Man and woman has their own responsibility both biologically and capacitatively.
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By nature, when money isn't the issue. Men are physically stronger than women, because living in nature of food-chain man needs to hunt animals, carry woods and build home to ensure protection of women, thus giving assurance of future generations of his bloodline. Some men are stronger and dorminant, and has many wifes because he capable to protecting more than one woman. Polygamous means further strengthens the assurance of his genetic bloodline. (Selfish Gene Theory)
Women of course, as biological responsibility of giving birth, breast feeding and nurturing future generations. Male child will go learn hunting with the father, whereas the female child will follow the mother to learn on nurturing and raising a child.
Capacitatively women can do more than just raising a child, like help out with lighter loads of starting a fire to prepare food, gathering fruits, water and making sure the home is ready and comfortable for the man to return from a hunt with his catch of the day. This will ensure the man has enough food, rest to replenish energy for the next hunting trip the following day.
Fast forward to the present.
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Genetically we all still the same, and has been passed on for generations.Remember the word generation comes from the root word a noun "gene" means biological blueprint to the verb "generate" means create and "ratio" means numbers of proportion, and "rate" means scale, or measurements. So put it together "generation" simply means create more which ultimately means reproduce at a rate govern by natural rules. Scientifically proven, under the Selfish Gene Theory.
Man has the responsibility to work and earn money. Man is in fact the major provider and giver to his wife both terms of genetically and responsibly. Man can of course do more and help out the wife with the household chores in everyway way he can. Of course some men do it a little clumsy, like socks pairing go missing in the laundry, like standing away from the stove due to heat.
Woman's biological responsibility is still hasn't changed which is giving birth and nurturing future generations. But certainly most women knows that giving birth raising a child is a biological obligation, women can of course do more than that and even though the food shelter, transport and clothing is readily provided by the man in pursuing for self and family improvement and development.
Improvement in the sense that more children may requires a bigger house, a bigger car, and household appliances needs maintenance, replacement and upgrades. Your child needs to further studies to a well known university, probably needs a new car.
A man can in fact provide a sustainable lifestyle for the entire family, if his earning a lot of money upholding all basic necessities. I believe providing the best for a child is not just limited to spending time, nurturing and raising the child to adulthood. It is a lot more than that. I also believe a woman/mother will also go to her limits in achieving the best possible for her child, so as the the man. Why I put the "man" at the last tagged because the man has already the major provider for both woman and child.
And because the population growth rate compare to the wealth distribution are exponentially unbalance, which creates a violent competition for money. Meaning to say everyone wants to have a biggest possible share on the same cake, since our population has increased in numbers each one of us gets a smaller share of the cake now, and it is getting smaller in years to come. More men and women entering to work-force to earn money for survival. Just look at what RM50 can buy now, compared to 20 years back.
Therefore we have men and women working in our society now. Men are now more open and willing to take up feminine rolls such as cooking or does the laundry, when conventionally some men don't even enters the kitchen or lifted a finger to do the housework. Women on the other hand has also changed whereby male dominated industry slowly includes women and respected and welcomed woman to compete in the market. We have women playing football, women works as CEO, or even women doctors, lawyers now. You name it. There are many more.
Whether women should work or are biologically fulltime mothers or do both, it is still debatable and questionable.
For now.However, external forces such as economy and competition of better life actually slowly leads and pushes the modern women to do both which is biological fulltime mother and enters the work-force in most industry.
In turns, actually favours to men because we have been doing that since existence of mankind. Women are just catching up. Being a man is better offEvolution has allowed us human to learn and adapt for survival.
Men can adapt to it faster and can endure better than women.Moorish is obviously the conventional type of woman who refuses change, and waiting to be phased out in future generations. She may be lucky to get a husband who can sustain her using money of course.
In economy terms it is the demand creates the supply. Men are obviously attracted to a pretty woman with a beautiful face, big boobs ,voluptuous figure with evenly proportions of curves that actually symbolizes she can bear good and healthy offspring. So what? Many more women out there to choose. But when women becomes overly demanding be it money or something else it is a real turn off to men.
We men
MUST UNITE and raise our standards in choosing our girlfriends or wives, never choose the overly greedy and overly lazy women. The moment the woman behaves that way, give chance and educate them, leave those who are unteachable. Don't get blinded by beauty or lust, you must see through a woman mind. Many more choices out there.
Majority of men think the same way, and decide based on logic and rational. Which is true, because majority of men like the same toys like Playstation, nice cars and lot more which girls don't even pay attention. Men are rarely affected by emotion. Another advantage.
The weakness of woman is time, because their beauty don't last. Thus makes them depreciating over time.
Men are in fact appreciating overtime in terms of creating wealth, stability and a sustainable life. Got money in hand, women come to us. To find one who is really not in-for-the-money we have to slowly pick and choose. No hurry men, it is women who is in a hurry because they are depreciating.
Women has menopause. Men do go through that stage of life but not as serious as women.
Women population are more than men, which is another advantage to us men. Larger numbers, don't always win.
Because the market forces, economy, competition, demanding parents who teach their children both boy and girl to grow up independent biologically and financially. When now we already have a vast majority of women in the job market, the minority of women who are still dreaming of being fulltime mothers will either HAVE TO follow suit fearing that they are in fact losing out or being left behind unwanted.
One example is Beauty Pageant. The criteria of women isn't about being physically beautiful but also must have attitude and brains and some other abilities in order to win. Although it is only a TV program, but seeing women competing really impresses us men that what women would do to win crown. It is a spectacular display of
skills and knowledge, instead of just being beautiful and having a sexy body because all of them are pretty makes it an equal battle ground.
skills and knowledge = ability to work and earn money.
Moorish may have made a win for now, but in the long run more and more women will disagree with you. Because every woman can be a mother, but some will criticises you for your inability to ___________ , what everybody else able to do. You fill in the blanks.
How do fulltime mothers feed themselves and babies?
Both men and women are money minded? Is nothing be proud of. It's just a survival instinct.
Being money minded, and doing nothing about it, is really BIG SHAME.
Doing something wrong is not a shame but at least better than doing nothing at all to earn money.
Expecting & demanding money from others to be given to him/her is like begging. Another shame..
Borrowing money and not paying back is also a BIG SHAME like stealing or robbing someone.
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Men and women being money minded, driven and fuel by the greed to earn money, will learns skills and master techniques to earn money.
Continuously working HARD and earning MORE money and making BIG achievements in career.
THIS IS WHAT WE SHOULD BE PROUD OF.you;re now discouraging fulltime mothers, as mention so many times why I question are you looking down on fulltime mothers, you deny and yet you posted things like asking money from husband is a big shame.
Oct 9 2009, 08:59 AM
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