I prefer my partner to be english educated their thinking is always way way more mature.

Chinese educated their way being brought up is very naive. From my experience they seldom think before doing an action but do it think later.

Actually the fault is you and your mom. Its the way you being brought up and there is no one to guide you on how to understand the entire picture. Your parents can only teach you what they know nothing more! 2nd is your mindset how you choose to think. My relationship is 6 years old and still kicking but it took me many years to find my partner.

Two couple should always have the same direction in most thing + understand.
Ive learn a lesson if you think back from today most of your action is related with your past or someone else.

Why do people always blame it on everything else except themselves?
No one is perfect but you can try to build the perfection. why cant you try to guide him and change him? Why must break up? Its call naive thinking.

This post has been edited by DiGi: Jul 25 2008, 02:03 PM

we are human no matter how different it is we are merely human. I dont know him but he still human how different can he be? 10 eyes? 5 nose? 3 mouth? Get the idea he is still human.

Its all about mindset. It takes me few seminar few thousand to master this knowledge.

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Added on July 25, 2008, 2:06 pmNo offense but u try think why is it his fault?

You are like a director of a movie ( Your life)

you choose him , you make decision , you choose what you want to see. You choose what do you want to do.
Everything begins with YOU. What you say you are always right? But how do you know you are right? You make the decision wo? So who fault it is? So its all about your mindset

This post has been edited by DiGi: Jul 25 2008, 02:07 PM

ahaha ok sorry forget it. Nobody fault.

Try to look at the bigger picture then you will understand the smaller pieces

I think that is good. Your partner is just shy but mature.
Problem today a percentage of ppl shy and also like a sticky magnet.

If it ever arises again its too late.

Have you ever hear prevention better than cure?
Why not master the knowledge and try to prevent? Why must wait it arises again?

u try take another magnet it will stick.
So most chinese ed i seen

monday - bf/gf
tuesday - bf/gf
wednesday - bf/gf

all week long then tis will start all over every week until it becomes months then years.

have problem

also bf/gf

They too dependant they even forget about their friends. When they get dump? They feel like life is over and keep begging for pityness. Its not the first time i seen this but it happens everyday around me.

I dont see any harm in that. If you master that studies i would love to learn more from you

" What you focus will expand even its good or bad "

In life why we are good in some things like business because we go college we go school to learn but there is no class for relationship or love right? How i understand also thru my own studies and having mature friends to brainstorm problem.

This post has been edited by DiGi: Jul 25 2008, 02:17 PM

What i would love from my partner is someone that can educate me and also can share.

Because you dont see the bigger picture if u do u will understand. Every action always leads to another action. Its all a chain reaction. When you concentrate on something you will always gain more knowledge compare to others they dont bother.

Have you wonder it gives you a better picture ? like why they act like that? Why they do it? How to change 1? How to avoid someone like that? How to actually know if a person is like that? It tells you so many things but being naive it immediately block your brain. Then all your life you only have that small tiny picture. Then it becomes a habit after it becomes a habit this idea you are having now you will bring till you are old then past it to your children goes on.

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Added on July 25, 2008, 2:31 pmI suggest it because its nth to do about where she resides its about the mindset. From nothing can be something or from something can be nothing

" when there's a will there's always a way "

Sorry if i was rude this just some knowledge i gain from brainstorming and attending alot alot of seminars

This post has been edited by DiGi: Jul 25 2008, 02:34 PM

Seminars means its about many things businesses, self motivation , problem solving because the more seminar i attend the bigger the picture i see then people without it at all.

The bigger picture is example your BF he only knows what he knows but by helping him realising what he missing or dont understand it helps him to change. Then when he realise it he can help others to change.

Like i said its another chain reaction. IF everyone thinks like you then all also become like you. So negative.

Thats why they said the most important of children age is between 1-8 its the most crucial time of the children education how u educate them they will make it a habit and adept to it when they grow up.

Nothing is impossible !

You set the limit you choose the limit.

So thats why most people fail they only look for 1 type of group they let the other group dies.
Why not make all the group unites and head for 1 direction.

haha anyway i think ill end here. Some day you will realise it ! We are just merely human

this what usually happen when u try to educate people. Sorry my fault i am young. Dont need to wish me good luck because i already did manage to change a few. Like i said its your life you choose what to believe what you dont. I dont benefit anything even if u listen.

You are never wrong my dear what you say you are always right because its what you believe. No one is ever wrong There is no right or wrong its just which path you prefer to take.

This an example you can always explain and share what you only know. I only can explain what i only know

Why not you tell me what is easy in life? Nothing is easy ! To tell you the truth i was a chinese ed all my life ppl around me are so (HELL) negative! I tell you honestly how i change because i met 1 guy that changes my entire life i see everything from a different angle.

Example most of things u share are negative. You channel negative energy so people around you will be negative?
Why not try to look at the positive side?

YING AND YANG
GOOD OR BAD
HAPPY AND SAD

everything in life is balance but its just what you choose to see.

haha i need to get back to real life. have fun dreaming

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Added on July 25, 2008, 3:04 pmSo whats the harm in trying to find NOW? the chances for you to find it is higher compare to ppl that dont even care.


This post has been edited by DiGi: Jul 25 2008, 03:04 PM

If you think whoever you mix have a negative mindset i suggest you change that friends.

Because if you mix with negative ppl they channel negative energy and all you get is everything negative.

YOu mix with positive ppl then everything becomes positive

Haha sorry thank you for helping explain. I am very bad in explaining thing but i dont like to force ppl ( your so called persuasion ) Like some ppl when their mindset is fix they will be the comfort zone it protect themselves from everything ppl say . I dont blame them but at least i know i tried.

Have u ever felt an energy or a force thats very powerful and it keep channeling among a group of ppl it just makes everything feels good.

Haha anyway its ok i rest my case.

tat kind of mindset can be in tats a joke dude. Do you need to study psychology to understand human?