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 chinese ed gf vs english ed gf, let the debates begin lulz

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gracechew
post Jul 28 2008, 07:50 PM

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ER...im English-ed...but my bf is Chinese-ed, still ok oh..quite fun...only I duno how 2 communicate with his family members..cuz they are pure chinese-ed...I teach him english, he teach me mandarin, and he alwis laugh the way I speak those mandarin words out..So, I think its up 2 both parties...how they see things.. biggrin.gif
gracechew
post Jul 31 2008, 10:33 AM

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QUOTE(wonghanjiang @ Jul 29 2008, 12:17 AM)
hello grace chew finally i found u.......how ur life now?? biggrin.gif  biggrin.gif
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hahaha!!why are u finding me?? yeah im fine...im quite busy nowadays...cuz im having exams now..hehehe!study study study... sad.gif u say u work at lowyat??? roughly u know how much they sell psp at there?? without the pro-dual memory card..
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post Jul 31 2008, 10:48 AM

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QUOTE(KKKRD @ Jul 31 2008, 02:19 AM)
hmmm.. interesting. from my experience with both,

Pros of English Ed - better educated in general, has an educated opinion on things and can blend in with different crowds much easier. Communication is much easier as well coz everything can be described in words. much easier for friends and family to accept and interact with

COns of English Ed- can tend to be very argumentative because of a belief that she ONLY is right, may tend to be very $$$ dependant (read: shopping!!!:, may be too open, believes that she is above any housework, and from my experience, not as committed to a relationship or working for a future with the other half.


Pros of CHinese ED (speaks little or no english, and very little written english) - very understanding (understands that work gives her other half alot of stress, understands that she needs to look after her guy when he's sick, not feeling well etc), trys to work out a good future for the couple, understands that a couple needs to work together to make things work out and be happy etc, not as materialistic, can adjust to different lifestyles (if you're an average joe she'll be there with you, if the sh1t hit the fan and you lost almost everything she'll be there with you too)

Chinese Ed Cons - Can be too naive and easily influenced by friends, can be very very emotional over small matters.
OVerall, i think Chinese Ed is better, as a semi-bannana, even tho it's difficult to bring my gf out for dinners etc sometimes coz of language barriers, it's still better for me as i find that chinese ed girls are not out there soo much for the fun, but more to settling down into a good future.


Added on July 31, 2008, 2:23 am
lol. tell me about it. i hate the stupid "i've eaten more salt that you've eaten rice" line. it's soo bloody lame.you tell em what you've achieved, and they tell you - "your father gave all to you mah, i started from nothing". pfft. old foggies still living in the 1960s...


Added on July 31, 2008, 2:37 am
ROFL..... dude, who implied so? your statement is very naive.. hahaha.. life is very simple... No Money, No Honey!!! lust? haha, you sound very very righteous. you celibate or sth? no offense man. you've never experienced lust........... y....e....t????


Added on July 31, 2008, 2:46 am
101% correct!!! more open too in terms of physical intimacy. One thing i've noticed is that teenage pregnancy is more prevalent in predominantly chinese populated areas. e.g Kepong and Cheras areas.
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hmm...ur pro and cons some part may be right...but some parts are wrong too..
I'm eng-ed gal..when I enter TARC for A-levels at wangsa maju....of cos..i need to mix around, and in my course..I'M THE ONLY FEW ONES WHO DON'T KNOW MANDARIN...I meet different types of mandarin speaking gals...Some like you say in the pro for chinese-ed...Think of the serious things more...But I knew this mandarin gal..First day couple up, already buat buat...Too fast???? shocking.gif

But what I sometimes don't like about too eng-ed gals is that they tend to be "action" cuz they can speak fluent english..Like got American or Aussie accent...bla bla bla...There was once, I was at Nike outlet cashier, these 3 gals keep talking loudly with their Aussie accent...(so noisy) Then, they even told the person in the counter they are studying at Australia when he did even ask them... rclxub.gif

Overall, I like both, it depends on their personalities only..If they are B*T*H then I won't go with them...As for guys..I don't know...

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