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QUOTE(aragorn.yoong @ Oct 14 2008, 09:13 AM)
My thoughts:
Why I don't support Chinese ed, because:
Firstly, what's the point of only talking about Cantopop or Mandarinpop all the time? Most of the time, when you hang out with them at kopitiams, they talk trash and rubbish without value. Bring in topics on politics and real world issues, they'd be mute and not know what to say. Why so? They just give me the impression that they're less intelligent, less educated, and highly ignorant of what's going on around them. Neither do they want to care about finding out more, just go on and live life talking rubbish, nice wan meh?
Secondly, I just have the impression that the girls are influenced to think that marrying a rich guy is their life goal. They know nothing about women's rights, female empowerment, and how important it is for a woman to be independent after marriage and have her own source of income and career. I always believe that when a woman stops working and stays home, and all she does is just to suck her husband's money dry (shopping and "tea sessions" with other like-minded tai tai, again talking rubbish), she loses all sense of her own identity in this society and her purpose living this life. Did they really think that the husband will always be around? What if one day he leaves her for younger and prettier women? She would have no backup income and career to make her own living. It's ironic that most of these girls don't learn from their parents especially when divorce rates are definitely higher in Chinese ed families than English ed families.
And you'll also notice that in entertainment outlets, most Chinese men who fondle and fool around with the bar waitresses come from Chinese ed background. Got a family yet choose to come to places like this, ish.
Thirdly, again, most of them don't seem to have a clear career goal. I'm not saying all Chinese ed are like that, but most are. They don't seem interested in aiming high in their career, all they want is just a rich husband. At the meantime while they're still searching, they'll do jobs like freelance promoter/ushering/waitressing/pr for many years until they're married. Pays well but there's no future in those industries, who still wants to hire girls in their 30s? There's no hope in building a career there, I just think they're very short-sighted thinking they can live with such income and without building a career.
Nuff said!
why i prefer English ed, because:
Firstly, their intelligence and worldliness. I can talk about Malaysian politics, US presidential campaign, economy, my own office politics, her own office politics, career choices, and she can give me solid and valid opinions. Who knows, the discussion may result in full of different ideas and variety in opinions.
Secondly, I like a career woman for their identity, independence, and intelligence. I think I've made that very obvious. English ed girls know better what career choices are more beneficial. Most of them definitely know freelance jobs or office positions in dead-end companies won't do their career any good. And with a career wife, I'd be proud to bring her along to my corporate functions since she'll be able to converse with my colleagues and even make contacts. If I bring a Chinese ed who only knows kopitiam rubbish talk, she'd be bored to death in this kinda function.
Thirdly, dress sense of English ed definitely better. More classy and sophisticated. I think we've all criticized on how tasteless the "lala" fashion is, unfortunately fancied by Chinese ed girls at large. Imagine being seen going out with them *shudders*
This is my own experience with people of Chinese ed and English ed. Generally I prefer mixing with English ed, they are more interesting and open-minded, so there goes....!
Why I don't support Chinese ed, because:
Firstly, what's the point of only talking about Cantopop or Mandarinpop all the time? Most of the time, when you hang out with them at kopitiams, they talk trash and rubbish without value. Bring in topics on politics and real world issues, they'd be mute and not know what to say. Why so? They just give me the impression that they're less intelligent, less educated, and highly ignorant of what's going on around them. Neither do they want to care about finding out more, just go on and live life talking rubbish, nice wan meh?
Secondly, I just have the impression that the girls are influenced to think that marrying a rich guy is their life goal. They know nothing about women's rights, female empowerment, and how important it is for a woman to be independent after marriage and have her own source of income and career. I always believe that when a woman stops working and stays home, and all she does is just to suck her husband's money dry (shopping and "tea sessions" with other like-minded tai tai, again talking rubbish), she loses all sense of her own identity in this society and her purpose living this life. Did they really think that the husband will always be around? What if one day he leaves her for younger and prettier women? She would have no backup income and career to make her own living. It's ironic that most of these girls don't learn from their parents especially when divorce rates are definitely higher in Chinese ed families than English ed families.
And you'll also notice that in entertainment outlets, most Chinese men who fondle and fool around with the bar waitresses come from Chinese ed background. Got a family yet choose to come to places like this, ish.
Thirdly, again, most of them don't seem to have a clear career goal. I'm not saying all Chinese ed are like that, but most are. They don't seem interested in aiming high in their career, all they want is just a rich husband. At the meantime while they're still searching, they'll do jobs like freelance promoter/ushering/waitressing/pr for many years until they're married. Pays well but there's no future in those industries, who still wants to hire girls in their 30s? There's no hope in building a career there, I just think they're very short-sighted thinking they can live with such income and without building a career.
Nuff said!
why i prefer English ed, because:
Firstly, their intelligence and worldliness. I can talk about Malaysian politics, US presidential campaign, economy, my own office politics, her own office politics, career choices, and she can give me solid and valid opinions. Who knows, the discussion may result in full of different ideas and variety in opinions.
Secondly, I like a career woman for their identity, independence, and intelligence. I think I've made that very obvious. English ed girls know better what career choices are more beneficial. Most of them definitely know freelance jobs or office positions in dead-end companies won't do their career any good. And with a career wife, I'd be proud to bring her along to my corporate functions since she'll be able to converse with my colleagues and even make contacts. If I bring a Chinese ed who only knows kopitiam rubbish talk, she'd be bored to death in this kinda function.
Thirdly, dress sense of English ed definitely better. More classy and sophisticated. I think we've all criticized on how tasteless the "lala" fashion is, unfortunately fancied by Chinese ed girls at large. Imagine being seen going out with them *shudders*
This is my own experience with people of Chinese ed and English ed. Generally I prefer mixing with English ed, they are more interesting and open-minded, so there goes....!
lol~
now i realized that if my gf was english ed, how am i gonna win an argument with her.
anyway about my views,
i see most of the chinese ed girls like to wear those like fantasy fantasy style of fashion from korea or taiwan.
dunno bout you guys but i think that sucks man...
Oct 14 2008, 09:26 AM

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