, 11:47 PM) oh pfft excuse me .. I think the loudness is something Chinese have in common whether chinese or english ed. Actually some people did mentioned that before, spunk. But what made you say such as that? I'm english ed btw. |
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Jul 25 2008, 01:00 AM
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wei dun make fun of me any more la.I very pitiful u know
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Jul 25 2008, 01:06 AM
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QUOTE(sylar111 @ Jul 25 2008, 01:00 AM) wei dun make fun of me any more la.I very pitiful u know Somebody mentioned that too previously. What made you say that again? |
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Jul 25 2008, 01:31 PM
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QUOTE(peinsama @ Jul 25 2008, 01:06 AM) Somebody mentioned that too previously. What made you say that again? Dun play ppl until like this la. just asking your opinion only. hai yo |
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Jul 25 2008, 01:32 PM
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love english ed, love english ed, they are more open n cute
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Jul 25 2008, 01:41 PM
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mine is a chinese ed max...=(
no wonder the freeze up?LOL |
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Jul 25 2008, 01:42 PM
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QUOTE(CluelessNick @ Jul 24 2008, 11:56 PM) hmm i think those chinese ed ppl u saw is pasar pagi ppl.... i dont know why i have this concept of english ed ppl like argue loudly think they pandai or something.... the experience is that time in church.... got 1 guy suggest 1 trip... then 1 english ed guy come stand up kacao him.... keep argue .... if u disagree then say i dont think its good place.... that english ed guy still say go my house better la this and that la .....soemore the person who suggested is an uncle abt 40 years old... ppl old liao let him la still argue... eng ed not much fillial or knowing respect... i think... no flame pls QUOTE(bonedragon @ Jul 25 2008, 12:06 AM) You have experience in this before? QUOTE(peinsama @ Jul 25 2008, 12:39 AM) Actually some people did mentioned that before, spunk. But what made you say such as that? I'm English ed myself ... and I know I get loud when I'm excited.I'm english ed btw. Have you seen Chinese people at a mahjong table? There are a lot of Chinese eds in my family, as well as English eds, and they're all equally as loud. Even strangers ... I visit my friends' houses ... Chinese educated parents ... loud as hell. MOST Chinese are loud, like I said, regardless whether Chinese or English ed. |
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Jul 25 2008, 01:42 PM
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then why susah? u chinese she chinese maa... O.o". ur technique problem dats all.
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Jul 25 2008, 01:44 PM
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QUOTE(Aztec @ Jul 25 2008, 12:08 AM) i experiance until i dont care already la..play basketball also susah..freaking coach talk in mandarin..wanna tackle chinese girls also limited.. come i coach you |
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Jul 25 2008, 01:45 PM
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Mandarin speaking people:
community based - always move in groups, and always in the same groups. Speak in a subtle, around the bush manner. Have a weird fascination of English speakers' way of thinking. Thinks than English speakers 'action lebih'/LCLY, not as willing to brush up their English and mix with English speakers. English speaking people: very individualistic/independent - often seen as a loner by the Mandarin speakers. Vocal & direct - will say whatever they think/feel if needed. Open to suggestions. Have a weird frustration on Mandarin speakers' way of thinking. Generally more willing to learn Mandarin by trial & error from Mandarin speakers totally agree with this..chinese speaking people always labelled me as action..sighss..is not that im action or what, i speak no mandarin..what to do??? one thing i do noticed in ukm is that, 9 out of 10 chinese students speaks mandarin. and yeah, they do move in groups, and only among themselves..no other races.. i don't quite like such sight. |
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Jul 25 2008, 01:46 PM
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I don't think it's only Chinese eds who do that. Koreans do that too. OH MY GOD walking around campus and you can always tell which Asians are the Koreans.
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Jul 25 2008, 01:48 PM
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QUOTE(LoveMeNot @ Jul 25 2008, 02:45 PM) Mandarin speaking people: lol. sendiri sama kaum pun racist bcoz of language community based - always move in groups, and always in the same groups. Speak in a subtle, around the bush manner. Have a weird fascination of English speakers' way of thinking. Thinks than English speakers 'action lebih'/LCLY, not as willing to brush up their English and mix with English speakers. English speaking people: very individualistic/independent - often seen as a loner by the Mandarin speakers. Vocal & direct - will say whatever they think/feel if needed. Open to suggestions. Have a weird frustration on Mandarin speakers' way of thinking. Generally more willing to learn Mandarin by trial & error from Mandarin speakers totally agree with this..chinese speaking people always labelled me as action..sighss..is not that im action or what, i speak no mandarin..what to do??? one thing i do noticed in ukm is that, 9 out of 10 chinese students speaks mandarin. and yeah, they do move in groups, and only among themselves..no other races.. i don't quite like such sight. |
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Jul 25 2008, 01:48 PM
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i'm a chinese, but i took english ed...more accurately, government school...
she chinese school all the way till entered my college (english primary language)...lol she speak to her friends who knows mandarin in mandarin, while i speak to most people in english, unless i know those people likes to speak in cantonese, then i speak in cantonese... with her, i speak in english, but she knows cantonese also, i'm just more used to speaking with people in english This post has been edited by LostWanderer: Jul 25 2008, 01:50 PM |
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Jul 25 2008, 01:50 PM
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QUOTE(LoveMeNot @ Jul 25 2008, 01:45 PM) Mandarin speaking people: Means u're a loner in campus ?community based - always move in groups, and always in the same groups. Speak in a subtle, around the bush manner. Have a weird fascination of English speakers' way of thinking. Thinks than English speakers 'action lebih'/LCLY, not as willing to brush up their English and mix with English speakers. English speaking people: very individualistic/independent - often seen as a loner by the Mandarin speakers. Vocal & direct - will say whatever they think/feel if needed. Open to suggestions. Have a weird frustration on Mandarin speakers' way of thinking. Generally more willing to learn Mandarin by trial & error from Mandarin speakers totally agree with this..chinese speaking people always labelled me as action..sighss..is not that im action or what, i speak no mandarin..what to do??? one thing i do noticed in ukm is that, 9 out of 10 chinese students speaks mandarin. and yeah, they do move in groups, and only among themselves..no other races.. i don't quite like such sight. My colleagues in office says i live in my own world... 'cos the only time i talk to them is regarding work... Not that i'm anti social, but they are a boring bunch. They don't play sports, they dun watch movies, their favourite pastime is sleeping. So there's nothing to talk about lol. |
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Jul 25 2008, 01:52 PM
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QUOTE(King83 @ Jul 25 2008, 02:50 PM) Means u're a loner in campus ? drones!!!! My colleagues in office says i live in my own world... 'cos the only time i talk to them is regarding work... Not that i'm anti social, but they are a boring bunch. They don't play sports, they dun watch movies, their favourite pastime is sleeping. So there's nothing to talk about lol. |
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Jul 25 2008, 01:52 PM
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I dont fit either way lol
I can mix around with both sides. Chinese speaking crouds generally have a lower self esteem so have to be very indirect and gentle when talking to them. England crouds are more direct so have to have a more open mind when talking to them. the main issue here is dont be stuck up when communicating with people of either mentality, or think you're too good for them. Because it's really gonna cut the convo short. very short. lol king. lol. This post has been edited by Joey-kun: Jul 25 2008, 01:53 PM |
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Jul 25 2008, 01:53 PM
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I can hang out with Chinese eds ... but I cannot date them. I tried once and it has been my shortest relationship to date. xD
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Jul 25 2008, 01:54 PM
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mind if i ask, what happened?lol
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Jul 25 2008, 01:55 PM
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I prefer my partner to be english educated their thinking is always way way more mature.
Chinese educated their way being brought up is very naive. From my experience they seldom think before doing an action but do it think later. |
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Jul 25 2008, 01:56 PM
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english speaker and mandarin speaker is the same it depends on how their parents bring them up, me myself is a english speaker but married a mandarin speaker girl, not much different from others i think
btw LoveMeNot the word "action" in ur post should be "arrogant" "chinese speaking people always labelled me as action" should be "chinese speaking people always labelled me as arrogant" |
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Jul 25 2008, 01:57 PM
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QUOTE(King83 @ Jul 25 2008, 01:50 PM) Means u're a loner in campus ? no.i have my species too in the campus.so its okie. its funny. i used to have this bunch of friends 15 of us, all jumbled up; malays, indians and the chinese and we all communicated in english. the typical malays will think that those malay people in my group r "sombong", and etc. i also kena, the indians oso kena.My colleagues in office says i live in my own world... 'cos the only time i talk to them is regarding work... Not that i'm anti social, but they are a boring bunch. They don't play sports, they dun watch movies, their favourite pastime is sleeping. So there's nothing to talk about lol. but then as usual, like i care.im happy with myself. and no hard feelings, majority of the chinese ed ive known are boring bunch of people too. and yeah thats for sure, eng ed or to be more precise, sek. keb. r more outspoken and direct. like me. and not many people cant take it. unfortunately |
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Jul 25 2008, 01:57 PM
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QUOTE(DiGi @ Jul 25 2008, 01:55 PM) I prefer my partner to be english educated their thinking is always way way more mature. they tend to be intellectual and they feel that their solution is the best.Chinese educated their way being brought up is very naive. From my experience they seldom think before doing an action but do it think later. in other words, very dry. |
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Jul 25 2008, 01:57 PM
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QUOTE(LostWanderer @ Jul 25 2008, 01:54 PM) mind if i ask, what happened?lol You know what it's like when you get into a new relationship ... you're willing to do anything for them? My mother warned me that I won't be so willing to do everything for them forever ... and she was right. He was passive as hell ... was only allowed to have a car when he was going to work (I didn't mind that he didn't have a car, but I got tired of arranging transport for him every time I wanted to see him) ... controlling (he tried to disallow me from getting more piercings while he was in KL and I was in Japan) ... and basically was everything in a guy I didn't want.I dated him briefly because he treated me very well. |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:01 PM
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jul 25 2008, 01:57 PM) You know what it's like when you get into a new relationship ... you're willing to do anything for them? My mother warned me that I won't be so willing to do everything for them forever ... and she was right. He was passive as hell ... was only allowed to have a car when he was going to work (I didn't mind that he didn't have a car, but I got tired of arranging transport for him every time I wanted to see him) ... controlling (he tried to disallow me from getting more piercings while he was in KL and I was in Japan) ... and basically was everything in a guy I didn't want. Actually the fault is you and your mom. Its the way you being brought up and there is no one to guide you on how to understand the entire picture. Your parents can only teach you what they know nothing more! 2nd is your mindset how you choose to think. My relationship is 6 years old and still kicking but it took me many years to find my partner.I dated him briefly because he treated me very well. Two couple should always have the same direction in most thing + understand. Ive learn a lesson if you think back from today most of your action is related with your past or someone else. Why do people always blame it on everything else except themselves? No one is perfect but you can try to build the perfection. why cant you try to guide him and change him? Why must break up? Its call naive thinking. This post has been edited by DiGi: Jul 25 2008, 02:03 PM |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:02 PM
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But chinese eds are very hardworking, i'll give them that...
They live to work.... prolly bcos they got used to doing the tonnes and tonnes of math homework that made them such a math wizard. |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:02 PM
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Added on July 25, 2008, 2:03 pm QUOTE(DiGi @ Jul 25 2008, 02:01 PM) Actually the fault is you and your mom. Its the way you being brought up and there is no one to guide you on how to understand the entire picture. Your parents can only teach you what they know nothing more! 2nd is your mindset how you choose to think. My relationship is 6 years old and still kicking but it took me many years to find my partner. That's you. Not me. And you don't know him.Two couple should always have the same direction in most thing + understand. Ive learn a lesson if you think back from today most of your action is related with your past or someone else. It's nobody's fault. I can't fault him for being who he is ... but you can't fault me for being who I am. If I meet another one that I like, I would always try ... but ultimately, I don't think it would ever work out. This post has been edited by spunkberry: Jul 25 2008, 02:04 PM |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:04 PM
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that's very nice of you for answering spunkberry, as it was a personal question...=), thanks
oh well, i was nice and wasn't even given an opportunity for a date...lol, yes, i've asked many times...i just wondered how many times was the truth of rejection |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:04 PM
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we are human no matter how different it is we are merely human. I dont know him but he still human how different can he be? 10 eyes? 5 nose? 3 mouth? Get the idea he is still human.
Its all about mindset. It takes me few seminar few thousand to master this knowledge. Added on July 25, 2008, 2:06 pm QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jul 25 2008, 02:02 PM) Added on July 25, 2008, 2:03 pm That's you. Not me. And you don't know him. It's nobody's fault. I can't fault him for being who he is ... but you can't fault me for being who I am. If I meet another one that I like, I would always try ... but ultimately, I don't think it would ever work out. You are like a director of a movie ( Your life) you choose him , you make decision , you choose what you want to see. You choose what do you want to do. Everything begins with YOU. What you say you are always right? But how do you know you are right? You make the decision wo? So who fault it is? So its all about your mindset This post has been edited by DiGi: Jul 25 2008, 02:07 PM |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:06 PM
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QUOTE(DiGi @ Jul 25 2008, 02:04 PM) we are human no matter how different it is we are merely human. I dont know him but he still human how different can he be? 10 eyes? 5 nose? 3 mouth? Get the idea he is still human. I wasn't talking about his looks. Its all about mindset. It takes me few seminar few thousand to master this knowledge. and you still had to take seminars. |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:07 PM
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QUOTE(DiGi @ Jul 25 2008, 02:01 PM) My relationship is 6 years old and still kicking but it took me many years to find my partner. My most serious relationship was with a chinese ed girl too...She doesn't talk alot but when she does, she makes a lot of sense... ............... come to think of it, i've never dated an english ed girl before LMAO. |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:07 PM
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QUOTE(DiGi @ Jul 25 2008, 02:04 PM) we are human no matter how different it is we are merely human. I dont know him but he still human how different can he be? 10 eyes? 5 nose? 3 mouth? Get the idea he is still human. I said it's NOBODY'S FAULT. I said I CAN'T FAULT HIM FOR BEING WHO HE IS. I said YOU CAN'T FAULT ME FOR BEING WHO I AM. Please read, my dear.Its all about mindset. It takes me few seminar few thousand to master this knowledge. Added on July 25, 2008, 2:06 pm No offense but u try think why is it his fault? You are like a director of a movie ( Your life) you choose him , you make decision , you choose what you want to see. You choose what do you want to do. Everything begins with YOU. What you say you are always right? But how do you know you are right? |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:07 PM
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well, digi, i could see your point, and her's as well, but most importantly, is probably that she chose someone who was so "coincidentally" fit into that category and she claims it "right" for now...=)
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Jul 25 2008, 02:08 PM
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yes. But I also say that if I ever liked a Chinese ed guy again, I wouldn't write him off immediately.
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Jul 25 2008, 02:08 PM
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jul 25 2008, 02:07 PM) I said it's NOBODY'S FAULT. I said I CAN'T FAULT HIM FOR BEING WHO HE IS. I said YOU CAN'T FAULT ME FOR BEING WHO I AM. Please read, my dear. ahaha ok sorry forget it. Nobody fault.Try to look at the bigger picture then you will understand the smaller pieces |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:09 PM
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well, when love strikes you, english or chinese it doesn't matters anymore...
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Jul 25 2008, 02:09 PM
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one allow an*l, one allow bj.
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Jul 25 2008, 02:09 PM
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QUOTE(DiGi @ Jul 25 2008, 02:08 PM) ahaha ok sorry forget it. Nobody fault. yes definitely. If the situation ever arises again. Try to look at the bigger picture then you will understand the smaller pieces |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:10 PM
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QUOTE(King83 @ Jul 25 2008, 02:07 PM) My most serious relationship was with a chinese ed girl too... I think that is good. Your partner is just shy but mature. She doesn't talk alot but when she does, she makes a lot of sense... ............... come to think of it, i've never dated an english ed girl before LMAO. Problem today a percentage of ppl shy and also like a sticky magnet. |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:10 PM
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magnets aren't sticky. Fly paper is.
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Jul 25 2008, 02:11 PM
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jul 25 2008, 02:09 PM) yes definitely. If the situation ever arises again. If it ever arises again its too late.Have you ever hear prevention better than cure? Why not master the knowledge and try to prevent? Why must wait it arises again? |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:12 PM
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because in my current situation, there is hardly any opportunity for me to meet Chinese ed guys. Are you saying I should make this a study?
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Jul 25 2008, 02:12 PM
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personally, I dont like people with weak character. it dosent matter which ed it is but chinese ed people tend to be more defensive when confronted and have a lower self esteem.
There are exceptions. But I have not found many yet. |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:13 PM
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jul 25 2008, 02:10 PM) magnets aren't sticky. Fly paper is. u try take another magnet it will stick.So most chinese ed i seen monday - bf/gf tuesday - bf/gf wednesday - bf/gf all week long then tis will start all over every week until it becomes months then years. have problem also bf/gf They too dependant they even forget about their friends. When they get dump? They feel like life is over and keep begging for pityness. Its not the first time i seen this but it happens everyday around me. |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:14 PM
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QUOTE(DiGi @ Jul 25 2008, 02:13 PM) u try take another magnet it will stick. reason #45 why chi eds dont work with me: I HATE STICKY RELATIONSHIPS.So most chinese ed i seen monday - bf/gf tuesday - bf/gf wednesday - bf/gf all week long then tis will start all over every week until it becomes months then years. have problem also bf/gf They too dependant they even forget about their friends. When they get dump? They feel like life is over and keep begging for pityness. Its not the first time i seen this but it happens everyday around me. |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:16 PM
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jul 25 2008, 02:12 PM) because in my current situation, there is hardly any opportunity for me to meet Chinese ed guys. Are you saying I should make this a study? I dont see any harm in that. If you master that studies i would love to learn more from you " What you focus will expand even its good or bad " In life why we are good in some things like business because we go college we go school to learn but there is no class for relationship or love right? How i understand also thru my own studies and having mature friends to brainstorm problem. This post has been edited by DiGi: Jul 25 2008, 02:17 PM |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:16 PM
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So what's the verdict?
EE - outspoken CE - Smart ??? |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:17 PM
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i think i fell for chinese ed girls more easily than english ed...maybe because i always wanted a girl who knows how to speak mandarin...and would love to teach me more about it...
i think i could remember more of the language that way, and, free mandarin tuition...haha and to max, thx for the replies and your time if you aren't gonna reply me by pm's again anymore... i learnt more from you...haha This post has been edited by LostWanderer: Jul 25 2008, 02:18 PM |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:18 PM
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my bf's chinese edu and im english educated
ive always wanted to learn chinese..so it's good =) |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:19 PM
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What i would love from my partner is someone that can educate me and also can share.
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Jul 25 2008, 02:22 PM
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QUOTE(Joey-kun @ Jul 25 2008, 02:14 PM) reason #45 why chi eds dont work with me: I HATE STICKY RELATIONSHIPS. Same here. The way my best guy friend holds his girlfriend to him like she's gonna run away ... if my boyfriend ever did that, I'd go crazy. He's English ed, but he's a little sticky ... so my purpose in being around is to slap him when he gets too up in the clouds.QUOTE(DiGi @ Jul 25 2008, 02:16 PM) I dont see any harm in that. If you master that studies i would love to learn more from you I see no reason why I should study Chinese eds. I like them, I have a bunch of Chinese ed friends and I get along great with them ... but so far, I have seen no exceptions to my stereotype that they are jealous, clingy, possessive, controlling, insecure (as hell) ..." What you focus will expand even its good or bad " In life why we are good in some things like business because we go college we go school to learn but there is no class for relationship or love right? How i understand also thru my own studies and having mature friends to brainstorm problem. |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:28 PM
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QUOTE(DiGi @ Jul 25 2008, 02:16 PM) I dont see any harm in that. If you master that studies i would love to learn more from you why not ask her where she usually resides before suggesting this? " What you focus will expand even its good or bad " In life why we are good in some things like business because we go college we go school to learn but there is no class for relationship or love right? How i understand also thru my own studies and having mature friends to brainstorm problem. |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:30 PM
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jul 25 2008, 02:22 PM) Same here. The way my best guy friend holds his girlfriend to him like she's gonna run away ... if my boyfriend ever did that, I'd go crazy. He's English ed, but he's a little sticky ... so my purpose in being around is to slap him when he gets too up in the clouds. Because you dont see the bigger picture if u do u will understand. Every action always leads to another action. Its all a chain reaction. When you concentrate on something you will always gain more knowledge compare to others they dont bother. I see no reason why I should study Chinese eds. I like them, I have a bunch of Chinese ed friends and I get along great with them ... but so far, I have seen no exceptions to my stereotype that they are jealous, clingy, possessive, controlling, insecure (as hell) ... Have you wonder it gives you a better picture ? like why they act like that? Why they do it? How to change 1? How to avoid someone like that? How to actually know if a person is like that? It tells you so many things but being naive it immediately block your brain. Then all your life you only have that small tiny picture. Then it becomes a habit after it becomes a habit this idea you are having now you will bring till you are old then past it to your children goes on. Added on July 25, 2008, 2:31 pm QUOTE(Joey-kun @ Jul 25 2008, 02:28 PM) why not ask her where she usually resides before suggesting this? I suggest it because its nth to do about where she resides its about the mindset. From nothing can be something or from something can be nothing" when there's a will there's always a way " Sorry if i was rude this just some knowledge i gain from brainstorming and attending alot alot of seminars This post has been edited by DiGi: Jul 25 2008, 02:34 PM |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:40 PM
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QUOTE(DiGi @ Jul 25 2008, 02:30 PM) Because you dont see the bigger picture if u do u will understand. Every action always leads to another action. Its all a chain reaction. When you concentrate on something you will always gain more knowledge compare to others they dont bother. WHY do you even attend seminars on these things? These aren't humongous life changing situations.Have you wonder it gives you a better picture ? like why they act like that? Why they do it? How to change 1? How to avoid someone like that? How to actually know if a person is like that? It tells you so many things but being naive it immediately block your brain. Then all your life you only have that small tiny picture. Then it becomes a habit after it becomes a habit this idea you are having now you will bring till you are old then past it to your children goes on. Added on July 25, 2008, 2:31 pm I suggest it because its nth to do about where she resides its about the mindset. From nothing can be something or from something can be nothing " when there's a will there's always a way " Sorry if i was rude this just some knowledge i gain from brainstorming and attending alot alot of seminars Pfft, I wouldn't allow my boyfriend to hold me like that - like I said it would drive me crazy. But why would I stay and try to change him as if a leopard can change his spots? I'd rather change the leopard than its spots. |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:42 PM
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don't say things are impossible, just say that we'll find a way...that's it...=)
and spunkberry, you are a great talker, i complement you on speaking that way...lol...=) |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:48 PM
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Seminars means its about many things businesses, self motivation , problem solving because the more seminar i attend the bigger the picture i see then people without it at all.
The bigger picture is example your BF he only knows what he knows but by helping him realising what he missing or dont understand it helps him to change. Then when he realise it he can help others to change. Like i said its another chain reaction. IF everyone thinks like you then all also become like you. So negative. Thats why they said the most important of children age is between 1-8 its the most crucial time of the children education how u educate them they will make it a habit and adept to it when they grow up. |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:48 PM
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thank you
I'm not saying it's impossible ... but the reason why people date around is because they're looking for someone who has the characteristics that they like and don't have to change much to accommodate... not because they're looking for someone they can tolerate till death do they part. This post has been edited by spunkberry: Jul 25 2008, 02:49 PM |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:49 PM
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Nothing is impossible !
You set the limit you choose the limit. |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:49 PM
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QUOTE(DiGi @ Jul 25 2008, 02:48 PM) Seminars means its about many things businesses, self motivation , problem solving because the more seminar i attend the bigger the picture i see then people without it at all. these are small things. you are talking about a complete personality.The bigger picture is example your BF he only knows what he knows but by helping him realising what he missing or dont understand it helps him to change. Then when he realise it he can help others to change. Like i said its another chain reaction. IF everyone thinks like you then all also become like you. So negative. Thats why they said the most important of children age is between 1-8 its the most crucial time of the children education how u educate them they will make it a habit and adept to it when they grow up. This post has been edited by spunkberry: Jul 25 2008, 02:50 PM |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:50 PM
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QUOTE(DiGi @ Jul 25 2008, 02:48 PM) Seminars means its about many things businesses, self motivation , problem solving because the more seminar i attend the bigger the picture i see then people without it at all. you do know that dosent work IRL, do you? changing someone's mindset is almost impossible until they lose what they have.The bigger picture is example your BF he only knows what he knows but by helping him realising what he missing or dont understand it helps him to change. Then when he realise it he can help others to change. Like i said its another chain reaction. IF everyone thinks like you then all also become like you. So negative. Thats why they said the most important of children age is between 1-8 its the most crucial time of the children education how u educate them they will make it a habit and adept to it when they grow up. |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:51 PM
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jul 25 2008, 02:48 PM) thank you So thats why most people fail they only look for 1 type of group they let the other group dies.I'm not saying it's impossible ... but the reason why people date around is because they're looking for someone who has the characteristics that they like and don't have to change much to accommodate... not because they're looking for someone they can tolerate till death do they part. Why not make all the group unites and head for 1 direction. haha anyway i think ill end here. Some day you will realise it ! We are just merely human |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:52 PM
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stop using "we are human" as an excuse to back up what you're saying is right and that I'm wrong now but will realize you're right later.
I never said I wouldn't consider chinese eds anymore ... but they're not my preference. Just like how some people on my other forums just don't find non-white people attractive. It's a matter of preference: if you prefer to try to change the chinese ed mindset, I wish you the best of luck - you are definitely going to need it. |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:55 PM
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i won't say that it should be that hard spunkberry...now you are over generalizing...
now try to make some chinese ed fella to fall for you instead of you falling over him, and you might get him to change, probably...haha |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:57 PM
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It's a mindset, Wanderer, do you know how hard it is to break a mindset? I've tried ... and it was to break my OWN mindset ... and it's tough as hell. So what makes you think that breaking ANOTHER's mindset is easier to break than your own?
My Chinese ed ex and I mutually fell for each other ... it wasn't one-sided. Neither asked the other out. This post has been edited by spunkberry: Jul 25 2008, 02:58 PM |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:58 PM
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jul 25 2008, 02:52 PM) stop using "we are human" as an excuse to back up what you're saying is right and that I'm wrong now but will realize you're right later. this what usually happen when u try to educate people. Sorry my fault i am young. Dont need to wish me good luck because i already did manage to change a few. Like i said its your life you choose what to believe what you dont. I dont benefit anything even if u listen. I never said I wouldn't consider chinese eds anymore ... but they're not my preference. Just like how some people on my other forums just don't find non-white people attractive. It's a matter of preference: if you prefer to try to change the chinese ed mindset, I wish you the best of luck - you are definitely going to need it. You are never wrong my dear what you say you are always right because its what you believe. No one is ever wrong There is no right or wrong its just which path you prefer to take. This an example you can always explain and share what you only know. I only can explain what i only know |
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Jul 25 2008, 02:59 PM
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out for a date you mean?
digi, i also admire the way you speak here, in a debate, you learn most, of course... just don't let it go out of end and became an arguement This post has been edited by LostWanderer: Jul 25 2008, 03:01 PM |
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Jul 25 2008, 03:02 PM
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jul 25 2008, 02:57 PM) It's a mindset, Wanderer, do you know how hard it is to break a mindset? I've tried ... and it was to break my OWN mindset ... and it's tough as hell. So what makes you think that breaking ANOTHER's mindset is easier to break than your own? Why not you tell me what is easy in life? Nothing is easy ! To tell you the truth i was a chinese ed all my life ppl around me are so (HELL) negative! I tell you honestly how i change because i met 1 guy that changes my entire life i see everything from a different angle. My Chinese ed ex and I mutually fell for each other ... it wasn't one-sided. Neither asked the other out. Example most of things u share are negative. You channel negative energy so people around you will be negative? Why not try to look at the positive side? YING AND YANG GOOD OR BAD HAPPY AND SAD everything in life is balance but its just what you choose to see. |
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Jul 25 2008, 03:03 PM
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QUOTE(DiGi @ Jul 25 2008, 02:58 PM) this what usually happen when u try to educate people. Sorry my fault i am young. Dont need to wish me good luck because i already did manage to change a few. Like i said its your life you choose what to believe what you dont. I dont benefit anything even if u listen. Maybe you've found the exceptions to the stereotype that I haven't found yet.You are never wrong my dear what you say you are always right because its what you believe. No one is ever wrong There is no right or wrong its just which path you prefer to take. This an example you can always explain and share what you only know. I only can explain what i only know |
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Jul 25 2008, 03:03 PM
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haha i need to get back to real life. have fun dreaming
Added on July 25, 2008, 3:04 pm QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jul 25 2008, 03:03 PM) Maybe you've found the exceptions to the stereotype that I haven't found yet. So whats the harm in trying to find NOW? the chances for you to find it is higher compare to ppl that dont even care.This post has been edited by DiGi: Jul 25 2008, 03:04 PM |
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Jul 25 2008, 03:04 PM
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just let me add you something in my psychology classes
mindset is also known as schema you know, when you see a person, either in race, gender, etc, you already have a mindset of them you tend to generalize these people in whatever category people fit them to you, and these people who feed these information to you are your parents, teachers, friends, media, and so on if you meet someone who is totally out from this schema, you tend to remember them better, but you just are most likely to categorize them as they are individually special, just that there are still many of them who is unlike that one u just met...=) |
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Jul 25 2008, 03:06 PM
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If you think whoever you mix have a negative mindset i suggest you change that friends.
Because if you mix with negative ppl they channel negative energy and all you get is everything negative. YOu mix with positive ppl then everything becomes positive |
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Jul 25 2008, 03:07 PM
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QUOTE(DiGi @ Jul 25 2008, 03:03 PM) haha i need to get back to real life. have fun dreaming Why look? I'm not looking to date anyone. I don't impose my views on others the way you seem to, with your changing their mindset.Added on July 25, 2008, 3:04 pm So whats the harm in trying to find NOW? the chances for you to find it is higher compare to ppl that dont even care. QUOTE(LostWanderer @ Jul 25 2008, 03:04 PM) just let me add you something in my psychology classes That's a stereotype. A mindset is something what I have - men are all out to want me for one thing and one thing only and there's no reasoning to it. For example. I have met some that have made me loosen this.mindset is also known as schema you know, when you see a person, either in race, gender, etc, you already have a mindset of them you tend to generalize these people in whatever category people fit them to you, and these people who feed these information to you are your parents, teachers, friends, media, and so on if you meet someone who is totally out from this schema, you tend to remember them better, but you just are most likely to categorize them as they are individually special, just that there are still many of them who is unlike that one u just met...=) This post has been edited by spunkberry: Jul 25 2008, 03:08 PM |
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Jul 25 2008, 03:08 PM
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seriously speaking, if you want to be a happy person, just begin a day feeling happy and so on, if something bad turns up, at least you are still alot more ok then beginning a day filled with sorrow, right?=)
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Jul 25 2008, 03:08 PM
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QUOTE(DiGi @ Jul 25 2008, 03:06 PM) If you think whoever you mix have a negative mindset i suggest you change that friends. But first remember, acknowledge the power of what MIND can do. I see the way you see, but i think you shouldn't force them whether it be direct or indirectly. We just have to RESPECT them. Respect do arise from positivity....don't we learned that from seminars? Because if you mix with negative ppl they channel negative energy and all you get is everything negative. YOu mix with positive ppl then everything becomes positive |
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Jul 25 2008, 03:10 PM
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ok, looks like i will need to look back into my notes about mindset then...haha
yea, respect is another factor i suppose, thanks for bringing that up pein...=) |
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Jul 25 2008, 03:16 PM
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I respect other people enough to voice my views but not expect them to conform. How about that?
Hi pein-pein. XD This post has been edited by spunkberry: Jul 25 2008, 03:16 PM |
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Jul 25 2008, 03:18 PM
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chinese-ed gals more soft-spoken, i think they'll be better wife than english-ed gals.
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Jul 25 2008, 03:20 PM
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jul 25 2008, 03:16 PM) I respect other people enough to voice my views but not expect them to conform. How about that? here's something I want you guys to conform, stop arguing, can or not? Hi pein-pein. XD SB, I think you had a bad past, leave it, dun keep bringing up like you're so damn sour about it. Doesn't look good on you. |
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Jul 25 2008, 03:25 PM
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QUOTE(unknown warrior @ Jul 25 2008, 03:20 PM) here's something I want you guys to conform, stop arguing, can or not? I'm not. And I know you like to fire me. The instant I saw your post, I knew. And I used it as an example. How about that?SB, I think you had a bad past, leave it, dun keep bringing up like you're so damn sour about it. Doesn't look good on you. |
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Jul 25 2008, 03:25 PM
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jul 25 2008, 03:16 PM) I respect other people enough to voice my views but not expect them to conform. How about that? Exactly, well put it this way. As im reading some of his points that he pointed out, he does however have intention to make you guys loosen and open your mind abit. In a way his intention was good. But however, there's a slight mistake in what he did. He should learn the concept of Persuasion. We do know regardless of what went wrong in a relationship, whether we like it or not, the blame will be directly pointed back to us. But of course, this is the one we should kept secret in ourselves and not to point it out to others. Secrecy does play a role. Besides, if he can't convince you nor opened your mind, what does it say? It means the 'blame' will be back on him for not being able to convince you guys as i saw the result clearly from your response regardless how he perceive how 'negative' you guys are. Hi pein-pein. XD As a conclusion, respect is part of conclusion. Besides, why call me pein pein..Geli la~~ |
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Jul 25 2008, 03:26 PM
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jul 25 2008, 03:25 PM) I'm not. And I know you like to fire me. The instant I saw your post, I knew. And I used it as an example. How about that? Sigh...you trying to be mature and all that, here you fail. |
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Jul 25 2008, 03:29 PM
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QUOTE(peinsama @ Jul 25 2008, 03:25 PM) Exactly, well put it this way. As im reading some of his points that he pointed out, he does however have intention to make you guys loosen and open your mind abit. In a way his intention was good. But however, there's a slight mistake in what he did. He should learn the concept of Persuasion. We do know regardless of what went wrong in a relationship, whether we like it or not, the blame will be directly pointed back to us. But of course, this is the one we should kept secret in ourselves and not to point it out to others. Secrecy does play a role. Besides, if he can't convince you nor opened your mind, what does it say? It means the 'blame' will be back on him for not being able to convince you guys as i saw the result clearly from your response regardless how he perceive how 'negative' you guys are. LOL pein-pein. I accept that it always takes two in a relationship, which is why I do not deny that I have some fault as well.As a conclusion, respect is part of conclusion. Besides, why call me pein pein..Geli la~~ QUOTE(unknown warrior @ Jul 25 2008, 03:26 PM) Sigh...you trying to be mature and all that, here you fail. Not really, you just don't like me. Says so in all your posts regarding mine. Besides, I don't really care about whether you think I am. You're not one of the users on here that make me feel happy being around. |
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Jul 25 2008, 03:30 PM
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jul 25 2008, 03:29 PM) LOL pein-pein. I accept that it always takes two in a relationship, which is why I do not deny that I have some fault as well. Absolute responsibility is the key. Keep this a secret to yourself, spunk spunk |
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Jul 25 2008, 03:31 PM
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HAHAHHHAHA spunk spunk.
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Jul 25 2008, 03:36 PM
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jul 25 2008, 03:29 PM) Not really, you just don't like me. Says so in all your posts regarding mine. Besides, I don't really care about whether you think I am. You're not one of the users on here that make me feel happy being around. LoL. Somehow I don't know why I affect you so much. |
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Jul 25 2008, 03:39 PM
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because humans are, after all emotional creatures who loves good attention?
er...think of it as some stranger passing by and criticize on your clothing for example and you might get the point...XD however, highly self esteem people usually tend to feel these criticizes the most, and it's true...=) |
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Jul 25 2008, 03:43 PM
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no joke. LOL
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Jul 25 2008, 03:49 PM
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spunk, you are referring to my statement, right?
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Jul 25 2008, 03:51 PM
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yes your statement. Are you a psychology major?
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Jul 25 2008, 03:52 PM
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yes, and you?lol
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Jul 25 2008, 03:54 PM
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QUOTE(peinsama @ Jul 25 2008, 03:25 PM) Exactly, well put it this way. As im reading some of his points that he pointed out, he does however have intention to make you guys loosen and open your mind abit. In a way his intention was good. But however, there's a slight mistake in what he did. He should learn the concept of Persuasion. We do know regardless of what went wrong in a relationship, whether we like it or not, the blame will be directly pointed back to us. But of course, this is the one we should kept secret in ourselves and not to point it out to others. Secrecy does play a role. Besides, if he can't convince you nor opened your mind, what does it say? It means the 'blame' will be back on him for not being able to convince you guys as i saw the result clearly from your response regardless how he perceive how 'negative' you guys are. Haha sorry thank you for helping explain. I am very bad in explaining thing but i dont like to force ppl ( your so called persuasion ) Like some ppl when their mindset is fix they will be the comfort zone it protect themselves from everything ppl say . I dont blame them but at least i know i tried.As a conclusion, respect is part of conclusion. Besides, why call me pein pein..Geli la~~ |
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Jul 25 2008, 03:57 PM
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QUOTE(LostWanderer @ Jul 25 2008, 03:52 PM) yes, and you?lol no funder. I don't mind psychology majors as long as they don't do their psychobabble on me. Their favorite phrase is "That's textbook" and it drives me crazy. I'm doing EE. This post has been edited by spunkberry: Jul 25 2008, 03:57 PM |
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Jul 25 2008, 03:59 PM
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Have u ever felt an energy or a force thats very powerful and it keep channeling among a group of ppl it just makes everything feels good.
Haha anyway its ok i rest my case. |
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Jul 25 2008, 04:00 PM
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digi, persuasion, is not forcing, don't categorize them both together...=)
persuasion is an art of changing one's perception as i remember persuasion, lets say you are attending a seminar on being environmental friendly to factory operators who should you employ as your speaker? a) an environmentalist? b) another factory operator who practices environmental friendly methods? although asking an environmentalist is a good thing, as he is most likely to be more knowledgeable on these things, but in this situation, b ) would be likely a better choice as people would like to listen to the field they are more likely to be involved in and listen to them comparing to a phd holder...=) get my point? to spunkberry, tell me more about that textbook phrase...sounds new to me...LOL and mind my blurness...what's EE again?lol This post has been edited by LostWanderer: Jul 25 2008, 04:02 PM |
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Jul 25 2008, 04:00 PM
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jul 25 2008, 03:57 PM) no funder. I don't mind psychology majors as long as they don't do their psychobabble on me. Their favorite phrase is "That's textbook" and it drives me crazy. tat kind of mindset can be in tats a joke dude. Do you need to study psychology to understand human?I'm doing EE. |
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QUOTE(DiGi @ Jul 25 2008, 03:54 PM) Haha sorry thank you for helping explain. I am very bad in explaining thing but i dont like to force ppl ( your so called persuasion ) Like some ppl when their mindset is fix they will be the comfort zone it protect themselves from everything ppl say . I dont blame them but at least i know i tried. Put it this way, the most profound way to describe the method of persuasion, is to show to OTHERS that we're INTERESTED with them. Trust me bro, i believe you will get the idea |
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QUOTE(LostWanderer @ Jul 25 2008, 04:00 PM) digi, persuasion, is not forcing, don't categorize them both together...=) from wat i understand persuasion means something u ask repeatly or doing it repeatly.persuasion is an art of changing one's perception as i remember persuasion, lets say you are attending a seminar on being environmental friendly to factory operators who should you employ as your speaker? a) an environmentalist? b) another factory operator who practices environmental friendly methods? although asking an environmentalist is a good thing, as he is most likely to be more knowledgeable on these things, but in this situation, b ) would be likely a better choice as people would like to listen to the field they are more likely to be involved in and listen to them comparing to a phd holder...=) get my point? I might not understand your persuasion but my art is more to showing oneself the big picture. |
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Jul 25 2008, 04:02 PM
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QUOTE(DiGi @ Jul 25 2008, 04:00 PM) tat kind of mindset can be in tats a joke dude. Do you need to study psychology to understand human? I have no idea what you just said. LOL but I have a psychology major friend who does exactly that - over analyzes people and thinks he's superior because of that. But that's just him ... so far. |
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Jul 25 2008, 04:03 PM
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QUOTE(peinsama @ Jul 25 2008, 04:01 PM) Put it this way, the most profound way to describe the method of persuasion, is to show to OTHERS that we're INTERESTED with them. Trust me bro, i believe you will get the idea persuasion means showing others we're interested with them. Thats a new line to me. Thank you will study on that topic more. |
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Jul 25 2008, 04:03 PM
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QUOTE(DiGi @ Jul 25 2008, 04:01 PM) from wat i understand persuasion means something u ask repeatly or doing it repeatly. Nope. Have you tried writing a persuasive speech? There are certain things you must do.I might not understand your persuasion but my art is more to showing oneself the big picture. Persuading someone is the act of trying to convince someone to believe what you believe, do what you do. Not showing the big picture or asking repeatedly or whatever it is you just said it is. This post has been edited by spunkberry: Jul 25 2008, 04:04 PM |
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Jul 25 2008, 04:05 PM
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QUOTE(DiGi @ Jul 25 2008, 04:03 PM) persuasion means showing others we're interested with them. Thats a new line to me. Thank you will study on that topic more. No no no...my friend, is not the conclusion of it, its the method to achieve it. |
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Jul 25 2008, 04:05 PM
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no, you don't need to study psych to understand human...
we understand human on our own way but by studying psych, you just get those terms which makes them (human) more complicated than you know them already...LOL This post has been edited by LostWanderer: Jul 25 2008, 04:05 PM |
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Jul 25 2008, 04:06 PM
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jul 25 2008, 04:02 PM) I have no idea what you just said. LOL but I have a psychology major friend who does exactly that - over analyzes people and thinks he's superior because of that. But that's just him ... so far. This post has been edited by DiGi: Jul 25 2008, 04:06 PM |
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Jul 25 2008, 04:10 PM
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digi, that's a good thing that you realize what would be the less of you if there isn't a buddy which helped you along your road of life
now you just want to share that knowledge you gain to help others, which is also a good thing...=) This post has been edited by LostWanderer: Jul 25 2008, 04:10 PM |
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Jul 25 2008, 04:10 PM
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jul 25 2008, 04:03 PM) Nope. Have you tried writing a persuasive speech? There are certain things you must do. its not but urge or convince is an action you do more than 1 time so its call repeatly. Persuading someone is the act of trying to convince someone to believe what you believe, do what you do. Not showing the big picture or asking repeatedly or whatever it is you just said it is. But i do get the other idea what your persuasion means. Thank you Added on July 25, 2008, 4:12 pm QUOTE(LostWanderer @ Jul 25 2008, 04:10 PM) digi, that's a good thing that you realize what would be the less of you if there isn't a buddy which helped you along your road of life Yeah. i do realize that if without him i might be still saying how my life sux now you just want to share that knowledge you gain to help others, which is also a good thing also...=) Thank you for that compliment too. I have always wonder what if i never met him i can imagine where my life would be heading. This post has been edited by DiGi: Jul 25 2008, 04:12 PM |
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Jul 25 2008, 04:12 PM
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you don't need to be repeatedly exposed to the stimuli to be persuaded, you just get accustomed to it, through tenacity...like what your parents told you to not talk to strangers or if not you will get kidnapped or something like that...lol
if the persuasion was strong, like what martin luther king jr or mohammad ghandi is, you just need it once, and there, you change...=) This post has been edited by LostWanderer: Jul 25 2008, 04:14 PM |
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Jul 25 2008, 04:15 PM
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QUOTE(LostWanderer @ Jul 25 2008, 04:12 PM) you don't need to be repeatedly exposed to the stimuli to be persuaded, you just get accustomed to it, through tenacity...like what your parents told you to not talk to strangers or if not you will get kidnapped or something like that...lol yea my parents doesnt persuade. They will repeat it again and again so it gets screw into my head.Anyway thank you lostwanderer for sharing i gain some knowledge from you. Added on July 25, 2008, 4:16 pm QUOTE(LostWanderer @ Jul 25 2008, 04:12 PM) you don't need to be repeatedly exposed to the stimuli to be persuaded, you just get accustomed to it, through tenacity...like what your parents told you to not talk to strangers or if not you will get kidnapped or something like that...lol You have a point. I guess i need to master the art of persuasion then.if the persuasion was strong, like what martin luther king jr or mohammad ghandi is, you just need it once, and there, you change...=) This post has been edited by DiGi: Jul 25 2008, 04:16 PM |
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Jul 25 2008, 04:17 PM
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there are many ways to persuade people. If you do it often its call manipulating
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Jul 25 2008, 04:19 PM
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QUOTE(Joey-kun @ Jul 25 2008, 04:17 PM) there are many ways to persuade people. If you do it often its call manipulating It depends persuasion could be good sometimes and even bad. |
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Jul 25 2008, 04:21 PM
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yup, manipulating is also another form of persuasion, the only difference is, manipulating just gets the other person to follow your way, while persuasion is to change one's mind...lol
in short, manipulation is usually for raking in self benefits, i believe come on digi, sometimes, it's not probably your style as well, but in persuasion, there might be also the need for another to change if this mindset was shaky, then you might get to break through it easily, but if it was strong, you get fired back, it just becomes stronger...so, the battle continues...and the winner stays with their points the loser, either one gives up persuading or the persuadee changes his or her mindset, and it became the opposite extreme then...=) it's all in the books...XD ok, i might sound confusing above, sorry...in short and better english if the victor is the persuader, he makes the persuadee on his side, and the persuadee stand now is as strong as the persuader if the persuader loses, this will cause the persuadee to have a stronger point of view, due to the idea generation which happened at then, and would have a stronger point than before the persuasion...=) This post has been edited by LostWanderer: Jul 25 2008, 04:29 PM |
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Jul 25 2008, 04:21 PM
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i like english educated girls
because normally the way they speak much better their style also simple but nice not like those chinese educated normally very ahlian and lala |
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Jul 25 2008, 04:29 PM
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I have seen NO english ed girl that overdress themselves attempting to look like the Japanese
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Jul 25 2008, 04:30 PM
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haha, there are nice chinese ed girls out there too you know, and i find chinese ed girls are more likely to be soft spoken then english ed girls...
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Jul 25 2008, 04:35 PM
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I know, but I'm just saying that there have been NO english ed girls that attempt to dress like the Japanese. I have nothing against Chinese ed girls ... but again, I have seen no exception to what I believe they are.
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Jul 25 2008, 04:38 PM
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Japanese Girls = Superior...
If i can't have Japanese Girls, the next best thing will do --> chinese ed girls |
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Jul 25 2008, 04:42 PM
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You - Inferior.
How to get superior girls? *runs away laughing* This post has been edited by spunkberry: Jul 25 2008, 04:42 PM |
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Jul 25 2008, 05:00 PM
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It all depends on personal/individual preferrences. This question will be never ending coz everyone's preferrences is different. Period.
*I don't hold anything against those kawaii wannabees. It's just somehow the fashion is not very welcomed here thus getting them being labelled lalaz ( although some is REALLY a lala ). I like to see TW or JP girls dress like that thou. |
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Jul 25 2008, 05:01 PM
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Japanese girls can pull it off. Not Malaysian girls because their complexion is not fair enough. I've seen one girl pull it off though - LOADS of makeup but she looked good blond.
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Jul 25 2008, 07:11 PM
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how about those from the states?
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Jul 25 2008, 07:23 PM
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they're naturally blond. lol
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Jul 25 2008, 09:01 PM
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wwwoooooooo...............sweet
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Jul 26 2008, 04:30 PM
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jul 25 2008, 04:29 PM) I have seen NO english ed girl that overdress themselves attempting to look like the Japanese LOL HURRAY FOR TRASHY FOBS. i have to agree with you as well *thinks back tohigh school* |
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Jul 26 2008, 05:08 PM
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To be honest, for my part, im really honored and thankful that im english educated, but if the Chinese Educated people did say that we're arrogant or proud, shouldn't we give this a thought as well? Yes, their mentality could be horrid, but if people do say we English educated are arrogant, then i believe we should look from their perspective as well. Maybe some of us english educated here are arrogant in a way.
Any suggestions? |
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Jul 26 2008, 05:31 PM
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QUOTE(mypenandpencil @ Jul 26 2008, 12:24 AM) eng ed girls have a very high maintainence fee Totally agree on this.It's better to date a girl that's in the moderate line. |
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Jul 26 2008, 07:43 PM
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NOT all english eds thankyouverymuch
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Jul 26 2008, 08:05 PM
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QUOTE(mypenandpencil @ Jul 26 2008, 12:24 AM) eng ed girls have a very higher maintainence fee Edited for Truthz. Education doesn't matter that much when Prada or Gucci come to mind. There are chinese ed. girls that are high maintenance as well. The only thing is, don't bother using wit or sarcasm much on chinese educated guys or girls, you'll just get silent stares. |
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Jul 26 2008, 08:07 PM
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jul 25 2008, 05:01 PM) Japanese girls can pull it off. Not Malaysian girls because their complexion is not fair enough. hahaha so true living in khatulistiwa country is not good 4 the skin when we compare ourselves with the japanese |
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I thank myself lucky to be English/Malay educated. I can say it contributed by opening up my views and exposure more. Schools such as Chinese schools, Sekolah Agama and Tamil schools tend to produce more close minded individuals though from experience with people educated in that manner it is not always the case.
Personally, I can't fully 'connect' (in a communication point of view...cough) with a Chinese ed girl as a gf because of the cultural differences even though I'm Chinese myself. This post has been edited by wilsoncvt: Jul 26 2008, 09:54 PM |
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Jul 26 2008, 09:57 PM
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QUOTE(mypenandpencil @ Jul 26 2008, 09:36 PM) in general thankyouverymuch. I was joking around thankyouverymuch |
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Sum how chinese ed gf thinking not as gud as english ed gf. They get misunderstood easily in sum case when u try 2 explain stuff.
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Jul 27 2008, 12:30 AM
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Im a guy borned to be eng ed, but i prefer chinese ed gals..
just doesnt look natural for a chinese gal speaking english to me lulz after we're all have chinese type of mothertongue, if wan sampat use english better go english country loh.. lame theory isnt it |
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QUOTE(zephyrus9999 @ Jul 27 2008, 12:30 AM) Im a guy borned to be eng ed, but i prefer chinese ed gals.. lol wut? can't understand what you're saying.just doesnt look natural for a chinese gal speaking english to me lulz after we're all have chinese type of mothertongue, if wan sampat use english better go english country loh.. lame theory isnt it oh yeah, irony. |
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Jul 27 2008, 01:29 AM
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What's with the racial dissing?
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Jul 27 2008, 06:04 AM
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English/chinese ed girls ftw
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Jul 27 2008, 10:56 AM
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vo0de3 ftw
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Jul 27 2008, 11:03 AM
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I donno what to say about this thread.
Personally speaking, if you're relatively good in both languages, both sides of the women fall for you easily. I've had most relationships with English eds despite being Chinese educated. EDIT: Japanese women, superior. This post has been edited by LittleGhost: Jul 27 2008, 11:03 AM |
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Jul 27 2008, 11:04 AM
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i saw ghost in da morning
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Jul 27 2008, 01:44 PM
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QUOTE(LittleGhost @ Jul 27 2008, 11:03 AM) I donno what to say about this thread. That's because your d!ck has given you this warped sense of what Japan is. All I can say is: prepare to be a little disappointed, since Japanese girl students make up less than 30% of the population. You do know Japan is full of old people right?Personally speaking, if you're relatively good in both languages, both sides of the women fall for you easily. I've had most relationships with English eds despite being Chinese educated. EDIT: Japanese women, superior. This post has been edited by spunkberry: Jul 27 2008, 01:44 PM |
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Jul 27 2008, 02:36 PM
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jul 27 2008, 01:44 PM) That's because your d!ck has given you this warped sense of what Japan is. All I can say is: prepare to be a little disappointed, since Japanese girl students make up less than 30% of the population. You do know Japan is full of old people right? why so srs? |
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Jul 27 2008, 03:07 PM
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and you weren't?
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Jul 27 2008, 04:10 PM
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i cant say i m chinese-ed or english-ed... coz i think i am rojak already
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Jul 27 2008, 08:09 PM
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I was english ed,but when I studied in " A University",i mixed around with 99% chinese ed girls which i had a pretty hard time communicating.
Say all you wan,but i think chinese ed girls more "hamsap" compared to english ed girls...no offence but this is frm experience. Chinese ed girls are very emotional and normally take every single word you say as a serious statement. English ed girls are more happy go lucky,more sociable and easier to mix around with. The fact is english ed girls are NORMALLY from wealthier families compared to chinese ed girls.Normally ya,not always! |
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Jul 27 2008, 08:36 PM
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QUOTE(kevin23 @ Jul 27 2008, 08:09 PM) I was english ed,but when I studied in " A University",i mixed around with 99% chinese ed girls which i had a pretty hard time communicating. Who says? You've yet to see chinese ed girls from private schools anyway.They usually don't attend local universities after their Year 12 thanks to our biased education system.Say all you wan,but i think chinese ed girls more "hamsap" compared to english ed girls...no offence but this is frm experience. Chinese ed girls are very emotional and normally take every single word you say as a serious statement. English ed girls are more happy go lucky,more sociable and easier to mix around with. The fact is english ed girls are NORMALLY from wealthier families compared to chinese ed girls.Normally ya,not always! Good luck with your english educated chinese girls courting loser, that's the only option set aside for you on the table. This post has been edited by ark890: Jul 27 2008, 08:37 PM |
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Jul 27 2008, 08:44 PM
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QUOTE(ark890 @ Jul 27 2008, 08:36 PM) Who says? You've yet to see chinese ed girls from private schools anyway.They usually don't attend local universities after their Year 12 thanks to our biased education system. Why so serious ,loser? You got PMS?Good luck with your english educated chinese girls courting loser, that's the only option set aside for you on the table. |
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Jul 27 2008, 08:50 PM
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ya lo why so serious ?
this is internet |
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Jul 27 2008, 08:51 PM
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is this flame war?
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Jul 27 2008, 08:51 PM
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QUOTE(kevin23 @ Jul 27 2008, 08:44 PM) Why so serious ,loser? You got PMS? Your options are limited and you're miserably incomplete?Tell you something which COULD piss you off even more.Chinese educated parents never like bananas like you being part of their family.It's considered a degradation.Good luck in your attempts in changing their thoughts. |
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Jul 27 2008, 08:52 PM
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chill chill
it's just his opinion everyone has own opinion as well |
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Jul 27 2008, 08:52 PM
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QUOTE(vo0de3_x | oum@n @ Jul 27 2008, 08:50 PM) ya lo why so serious ? Isn't there a forum flame pic with the caption "THE INTERNET IS SERIOUS BUSINESS" or something? this is internet Personally I am OK with english & canto speaking girls. But with mandarin speaking girls I got no confidence to flirt / sweet talk them. Cos my command of mandarin damn lousy. |
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Jul 27 2008, 08:53 PM
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QUOTE(deodorant @ Jul 27 2008, 08:52 PM) Isn't there a forum flame pic with the caption "THE INTERNET IS SERIOUS BUSINESS" or something? it has but all of us diff opinion, so dun care wat they said then wont cause any conflict or arguement Personally I am OK with english & canto speaking girls. But with mandarin speaking girls I got no confidence to flirt / sweet talk them. Cos my command of mandarin damn lousy. |
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Jul 27 2008, 08:58 PM
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Some people are too strayed away with their lust and wet thoughts that they think Chinese girls would simply fall for them.
DREAM ON! |
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Jul 27 2008, 09:09 PM
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QUOTE(ark890 @ Jul 27 2008, 08:58 PM) Some people are too strayed away with their lust and wet thoughts that they think Chinese girls would simply fall for them. Typical chinese ed guy...oops!DREAM ON! |
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Jul 27 2008, 10:30 PM
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QUOTE(kevin23 @ Jul 27 2008, 09:09 PM) Typical chinese ed guy...oops! are you chinese?i am chinese but background would be english-ed honestly i wished i could master chinese language cause now there's abundance of beautiful chinese girls with chinese-ed background so what would you like to say about it? |
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Jul 28 2008, 07:16 PM
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Knowing English, Mandarin, Cantonese, Hokkien AND Hakka sure has its advantages.
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Jul 28 2008, 07:50 PM
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ER...im English-ed...but my bf is Chinese-ed, still ok oh..quite fun...only I duno how 2 communicate with his family members..cuz they are pure chinese-ed...I teach him english, he teach me mandarin, and he alwis laugh the way I speak those mandarin words out..So, I think its up 2 both parties...how they see things..
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QUOTE(gracechew @ Jul 28 2008, 07:50 PM) ER...im English-ed...but my bf is Chinese-ed, still ok oh..quite fun...only I duno how 2 communicate with his family members..cuz they are pure chinese-ed...I teach him english, he teach me mandarin, and he alwis laugh the way I speak those mandarin words out..So, I think its up 2 both parties...how they see things.. hello grace chew finally i found u.......how ur life now?? |
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Jul 29 2008, 02:19 AM
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english ed for me
erm no offense but i have talked to chinese ed-very limited convo and they are not really witty,humourous or knowledgeble in worldly stuff,if you know what i'm saying. like philosophy,psychology,and up to date stuff, yeah..they are kinda lacking in that area. I don't necessarily mean education. But just common stuff..for instance: i once said that guys like to see hot girls as eye candy. and she did not know the meaning of eye candy. something like that-common usage of terms are not recognized by them. and yeah on the chinese ed- hokkien and cantonese speaking girls tend to speak very roughly. like the way and how they pronounce their words,very rough and not ladylike. girls who speak english are more proper and listenable This post has been edited by three forty five: Jul 29 2008, 02:19 AM |
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QUOTE(three forty five @ Jul 29 2008, 02:19 AM) english ed for me chinese ad gurls are oni updated with their chinese ed stuff..i mean english ed guys may nt understand simple chinese ed ppl terms..erm no offense but i have talked to chinese ed-very limited convo and they are not really witty,humourous or knowledgeble in worldly stuff,if you know what i'm saying. like philosophy,psychology,and up to date stuff, yeah..they are kinda lacking in that area. I don't necessarily mean education. But just common stuff..for instance: i once said that guys like to see hot girls as eye candy. and she did not know the meaning of eye candy. something like that-common usage of terms are not recognized by them. and yeah on the chinese ed- hokkien and cantonese speaking girls tend to speak very roughly. like the way and how they pronounce their words,very rough and not ladylike. girls who speak english are more proper and listenable nt all rough mer..hehe.. |
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hmmm.. interesting. from my experience with both,
Pros of English Ed - better educated in general, has an educated opinion on things and can blend in with different crowds much easier. Communication is much easier as well coz everything can be described in words. much easier for friends and family to accept and interact with COns of English Ed- can tend to be very argumentative because of a belief that she ONLY is right, may tend to be very $$$ dependant (read: shopping!!!:, may be too open, believes that she is above any housework, and from my experience, not as committed to a relationship or working for a future with the other half. Pros of CHinese ED (speaks little or no english, and very little written english) - very understanding (understands that work gives her other half alot of stress, understands that she needs to look after her guy when he's sick, not feeling well etc), trys to work out a good future for the couple, understands that a couple needs to work together to make things work out and be happy etc, not as materialistic, can adjust to different lifestyles (if you're an average joe she'll be there with you, if the sh1t hit the fan and you lost almost everything she'll be there with you too) Chinese Ed Cons - Can be too naive and easily influenced by friends, can be very very emotional over small matters. OVerall, i think Chinese Ed is better, as a semi-bannana, even tho it's difficult to bring my gf out for dinners etc sometimes coz of language barriers, it's still better for me as i find that chinese ed girls are not out there soo much for the fun, but more to settling down into a good future. Added on July 31, 2008, 2:23 am QUOTE(ark890 @ Jul 27 2008, 08:51 PM) Your options are limited and you're miserably incomplete? lol. tell me about it. i hate the stupid "i've eaten more salt that you've eaten rice" line. it's soo bloody lame.you tell em what you've achieved, and they tell you - "your father gave all to you mah, i started from nothing". pfft. old foggies still living in the 1960s...Tell you something which COULD piss you off even more.Chinese educated parents never like bananas like you being part of their family.It's considered a degradation.Good luck in your attempts in changing their thoughts. Added on July 31, 2008, 2:37 am QUOTE(ark890 @ Jul 27 2008, 08:58 PM) Some people are too strayed away with their lust and wet thoughts that they think Chinese girls would simply fall for them. ROFL..... dude, who implied so? your statement is very naive.. hahaha.. life is very simple... No Money, No Honey!!! lust? haha, you sound very very righteous. you celibate or sth? no offense man. you've never experienced lust........... y....e....t????DREAM ON! Added on July 31, 2008, 2:46 am QUOTE(kevin23 @ Jul 27 2008, 08:09 PM) I was english ed,but when I studied in " A University",i mixed around with 99% chinese ed girls which i had a pretty hard time communicating. 101% correct!!! more open too in terms of physical intimacy. One thing i've noticed is that teenage pregnancy is more prevalent in predominantly chinese populated areas. e.g Kepong and Cheras areas.Say all you wan,but i think chinese ed girls more "hamsap" compared to english ed girls...no offence but this is frm experience. Chinese ed girls are very emotional and normally take every single word you say as a serious statement. English ed girls are more happy go lucky,more sociable and easier to mix around with. The fact is english ed girls are NORMALLY from wealthier families compared to chinese ed girls.Normally ya,not always! This post has been edited by KKKRD: Jul 31 2008, 02:46 AM |
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QUOTE(wonghanjiang @ Jul 29 2008, 12:17 AM) hello grace chew finally i found u.......how ur life now?? hahaha!!why are u finding me?? yeah im fine...im quite busy nowadays...cuz im having exams now..hehehe!study study study... u say u work at lowyat??? roughly u know how much they sell psp at there?? without the pro-dual memory card.. |
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Jul 31 2008, 10:36 AM
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i dunno la..the chrateristics described..i find them in both in chinese ed and english ed.. eg. english ed chiqs are ham sap oso mar dressing style..movies watched chinese ed gurls are oso good with general knowledge...some la i suppose..kekeke.. where gt gurls nt emotional 1? |
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QUOTE(KKKRD @ Jul 31 2008, 02:19 AM) hmmm.. interesting. from my experience with both, hmm...ur pro and cons some part may be right...but some parts are wrong too..Pros of English Ed - better educated in general, has an educated opinion on things and can blend in with different crowds much easier. Communication is much easier as well coz everything can be described in words. much easier for friends and family to accept and interact with COns of English Ed- can tend to be very argumentative because of a belief that she ONLY is right, may tend to be very $$$ dependant (read: shopping!!!:, may be too open, believes that she is above any housework, and from my experience, not as committed to a relationship or working for a future with the other half. Pros of CHinese ED (speaks little or no english, and very little written english) - very understanding (understands that work gives her other half alot of stress, understands that she needs to look after her guy when he's sick, not feeling well etc), trys to work out a good future for the couple, understands that a couple needs to work together to make things work out and be happy etc, not as materialistic, can adjust to different lifestyles (if you're an average joe she'll be there with you, if the sh1t hit the fan and you lost almost everything she'll be there with you too) Chinese Ed Cons - Can be too naive and easily influenced by friends, can be very very emotional over small matters. OVerall, i think Chinese Ed is better, as a semi-bannana, even tho it's difficult to bring my gf out for dinners etc sometimes coz of language barriers, it's still better for me as i find that chinese ed girls are not out there soo much for the fun, but more to settling down into a good future. Added on July 31, 2008, 2:23 am lol. tell me about it. i hate the stupid "i've eaten more salt that you've eaten rice" line. it's soo bloody lame.you tell em what you've achieved, and they tell you - "your father gave all to you mah, i started from nothing". pfft. old foggies still living in the 1960s... Added on July 31, 2008, 2:37 am ROFL..... dude, who implied so? your statement is very naive.. hahaha.. life is very simple... No Money, No Honey!!! lust? haha, you sound very very righteous. you celibate or sth? no offense man. you've never experienced lust........... y....e....t???? Added on July 31, 2008, 2:46 am 101% correct!!! more open too in terms of physical intimacy. One thing i've noticed is that teenage pregnancy is more prevalent in predominantly chinese populated areas. e.g Kepong and Cheras areas. I'm eng-ed gal..when I enter TARC for A-levels at wangsa maju....of cos..i need to mix around, and in my course..I'M THE ONLY FEW ONES WHO DON'T KNOW MANDARIN...I meet different types of mandarin speaking gals...Some like you say in the pro for chinese-ed...Think of the serious things more...But I knew this mandarin gal..First day couple up, already buat buat...Too fast????  But what I sometimes don't like about too eng-ed gals is that they tend to be "action" cuz they can speak fluent english..Like got American or Aussie accent...bla bla bla...There was once, I was at Nike outlet cashier, these 3 gals keep talking loudly with their Aussie accent...(so noisy) Then, they even told the person in the counter they are studying at Australia when he did even ask them... Overall, I like both, it depends on their personalities only..If they are B*T*H then I won't go with them...As for guys..I don't know... |
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Jul 31 2008, 11:01 AM
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chinese ed gf and english ed gf got no difference la,it's the same la actually,both r chicks,sometimes chinese ed gf can be the same wit english ed gf la,their background is most important imo,
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Jul 31 2008, 12:04 PM
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i prefer personality over background though...lol
u can, however, always debate which is more important over another though, looks vs personality...=) |
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Jul 31 2008, 12:25 PM
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personality eventually wins ... but I for one, haven't met a chinese-ed person with whom my views don't clash horrifically.
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Jul 31 2008, 01:33 PM
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QUOTE(LostWanderer @ Jul 31 2008, 12:04 PM) i prefer personality over background though...lol u can, however, always debate which is more important over another though, looks vs personality...=) QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jul 31 2008, 12:25 PM) personality eventually wins ... but I for one, haven't met a chinese-ed person with whom my views don't clash horrifically. U both seems to forget that some part of our personalities and characteristics arise from our background as well. |
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Jul 31 2008, 01:47 PM
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yea, as in ppl with a rich background suppose to be slightly more "arrogant" than poorer/average people right?
but, well, i think in malaysia, not many are like that...or at least for those whom i know...a good thing?XD |
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Jul 31 2008, 02:02 PM
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The question is who is to say arrogance is wrong?
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Jul 31 2008, 02:10 PM
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well, it's not entirely wrong, but you know, malaysia is also kinda funny...
it's more like a moral judgment, not law...so, yea...no definite answer to that, just whether how much are you affected by the arrogance you displayed to the "victim" and how much the victim could take in your "snobbishness" |
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Oct 5 2008, 07:16 AM
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QUOTE(gracechew @ Jul 31 2008, 10:48 AM) But what I sometimes don't like about too eng-ed gals is that they tend to be "action" cuz they can speak fluent english..Like got American or Aussie accent...bla bla bla...There was once, I was at Nike outlet cashier, these 3 gals keep talking loudly with their Aussie accent...(so noisy) Then, they even told the person in the counter they are studying at Australia when he did even ask them... Overall, I like both, it depends on their personalities only..If they are B*T*H then I won't go with them...As for guys..I don't know... |
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Oct 5 2008, 07:23 AM
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Chinese Ed and English Ed girls?
i dated, screwed several frm both sides before ... and i can surely tell you they are typically GIRLS Its No Difference. The difference u saw comes frm the person itself. So dont only get one example and then make it as your generalization. |
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Oct 5 2008, 07:34 AM
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QUOTE(Amaru @ Mar 2 2008, 02:02 AM) I'm an English educated Chinese guy (studied in UK) but I prefer Chinese-educated girls. Think all the girls I've ever dated came from a Chinese-educated/speaking family. Haha...mandarin fetish I love listening to them speak Mandarin Chinese the most. Not sure why, when I hear a girl speak Mandarin well, I think she's very cultured. For me it's a big turn-on. I think because I brainwashed by old Chinese films/dramas, showing Chinese Princesses (who of course never ever spoke English). As for English-educated Chinese girls, from my experience, very fun to be around with, easiest for me to talk to. But if their Mandarin cannot make it... big turn off. |
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Oct 10 2008, 04:20 AM
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english ed!!!
more open minded and more worldly --> more things to talk about more sophisticated and more elegant also, better dress sense. and higher chances of success in life, due to their education. more career focused and more able to stand up for themselves, can work and same time be a great mother. why no to chinese ed leh, cuz the girls are sometimes very rude, talk like come from pasar very manipulative, and likes to back stab others for the lamest reasons hurt easily and very close minded career wise --> more likely to be uneducated so more likely to end up sucking their husband's money dry cuz they don't work. more likely to marry a guy just for the money while she stays at home do nothing and waste her life only, living a boring and meaningless life. that's my opinion lah, you don't need to agree with me. |
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Oct 10 2008, 02:20 PM
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QUOTE(aragorn.yoong @ Oct 10 2008, 04:20 AM) english ed!!! Are you sure about the sophistication part. More open minded means less sophisticated. I mean open minded means every idea also accept. "Closed-minded" means think before accept. So how can you say that Chinese ed are less sophisticated. more open minded and more worldly --> more things to talk about more sophisticated and more elegant also, better dress sense. and higher chances of success in life, due to their education. more career focused and more able to stand up for themselves, can work and same time be a great mother. why no to chinese ed leh, cuz the girls are sometimes very rude, talk like come from pasar very manipulative, and likes to back stab others for the lamest reasons hurt easily and very close minded career wise --> more likely to be uneducated so more likely to end up sucking their husband's money dry cuz they don't work. more likely to marry a guy just for the money while she stays at home do nothing and waste her life only, living a boring and meaningless life. that's my opinion lah, you don't need to agree with me. More things to talk about. You mean more garbage to talk about? But true, English ed has more to talk about. Perhaps it is a good thing perhaps it's bad. If you like to look at the surface then more things to talk about it's good. But if you like to think deeper, then perhaps less things to talk about it's better since that person thinks a few things but look at the mechanics as well. Well, elegant. If you are from a richer family, it does not matter whether you are a chinese ed or a english ed. But the thing is chinese ed tends to pick clothes more conservatively. And also they do not just wear anything which could be good for some people. I agree that English ed has a higher chance of success but that is not because of their level of education. That is because most likely they are able to pick management posts that require a high level of English but not a high level of technical competency or knowledge. Chinese ed people tend to be more on the technical field that pays less but competency wise, they could be much better then English Ed. Well, open your eyes more. Those girls you see come from the village. Chinese ed girls tend to be more civilized. i agree that they are manipulative and get hurt easily but that is also because they think more deeply. Thus deeper thinkers tend to be more emotional. Who says chinese girls are like that. You saw 1 or 2 and you generalized it to everyone? You mean your mum told you this? Yeah I know it is your opinion. But your opinion also shows what kind of a person you are. cheers This post has been edited by sylar111: Oct 10 2008, 02:23 PM |
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Oct 10 2008, 03:00 PM
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i feel that most people find individuals with powderful >9000 english to be intimidating...
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Oct 10 2008, 03:36 PM
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QUOTE(sylar111 @ Oct 10 2008, 02:20 PM) Are you sure about the sophistication part. More open minded means less sophisticated. I mean open minded means every idea also accept. "Closed-minded" means think before accept. So how can you say that Chinese ed are less sophisticated. Your definition of open/close minded is quite different from the norm. Open minded people can accept new/different ideas, close-minded people cannot. Its not about thinking before accepting, open minded people do that too, close minded people just stick to their believes despite contrary evidence or rationale. If you've never experienced handling close-minded people, you wouldn't know. QUOTE Well, elegant. If you are from a richer family, it does not matter whether you are a chinese ed or a english ed. But the thing is chinese ed tends to pick clothes more conservatively. And also they do not just wear anything which could be good for some people. You've obviously haven't seen how chinese-ed girls dress. Its not about being conservative, you'll see a lot of skin too. Its once again, in the mentality, and you simply cannot deny that english-ed girls tend to be more elegant and sophisticated. Why? Probably because they understand the concept of individuality, which doesn't really seem to exist in chinese education. Go to friendster, and see how many lala muis you can find, these girls... all chinese ed. You will hardly find an english ed lala mui. QUOTE Who says chinese girls are like that. You saw 1 or 2 and you generalized it to everyone? You mean your mum told you this? Remember, your opinions tell what kind of person you are as well. Look at the way you just responded to his opinion, you think you're any better? It may be his opinion, but from my experience (I mix a lot with both sides), its true.Yeah I know it is your opinion. But your opinion also shows what kind of a person you are. cheers |
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Oct 10 2008, 05:54 PM
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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Oct 10 2008, 03:36 PM) Your definition of open/close minded is quite different from the norm. Open minded people can accept new/different ideas, close-minded people cannot. Its not about thinking before accepting, open minded people do that too, close minded people just stick to their believes despite contrary evidence or rationale. If you've never experienced handling close-minded people, you wouldn't know. I would imagine that the close minded definition that you actually mentioned do not actually exist in the modern society. I mean if you are close minded as such, i really cannot see how you can survive at least at the professional level. To me, if a person do not accept an idea no matter how much proof has been shown to him or her without even questioning why that idea is wrong or right this person is hopeless. I mean I do agree that beliefs play a big part in accepting an idea but at least that person should find out the relevancy of that idea and can decide to reject it based on their belief but to reject an idea outright is just unacceptable. You've obviously haven't seen how chinese-ed girls dress. Its not about being conservative, you'll see a lot of skin too. Its once again, in the mentality, and you simply cannot deny that english-ed girls tend to be more elegant and sophisticated. Why? Probably because they understand the concept of individuality, which doesn't really seem to exist in chinese education. Go to friendster, and see how many lala muis you can find, these girls... all chinese ed. You will hardly find an english ed lala mui. Remember, your opinions tell what kind of person you are as well. Look at the way you just responded to his opinion, you think you're any better? It may be his opinion, but from my experience (I mix a lot with both sides), its true. Yeah, perhaps I should research more. Well, I guess I am biased towards Asian Girls because contrary to what the earlier poster has said, I find Asians in general more sophisticated then non Asians. Even their education promotes sophistication. I guess you are English Ed, but if you do know Chinese education, you will find that they promote literature much more then English education. For us, it is more on cause and effect, but their education promotes deeper thinking towards life overall. I mean that guy is just totally degrading Chinese Ed people just based on a few. I find Chinese Ed people more cultured then English Ed. Chinese Ed ppl tend to be more determined. And it is totally wrong to say that they are not as educated as English Ed. I mean there is a reason why malay parents wants to sent their children to Chinese schools rite? |
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Oct 10 2008, 06:33 PM
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Chinese girl very soft on bed only make noise..boys need to do the actions..
English girl very powderfull..you sit down also she can kao tim. this the diff i think..hehehehe |
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Oct 10 2008, 06:34 PM
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sorry, but i disagree.
QUOTE(sylar111 @ Oct 10 2008, 02:20 PM) Are you sure about the sophistication part. More open minded means less sophisticated. I mean open minded means every idea also accept. "Closed-minded" means think before accept. So how can you say that Chinese ed are less sophisticated. how can being open minded equate to being less sophisticated? sorry but i see no logic in this. first off, your definition of being open minded lacks on so many levels. being open minded does not mean they accept every single idea. it means being able to accept that there are many sides to a coin; that does not mean they practice every single idea that is thrown to them. they are just receptive to new ideas [practicing it is another story] hence they are usually less judgmental. towards the end of your msg you said, "But your opinion also shows what kind of a person you are." that sounds rather judgmental to me This post has been edited by greenpeas: Oct 11 2008, 01:41 AM |
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Oct 10 2008, 06:45 PM
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QUOTE(sylar111 @ Oct 10 2008, 05:54 PM) I would imagine that the close minded definition that you actually mentioned do not actually exist in the modern society. I mean if you are close minded as such, i really cannot see how you can survive at least at the professional level. To me, if a person do not accept an idea no matter how much proof has been shown to him or her without even questioning why that idea is wrong or right this person is hopeless. I mean I do agree that beliefs play a big part in accepting an idea but at least that person should find out the relevancy of that idea and can decide to reject it based on their belief but to reject an idea outright is just unacceptable. there are such people who can't accept new ideas... always stick on traditional conservative paths... i don know how but they CAN be successful in terms of income... as for chinese literature i don find any use of it in my line of job... even for my software engineering course... and i do not understand what do u mean cultured... and determination comes from passion... u don like it u won have it... as for malay parents sending their children to chinese school... tat's totally unrelated... i prefer international school over chinese school 10 times over... i'd say chinese schools have higher discipline level compared to others... tat will prevent them from turning into mat rempits... or so they thought... last but not least... look at China man... most of them are from unwanted pregnancies... how cultured is tat...? adding chemicals into milk so tat it will seem to have high protein to sell at higher price and killing people... how sophisticated is tat...? i'm not promoting or degrading any ED people... but i don like stubborn hypocrites... Yeah, perhaps I should research more. Well, I guess I am biased towards Asian Girls because contrary to what the earlier poster has said, I find Asians in general more sophisticated then non Asians. Even their education promotes sophistication. I guess you are English Ed, but if you do know Chinese education, you will find that they promote literature much more then English education. For us, it is more on cause and effect, but their education promotes deeper thinking towards life overall. I mean that guy is just totally degrading Chinese Ed people just based on a few. I find Chinese Ed people more cultured then English Ed. Chinese Ed ppl tend to be more determined. And it is totally wrong to say that they are not as educated as English Ed. I mean there is a reason why malay parents wants to sent their children to Chinese schools rite? QUOTE(Willster @ Oct 10 2008, 06:33 PM) Chinese girl very soft on bed only make noise..boys need to do the actions.. if u never do anything u will bore her and she will dump u... English girl very powderfull..you sit down also she can kao tim. this the diff i think..hehehehe  |
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Oct 10 2008, 07:28 PM
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QUOTE(sylar111 @ Oct 10 2008, 05:54 PM) I would imagine that the close minded definition that you actually mentioned do not actually exist in the modern society. I mean if you are close minded as such, i really cannot see how you can survive at least at the professional level. Do not exist? Look around yourself. I bet you're not living on tarzan's tree house. These people still exist among us. But the truth is we're all close minded in a way. Just that i believe we're lesser close minded than some other people. Besides, we have to look at which situation or case we're referring to. Yeah, perhaps I should research more. And it is totally wrong to say that they are not as educated as English Ed. I mean there is a reason why malay parents wants to sent their children to Chinese schools rite? QUOTE To me, if a person do not accept an idea no matter how much proof has been shown to him or her without even questioning why that idea is wrong or right this person is hopeless. I mean I do agree that beliefs play a big part in accepting an idea but at least that person should find out the relevancy of that idea and can decide to reject it based on their belief but to reject an idea outright is just unacceptable. Hopeless? Why say so? What if it does work the way they want it to be? Such generalization like yours will only leads to more disagreement. There is no saying that this person is hopeless. You got to be more open minded in this case and accept whatever possibilities which could occur to both open and close minded people. For this case, you got to be more open minded that some close minded people do achieve successes in their daily lives thus not hopeless? I don't think so its right for us to give a say or our two cents saying that they are hopeless. I bet most of our forefathers and parents are closer minded than us, but why do some or most of them still able to live harmoniously and purposefully? Mentality after all are broadly define. I believe we have to be more specific into details for description. QUOTE I find Chinese Ed people more cultured then English Ed. Chinese Ed ppl tend to be more determined. I believe when it comes to culture, i will say it depends hugely on the country we're living in. Besides, it seems as you're saying that English ed people are more towards science? Correct me if im wrong. I believe both Chinese ed and English ed have their own culture and it is pointless to debate on it. Each culture is define to be unique and it shouldn't be put in the context of comparison. I believe you know this as well. This post has been edited by peinsama: Oct 11 2008, 02:06 AM |
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I prefer a GS girl than a CS girl, the way of interaction is different and talking to GS girls, normally more topics than those CS girl!
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Oct 10 2008, 08:14 PM
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As long as they are pretty and sexy.
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Oct 10 2008, 09:13 PM
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QUOTE(Willster @ Oct 10 2008, 08:14 PM) As long as they are pretty and sexy. good things always come wif a price... |
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QUOTE(sylar111 @ Oct 10 2008, 02:20 PM) Are you sure about the sophistication part. More open minded means less sophisticated. I mean open minded means every idea also accept. "Closed-minded" means think before accept. So how can you say that Chinese ed are less sophisticated. i guess u're more into Chinese-ed chicks? More things to talk about. You mean more garbage to talk about? But true, English ed has more to talk about. Perhaps it is a good thing perhaps it's bad. If you like to look at the surface then more things to talk about it's good. But if you like to think deeper, then perhaps less things to talk about it's better since that person thinks a few things but look at the mechanics as well. Well, elegant. If you are from a richer family, it does not matter whether you are a chinese ed or a english ed. But the thing is chinese ed tends to pick clothes more conservatively. And also they do not just wear anything which could be good for some people. I agree that English ed has a higher chance of success but that is not because of their level of education. That is because most likely they are able to pick management posts that require a high level of English but not a high level of technical competency or knowledge. Chinese ed people tend to be more on the technical field that pays less but competency wise, they could be much better then English Ed. Well, open your eyes more. Those girls you see come from the village. Chinese ed girls tend to be more civilized. i agree that they are manipulative and get hurt easily but that is also because they think more deeply. Thus deeper thinkers tend to be more emotional. Who says chinese girls are like that. You saw 1 or 2 and you generalized it to everyone? You mean your mum told you this? Yeah I know it is your opinion. But your opinion also shows what kind of a person you are. cheers Added on October 10, 2008, 9:29 pm QUOTE(Willster @ Oct 10 2008, 06:33 PM) Chinese girl very soft on bed only make noise..boys need to do the actions.. ... thats all u could ever think of.English girl very powderfull..you sit down also she can kao tim. this the diff i think..hehehehe This post has been edited by slushie: Oct 10 2008, 09:29 PM |
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Oct 10 2008, 09:45 PM
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I guess i will put my kids to GS, but definitely will ask them to study Mandarin!
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Oct 10 2008, 11:40 PM
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Bump this topic up
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Oct 10 2008, 11:47 PM
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QUOTE(sylar111 @ Oct 10 2008, 05:54 PM) I find Chinese Ed people more cultured then English Ed. Chinese Ed ppl tend to be more determined. And it is totally wrong to say that they are not as educated as English Ed. I mean there is a reason why malay parents wants to sent their children to Chinese schools rite? 老兄，你说得很棒！一点也没有错。我热烈支持你的立场。香蕉人永远就是抱着这种思想和态度。他们简直就是狗眼看人低。 |
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Oct 11 2008, 01:42 AM
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Chinese ed like Jolin Tsai
English ed like Britney Spears |
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Oct 11 2008, 01:58 AM
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QUOTE(sylar111 @ Oct 10 2008, 05:54 PM) I would imagine that the close minded definition that you actually mentioned do not actually exist in the modern society. I mean if you are close minded as such, i really cannot see how you can survive at least at the professional level. To me, if a person do not accept an idea no matter how much proof has been shown to him or her without even questioning why that idea is wrong or right this person is hopeless. I mean I do agree that beliefs play a big part in accepting an idea but at least that person should find out the relevancy of that idea and can decide to reject it based on their belief but to reject an idea outright is just unacceptable. Yeah, perhaps I should research more. Dude, you need to get out more often. Go on and chase the chinese ed women, you may be lucky for sometime, but eventually you'll meet their close minded parents, and oh boy, are you in for a world of headaches G`luck on that QUOTE Well, I guess I am biased towards Asian Girls because contrary to what the earlier poster has said, I find Asians in general more sophisticated then non Asians. Even their education promotes sophistication. I guess you are English Ed, but if you do know Chinese education, you will find that they promote literature much more then English education. For us, it is more on cause and effect, but their education promotes deeper thinking towards life overall. I mean that guy is just totally degrading Chinese Ed people just based on a few. I find Chinese Ed people more cultured then English Ed. Chinese Ed ppl tend to be more determined. And it is totally wrong to say that they are not as educated as English Ed. I mean there is a reason why malay parents wants to sent their children to Chinese schools rite? Promote sophistication? You REALLY REALLY need to get out more often and see the world man. Just look at how the typical english ed girl dresses and how a typical chinese ed girl dresses, and you'll see the difference in sophistication. Check out the fashion sense in Sungei Wang vs The Curve as a simple example Unless your definition of sophistication is lala mui style.... then... I have nothing to say. As for education, again you're dead wrong. I'm not chinese educated, but my cousins were, and from what I know from them, the education is heavily based on memorisation, and its has a very close minded approach. A leads to B, why? because teacher says so. Don't agree? want to voice your opinion? Cannot, you're not "qualified". This is very typical of the chinese social structure. I'm not sure how you can say chinese education promotes literature more than english education, its bloody ingrained in the education. I enjoy the literature discussions english ed people can have, I can pass a book to an english ed friend, and then have a discussion about the theme, the character building, the setting, the possible meanings, etc. I do that with a chinese ed (who can read english), and the discussion is often crappy. You want more examples? Look into RWI, and notice those people who often post stupid things with broken english? Guess what sort of education they had? Yeap, chinese ed. It is important for to know the different levels of chinese education and how people group them. For instance, my cousins may have went to a SRJK ©, and a national school after that, they are actually considered english ed due to their upbringing. There are lots of people like that, so you may have confused some english ed people as chinese ed. Its not so much about where they got the education, but the education which influenced their mindset. Some people are 50-50, some people are 70-30, some people are 90-10. This topic focuses on people who are much heavier on either end of the scale. |
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Oct 11 2008, 04:03 AM
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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Oct 11 2008, 01:58 AM) Dude, you need to get out more often. Go on and chase the chinese ed women, you may be lucky for sometime, but eventually you'll meet their close minded parents, and oh boy, are you in for a world of headaches G`luck on that Promote sophistication? You REALLY REALLY need to get out more often and see the world man. Just look at how the typical english ed girl dresses and how a typical chinese ed girl dresses, and you'll see the difference in sophistication. Check out the fashion sense in Sungei Wang vs The Curve as a simple example Unless your definition of sophistication is lala mui style.... then... I have nothing to say. As for education, again you're dead wrong. I'm not chinese educated, but my cousins were, and from what I know from them, the education is heavily based on memorisation, and its has a very close minded approach. A leads to B, why? because teacher says so. Don't agree? want to voice your opinion? Cannot, you're not "qualified". This is very typical of the chinese social structure. I'm not sure how you can say chinese education promotes literature more than english education, its bloody ingrained in the education. I enjoy the literature discussions english ed people can have, I can pass a book to an english ed friend, and then have a discussion about the theme, the character building, the setting, the possible meanings, etc. I do that with a chinese ed (who can read english), and the discussion is often crappy. You want more examples? Look into RWI, and notice those people who often post stupid things with broken english? Guess what sort of education they had? Yeap, chinese ed. It is important for to know the different levels of chinese education and how people group them. For instance, my cousins may have went to a SRJK ©, and a national school after that, they are actually considered english ed due to their upbringing. There are lots of people like that, so you may have confused some english ed people as chinese ed. Its not so much about where they got the education, but the education which influenced their mindset. Some people are 50-50, some people are 70-30, some people are 90-10. This topic focuses on people who are much heavier on either end of the scale. Kinda ironic isn't it? I still remember a sarcastic humour cracked by my British university professor a few years back. He said, "in undertaking your final year coursework that consists of a final year project and several assignments, our main objective is not to cultivate a bunch of graduates who are good at memorising and tape recording. Well, elephants have retentive memory and we certainly do not give degrees to elephants. In addition to that, we also do not want to breed a bunch of graduates who are capable of barking on the print and regurgitating facts. Well. parrots are capable of reciting facts perfectly well (that's where the term parroting comes from) and again, we do not give degrees to parrots. What we expect out of you is to be able to think creatively, analytically, critically, and outside the box." Those typical Chinese ed coursemates of mine began to cringe and panic when they heard this because they knew that they needed to unlearn what they used to be taught in school and relearn something new and challenging that was crucial for their survival in this degree course! It clearly shows that the Chinese education system does not prepare the students for tertiary education. Yes, I know neither does our national education system for that matter. Nevertheless, as a strong proponent of the Chinese education system, I would send my children to a Chinese vernacular school instead of a Sekolah Kebangsaan where students are fed with nothing but trash. Speaking of which education promotes more literature, I must say that our current Chinese education system does not emphasize much on Chinese literature unlike that of the yesteryears. I did not get to learn about 红楼梦，水浒传， 西游记，三国演义, these 4 popular classical novels during my school days simply because it was not part of the syllabus. Apart from this, Chinese history was something unheard of. I doubt my teachers even knew the various great dynasties that once ruled China, not to mention their respective emperors. If you were to ask them anything outside the syllabus they are instructed to teach, they would tell you to shut up and listen to what they have to say. There is little or no interaction in the classes which makes the lessons dry and dull. Didactic method of teaching rules in our public schools, and not just confined to Chinese medium ones. With regards to the attitude of most typical Chinese eds, I feel sad and sorry for them due to their superficial mindset. Besides literature, they make pretty poor discussion partners when it comes to topics like politics and economy. When you tell them you know a little bit of something, they would go "you got do research on this before ah?". Heck, this is not even a survey to begin with, let alone a research. I bet they don't even understand the meaning of "general knowledge". They don't like to learn more about something just because it does not help them make any money. Well, their intense obsession towards those Cantopop and Mandapop stars would not earn them a living either. Their narcisissism towards their own latest Nokia or Sony Ericsson handsets, hairstyles and dressings is not going to make them any richer either. Perhaps the least they could do is to brush up their England, oops, I mean English. Pardon my French. I have been noticing those people who post comments in RWI have a very atrocious command of the English language even though they may not be Chinese eds. I know they are mainly Cantonese speaking Chinese who study in Malay medium schools that teach zero Mandarin and sub-standard English. Shame on them, I wonder what language they are really really good at (probably some retarded lala language). They spend their whole pharking life learning English and some Malay and yet their English language proficiency level is still way below that of some Chinese eds who can construct sentences in English impeccably. How embarassing! For example, those so-called bananas or non-Chinese ed people begin their sentences with the wrong usages of grammar like "Are you dare? Are you agree? Are you think? Do you interested? Do you late? Do you having? I am study in TARC? Does our economy bad? and stuff like that". Why must everything also be terbalik one? After disgressing for so long, if you ask me I would prefer to have a purely English ed girl over a Chinese ed one. Like what silverhawk said, if you go for a Chinese ed girl, you might have a hard time pleasing her closed and narrow minded parents who only think of how much security and financial aid you can offer her rather than what their daughter can offer you. If their daughter happens to be a son, they would warn the son to beware of girls prying on his bank account, WTF? It's all about taking and not giving which really disgusts me. |
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Oct 11 2008, 04:08 AM
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primary chinese ed, secondary english ed
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Oct 11 2008, 06:10 AM
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QUOTE(samteng @ Oct 10 2008, 11:47 PM) 老兄，你说得很棒！一点也没有错。我热烈支持你的立场。香蕉人永远就是抱着这种思想和态度。他们简直就是狗眼看人低。 How come what you actually say here contradict with what you say later? |
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Oct 11 2008, 06:49 AM
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The only thing I'm envious about chinese ed people are their chinese abilities. At this point, I wish I was Sylar(from Heroes). It would be so much easier to learn chinese.....
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Oct 11 2008, 10:48 AM
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with the heavy debate bordering on essay-style going on between samteng and silverhawk, i propose this thread to be moved to real world issues.
keep it light, will you guys! going back to the topic: i think it all boils down to what type you are. if you're english ed, i think you'll prefer someone similar who has the same interests as you. i don't think i can ever date a chinese ed guy. this is not to say i wouldnt give it a try, but i just don't think it'll work. |
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Oct 11 2008, 01:03 PM
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QUOTE(sylar111 @ Oct 11 2008, 06:10 AM) How come what you actually say here contradict with what you say later? Dude, I guess you are taking my point out of context without looking at the overall picture. I was not trying to contradict myself but rather speaking from a different perspective of how some bananas despise and condemn the Chinese language, culture and history together with the people who hold strong to such heritage due to their indecent lack of knowledge of the language itself. In that posting written in Chinese, I was merely trying to empathize with him because I have never been in such situations in my life. In other words, I wanted to put myself in his shoes. For bananas who love to discredit Chinese eds, I would suggest that you go for some short Mandarin courses to get a hang of the language before you could have the credibility and moral authority to do so. If you think that it is a waste of time, money, and effort, then please refrain from passing judgements on them.On a separate posting, as much as I empathize with Chinese eds being treated with utter contempt by their counterparts, I maintained that typical Chinese eds have the tendency to idolize things that are frivolous instead of brushing up their English language fluency or picking up a non-fiction book to read. They never like to engage in brainstorming sessions that require quite a bit of creativity and analysis. Any observation made by a well read person would be frowned upon by them. They would go something like, "Huh? Why you care so much about this? What's the use of knowing such things." It's kinda annoying to receive such responses whenever you try to share some general knowledge with them. Ideally, I would prefer someone who is a "hybrid" who has a strong balance between being English and Chinese (which I dare claim myself to be one). I don't believe it is impossible to achieve that. It's just a matter of choice and passion. This post has been edited by samteng: Oct 11 2008, 03:30 PM |
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Oct 11 2008, 07:34 PM
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there is no such thing as eng. ed...Only sekolah kebangsaan...unless u r from international school.
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Oct 11 2008, 08:38 PM
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QUOTE(euthanasia @ Oct 11 2008, 07:34 PM) there is no such thing as eng. ed...Only sekolah kebangsaan...unless u r from international school. That's why i refer both as :CS = Chinese School GS = Government School Not, CD or ED |
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Oct 11 2008, 08:57 PM
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imo eng ed are friendlier and more open, tho they can get pretty wild at times. chinese ed im not too familiar with, but judging from my cousins, they like to dress like taiwanese singers and can be really childish at times. also they have no clue on western culture and music at all
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Oct 11 2008, 08:58 PM
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QUOTE(subpar @ Oct 11 2008, 10:48 AM) with the heavy debate bordering on essay-style going on between samteng and silverhawk, i propose this thread to be moved to real world issues. Why dun u go and make one then. Create a forum there and post a link there la.keep it light, will you guys! going back to the topic: i think it all boils down to what type you are. if you're english ed, i think you'll prefer someone similar who has the same interests as you. i don't think i can ever date a chinese ed guy. this is not to say i wouldnt give it a try, but i just don't think it'll work. hehehe Added on October 11, 2008, 9:00 pm QUOTE(samteng @ Oct 11 2008, 01:03 PM) Dude, I guess you are taking my point out of context without looking at the overall picture. I was not trying to contradict myself but rather speaking from a different perspective of how some bananas despise and condemn the Chinese language, culture and history together with the people who hold strong to such heritage due to their indecent lack of knowledge of the language itself. In that posting written in Chinese, I was merely trying to empathize with him because I have never been in such situations in my life. In other words, I wanted to put myself in his shoes. For bananas who love to discredit Chinese eds, I would suggest that you go for some short Mandarin courses to get a hang of the language before you could have the credibility and moral authority to do so. If you think that it is a waste of time, money, and effort, then please refrain from passing judgements on them. But dun u think that a majority of chinese ed people go into fields such as enginering and computer science? I mean you can never succeed in those fields if you do not have the creativity or analysis skills. It is hard to go further to without those skills. But I always have the feeling that non chinese( I am from non Chinese background) education do not really promotes deep thinking as well. I mean as Silverhawk mentioned in his post on education, it is all about gaming the system. I think non chinese education is also guilty of that.On a separate posting, as much as I empathize with Chinese eds being treated with utter contempt by their counterparts, I maintained that typical Chinese eds have the tendency to idolize things that are frivolous instead of brushing up their English language fluency or picking up a non-fiction book to read. They never like to engage in brainstorming sessions that require quite a bit of creativity and analysis. Any observation made by a well read person would be frowned upon by them. They would go something like, "Huh? Why you care so much about this? What's the use of knowing such things." It's kinda annoying to receive such responses whenever you try to share some general knowledge with them. Ideally, I would prefer someone who is a "hybrid" who has a strong balance between being English and Chinese (which I dare claim myself to be one). I don't believe it is impossible to achieve that. It's just a matter of choice and passion. This post has been edited by sylar111: Oct 11 2008, 09:06 PM |
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Oct 11 2008, 09:00 PM
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QUOTE(euthanasia @ Oct 11 2008, 07:34 PM) there is no such thing as eng. ed...Only sekolah kebangsaan...unless u r from international school. Haha, I am partly English ed as I used to study in an American home schooling program.My education chronology is as follows: 1) Primary - Chinese 2) Lower Secondary up to PMR - Malay in an SMJK (predominantly consists of students from SRJK © ) 3) Higher Secondary up to SPM - English as mentioned above but I took SAT instead of SPM 4) Tertiary - Obviously English all the way |
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Oct 11 2008, 09:02 PM
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QUOTE(samteng @ Oct 11 2008, 09:00 PM) Haha, I am partly English ed as I used to study in an American home schooling program. American home schooling program? You mean you did not really go to a real school but you were home taught by your parents?My education chronology is as follows: 1) Primary - Chinese 2) Lower Secondary up to PMR - Malay in an SMJK (predominantly consists of students from SRJK © ) 3) Higher Secondary up to SPM - English as mentioned above but I took SAT instead of SPM 4) Tertiary - Obviously English all the way |
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Oct 11 2008, 09:07 PM
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QUOTE(sylar111 @ Oct 11 2008, 08:58 PM) Why dun u go and make one then. Create a forum there and post a link there la. No idea how they end up being in those fields. They may have analytical thinking skills (to some extent critical), but they certainly lack the innovative and creative thinking skills. Well, engineering and computer science are courses that belong to the analytical and logical side. By the way, I'm more towards the commercial side.hehehe Added on October 11, 2008, 9:00 pm But dun u think that a majority of chinese ed people go into fields such as enginering and computer science? I mean you can never succeed in those fields if you do not have the creativity or analysis skills. It is hard to go further to without those skills. Added on October 11, 2008, 9:11 pm QUOTE(sylar111 @ Oct 11 2008, 09:02 PM) American home schooling program? You mean you did not really go to a real school but you were home taught by your parents? Nah, it's just a name which doesn't necessarily reflect its true nature. Yes, you can opt to study at home without a supervisor to guide you as the books themselves are your teacher. As for me however, I opted for supervision in a learning center cuz I wasn't the type who could study without guidance. Yes, my parents also played the role of being part time supervisors. Added on October 11, 2008, 9:18 pm QUOTE(sylar111 @ Oct 11 2008, 08:58 PM) Why dun u go and make one then. Create a forum there and post a link there la. Since you claim to be of a non-Chinese education background, how were you able to understand my previous posting in Chinese then? Can you read Chinese?hehehe Added on October 11, 2008, 9:00 pm But I always have the feeling that non chinese( I am from non Chinese background) education do not really promotes deep thinking as well. I mean as Silverhawk mentioned in his post on education, it is all about gaming the system. I think non chinese education is also guilty of that. This post has been edited by samteng: Oct 11 2008, 09:18 PM |
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Oct 11 2008, 09:48 PM
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there's gotta be a "balance" between both extremes
not too chinese ed, not too english ed as well =) the "blend" enables a person to view things from different aspects i would prefer a "hybrid ed" gf ahahaha |
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Oct 11 2008, 10:13 PM
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QUOTE(samteng @ Oct 11 2008, 09:07 PM) Since you claim to be of a non-Chinese education background, how were you able to understand my previous posting in Chinese then? Can you read Chinese? I spent most of my time in Singapore. So what kind of ed category do you think I am in? |
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Oct 13 2008, 03:15 AM
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why i don't support chinese ed, because:
firstly, what's the point of only talking about cantopop or mandarinpop all the time? most of the time, when u hang out with them at kopitiams, they talk trash and rubbish without value. bring in topics on politics and real world issues, they'd be mute and not know what to say. why so? they just give me the impression that they're less intelligent, less educated, and highly ignorant of what's going on around them. neither do they want to care about finding out more, just go on and live life talking rubbish, nice wan meh? secondly, i just have the impression that the girls are influenced to think that marrying a rich guy is their life goal. they know nothing about women's rights, female empowerment, and how important it is for a woman to be independent after marriage and have her own source of income and career. i always believe that when a woman stops working and stays home, and all she does is just to suck her husband's money dry (shopping and "tea sessions" with other like-minded tai tai, again talking rubbish), she loses all sense of her own identity in this society and her purpose living this life. did they really think that the husband will always be around? what if one day he leaves her for younger and prettier women? she would have no backup income and career to make her own living. it's ironic that most of these girls don't learn from their parents especially when divorce rates are definitely higher in chinese ed families than english ed families. and you'll also notice that in entertainment outlets, most chinese men who fondle and fool around with the bar waitresses come from chinese ed background. got a family yet choose to come to places like this, ish. thirdly, again, most of them don't seem to have a clear career goal. i'm not saying all chinese ed are like that, but most are. they don't seem interested in aiming high in their career, all they want is just a rich husband. at the meantime while they're still searching, they'll do jobs like freelance promoter/ushering/waitressing/pr for many years until they're married. pays well but there's no future in it, who still wants to hire girls in their 30s? there's no hope in building a career there, i just think they're very short-sighted thinking they can live with such income and without building a career. nuff said! why i prefer english ed, bacause: firstly, their intelligence and worldliness. i can talk about malaysian politics, US presidential campaign, economy, my own office politics, her own office politics, career choices, and she can give me solid and valid opinions. who knows, the discussion may result in full of different ideas and variety in opinions. secondly, i like a career woman for their identity, independence, and intelligence. i think i've made that very obvious. english ed girls know better what career choices are more beneficial. most of them definitely know freelance jobs or office positions in dead-end companies won't do their career any good. and with a career wife, i'd be proud to bring her along to my corporate functions since she'll be able to converse with my colleagues and even make contacts. if i bring a chinese ed who only knows kopitiam rubbish talk, she'd be bored to death in this kinda function. thirdly, dress sense of english ed definitely better. more classy and sophisticated. i think we've all criticized on how tasteless the "lala" fashion is. imagine being seen going out with them *shudders* this is my own experience with people of chinese ed and english ed. generally i still mix with english ed better, more interesting people and open-minded, so there goes....! |
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Oct 13 2008, 03:35 AM
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chinese ed tends to fall into lala category..no offense to chinese ed girls..lik in my college..one look u can immediately differentiate girls that come frm chinese sch n those that don't..
but sum girls from chinese sch are perfectly alright..not as b**chy as english ed girls..haha..jus wat i tink.. |
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Oct 13 2008, 10:44 AM
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QUOTE(CasaNova™ @ Oct 13 2008, 03:35 AM) chinese ed tends to fall into lala category..no offense to chinese ed girls..lik in my college..one look u can immediately differentiate girls that come frm chinese sch n those that don't.. define b****iness in English ed girls. I mean in what way are they b****ybut sum girls from chinese sch are perfectly alright..not as b**chy as english ed girls..haha..jus wat i tink.. |
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Oct 13 2008, 10:56 AM
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QUOTE(sylar111 @ Oct 13 2008, 10:44 AM) define b****iness in English ed girls. I mean in what way are they b****y hmm..sumthin lik lindsay lohan in mean girls..haha..but then..this type of girls rock.. |
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Oct 13 2008, 12:05 PM
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QUOTE(CasaNova™ @ Oct 13 2008, 10:56 AM) hmm..sumthin lik lindsay lohan in mean girls..haha.. I hate lindsay lohan. What is so great about her. She does not even have the looks. I dun even know how the hell she can be a star.but then..this type of girls rock.. |
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Oct 13 2008, 04:33 PM
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QUOTE(sylar111 @ Oct 11 2008, 10:13 PM) I spent most of my time in Singapore. So what kind of ed category do you think I am in? Oh I see. If that's the case, you could pass out as a bilinguist then. Why don't you go and kao some sg chics? So many of them cannot find a bf/husband lah. |
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Oct 13 2008, 09:34 PM
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QUOTE(sylar111 @ Oct 11 2008, 08:58 PM) But dun u think that a majority of chinese ed people go into fields such as enginering and computer science? I mean you can never succeed in those fields if you do not have the creativity or analysis skills. It is hard to go further to without those skills. They're mostly there because its a natural progression from their interests. Not to mention that these fields are considered lucrative by their parents. Engineering has a certain pedigree to it, like being a doctor, accountant, or lawyer. (The typical career paths chinese ed parents push their kids to). That said, it doesn't mean they do well or that they have the necessary skills or mindset to handle the job. My experience has showed that most of them simply do not have what it takes, even if they managed to pass and get their degree. QUOTE But I always have the feeling that non chinese( I am from non Chinese background) education do not really promotes deep thinking as well. I mean as Silverhawk mentioned in his post on education, it is all about gaming the system. I think non chinese education is also guilty of that. As I also mentioned in my posts here.. its not about what type of school you went to, but the kind of overall education you've received. Its a combination of schooling + parental education or any other educational influence. |
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Oct 13 2008, 09:46 PM
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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Oct 13 2008, 09:34 PM) They're mostly there because its a natural progression from their interests. Not to mention that these fields are considered lucrative by their parents. Engineering has a certain pedigree to it, like being a doctor, accountant, or lawyer. (The typical career paths chinese ed parents push their kids to). not to forget social influence... That said, it doesn't mean they do well or that they have the necessary skills or mindset to handle the job. My experience has showed that most of them simply do not have what it takes, even if they managed to pass and get their degree. As I also mentioned in my posts here.. its not about what type of school you went to, but the kind of overall education you've received. Its a combination of schooling + parental education or any other educational influence. |
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Oct 13 2008, 09:50 PM
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QUOTE(sylar111 @ Oct 13 2008, 12:05 PM) I hate lindsay lohan. What is so great about her. She does not even have the looks. I dun even know how the hell she can be a star. im not talking bout lindsay at all..i dun even lik lindsay..jus a mere example.. |
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Oct 13 2008, 10:37 PM
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english ed my foot. are you all of you guys/girls seriously from international schools? i for one doubt that. by the way, how do you differentiate between a chinese ed girl and a "eng ed" girl?
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Oct 13 2008, 10:42 PM
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QUOTE(atrocitines @ Oct 13 2008, 10:37 PM) english ed my foot. are you all of you guys/girls seriously from international schools? i for one doubt that. by the way, how do you differentiate between a chinese ed girl and a "eng ed" girl? Actually, the term "government school" is more appropriate than "english educated" |
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Oct 13 2008, 11:02 PM
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english ed gov schools also got..eg areas like sri hartamas,bangsar,subang..
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Oct 13 2008, 11:07 PM
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QUOTE(atrocitines @ Oct 13 2008, 10:37 PM) english ed my foot. are you all of you guys/girls seriously from international schools? i for one doubt that. by the way, how do you differentiate between a chinese ed girl and a "eng ed" girl? QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Oct 13 2008, 10:42 PM) Actually, the term "government school" is more appropriate than "english educated" you guys still don't understand that its not about the schools... |
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Oct 13 2008, 11:11 PM
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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Oct 13 2008, 11:07 PM) you guys still don't understand that its not about the schools... |
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Oct 13 2008, 11:29 PM
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QUOTE(atrocitines @ Oct 13 2008, 10:37 PM) english ed my foot. are you all of you guys/girls seriously from international schools? i for one doubt that. by the way, how do you differentiate between a chinese ed girl and a "eng ed" girl? the way they talk, the way they walk, the way they dress... for guys wif more superior mind like peinsama and hawk... the way they think also different...QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Oct 13 2008, 10:42 PM) Actually, the term "government school" is more appropriate than "english educated" nope... bro... i was in a private primary school where every1 spoke english... later i transfered to La Salle Klang supposedly a gov christian school... most of us spoke english anyway... QUOTE(peinsama @ Oct 13 2008, 11:11 PM) Embrace the power within you, hawk.....flame em. tat's nick's job... |
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Oct 13 2008, 11:43 PM
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the term 'eng ed' is used loosely here la.. in the past the true eng ed schools are like VI etc whcih are now national schools. i guess calling them 'eng ed' is just a matter of habit. anyway, i second silverhawk; its not about the schools per se
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Oct 14 2008, 12:00 AM
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I fully concur with silverhawk too on this! It's more an issue of upbringing and family background rather than the formal education received. Perhaps we should substitute the term "English Ed" with "Anglo-Chinese". If you intend to mean it in a derogatory sense, then you may use the term "Banana" or "Anglophile".
By the way, there's a 3rd category of Chinese or specifically girls for that matter. They are known as "Hybrids". (Talk about the new Honda Civic Hybrid that runs on petrol as well as electric power). They strike a good balance between being Chinese and English cultured. However, I would prefer one who is more biased towards being English cultured as my background is more inclined towards that as well. Added on October 14, 2008, 12:06 amI used the term "English Cultured" without realising it. You guys may want to use the term "English Cult" in short since "English Ed" has a very vague meaning. This post has been edited by samteng: Oct 14 2008, 12:06 AM |
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Oct 14 2008, 12:14 AM
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QUOTE(samteng @ Oct 14 2008, 12:00 AM) Added on October 14, 2008, 12:06 amI used the term "English Cultured" without realising it. You guys may want to use the term "English Cult" in short since "English Ed" has a very vague meaning. there are those who are less educated in English who have problems understanding normal English which drives me into learning "kopiturd Engrish"... |
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Oct 14 2008, 01:34 AM
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what if u called someone ,who is a transexual, a girl when she is not really a girl? same thing goes to the 'eng ed'. god damn it. you make them sound like they in some sort of an elite group or something. I AM EMO!!!!
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Oct 14 2008, 01:38 AM
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QUOTE(samteng @ Oct 14 2008, 12:00 AM) I fully concur with silverhawk too on this! It's more an issue of upbringing and family background rather than the formal education received. Perhaps we should substitute the term "English Ed" with "Anglo-Chinese". If you intend to mean it in a derogatory sense, then you may use the term "Banana" or "Anglophile". uhh... wat?By the way, there's a 3rd category of Chinese or specifically girls for that matter. They are known as "Hybrids". (Talk about the new Honda Civic Hybrid that runs on petrol as well as electric power). They strike a good balance between being Chinese and English cultured. However, I would prefer one who is more biased towards being English cultured as my background is more inclined towards that as well. Added on October 14, 2008, 12:06 amI used the term "English Cultured" without realising it. You guys may want to use the term "English Cult" in short since "English Ed" has a very vague meaning. |
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Oct 14 2008, 02:02 AM
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QUOTE(empyreal @ Oct 14 2008, 01:38 AM) uhh... wat? Erm...don't understand my English? |
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Oct 14 2008, 02:07 AM
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england too powderful
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Oct 14 2008, 02:09 AM
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QUOTE(samteng @ Oct 14 2008, 12:00 AM) I fully concur with silverhawk too on this! It's more an issue of upbringing and family background rather than the formal education received. Perhaps we should substitute the term "English Ed" with "Anglo-Chinese". If you intend to mean it in a derogatory sense, then you may use the term "Banana" or "Anglophile". QFT..being a banana is so NOT cool..thank god i know cantonese albeit not 10/10..wish i was a hybrid.. By the way, there's a 3rd category of Chinese or specifically girls for that matter. They are known as "Hybrids". (Talk about the new Honda Civic Hybrid that runs on petrol as well as electric power). They strike a good balance between being Chinese and English cultured. However, I would prefer one who is more biased towards being English cultured as my background is more inclined towards that as well. Added on October 14, 2008, 12:06 amI used the term "English Cultured" without realising it. You guys may want to use the term "English Cult" in short since "English Ed" has a very vague meaning. for me i definately would go for a hybrid or more towards english cultured..chinese ed girls are a big turn off from the way they dress,speak english to the way the think(immature).. btw samteng england normal only la..why jumping on his back for.. This post has been edited by Aztec: Oct 14 2008, 02:10 AM |
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Oct 14 2008, 02:10 AM
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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Oct 14 2008, 02:07 AM) england too powderful Even my country and base also pecah berhabis. |
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Oct 14 2008, 03:26 AM
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well gals r just gals.... english ed chinese ed hindi ed all da same...............
once a month hormones imbalance siapa susah? v knw la huh dun mention orelse LAGI susah.... when get 2gether pohpeh pohpeh non stop ..... lmao well i guess i kutuk enough d haha now time to say sumthin .... ummm i guess its not wat ed its their personalities...... so no matter how educated or whr r u educated but personality out means out.... so balik balik see can u accept da flaws and cherish da love anot la.... peace |
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Oct 14 2008, 07:07 AM
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i just lol'd when he said 'you may use the terms "Banana"' and 'i used the term "English Culture" without realising it'.
i was half expecting him to end it with 'jolly good show, chaps.' personally i dont see any point in pc-ing it into 'english culture', or English Cult as samteng puts it. we damn well don't see them drinking tea at four and having pudding before desserts. what you people see as english culture is merely anything that is non-chinese culture. i mean over here, liberal thinknig is not a part of the culture at all; it's just an effect after the development of the liberalism ideal. i can go on and say that in terms of philosophical development (in terms of developing ideals such as liberalism, individualism, and such) asians are way way behind the west. but that's rwi stuff. english ed is an appropiate term. the education system incorporated the many post-enlightenment era philosophical development (education is actually a complex philosophical subject) stressing on individual thinking whereas the chinese tend to focus on the social, and develops the individual less. it makes sense, actually: having generations after generations of people who obey authority makes governing them easier, which in china with its billions of people is indeed a problem. of course, you get a bunch of robots who are on an individual basis you can run rings around. they get lost when the info is not in front of them. that's why you see all the chinamen flooding the more mathematical paths of economics while absolutely none are picking up philosophy. of course, the western thought is stunted somewhat in malaysia because of asian parental and societal pressure. so yeah, 'english ed' is more appropiate than 'english culture'. This post has been edited by empyreal: Oct 14 2008, 07:11 AM |
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Oct 14 2008, 09:13 AM
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My thoughts:
Why I don't support Chinese ed, because: Firstly, what's the point of only talking about Cantopop or Mandarinpop all the time? Most of the time, when you hang out with them at kopitiams, they talk trash and rubbish without value. Bring in topics on politics and real world issues, they'd be mute and not know what to say. Why so? They just give me the impression that they're less intelligent, less educated, and highly ignorant of what's going on around them. Neither do they want to care about finding out more, just go on and live life talking rubbish, nice wan meh? Secondly, I just have the impression that the girls are influenced to think that marrying a rich guy is their life goal. They know nothing about women's rights, female empowerment, and how important it is for a woman to be independent after marriage and have her own source of income and career. I always believe that when a woman stops working and stays home, and all she does is just to suck her husband's money dry (shopping and "tea sessions" with other like-minded tai tai, again talking rubbish), she loses all sense of her own identity in this society and her purpose living this life. Did they really think that the husband will always be around? What if one day he leaves her for younger and prettier women? She would have no backup income and career to make her own living. It's ironic that most of these girls don't learn from their parents especially when divorce rates are definitely higher in Chinese ed families than English ed families. And you'll also notice that in entertainment outlets, most Chinese men who fondle and fool around with the bar waitresses come from Chinese ed background. Got a family yet choose to come to places like this, ish. Thirdly, again, most of them don't seem to have a clear career goal. I'm not saying all Chinese ed are like that, but most are. They don't seem interested in aiming high in their career, all they want is just a rich husband. At the meantime while they're still searching, they'll do jobs like freelance promoter/ushering/waitressing/pr for many years until they're married. Pays well but there's no future in those industries, who still wants to hire girls in their 30s? There's no hope in building a career there, I just think they're very short-sighted thinking they can live with such income and without building a career. Nuff said! why i prefer English ed, because: Firstly, their intelligence and worldliness. I can talk about Malaysian politics, US presidential campaign, economy, my own office politics, her own office politics, career choices, and she can give me solid and valid opinions. Who knows, the discussion may result in full of different ideas and variety in opinions. Secondly, I like a career woman for their identity, independence, and intelligence. I think I've made that very obvious. English ed girls know better what career choices are more beneficial. Most of them definitely know freelance jobs or office positions in dead-end companies won't do their career any good. And with a career wife, I'd be proud to bring her along to my corporate functions since she'll be able to converse with my colleagues and even make contacts. If I bring a Chinese ed who only knows kopitiam rubbish talk, she'd be bored to death in this kinda function. Thirdly, dress sense of English ed definitely better. More classy and sophisticated. I think we've all criticized on how tasteless the "lala" fashion is, unfortunately fancied by Chinese ed girls at large. Imagine being seen going out with them *shudders* This is my own experience with people of Chinese ed and English ed. Generally I prefer mixing with English ed, they are more interesting and open-minded, so there goes....! |
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Oct 14 2008, 09:26 AM
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» Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « lol~ now i realized that if my gf was english ed, how am i gonna win an argument with her. anyway about my views, i see most of the chinese ed girls like to wear those like fantasy fantasy style of fashion from korea or taiwan. dunno bout you guys but i think that sucks man... |
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Oct 14 2008, 09:35 AM
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haha..vr true..their clothing sense is just......
go hav a round in sungei wang..lol.. |
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Oct 14 2008, 09:41 AM
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QUOTE(CasaNova™ @ Oct 14 2008, 09:35 AM) haha..vr true..their clothing sense is just...... yeahgo hav a round in sungei wang..lol.. and i thought i was the only one who thought so. cant they just wear a plain tee with jeans? lol This post has been edited by anthrax33: Oct 14 2008, 09:42 AM |
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Oct 14 2008, 10:50 AM
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Banyak songeh la...
Girls are girls... What's with this categorizing them into chinese or english ed? EEG can also be ignorant about politics and such while CEG can pawn your ass talking about Anwar BS case.. EEG can be dumb, dependent and a TVB star wannabe while CEG can be the next Hilary Clinton.. EEG can also be lala and CEG a posh spice... Haiz.. Complain complain complain... Look into the mirror first la before compare and condemm ppl... And someone even come up with the term hybrid... Pardon me french but nabeh, you think we girls are aliens ah? |
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Oct 14 2008, 11:00 AM
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QUOTE(neuroticmind @ Oct 14 2008, 10:50 AM) Banyak songeh la... haha~Girls are girls... What's with this categorizing them into chinese or english ed? EEG can also be ignorant about politics and such while CEG can pawn your ass talking about Anwar BS case.. EEG can be dumb, dependent and a TVB star wannabe while CEG can be the next Hilary Clinton.. EEG can also be lala and CEG a posh spice... Haiz.. Complain complain complain... Look into the mirror first la before compare and condemm ppl... And someone even come up with the term hybrid... Pardon me french but nabeh, you think we girls are aliens ah? i hate to generalize but if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, its almost definitely a duck. This post has been edited by anthrax33: Oct 14 2008, 11:01 AM |
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Oct 14 2008, 01:24 PM
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QUOTE(neuroticmind @ Oct 14 2008, 10:50 AM) Banyak songeh la... Girls are girls... What's with this categorizing them into chinese or english ed? EEG can also be ignorant about politics and such while CEG can pawn your ass talking about Anwar BS case.. EEG can be dumb, dependent and a TVB star wannabe while CEG can be the next Hilary Clinton.. EEG can also be lala and CEG a posh spice... Haiz.. Complain complain complain... Look into the mirror first la before compare and condemm ppl... The categories exist, cause its true Not everyone fits the typical stereotype, but the stereotype does exist. It doesn't only apply to girls, the english-ed vs chinese-ed applies to guys as well. QUOTE And someone even come up with the term hybrid... I dunno about other girls la, but I think you're weird enough to be an alien Pardon me french but nabeh, you think we girls are aliens ah? |
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Oct 14 2008, 01:29 PM
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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Oct 14 2008, 01:24 PM) The categories exist, cause its true Go die.. Not everyone fits the typical stereotype, but the stereotype does exist. It doesn't only apply to girls, the english-ed vs chinese-ed applies to guys as well. I dunno about other girls la, but I think you're weird enough to be an alien |
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Oct 14 2008, 02:14 PM
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QUOTE(neuroticmind @ Oct 14 2008, 01:29 PM) Go die.. I was complimenting you! |
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Oct 14 2008, 02:28 PM
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I'm weird..
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Oct 14 2008, 02:33 PM
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lol...i do prefer english ed as well...i previously had a chinese ed gf.. i had trouble getting my tots to her.. she's not understandfing my problem.. in the end v jz break up.. cos its hard.. wif her parents coming down hard on us cos i'm nt rich, i speak my mind(had an argument wif them bout sum stuff which they deemed superstitious, but i see no sense in dat) and funny enuff i was an agent for a different company(they see me as threat to their biz..haha)..
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Oct 14 2008, 03:01 PM
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QUOTE(neuroticmind @ Oct 14 2008, 02:28 PM) I'm weird.. That's why I like ya » Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « |
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Oct 14 2008, 03:19 PM
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i am eng ed girl..but most of my bfs are chinese ed..hmm? opposites attract?.. but you cant really categorize them in their dressing..i am eng ed but i like to wear korean & taiwan clothing too..jz not to the extant taht it is too lala.sometimes i like to wear street,,sometimes punk, sometims girly..it's just clothes duhh it's used to express yourself .and as long as i can carry the style and it looks good on me..you cant really judge whether it sucks or not.. and because isnt it subjective and ignoreant to judge ppl's clothing jz because most ppl cant carry it off doesnt mean noone can..so hush bout how u guys hate certain style.. ok i get it you guys like gals to wear matured, feminine, high class clothes,, but thats not every girls cup of tea..at least not mine..i dont see myself a 20yr old tryin to dres like a 30 yr old..i'll get there when i get there..
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Oct 14 2008, 03:24 PM
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QUOTE(MeruChan @ Oct 14 2008, 03:19 PM) i am eng ed girl..but most of my bfs are chinese ed..hmm? opposites attract?.. but you cant really categorize them in their dressing..i am eng ed but i like to wear korean & taiwan clothing too..jz not to the extant taht it is too lala.sometimes i like to wear street,,sometimes punk, sometims girly..it's just clothes duhh it's used to express yourself .and as long as i can carry the style and it looks good on me..you cant really judge whether it sucks or not.. and because isnt it subjective and ignoreant to judge ppl's clothing jz because most ppl cant carry it off doesnt mean noone can..so hush bout how u guys hate certain style.. ok i get it you guys like gals to wear matured, feminine, high class clothes,, but thats not every girls cup of tea..at least not mine..i dont see myself a 20yr old tryin to dres like a 30 yr old..i'll get there when i get there.. -end- what a rant! pheww wah a serious post from meru |
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Oct 14 2008, 03:27 PM
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apela...siok sendiri je...borinnnn alahhhh ya allllahhhhh
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Oct 14 2008, 03:28 PM
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QUOTE(MeruChan @ Oct 14 2008, 03:27 PM) apela...siok sendiri je...borinnnn alahhhh ya allllahhhhh apa ni, sudah masuk islam ke? |
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Oct 14 2008, 03:32 PM
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eng ed is good to fark around, chinese ed wan can keep at home in the kitchen, yes i'm generalizing
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Oct 14 2008, 03:39 PM
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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Oct 14 2008, 03:28 PM) apa ni, sudah masuk islam ke? haha no ler...i love pork too muchQUOTE(nickisthemost @ Oct 14 2008, 03:32 PM) eng ed is good to fark around, chinese ed wan can keep at home in the kitchen, yes i'm generalizing |
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Oct 14 2008, 03:44 PM
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Oct 14 2008, 03:51 PM
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I have a good friend. 2 years ago he started dating this chinese ed girl. She's pretty la, but I CANNOT TALK TO HER.
I've tried, and I know he's also tried to "change" her. Somehow it just doesn't work, and unfortunately I have to always compare her with my friend's ex who was very professional but funny at the same time |
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Oct 14 2008, 04:43 PM
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QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Oct 14 2008, 03:32 PM) eng ed is good to fark around, chinese ed wan can keep at home in the kitchen, yes i'm generalizing You think they'll happily stay at home and just sit in kitchen?They will want to go shopping and yum cha more than anything. They just want to be rich "tai-tai" lah, if you don't have the money to keep one, just go for an English ed. At least they got a job and able to finance their own lifestyle. Sigh, Chinese ed girls are so boring and predictable. |
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Oct 14 2008, 05:03 PM
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QUOTE(aragorn.yoong @ Oct 14 2008, 04:43 PM) You think they'll happily stay at home and just sit in kitchen? so, if i need to get a chinese ed, i need to be rich enough to afford one ? who is the predictable ones, your mentality or chinese ed girls ? lulzThey will want to go shopping and yum cha more than anything. They just want to be rich "tai-tai" lah, if you don't have the money to keep one, just go for an English ed. At least they got a job and able to finance their own lifestyle. Sigh, Chinese ed girls are so boring and predictable. from my first post in this page i was just being sarcastic, cheers |
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Oct 14 2008, 05:35 PM
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i have friends who study eng ed..but they think like chinese ed ppl..meaning they suck at their english..and listen to chinese songs only..
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Oct 14 2008, 07:20 PM
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QUOTE(MeruChan @ Oct 14 2008, 05:35 PM) i have friends who study eng ed..but they think like chinese ed ppl..meaning they suck at their english..and listen to chinese songs only.. You mean they suck at English even though they are English Ed. So what are they good at? |
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Oct 14 2008, 07:55 PM
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QUOTE(sylar111 @ Oct 14 2008, 07:20 PM) You mean they suck at English even though they are English Ed. So what are they good at? I think he's referring to the pure "kebangsaan" stream - those who go to National Schools but are still very much attached to their communities, both in mentality and in language. |
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Oct 14 2008, 08:17 PM
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QUOTE(MeruChan @ Oct 14 2008, 05:35 PM) i have friends who study eng ed..but they think like chinese ed ppl..meaning they suck at their english..and listen to chinese songs only.. hence why I've been telling you guys its not about where you study, but your overall upbringing and mentality. |
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Oct 14 2008, 09:24 PM
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yeah...that's right..even some students in chinese school suck at chinese and only speaks english bcos it's what they speak at home..
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Oct 15 2008, 11:35 AM
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wat if
primary -> chinese educated secondary -> english educated how do u classify them |
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Oct 15 2008, 12:10 PM
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still is chinese ed...
because tis is what fails. the gov rly studpi primary skool they teach all in chinese...then sudd in secondary school change to eng and malay....those students cannot cope..dont und..and fail miserably... |
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Oct 15 2008, 12:26 PM
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nope i have this fren who excels in her studies
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Oct 15 2008, 12:54 PM
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Before this conversation veers off into a hardcore discussion about education, let's determine the course we are heading.
I believe that the object of contention in this thread is not so much education it is about MENTALITY. When we say Eng-Ed or Chi-Ed, what we are talking about is actually the MINDSET of the person. So lets stop all this talk about language per se. As for me, I was raised to speak English and am greatly influenced by Western values. When I entered university, I began mixing around with people with a very Chinese background. I think both Eng-Ed and Chi-Ed girls have their own charm. Having said that though, i still find Eng-Ed girls to be generally more attractive.Eng-ed girls are usually more fun to be around, more open-minded, and more outspoken. In relationships, they treat themselves as equals to their male countersparts. Chi-Ed girls on the other hand tend to be more quiet, more submissive and less independant. They are more comfortable with letting their boyfriends lead the way most of the time. However, Eng-Ed girls tend to be more difficult to please, as in they tend to be higher maintenance and have higher "requirements" as to which guys they would consider as boyfriends. They are also more likely to be the ones who end a relationship when things turn sour. Most Chi-ed girls I know place great importance on their relationships. Many would try their very best to keep a relationship going even the going gets tough. One girl i know was unwilling to initiate a break-up from her bf even though it was obvious to everyone that their relationship had been downhill for months. She decided to wait for him to break up with her. As to who's more pretty, I guess to each man his own. In my experience, well-mannered Eng-Ed girls tend to dress in more classy and lady-like clothes while Chi-Ed girls tend to dress in more cute and somewhat chldish clothing. Given a choice I would prefer a girl with classy clothing. Looks aren't that important to me though, so both would be fine by me. In conclusion, I think that if you're an English-ed guy looking for a soulmate, a Eng-ed girl would be your best bet. However, if you would like someone who would welcome you home with a piping hot dinner and stand by you through thick and thin a Chi-Ed girl would suit you better. Bear in mind these are just my opinions, and if anyone disagrees I would love to know your take on things! This post has been edited by drgadgets: Oct 15 2008, 02:18 PM |
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Oct 15 2008, 03:45 PM
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your opinion is quite accurate for me i guess. Education,communication,mentality,mindset are actually different things among individual. Moreover ur taste is on English edu girl.
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Oct 15 2008, 03:49 PM
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LMAO WONG HAN JIANG
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Oct 15 2008, 05:47 PM
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QUOTE(drgadgets @ Oct 15 2008, 12:54 PM) Chi-Ed girls on the other hand tend to be more quiet, more submissive and less independant. Haha... Eng-Ed girls for the FTW. And btw there are alot of self proclaimed Eng-Ed girls with broken english. How sad!while Chi-Ed girls tend to dress in more cute and somewhat chldish clothing. Given a choice I would prefer a girl with classy clothing. |
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Oct 15 2008, 05:48 PM
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QUOTE(nonexno @ Oct 15 2008, 05:47 PM) Haha... Eng-Ed girls for the FTW. And btw there are alot of self proclaimed Eng-Ed girls with broken english. How sad! yeah man wtf ??why do they even try ? |
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Oct 15 2008, 06:17 PM
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QUOTE(drgadgets @ Oct 15 2008, 12:54 PM) However, Eng-Ed girls tend to be more difficult to please, as in they tend to be higher maintenance and have higher "requirements" as to which guys they would consider as boyfriends. They are also more likely to be the ones who end a relationship when things turn sour. this point varies... can't say eng-cult gal higher maintainance... but higher requirements yes... this i agree... initiating break up also circumstances dependant... usually depend on their experience, knowledge and perception in relationships... QUOTE(drgadgets @ Oct 15 2008, 12:54 PM) Most Chi-ed girls I know place great importance on their relationships. Many would try their very best to keep a relationship going even the going gets tough. One girl i know was unwilling to initiate a break-up from her bf even though it was obvious to everyone that their relationship had been downhill for months. She decided to wait for him to break up with her. this 1 also depend on their experience and perception about relationships... can't exactly categorize... QUOTE(drgadgets @ Oct 15 2008, 12:54 PM) As to who's more pretty, I guess to each man his own. In my experience, well-mannered Eng-Ed girls tend to dress in more classy and lady-like clothes while Chi-Ed girls tend to dress in more cute and somewhat chldish clothing. Given a choice I would prefer a girl with classy clothing. Looks aren't that important to me though, so both would be fine by me. err... as for looks... i don think the diff is classy vs cute la... i think eng-cult tend to look more towards simple and casual... chi-cult tend to prefer clothes tat make them look extra-ordinary... both cult also prefer to be cute la... juz which type of cute only... In conclusion, I think that if you're an English-ed guy looking for a soulmate, a Eng-ed girl would be your best bet. However, if you would like someone who would welcome you home with a piping hot dinner and stand by you through thick and thin a Chi-Ed girl would suit you better. Bear in mind these are just my opinions, and if anyone disagrees I would love to know your take on things! |
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Oct 15 2008, 10:18 PM
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139 posts Joined: Jun 2008 From: kuala lumpur
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almost all go for english ed girls , coz easy to communicate !!!
true ....... but i prefer chinese ed, i find them more girly and homely .....This post has been edited by white.lion.clan: Oct 15 2008, 10:19 PM |
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Oct 16 2008, 09:06 PM
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0 posts Joined: Oct 2008
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From my experience, I will make it simple..
English ed -more open towards things -fun and would usually more like able among your friends -sporting and friendly -likes touches and public affection -usually they tend to spend a bit more -if they are angry or sad, they show it very obviously Chinese ed -conservative -prefers holding hands -more careful with their spendings -more clingy but they might do sweet things that might surprise you -quiet with your friends usually -don't show their emotions much This is just from my experience. It might not apply for all girls of course. I only dated 2 other girls other than my current. (2 chinese ed and current english ed) |
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Oct 16 2008, 09:53 PM
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2,497 posts Joined: May 2005
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both ok la. i really dont consider these as a factor.
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