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TSMoonRider
post Feb 1 2016, 09:15 AM, updated 6y ago

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Opening a thread for dads/husband to discuss anything related to kids/parenthood/family/spouse

i am father of 3 boys ...hope can contribute

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post Feb 1 2016, 09:17 AM

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Sup bros.

Husband and father here.
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post Feb 1 2016, 09:19 AM

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post Feb 1 2016, 02:46 PM

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i'm a husband and a father of an 8 months old daughter
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Husband and father of one, another one coming in few weeks time!! biggrin.gif

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post Feb 1 2016, 03:27 PM

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QUOTE(Newgen @ Feb 1 2016, 03:10 PM)
Husband and father of one, another one coming in few weeks time!! biggrin.gif
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congrats ....
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hallo. father of a 18 month boy checkin in.

QUOTE(Newgen @ Feb 1 2016, 03:10 PM)
Husband and father of one, another one coming in few weeks time!! biggrin.gif
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congrats bro. level up! thumbup.gif

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now... what is there to discuss? i guess one worry i have now is speaking. so far my son is 18 months. but still cant really talk properly. he can make tons+tons of animal noises though. which is freakin hilarious... but for words just single syllable words. baba mama dada nana etc. cant seem to sound out two sounds like bana or maba or that type of thing. people say boys speak late. but its still a worry. sweat.gif

when did your kids start stringing sounds together

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post Feb 2 2016, 03:09 PM

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husband and father of 4 year old female here.

i must say, female expenses very high.
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QUOTE(FireIceCombo @ Feb 2 2016, 03:09 PM)
husband and father of 4 year old female here.

i must say, female expenses very high.
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get ready mr.postman
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post Feb 2 2016, 03:16 PM

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Husband here and father to be in May biggrin.gif
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post Feb 2 2016, 03:22 PM

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Hubby & father to be.

Anyone got their own "man cave" at home? wifu allowed or not?

this is awesome
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post Feb 2 2016, 03:26 PM

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QUOTE(KepliCorn Inc @ Feb 2 2016, 03:22 PM)
Hubby & father to be.

Anyone got their own "man cave" at home? wifu allowed or not?

this is awesome
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I got a very small room for my stuffs.....around 3 feet by 8 feet or so haha
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post Feb 2 2016, 03:26 PM

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QUOTE(KepliCorn Inc @ Feb 2 2016, 03:22 PM)
Hubby & father to be.

Anyone got their own "man cave" at home? wifu allowed or not?

this is awesome
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haha. i live is a small apartment. my only mancave is my side table. i can keep WHATEVER i want inside. i so lucky. hahaha
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Kinda lonely but live must go on.. smile.gif
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post Feb 2 2016, 03:32 PM

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QUOTE(simplecated @ Feb 2 2016, 03:27 PM)
Weekend Husband and father of 2 sons (5y & 6mth)

Kinda lonely but live must go on.. smile.gif
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i feel ya bro. but weekend still ok loh. for the past year or so me and waifu living in different countries whilst i get settled back here (move back from overseas). i get to see my son like 3-4 times per year only because wife still working overseas. but after CNY all back here as one unit flex.gif flex.gif oh yeah!

hard to manage feeding and playing from here. but still possible! so for all long distance dads. dont give up! icon_rolleyes.gif icon_rolleyes.gif
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QUOTE(panda-man @ Feb 2 2016, 03:32 PM)
i feel ya bro. but weekend still ok loh. for the past year or so me and waifu living in different countries whilst i get settled back here (move back from overseas). i get to see my son like 3-4 times per year only because wife still working overseas. but after CNY all back here as one unit  flex.gif  flex.gif oh yeah!

hard to manage feeding and playing from here. but still possible! so for all long distance dads. dont give up!  icon_rolleyes.gif  icon_rolleyes.gif
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god bless ur family...mine as well! smile.gif
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QUOTE(simplecated @ Feb 2 2016, 03:38 PM)
god bless ur family...mine as well! smile.gif
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thanks! we live complicated lives hahahah.
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Feb 1 2016, 09:15 AM)
Opening a thread for dads/husband to discuss anything related to kids/parenthood/family/spouse

i am father of 3 boys ...hope can contribute
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envy you have 3 kids....

how you manage?

Currently i have only one daughter 3yrs old. Always like to stick me ( bath, feed, play, poo2, sleep ) all looking for me. Although sometimes its quite tiring & irritates, is a learning journey for me....


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get ready mr.postman
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ahahaha i'm preparing as early as possible
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post Feb 2 2016, 04:38 PM

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who here rotan children ? or let wife rotan ?

i sendiri rotan. my daughter kena 2 times oredi.
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QUOTE(FireIceCombo @ Feb 2 2016, 04:38 PM)
who here rotan children ? or let wife rotan ?

i sendiri rotan. my daughter kena 2 times oredi.
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How old is your daughter?

I already bought rotan ( small, medium, big ) but keep aside first.
Currently i still manage to control her......
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post Feb 2 2016, 05:21 PM

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i rotan with hand only. later when older i still dunno. i kena figure that out later. my mom used those plastic hangers... seems effective and most rooms have it on hand hahah.
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post Feb 2 2016, 08:22 PM

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wow so many guys at pregnancy section...
rotan will not solve the issue.

let me start to share on eating food.. i let my boys to learn to eat when they are 18 months .. although is dirty end of the day but that how it should be.. just make sure seating beside them while they are eating..

asian like to hold a bowl of rice and chase here n there to feed the kids.. have u seen mat salleh doing that? u need to let the kids know that if u dont eat u will hungry

as car seat.. all my kids going through the car seat... train them from young.. my two eldest both till 8 years old

when i start my car all must at their car seat else i wont drive.. do it for 2 -3 weeks n the kids will surrender ...as going out is what kids looking for.. even there is one time i turn back home from halfway when the kids dont want to sit car seat..

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QUOTE(panda-man @ Feb 2 2016, 02:59 PM)
hallo. father of a 18 month boy checkin in.
congrats bro. level up!  thumbup.gif

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now... what is there to discuss? i guess one worry i have now is speaking. so far my son is 18 months. but still cant really talk properly. he can make tons+tons of animal noises though. which is freakin hilarious... but for words just single syllable words. baba mama dada nana etc. cant seem to sound out two sounds like bana or maba or that type of thing. people say boys speak late. but its still a worry.  sweat.gif

when did your kids start stringing sounds together
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dont worry too much.. just make sure not playing too much ipad n tv ... when they want somethig.. try to let them speak for 2-3 times.. u just buat bodoh.. after 2-3 times trying only give to the toddler.. this is to teach them to speak n talk when they want to request ..
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Feb 2 2016, 08:26 PM)
dont worry too much.. just make sure not playing too much ipad n tv ... when they want somethig.. try to let them speak for 2-3 times.. u just buat bodoh.. after 2-3 times trying only give to the toddler.. this is to teach them  to speak n talk when they want to request ..
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nah, doesnt really play ipad. he loves his lego and stuff. just ipad to watch videos of himself once in a while. right now most of the time grandparents is takin care. i think once he comes back here then i will need to talk with him a lot.... hopefully he will start to pick up haha.
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Good day guys,
I'm a husband and a father of a 2 months old son.
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QUOTE(sheridankamal @ Feb 3 2016, 12:38 PM)
Good day guys,
I'm a husband and a father of a 2 months old son.
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welcome to the daddy daycare. haha. congrats on your newborn. 2 months still not golek golek everywhere heheh.
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QUOTE(panda-man @ Feb 3 2016, 01:22 PM)
welcome to the daddy daycare. haha. congrats on your newborn. 2 months still not golek golek everywhere heheh.
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Hahaha, thanks.
Bila bila can expect golek golek?
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QUOTE(sheridankamal @ Feb 3 2016, 01:59 PM)
Hahaha, thanks.
Bila bila can expect golek golek?
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i also forgot. i think around 5-6 months. then it becomes a headache. always golek here and there. hard to put them to sleep shocking.gif
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QUOTE(panda-man @ Feb 3 2016, 02:04 PM)
i also forgot. i think around 5-6 months. then it becomes a headache. always golek here and there. hard to put them to sleep  shocking.gif
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Headache? I must be prepared...

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QUOTE(sheridankamal @ Feb 3 2016, 02:21 PM)
Headache? I must be prepared...
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yeah. because you have to constantly watch them. if they golek into the pillow for example. chances are they have no chance to golek away. then hard to breathe/cant breathe. very dangerous. when my son was that age. he didnt have any pillows or anything in his crib. just a blanket. which we shoved down the sides so that it cannot be pulled further than his tummy. once they can roll freely back and forth its easier.

but you should encourage them to roll. once they move more just nudge them until they can do it. i got one old colleague son is almost one year, still cant roll over. they never encouraged him to golek over. they said its more convenient.... but they are just hindering his growth... kecian.
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use blanket for baby got lubang lubang.. if not mistaken the brand is first few years.. that one wont lemas ur baby
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After CNY Father to be check in. =D
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QUOTE(tzychun79 @ Feb 3 2016, 04:51 PM)
After CNY Father to be check in. =D
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congrats buddy. get ready for no sleep! heheh.
if deliver in private i hope it doesnt fall on CNY holiday. if not... $$$$$ hehehe. my son the day after hari raya holiday hahah. lucky.... sweat.gif

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seems got many grandmaster level dad here. hahah.
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QUOTE(FireIceCombo @ Feb 2 2016, 04:38 PM)
who here rotan children ? or let wife rotan ?

i sendiri rotan. my daughter kena 2 times oredi.
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depends on who's in charge of them
IMHO both should not rotan the children. 1 must be their ally so that they have someone to turn to

EDIT : by both i means one rotan, another help. good cop bad cop theory

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husband here. not planning to be a father anytime soon laugh.gif
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welcome, and get learn experience.
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QUOTE(panda-man @ Feb 2 2016, 02:59 PM)
hallo. father of a 18 month boy checkin in.
congrats bro. level up!  thumbup.gif

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now... what is there to discuss? i guess one worry i have now is speaking. so far my son is 18 months. but still cant really talk properly. he can make tons+tons of animal noises though. which is freakin hilarious... but for words just single syllable words. baba mama dada nana etc. cant seem to sound out two sounds like bana or maba or that type of thing. people say boys speak late. but its still a worry.  sweat.gif

when did your kids start stringing sounds together
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My boy is now 2.5 years old & yea, same worry as you're having too. He's not speaking much but I do see some improvement the last few weeks. I had to force him to speak up when he wanted something or else I won't do it for him.

Me & my wife have been discussing if we should throw him into nursery ASAP so that he gets to mingle around with other kids.

Also been thinking of speech therapy for quite some time now but I guess I'll consider it seriously when he hits 3 & still lotsa baby talk. sweat.gif
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QUOTE(talexeh @ Feb 3 2016, 05:47 PM)
My boy is now 2.5 years old & yea, same worry as you're having too. He's not speaking much but I do see some improvement the last few weeks. I had to force him to speak up when he wanted something or else I won't do it for him.

Me & my wife have been discussing if we should throw him into nursery ASAP so that he gets to mingle around with other kids.

Also been thinking of speech therapy for quite some time now but I guess I'll consider it seriously when he hits 3 & still lotsa baby talk. sweat.gif
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can he build sentence? i.e green ball? can he read abc or number? 3 yrs at nusery wont help much.. bytheway 3 yrs still early....

the most important when kids reach 3 .. is for them to response to u.. i.e u throw a ball in front of him.. his eyeball will follow the ball... or ask him to pick up things he undesrstand the command

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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Feb 3 2016, 07:45 PM)
can he build sentence? i.e green ball?  can he read abc or number? 3 yrs at nusery wont help much..  bytheway 3 yrs still early....

the most important when kids reach 3 .. is for them to response to u.. i.e u throw a ball in front of him.. his eyeball will follow the ball... or ask him to pick up things he undesrstand the command
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Fortunately, he can do all that you mentioned.

While I'm not exactly sure how much of what he said is considered as "build sentence", he can definitely relate an object with colour (blue car), he is capable of going through ABC-Z, 1-20'ish & he is able to comprehend my command. It's just that majority of stuffs coming out from his mouth are still baby-talk or a mixture of 70% baby talk, 30% comprehensible English.

I must also said that he is very stubborn or in better term, strong-willed. He will ignore me if he's doing something else & sometimes he's very moody (which is kinda like his mom) when interrupted. As such, a lot of time, me & my wife felt that he didn't have much eye contact with us which is 1 of the factors that got us worried. In fact, my worries of him being autistic is 1 of the few reasons why I kept rejecting my wife when she asked for a sibling for him. sweat.gif

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hi guys.. my son is 18mths now..

is it normal when he always wake up or cry at night asking for milk?

routine is like this

11pm - he start to sleep, around 20-30min he will sleep soundly

1am or 2am - his 1st cry for milk..he didn't actually wake up and open eye, just crying for milk

4am or 4.30am - he cry for milk again

6am to 7am - cry for milk again, this time need to put in cradle else he wont stop crying.. will sleep until 10am then wake up and bath

me myself no problem wake up at middle of night to make milk, but pity my wife coz when she wake up, quite hard to sleep again.. she's a nurse btw

my son now drink formula milk only since he's 12mths
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QUOTE(mi-g @ Feb 3 2016, 09:40 PM)
hi guys.. my son is 18mths now..

is it normal when he always wake up or cry at night asking for milk?

routine is like this

11pm - he start to sleep, around 20-30min he will sleep soundly

1am or 2am - his 1st cry for milk..he didn't actually wake up and open eye, just crying for milk

4am or 4.30am - he cry for milk again

6am to 7am - cry for milk again, this time need to put in cradle else he wont stop crying.. will sleep until 10am then wake up and bath

me myself no problem wake up at middle of night to make milk, but pity my wife coz when she wake up, quite hard to sleep again.. she's a nurse btw

my son now drink formula milk only since he's 12mths
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Can try train him off of that. We did it slowly. Unfortunately he still wakes up doh.gif but not for milk. Wake up give him a sip of water then he KO again. Still dunno why he gets so thirsty at night. Before sleeping around 10-11pm. He drinks 200ml milk AND 100ml water. Then can sleep.... strange. But easier than waking up, buat milk. Check milk. Blah blah hahah.
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QUOTE(mi-g @ Feb 3 2016, 09:40 PM)
hi guys.. my son is 18mths now..

is it normal when he always wake up or cry at night asking for milk?

routine is like this

11pm - he start to sleep, around 20-30min he will sleep soundly

1am or 2am - his 1st cry for milk..he didn't actually wake up and open eye, just crying for milk

4am or 4.30am - he cry for milk again

6am to 7am - cry for milk again, this time need to put in cradle else he wont stop crying.. will sleep until 10am then wake up and bath

me myself no problem wake up at middle of night to make milk, but pity my wife coz when she wake up, quite hard to sleep again.. she's a nurse btw

my son now drink formula milk only since he's 12mths
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My boy had this issue before too. Pediatrician encouraged us to give him solid before sleep as he might get a little hungry if he only had milk prior to his bed time. You can give that a try.

However, in my case, it's kind of a season thing. There are weeks where he slept soundly throughout the night, weeks where he would wake up too early (like 5am) & weeks where he would wake up in the middle of the night for milk. I've gotten a bit used to it so no more complaints... unless my wife got woken up by the ruckus. sweat.gif
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QUOTE(panda-man @ Feb 2 2016, 02:59 PM)

congrats bro. level up!  thumbup.gif

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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Feb 1 2016, 03:27 PM)
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QUOTE(panda-man @ Feb 3 2016, 06:01 PM)
congrats buddy. get ready for no sleep! heheh.
if deliver in private i hope it doesnt fall on CNY holiday. if not... $$$$$ hehehe. my son the day after hari raya holiday hahah. lucky....  sweat.gif
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Hehe.. hopefully, EDD is end of March should be after CNY. Still can enjoy the festival.
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father of 2 here.

take it easy on kids. boy learns more slow than girls.

my boy another 3 months will hit 3years old but still cant speak properly. goin for kinder does help them to love read n learn. i enrolled my kids in qdees edp (early child development program)
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QUOTE(mi-g @ Feb 3 2016, 09:40 PM)
hi guys.. my son is 18mths now..

is it normal when he always wake up or cry at night asking for milk?

routine is like this

11pm - he start to sleep, around 20-30min he will sleep soundly

1am or 2am - his 1st cry for milk..he didn't actually wake up and open eye, just crying for milk

4am or 4.30am - he cry for milk again

6am to 7am - cry for milk again, this time need to put in cradle else he wont stop crying.. will sleep until 10am then wake up and bath

me myself no problem wake up at middle of night to make milk, but pity my wife coz when she wake up, quite hard to sleep again.. she's a nurse btw

my son now drink formula milk only since he's 12mths
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this is more routine issue..and why only sleep at 11pm so late..
before sleep big bottle milk ? probaly solid food not enough dring dinner

my kids will ready for bed at 8 to 8.30pm.. so after 9.30pm i got free time with my wife..


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QUOTE(mi-g @ Feb 3 2016, 09:40 PM)
hi guys.. my son is 18mths now..

is it normal when he always wake up or cry at night asking for milk?

routine is like this

11pm - he start to sleep, around 20-30min he will sleep soundly

1am or 2am - his 1st cry for milk..he didn't actually wake up and open eye, just crying for milk

4am or 4.30am - he cry for milk again

6am to 7am - cry for milk again, this time need to put in cradle else he wont stop crying.. will sleep until 10am then wake up and bath

me myself no problem wake up at middle of night to make milk, but pity my wife coz when she wake up, quite hard to sleep again.. she's a nurse btw

my son now drink formula milk only since he's 12mths
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how many u gib 1 time? d wakeup period has same pattern like infant...every 2-3 hours..
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My son is hitting 3yo this July, but he's been in kindergarden/day care since beginning of the year. We all struggled (My son, wife and me) and it was a horrible experience. For the first 2 weeks he was crying all day and night saying "I don't want", not willing to go to school and all. Got to know from the teachers that he's not used to the new environment and there were many other kids there which he's not familiar with.
But when me and wife checked with the teachers again this week, he's doing great at school, learning to scrible and play bricks with the kids... And I heard from wife that, the teachers noticed girls like to hang out with him, like all of the girls from the whole school... shocking.gif shakehead.gif sweat.gif
Now that really give me mix feelings... hahaha...
But I'm really glad he can mingle around well now at school.
Only problem is, he still has his morning crankiness which refuse to eat and "can't wake up" kind of attitude.
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QUOTE(talexeh @ Feb 3 2016, 09:23 PM)
Fortunately, he can do all that you mentioned.

While I'm not exactly sure how much of what he said is considered as "build sentence", he can definitely relate an object with colour (blue car), he is capable of going through ABC-Z, 1-20'ish & he is able to comprehend my command. It's just that majority of stuffs coming out from his mouth are still baby-talk or a mixture of 70% baby talk, 30% comprehensible English.

I must also said that he is very stubborn or in better term, strong-willed. He will ignore me if he's doing something else & sometimes he's very moody (which is kinda like his mom) when interrupted. As such, a lot of time, me & my wife felt that he didn't have much eye contact with us which is 1 of the factors that got us worried. In fact, my worries of him being autistic is 1 of the few reasons why I kept rejecting my wife when she asked for a sibling for him. sweat.gif
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hard to check on autism.. there is center in gleangles u may want to find out..

please note sometimes kids having ability of speaking is due to hearing.. so first thing is to ensure ur toddlers has been going throgh the hearing test.. if hearing test pass..then u just need to monitor.. one of my son having issue pronounce the f and s sound.. so we do teach him and pratice in front of mirror..is more on how ur mouth n tongue position.. after 2-3 months ok..

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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Feb 4 2016, 10:17 AM)
hard to check on autism.. there is center in gleangles u may want to find out..

please note sometimes kids having ability of speaking is due to hearing.. so first thing is to ensure ur toddlers has been going throgh the hearing test.. if hearing test pass..then u just need to monitor..  one of my son having issue pronounce the f and s sound.. so we do teach him and pratice in front of mirror..is more on how ur mouth n tongue position.. after 2-3 months ok..
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Glenagles Penang? I'm from Penang & TBH, I'm not very fond of the child development psychologist that's stationed in Glenagles Penang. Pretty sure he's hearing is OK but I'll monitor.

Sigh... being a parent is no fun with so many things to worry about. sad.gif
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my kids will ready for bed at 8 to 8.30pm.. so after 9.30pm i got free time with my wife..
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Father of 1 boy here, having concerns of my 11 month old as he sleeps late like 12ish. Not sure if its a concern or not to his growth. he is fully breast fed and solids in the day.

Any ideas to tune his clock to sleep earlier?
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i have a son with high level autism. It's ADHD and Asperger's Syndrome. Let me know if any father have questions.

There is another thread on autism but not one seems to be interested to contribute. In fact according the austism educators a lot of parents are still denial about their kids having autism. A lot of autism are mild and the child will look normal but they have temper issue and speech issue which the parent do not want to seek help. They keep denying their kids having problem and afraid that their child get labelled as "crazy" or "nuts".

Plus a lot of old folks (the grandparents) who knows nothing about autism simple says things. They just get info from other grandparents and say the child is ok, no problem..the issue will "go away" when the child grow up. By the time they grow up as teen, it will be too late to seek help.

Autism never go away. It can be intervened. The child will be taught how to handle his/her issue but there is NO CURE for it.
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QUOTE(abubin @ Feb 4 2016, 11:57 AM)
i have a son with high level autism. It's ADHD and Asperger's Syndrome. Let me know if any father have questions.

There is another thread on autism but not one seems to be interested to contribute. In fact according the austism educators a lot of parents are still denial about their kids having autism. A lot of autism are mild and the child will look normal but they have temper issue and speech issue which the parent do not want to seek help. They keep denying their kids having problem and afraid that their child get labelled as "crazy" or "nuts".

Plus a lot of old folks (the grandparents) who knows nothing about autism simple says things. They just get info from other grandparents and say the child is ok, no problem..the issue will "go away" when the child grow up. By the time they grow up as teen, it will be too late to seek help.

Autism never go away. It can be intervened. The child will be taught how to handle his/her issue but there is NO CURE for it.
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Hi Abubin, what are the symptoms parents should look out for? Sometimes it's very similar to growing stages of a child so some children are faster some are slower.
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hi, father of 2 (10 year girl and 3 year boy)... seeing the different development between girl and boy... the girl development really fast compare to boy... my son still cannot speak properly...

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Hi Abubin, what are the symptoms parents should look out for? Sometimes it's very similar to growing stages of a child so some children are faster some are slower.
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yup, it is hard to detect especially if your child is too young. For a proper diagnostic by psychologist, they recommend the child to be at least 5yo.

Most of the times, you can tell by they way the think. However, it depends on what kind of autism your child is having. You can compare the symtoms in websites that list them.

For example, my son's asperger syndrome has these symtoms:

difficulty making friends of the same age, children with AS may feel more comfortable with adults or much younger children
engages in one-sided, long-winded conversations, without noticing if the listener is still listening or trying to change the subject
displays unusual nonverbal communication, such as lack of eye contact, few facial expressions, or awkward body postures and gestures
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QUOTE(abubin @ Feb 4 2016, 11:57 AM)
i have a son with high level autism. It's ADHD and Asperger's Syndrome. Let me know if any father have questions.

There is another thread on autism but not one seems to be interested to contribute. In fact according the austism educators a lot of parents are still denial about their kids having autism. A lot of autism are mild and the child will look normal but they have temper issue and speech issue which the parent do not want to seek help. They keep denying their kids having problem and afraid that their child get labelled as "crazy" or "nuts".

Plus a lot of old folks (the grandparents) who knows nothing about autism simple says things. They just get info from other grandparents and say the child is ok, no problem..the issue will "go away" when the child grow up. By the time they grow up as teen, it will be too late to seek help.

Autism never go away. It can be intervened. The child will be taught how to handle his/her issue but there is NO CURE for it.
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hey bro. thanks for sharing your experience. my friends son has autism as well not sure what level, but can see its very difficult for them to manage. she was also living in denial i guess. she knew it and they were working on management. but i guess a part of her was just pretending like nothing happened then one day she went to one specialist in australia and he had a good talk with her, then finally let out all her feelings. once again, thanks for sharing flex.gif
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can share some tips for parenting ?

means teaching children ( be it girl or boy ) the modern way ?

means i believe not like our childhood generation anymore,

use rotan, belt, penyapu , chain, cloth hanger, etc.


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QUOTE(darkdevilrey @ Feb 15 2016, 01:05 AM)
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can share some tips for parenting ?

means teaching children ( be it girl or boy ) the modern way ?

means i believe not like our childhood generation anymore,

use rotan, belt, penyapu , chain, cloth hanger, etc.
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i dont think is modern way yeah .. is more on asian vs mat salleh way ....

my way for my 3 kids when they are 4 years old
time out (punish them standing facing the wall (3 minutes/until they admit the mistake and say sorry)
do not mentioned .... u r naughty/useless/bodoh else everyday they use to the word and act like it ... just mentioned , papa/mama not happy on the way you behave today.

end of the day .. spend more time with kids .. you be more easier in future if the foundation is build when they are young ..

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4-7 years below
lego is a good for building relationship .. also if you want your kids to play on pc .. go to http://pbskids.org/ ..


my 8 and 10 years old, we play remote control/hot wheels car on weekend ..

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QUOTE(Zozi @ Feb 15 2016, 10:19 AM)
A husband and soon to be father to a daughter in a few weeks time. Guess I can check in early here first  cool2.gif  cool2.gif
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congrats bro. just make sure you stock up on all the stuff you need like diapers and creams and oils etc. and get a 'go' bag ready. i highly recommend getting minyak telon too. also all clothes should be washed before use. can get the special detergent for baby clothes to kill bacteria and less chemicals or something for the baby's sensitive skin. can also ge the tummy wrap thing to protect the umbilical cord from rubbing or accidentally getting caught. icon_rolleyes.gif
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QUOTE(panda-man @ Feb 15 2016, 10:36 AM)
congrats bro. just make sure you stock up on all the stuff you need like diapers and creams and oils etc. and get a 'go' bag ready. i highly recommend getting minyak telon too. also all clothes should be washed before use. can get the special detergent for baby clothes to kill bacteria and less chemicals or something for the baby's sensitive skin. can also ge the tummy wrap thing to protect the umbilical cord from rubbing or accidentally getting caught.  icon_rolleyes.gif
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fuuuhhh good tips and thanks bro, gonna go over our shopping list again.  thumbup.gif  thumbup.gif
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i just putting it out there. other people probably told you the same thing though hahaha. but just in case i also wanna add. also you need to decide if you gonna use formula or use breast feeding. then can also prepare accordingly. like need to boil the barang barang you wanna use like bottles and such to sterilize or go shopping for breast pump, nipple cream (some women breastfeed till nipples all bleeding, so its advised to use cream a week or two beforehand. its damn expensive though like RM40 for 5ml or something like that sweat.gif ).

for breastfeeding. one thing you can decide to do or not, depending on your waifu personality... is to talk with your wife about breastfeeding and 'possibility' of low milk supply at the beginning. my wife went into slight depression as had no milk for first week. but i think if we were prepared that it might happen then i think she wouldnt have been so upset. but after supplementing with halba/fenugreek tea. all went well.

good luck. be patient. waifu will become crazy. and you will too. hahah.

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not sure how many of u subs to stem cell.. my three boys i kept under 3 companies.. stemlife..crycord and cellsafe..

also suggest dont buy playpen for newborn.. just buy the bed which can transform baby bed to normal bed which can accomodate till 2 yrs old

branded bottle like advent brand if can buy at singpore..is more cheaper

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QUOTE(panda-man @ Feb 15 2016, 11:19 AM)
i just putting it out there. other people probably told you the same thing though hahaha. but just in case i also wanna add. also you need to decide if you gonna use formula or use breast feeding. then can also prepare accordingly. like need to boil the barang barang you wanna use like bottles and such to sterilize or go shopping for breast pump, nipple cream (some women breastfeed till nipples all bleeding, so its advised to use cream a week or two beforehand. its damn expensive though like RM40 for 5ml or something like that  sweat.gif ). 

for breastfeeding. one thing you can decide to do or not, depending on your waifu personality... is to talk with your wife about breastfeeding and 'possibility' of low milk supply at the beginning. my wife went into slight depression as had no milk for first week. but i think if we were prepared that it might happen then i think she wouldnt have been so upset. but after supplementing with halba/fenugreek tea. all went well.

good luck. be patient. waifu will become crazy. and you will too. hahah.

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even you not plan to breast feed.. but u need to make sure for the first few days need to breast feed as first few days ur waifu will produce somehig call colostrum which produce great antibodies for u new born.. go n google..
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QUOTE(Newgen @ Feb 19 2016, 01:50 PM)
My second child just came into the world last week, so now gonna go all over again on those chores and duties... biggrin.gif
Sleepless night and tired, but Joyful!
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congrats bro! even more tiring now with 2 hahahah. but of course now double happiness.


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yesterday my son fell off the bed. gave me the shock of my life. i was playing COD MW3 (yes... i still play that..) with HEADPHONES ON then heard BANG even feel some vibration on the floor. so damn scary. lucky nothing serious. his mum fell asleep trying to put him to sleep hahah. so golek golek off our bed. hai.... and i was just thinking about removing the side of his crib ahhah.

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congrats bro. just make sure you stock up on all the stuff you need like diapers and creams and oils etc. and get a 'go' bag ready. i highly recommend getting minyak telon too. also all clothes should be washed before use. can get the special detergent for baby clothes to kill bacteria and less chemicals or something for the baby's sensitive skin. can also ge the tummy wrap thing to protect the umbilical cord from rubbing or accidentally getting caught.  icon_rolleyes.gif
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thanks for the tips ... officially going to be a daddy new week. Mixed emotions, excitement, fear ... a long laundry list.
What is minyak telon ah? Is it Yu Yi oil?
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QUOTE(3antz @ Feb 19 2016, 02:18 PM)
thanks for the tips ... officially going to be a daddy new week. Mixed emotions, excitement, fear ... a long laundry list.
What is minyak telon ah? Is it Yu Yi oil?
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hehe. congrats. dont worry about the stuff. if you cant get it. someone else can help.

minyak telon looks like this (amongst others, but this is what i use).
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its for bloating, tummy aches, etc. not sure what is yu yi oil. but this is something like eucalyptus i guess. haha. kinda traditional. use on tummy, chest, back and feet normally.

edit... i frickin love the smell. ask parents or aunties for sure they know or they will recommend something that does the same job.

also, some people like to recommend gripe water for bloating. i personally never used it. bought it and left it there cause i found out it is similar to medicine and unless baby really going crazy we didnt wanna give any chemical stuff like that.

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QUOTE(3antz @ Feb 19 2016, 02:18 PM)
thanks for the tips ... officially going to be a daddy new week. Mixed emotions, excitement, fear ... a long laundry list.
What is minyak telon ah? Is it Yu Yi oil?
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Yes I think Yuyi oil is mostly used by Chinese, i freaking love the smell too!
I believe Minyak Telon is about the same function, to keep baby warm after bath and sooth stomach bloats.
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even you not plan to breast feed.. but u need to make sure for the first few days need to breast feed as first few days ur waifu will produce somehig call colostrum which produce great antibodies for u new born.. go n google..
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unless there is a reason not to breast feed, I think all mothers should go for breastfeeding. Cause the benefit is a long term for the child and mother. If your wife do not want to breastfeed...tell her it will enlarge her breast size by 1-2 cup. drool.gif
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unless there is a reason not to breast feed, I think all mothers should go for breastfeeding. Cause the benefit is a long term for the child and mother. If your wife do not want to breastfeed...tell her it will enlarge her breast size by 1-2 cup.  drool.gif
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just tell ur wife breastfeed reduce breast cancer..

and please note breastfeeding doesnt protect ur wife from pregnancy..

i got friends kena 6mths pregnant again...

so better get some protection dom dom..
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wow so many guys at pregnancy section...
rotan will not solve the issue.

let me start to share on eating food.. i let my boys to learn to eat when they are 18 months  .. although is dirty end of the day but that how it should be.. just make sure seating beside them while they are eating..

asian like to hold a bowl of rice and chase here n there to feed the kids.. have u seen mat salleh doing that? u need to let the kids know that if u dont eat u will hungry

as car seat.. all my kids going through the car seat... train them from young..  my two eldest both till 8 years old

when i start my car all must at their car seat else i wont drive.. do it for 2 -3 weeks n the kids will surrender ...as going out is what kids looking for.. even there is one time i turn back home from halfway when the kids dont want to sit car seat..
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Not solve is depending on the powar... even rapist scare with rotan...
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Have you guys experienced your child will have such symptoms like growing pains?

It did happen to my daughter(3 years old)previously, claim that she having pain on the leg in the middle of the night. At daytime, she is ok ( can run/jump without pain ).
I have seek doctors for advice and it seems couldn't find out the reason.

She is a premature baby (32 weeks) and currently she is a healthy girl.
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QUOTE(wai1460 @ Feb 24 2016, 12:05 PM)
Have you guys experienced your child will have such symptoms like growing pains?

It did happen to my daughter(3 years old)previously, claim that she having pain on the leg in the middle of the night. At daytime, she is ok ( can run/jump without pain ).
I have seek doctors for advice and it seems couldn't find out the reason.

She is a premature baby (32 weeks) and currently she is a healthy girl.
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I notice my boy do sometimes wake up and cry for no reason also. Sometimes he would say pain somewhere here and there, but without being beaten or fall down or any other injury. Probably this is the case of the growth spurt?


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QUOTE(Newgen @ Feb 25 2016, 03:53 PM)
I notice my boy do sometimes wake up and cry for no reason also. Sometimes he would say pain somewhere here and there, but without being beaten or fall down or any other injury. Probably this is the case of the growth spurt?
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my boy doing this now... and everyday moody now. i also dont know whats wrong. if growth spurt then just tahan lah.
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unless there is a reason not to breast feed, I think all mothers should go for breastfeeding. Cause the benefit is a long term for the child and mother. If your wife do not want to breastfeed...tell her it will enlarge her breast size by 1-2 cup.  drool.gif
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If already DD then still wan up 2 cups ah.. siao ah
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QUOTE(Newgen @ Feb 25 2016, 03:53 PM)
I notice my boy do sometimes wake up and cry for no reason also. Sometimes he would say pain somewhere here and there, but without being beaten or fall down or any other injury. Probably this is the case of the growth spurt?
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Growth spurts just makan more... how can pain here and there wor? Its not liek alien movie they literally growing in spurts leh..

Is it they sleep wrong angle and end up pinds and needles/numbness?
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i am a proud father of 1 daughter and 3 super active boys. Expecting our 4th hero sometime next 2 weeks!
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an exora although my wife just recently asked about Honda Odyssey ehhehe

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an exora although my wife just recently asked about Honda Odyssey ehhehe
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anyone thinking aussie or nz?
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emigrate?
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never really considered at this time. but if i did emmigrate i'd look at canada instead. a bit far though... shakehead.gif
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i opt for nz.. u can check the degree fees for nz pr https://uoa.custhelp.com/app/answers/detail/a_id/6858/

do you know that nz pr wont expired... not like aussie... if all my 3 boys want to study dr or lawyers bankrupt... but with nz pr that is achievable

i wont say emigrate..as i wont give up my malaysian citizenship

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i opt for nz.. u can check the degree fees for nz pr https://uoa.custhelp.com/app/answers/detail/a_id/6858/

do you know that nz pr wont expired... not like aussie... if all my  3 boys want to study dr or lawyers bankrupt... but with nz pr that is achievable
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not bad. but if for studying can consider many european countries which have free education and you support cost of livign only? many kids may consider leaving country for education, just to 'grow' and be 'independent' which i think is good. if you emmigrate there for education and that happens then dunno lah heheh. i think better to focus on living standard. never been to NZ so cant comment. but i didnt really like AUS. but NZ really looks beautiful. get them to work hard for scholarship icon_idea.gif brows.gif
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not bad. but if for studying can consider many european countries which have free education and you support cost of livign only?  many kids may consider leaving country for education, just to 'grow' and be 'independent' which i think is good. if you emmigrate there for education and that happens then dunno lah heheh.  i think better to focus on living standard. never been to NZ so cant comment. but i didnt really like AUS. but NZ really looks beautiful. get them to work hard for scholarship  icon_idea.gif  brows.gif
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I've been to Sydney only and I love that place. Beautiful, clean and not too hectic.
NZ has always been on my "must visit" list and I know some relatives living there and they are REALLY enjoying life there.
Me and my wife has been talking about migrating a lot these days, to either AUS or NZ, but those are just dreams at the moment which we will need to do a lot more to achieve. Really not that easy in terms of dollars and cents (sense as well)...

The alternate plan would be to get our kids over to study, and pray that they would succeed in life, then probably we would have more chances to head to those places for "holidays"... So just have faith and pray hard la...
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QUOTE(Newgen @ Feb 26 2016, 10:01 AM)
I've been to Sydney only and I love that place. Beautiful, clean and not too hectic.
NZ has always been on my "must visit" list and I know some relatives living there and they are REALLY enjoying life there.
Me and my wife has been talking about migrating a lot these days, to either AUS or NZ, but those are just dreams at the moment which we will need to do a lot more to achieve. Really not that easy in terms of dollars and cents (sense as well)...

The alternate plan would be to get our kids over to study, and pray that they would succeed in life, then probably we would have more chances to head to those places for "holidays"... So just have faith and pray hard la...
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is up to individual n i agree not easy decision.. as it involve family members... but my case ny parents pushing me to go..anyway will go there 2-3 years and come back

i been to nz n sdney n few countries business trip bringing my wife ..both of us prefer nz than aussie..

as i mentioned nz pr is a non expired visa... as i am eligible points to apply i will try ..hehe. once i got it.. my kids will get pr status as well.. so i plan for their future as well..in future ur kids might not get a degree or not doing well in studies whatsover.. at least they have option to work in nz and medical is covered by nz govt..

remembered i not giving up my malaysia citizenship..hehe

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Hey guys! I'm also 2 weeks girl husband and father. I'm still adjusting especially the financial.

Those more exp how much u spend for baby per month? I calculated roughly milk powder is rm250 per month base on past 2 weeks. Diapers how much u all spend? Any others?
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y not feeding her with breastmilk, its free with many benefits.
Diapers depend on how often she pee and poo.
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QUOTE(ic no 851025071234 @ Feb 26 2016, 02:46 PM)
Hey guys! I'm also 2 weeks girl husband and father. I'm still adjusting especially the financial.

Those more exp how much u spend for baby per month? I calculated roughly milk powder is rm250 per month base on past 2 weeks. Diapers how much u all spend? Any others?
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Congrats. The cost really does hurt haha. But Breast milk is free! Plus you don't so sakit hati when baby doesn't finish the milk... diaper normally will change 6-8 times per day. Roughly comes to about 4 packs a month can be low like RM80-250 depending on brand. Staying around the 120-150 range is good. Unless your baby very sensitive and need mamy poko
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y not feeding her with breastmilk, its free with many benefits.
Diapers depend on how often she pee and poo.
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Congrats. The cost really does hurt haha. But Breast milk is free! Plus you don't so sakit hati when baby doesn't finish the milk... diaper normally will change 6-8 times per day. Roughly comes to about 4 packs a month can be low like RM80-250 depending on brand. Staying around the 120-150 range is good. Unless your baby very sensitive and need mamy poko
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Trying to breastfeed but so far production not so much still need formula milk
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Trying to breastfeed but so far production not so much still need formula milk
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Ah. Been there. Can do both. Wife eating any supplements? You should ask her to take some halba tea. Can get the seeds from most grocers. Rm2-4 per pack
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If already DD then still wan up 2 cups ah.. siao ah
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lol...children growth spurt rapid, thats why still hunger for food. Its normal......

Yesterday dinner, my daughter consume 3 steam bun, 1 banana (7pm), 8pm- me & my wife dinner, she consume half wantan noodles. Get ready to sleep around 9.30pm , 1 bottle 11oz milk, then start to jump here and jump there on the bed, within 30minutes want milks again about 5 oz.

Her appetite are growing rapidly

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QUOTE(wai1460 @ Feb 26 2016, 04:55 PM)
lol...children growth spurt rapid, thats why still hunger for food. Its normal......

Yesterday dinner, my daughter consume 3 steam bun, 1 banana (7pm), 8pm- me & my wife dinner, she consume half wantan noodles. Get ready to sleep around 9.30pm , 1 bottle 11oz milk, then start to jump here and jump there on the bed, within 30minutes want milks again about 5 oz.

Her appetite are growing rapidly
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QUOTE(ic no 851025071234 @ Feb 26 2016, 02:46 PM)
Hey guys! I'm also 2 weeks girl husband and father. I'm still adjusting especially the financial.

Those more exp how much u spend for baby per month? I calculated roughly milk powder is rm250 per month base on past 2 weeks. Diapers how much u all spend? Any others?
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which brand of milk ur daughter drink? enfa most exp.. s26 n snow cheaper abit
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which brand of milk ur daughter drink?  enfa most exp.. s26  n snow cheaper abit
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Ya I give her enfalac cos hospital born time give her this
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Ya I give her enfalac cos hospital born time give her this
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normally below 1 yr old categories milk no disc..
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normally below 1 yr old categories milk no disc..
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I actually top up Frisolac if baby is wanting more after breastfeeding on mum's both (.)(.)
But sometimes, due to first of confinement Breast milk supply could be unstable because of emotional and hormonal issues.
So just keep on latch on!

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normally below 1 yr old categories milk no disc..
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Good day para ayah,

Ada sikit pertanyaan, mind sharing the frequency of changing diapers for baby?
- Tukar bila penuh?
- Tukar ikut time interval (tidak penuh pun tukar)
- or lain lain, etc berak...

Thank you.
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QUOTE(sheridankamal @ Mar 4 2016, 09:45 AM)
Good day para ayah,

Ada sikit pertanyaan, mind sharing the frequency of changing diapers for baby?
- Tukar bila penuh?
- Tukar ikut time interval (tidak penuh pun tukar)
- or lain lain, etc berak...

Thank you.
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for my son. if berak, definitely tukar immediately.

but otherwise its like this. normally confirm 5 nappy per day. if berak or minum banyak tukar up to 7-8. thats why i use cheap PetPet diaper. even i use mahal one, my wife insist tukar so many times so might as well guna yang murah hahah. no need the high absorbant technology blah blah

830am - bangun tido - confirm tukar
1030 - makan buah, check, if kencing, tukar
1230 - makan lunch, confirm tukar
230 - sebelum nap, check, if kencing, tukar
430 - makan buah, check, if kencing, tukar
630 - makan dinner, confirm tukar
830 - mandi, confirm tukar.
930 - tido, tukar (night nappy).

oh and bila tukar, he always berdiri (kalau baring, nangis) so bila tukar also tell him kencing and he will kencing what ever he got left in the tank hhaha. quite ok lah. 19 months old.

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QUOTE(panda-man @ Mar 4 2016, 09:51 AM)
for my son. if berak, definitely tukar immediately.

but otherwise its like this. normally confirm 5 nappy per day. if berak or minum banyak tukar up to 7-8. thats why i use cheap PetPet diaper. even i use mahal one, my wife insist tukar so many times so might as well guna yang murah hahah. no need the high absorbant technology blah blah

830am - bangun tido - confirm tukar
1030 - makan buah, check, if kencing, tukar
1230 - makan lunch, confirm tukar
230 - sebelum nap, check, if kencing, tukar
430 - makan buah, check, if kencing, tukar
630 - makan dinner, confirm tukar
830 - mandi, confirm tukar.
930 - tido, tukar (night nappy).

oh and bila tukar, he always berdiri (kalau baring, nangis) so bila tukar also tell him kencing and he will kencing what ever he got left in the tank hhaha. quite ok lah. 19 months old.
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Sama la, waifu suruh tukar every 2 hour cry.gif , now using Huggies.
Might as well cari yang murah sikit. Mahu survey PetPet nanti.
Wah... sudah mahu dekat 2 tahun... rclxms.gif
Btw kalau during night nappy tukar pampers type lain atau once saja pakai sampai pagi esok?
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QUOTE(sheridankamal @ Mar 4 2016, 10:44 AM)
Sama la, waifu suruh tukar every 2 hour  cry.gif , now using Huggies.
Might as well cari yang murah sikit. Mahu survey PetPet nanti.
Wah... sudah mahu dekat 2 tahun...  rclxms.gif
Btw kalau during night nappy tukar pampers type lain atau once saja pakai sampai pagi esok?
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i never used huggies, but im quite happy with PetPet, but kena monitor, if terlupa, leak, but so far very pleased.

im using pampers night diaper now. can last from 10pm - 8am normally. so far no leak issue.
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i never used huggies, but im quite happy with PetPet, but kena monitor, if terlupa, leak, but so far very pleased.

im using pampers night diaper now. can last from 10pm - 8am normally. so far no leak issue.
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QUOTE(sheridankamal @ Mar 4 2016, 09:45 AM)
Good day para ayah,

Ada sikit pertanyaan, mind sharing the frequency of changing diapers for baby?
- Tukar bila penuh?
- Tukar ikut time interval (tidak penuh pun tukar)
- or lain lain, etc berak...

Thank you.
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actually drypers pet pet n huggies ok... mpoko that one overate


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actually drypers pet pet n huggies ok... mpoko that one overate
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yeah. damn expensive. but got the little 'meter' in the front to say its full... hahah.

i used to use GooN. those were pretty good too.
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First rule of thumb: tukar bila..

1) baby melatah / fussy
2) bini melatah/ fussy

started with mpoko now its Merries.
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Mar 4 2016, 02:22 PM)
actually drypers pet pet n huggies ok... mpoko that one overate
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Hi, is yours a boy or a girl? I tried drypers on my boy and it leak like nobody business, didn't try pet pet... tried huggies and diapex.
Diapex easy for daytime, Diapex premium for night time.
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QUOTE(chekwui @ Mar 7 2016, 03:24 PM)
Hi, I'm husband and father of 2 girls, 4 and 8 years old. Glad to find this forum that can share and learn parenting experiences.
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Sifu now in forum. Teach us! Haha
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QUOTE(panda-man @ Feb 26 2016, 04:20 PM)
Congrats. The cost really does hurt haha. But Breast milk is free! Plus you don't so sakit hati when baby doesn't finish the milk... diaper normally will change 6-8 times per day. Roughly comes to about 4 packs a month can be low like RM80-250 depending on brand. Staying around the 120-150 range is good. Unless your baby very sensitive and need mamy poko
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Breastfed mum here begs to differ, I'm more sayang if you pour leftover breastmilk away than you pour FM away ok. doh.gif Please ask/observe your wife how much time and effort she spend to try to get more milk and the times she is stuck in front of the pump just to pump for the baby. brows.gif
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QUOTE(audreyreiko @ Mar 9 2016, 03:39 PM)
Breastfed mum here begs to differ, I'm more sayang if you pour leftover breastmilk away than you pour FM away ok.  doh.gif Please ask/observe your wife how much time and effort she spend to try to get more milk and the times she is stuck in front of the pump just to pump for the baby. brows.gif
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basically what your husband will do with the extra milk that baby not able to finish? hmm.gif hmm.gif


i think those who cant finish the milk can donate away to make breast milk soap. i believe breast milk soap is far more better than goat milk soap...

just my two cents

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QUOTE(audreyreiko @ Mar 9 2016, 03:39 PM)
Breastfed mum here begs to differ, I'm more sayang if you pour leftover breastmilk away than you pour FM away ok.  doh.gif Please ask/observe your wife how much time and effort she spend to try to get more milk and the times she is stuck in front of the pump just to pump for the baby. brows.gif
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Hehe. True true. Been there the whole time so don't need to ask haha. But breast milk don't have to straight away throw. Can still be kept and used again later because its awesome like that. Formula, gotta throw away if the baby simply touches it and doesn't drink... spent hundreds of $$ poured down the drain....
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QUOTE(huzfah @ Mar 9 2016, 05:24 PM)
A husband and father-to-be soon. EDD 23 March. Reporting in.
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Congrats buddy~ all the best! Remember to be patient. Your wife will be damn tired and irritable. Don't take mood swings to heart.
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QUOTE(panda-man @ Mar 9 2016, 10:47 PM)
Congrats buddy~ all the best! Remember to be patient. Your wife will be damn tired and irritable. Don't take mood swings to heart.
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Thanks panda.
So far so good.
Just a bit irritated with the check up at clinic/hospital, i cant accompany my wife to see the doctor together.
Well, its gov clinic/hospital though (sleep.gif)
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At 13 month old.. he finally showed sign of stable footing.... and my LEGO playspace is in the living room . I must quickly complete my current LEGO project (6 robots combiner!) before he starts to walk and terrorize whatever stuff he can get his hands on.

Time to secure the perimeter to prevent breach.

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QUOTE(alanyuppie @ Mar 10 2016, 01:19 PM)
At 13 month old.. he finally showed sign of stable footing.... and my LEGO playspace is in the living room . I must quickly complete my current LEGO project (6 robots combiner!)  before he starts to walk and terrorize whatever stuff he can get his hands on. 

Time to secure the perimeter to prevent breach.
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not just lego man... all toys with 3+ must be kept
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sunway lagoon offering rm188 annual pass... matta fair

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QUOTE(alanyuppie @ Mar 10 2016, 01:19 PM)
At 13 month old.. he finally showed sign of stable footing.... and my LEGO playspace is in the living room . I must quickly complete my current LEGO project (6 robots combiner!)  before he starts to walk and terrorize whatever stuff he can get his hands on. 

Time to secure the perimeter to prevent breach.
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at 13 months... still ok. wait for 18 months. if he cant reach he will throw things to hit whatever he wanted hahah.
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https://m.facebook.com/BrightstarsLifeSkills/
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Mar 9 2016, 05:15 PM)
basically what your husband will do with the extra milk that baby not able to finish? hmm.gif  hmm.gif
i think those who cant finish the milk can donate away to make breast milk soap.  i believe breast milk soap is far more better than goat milk soap...

just my two cents
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If cannot finish, I try see later within 1 hour if baby can still drink it, if not, I will finish it off, usually we can agak-agak the amount quite well and don't have that much leftover.

If really got leftover, can keep in a container and later do breastmilk bath for baby, it's good for baby's skin.

As for breastmilk soap, one 1kg bar of soap only needs 15oz so basically like 2 Autumnz bag only, and yes my son still uses breastmilk soap till today. smile.gif
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Hehe. True true. Been there the whole time so don't need to ask haha. But breast milk don't have to straight away throw. Can still be kept and used again later because its awesome like that. Formula, gotta throw away if the baby simply touches it and doesn't drink... spent hundreds of $$ poured down the drain....
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A good rule of thumb is once breastmilk is heated up, normally baby should consume within 1 hour, if cannot finish, normally people don't re-freeze/ re-refridgerate it, though, in some cases I've done that before and and so far it was okay - not recommended though.

Best is to heat up say 2oz - 4oz per feed, that way you don't waste too much if baby cannot finish. Most of the time leftover ~1oz I will finish it off myself.
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ah.. just spent the past few days in hospital. son got admitted with stomach flu. seemed to be a common occurrence as a few other kids all in for the same thing. kesian. but now out again and running around. so tired... but anyways happy with the doc and nurses so all good. *yawn*
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QUOTE(panda-man @ Mar 11 2016, 09:15 AM)
ah.. just spent the past few days in hospital. son got admitted with stomach flu. seemed to be a common occurrence as a few other kids all in for the same thing. kesian. but now out again and running around. so tired... but anyways happy with the doc and nurses so all good. *yawn*
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Mind to share what is stomach flu's symptoms? and what's the cause of it?
Hope your kid will be fine soon!


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QUOTE(serdangonline @ Mar 11 2016, 09:44 AM)
Gdday mate! Father of four dotter reporting in. Oldest is 12 and youngest is 2y'owl.
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Mind to share what is stomach flu's symptoms? and what's the cause of it?
Hope your kid will be fine soon!
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thanks,

the stomach flu seems to be bacterial and airborne, the doc said 'very contagious' so if another kid has it or an adult (we assumed my wife caught it first, but mild form) then its easily transferable, so need to keep hands and food clean.

symptoms for my son were sudden excessive vomiting. from 6am-10am my son vomited maybe like 10+ times. just vomiting stomach acid i guess as he didnt have any food, i guess the tummy is trying to purge whatever bacteria in the stomach. took him to the clinic and got referred as that amount of vomiting requires drip to prevent dehydration. so went to hospital to his ped and got admitted and on the drip. he couldnt eat or drink anything for a day. just would vomit everything back up, sometimes just look at food and would vomit. but after being on drip for 2 days he started eating normally again in more feedings and smaller portions. just got discharged yesterday afternoon. but still grumpy and tiring for all of us. but so kesian see him walking aroudn with the drip. after we took it off, ran like the wind hahahah.
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thanks,

the stomach flu seems to be bacterial and airborne, the doc said 'very contagious' so if another kid has it or an adult (we assumed my wife caught it first, but mild form) then its easily transferable, so need to keep hands and food clean.

symptoms for my son were sudden excessive vomiting. from 6am-10am my son vomited maybe like 10+ times. just vomiting stomach acid i guess as he didnt have any food, i guess the tummy is trying to purge whatever bacteria in the stomach. took him to the clinic and got referred as that amount of vomiting requires drip to prevent dehydration. so went to hospital to his ped and got admitted and on the drip. he couldnt eat or drink anything for a day. just would vomit everything back up, sometimes just look at food and would vomit. but after being on drip for 2 days he started eating normally again in more feedings and smaller portions. just got discharged yesterday afternoon. but still grumpy and tiring for all of us. but so kesian see him walking aroudn with the drip. after we took it off, ran like the wind hahahah.
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My my... glad to hear that bro...
Geezz....all kind of bacteria and virus lurking around now...
Have to keep clean and keep washing hands.

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i got 3 sons .. oldest 10,8,3 ... i hope i can get a dotter  icon_rolleyes.gif
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Sick season is coming again.

I just recover from sick (fever, cough, sore throat, flu) since last week & now my daughter is infected too. Majorly patient in clinic are diagnose with same symptoms according to the doctor.

Please take care of your own children.
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school holiday now.. where to go?
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QUOTE(wai1460 @ Mar 15 2016, 09:59 AM)
Sick season is coming again.

I just recover from sick (fever, cough, sore throat, flu) since last week & now my daughter is infected too. Majorly patient in clinic are diagnose with same symptoms according to the doctor.

Please take care of your own children.
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yeah. my family recovering now. and lots of people also sick. bleh.....
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Father , husband to 7 year old boy and 3 month old boy..
feel as if i'm failure in life coz monthly income <5 K and not motivated to work sad.gif
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Hi,

May i know why you say say you're failure?
You should proud of yourself because you are able to raise your kids at this age.
Im also not a high income owner & also frustrated to work. But we have no choice, this is the decision we choose.

Treat it like a challenge & solve it happily.
Do tell/inform if you have problem to your family/friends/forum too.....dont keep the problems in your heart.
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QUOTE(eksk @ Mar 15 2016, 10:02 AM)
Father , husband to 7 year old boy and 3 month old boy..
feel as if i'm failure in life coz monthly income <5 K and not motivated to work sad.gif
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welcome bro. as above, why do you feel like a failure? salary around 5k is still good what. this is around the average household income in Malaysia. Does your wife work?

as for motivation, thats a common thing. not many are motivated to work but its a means to an end. for me, i hate work, middle class earner. but i work to live. work to feed my family. work to see my son smile. gave up a lot of things. but just need to keep at it.

if you have any problems, hope we can try our best to help you. and if not help at least give you an outlet to rant.


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Hi,

May i know why you say say you're failure?
You should proud of yourself because you are able to raise your kids at this age.
Im also not a high income owner & also frustrated to work. But we have no choice, this is the decision we choose.

Treat it like a challenge & solve it happily.
Do tell/inform if you have problem to your family/friends/forum too.....dont keep the problems in your heart.
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welcome bro. as above, why do you feel like a failure? salary around 5k is still good what. this is around the average household income in Malaysia. Does your wife work?

as for motivation, thats a common thing. not many are motivated to work but its a means to an end. for me, i hate work, middle class earner. but i work to live. work to feed my family. work to see my son smile. gave up a lot of things. but just need to keep at it.

if you have any problems, hope we can try our best to help you. and if not help at least give you an outlet to rant.
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i see a lot of my peers from school, especially who are earning big bucks flying here and there. i see ppl around me doing well buying big houses and big car. i know i should be very very motivated to provide from my children but i can't be bothered to stay late at work. i rather go home and play with them .. anyway work is a dead end job with no job security.. i'm almost in my 40s and i fear i;m letting my sons down... the way things are going i'm not sure i can provide tertiary education and plan for my retirement at the same time...

i love my kids but i'm wondering why i don't have the drive like others to work their socks off and earn big money for them.. i feel i'm letting them down.. i forsee in the future, my sons asking why i cannot afford to send them overseas..

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QUOTE(eksk @ Mar 15 2016, 10:47 AM)
i see a lot of my peers from school, especially who are earning big bucks flying here and there. i see ppl around me doing well buying big houses and big car. i know i should be very very motivated to provide from my children but i can't be bothered to stay late at work. i rather go home and play with them .. anyway work is a dead end job with no job security.. i'm almost in my 40s and i fear i;m letting my sons down... the way things are going i'm not sure i can provide tertiary education and plan for my retirement at the same time...

i love my kids but i'm wondering why i don't have the drive like others to work their socks off and earn big money for them.. i feel i'm letting them  down.. i forsee in the future, my sons asking why i cannot afford to send them overseas..

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bro. i was there before and sometimes i still go there. but first of all. its nice to say dont compare yourself with others. but it always happens, its human nature. so what i do is, dont compare yourself with only one group of people. if you look at people who are earning big bucks, then compare with those earning small bucks. you may not be the most successful richest dude out there, but you most definitely are not the poorest one. i have a buddy who is around 23 and earning only RM900 and supporting his 3-4 siblings with the oldest in uni (he pays for the tuition). i dont have any idea how he does it... but suffice to say, he doesnt have much. also know many cousins and friends earning around 2-3k or less, but still support their families. i also know rich people, whole family working to the bone. when they all sit together the feeling of family isnt even there. feels like sitting in a meeting room. so everything got pros and cons. dont just look at the good and think, oh so nice, he's got it good. very high chance many are looking at you and thinking the same thing.

one of my favourite quotes which changed the way i think is.
"When I hear somebody sigh, ‘Life is hard,’ I am always tempted to ask, ‘Compared to what?’" — Sydney J. Harris

for school, when the time comes they can get a loan, or who knows even a scholarship. if you dont have the strong motivation to work, then push your kids and motivate them to study. one thing i plan to do with my son when he's older (as recommended by my aunty with very smart kids) is to sit down with them when they do their work. you can read a book, or newspaper, or study yourself. but when they are working, dont be lepaking watching tv, playing ipad, chatting away on the phone or whatever because they will feel they are missing out on the fun and just rush through everything so they can be free and join you. so when its their time for work, you also logout and sit there with them.

anyways just my 2sen, but hope can give you something to think about. and if you ever feel you cant provide for your kids or your kids feel ungrateful and that you arent giving them anything, then go visit rumah anak yatim.
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QUOTE(Newgen @ Mar 11 2016, 10:02 AM)
Mind to share what is stomach flu's symptoms? and what's the cause of it?
Hope your kid will be fine soon!
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stomach flu is basically the flu virus got into the stomach. Usually it starts off as normal flu in the nose or throat. Eventually the virus will get into stomach. This is pretty common. Just need to let them build up their immunity as virus cannot be killed. Yup..vomit is really common with stomach flu. Poor kids.
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QUOTE(eksk @ Mar 15 2016, 10:47 AM)
i see a lot of my peers from school, especially who are earning big bucks flying here and there. i see ppl around me doing well buying big houses and big car. i know i should be very very motivated to provide from my children but i can't be bothered to stay late at work. i rather go home and play with them .. anyway work is a dead end job with no job security.. i'm almost in my 40s and i fear i;m letting my sons down... the way things are going i'm not sure i can provide tertiary education and plan for my retirement at the same time...

i love my kids but i'm wondering why i don't have the drive like others to work their socks off and earn big money for them.. i feel i'm letting them  down.. i forsee in the future, my sons asking why i cannot afford to send them overseas..

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earning less doesnt mean you are failure.. at least you got kids..

is not easy to get work life balance job.. unless you are IT field..

you might want to survey for migration ..
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Mar 15 2016, 02:46 PM)
earning less doesnt mean you are failure.. at least you got kids..

is not easy to get work life balance job.. unless you are IT field..

you might want to survey for migration ..
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I'm in IT field and Work/Life balance is totally off the hook... Too far to reach sometimes...
But you see, sometimes in life is all about give and take... You take More, you do MORE. You take less, maybe you'll need to do less... Of Cause sometimes in life you can see some ranting.gif ppl like so rich and no work needed... devil.gif I do Envy and get jealous! But you see, we all have family, but these people some may be alone, some are separated with their spouse/kids/family... bye.gif

I know I'm long winded and totally off the topic, but I point being, just try to be happy and feel satisfied in life, look at the goods and bad to balance your emotions *Note to Self!* innocent.gif

Any how, just do our best, and have faith, work hard and smart, climb the ladder one steps at a time and always stay hungry for chances/opportunity.
Try not to stay in your comfort zone for too long and move on!

Cheers.



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And on another note... how do you feed those liquid medicine to your toddler of 3 yo?
We were in war zone when we tried to force him to drink the 6ml of liquid anti-biotics (he got some awful fever for 3 days due to viral/bacteria infection)
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And on another note... how do you feed those liquid medicine to your toddler of 3 yo?
We were in war zone when we tried to force him to drink the 6ml of liquid anti-biotics (he got some awful fever for 3 days due to viral/bacteria infection)
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i am using somthing like spilly spoon (you can google) to feed my kids for medicine.. sometimes i mix with ribena (little bit)
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QUOTE(Newgen @ Mar 17 2016, 09:27 AM)
And on another note... how do you feed those liquid medicine to your toddler of 3 yo?
We were in war zone when we tried to force him to drink the 6ml of liquid anti-biotics (he got some awful fever for 3 days due to viral/bacteria infection)
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I'm more brutal... just put into the little syringe. Open mouth shoot! And close mouth. Make sure don't shoot down throat.

If not that bad tasting type. Then normal spoon and bribe with Gerber stars....
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QUOTE(Newgen @ Mar 17 2016, 09:27 AM)
And on another note... how do you feed those liquid medicine to your toddler of 3 yo?
We were in war zone when we tried to force him to drink the 6ml of liquid anti-biotics (he got some awful fever for 3 days due to viral/bacteria infection)
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Use syringe but have to play first.

Acah2 put water into syringe, spray into your mouth first, make funny/silly face, do it few times, lastly put medicine into your kids mouth and voila....

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Hi fellow dads and dads to be smile.gif

I'm father to 7 year old son and 4 year old daughter.

Nowadays my kids always at war laugh.gif any advice to keep the peace?

I always thought different genders between siblings would bring lesser conflict among them because of different interests etc. haha

I guess I'm wrong then laugh.gif
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QUOTE(locco81 @ Mar 18 2016, 09:53 AM)
Hi fellow dads and dads to be smile.gif

I'm father to 7 year old son and 4 year old daughter.

Nowadays my kids always at war laugh.gif any advice to keep the peace?

I always thought different genders between siblings would bring lesser conflict among them because of different interests etc. haha

I guess I'm wrong then laugh.gif
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unfortunately its VERY difficult. my family been trying to stop the bickering between my neices all the time (now 11 and 6). the development of a few years really changes their maturity so hard to get them to be friends hahaha. we tried different bonding methods, getting them to enjoy activities together (where they really get along). but on day to day. lots of fighting. this is mine, she broke this, she did that, she poked me, blah blah blah. now my own son is almost two and he doesnt really care but now my neice angry with him, took my ball lah, draw on my book, wont leave me alone, etc. hahahah. hai.... if you find a solution please share notworthy.gif

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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Mar 17 2016, 11:27 AM)
i am using somthing like spilly spoon (you can google) to feed my kids for medicine..  sometimes i mix with ribena (little bit)
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Thanks for the advise guys!
I actually tried the brutal method but he just spit it all out and cried like there's no tomorrow.
So in the end we just buy some Vitagen and it worked!
Just mix the 1 part medicine with 1.5part Vitagen and voila!

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QUOTE(locco81 @ Mar 18 2016, 09:53 AM)
Hi fellow dads and dads to be smile.gif

I'm father to 7 year old son and 4 year old daughter.

Nowadays my kids always at war laugh.gif any advice to keep the peace?

I always thought different genders between siblings would bring lesser conflict among them because of different interests etc. haha

I guess I'm wrong then laugh.gif
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my three boys keep fighting previously until i sent my two eldest to taekwondo... both now same level belt.. so arguing got but no more fighting..

also i believe most of the arguing n fighting is when papa n mommy playing handphone n not concentrate jaga
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anyone going to mattel warehouse sales this friday?
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Mar 22 2016, 09:49 PM)
anyone going to mattel warehouse sales this friday?
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never been before. is it worth it?
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never been before. is it worth it?
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so far i bought hotwheel stuff .. but last year not much hotwheel

but fisher price below < 1 years the price ok
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Mar 23 2016, 02:28 PM)
so far i bought hotwheel stuff .. but last year not much hotwheel

but fisher price below < 1 years the price ok
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hmm. will think about it. but dont really like to rebut rebut. chances are wont go. but am tempted by hotwheels.
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QUOTE(wai1460 @ Mar 17 2016, 01:57 PM)
Use syringe but have to play first.

Acah2 put water into syringe, spray into your mouth first, make funny/silly face, do it few times, lastly put medicine into your kids mouth and voila....
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How old?

My 2 yr old, I dont trick her.

I try not to lie to her or trick her or ambush her.

Always inform her before hand even if she wont like it, inform, explain, coax an agreement from her.


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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Mar 22 2016, 09:49 PM)
anyone going to mattel warehouse sales this friday?
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Sound interesting. Where is this? Cause Friday I on leave to watch Super/Batman with the wifu.
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QUOTE(MeToo @ Mar 23 2016, 02:35 PM)
Sound interesting. Where is this? Cause Friday I on leave to watch Super/Batman with the wifu.
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Mattel will be having a Warehouse Clearance from 24 March to 26 March 2016 at The School @ Jaya One

Brands include Barbie, Hot wheels, Fisher Price, Disney, Monster High, Thomas & Friends and Boom & Co

It will be held at

Event Hall
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The School @ Jaya One
72A Jalan Universiti
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Selangor

The sale will be held from Thu – Fri (10am – 5pm), Sat (10am – 4pm)."

If you ada HLG CC, you can attend the preview 3-5pm today .. means u can first masuk and beli today instead tommorow onwards

This one preview last year, more on barbie and sofia toys



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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Mar 23 2016, 02:39 PM)
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Mattel will be having a Warehouse Clearance from 24 March to 26 March 2016 at The School @ Jaya One

Brands include Barbie, Hot wheels, Fisher Price, Disney, Monster High, Thomas & Friends and Boom & Co

It will be held at

Event Hall
1st Floor
The School @ Jaya One
72A Jalan Universiti
46200 Petaling Jaya
Selangor

The sale will be held from Thu – Fri (10am – 5pm), Sat (10am – 4pm)."

If you ada HLG CC, you can attend the preview 3-5pm today .. means u can first masuk and beli today instead tommorow onwards

This one preview last year, more on barbie and sofia toys


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Nice thanks!

Gonna drop by to look see look see.

From your experience if go Saturday still worth it? Or would be empty by then?
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QUOTE(MeToo @ Mar 23 2016, 03:28 PM)
Nice thanks!

Gonna drop by to look see look see.

From your experience if go Saturday still worth it? Or would be empty by then?
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sat no need to go.. most item habis on second day
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sat no need to go.. most item habis on second day
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Means skip alrdy.

But these days I either buy toys from Amazon or TaoBao...
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QUOTE(Newgen @ Mar 17 2016, 09:27 AM)
And on another note... how do you feed those liquid medicine to your toddler of 3 yo?
We were in war zone when we tried to force him to drink the 6ml of liquid anti-biotics (he got some awful fever for 3 days due to viral/bacteria infection)
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I fed liquid medicine to my 18-months-old using syringe,
showed him the syringe and "pretend" that there is a super nice "juice" in it, where he is rewarded for it after doing some thing (finish the food/rice/vege/tidy his toys). Drag it for sometime for his curiosity to kick in, then he will drink it nicely. brows.gif brows.gif

Maybe i fed him with the paracetamol for kid, where it is not bitter at all, he ended up wanted to drink the "juice" whenever he see syringe. rclxub.gif rclxub.gif
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Hi... been seeing my wife chatting around in Mummies group... didn't realise there is a Daddies group here too...

Well... i'm a husband and daddy for 3 m/o girl...

she is really a killer... killing me softly with her smiles all the times...
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shhhhh dont tell ur wife about this group..... this is our pirvate world...
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LOL...

However I very rarely buy toys for my kids. Just a set of Lego, plus some hot wheel cars with a double loop track. I rather let them play iPad as I gave them the outdated unit.
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Thinking about toys, are your kids like those egg surprise toy?

My daughter like it very much....
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Thinking about toys, are your kids like those egg surprise toy?

My daughter like it very much....
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you talking about the kinder bueno egg? i find the toys in those are just so crap, the choco is not nice either. i dont know why over here we dont get the real deal. the EU ones are actual choco egg which is damn delicious... i used to buy it once in a while for the chocolate alone heh. . not the half half crap here.
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QUOTE(wai1460 @ Mar 24 2016, 08:41 AM)
Thinking about toys, are your kids like those egg surprise toy?

My daughter like it very much....
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kinder yeah ... i bought 3 box at langkawi .. average 2.50 per egg

fyi , you cant bring in kinder suprise egg to USA .. is haram yeah due to toys inside makanan causing choking to kids .. you may fined up to $2500 per egg

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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Mar 24 2016, 09:12 AM)
kinder yeah ... i bought 3 box at langkawi .. average 2.50 per egg

fyi , you cant bring in kinder suprise egg to USA .. is haram yeah due to toys inside makanan causing choking to kids .. you may fined up to $2500 per egg
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ridiculous bruh....
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lol, Kinder egg selling here about rm4/pc, kinda expensive for me and the toys are not worth, chocolate taste no good.

I look for budget type, like those in minimarket, around rm0.50~rm1 per egg, only toys no choco or sweet.
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hi guys, father of 9 months old baby girl here  icon_rolleyes.gif  icon_rolleyes.gif
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congrats and welcome! get ready for all these emotions...

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congrats and welcome! get ready for all these emotions...

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hey guys,
my wife breast feeding my 2nd child now 6 mo
but now she feel milk getting lower
we have no experience in using supplements for increasing breast milk
any of u guys would like to recommend or suggestion if any?
thanks bapak2 sekalian
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QUOTE(icp @ Mar 24 2016, 03:10 PM)
hey guys,
my wife breast feeding my 2nd child now 6 mo
but now she feel milk getting lower
we have no experience in using supplements for increasing breast milk
any of u guys would like to recommend or suggestion if any?
thanks bapak2 sekalian
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halba/fenugreek.

just buy from the supermarket, its around RM2-5 per pack. which lasts a while. drink that few times a day like tea. just put it into a glass, pour in freshly boiled water. and then drink. after drinking my wife just topped up more water for next time. so each time can drink 2 glasses.

they also have the pills, but its very overpriced. my wife didnt have milk, maybe like 5-8 oz per day. but after taking this she had enough to feed baby and put some milk aside for freezing. but of course, no guarantee, but anyways from experience, it works.

http://www.medelabreastfeedingus.com/tips-...ase-milk-supply


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Today very facepalm... went to Mattel sale. Queue for an hour, didnt even see a single piece of hotwheel. Went back empty handed... blardy sales clearing Barbie dolls only.
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hey guys,
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but now she feel milk getting lower
we have no experience in using supplements for increasing breast milk
any of u guys would like to recommend or suggestion if any?
thanks bapak2 sekalian
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you can choose to believe this or not, but my wife finds that when she eats MCD's double cheese burger the milk production increased
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you can choose to believe this or not, but my wife finds that when she eats MCD's double cheese burger the milk production increased
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his wife gonna be happy to hear that bro hahahah.
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i think each and everyone has different reaction to food. my friend said his wife produce more milk when she had rendang daging.
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QUOTE(andrekua2 @ Mar 24 2016, 03:23 PM)
Today very facepalm... went to Mattel sale. Queue for an hour, didnt even see a single piece of hotwheel. Went back empty handed... blardy sales clearing Barbie dolls only.
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any thomas products? really no hw? wall track hw also no? or habis liao?
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any thomas products? really no hw? wall track hw also no? or habis liao?
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Habuk pun tarak...

Thomas train? Got the motorised track and trolley school bag.

Btw, I don't know if tomorrow will be as crowded as today. The queue is quite long to go in and also quite long for paying. They do have priority lane for pregnant and kids <2 years old.

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Habuk pun tarak...

Thomas train? Got the motorised track and trolley school bag.

Btw, I don't know if tomorrow will be as crowded as today. The queue is quite long to go in and also quite long for paying. They do have priority lane for pregnant and kids  <2 years old.
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normally i go on preview day.. which yesterday.. i will skip this round... somemore theschool nothing to shop there
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normally i go on preview day.. which yesterday.. i will skip this round... somemore theschool nothing to shop there
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I just read that Thomas is sold out too. I think I will skip this whole Mattel thing in the future. Really pointless.
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QUOTE(th3judas @ Mar 24 2016, 03:37 PM)
you can choose to believe this or not, but my wife finds that when she eats MCD's double cheese burger the milk production increased
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Later become fatty how? Everyday mcd
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Later become fatty how? Everyday mcd
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silly question lah... in the end wife will blame the husband loh. what else. say why you didnt stop me lah. this lah that lah.

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Later become fatty how? Everyday mcd
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I know it's kinda off topic, but recent researches shown that Cholesterol and fat is not the culprit to blame for getting fat, but Carbohydrate is to be blame.
I actually munch on fats and protein and vege for the pass year and I lost 20 odd KG of body fat.

Back to the actual topic, my almost 2 month old daughter recently sometimes vomit or have some milk spit out awhile after feeding (probably 5 to 10 minutes after each feed if lay down), and she's very hard to be burped... Any tips? We tried burping here for 2 or 3 times, probably take 15 minutes, but still sometimes she still vomit.
I read it's that it could be overfed, but she sometimes just wants more than 1 side of the (.)(.), like not full enough... weird...
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QUOTE(Newgen @ Apr 7 2016, 03:01 PM)
I know it's kinda off topic, but recent researches shown that Cholesterol and fat is not the culprit to blame for getting fat, but Carbohydrate is to be blame.
I actually munch on fats and protein and vege for the pass year and I lost 20 odd KG of body fat.

Back to the actual topic, my almost 2 month old daughter recently sometimes vomit or have some milk spit out awhile after feeding (probably 5 to 10 minutes after each feed if lay down), and she's very hard to be burped... Any tips? We tried burping here for 2 or 3 times, probably take 15 minutes, but still sometimes she still vomit.
I read it's that it could be overfed, but she sometimes just wants more than 1 side of the (.)(.), like not full enough... weird...
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good job on the weight loss. im still struggling with mine. lost 30kg and then blew out my knee. then put on 20kg again vmad.gif vmad.gif now lost 3kg so far on my current attempt. switching to parboiled rice for now and reducing oil intake. bleh..

as for your darling daughter. unfortunately, you gotta do the burp if you do a full feeding until about 6-8 months i think. i forgot. another method i've seen is to do smaller feedings but more frequently. for me i expanded my hand as big as possible and tap my boys back with a bit of strength and that worked well (they are stronger than we think).
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QUOTE(Newgen @ Apr 7 2016, 03:01 PM)
I know it's kinda off topic, but recent researches shown that Cholesterol and fat is not the culprit to blame for getting fat, but Carbohydrate is to be blame.
I actually munch on fats and protein and vege for the pass year and I lost 20 odd KG of body fat.

Back to the actual topic, my almost 2 month old daughter recently sometimes vomit or have some milk spit out awhile after feeding (probably 5 to 10 minutes after each feed if lay down), and she's very hard to be burped... Any tips? We tried burping here for 2 or 3 times, probably take 15 minutes, but still sometimes she still vomit.
I read it's that it could be overfed, but she sometimes just wants more than 1 side of the (.)(.), like not full enough... weird...
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my son of 1+ mths is having the same issue with burping. out of 10, sometimes I can only burp him once or twice sad.gif
I noticed that using Dr. Brown's bottles somewhat reduces his vomiting/spitting. And after each feed, I'll let him rest on my lap in a sitting position for ~10 mins. That somewhat does the trick.
Overfeeding may also result in hiccups
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im so happy past the burping phase... hang in there guys.
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haha. same with panda-man. hang in there guys!!
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The "hang in there phase is bearable, but the "Oh no, is it xxx disease" is more scary. Hahaha...
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QUOTE(Mr.Docter @ Apr 11 2016, 09:10 AM)
Father to a 5 months old daughter. Damn its tiring but somewhat worth it.
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wait till she reach 1 year ++ can crawl here and there .. touch here and there
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Father to a 5 months old daughter. Damn its tiring but somewhat worth it.
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Apr 11 2016, 09:31 AM)
wait till she reach 1 year ++ can crawl here and there .. touch here and there
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Hahahaha. Man, my kid already smack my flatscreeb so many times. Eject and push in PS4 disc so many times too. And throw the friggin expensive LEGO off the balcony! And don't forget conteng everywhere except the chalkboard! Dang.

But one thing I'm lucky is he likes to lock all the safety drawer clips if I forget haha.
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QUOTE(panda-man @ Apr 11 2016, 11:23 AM)
Hahahaha. Man, my kid already smack my flatscreeb so many times. Eject and push in PS4 disc so many times too. And throw the friggin expensive LEGO off the balcony! And don't forget conteng everywhere except the chalkboard! Dang.

But one thing I'm lucky is he likes to lock all the safety drawer clips if I forget haha.
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my kids draw dindidng n i didnt scold them.. just u need to buy a paint which can easily wipe off or repaint .. i.e nippon

conteng wall is normal for kids.. just need to let them know u can conteng on which dindig. my kids telling reason for drawing on the wall is becauae he can see the drawing every morning

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i am going to send my 21months boy to playschool/Montessori/nursery/childcare...
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Does anyone know where can I get a list of registered nurseries/day cares in Malaysia? This list seems to be quite elusive and not even available on Association of Registered Childcare Providers Malaysia (ARCPM) ... hmmm
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you using it to check for nurseries in your area, or just wanna check if they are 'legal'?
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wanna check if they are legal smile.gif
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heheh. thats what i thought. seems every corner got a nursery nowadays. i used to even work in one for summer holidays.... crazy places. damn kids.... hahah
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QUOTE(th3judas @ Mar 24 2016, 03:37 PM)
you can choose to believe this or not, but my wife finds that when she eats MCD's double cheese burger the milk production increased
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first of all thank you to mc donalds , secondly where she got this formula btw ? thumbsup.gif
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suggest before you enroll.. stop by n chit chat with those parents who already sending their kid to the nusery..

also make sure at least you having 3-4 locals working and not majority is indon..

observed the kids who atteding the nursery whether they are happy n i normally will observed after school whtehr those kids hands or legs are clean enough... if clean meaning the teacher emphasize oj cleaness ..remember kids below 6 yrs most of the sickness normally coming from nusery or kindy
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QUOTE(GamersFamilia @ Apr 14 2016, 10:04 PM)
first of all thank you to mc donalds , secondly where she got this formula btw ?  thumbsup.gif
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I think this has been around for some time, I saw on some FB breastfeeding group, quite a number of the mommies does take this as milk booster.
And additionally, my wife just told me dried chinese vege soup worked for her! LOL rclxms.gif That's so random...
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QUOTE(Newgen @ Apr 15 2016, 09:06 AM)
I think this has been around for some time, I saw on some FB breastfeeding group, quite a number of the mommies does take this as milk booster.
And additionally, my wife just told me dried chinese vege soup worked for her! LOL rclxms.gif That's so random...
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Heheh yeah ...
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So speaking of fatherhood, how you guys juggle between Family, Work, and Health?
Do you all hit the Gym, or do any form of sports?
I personally just resume back my Cycling, starting to do a bit of running since I lost some weight. Trying to be healthier and aiming to achieve something, like completing a century ride, or finishing a Duathlon in the future.
I probably want to quit my gym as I find it pretty hard to train as of now as hardly have a good night sleep, or if I train in the evening I would be too tired/Hot to sleep at night since body is still burningly active... Probably need to wake up earlier to cycle or run in the morning (hope I can do it!) instead of in the evening time.
So what you guys do to stay active and healthy?
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QUOTE(GamersFamilia @ Apr 14 2016, 10:04 PM)
first of all thank you to mc donalds , secondly where she got this formula btw ?  thumbsup.gif
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by chance and observation my friend. she just noticed that her production increased after she eats double cheese burger. then she repeats a few times to validate her findings.

come to think of it.. maybe she just used that excuse to eat more double cheese burgers.
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Mar 24 2016, 07:02 PM)
any thomas products? really no hw? wall track hw also no? or habis liao?
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Talking about (toy) trains( which I think all kids must be exposed to) ... I found DUPLO tracks at great discount in hamleys 1u but I can't find a duplo train(set) anywhere on the shelves. Duh.


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QUOTE(alanyuppie @ Apr 19 2016, 01:50 PM)
Talking about (toy) trains( which I think all kids must be exposed to) ... I found DUPLO tracks at great discount in hamleys 1u but I can't find a duplo train(set) anywhere on the shelves.  Duh.
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probaly legoland got biggrin.gif biggrin.gif

better use the money buy tomy train set
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QUOTE(Newgen @ Apr 19 2016, 09:47 AM)
So speaking of fatherhood, how you guys juggle between Family, Work, and Health?
Do you all hit the Gym, or do any form of sports?
I personally just resume back my Cycling, starting to do a bit of running since I lost some weight. Trying to be healthier and aiming to achieve something, like completing a century ride, or finishing a Duathlon in the future.
I probably want to quit my gym as I find it pretty hard to train as of now as hardly have a good night sleep, or if I train in the evening I would be too tired/Hot to sleep at night since body is still burningly active... Probably need to wake up earlier to cycle or run in the morning (hope I can do it!) instead of in the evening time.
So what you guys do to stay active and healthy?
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for me only family and work ...
my company got gym also i didnt go

start work at 5.30am finish around 2.30pm .. most of the time teaching kids do homework, fetching kids, play betta fish and board games ..

you lucky you still got time for your ownself ..


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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Apr 19 2016, 02:53 PM)
probaly legoland got  biggrin.gif  biggrin.gif

better use the money buy tomy train set
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Yea... for toy train Tomy is the best scale wise at least it wont take up much space. LEGO train one circle has a diameter of 2 feet.
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QUOTE(th3judas @ Apr 19 2016, 11:40 AM)
by chance and observation my friend. she just noticed that her production increased after she eats double cheese burger. then she repeats a few times to validate her findings.

come to think of it.. maybe she just used that excuse to eat more double cheese burgers.
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Yea may be hehe
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Apr 19 2016, 01:56 PM)
for me only family and work ...
my company got gym also i didnt go

start work at 5.30am finish around 2.30pm  .. most of the time teaching kids do homework, fetching kids, play betta fish and board games ..

you lucky you still got time for your ownself ..
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I guess it's not as easy as being "lucky". I needed to make a lot of arrangements to have my own healthy time.
Sometimes I would actually go to the extend to ask parents or parents in law for help to take care of the kids and drag my wife out for some alone time or exercise, to get the sanity back.
haha

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just heads up. at jaya33 having a pretty good sale now for all kinds of stuff from AlPro pharmacy. my wife alwasy complain tired so picked up some Blackmores Exec B for RM62.5 (150tabs), damn gooding price.
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CHECK-IN!! Father in 3 months time!!! Just excited now. Got some baby stuffs at BabyWorld the other day.

Got breast pump, warmer, steriliser, and couple of bottles. Anything else I really need to prepare?

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CHECK-IN!! Father in 3 months time!!! Just excited now. Got some baby stuffs at BabyWorld the other day.

Got breast pump, warmer, steriliser, and couple of bottles.  Anything else I really need to prepare?
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congrats bro. you will still need a lot of stuff hahaha. heres a small list from top of my head to give you some ideas.

just some random stuff to consider:
highly recommended:
- nappy cloth. i dunno what its called. in aeon they got, its square shaped i think like 10pcs for RM10-20 or something. useful for everything. the more you wash it gets softer. so can prewash a few times before use. can also be used for a swaddle.
- baby powder (use pure cornstarch - talc is too fine and can be inhaled and shouldnt be used.)
- get a good nappy cream (i use sudocreme, but there are others - can get from most pharmacies)
- cloth to wrap the baby's tummy. dunno the name, its just to wrap around the abdomen before the umbilical cord falls out. just to protect from getting sangkut on baju and stuff. ouch.
- nail clipper - i used the scissors shaped one. need to clip quite often otherwise they wlll scratch themselves. can use mittens if you want, but in the end still need to clip the nails.
- nipple cream - should use 2 weeks prior to delivering baby or something like that, its expensive though. but your wife will thank you.
- cotton balls - to bathe and clean the baby. nurse will teach you.
- creams and oils.
- bottle cleaner scrub brush thing and liquid cleaner for bottle.
- bottle drying rack
- car seat. better if you can just borrow one from someone as they will outgrow it in 6 months. pointless to spend so much for the first few months and then buy another one. unless you buy the really good ones that can convert.
- stroller - again, get ones that can convert, or just borrow from someone. sweet cherry are decent quality and also look good. i had a quinny from a friend but its way too heavy and big.

recommended:
- wet wipes - always handy for emergency spills or flying pee
- baby bath tub
- organic baby soap (i thought to use cheap one, but after seeing my baby, terus went to buy the organic stuff hahaha. i think like RM60 for 120ml or something. but lasts a long time, so worth it lah).

not urgent:
- many toys - they dont play much. just sleep and eat. you are entertaining enough for bebeh. hopefully hahahah. jk jk. plus for the first month i think they cant see anyways. can just print out some strong contrast B&W images for entertainment.
- diapers - depending on hospital, they will give you a few samples, test those out before buying a bunch of diapers. some will get rash, or not comfortable for baby etc.

phew... longer than i thought. got carried away hahaha. also, if your wife got a lot of milk, you can consider looking for breast milk storage bags, then can freeze and use for later. like if your wife wanna go jalan or work, then you can still give BM rather than formula.

congrats and welcome aboard. its gonna be crazy, but will be the best time of your life too. thumbup.gif
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congrats bro. you will still need a lot of stuff hahaha. heres a small list from top of my head to give you some ideas.

just some random stuff to consider:
highly recommended:
- nappy cloth. i dunno what its called. in aeon they got, its square shaped i think like 10pcs for RM10-20 or something. useful for everything. the more you wash it gets softer. so can prewash a few times before use. can also be used for a swaddle.
- baby powder (use pure cornstarch - talc is too fine and can be inhaled and shouldnt be used.)
- get a good nappy cream (i use sudocreme, but there are others - can get from most pharmacies)
- cloth to wrap the baby's tummy. dunno the name, its just to wrap around the abdomen before the umbilical cord falls out. just to protect from getting sangkut on baju and stuff. ouch.
- nail clipper - i used the scissors shaped one. need to clip quite often otherwise they wlll scratch themselves. can use mittens if you want, but in the end still need to clip the nails.
- nipple cream - should use 2 weeks prior to delivering baby or something like that, its expensive though. but your wife will thank you.
- cotton balls - to bathe and clean the baby. nurse will teach you.
- creams and oils.
- bottle cleaner scrub brush thing and liquid cleaner for bottle.
- bottle drying rack
- car seat. better if you can just borrow one from someone as they will outgrow it in 6 months. pointless to spend so much for the first few months and then buy another one. unless you buy the really good ones that can convert.
- stroller - again, get ones that can convert, or just borrow from someone. sweet cherry are decent quality and also look good. i had a quinny from a friend but its way too heavy and big.

recommended:
- wet wipes - always handy for emergency spills or flying pee
- baby bath tub
- organic baby soap (i thought to use cheap one, but after seeing my baby, terus went to buy the organic stuff hahaha. i think like RM60 for 120ml or something. but lasts a long time, so worth it lah).

not urgent:
- many toys - they dont play much. just sleep and eat. you are entertaining enough for bebeh. hopefully hahahah. jk jk. plus for the first month i think they cant see anyways. can just print out some strong contrast B&W images for entertainment.
- diapers - depending on hospital, they will give you a few samples, test those out before buying a bunch of diapers. some will get rash, or not comfortable for baby etc.

phew... longer than i thought. got carried away hahaha. also, if your wife got a lot of milk, you can consider looking for breast milk storage bags, then can freeze and use for later. like if your wife wanna go jalan or work, then you can still give BM rather than formula.

congrats and welcome aboard. its gonna be crazy, but will be the best time of your life too.  thumbup.gif
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rclxub.gif rclxub.gif more stuffs to buy... lolz... thanks a lot!!!

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rclxub.gif  rclxub.gif  more stuffs to buy... lolz... thanks a lot!!!
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CHECK-IN!! Father in 3 months time!!! Just excited now. Got some baby stuffs at BabyWorld the other day.

Got breast pump, warmer, steriliser, and couple of bottles.  Anything else I really need to prepare?
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Congrats! laugh.gif

Eventually you'll know that there's always things to buy, never ends.
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enfagrow so expensive nowdays...with the same price better go for pediasure..

but my kids 3 yr drink sustagen n 8 and 10 yrs old drink fernleaf...

cut cost
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Was eating out with in laws family at one Sri Petaling restaurant (opposite the hotel) . Business were good but NOT BABY FRIENDLY. They have over 50 tables sprawled until sidewalks and just SIX BABY CHAIRS. Need to wait 30 minute to "stalk" the next table finish eating and book their baby chair.

To return the favor to other late diners.... We took initiative to carry the baby chair to nearby table after we done eating coz they also struggled to hold their baby on lap.



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Was eating out with in laws family  at one Sri Petaling restaurant (opposite the hotel) . Business were good but NOT BABY FRIENDLY. They have over 50 tables sprawled until sidewalks  and just SIX BABY CHAIRS.  Need to wait 30 minute to "stalk" the next table finish eating and book their baby chair.

To return the favor to other late diners.... We took initiative to carry  the baby chair to nearby table after we done eating coz they also struggled to hold their baby on lap.
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yeah. i dont understand why they dont get more chairs. just stack them up.... good work on passing the chair over. icon_rolleyes.gif
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QUOTE(alanyuppie @ May 16 2016, 10:59 AM)
Was eating out with in laws family  at one Sri Petaling restaurant (opposite the hotel) . Business were good but NOT BABY FRIENDLY. They have over 50 tables sprawled until sidewalks  and just SIX BABY CHAIRS.  Need to wait 30 minute to "stalk" the next table finish eating and book their baby chair.

To return the favor to other late diners.... We took initiative to carry  the baby chair to nearby table after we done eating coz they also struggled to hold their baby on lap.
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popo canteem

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popo canteem
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apa ni?  rclxub.gif
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poppo canteen .. a restaurant

https://www.facebook.com/poppokanteen/
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poppo canteen .. a restaurant

https://www.facebook.com/poppokanteen/
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thanks for the clearing up hahah.
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To return the favor to other late diners.... We took initiative to carry  the baby chair to nearby table after we done eating coz they also struggled to hold their baby on lap.
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Baby chairs not that expensive what. Why skim on those? Especially when you have like 50 tables, can't even buy a few more chairs. doh.gif
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nice...just found out about this topic....ahaha...father of 6 month daughter n another one on december smile.gif
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nice...just found out about this topic....ahaha...father of 6 month daughter n another one on december smile.gif
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did some shopping yesterday. Fuh, preparing for the birth of my baby soon. Excited in 8 weeks time!!!

by the way, can anyone enlighten me on hospital for birth around East KL? I'm staying at Bukit Tinggi, Bentong. My wife prefer natural birth smile.gif which one doc back in my hometown (Teluk Intan) recommend as well (however, after talk with him, he did use some drug to decrease (edited) the time for birth) so my wife not very happy with him.

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did some shopping yesterday. Fuh, preparing for the birth of my baby soon. Excited in 8 weeks time!!!

by the way, can anyone enlighten me on hospital for birth around East KL? I'm staying at Bukit Tinggi, Bentong. My wife prefer natural birth smile.gif which one doc back in my hometown (Teluk Intan) recommend as well (however, after talk with him, he did use some drug to increase the time for birth) so my wife not very happy with him.
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let it be natural .. not sure why want to extend the time for the birth .. unless the baby position still not yet ready
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let it be natural .. not sure why want to extend the time for the birth .. unless the baby position still not yet ready
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sorry, I should said decrease the time of birth.

Few points my wife prefer to

1) no drugs or whatsoever in pushing for birth (doc wants to use drugs to decrease the birth time)
2) have baby with her straight after birth, (but doc said you are risking life of baby. He said baby needs to be keep warm immediately cause baby might be cold and cause hardship in breathing.)- is it true?
3) Allow blood from Placenta to fully flows to baby before cut the cord (doc did not agree on this)

Anyone got good doc can recommend? Even from gov hospital also good
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QUOTE(Yveatel @ Jun 6 2016, 09:19 AM)
sorry, I should said decrease the time of birth.

Few points my wife prefer to

1) no drugs or whatsoever in pushing for birth (doc wants to use drugs to decrease the birth time)
2) have baby with her straight after birth, (but doc said you are risking life of baby. He said baby needs to be keep warm immediately cause baby might be cold and cause hardship in breathing.)- is it true?
3) Allow blood from Placenta to fully flows to baby before cut the cord (doc did not agree on this)

Anyone got good doc can recommend? Even from gov hospital also good
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ah decrease time of birth make sense biggrin.gif

below based on my experience witnessing my wife delivered 3 kids at operation room

1) no drugs or whatsoever in pushing for birth (doc wants to use drugs to decrease the birth time)

depends on situation , if water bag burst, normally dr advise drugs to push the birth as baby will be in danger if too long if wbag burst .. my wife 8 hours delivered after wb burst. probaly always be prepared for operation if needed ...

2) have baby with her straight after birth, (but doc said you are risking life of baby. He said baby needs to be keep warm immediately cause baby might be cold and cause hardship in breathing.)- is it true?

what do you mean straight after birth? normally after delivered ... nurse will slap buntut baby then cry ... after that baby will be put on your wife top near the breast area for 5 minutes .. then tag baby leg and hand with name .. then bring back to nusery .. on/off tekan bell as nurse to bring baby for breast feeding


3) Allow blood from Placenta to fully flows to baby before cut the cord (doc did not agree on this)

there is some people praticing this and depends on dr but for me i opt for stemcell hence cut cord and suck the cord blood to the tabung for stem cell to keep which done by the dr

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Hahaha. Yup. Oh and can get a crib. If sleep with baby I guarantee you will wake up damn scared and throw all the bedsheets looking for baby...
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DOnt sleep with baby...

Dont start, dont try, dont make it a habit...
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Jun 6 2016, 10:12 AM)
ah decrease time of birth make sense biggrin.gif

below based on my experience witnessing my wife delivered 3 kids at operation room

1) no drugs or whatsoever in pushing for birth (doc wants to use drugs to decrease the birth time)

depends on situation , if water bag burst, normally dr advise drugs to push the birth as baby will be in danger if too long if wbag burst .. my wife 8 hours delivered after wb burst. probaly always be prepared for operation if needed ...

2) have baby with her straight after birth, (but doc said you are risking life of baby. He said baby needs to be keep warm immediately cause baby might be cold and cause hardship in breathing.)- is it true?

what do you mean straight after birth? normally after delivered ... nurse will slap buntut baby then cry ... after that baby will be put on your wife top near the breast area for 5 minutes .. then tag baby leg and hand with name .. then bring back to nusery .. on/off tekan bell as nurse to bring baby for breast feeding
3) Allow blood from Placenta to fully flows to baby before cut the cord (doc did not agree on this)

there is some people praticing this and depends on dr but for me i opt for stemcell hence cut cord and suck the cord blood to the tabung for stem cell to keep which done by the dr
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May I know which hospital?

QUOTE(MeToo @ Jun 6 2016, 10:32 AM)
DOnt sleep with baby...

Dont start, dont try, dont make it a habit...
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hahaha, my mum said the same thing... not even in the first month for the convenient of breast feeding?
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May I know which hospital?
hahaha, my mum said the same thing... not even in the first month for the convenient of breast feeding?
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May I know which hospital?
hahaha, my mum said the same thing... not even in the first month for the convenient of breast feeding?
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Its for the safety of the baby. Not for convenience. Even a small pillow or even a cloth on the baby's face he/ she won't be able to remove it and would suffocate
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Congrats buddy~ all the best! Remember to be patient. Your wife will be damn tired and irritable. Don't take mood swings to heart.
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hahaha, my mum said the same thing... not even in the first month for the convenient of breast feeding?
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You mean infant die when sleep together??
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not 100% but there is a higher chance of suffocation via object covering them or parents rolling over, or pushing them off bed, or hitting them or SIDS. etc and so forth. its not worth it. people say 'get closer to baby' or 'more convenient'. also more convenient for baby to die.
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not 100% but there is a higher chance of suffocation via object covering them or parents rolling over, or pushing them off bed, or hitting them or SIDS. etc and so forth. its not worth it. people say 'get closer to baby' or 'more convenient'. also more convenient for baby to die.
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I see what you mean, thanks
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You mean infant die when sleep together??
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In a crude way, yes, die. In Australia, the government actually sends people to check on houses with newborn, make sure no pillows in baby cots, mother is not sleeping next to the child to avoid it from happening.
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I see what you mean, thanks
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Hi All, would like to know. My wife just went to KK for a check up on her current 3 months pregancy. KK ask her next week come back again for blood test & bring me along to do the test as well.
never heard of this before, is it a new practise?

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Hi All, would like to know. My wife just went to KK for a check up on her current 3 months pregancy. KK ask her next week come back again for blood test & bring me along to do the test as well.
never heard of this before, is it a new practise?
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father of 2.
my daily routine includes:

715am = wake up, prepare kids for kindy
8am =send them and go work
630pm = back from work, bring kids to playground
730pm= wife feed dinner, i bathe them
8pm= watch some tv, while i clean dishes
830pm= wife teach/see to the kids, i clean up the house (vacuum, mop, toys etc)
915pm = i bring one up first to sleep, or else 2 of them will be playing
10pm = one sleeps, my wife brings up the 2nd one. while i do last cleaning up

by the time done with cleaning, some coffee, bathe = 11 -1130pm. sweat.gif
time for some tv shows n go to sleep.

and it repeats ...
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QUOTE(kucingfight @ Jun 9 2016, 03:58 PM)
father of 2.
my daily routine includes:

715am = wake up, prepare kids for kindy
8am =send them and go work
630pm = back from work, bring kids to playground
730pm= wife feed dinner, i bathe them
8pm= watch some tv, while i clean dishes
830pm= wife teach/see to the kids, i clean up the house (vacuum, mop, toys etc)
915pm = i bring one up first to sleep, or else 2 of them will be playing
10pm = one sleeps, my wife brings up the 2nd one. while i do last cleaning up

by the time done with cleaning, some coffee, bathe = 11 -1130pm. sweat.gif
time for some tv shows n go to sleep.

and it repeats ...
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wow!! That's quite strict routine you are following there..
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wow!! That's quite strict routine you are following there..
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lol..or rather..what choice do i have
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QUOTE(kucingfight @ Jun 9 2016, 04:02 PM)
lol..or rather..what choice do i have
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QUOTE(kucingfight @ Jun 9 2016, 03:58 PM)
father of 2.
my daily routine includes:

715am = wake up, prepare kids for kindy
8am =send them and go work
630pm = back from work, bring kids to playground
730pm= wife feed dinner, i bathe them
8pm= watch some tv, while i clean dishes
830pm= wife teach/see to the kids, i clean up the house (vacuum, mop, toys etc)
915pm = i bring one up first to sleep, or else 2 of them will be playing
10pm = one sleeps, my wife brings up the 2nd one. while i do last cleaning up

by the time done with cleaning, some coffee, bathe = 11 -1130pm. sweat.gif
time for some tv shows n go to sleep.

and it repeats ...
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I salute you, Sir!
I've been having hard time following schedule... And it's sad to say wife barely have time of her own (because the son sticks to her like glue)
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Guys, is sex during first few weeks of pregnancy completely safe for the baby (which would be just the size of lentil at that time, before heart is even formed)?
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it is safe i guess. most people actually dont know they are pregnant till after those first few weeks passed already . she might experience a bit of bleeding though. but best to avoid it. we didnt even know my wife was expecting till like 4-5 weeks. we were on holiday. snorkeling running around bangkok and phuket ahaha. all ok.
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QUOTE(panda-man @ Jun 15 2016, 02:04 PM)
it is safe i guess. most people actually dont know they are pregnant till after those first few weeks passed already . she might experience a bit of bleeding though. but best to avoid it. we didnt even know my wife was expecting till like 4-5 weeks. we were on holiday. snorkeling running around bangkok and phuket ahaha. all ok.
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We just discovered about the pregnancy two weeks ago. Last night ultrasound, doc said pregnancy age is plus minus 6 weeks. In two weeks time, should be able to see the heart.

Man this whole thing is very new.

Before this see my friends/relatives got married and have kids I was like oh okay that's how life is.

Now that it's happening to me, it's quite something to experience.
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QUOTE(Necrosis @ Jun 15 2016, 02:41 PM)
We just discovered about the pregnancy two weeks ago. Last night ultrasound, doc said pregnancy age is plus minus 6 weeks. In two weeks time, should be able to see the heart.

Man this whole thing is very new.

Before this see my friends/relatives got married and have kids I was like oh okay that's how life is.

Now that it's happening to me, it's quite something to experience.
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yeah. see. already passed the first few weeks hehe. yeah its a bit scary at first, but it is pretty awesome.
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QUOTE(Necrosis @ Jun 15 2016, 02:41 PM)
We just discovered about the pregnancy two weeks ago. Last night ultrasound, doc said pregnancy age is plus minus 6 weeks. In two weeks time, should be able to see the heart.

Man this whole thing is very new.

Before this see my friends/relatives got married and have kids I was like oh okay that's how life is.

Now that it's happening to me, it's quite something to experience.
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You'll have more excitement, so be prepared to experience new things throughout the whole pregnancy and fatherhood!
I've consulted multiple doctors before, sex during pregnancy is totally safe if you keep it sweet and simple. Just don't practice those difficult karmasutra brows.gif icon_idea.gif
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QUOTE(Necrosis @ Jun 15 2016, 02:41 PM)
We just discovered about the pregnancy two weeks ago. Last night ultrasound, doc said pregnancy age is plus minus 6 weeks. In two weeks time, should be able to see the heart.

Man this whole thing is very new.

Before this see my friends/relatives got married and have kids I was like oh okay that's how life is.

Now that it's happening to me, it's quite something to experience.
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is better not to have sex during pregnancy especially early stage and almost near to delivery .. i got to know story that during delivery the baby head covered with the sperm .. yaik

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Really proud to read all the comments from you responsible daddies (heroes).. Wishing you guys advance "Father's Day" & have a great memorable fatherhood.. smile.gif
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Ya my friend experienced once doctor said hey i can see urs air m**i when deliver! Hahaha
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Hi guys, last night me and my wife went for window shopping for formulated milk for pregnant @ lactating mother. Planning to get one since the pregnancy is entering 7th week.

The problem is, my wife is lactose intolerant. Basically anything that contains lactose (a form of sugar only found in milk) will cause diarrhea. We look for something that's of soy basis instead of cow's milk, but those are only available for infants, not for mothers.

Any of you can recommend a brand, and where to buy? Or is it alright to consume milk that is marketed for infants?

Thanks!
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Hi guys, humble husband and father to a son of 8 month reporting in. Just want to say thank you for this thread. a lot of advice for us noob dads.
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QUOTE(Necrosis @ Jun 29 2016, 10:36 AM)
Hi guys, last night me and my wife went for window shopping for formulated milk for pregnant @ lactating mother. Planning to get one since the pregnancy is entering 7th week.

The problem is, my wife is lactose intolerant. Basically anything that contains lactose (a form of sugar only found in milk) will cause diarrhea. We look for something that's of soy basis instead of cow's milk, but those are only available for infants, not for mothers.

Any of you can recommend a brand, and where to buy? Or is it alright to consume milk that is marketed for infants?

Thanks!
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If i'm not wrong any goat milk should be okay as it contains lower amount of lactose.. but im not sure though, have you googled around?
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my first son , wife drink enfa mama
second son , drink on/off
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actually you can get sample milk from gynae so that wife can test it out which brands suit her
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Hi guys, humble husband and father to a son of 8 month reporting in. Just want to say thank you for this thread. a lot of advice for us noob dads.
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eight months can start some solid food like blended porridge...
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eight months can start some solid food like blended porridge...
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Solid food started already at 6 months. ty for the advice. now learning to stand . keep on falling . damn scared he'll hurt himself.
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i dont recommend walker .. it wont help child to walk .. put ABC map if jatuh pun not hurt so much
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yeah.. i'm looking to carpet the whole room.. how do you manage your child's saving tho? any one of you guys got any system? ASB or Tabung Haji per say.. any advice on son's savings would be helpful.
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yeah.. i'm looking to carpet the whole room.. how do you manage your child's saving tho? any one of you guys got any system? ASB or Tabung Haji per say.. any advice on son's savings would be helpful.
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my son got TH, but dont put in money that often. but ada lah, duit raya, or some cash given from friends and such. but ada lah. sikit sikit jadi bukit. but if you have the funds, can do one of those FD type accounts. my cash is unstable so dont wanna commit to those.
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QUOTE(panda-man @ Jun 29 2016, 03:30 PM)
my son got TH, but dont put in money that often. but ada lah, duit raya, or some cash given from friends and such. but ada lah. sikit sikit jadi bukit. but if you have the funds, can do one of those FD type accounts. my cash is unstable so dont wanna commit to those.
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I was thinking of doing something like 20RM monthly to his TH account.. it should help once he starts school or college right? MB2U does have the option to transfer automatically to TH account right?
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I was thinking of doing something like 20RM monthly to his TH account.. it should help once he starts school or college right? MB2U does have the option to transfer automatically to TH account right?
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yeah. can open a TH account for the kid as long as you have an account at TH as well. mine just got RM50 inside. M2U can transfer money to TH account, but not sure about automatically. The cost is RM1 per transaction if im not mistaken. well maybe 1.06 now. You need to register parent and child account at the ATM first. then can use online facility after 2-3 days verification.

i wouldnt say that RM20/month will help too much. only about RM4.3k at 18yo (w/o interest). but its better than nothing. can cover some costs or maybe DP for car? or wedding. heh.

I am considering moving my sons account to ASB though as the rates are better. went to TH initially just because ASB previously didnt accept babies. or something like that. but now seems they've opened up.


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QUOTE(panda-man @ Jun 29 2016, 03:41 PM)
yeah. can open a TH account for the kid as long as you have an account at TH as well. mine just got RM50 inside. M2U can transfer money to TH account, but not sure about automatically. The cost is RM1 per transaction if im not mistaken. well maybe 1.06 now. You need to register parent and child account at the ATM first. then can use online facility after 2-3 days verification.

i wouldnt say that RM20/month will help too much. only about RM4.3k at 18yo (w/o interest). but its better than nothing. can cover some costs or maybe DP for car? or wedding. heh.

I am considering moving my sons account to ASB though as the rates are better. went to TH initially just because ASB previously didnt accept babies. or something like that. but now seems they've opened up.
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Oh wow, right2. how to open account in ASB though? I need to go to banks is it? i tried opening online, doesn't seem to work. Sorry for all these questions as my dad is no longer around and my elder siblings are far. so dont really have sifus to ask about these things.
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QUOTE(dark90 @ Jun 29 2016, 02:49 PM)
Oh wow, right2. how to open account in ASB though? I need to go to banks is it? i tried opening online, doesn't seem to work. Sorry for all these questions as my dad is no longer around and my elder siblings are far. so dont really have sifus to ask about these things.
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no prob. can help where i can. if you are bumi you can open an ASB account easily with a max limit of RM200k. but to my knowledge need to go to the bank to do it as they will give you a passbook. i opened super long time ago when i was only like 12 yo. so dont really remember if can open at all banks or need to specifically go to HQ. but if you are in KL, just go in the morning to the HQ. got free parking and i think they open at like 830am. i went there to replace my lost books. and dont have to wait long at all like 5-10 mins all settle. should be roughly the same.

if you are non-bumi then im not entirely sure, there are shares available, but not sure on the process and seems hard to get funds, that one need to ask in the ASB sifu thread in finance section of LYN.
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yeah.. i'm looking to carpet the whole room.. how do you manage your child's saving tho? any one of you guys got any system? ASB or Tabung Haji per say.. any advice on son's savings would be helpful.
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QUOTE(panda-man @ Jun 29 2016, 04:16 PM)
no prob. can help where i can. if you are bumi you can open an ASB account easily with a max limit of RM200k. but to my knowledge need to go to the bank to do it as they will give you a passbook. i opened super long time ago when i was only like 12 yo. so dont really remember if can open at all banks or need to specifically go to HQ. but if you are in KL, just go in the morning to the HQ. got free parking and i think they open at like 830am. i went there to replace my lost books. and dont have to wait long at all like 5-10 mins all settle. should be roughly the same.

if you are non-bumi then im not entirely sure, there are shares available, but not sure on the process and seems hard to get funds, that one need to ask in the ASB sifu thread in finance section of LYN.
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I am a bumi and in Johor. so should i just walk in Maybank or must be BSN? Must have minimum deposit for first deposit ? Would like to open one for my savings .. huhu.
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QUOTE(dark90 @ Jun 29 2016, 03:22 PM)
I am a bumi and in Johor. so should i just walk in Maybank or must be BSN? Must have minimum deposit for first deposit ? Would like to open one for my savings .. huhu.
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i think can walk in and open an account. so far all maybanks i go to have ASB services. but not sure about opening an account. i think minimum is RM100.

you can check out https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3945526

got all the info you need.
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Hi guys, humble husband and father to a son of 8 month reporting in. Just want to say thank you for this thread. a lot of advice for us noob dads.
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Haha i think many will found this thread helpful bro. Me noob either
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anyone of you going to labor room ? my exp nothing to be afraid yeah..

i been to operating theater for first son ceaser n seconf n third son labor delivery room
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anyone of you going to labor room ? my exp nothing to be afraid yeah..

i been to operating theater for first son ceaser n seconf n third son labor delivery room
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Not yet, my wife was transferred to the operation room so czar for her.
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anyone of you going to labor room ? my exp nothing to be afraid yeah..

i been to operating theater for first son ceaser n seconf n third son labor delivery room
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i went in for elective cesarean. its damn cold in there.
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Not yet, my wife was transferred to the operation room so czar for her.
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ceaser is more faster .. it will takes 30 minutes at most if no complications ..
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Hi to all. Husband and father to a twins of 7 months checking in here. Thank you TS for creating this thread and thanks everyone for sharing your experience. smile.gif
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Jun 30 2016, 12:21 PM)
ceaser is more faster .. it will takes 30 minutes at most if no complications ..
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Hi to all. Husband and father to a twins of 7 months checking in here. Thank you TS for creating this thread and thanks everyone for sharing your experience. smile.gif
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twins must be very fun ...
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Twins : Everything times 2. but should still be fun. anyways congrats, not anyone are lucky enough to get twins.. thumbup.gif thumbup.gif
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twins must be very fun ...
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Twins : Everything times 2. but should still be fun. anyways congrats, not anyone are lucky enough to get twins..  thumbup.gif  thumbup.gif
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Yup, everything times 2. Challenging in terms of mental and psychological aspects. Plus need to spend and save more $$. My wife cried when Gynae scanned and told us that she's expecting a twins last time. Now after work, drive faster and rush home then hug hug babies, help wife to wash bottles, etc.
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QUOTE(Lovemyfamily @ Jul 2 2016, 11:13 AM)
Yup, everything times 2. Challenging in terms of mental and psychological aspects. Plus need to spend and save more $$. My wife cried when Gynae scanned and told us that she's expecting a twins last time. Now after work, drive faster and rush home then hug hug babies, help wife to wash bottles, etc.
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Should be quite bz and occupied with twins.

Once heard from colleague who got a triplet. Wife have to resign stay home besides hiring 2 maid at 1 go.


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QUOTE(Magpies9 @ Jul 3 2016, 06:29 AM)
Should be quite bz and occupied with twins.

Once heard from colleague who got a triplet. Wife have to resign stay home besides hiring 2 maid at 1 go.
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Yeah, very busy and no more futsal for me. Must rush home to help out or sleep after work so I can 'work' night shift. Currently my wife and parents-in-law are helping to take care of the twins. My wife works 24/7 non stop. Can't image your colleague's triplet how. rclxub.gif rclxub.gif
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Yeah, very busy and no more futsal for me. Must rush home to help out or sleep after work so I can 'work' night shift. Currently my wife and parents-in-law are helping to take care of the twins. My wife works 24/7 non stop. Can't image your colleague's triplet how.  rclxub.gif  rclxub.gif
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Twins here also. How do you guys cope with one sleep while another don't sleep after feeding?
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Twins here also.  How do you guys cope with one sleep while another don't sleep after feeding?
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anyone can help regarding baby kuning x? 5 days already...
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anyone can help regarding baby kuning x? 5 days already...
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baby kuning? jaundice?

expose your child to morning sun and stay in rooms with sunlight exposure throughout the day. no direct sunlight. if serious, head back to the hospital and they will put your child in the incubator sun bath looking thingie...
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i think 5 days , better go back to the padae in hospital .. chances will put under the light ..


normally the practice is to let the morning sunshine before 8am for your baby for 5 minutes 3-4 days after coming back from hospital..


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check with the hospital, might be heart problem if its yellow for days.
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Hi Fathers, I need your help, my buai elektrik is no longer working, i'm guessing adapter issues.. does any of you know where i can buy an electric adapter 250v online or in Johor?

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QUOTE(dark90 @ Jul 25 2016, 10:13 AM)
Hi Fathers, I need your help, my buai elektrik is no longer working, i'm guessing adapter issues.. does any of you know where i can buy an electric adapter 250v online or in Johor?
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i think normal electrical shops sell those 250v adapters. but if not sure. just take it to the kedai tepi jalan type of electric shop. they should be able to test for free. jgn beli and then memang adapter no problem haha.
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i think normal electrical shops sell those 250v adapters. but if not sure. just take it to the kedai tepi jalan type of electric shop. they should be able to test for free. jgn beli and then memang adapter no problem haha.
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Cannot find meh.. been to most shops in Kulai... Kedai Hardware confirm dont sell right?
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Cannot find meh.. been to most shops in Kulai... Kedai Hardware confirm dont sell right?
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i believe jalan pasar pudu should hvae..that place famous of letric parts
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i believe jalan pasar pudu should hvae..that place famous of letric parts
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Thanks for the reply, but unfortunately im in Johor.. zzz.
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Thanks for the reply, but unfortunately im in Johor.. zzz.
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My suggestion, spend time on google, try to find any jln. pasar kedai letrik etc phone number (for sure you will find that adapter)
Then, can ask their help to post it to you



Btw, hello fathers!!
This is my first post in this thread

Hoping to learn a lot from all fathers here!

I have 1 daughter 15m.o, -- she's a joy but she is not able to walk yet, can stand herself holding coffee table or first step of stairs..
I know some girls 8-9months walking already smile.gif

So fathers (and mothers here)..How fast your toddler start walking?

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QUOTE(NotTheOne @ Jul 27 2016, 09:49 AM)
My suggestion, spend time on google, try to find any jln. pasar kedai letrik etc phone number (for sure you will find that adapter)
Then, can ask their help to post it to you
Btw, hello fathers!!
This is my first post in this thread

Hoping to learn a lot from all fathers here!

I have 1 daughter 15m.o,  -- she's a joy but she is not able to walk yet, can stand herself holding coffee table or first step of stairs..
I know some girls 8-9months walking already smile.gif

So fathers (and mothers here)..How fast your toddler start walking?
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my daughter now is 13 mo. still haven't walk yet. same progress with yours i think. She likes to hold my hand and walk. used to be she wants me to hold both her hands, now she wants to hold 1 hand only and will run around as long as i hold her hand. i think it's cute but it hurts my back a bit because need to bend down to play with her like that
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QUOTE(NotTheOne @ Jul 27 2016, 09:49 AM)
My suggestion, spend time on google, try to find any jln. pasar kedai letrik etc phone number (for sure you will find that adapter)
Then, can ask their help to post it to you
Btw, hello fathers!!
This is my first post in this thread

Hoping to learn a lot from all fathers here!

I have 1 daughter 15m.o,  -- she's a joy but she is not able to walk yet, can stand herself holding coffee table or first step of stairs..
I know some girls 8-9months walking already smile.gif

So fathers (and mothers here)..How fast your toddler start walking?
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Don't get too stressed over it. My daughter only started walking at 17 mths, now she can't sit still. My eldest son walked right after he turned 1. Every kid have their own timetable... just let them get comfortable with it.

Once your daughter starts walking, you'll wish she didn't... haha
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QUOTE(NotTheOne @ Jul 27 2016, 10:49 AM)
My suggestion, spend time on google, try to find any jln. pasar kedai letrik etc phone number (for sure you will find that adapter)
Then, can ask their help to post it to you
Btw, hello fathers!!
This is my first post in this thread

Hoping to learn a lot from all fathers here!

I have 1 daughter 15m.o,  -- she's a joy but she is not able to walk yet, can stand herself holding coffee table or first step of stairs..
I know some girls 8-9months walking already smile.gif

So fathers (and mothers here)..How fast your toddler start walking?
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Thanks man , but it seems that my wife wanted to teach him to sleep without buai. so yeah, gonna have a few sleepless nights. LEL.

Welcome to the club, bro! hope you learn something new!
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no walkers.. it wont help ur kids to walk...
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QUOTE(th3judas @ Jul 27 2016, 09:55 AM)
my daughter now is 13 mo. still haven't walk yet. same progress with yours i think. She likes to hold my hand and walk. used to be she wants me to hold both her hands, now she wants to hold 1 hand only and will run around as long as i hold her hand. i think it's cute but it hurts my back a bit because need to bend down to play with her like that
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girls are slower than guys in physical development(walking , hand coordination etc) but is faster than guys in speech development.


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QUOTE(NotTheOne @ Jul 27 2016, 09:49 AM)
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I have 1 daughter 15m.o,  -- she's a joy but she is not able to walk yet, can stand herself holding coffee table or first step of stairs..
I know some girls 8-9months walking already smile.gif

So fathers (and mothers here)..How fast your toddler start walking?
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my son started walking i guess around 1 year. but we maybe sorta encouraged it. like hold him up. let him crawl and climb whatever he wanted (within reason) and at 1 he could walk somewhat. and at 1.5 years, running like crazy. the weird thing now is he doesnt like to walk.... even at slow speed he likes to jog... we all think he can be a professional runner hahah. leg length doesnt look promising though . laugh.gif

but dont need to worry about it. unless there are physical signs like feet not straight or something like that. let them learn and support their bodies to try get their legs to strengthen, but dont use a walker. its a bit tough on your back. so normally we just sit down and let him stand there and jump.

QUOTE(Drian @ Jul 27 2016, 10:34 AM)
girls are slower than guys in physical development(walking , hand coordination etc) but is faster than guys in speech development.
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true true. my son at 2 years still not talking well. but runs like a boss.
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I have father, brother and son ...hehe!
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for those parent using kodi at home .. u can install uktvagain .. there is dis junior, cn and nick from uk
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Jul 28 2016, 01:44 PM)
for those parent using kodi at home .. u can install uktvagain ..  there is dis junior, cn and nick from uk
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my suggestion is to best not expose kids to tv

as it is they see it when we are watching tv, so if possible ( i know during feeding time it may be a good distraction, otherwise it is best to minimize TV exposure)

on the other hand, i know how language skills are picked up from watching TV

unfortunately, bad habits, bad behavior and facial expression is also mostly picked up from cartoons

especially the peppa pig cartoon, i am shocked at how it is allowed to be shown to kids even tongue.gif
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QUOTE(NotTheOne @ Jul 29 2016, 09:14 AM)
my suggestion is to best not expose kids to tv

as it is they see it when we are watching tv, so if possible ( i know during feeding time it may be a good distraction, otherwise it is best to minimize TV exposure)

on the other hand, i know how language skills are picked up from watching TV

unfortunately, bad habits, bad behavior and facial expression is also mostly picked up from cartoons

especially the peppa pig cartoon, i am shocked at how it is allowed to be shown to kids even tongue.gif
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kids age 3 above ok watching cartoon but controlled ..i.e watch with them and you need to exposed them little by little. . good cartoon such as ruby n sam.. doc mstuffin ..

but my 3kids no hp games n tablets..
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Jul 29 2016, 01:21 PM)
kids age 3 above ok watching  cartoon but controlled ..i.e watch with them and you need to exposed them little by little. .  good cartoon such as ruby n sam.. doc mstuffin ..

but my 3kids no hp games n tablets..
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What about educational toys and learning stuff

What you all notice is the BEST and can teach our kids? Please share your experiences here
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QUOTE(Drian @ Jul 27 2016, 10:34 AM)
girls are slower than guys in physical development(walking , hand coordination etc) but is faster than guys in speech development.
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You are very wrong my friend... its the other way around...

Girl faster than boy... Look at the chart


Corrected according to this article... although my boys may differ slightly.

http://www.babycenter.com/0_raising-boys-a...ment_3659011.bc

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QUOTE(andrekua2 @ Jul 30 2016, 01:30 PM)
You are very wrong my friend... its the other way around...

Girl faster than boy... Look at the chart

http://www.babycenter.com/0_raising-boys-a...ment_3659011.bc
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He's not wrong. It's in the article.

Motor skills
Boys' gross motor skills (running, jumping, balancing) tend to develop slightly faster, while girls' fine motor skills (holding a pencil, writing) improve first.


Verbal skills
More boys than girls are late talkers, and boys may use more limited vocabularies.
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QUOTE(panda-man @ Jul 30 2016, 02:25 PM)
He's not wrong. It's in the article.

Motor skills
Boys' gross motor skills (running, jumping, balancing) tend to develop slightly faster, while girls' fine motor skills (holding a pencil, writing) improve first.
Verbal skills
More boys than girls are late talkers, and boys may use more limited vocabularies.
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Not sure. Most of friends daughter can walk very well by 1 years old. Both my son still crawling around 1 years old.
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QUOTE(andrekua2 @ Jul 30 2016, 01:30 PM)
You are very wrong my friend... its the other way around...

Girl faster than boy... Look at the chart

http://www.babycenter.com/0_raising-boys-a...ment_3659011.bc
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Did you read the article?

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Boys' gross motor skills (running, jumping, balancing) tend to develop slightly faster, while girls' fine motor skills (holding a pencil, writing) improve first. For this reason, girls may show an interest in art (painting, coloring, crafts) before boys.


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More boys than girls are late talkers, and boys may use more limited vocabularies. Girls tend to be better at reading nonverbal signs, like tone of voice and expression, which also makes them better communicators early on because they can connect feelings and words faster.

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QUOTE(NotTheOne @ Jul 29 2016, 09:14 AM)
my suggestion is to best not expose kids to tv

as it is they see it when we are watching tv, so if possible ( i know during feeding time it may be a good distraction, otherwise it is best to minimize TV exposure)

on the other hand, i know how language skills are picked up from watching TV

unfortunately, bad habits, bad behavior and facial expression is also mostly picked up from cartoons

especially the peppa pig cartoon, i am shocked at how it is allowed to be shown to kids even tongue.gif
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I'm showing all the old 70s and 80s donald duck cartoon, disney music video songs(Beauty and the beast, alladdin, snow white, cinderella etc).

No issues here, doesn't seem to be addicted to it even though he enjoys watching it.



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one more thing when ur kids reach 1.5 yrs old.. let the kid sitdown or crawl position then take a small ball an throw the opposite site.. do it ard five times.. the outcome the kid eyeball will follow the ball direction..

if no.. you need to observe ur kid after few months n try again..

i got this info from a padae dr during my biz trip to aussir last 13 years at sdyney..

you cam refer to below link for earlh detection of autism

https://autism-center.ucsd.edu/treating-ear...ages/signs.aspx

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Did you read the article?
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Yes. I still quote it though. It's the same for both my boys. Significantly slower than my friends or cousins daughters. I feel mine start to pick up once they reached about 2 years old. Even my mom told me boys are slow learner when I comment about my son slow progress.
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QUOTE(Drian @ Jul 30 2016, 03:02 PM)
I'm showing all the old 70s and 80s donald duck cartoon, disney music video songs(Beauty and the beast, alladdin, snow white, cinderella etc).

No issues here, doesn't seem to be addicted to it even though he enjoys watching it.
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At first my son love tom n jerry. After a year or two, change to cartoon network, especially the 3 freaking ugly mosquitos. Now totally hooked on Youtube, especially those spiderman video game but with kids song and Ryan's Toy Review.

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QUOTE(andrekua2 @ Jul 30 2016, 09:37 PM)
At first my son love tom n jerry. After a year or two, change to cartoon network, especially the 3 freaking ugly mosquitos. Now totally hooked on Youtube, especially those spiderman video game but with kids song and  Ryan's Toy Review.
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cartoon network and nick not suitable for kids below 7 ...
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Jul 31 2016, 06:52 PM)
cartoon network and nick not suitable for kids below 7 ...
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my son's loves baby tv. for sure he sit quietly watching that for a while if we need to unwind or do something else. i hate that channel so annoying.

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if your tv smart ..go youtube search for pink fong or little baby bump or mothergooseclub . nursery for kids.. recommended

now trending baby shark do do do song

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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Aug 1 2016, 11:21 AM)
guys anyone subs to rockgym star.. curently the opening at mines.. setiawalk and trop city mall
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rockstar gym?
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Hi all,
First time father here..my wife is expected to due in October, so its 3 more months to go. Am a bit nervous because I have no knowledge in taking care of kids. My wife on other hand have experience in this! thanks god

Been shopping for baby products for few months. Had bought cots, sterilizers, baby bottles, teets, bathing liquid, and baby toys.

Now am confused to buy baby carrier or car seat? My wife don't like me to spend so much money on these gadgets as there are many more to spend in coming days.

We have chose Tung Shin Hospital to deliver as our regular gynae is there.
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QUOTE(Ash1988 @ Aug 2 2016, 02:12 PM)
Hi all,
First time father here..my wife is expected to due in October, so its 3 more months to go. Am a bit nervous because I have no knowledge in taking care of kids. My wife on other hand have experience in this! thanks god

Been shopping for baby products for few months. Had bought cots, sterilizers, baby bottles, teets, bathing liquid, and baby toys.

Now am confused to buy baby carrier or car seat? My wife don't like me to spend so much money on these gadgets as there are many more to spend in coming days.

We have chose Tung Shin Hospital to deliver as our regular gynae is there.
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congrats bro! go read up a bit about parenting, its not that difficult, just stressful hehe. but all simple tasks. first few months easy as they cant run away ahhah. just research baby safety. such as no bumpers, how to sleep lah. SIDS lah. all those things.

my advise is go borrow the baby carrier & car seat from someone for the first 6 months.

for newborn the stroller and car seat have certain requirements. like need to fully lie down and such. best to borrow from someone for a few months and then invest in a better one when your kid is a bit older.

now at least got pretty good selection of things from Sweet Cherry (local brand but made in china). pretty decent quality and cheap. im using sweet cherry ISOFIX carseat. i think its from 4kg and up. forgot.
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QUOTE(panda-man @ Aug 2 2016, 03:36 PM)

my advise is go borrow the baby carrier & car seat from someone for the first 6 months.

for newborn the stroller and car seat have certain requirements. like need to fully lie down and such. best to borrow from someone for a few months and then invest in a better one when your kid is a bit older.

now at least got pretty good selection of things from Sweet Cherry (local brand but made in china). pretty decent quality and cheap. im using sweet cherry ISOFIX carseat. i think its from 4kg and up. forgot.
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+1

For newly born you dont need this things yet, as it is expensive and you wont be using is straight away. plus it must follow your kids weight, which you wont know until he/she is born.
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QUOTE(panda-man @ Aug 2 2016, 02:36 PM)
congrats bro! go read up a bit about parenting, its not that difficult, just stressful hehe. but all simple tasks. first few months easy as they cant run away ahhah. just research baby safety. such as no bumpers, how to sleep lah. SIDS lah. all those things.

my advise is go borrow the baby carrier & car seat from someone for the first 6 months.

for newborn the stroller and car seat have certain requirements. like need to fully lie down and such. best to borrow from someone for a few months and then invest in a better one when your kid is a bit older.

now at least got pretty good selection of things from Sweet Cherry (local brand but made in china). pretty decent quality and cheap. im using sweet cherry ISOFIX carseat. i think its from 4kg and up. forgot.
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QUOTE(dark90 @ Aug 2 2016, 02:50 PM)
+1

For newly born you dont need this things yet, as it is expensive and you wont be using is straight away. plus it must follow your kids weight, which you wont know until he/she is born.
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Thanks bro. I surveyed few brands and most of them have car seat from new born 0-4 yrs old but I worried its too early to use right?
Since baby haven't developed the bone / neck and its quite soft to sit in car seat but yet I did saw some ppl use them for few days born baby.
Investing in baby carrier have hold me back since at most it can be used up to 1yr only...I dont wish to spend few hundreds on this.

Unfortunately I do not have friends or relatives to borrow. sad.gif
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QUOTE(Ash1988 @ Aug 2 2016, 02:57 PM)
Thanks bro. I surveyed few brands and most of them have car seat from new born 0-4 yrs old but I worried its too early to use right?
Since baby haven't developed the bone / neck and its quite soft to sit in car seat but yet I did saw some ppl use them for few days born baby.
Investing in baby carrier have hold me back since at most it can be used up to 1yr only...I dont wish to spend few hundreds on this.

Unfortunately I do not have friends or relatives to borrow.  sad.gif
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just make sure the car seat can lie way back, so that the baby doesnt need to support the neck. i havent surveyed recently but normally those 0-4 years ones cant lie back so far. and make sure they are rear facing. because baby cant support neck. if you press brake their head will golek forward. so needs to be rear facing.

maybe you can get those stroller + baby carrier from sweet cherry. i think price is pretty decent. but you will need to get another carseat later on i guess.

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either way. im using babyzen (knockoff one) stroller. still cost me RM500 or so but its sooo damn gooding. but for older kids.

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QUOTE(Ash1988 @ Aug 2 2016, 03:57 PM)
Thanks bro. I surveyed few brands and most of them have car seat from new born 0-4 yrs old but I worried its too early to use right?
Since baby haven't developed the bone / neck and its quite soft to sit in car seat but yet I did saw some ppl use them for few days born baby.
Investing in baby carrier have hold me back since at most it can be used up to 1yr only...I dont wish to spend few hundreds on this.

Unfortunately I do not have friends or relatives to borrow.  sad.gif
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I'd suggest to just 'pangku' the baby for a few months. You wont be going out much anyways as the baby is newly born.

In my case, my son was 4 months then i buy a Car seat, bought the one that is included with stroller. Don't have baby carrier up till now. would need to buy one soon though.. my boy is 10 months now. it depends on you actually and your daily life. Buy what you think is needed and dont spend much before your baby is born. that'd be my advice.

What you need to buy for now is 'buai', pampers abit, pampers is good for stocks as its non-expiry. but shirts and toys better buy once they are truly needed.
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QUOTE(dark90 @ Aug 2 2016, 03:14 PM)
I'd suggest to just 'pangku' the baby for a few months. You wont be going out much anyways as the baby is newly born.

In my case, my son was 4 months then i buy a Car seat, bought the one that is included with stroller. Don't have baby carrier up till now. would need to buy one soon though.. my boy is 10 months now. it depends on you actually and your daily life. Buy what you think is needed and dont spend much before your baby is born. that'd be my advice.

What you need to buy for now is 'buai', pampers abit, pampers is good for stocks as its non-expiry. but shirts and toys better buy once they are truly needed.
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thats true. my son only left the house for doctors appointments for the first 3 months.

we live in Malaysia, i think almost anything is available within reach. if you in KL, almost anything can be purchased within the hour. what you should prepare is you and your wifes 'go' bag. so that you can live in the hospital with everything.

please note, hospitals discourage pacifiers or formula milk.

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QUOTE(dark90 @ Aug 2 2016, 03:14 PM)
I'd suggest to just 'pangku' the baby for a few months. You wont be going out much anyways as the baby is newly born.

In my case, my son was 4 months then i buy a Car seat, bought the one that is included with stroller. Don't have baby carrier up till now. would need to buy one soon though.. my boy is 10 months now. it depends on you actually and your daily life. Buy what you think is needed and dont spend much before your baby is born. that'd be my advice.

What you need to buy for now is 'buai', pampers abit, pampers is good for stocks as its non-expiry. but shirts and toys better buy once they are truly needed.
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QUOTE(panda-man @ Aug 2 2016, 03:32 PM)
thats true. my son only left the house for doctors appointments for the first 3 months.

we live in Malaysia, i think almost anything is available within reach. if you in KL, almost anything can be purchased within the hour. what you should prepare is you and your wifes 'go' bag. so that you can live in the hospital with everything.

please note, hospitals discourage pacifiers or formula milk.
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Yeah that is what I think also. For first few months don't usually go out since I scared exposed to bacteria outside.
Most is travel between home to hospital for regular check up only.
Hehe now its time for me to learn on parenting..
We will adopt a western style teaching becoz both of us hate seeing family with maid/parents feeding toddler or even pujuk them to eat.

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QUOTE(Ash1988 @ Aug 2 2016, 07:18 PM)
Yeah that is what I think also. For first few months don't usually go out since I scared exposed to bacteria outside.
Most is travel between home to hospital for regular check up only.
Hehe now its time for me to learn on parenting..
We will adopt a western style teaching becoz both of us hate seeing family with maid/parents feeding toddler or even pujuk them to eat.
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if your wife going for cesar probaly she need 1-2 months to recover and sitting straight position .. make sure someone help to carry your baby when your wife discharge

if your wife going for normal birth .. shouldnt be any issue as it recover earlier ... chances she can carry the baby when she discharged .. but for safety reason .. get someone to carry ur baby..

i suggest you buy a good baby seat when the baby reach almost 5-6 months .. it will take roughly 400-500 for ok to use brand.. which can support ur kids till 3 years old..

4 years old above will use booster type .. my kids using car seat + booster till 7 years old..

pampers buy 1 newborn size will be sufficient .. go for mamy poko newborn .. as the design is good to deal with tali pusat of your baby for the 1 week. baby can use S size 2 weeks onwards...

dont advice buy play pen for your baby to sleep .. buy a baby crib and good tilam .. also prefer to buy baby crib that can extend to support ur kids till 2 years old .. ikea got .. little bit pricey but is worth

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QUOTE(Ash1988 @ Aug 2 2016, 08:18 PM)
Yeah that is what I think also. For first few months don't usually go out since I scared exposed to bacteria outside.
Most is travel between home to hospital for regular check up only.
Hehe now its time for me to learn on parenting..
We will adopt a western style teaching becoz both of us hate seeing family with maid/parents feeding toddler or even pujuk them to eat.
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I love posts like this! Just be prepared man, for ANYthing. when my son was born he was actually warded for 26 days. I spent my raya in the hospital.

Just don't be scared and do what you think that is need to be done. you are the man of the family after all.

He was born really small.. Just be patient, patient and patient . Good Luck Bro! thumbup.gif thumbup.gif
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QUOTE(Ash1988 @ Aug 2 2016, 07:18 PM)
Yeah that is what I think also. For first few months don't usually go out since I scared exposed to bacteria outside.
Most is travel between home to hospital for regular check up only.
Hehe now its time for me to learn on parenting..
We will adopt a western style teaching becoz both of us hate seeing family with maid/parents feeding toddler or even pujuk them to eat.
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what is western style of parenting for feeding kids? i thought they also pujuk toddler? thats why got aeroplane spoon (which i really want to buy hahaha).


QUOTE(MoonRider @ Aug 3 2016, 08:43 AM)
if your wife going for cesar probaly she need 1-2 months to recover and sitting straight position .. make sure someone help to carry your baby when your wife discharge

if your wife going for normal birth .. shouldnt be any issue as it recover earlier ... chances she can carry the baby when she discharged .. but for safety reason .. get someone to carry ur baby..

i suggest you buy a good baby seat when the baby reach almost 5-6 months ..  it will take roughly 400-500 for ok to use brand.. which can support ur kids till 3 years old..

4 years old above will use booster type ..  my kids using car seat + booster  till 7 years old..

pampers buy 1 newborn size will be sufficient .. go for mamy poko newborn .. as the design is good to deal with tali pusat of your baby for the 1 week.  baby can use S size 2 weeks onwards... 

dont advice buy play pen for your baby to sleep .. buy a baby crib and good tilam .. also prefer to buy baby crib that can extend to support ur kids till 2 years old .. ikea got .. little bit pricey but is worth
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my wife did the c-sec. on the second day. doc forced her to walk. seems thats the tip for fast healing. after 3rd or 4th day can walk around without support. best not to sit for too long after c-sec. for full recovery took a month or 2, but dont need to sit up straight i think hmm.gif

yes, play pen sucks! we had one for downstairs whilst his crib was upstairs. he never can properly sleep in that thing. and also dont wanna play inside haha. i bought my crib and mattress i think was like RM1k but the side can be removed when the kid is older and supposedly can be used till 5 years old. i think really worth it. one time investment but good quality goods. ikea ones are good but small (so maybe till 2 years), plus a bit low and maybe get backache. if possible get those multi level ones that can adjust as kid gets older.

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I love posts like this! Just be prepared man, for ANYthing. when my son was born he was actually warded for 26 days. I spent my raya in the hospital.

Just don't be scared and do what you think that is need to be done. you are the man of the family after all.

He was born really small.. Just be patient, patient and patient . Good Luck Bro!  thumbup.gif  thumbup.gif
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my baby born on 3rd day of raya. hahah. spent that few days sleeping on the hospital floor. kesian kena warded 26 days. for baby and parents. cant imagine how delicate he must've been. my baby oversize but also feel so delicate...
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New father check in here. Baby born about 2 weeks.
Just asking did your wife got super mood swing after delivery? My wife give me silent treatment despite I jaga her from delivery and baby at night.
This is frustrating man.
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QUOTE(wts6819 @ Aug 27 2016, 12:59 PM)
New father check in here. Baby born about 2 weeks.
Just asking did your wife got super mood swing after delivery? My wife give me silent treatment despite I jaga her from delivery and baby at night.
This is frustrating man.
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Congrats!
No silent treatment. But take care of your waifu. Look for signs of post natal depression. Chances are her hormones all over the place. If BF some people say it helps her recover too
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QUOTE(wts6819 @ Aug 27 2016, 12:59 PM)
New father check in here. Baby born about 2 weeks.
Just asking did your wife got super mood swing after delivery? My wife give me silent treatment despite I jaga her from delivery and baby at night.
This is frustrating man.
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You are doing good for taking care of your wife and the baby at night. thumbup.gif Keep helping and offer her some encouragement. I know it's frustrating but just bear with it.
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QUOTE(wts6819 @ Aug 27 2016, 01:59 PM)
New father check in here. Baby born about 2 weeks.
Just asking did your wife got super mood swing after delivery? My wife give me silent treatment despite I jaga her from delivery and baby at night.
This is frustrating man.
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My wife was super emo after her delivery. very sensitive one. it should be fine. maybe she's worried or smth? don't try to pry too much tho.. it never ends well.
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Congrats!
No silent treatment. But take care of your waifu. Look for signs of post natal depression. Chances are her hormones all over the place. If BF some people say it helps her recover too
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QUOTE(Lovemyfamily @ Aug 27 2016, 06:22 PM)
You are doing good for taking care of your wife and the baby at night.  thumbup.gif  Keep helping and offer her some encouragement. I know it's frustrating but just bear with it.
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QUOTE(dark90 @ Aug 29 2016, 09:08 AM)
My wife was super emo after her delivery. very sensitive one. it should be fine. maybe she's worried or smth? don't try to pry too much tho.. it never ends well.
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Last 2 days ago I confront her and talk nicely. Finally we manage to sort things out. Now so much easier to interact with smile and laugh. biggrin.gif

We did have some small argument and she did cried a while. I believe sometimes we need to speak it out with proper manner. thumbsup.gif
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QUOTE(wts6819 @ Aug 29 2016, 03:02 PM)
Last 2 days ago I confront her and talk nicely. Finally we manage to sort things out. Now so much easier to interact with smile and laugh. biggrin.gif

We did have some small argument and she did cried a while. I believe sometimes we need to speak it out with proper manner. thumbsup.gif
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if she breast feed might be sometime she in pain on her breast as sometime naughty fella suck to hard. that may stress out ur wife
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QUOTE(Ash1988 @ Sep 13 2016, 01:47 PM)
I am so nervous now..my first child will be born next mid month. Hehe
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QUOTE(Ash1988 @ Sep 13 2016, 01:47 PM)
I am so nervous now..my first child will be born next mid month. Hehe
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just make sure a bag is packed with wife clothing towel tooth brush n pasten ur clothing n wife maternity pad and put in ur car..

boy or girl? which hospital?

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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Sep 13 2016, 04:28 PM)
just make sure a bag is packed with wife clothing towel tooth brush n pasten  ur clothing n wife maternity pad and put in ur car..

boy or girl? which hospital?
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dont forget some snacks, you aint gonna be sleeping. dont lah bring potato chips. wake the baby and your wife will kill you.

also bring a sweater for yourself. damn cold that place. especially if you going into the op theatre if opting for c-sec.

and if you got money, recommend you buy nipple cream for your waifu. if she plan to breastfeed. need to use it a few weeks before the baby to 'strengthen' the nipple before the baby attack it. hahah. but a bit mahal. i bought and waifu didnt even use, she malas or whatever, burn that money. damn.
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Sep 13 2016, 04:28 PM)
just make sure a bag is packed with wife clothing towel tooth brush n pasten  ur clothing n wife maternity pad and put in ur car..

boy or girl? which hospital?
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Haha thanks is a boy boy..Tung Shin hospital.

QUOTE(panda-man @ Sep 13 2016, 05:19 PM)
dont forget some snacks, you aint gonna be sleeping. dont lah bring potato chips. wake the baby and your wife will kill you.

also bring a sweater for yourself. damn cold that place. especially if you going into the op theatre if opting for c-sec.

and if you got money, recommend you buy nipple cream for your waifu. if she plan to breastfeed. need to use it a few weeks before the baby to 'strengthen' the nipple before the baby attack it. hahah. but a bit mahal. i bought and waifu didnt even use, she malas or whatever, burn that money. damn.
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Thanks, Ohh..what brand is that? can apply during breastfeed? Chemical free?
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if you going to labor room.. few things to take note.. once the baby deliver.. the nurse will pat the baby buntut n cry.. make sure u follow closely with the nurse n carefully observed.. things to observed including baby name tag is written ur wife name.. face body leg of baby especially the birthmark..recognize ur baby .. reason most of the baby is look alike so you need to observed properly.

if you subs tl stemlife.remeber to bring the stemlife kit to hospital and call the agent when ur wife admit to the hospital
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QUOTE(Ash1988 @ Sep 13 2016, 07:41 PM)
Haha thanks is a boy boy..Tung Shin hospital.
Thanks, Ohh..what brand is that? can apply during breastfeed? Chemical free?
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Dunno the brand but I bought from jusco. It's organic and safe for baby consumption in case some still left on the nipple.
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Hi Guys, I just gotten this tommy tippee bottle warmer. Its quite large and can keep the heat in very well, as well as convenient. Easy for us father when taking the baby out alone and it's time for feeding. Got this from 11street as they are having some discount now, plus with vouchers got this under RM50 when mothercare selling for rm105. Recommended if you have not gotten your flask+bottle warmer.

Get the vouchers to get it cheaper

http://www.11street.my/productdetail/tomme...le-food-9407515

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QUOTE(lanusb @ Sep 19 2016, 04:47 PM)
Hi Guys, I just gotten this tommy tippee bottle warmer. Its quite large and can keep the heat in very well, as well as convenient. Easy for us father when taking the baby out alone and it's time for feeding. Got this from 11street as they are having some discount now, plus with vouchers got this under RM50 when mothercare selling for rm105. Recommended if you have not gotten your flask+bottle warmer.

Get the vouchers to get it cheaper

http://www.11street.my/productdetail/tomme...le-food-9407515
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saw the link. so just use the flask and then pour hot water into the top part and can heat up the bottle ya? thats pretty convenient for jalan jalan. especially as you said for when going out alone. and less than RM50 is damn good deal. forget the special one, but for any thermos really hahah.

im using a cheapo one for emergencies, our hardcore one left at my in-laws place, but my son drinks only 3x per day now so dont need to carry thermos anymore yay! damn heavy...
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ooo good good, i got no choice, cos mummy works, now baby is just moving into 2 mths old, so its good when i have it to reheat breast milk. since i also end work at 3pm so i take care of bb until the mom comes back
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Hi all,
My son was born on Malaysia's day. Roughly 1 month premature from expected date. Doc says he is healthy so no incubation or nicu. Thanks God!
He is weighed in at 2.9kg. Over the couple days I have experienced my first parenting which is good.
I just don't know why my boy will cries at night every 2 to 3 hrs even though we have feed him.
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QUOTE(Ash1988 @ Sep 21 2016, 05:32 AM)
Hi all,
My son was born on Malaysia's day. Roughly 1 month premature from expected date. Doc says he is healthy so no incubation or nicu. Thanks God!
He is weighed in at 2.9kg. Over the couple days I have experienced my first parenting which is good.
I just don't know why my boy will cries at night every 2 to 3 hrs even though we have feed him.
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is normal.. if wife breast feed.. do more often.. baby hungry then cry.. might be wife not enought breast milk


as baby is premature.. additional effort required to ensure the weight is consistent increase..

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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Sep 21 2016, 08:39 AM)
is normal.. if wife breast feed.. do more often.. baby hungry then cry.. might be wife not enought breast milk
as baby is premature.. additional effort required to ensure the weight is consistent increase..
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the more the baby drinks, the more mama produces normally. its like supply and demand. but of course may take a while for body to catch up to demand.
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QUOTE(lanusb @ Sep 19 2016, 05:47 PM)
Hi Guys, I just gotten this tommy tippee bottle warmer. Its quite large and can keep the heat in very well, as well as convenient. Easy for us father when taking the baby out alone and it's time for feeding. Got this from 11street as they are having some discount now, plus with vouchers got this under RM50 when mothercare selling for rm105. Recommended if you have not gotten your flask+bottle warmer.

Get the vouchers to get it cheaper

http://www.11street.my/productdetail/tomme...le-food-9407515
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Too little too late.. already bought one, an Endo brand or something.. sad.gif sad.gif
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just asking
on a 8 weeks plus
what food should i provide for my wife?
since she eat less .
Kinda worries


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QUOTE(mamata @ Sep 21 2016, 12:43 PM)
just asking
on a 8 weeks plus
what food should i provide for my wife?
since she eat less .
Kinda worries
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should talk to your gynae.. ur wife stressful?
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QUOTE(mamata @ Sep 21 2016, 12:43 PM)
just asking
on a 8 weeks plus
what food should i provide for my wife?
since she eat less .
Kinda worries
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as moonrider mentioned, check with your gynae, it may be due to post natal depression. but she needs to eat to produce more milk (if breastfeeding). BF also supposed to help with depression. but if hard to eat, maybe just make some very boring/plain food likes soups and porridge. sometimes strong tasting foods are off putting.
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Sep 21 2016, 12:50 PM)
should talk to your gynae.. ur wife stressful?
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she's 8 weeks pregnant
not really stressful, just a bit of dizziness and sleep a lot

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QUOTE(mamata @ Sep 21 2016, 02:12 PM)
she's 8 weeks pregnant
not really stressful, just a bit of dizziness and sleep a lot
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oh i thought baby 8 weeks hahah.

if first 8 weeks all ladies will feel like crap. because of nausea, hormones all over the place. first trimester will be like that. feed her plain foods without strong flavour or smell as they can make her nauseous and wanna throw up. make sure rooms are airy and not too hot. make sure she keeps up with her vitamins, esp. folic acid. find a food she likes. normally all ladies got one. my wife, my mom, and my sister when pregnant loved french fries.... you can try hahah.
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So sad..baby was admitted to hospital for a 2 days phototherapy due to jaundice.....sad.gif
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QUOTE(Ash1988 @ Sep 21 2016, 02:18 PM)
So sad..baby was admitted to hospital for a 2 days phototherapy due to jaundice.....sad.gif
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my first kid also kena under light at hospital.
second n third.. listen to old people advice jemur under morning sun 8am.. no kuning
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Any tips for staying awake at midnight?
I need to feed my son every 2hours...kinda sleepy at night.
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QUOTE(Ash1988 @ Sep 22 2016, 09:47 PM)
Any tips for staying awake at midnight?
I need to feed my son every 2hours...kinda sleepy at night.
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your wife? how many weeks your baby? Mine just 8 weeks yesterday, rotate with wife and so far still ok. Wife breastfeed until 1am last round, while I sleep from 9pm - 3am. Estimate baby awake by 3am, I still got about 6 hours of sleep, my wife sleeps from 2am to 7/8am.

I reached home around 6.30pm, cook, and dinner by 7.30/8pm. Sleep from 9pm - 3am.
I feed baby at 3am, 5am, and 7am before I go to work.
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QUOTE(Ash1988 @ Sep 22 2016, 09:47 PM)
Any tips for staying awake at midnight?
I need to feed my son every 2hours...kinda sleepy at night.
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you need to work in shifts with your wife. otherwise you will really burn yourself out. at that time i was out of a job so in a way that was lucky haha. so can sleep during the day. because better to get 4-6 hours straight then wake up every two hours.
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QUOTE(Yveatel @ Sep 23 2016, 08:19 AM)
your wife? how many weeks your baby? Mine just 8 weeks yesterday, rotate with wife and so far still ok. Wife breastfeed until 1am last round, while I sleep from 9pm - 3am. Estimate baby awake by 3am, I still got about 6 hours of sleep, my wife sleeps from 2am to 7/8am.

I reached home around 6.30pm, cook, and dinner by 7.30/8pm. Sleep from 9pm - 3am.
I feed baby at 3am, 5am, and 7am before I go to work.
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QUOTE(panda-man @ Sep 23 2016, 09:11 AM)
you need to work in shifts with your wife. otherwise you will really burn yourself out. at that time i was out of a job so in a way that was lucky haha. so can sleep during the day. because better to get 4-6 hours straight then wake up every two hours.
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Baby only 6days old. My wife is in confinement so she doesn't breastfeed and only do pump in bottle.
While I Wan to let my wife rest during this 1 month. I have to do all these bottle feeding.
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QUOTE(Ash1988 @ Sep 23 2016, 10:53 AM)
Baby only 6days old. My wife is in confinement so she doesn't breastfeed and only do pump in bottle.
While I Wan to let my wife rest during this 1 month. I have to do all these bottle feeding.
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baby suck will increase the supply.... also your wife can laid on the bed breastfeed
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QUOTE(Ash1988 @ Sep 23 2016, 10:53 AM)
Baby only 6days old. My wife is in confinement so she doesn't breastfeed and only do pump in bottle.
While I Wan to let my wife rest during this 1 month. I have to do all these bottle feeding.
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why confinement cannot breast feed?

so many types of confinement i confused di.
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My baby - 3mo, keeps crying before sleep. When carry her, she will looks around, smile and happy. Put her down on her bed, she will cry.

My neighbor said might be colic, but my wife and I doubt so. We think she's just being playful and does not want to sleep. When she gets over tired, she will cry all the time
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QUOTE(Yveatel @ Nov 8 2016, 08:43 AM)
My baby - 3mo, keeps crying before sleep. When carry her, she will looks around, smile and happy. Put her down on her bed, she will cry.

My neighbor said might be colic, but my wife and I doubt so. We think she's just being playful and does not want to sleep. When she gets over tired, she will cry all the time
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at 3 months they should be sleeping a lot. like 3-5 times per day. everyone says its colic when baby cries doh.gif just try to calm the baby down when going to sleep. get some white noise. talk softly, put some nice minyak telon and then wrap her like a popiah and should be much easier. kits will always be playful till the KO. and also....

NO EYE CONTACT!

when putting them to bed, try to avoid eye contact. use your peripheral vision to do things around baby.
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QUOTE(panda-man @ Nov 8 2016, 09:37 AM)
at 3 months they should be sleeping a lot. like 3-5 times per day. everyone says its colic when baby cries doh.gif just try to calm the baby down when going to sleep. get some white noise. talk softly, put some nice minyak telon and then wrap her like a popiah and should be much easier. kits will always be playful till the KO. and also....

NO EYE CONTACT!

when putting them to bed, try to avoid eye contact. use your peripheral vision to do things around baby.
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We calm the baby, put baby down, and she will cry. Carry her, she will stop, but her down, and she cry. rclxub.gif Been doing this few times until she fell asleep.

Eye Contact?? sweat.gif maybe we did look into her eyes often. Thanks. Will try for next few days and see how it is going to be.
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QUOTE(Yveatel @ Nov 8 2016, 11:03 AM)
We calm the baby, put baby down, and she will cry. Carry her, she will stop, but her down, and she cry.  rclxub.gif  Been doing this few times until she fell asleep.

Eye Contact??  sweat.gif maybe we did look into her eyes often. Thanks. Will try for next few days and see how it is going to be.
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yeah. eye contact is a big trigger for kids. well for anyone really.

for my son before. we turn lights really low. put some white noise and avoid any eye contact hahah. my son is 2 di... still avoid eye contact hahahah. the moment our eyes meet.... "HI BABA!" shit.....
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QUOTE(panda-man @ Nov 8 2016, 03:53 PM)
yeah. eye contact is a big trigger for kids. well for anyone really.

for my son before. we turn lights really low. put some white noise and avoid any eye contact hahah. my son is 2 di... still avoid eye contact hahahah. the moment our eyes meet.... "HI BABA!" shit.....
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lolol! i experienced that with my son too. The moment our eyes met its play time already. zz.

Need a few advice, will be going on a trip overseas soon, what do you guys do to keep your sons occupied?
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QUOTE(dark90 @ Nov 8 2016, 03:19 PM)
lolol! i experienced that with my son too. The moment our eyes met its play time already. zz.

Need a few advice, will be going on a trip overseas soon, what do you guys do to keep your sons occupied?
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hahah. its like some super switch that turns on. then energy boost!

normally try to hold out as long as possible with games and books etc, but when tired.... use ipad games to keep my kid occupied along with some videos.
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QUOTE(dark90 @ Nov 8 2016, 03:19 PM)
lolol! i experienced that with my son too. The moment our eyes met its play time already. zz.

Need a few advice, will be going on a trip overseas soon, what do you guys do to keep your sons occupied?
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going where.. if 2.5 years old below 3 go to disney legoland n universal studio free no ticket required..

if travel by mas.. get soft toy/story book

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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Nov 8 2016, 06:50 PM)
going where.. if 2.5 years old below 3 go to disney legoland n universal studio free no ticket required..

if travel by mas.. get soft toy/story book
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Bali. Lol. do you guys bring your stroller if you go holiday? problem is my stroller is that big one..
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QUOTE(dark90 @ Nov 9 2016, 08:38 AM)
Bali. Lol. do you guys bring your stroller if you go holiday? problem is my stroller is that big one..
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its always good to have the stroller around.. or else maybe u can try to check with hotel if they have one to loan or how..
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QUOTE(deviladrian10 @ Nov 9 2016, 10:08 AM)
its always good to have the stroller around.. or else maybe u can try to check with hotel if they have one to loan or how..
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one more thing, in my last day there i have to check out at 12 but my flight is at 8. would it be possible to leave stuff at the hotel while we go out for a walk?
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Bali. Lol. do you guys bring your stroller if you go holiday? problem is my stroller is that big one..
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one more thing, in my last day there i have to check out at 12 but my flight is at 8. would it be possible to leave stuff at the hotel while we go out for a walk?
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heheh. bali easy lah. such a short flight. just bring his milk and hopefully the kid will knock off. just read some picture books otherwise. would be good if flight coincide with their nap time.

as for check out. normally hotel will accommodate you and allow you to leave your things. also on your first day check in request for late check out. if they are ok then hopefully they can allow you check out at 4pm or something. that would make things easier. then just settle everything at 4 then can leave barang there for a while (including your new shopping if any) then can go makan and come back pick up your stuff then go to airport.
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one more thing, in my last day there i have to check out at 12 but my flight is at 8. would it be possible to leave stuff at the hotel while we go out for a walk?
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hotel can always let u leave ur stuff there as long as it doesnt affect your journey.. like ur hotel on a different direction to where u r going.. and u have to go back anti direction to pick ur stuffs up at the hotel and head to airport again if u know what im trying to say.. laugh.gif
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Bali. Lol. do you guys bring your stroller if you go holiday? problem is my stroller is that big one..
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heheh. bali easy lah. such a short flight. just bring his milk and hopefully the kid will knock off. just read some picture books otherwise. would be good if flight coincide with their nap time.

as for check out. normally hotel will accommodate you and allow you to leave your things. also on your first day check in request for late check out. if they are ok then hopefully they can allow you check out at 4pm or something. that would make things easier. then just settle everything at 4 then can leave barang there for a while (including your new shopping if any) then can go makan and come back pick up your stuff then go to airport.
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Whoa, thanks all for the reply and advice, usually travel by myself. don't need to think alot. but this is the first time travelling with family with me as the head.

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Hi guys, proud father of a beautiful 2 month old daughter here. She was born premature at 34 weeks but starting to put on weight nicely now. Some quick q's:

1.) Mom is kinda worried since her breast milk is still low even after taking many supplements including papaya soup/ fenugreek etc. Does Haliba work better? And does the McD thing work as well? She loves McD. smile.gif

2.) As like above, my daughter also cries a lot when we put her down in her crib. Surprisingly she sleeps really well in her playpen. Which is located downstairs and no air-con. We wonder if perhaps she doesn't sleep due to her crib having a coconut husk mattress (too hard?) or maybe too cold from the air con (24 degrees with slow fan). Thoughts?

3.) Any of you use pacifiers? Since she's been getting more and more fussy with sleep we have resorted to it even though I initially didn't want to use it and make her dependent on it. Surprisingly she hasn't taken to it and spits it out midway anyway.

4.) In a continuation to sleeping patterns, my daughter also makes a fuss when being put down for the night. When we carry her she sleeps nicely, otherwise she kicks up with lots of crying and waving of arms. While cute, it doesn't do wonders for my eyebags. tongue.gif Is this purely a call for attention only? Do you guys let your baby sleep in pitch darkness or with a night lamp? I just only learned about not having eye contact.

That's all for now, will think of more when I get to it. Thanks everyone and all the sifus here who shared their experiences! Being parents isn't easy but so so so worth it! smile.gif

PS: If not mistaken I calculated the feed to be about 200ml/kg/day. Meaning at 3kg plus now she will be taking roughly 3 ounces and a bit. We are worried she is overfed since we also have trouble burping sometimes and she hiccups quite often after feeds (even after burping). innocent.gif

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QUOTE(CloudDave @ Nov 10 2016, 01:53 PM)
Hi guys, proud father of a beautiful 2 month old daughter here. She was born premature at 34 weeks but starting to put on weight nicely now. Some quick q's:

1.) Mom is kinda worried since her breast milk is still low even after taking many supplements including papaya soup/ fenugreek etc. Does Haliba work better? And does the McD thing work as well? She loves McD. smile.gif

2.) As like above, my daughter also cries a lot when we put her down in her crib. Surprisingly she sleeps really well in her playpen. Which is located downstairs and no air-con. We wonder if perhaps she doesn't sleep due to her crib having a coconut husk mattress (too hard?) or maybe too cold from the air con (24 degrees with slow fan). Thoughts?

3.) Any of you use pacifiers? Since she's been getting more and more fussy with sleep we have resorted to it even though I initially didn't want to use it and make her dependent on it. Surprisingly she hasn't taken to it and spits it out midway anyway.

4.) In a continuation to sleeping patterns, my daughter also makes a fuss when being put down for the night. When we carry her she sleeps nicely, otherwise she kicks up with lots of crying and waving of arms. While cute, it doesn't do wonders for my eyebags. tongue.gif Is this purely a call for attention only? Do you guys let your baby sleep in pitch darkness or with a night lamp? I just only learned about not having eye contact.

That's all for now, will think of more when I get to it. Thanks everyone and all the sifus here who shared their experiences! Being parents isn't easy but so so so worth it! smile.gif

PS: If not mistaken I calculated the feed to be about 200ml/kg/day. Meaning at 3kg plus now she will be taking roughly 3 ounces and a bit. We are worried she is overfed since we also have trouble burping sometimes and she hiccups quite often after feeds (even after burping).  innocent.gif
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1.) Mom is kinda worried since her breast milk is still low even after taking many supplements including papaya soup/ fenugreek etc. Does Haliba work better? And does the McD thing work as well? She loves McD. smile.gif

Halba and fenugreek is the same thing. Just buy them from the supermarket and boil and drink. dont need to buy the expensive teas. dunno about McD thing. hehe.

2.) As like above, my daughter also cries a lot when we put her down in her crib. Surprisingly she sleeps really well in her playpen. Which is located downstairs and no air-con. We wonder if perhaps she doesn't sleep due to her crib having a coconut husk mattress (too hard?) or maybe too cold from the air con (24 degrees with slow fan). Thoughts?

It is possible the mattress is too hard. my son used to cry a lot when he balik kampung and then after we added some old quilt/duvet and was softer he had a better sleep. not sure about the cold because at 2 months they are normally popiah'd up in the blanket. try turn off the fan at night. and monitor if she starts to feel warm or sweats. it could be many factors. maybe she sleeps better because downstairs has more noise. some children get comfort in the noise. so go find some white noise, heartbeat, etc. maybe it will help. my fisherprice mobile i used before would have a heartbeat noise.


3.) Any of you use pacifiers? Since she's been getting more and more fussy with sleep we have resorted to it even though I initially didn't want to use it and make her dependent on it. Surprisingly she hasn't taken to it and spits it out midway anyway.

my son used pacifiers to help him to sleep only. still using now (2 years) but once he falls a sleep he will take it out within 5 mins of KO. so we dont really mind. in the whole day maybe use pacifier for like 30 mins in total. once awake he will give it to us.

4.) In a continuation to sleeping patterns, my daughter also makes a fuss when being put down for the night. When we carry her she sleeps nicely, otherwise she kicks up with lots of crying and waving of arms. While cute, it doesn't do wonders for my eyebags. tongue.gif Is this purely a call for attention only? Do you guys let your baby sleep in pitch darkness or with a night lamp? I just only learned about not having eye contact.

do you wrap her tightly? babies like to get that snug feeling as they were in the womb. and yes, dont look her in the eye! hahah. my boy at that age didnt sleep in pitch darkness as we were in the room normally. my wife just relaxing or pumping milk. but normally just a small lamp. but when we go to sleep the room is pitch black.

That's all for now, will think of more when I get to it. Thanks everyone and all the sifus here who shared their experiences! Being parents isn't easy but so so so worth it! smile.gif

PS: If not mistaken I calculated the feed to be about 200ml/kg/day. Meaning at 3kg plus now she will be taking roughly 3 ounces and a bit. We are worried she is overfed since we also
have trouble burping sometimes and she hiccups quite often after feeds (even after burping). innocent.gif

dont worry about that. just feed on demand. when baby wanna eat, feed. if not enough milk, supplement with formula and bottle. we did formula and BF for 1 year. no issues, no 'nipple confusion'. also if baby cries it could be anything. check body for mosquito bites, rashes, pee, poo, maybe a zip or button poking her, maybe she just wanted to change position etc. good luck bro. its a tough road!
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QUOTE(Ash1988 @ Sep 23 2016, 10:53 AM)
Baby only 6days old. My wife is in confinement so she doesn't breastfeed and only do pump in bottle.
While I Wan to let my wife rest during this 1 month. I have to do all these bottle feeding.
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confinement is an excuse create by Chinese to make money. Though I agree, it is somewhat helpful to let the mother rest after 10 months of suffering, there is not stopping a mom from working after few days of rest since child birth. I know a lot of moms especially more western educated ones go to work after 1 week of resting. Confinement is not neccessary if the mother take care of herself by not going back to full living like liquor or cigarette or heavy activity. And breastfeeding is especially no problem. Whoever said not to breastfeed the baby is directly is a moron. You can have the choice of pumping the milk or not, it's up to you but don't listen to all those old people who knows shit about breastfeeding.

I know most old people will say to stop breastfeeding because initially there will be less milk for the baby as the breast is not producing enough milk yet. So the old folks will be complaining and saying baby always cry not enough milk. Don't give in. That is how it works and persist for a little longer. If after 1 month still like that then probably the mother is not suitable to breastfeed. Then only decide to give bottle milk.

Goodluck.
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Hey there!

First of all thanks so much Panda sifu for the enlightening tips and advice. I've tried some of them and definitely works. Glad to report that she's a very happy baby now.

Moving on from that, I am now looking around for ways to improve the BM production with the wifey. Each time she expresses it's only about 1oz and maximum 1.5oz for both sides. Is this considered very little? This is considering she already takes all the needed supplements. Not sure if this is already a given or if she can still increase.

My little one latches on for direct feeding once in the morning and once at night. Is that enough? Otherwise we supplement with the bottle to reach the needed amount. My wifey pumps about 3 times a day as well. Really envy those who fill out whole fridges with EBM. tongue.gif
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QUOTE(CloudDave @ Nov 11 2016, 01:22 PM)
Hey there!

First of all thanks so much Panda sifu for the enlightening tips and advice. I've tried some of them and definitely works. Glad to report that she's a very happy baby now.

Moving on from that, I am now looking around for ways to improve the BM production with the wifey. Each time she expresses it's only about 1oz and maximum 1.5oz for both sides. Is this considered very little? This is considering she already takes all the needed supplements. Not sure if this is already a given or if she can still increase.

My little one latches on for direct feeding once in the morning and once at night. Is that enough? Otherwise we supplement with the bottle to reach the needed amount. My wifey pumps about 3 times a day as well. Really envy those who fill out whole fridges with EBM. tongue.gif
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haha. good to know things getting better. did you pinpoint what the problem was?

for BF, yes very little. normally it should slowly increase according to babies demand. but if BF once at night and once at morning it is not that much. for my wife before she would breastfeed every 2-3 hours. so latch on about 5-6+ times per day. and also include some pumping when baby is sleeping. my wife at first is like yours only produce 1-2 oz if lucky. but after drinking halba and sticking to BF, it got more, after that pumping still only like 8-10 oz max. dunno how some ladies can fill 2 bottles LOL. but if your waifu already drinking halba, i think maybe just need to increase the BF latching. its tiring and mafan, but that will help increase the flow as womans body will react more to the baby than the pump. not sure if pump strength is a factor.

but also hope she dont feel so much pressure. some women just dont make as much milk. my waifu first few months was very depressed. but hey. got formula ma. just use both. icon_rolleyes.gif


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haha. good to know things getting better. did you pinpoint what the problem was?

for BF, yes very little. normally it should slowly increase according to babies demand. but if BF once at night and once at morning it is not that much. for my wife before she would breastfeed every 2-3 hours. so latch on about 5-6+ times per day. and also include some pumping when baby is sleeping. my wife at first is like yours only produce 1-2 oz if lucky. but after drinking halba and sticking to BF, it got more, after that pumping still only like 8-10 oz max. dunno how some ladies can fill 2 bottles LOL. but if your waifu already drinking halba, i think maybe  just need to increase the BF latching. its tiring and mafan, but that will help increase the flow as womans body will react more to the baby than the pump. not sure if pump strength is a factor.

but also hope she dont feel so much pressure. some women just dont make as much milk. my waifu first few months was very depressed. but hey. got formula ma. just use both.  icon_rolleyes.gif
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That's right! I will continue to supplement her with bottle while allowing my wife time to increase BF. It's definitely not easy to be a woman, even if they take maternity leave the lack of sleep etc. will really get to them. I can't imagine how those who work and BF can do it. Mad respect! notworthy.gif

With the sleeping patterns, I found that wrapping them up like popiah really does the trick. thumbsup.gif She seems so cosy now and less wiggling of arms and legs. Also, less distractions before bedtime is also important. When we see her settle down we turn the lights off as well. However, there's a new development.

Even though she has been burped quite a few times (and rather noisy too for someone so small) she still manages to squirt some milk from her mouth or nose during her sleep. She also rather often chokes on her own saliva. Is there any way to remedy this? Because of SIDS we now have to constantly check on her whenever she gurgles. Could it be due to overfeeding?

Thanks! Cheers!
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QUOTE(CloudDave @ Nov 11 2016, 01:42 PM)
That's right! I will continue to supplement her with bottle while allowing my wife time to increase BF. It's definitely not easy to be a woman, even if they take maternity leave the lack of sleep etc. will really get to them. I can't imagine how those who work and BF can do it. Mad respect!  notworthy.gif

With the sleeping patterns, I found that wrapping them up like popiah really does the trick.  thumbsup.gif She seems so cosy now and less wiggling of arms and legs. Also, less distractions before bedtime is also important. When we see her settle down we turn the lights off as well. However, there's a new development.

Even though she has been burped quite a few times (and rather noisy too for someone so small) she still manages to squirt some milk from her mouth or nose during her sleep. She also rather often chokes on her own saliva. Is there any way to remedy this? Because of SIDS we now have to constantly check on her whenever she gurgles. Could it be due to overfeeding?

Thanks! Cheers!
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yeah gotta popiah them. seems they dont know what to do with their arms and legs... so when wrapped up they are more comfy.

hmm. for SIDS, its still a question mark as to real cause. but i think its not normally from choking on saliva because that would most likely get the child to wake up. but seems to be lack of air flow or blockage or something. thats why now everyone recommending babies to sleep on their backs. and also shouldnt put any bumpers on the crib to make sure got good air circulation. baby hardly moves at early age so dont need to put any bumpers actually. if they roll accidentally into the bumper, they may not be able to/know how to roll back. its quite dangerous.

as for feeding, shouldnt be over feeding. perhaps didnt burp enough or perhaps its just a gag reflex. as you mentioned she chokes on her saliva, so maybe this is making her throw up a little bit? some babies prone to that. my neice before will throw up all the time. even just a giggle after feeding will cause her to throw up. my own son, is super sturdy, thank God for that. i think after 2 years he only throw up on me 2-3 times (when not sick with stomach flu or something).

sorry, talking a lot. hahah.

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yeah gotta popiah them. seems they dont know what to do with their arms and legs... so when wrapped up they are more comfy.

hmm. for SIDS, its still a question mark as to real cause. but i think its not normally from choking on saliva because that would most likely get the child to wake up. but seems to be lack of air flow or blockage or something. thats why now everyone recommending babies to sleep on their backs. and also shouldnt put any bumpers on the crib to make sure got good air circulation. baby hardly moves at early age so dont need to put any bumpers actually. if they roll accidentally into the bumper, they may not be able to/know how to roll back. its quite dangerous.

as for feeding, shouldnt be over feeding. perhaps didnt burp enough or perhaps its just a gag reflex. as you mentioned she chokes on her saliva, so maybe this is making her throw up a little bit? some babies prone to that. my neice before will throw up all the time. even just a giggle after feeding will cause her to throw up. my own son, is super sturdy, thank God for that. i think after 2 years he only throw up on me 2-3 times (when not sick with stomach flu or something).

sorry, talking a lot. hahah.
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No no, very interesting stuff. Makes me happy to learn so much as a new father hehehe. About you mentioning babies sleeping on their backs, this is another thing I want to ask. Her head isn't exactly as round yet and tends to be a bit flat on the sides. Because of this, when she sleeps her head is to the side instead of facing upwards. Would this be the reason why? Also, we tried using a pillow with an indentation in the middle to support her head and neck to face upwards. However, many people say that using pillows is dangerous. How how? hmm.gif
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pumping excessive breastmilk which is over baby demand is not actually a good thing. If u have quantity, u lose some quality.
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QUOTE(CloudDave @ Nov 11 2016, 01:58 PM)
No no, very interesting stuff. Makes me happy to learn so much as a new father hehehe. About you mentioning babies sleeping on their backs, this is another thing I want to ask. Her head isn't exactly as round yet and tends to be a bit flat on the sides. Because of this, when she sleeps her head is to the side instead of facing upwards. Would this be the reason why? Also, we tried using a pillow with an indentation in the middle to support her head and neck to face upwards. However, many people say that using pillows is dangerous. How how?  hmm.gif
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hehe. that one i dunno. as my son is csec baby so his head damn round. actually babies dont need pillow for a year or two because of the shape of their neck. but the indent pillow i think is ok becuase its so nipis a the neck part. my son also used it to keep his head facing up but in the end never worked as he still turned his head. i think as long as their back is to the bed, their head can turn left or right, but you should monitor, dont lah let her sleep 90% of the time facing left heheh. make sure 50:50 if possible hehe.


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pumping excessive breastmilk which is over baby demand is not actually a good thing. If u have quantity, u lose some quality.
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dunno about that.... because breast milk which is not expelled can lead to mastitis due to blocked milk ducts. a painful condition for the mother.
https://www.breastfeeding.asn.au/bf-info/co...%93mum/mastitis
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QUOTE(panda-man @ Nov 11 2016, 02:30 PM)
hehe. that one i dunno. as my son is csec baby so his head damn round. actually babies dont need pillow for a year or two because of the shape of their neck. but the indent pillow i think is ok becuase its so nipis a the neck part. my son also used it to keep his head facing up but in the end never worked as he still turned his head. i think as long as their back is to the bed, their head can turn left or right, but you should monitor, dont lah let her sleep 90% of the time facing left heheh. make sure 50:50 if possible hehe.
dunno about that.... because breast milk which is not expelled can lead to mastitis due to blocked milk ducts. a painful condition for the mother.
https://www.breastfeeding.asn.au/bf-info/co...%93mum/mastitis
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Yes, what i meant is that don't focus on the quantity of the breastmilk. It is diluted where the quality of the breastmilk is spread out... If the baby drinks all that were pumped out, then it shouldn't be an issue. But if baby only drink less than half of it, your babies is not gonna get the the highest quality/nutrient out of it.
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QUOTE(CloudDave @ Nov 11 2016, 02:22 PM)
Hey there!

First of all thanks so much Panda sifu for the enlightening tips and advice. I've tried some of them and definitely works. Glad to report that she's a very happy baby now.

Moving on from that, I am now looking around for ways to improve the BM production with the wifey. Each time she expresses it's only about 1oz and maximum 1.5oz for both sides. Is this considered very little? This is considering she already takes all the needed supplements. Not sure if this is already a given or if she can still increase.

My little one latches on for direct feeding once in the morning and once at night. Is that enough? Otherwise we supplement with the bottle to reach the needed amount. My wifey pumps about 3 times a day as well. Really envy those who fill out whole fridges with EBM. tongue.gif
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Ask your wife to try goat milk, my sis in law tried once and full fridge. Even offer to give my son, but i refuse.

Also very important to keep your wife well-fed. Ensure she gets what she needs and not what she wants.

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also to resume sex.. suggest only after 6 months n dont trust other saying if breastfeed wont get pregnant

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also to resume sex.. suggest only after 6 months n dont trust other saying if breastfeed wont get pregnant
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wait.. u mean resume sex also contributes to breast milk?
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wait.. u mean resume sex also contributes to breast milk?
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no. there is a old wives tale. if mother is BF, dont need to use protection when sexing it up. she wont get pregnant. but no... she still will get pregnant hahah.
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QUOTE(panda-man @ Nov 14 2016, 02:29 PM)
no. there is a old wives tale. if mother is BF, dont need to use protection when sexing it up. she wont get pregnant. but no... she still will get pregnant hahah.
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LOL. o okay then. I read somewhere that sex stabilizes a women's hormone.. can someone confirm?
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dear all sifu...

i want to ask...anyone..your wife experience bloating and nausea? i look at my wife and she is suffering..and i look helpless .can't do anything ..... cry.gif she is 9 weeks pregnant

eat a bit only..then feel very bloating...sleep also can't sleep well. to add on...feeling dizzy...as her blood pressure is low.

any chinese herbs can ease above?? appreciate your advise here..
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QUOTE(Denise_D @ Nov 24 2016, 03:50 AM)
dear all sifu...

i want to ask...anyone..your wife experience bloating and nausea? i look at my wife and she is suffering..and i look helpless .can't do anything ..... cry.gif  she is 9 weeks pregnant

eat a bit only..then feel very bloating...sleep also can't sleep well. to add on...feeling dizzy...as her blood pressure is low.

any chinese herbs can ease above?? appreciate your advise here..
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woa... sorry, I can't help. My wife did not experience such problems during pregnancy. Some of her friends said she is so lucky. tongue.gif
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QUOTE(Denise_D @ Nov 24 2016, 03:50 AM)
dear all sifu...

i want to ask...anyone..your wife experience bloating and nausea? i look at my wife and she is suffering..and i look helpless .can't do anything ..... cry.gif  she is 9 weeks pregnant

eat a bit only..then feel very bloating...sleep also can't sleep well. to add on...feeling dizzy...as her blood pressure is low.

any chinese herbs can ease above?? appreciate your advise here..
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yeah first few months its normal lah. first trimester is full of suffering. dont know about chinese herbs. but just avoid spicy foods. what did the gynae say? she will have best advise.
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guys, any of you using home thermometer for your kids?


can give some suggestions of models and brands? preferably the IR type rather than those that need to put at armpit for 1 minute
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guys, any of you using home thermometer for your kids?
can give some suggestions of models and brands? preferably the IR type rather than those that need to put at armpit for 1 minute
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using the ear thermo for last 10 years ..buy made in japan thermo .. i dont fancy the infra thermon use by dr
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Dec 14 2016, 09:49 AM)
using the ear thermo for last 10 years ..buy made in japan thermo ..  i dont fancy the infra thermon use by dr
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what brand u using?

and why the dislike for infra? tongue.gif
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QUOTE(EternalC @ Dec 14 2016, 10:47 AM)
what brand u using?

and why the dislike for infra? tongue.gif
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cant remember which brand .. but i heard Braun is good as well.

infra just not fancy .. still prefer the ear thermo ..
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i just post 3 hotels i stay before which kids friendly , you may check it out.

https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/4145540/all
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Dec 14 2016, 11:06 AM)
cant remember which brand .. but i heard Braun is good as well.

infra just not fancy .. still prefer the ear thermo ..
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any maintenance with the ear thermo? need to replace anything regularly?
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QUOTE(EternalC @ Dec 14 2016, 11:10 AM)
any maintenance with the ear thermo? need to replace anything regularly?
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so far except the ear cover you may need to repurchase. ussually it came with 50 pcs if not mistaken ..
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Dec 14 2016, 08:47 PM)
so far except the ear cover you may need to repurchase. ussually it came with 50 pcs if not mistaken ..
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Does anyone have any ideas which brand of milk powder is the best for consumption?
There are a lot of brands outside and currently I am using Enfalac A+ for my newborn baby.

I found out that this brand is quite expensive if not the most expensive brand comparing with others. Just wanted to know if its due to it has extra ingredient which is good for baby / just because of the brand.
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Does anyone have any ideas which brand of milk powder is the best for consumption?
There are a lot of brands outside and currently I am using Enfalac A+ for my newborn baby.

I found out that this brand is quite expensive if not the most expensive brand comparing with others. Just wanted to know if its due to it has extra ingredient which is good for baby / just because of the brand.
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I am using Morinaga. Enfalac is expensive because it is vegetable based, no?
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I used S26 for quite some time, its pretty good since my kid is prematured and doesnt seem to have any issue with this milk. tried other brands doesnt seem to work well as it seems like his immunity is low.

Now 1 year+ change to sustagen
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I am using Morinaga. Enfalac is expensive because it is vegetable based, no?
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I am not sure whether its a vegetable based but its recommended by my Pediatrician.
A pack of 1.3kg can go for RM 160+ which is quite pricey.

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QUOTE(dark90 @ Dec 19 2016, 05:21 PM)
I used S26 for quite some time, its pretty good since my kid is prematured and doesnt seem to have any issue with this milk. tried other brands doesnt seem to work well as it seems like his immunity is low.

Now 1 year+ change to sustagen
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I heard S26 is quite heaty. My kid is actually premature too but I was given Enfalac A+ premature for my boy.
Didn't bother to change brand as long my boy is healthy.
Just to concern if its better compare with others, else why its priced way above.
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QUOTE(Ash1988 @ Dec 19 2016, 05:34 PM)
I heard S26 is quite heaty. My kid is actually premature too but I was given Enfalac A+ premature for my boy.
Didn't bother to change brand as long my boy is healthy.
Just to concern if its better compare with others, else why its priced way above.
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Use progress if gold is too heaty. My youngest son also taking this. Mix of gold and progress. But my elder one only can take snow.
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QUOTE(Ash1988 @ Dec 19 2016, 06:34 PM)
I heard S26 is quite heaty. My kid is actually premature too but I was given Enfalac A+ premature for my boy.
Didn't bother to change brand as long my boy is healthy.
Just to concern if its better compare with others, else why its priced way above.
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My suggestion is to experiment abit, premature baby under one year we got no choice but to go for those that are abit pricey.

Just try for a week or two if it doesnt suit the baby quickly change back. examine their shit, immunity and stuff like that when changing milk.

I dont know about s26 being abit heaty, he seems quite fine and the only milk he likes. not until he met sustagen tho, wont drink any others now..
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Pricing Ducth Lady/Nestle > Sustagen > Dumex > S26 > Pediasure > Enfa

Personal Enfa too expensive .. for kids 2+ if same price with Enfa i rather take pediasure . more vege nutrion ..

First kid - Enfa till 4 years Sustagen/Fernleaf >6+ Dutch lady 1L Full Cream/Goodday
Second kid - Enfa > 2+ Pediasure//Fernleaf > 4+ Dutch lady 1L Full Cream/Goodday
Third kid - S26 > 2 + Dutch lady 1L Full Cream/Goodday

I been to few countries and notice children there minum fresh milk jer .. not many go for powder based

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QUOTE(dark90 @ Dec 20 2016, 09:02 AM)
My suggestion is to experiment abit, premature baby under one year we got no choice but to go for those that are abit pricey.

Just try for a week or two if it doesnt suit the baby quickly change back. examine their shit, immunity and stuff like that when changing milk.

I dont know about s26 being abit heaty, he seems quite fine and the only milk he likes. not until he met sustagen tho, wont drink any others now..
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you might check the sugar cool2.gif . is best to take original flavour and dont start with honey/vanilla/choco .. else the kids will stick to sweet based milk
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Checking in again, manage to "pump big" my wife's belly this year.

And this time is a baby boy! Gonna due next year March.
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Checking in again, manage to "pump big" my wife's belly this year.

And this time is a baby boy! Gonna due next year March.
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When and where do you bring your wife to see gynae for the first time when she expected to get pregnant? Please share.

Tqvm,
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Hi Guys,

When and where do you bring your wife to see gynae for the first time when she expected to get pregnant? Please share.

Tqvm,
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first you should decide if wanna go private or gomen.

if gomen, can go to those clinic ibu and anak and they will do primary checks and then recommend you to other places.

as for private can just choose which is close and which doctor got recommended. but cost is sky high.

many people do gomen first and then 1-2 months or last trimester move to private.
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QUOTE(lobster08 @ Dec 21 2016, 11:23 AM)
Hi Guys,

When and where do you bring your wife to see gynae for the first time when she expected to get pregnant? Please share.

Tqvm,
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buy the test kit first .. test at home .. once the test kit positive then only go see dr biggrin.gif

my three son born in gleaneagles ampang .. dr ravi .. very good gyane rclxms.gif

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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Dec 21 2016, 01:48 PM)
buy the test kit first .. test at home .. once the test kit positive then only go see dr  biggrin.gif

my three son born in gleaneagles ampang .. dr ravi .. very good gyane  rclxms.gif
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fuuu. mesti dapat discount lah ni hahaha. yeah. do around 2 test kits around 24 hours between to be sure. otherwise you go private gynae kkena RM200 for nothing.
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QUOTE(hutazi @ Dec 21 2016, 11:26 AM)
first you should decide if wanna go private or gomen.

if gomen, can go to those clinic ibu and anak and they will do primary checks and then recommend you to other places.

as for private can just choose which is close and which doctor got recommended. but cost is sky high.

many people do gomen first and then 1-2 months or last trimester move to private.
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Thanks for ur reply. Already tested once, maybe will get a 2nd kit to test again. smile.gif


QUOTE(MoonRider @ Dec 21 2016, 01:48 PM)
buy the test kit first .. test at home .. once the test kit positive then only go see dr  biggrin.gif

my three son born in gleaneagles ampang .. dr ravi .. very good gyane  rclxms.gif
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Thanks for ur reply. Gleneagles must be very expensive. Do you mind to share how much they charge?
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QUOTE(lobster08 @ Dec 21 2016, 02:26 PM)
Thanks for ur reply. Already tested once, maybe will get a 2nd kit to test again.  smile.gif
Thanks for ur reply. Gleneagles must be very expensive. Do you mind to share how much they charge?
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dont be surprised if first visit goes up to RM500-800.

my son was born in KPJ and every time visit doc consultation alone is around 150-200. once you add ultrasound. 3D, 4D, etc. it keeps adding up.
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QUOTE(lobster08 @ Dec 21 2016, 02:26 PM)
Thanks for ur reply. Already tested once, maybe will get a 2nd kit to test again.  smile.gif
Thanks for ur reply. Gleneagles must be very expensive. Do you mind to share how much they charge?
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consultant monthly visit around 100-200 , during delivery .. depends c-sec or normal .. but normal delivery i believe around 6-10k and for c-sec should be 8-15k (in case got complication).. but that many years ago ... maybe now the price increase





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I sent my wife back to hometown for delivery as KL is expensive. Anson Bay Medical Centre - Dr. Aida (Muslim Woman Gynae). Her service is excellent and supportive. We informed her that we wants to have as natural as possible birth. After amniotic fluid leaks 4am in the morning, she said she will wait for 18 hours. Too bad, my baby girl refused to come out by 8pm, then she discuss with us on the usage of hormone to fasten the delivery. Boom, baby safely delivered by midnight - 3 hours after injection.

Normal checkup price around MYR120.
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QUOTE(hutazi @ Dec 21 2016, 02:49 PM)
dont be surprised if first visit goes up to RM500-800.

my son was born in KPJ and every time visit doc consultation alone is around 150-200. once you add ultrasound. 3D, 4D, etc. it keeps adding up.
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Hi, thanks for the info.

Just double confirmed with 2nd test....Boom...POSITIVE! Kena lottery already..haha rclxms.gif

Now need to figure out when and where to see dr for the 1st time. Any advice? If klinik wanita any recommendation?
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QUOTE(lobster08 @ Dec 22 2016, 01:40 PM)
Hi, thanks for the info.

Just double confirmed with 2nd test....Boom...POSITIVE! Kena lottery already..haha  rclxms.gif

Now need to figure out when and where to see dr for the 1st time. Any advice? If klinik wanita any recommendation?
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congrats bro. happy fathers day!

need to go to the one in your neighborhood i think... hmm.gif
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QUOTE(lobster08 @ Dec 22 2016, 02:40 PM)
Hi, thanks for the info.

Just double confirmed with 2nd test....Boom...POSITIVE! Kena lottery already..haha  rclxms.gif

Now need to figure out when and where to see dr for the 1st time. Any advice? If klinik wanita any recommendation?
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i rekomen gomen cos its free (need to save abit if you plan to deliver in private hospitals) , but also visit private once or twice just to be sure.. i went full gomen and some of their scans are not accurate.. end up my baby was small and detected late. all gomen visits before says the baby is normal. so my advice is to visit private too in between gomen scans just to be sure.

Where u from? i can only recommend johor area as im from here and not familiar anywhere else.
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QUOTE(dark90 @ Dec 23 2016, 09:19 AM)
i rekomen gomen cos its free (need to save abit if you plan to deliver in private hospitals) , but also visit private once or twice just to be sure.. i went full gomen and some of their scans are not accurate.. end up my baby was small and detected late. all gomen visits before says the baby is normal. so my advice is to visit private too in between gomen scans just to be sure.

Where u from? i can only recommend johor area as im from here and not familiar anywhere else.
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Hi,

Thanks for the info. Im from KL. Still new and do not know when to bring my wife for check-up.
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QUOTE(lobster08 @ Dec 23 2016, 11:33 AM)
Hi,

Thanks for the info. Im from KL. Still new and do not know when to bring my wife for check-up.
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Can't really recommend where as i'm not familiar with KL, can ask other K's i believe most of them should be more familiar.

GL bro ! thumbsup.gif thumbsup.gif
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I just got my first baby girl on 21st. On 25th we bring to hospital check for Jaundice. That time it was 217, doctor said that if over 300 then need to admit hospital.

Today Nurse came, told us to bring baby to clinic to check again. sad.gif
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QUOTE(Foxngn @ Dec 28 2016, 12:01 PM)
I just got my first baby girl on 21st.  On 25th we bring to hospital check for Jaundice. That time it was 217, doctor said that if over 300 then need to admit hospital.

Today Nurse came, told us to bring baby to clinic to check again. sad.gif
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Traditional method - sun!!!
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QUOTE(Yveatel @ Dec 28 2016, 03:57 PM)
Traditional method - sun!!!
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this few days keep on raining. There is no sun sad.gif
Only got 1 day got morning sun previously.
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this few days keep on raining. There is no sun sad.gif
Only got 1 day got morning sun previously.
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QUOTE(zulwaqar @ Dec 29 2016, 08:58 AM)
Reporting in, comrade. A husband and future father. Expected my 1st child early of January 2017.

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hahaha... long journey to go. I am currently fighting a battle with my 5mo daughter. cry in the middle of night. When you talk to her, she smiles. KEK bangwall.gif
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a father of 3 to be next year...

maybe 1 month plus only... have yet to bring her for first time checkup
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something to share for those fathers who still buying pampers

go apply aeon big visa card/member card , buy pampers on 28 of every month 5% disc ..

when kids above 2 years old .. basically it doest matter what brand .. normally after 2 years dont think ur kids will get rash on the buntut
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Dec 29 2016, 10:14 AM)
something to share  for those fathers who still buying pampers

go apply aeon big visa card/member card , buy pampers on 28 of every month 5% disc ..

when kids above 2 years old .. basically it doest matter what brand .. normally after 2 years dont think ur kids will get rash on the buntut
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It does matter because the atas brands are more comfortable, have better fit and pee retention
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QUOTE(alternativehype @ Dec 29 2016, 10:37 AM)
It does matter because the atas brands are more comfortable, have better fit and pee retention
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2 years old toilet training start for my kids only wear pants at night and not pampers... before sleep to toilet first .. during the day no pampers biggrin.gif

also 18 months start to sleep different room.. my 3 kids did not sleep with me at night .. biggrin.gif


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Currently using pampers (nights and travel) and those reusable pampers/lampins (day time).

My wife wanted to separate our baby to different rooms sad.gif cause I snore too loud...
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Good thing is yesterday checked up it dropped till 180. hopefully there is more to drop.
need to bring her to do bloodtest again tomorrow. sad.gif

would like to know, usually can i skip for few days only do check-up ?
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Guys .. can i bring 6oz milk in a plane. whats the limit for liquid now? i forgot leh..
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Hello dads!

I'm gonna be a first time dad in 3 months...super duper excited AND scared shit...reli dono what to expect.

May i ask...what are the basics that i can buy for both mom and baby after delivery?

Cots....strollers..bedding ?

Sankyu!
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Guys .. can i bring 6oz milk in a plane. whats the limit for liquid now? i forgot leh..
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QUOTE(pac9sxs @ Jan 3 2017, 01:56 PM)
Hello dads!

I'm gonna be a first time dad in 3 months...super duper excited AND scared shit...reli dono what to expect.

May i ask...what are the basics that i can buy for both mom and baby after delivery?

Cots....strollers..bedding ?

Sankyu!
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theres a lot bro. but dunno what you got already.

if you buy a cot, get one which can change levels. its easier on your back. as baby wont be able to escape anyways. other stuff is like breast pump, nipple cream, many many of those thing cloths... dunno what they are called. we had around 10-20. can find in jusco baby section. get a wrap for tummy, after delivery the baby's umbilical will still be there. so wrap tummy to prevent it from sangkut. other stuff is like oils, creams, powders, baby bath tub. shampoo (get organic for newborn, expensive, but lasts a while as only need like 1-2 drops only - later can just switch to cheapo one if you want). jus my 2sen
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stroller too early wait baby 3 or 6 months then survey..
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mamours 1u had huge sales. dunno if still on. damn cheap car seat. maxi cosi cheaper than my sweet cherry hahahah.
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QUOTE(hutazi @ Jan 3 2017, 02:02 PM)
congrats bro.

theres a lot bro. but dunno what you got already.

if you buy a cot, get one which can change levels. its easier on your back. as baby wont be able to escape anyways. other stuff is like breast pump, nipple cream, many many of those thing cloths... dunno what they are called. we had around 10-20. can find in jusco baby section. get a wrap for tummy, after delivery the baby's umbilical will still be there. so wrap tummy to prevent it from sangkut. other stuff is like oils, creams, powders, baby bath tub. shampoo (get organic for newborn, expensive, but lasts a while as only need like 1-2 drops only - later can just switch to cheapo one if you want). jus my 2sen
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That sounds lik quite a number of things! Thank u for listing dem bro...
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Jan 3 2017, 03:02 PM)
stroller too early wait baby 3 or 6 months then survey..
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Has anyone chosen to save the cord blood ?
Think i saw a couple of adverts when i went to d clinics...
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QUOTE(hutazi @ Jan 3 2017, 03:14 PM)
mamours 1u had huge sales. dunno if still on. damn cheap car seat. maxi cosi cheaper than my sweet cherry hahahah.
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Serious bro..U know when it will last until?
I'm surveying for car seats too. Looking for brands such as Graco, Maxi Cosi range..
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QUOTE(Ash1988 @ Jan 3 2017, 04:11 PM)
Serious bro..U know when it will last until?
I'm surveying for car seats too. Looking for brands such as Graco, Maxi Cosi range..
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not sure bro. maybe finish di, but maybe not.... but i saw one maxi cosi there for <RM300 or was it less than 400... but damn cheap

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QUOTE(Ash1988 @ Jan 3 2017, 04:11 PM)
Serious bro..U know when it will last until?
I'm surveying for car seats too. Looking for brands such as Graco, Maxi Cosi range..
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Do check out online, e.g. Lazada. Can get good deals for good brands, also can apply discount coupons.
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post Jan 3 2017, 04:49 PM

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QUOTE(pac9sxs @ Jan 3 2017, 03:31 PM)
Has anyone chosen to save the cord blood ?
Think i saw a couple of adverts when i went to d clinics...
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i got 3 boys.. all subs to cord blood..

first stemlife.. second cryocord ..third cellsafe

should be around 5k for 21 years. ..after 21 yrs ur kid will decide wether to continue storing..

but of course we hope we not going to use it

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post Jan 3 2017, 04:51 PM

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QUOTE(Ash1988 @ Jan 3 2017, 04:11 PM)
Serious bro..U know when it will last until?
I'm surveying for car seats too. Looking for brands such as Graco, Maxi Cosi range..
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my graco car seat being used almost 11 years.. for my 3 kids.. and now used by my niece..
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post Jan 3 2017, 05:03 PM

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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Jan 3 2017, 04:49 PM)
i got 3 boys.. all subs to cord blood..

first stemlife.. second cryocord ..third cellsafe

should be around 5k for 21 years. ..after 21 yrs ur kid will decide wether to continue storing..

but of course we hope we not going to use it
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i thought take 1 cord stem cell already enough?
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post Jan 3 2017, 05:30 PM

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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Jan 3 2017, 04:49 PM)
i got 3 boys.. all subs to cord blood..

first stemlife.. second cryocord ..third cellsafe

should be around 5k for 21 years. ..after 21 yrs ur kid will decide wether to continue storing..

but of course we hope we not going to use it
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Noted on the price...and yeah - hopefully none of us hv to face the possibility of havin to use it. Just an insurance policy la...just in case...god bless
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post Jan 3 2017, 05:57 PM

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QUOTE(hutazi @ Jan 3 2017, 05:03 PM)
i thought take 1 cord stem cell already enough?
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sibling 75% can use.. shouldnt share lah.. should buy individual so that 90% chances match..

i got one girl punya kawan she died of leukemia.. and she told me now next generation got chance to keep should opt for that.. u got money doesnt mean you can found bone narrow that match you
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Please find out and understand more on the cord blood thingy before you decide to get it. I keep the cordblood with cryocord for my elder boy after visiting their center in cyberjaya. From my finding, it is most likely usable if my other child (except my elder boy) needs it.

The cordblood is not suitable for the donor itself as it is the very same blood for the case of leukemia. It won't be able to save the donor itself.

My wife and I had planned for that and we were financially ready for it, so we just store it just in case needed, or maybe it could save someone's life in the future.

If your financial condition allows, no harm getting it for the first baby. Not recommended to get it by installment though.


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