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dark90
post Jun 29 2016, 01:42 PM

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Hi guys, humble husband and father to a son of 8 month reporting in. Just want to say thank you for this thread. a lot of advice for us noob dads.
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post Jun 29 2016, 01:44 PM

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QUOTE(Necrosis @ Jun 29 2016, 10:36 AM)
Hi guys, last night me and my wife went for window shopping for formulated milk for pregnant @ lactating mother. Planning to get one since the pregnancy is entering 7th week.

The problem is, my wife is lactose intolerant. Basically anything that contains lactose (a form of sugar only found in milk) will cause diarrhea. We look for something that's of soy basis instead of cow's milk, but those are only available for infants, not for mothers.

Any of you can recommend a brand, and where to buy? Or is it alright to consume milk that is marketed for infants?

Thanks!
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If i'm not wrong any goat milk should be okay as it contains lower amount of lactose.. but im not sure though, have you googled around?
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post Jun 29 2016, 02:18 PM

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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Jun 29 2016, 03:17 PM)
eight months can start some solid food like blended porridge...
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Solid food started already at 6 months. ty for the advice. now learning to stand . keep on falling . damn scared he'll hurt himself.
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post Jun 29 2016, 02:25 PM

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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Jun 29 2016, 03:22 PM)
i dont recommend walker .. it wont help child to walk .. put ABC map if jatuh pun not hurt so much
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yeah.. i'm looking to carpet the whole room.. how do you manage your child's saving tho? any one of you guys got any system? ASB or Tabung Haji per say.. any advice on son's savings would be helpful.
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post Jun 29 2016, 02:34 PM

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QUOTE(panda-man @ Jun 29 2016, 03:30 PM)
my son got TH, but dont put in money that often. but ada lah, duit raya, or some cash given from friends and such. but ada lah. sikit sikit jadi bukit. but if you have the funds, can do one of those FD type accounts. my cash is unstable so dont wanna commit to those.
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I was thinking of doing something like 20RM monthly to his TH account.. it should help once he starts school or college right? MB2U does have the option to transfer automatically to TH account right?
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post Jun 29 2016, 02:49 PM

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QUOTE(panda-man @ Jun 29 2016, 03:41 PM)
yeah. can open a TH account for the kid as long as you have an account at TH as well. mine just got RM50 inside. M2U can transfer money to TH account, but not sure about automatically. The cost is RM1 per transaction if im not mistaken. well maybe 1.06 now. You need to register parent and child account at the ATM first. then can use online facility after 2-3 days verification.

i wouldnt say that RM20/month will help too much. only about RM4.3k at 18yo (w/o interest). but its better than nothing. can cover some costs or maybe DP for car? or wedding. heh.

I am considering moving my sons account to ASB though as the rates are better. went to TH initially just because ASB previously didnt accept babies. or something like that. but now seems they've opened up.
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Oh wow, right2. how to open account in ASB though? I need to go to banks is it? i tried opening online, doesn't seem to work. Sorry for all these questions as my dad is no longer around and my elder siblings are far. so dont really have sifus to ask about these things.
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post Jun 29 2016, 03:22 PM

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QUOTE(panda-man @ Jun 29 2016, 04:16 PM)
no prob. can help where i can. if you are bumi you can open an ASB account easily with a max limit of RM200k. but to my knowledge need to go to the bank to do it as they will give you a passbook. i opened super long time ago when i was only like 12 yo. so dont really remember if can open at all banks or need to specifically go to HQ. but if you are in KL, just go in the morning to the HQ. got free parking and i think they open at like 830am. i went there to replace my lost books. and dont have to wait long at all like 5-10 mins all settle. should be roughly the same.

if you are non-bumi then im not entirely sure, there are shares available, but not sure on the process and seems hard to get funds, that one need to ask in the ASB sifu thread in finance section of LYN.
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I am a bumi and in Johor. so should i just walk in Maybank or must be BSN? Must have minimum deposit for first deposit ? Would like to open one for my savings .. huhu.
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post Jun 30 2016, 10:31 AM

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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Jun 30 2016, 11:25 AM)
anyone of you going to labor room ? my exp nothing to be afraid yeah..

i been to operating theater for first son ceaser n seconf n third son labor delivery room
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Not yet, my wife was transferred to the operation room so czar for her.
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post Jul 1 2016, 12:09 PM

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Twins : Everything times 2. but should still be fun. anyways congrats, not anyone are lucky enough to get twins.. thumbup.gif thumbup.gif
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post Jul 19 2016, 10:19 AM

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check with the hospital, might be heart problem if its yellow for days.
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post Jul 25 2016, 10:13 AM

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Hi Fathers, I need your help, my buai elektrik is no longer working, i'm guessing adapter issues.. does any of you know where i can buy an electric adapter 250v online or in Johor?

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post Jul 25 2016, 11:33 AM

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QUOTE(panda-man @ Jul 25 2016, 11:43 AM)
i think normal electrical shops sell those 250v adapters. but if not sure. just take it to the kedai tepi jalan type of electric shop. they should be able to test for free. jgn beli and then memang adapter no problem haha.
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Cannot find meh.. been to most shops in Kulai... Kedai Hardware confirm dont sell right?
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post Jul 25 2016, 04:27 PM

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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Jul 25 2016, 05:24 PM)
i believe jalan pasar pudu should hvae..that place famous of letric parts
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Thanks for the reply, but unfortunately im in Johor.. zzz.
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post Jul 27 2016, 10:04 AM

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QUOTE(NotTheOne @ Jul 27 2016, 10:49 AM)
My suggestion, spend time on google, try to find any jln. pasar kedai letrik etc phone number (for sure you will find that adapter)
Then, can ask their help to post it to you
Btw, hello fathers!!
This is my first post in this thread

Hoping to learn a lot from all fathers here!

I have 1 daughter 15m.o,  -- she's a joy but she is not able to walk yet, can stand herself holding coffee table or first step of stairs..
I know some girls 8-9months walking already smile.gif

So fathers (and mothers here)..How fast your toddler start walking?
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Thanks man , but it seems that my wife wanted to teach him to sleep without buai. so yeah, gonna have a few sleepless nights. LEL.

Welcome to the club, bro! hope you learn something new!
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post Aug 2 2016, 02:50 PM

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QUOTE(panda-man @ Aug 2 2016, 03:36 PM)

my advise is go borrow the baby carrier & car seat from someone for the first 6 months.

for newborn the stroller and car seat have certain requirements. like need to fully lie down and such. best to borrow from someone for a few months and then invest in a better one when your kid is a bit older.

now at least got pretty good selection of things from Sweet Cherry (local brand but made in china). pretty decent quality and cheap. im using sweet cherry ISOFIX carseat. i think its from 4kg and up. forgot.
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+1

For newly born you dont need this things yet, as it is expensive and you wont be using is straight away. plus it must follow your kids weight, which you wont know until he/she is born.
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post Aug 2 2016, 03:14 PM

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QUOTE(Ash1988 @ Aug 2 2016, 03:57 PM)
Thanks bro. I surveyed few brands and most of them have car seat from new born 0-4 yrs old but I worried its too early to use right?
Since baby haven't developed the bone / neck and its quite soft to sit in car seat but yet I did saw some ppl use them for few days born baby.
Investing in baby carrier have hold me back since at most it can be used up to 1yr only...I dont wish to spend few hundreds on this.

Unfortunately I do not have friends or relatives to borrow.  sad.gif
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I'd suggest to just 'pangku' the baby for a few months. You wont be going out much anyways as the baby is newly born.

In my case, my son was 4 months then i buy a Car seat, bought the one that is included with stroller. Don't have baby carrier up till now. would need to buy one soon though.. my boy is 10 months now. it depends on you actually and your daily life. Buy what you think is needed and dont spend much before your baby is born. that'd be my advice.

What you need to buy for now is 'buai', pampers abit, pampers is good for stocks as its non-expiry. but shirts and toys better buy once they are truly needed.
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post Aug 3 2016, 08:54 AM

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QUOTE(Ash1988 @ Aug 2 2016, 08:18 PM)
Yeah that is what I think also. For first few months don't usually go out since I scared exposed to bacteria outside.
Most is travel between home to hospital for regular check up only.
Hehe now its time for me to learn on parenting..
We will adopt a western style teaching becoz both of us hate seeing family with maid/parents feeding toddler or even pujuk them to eat.
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I love posts like this! Just be prepared man, for ANYthing. when my son was born he was actually warded for 26 days. I spent my raya in the hospital.

Just don't be scared and do what you think that is need to be done. you are the man of the family after all.

He was born really small.. Just be patient, patient and patient . Good Luck Bro! thumbup.gif thumbup.gif
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post Aug 29 2016, 09:08 AM

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QUOTE(wts6819 @ Aug 27 2016, 01:59 PM)
New father check in here. Baby born about 2 weeks.
Just asking did your wife got super mood swing after delivery? My wife give me silent treatment despite I jaga her from delivery and baby at night.
This is frustrating man.
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My wife was super emo after her delivery. very sensitive one. it should be fine. maybe she's worried or smth? don't try to pry too much tho.. it never ends well.
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post Aug 29 2016, 02:43 PM

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QUOTE(wts6819 @ Aug 29 2016, 03:02 PM)
Last 2 days ago I confront her and talk nicely. Finally we manage to sort things out. Now so much easier to interact with smile and laugh. biggrin.gif

We did have some small argument and she did cried a while. I believe sometimes we need to speak it out with proper manner. thumbsup.gif
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GJ dude !! thumbup.gif thumbup.gif
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post Sep 21 2016, 11:22 AM

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QUOTE(lanusb @ Sep 19 2016, 05:47 PM)
Hi Guys, I just gotten this tommy tippee bottle warmer. Its quite large and can keep the heat in very well, as well as convenient. Easy for us father when taking the baby out alone and it's time for feeding. Got this from 11street as they are having some discount now, plus with vouchers got this under RM50 when mothercare selling for rm105. Recommended if you have not gotten your flask+bottle warmer.

Get the vouchers to get it cheaper

http://www.11street.my/productdetail/tomme...le-food-9407515
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Too little too late.. already bought one, an Endo brand or something.. sad.gif sad.gif

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