that's true.

although thats true....i will have to disagree with what you said in context of how one judges a lala.

A lala isnt a lala for dressing differently with a different fashion preferance.

A person is a lala only when she dresses out of place and stands out like a sore thumb and generally exudes a vibe of insecurity due to her feeling stupid coz she's wearing thick wooly boots in our hot weather...and generally putting on heavy duty makeups for going to McDonalds. And yes, having ones hair made up as if one just walked out of some japanese comic too give the impression that one is trying too hard. A person who simply copies whatever she sees regardless of appropriateness is to me, delusional - a hallmark of a lala.

A tip to girls above 20: Stay away from the cute look. Strive for sophistication. Class. Subtleness. Less is more. Yes, its actually easier to NOT be a lala than to be a lala. Where you shop matters very little.

This post has been edited by teongpeng: Dec 25 2009, 10:42 AM

English Ed girls stay around

Subang Jaya
PJ
Damansara
Mont Kiara
Hartamas



Chinese ED girls stay around

Kepong
Cheras
Puchong
Klang
Selayang
Ampang
Jinjang
Setapak


There is alot of differences but also depends on how she is brought up by parents...

I don't consciously look for eng ed or chinese eg gals, but those I'm attracted to are generally english ed. Does that tell you anything?

noone cares about what you asked, don't you notice that already?

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Added on December 25, 2009, 3:46 pmdon't conclude stuff you dunno.




I'm chinese ed since primary, but people have no clue that I'm a chinese ed, base on appearance, acts and the way i talk. So yeah, DO NOT CONCLUDE THE WHOLE GROUP OF PEOPLE BASE ON ONE PERSON.

This post has been edited by euphoria88: Dec 25 2009, 03:46 PM

i never said anything bout lala...

i'm simply pointing out tat roughly we won get to see many eng ed dressing up like:

Speak English, speak good Chinese, behave as normal as one can be, good enough.

it varies... i said generally... in specific though... there are lots of variations... i'd prefer to know tat specific person b4 judging wat type tat person is instead of judging them based on whether they studied in a chinese school or not...

This is true. People often misunderstand that English ed girls will be somewhat 'angmoh' in their ways of thinking and life. Whether or not one tends to act like an angmoh or be like her ownself regardless of which type of education she's receiving is entirely up to herself. A Chinese educated girl can be wearing top notch designers clothing and accessories without looking any bit like a stereotyped lala Chinese ed girl.


I am English educated together with my bunch of friends and we live in Ampang and Cheras area..some even in Setapak area. Therefore your observation/classification is not valid.

Fully agree with you. Why make searching life partner so complicated and categorising people? Everyone has his likes and dislikes. One shouldn't be judging(tho sometimes I admit I do judge people..I try not to nowadays) a person him/herself based on the education because that doesnt determine that the girl is less worthy if she's not from your preferred education background.

I can agree with your reasoning but your example seems to suggest that wearing 'top notch designer clothing' means being close to being a westerner?

What I have in mind about being close to being a westerner was more along the lines of mentality. For example, giving way on the roads, more eco-friendly lifestyle, don't cut queues, flush after use, spitting in public, and i can go on forever...

People still keep misunderstanding the education means schooling... haih

which does not include family guidance...? cuz family guidance affects chi/eng ed people differently...

and there's when you come out

I'm English educated and I live in Cheras. Logic fail.

he meant mostly.

still a very very big generalization. Cheras is a HUGE chinese area ... you can't say that they're mostly chinese educated.

This post has been edited by spunkberry: Dec 26 2009, 11:06 AM

ma gf from cheras 2... eng ed... her parents and her bro are bananas as well...

wassup! did anyone say cheras?

The only thing I noticed is that you really need male attention in a forum!

Your observation is very terrible