Thats good. Actually gebder is not really important. Most important is they are healthy. So now u need a bigger car to accommodate your family.

Father to 2 month old baby.

Its been challenging and rewarding. More challenging for wife.

May i know if anyone has good car seat to recommend?
something can be used from newborn to 7 years old? u know the kind that can adjust one

This post has been edited by bakry: Nov 1 2019, 03:18 PM

Hey guys, pretty cool to actually find such a thread in LY Forum..
just by scrolling and reading the comments from all of you its really encouraging.
i cant wait to be a dad, and i pray the day will come soon..

Cheers to you daddys in here!

I recommend Chicco Nextfit Zip.

Yes, my wife and I always raise our voice when bringing our kids out. Sometimes feel regret. But we will forget all about it when we see them having fun especially we see their smiles.

Your day will come as long u dont give up and dont give yourself too much stress.

my wife did not work for almost 2 years. she breastfeed and sleep with her daily.

now i think its time she go back to work. my daughter is almost 2 years old.

i dont know if its a good decision. i feel so kesian to leave my daughter at the nursery.

Its always mixed feeling to let other people to take care our child.
Good side is kids who join playschool always get imporved their social skills, somehow the drawback is, they easily get sick (flu, cough etc)

I have a total of 19 siblings. Can't imagine how my father manage all hahaha

This post has been edited by ali00: Nov 25 2019, 12:54 PM

does she need to go back to work? as in, the extra income will lift a lot of pressure off the family? or just you would like her to work?

😳 All from the same mother?

she is stressed. i think she got bored staying at home. and i also not really financially strong.

but sooner or later we still have to send the child to nursery, right? better start early before its too late ?

Yea, i constantly tell myself not to stress. Not easy when the partner is the one stressing you out.
Gonna keep it positive and not gonna drawn into the negative side of it.
Cheers,

hmm. ya, it is stressful to always stay at home. very bosan one.

ok, as long as waifu willing to go back to workforce, then more power to her. but my advice would be to send your kid to nursery at least 3 months before she starts working if possible. This is because nursery's and all those places are filled with germs and sick kids. for sure the kid is going to be sick all the damn time! (hopefully not lah of course), but for my case, send to school healthy. then sick by weekend. cured, send back. sick again hahah. its terrible. my son had a schedule like that for i think 2-3 months till he built up his immune system and that was when he was 3yo. just make sure you do research about the after hour charges and having a reliable back up to pick the kid up from school.

i am new father to 3 month babyboy....my 1st child

btw can anyone recommend me the good baby stroller? prefer below rm800...

another question can i take him in flight? if 3 month old baby is safe to take in flight?

Congratz bro! I am using Silvercross pop and GB Pockit+ stroller. I do not recommend the GB pockit because it is wobbly and not that stable although the folding size is really small and convenient. It is not cheap too.

The silvercross pop stroller is sturdy but the folding size is not small and kinda heavy. I bought it around Rm700+ in 2014.

Yup, same feeling as we send our first daughter to our neighbor to take care after my wife maternity leave end. That time my little daughter just 60 days.. I'm father's of 3 kids (10g, 8b, 5g)..

Dear all lyn daddy, currently i have a dilemma.
My daughter gonna turn 4 next year, im going to send her off to those daycare nursery.
The thing that bother me is should i let her there for half day and arrange stranger to pick her back to nanny house.

OR

i should just let her there for full day and pick her up after work?

My own preferences is to let her get used to the half day period first before moving on to full course, but at the sams time also abit skeptical regards of the driver..

for me i would consider the following, full day you or family confirm can pick her up after work? and also for the driver would consider the route. if its quite close to the nanny i would feel ok. but ya, normally those drivers for daycare is quite old retired pakcik/makciks, i also dont feel so confident haha.

so far been lucky enough to pick my boy up myself or get family to fetch him.

If i took the full day, i would be able to pick her up.
Yup, nursery is nearby nanny house walking distance, about 10 mins walk.
So far i able to find a driver that is not so old, she also fetch her daughter from another nearby nursery as well.

wah. walking only 10 mins thats really close haha. for me, if that close, i think using a driver is ok. sounds like wont be going on highway or any big roads so even if something happens wouldnt be so serious i guess.

i am pregnant. mY daughter is Arale, my son is SumBb