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talexeh
post Feb 3 2016, 05:47 PM

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QUOTE(panda-man @ Feb 2 2016, 02:59 PM)
hallo. father of a 18 month boy checkin in.
congrats bro. level up!  thumbup.gif

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now... what is there to discuss? i guess one worry i have now is speaking. so far my son is 18 months. but still cant really talk properly. he can make tons+tons of animal noises though. which is freakin hilarious... but for words just single syllable words. baba mama dada nana etc. cant seem to sound out two sounds like bana or maba or that type of thing. people say boys speak late. but its still a worry.  sweat.gif

when did your kids start stringing sounds together
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My boy is now 2.5 years old & yea, same worry as you're having too. He's not speaking much but I do see some improvement the last few weeks. I had to force him to speak up when he wanted something or else I won't do it for him.

Me & my wife have been discussing if we should throw him into nursery ASAP so that he gets to mingle around with other kids.

Also been thinking of speech therapy for quite some time now but I guess I'll consider it seriously when he hits 3 & still lotsa baby talk. sweat.gif
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post Feb 3 2016, 09:23 PM

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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Feb 3 2016, 07:45 PM)
can he build sentence? i.e green ball?  can he read abc or number? 3 yrs at nusery wont help much..  bytheway 3 yrs still early....

the most important when kids reach 3 .. is for them to response to u.. i.e u throw a ball in front of him.. his eyeball will follow the ball... or ask him to pick up things he undesrstand the command
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Fortunately, he can do all that you mentioned.

While I'm not exactly sure how much of what he said is considered as "build sentence", he can definitely relate an object with colour (blue car), he is capable of going through ABC-Z, 1-20'ish & he is able to comprehend my command. It's just that majority of stuffs coming out from his mouth are still baby-talk or a mixture of 70% baby talk, 30% comprehensible English.

I must also said that he is very stubborn or in better term, strong-willed. He will ignore me if he's doing something else & sometimes he's very moody (which is kinda like his mom) when interrupted. As such, a lot of time, me & my wife felt that he didn't have much eye contact with us which is 1 of the factors that got us worried. In fact, my worries of him being autistic is 1 of the few reasons why I kept rejecting my wife when she asked for a sibling for him. sweat.gif

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talexeh
post Feb 4 2016, 09:37 AM

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QUOTE(mi-g @ Feb 3 2016, 09:40 PM)
hi guys.. my son is 18mths now..

is it normal when he always wake up or cry at night asking for milk?

routine is like this

11pm - he start to sleep, around 20-30min he will sleep soundly

1am or 2am - his 1st cry for milk..he didn't actually wake up and open eye, just crying for milk

4am or 4.30am - he cry for milk again

6am to 7am - cry for milk again, this time need to put in cradle else he wont stop crying.. will sleep until 10am then wake up and bath

me myself no problem wake up at middle of night to make milk, but pity my wife coz when she wake up, quite hard to sleep again.. she's a nurse btw

my son now drink formula milk only since he's 12mths
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My boy had this issue before too. Pediatrician encouraged us to give him solid before sleep as he might get a little hungry if he only had milk prior to his bed time. You can give that a try.

However, in my case, it's kind of a season thing. There are weeks where he slept soundly throughout the night, weeks where he would wake up too early (like 5am) & weeks where he would wake up in the middle of the night for milk. I've gotten a bit used to it so no more complaints... unless my wife got woken up by the ruckus. sweat.gif
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post Feb 4 2016, 11:11 AM

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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Feb 4 2016, 10:17 AM)
hard to check on autism.. there is center in gleangles u may want to find out..

please note sometimes kids having ability of speaking is due to hearing.. so first thing is to ensure ur toddlers has been going throgh the hearing test.. if hearing test pass..then u just need to monitor..  one of my son having issue pronounce the f and s sound.. so we do teach him and pratice in front of mirror..is more on how ur mouth n tongue position.. after 2-3 months ok..
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Glenagles Penang? I'm from Penang & TBH, I'm not very fond of the child development psychologist that's stationed in Glenagles Penang. Pretty sure he's hearing is OK but I'll monitor.

Sigh... being a parent is no fun with so many things to worry about. sad.gif
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post Feb 4 2016, 11:13 AM

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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Feb 4 2016, 10:09 AM)
my kids will ready for bed at 8 to 8.30pm.. so after 9.30pm i got free time with my wife..
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I kinda envious that you still have time with your wife. My wife sometimes sleep before my boy. She's easily tired after work & I've talked to her about it but alas, nothing has changed. sweat.gif
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post Oct 6 2017, 04:36 PM

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Wait, isn't this thread posted in /k/? Did mod move it over to P&P?

 

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