girls who choose only money or only looks are just bound for a failed marriage. Those things are so flimsy ... here today, gone tomorrow.

+1

For me, balance in life is the key for happy relationship

If I'm the one who doesn't care about man's financial capability, I would have ended up like my cousin sister, married his husband who working as a car technician and her father that paid her wedding dinner and medical fees for her first baby;

If I'm one of the losers, I would have been like another cousin sister who cling on a husband (so to call an average-salary-man), cruelly knocked by her husband. Currently her husband was suspected in transporting drugs. She could have gone for her ex, who is financial capable, nice personality.

So you tell me, marry an average and ended up a life like this, where is the future? Have you thought about the children? The decision you chose is no longer you alone that responsible for the outcome but also your children!

So, you claim that you are an average man, no? But you see the way you flame people here. If you are to prove your view is right, please do share more concrete statements than plain meaningless insulting words. This is only a forum dealing with only words but still can make you go crazy and lose temper at anonymous and strangers, I seriously doubt about how average you are and how much you do really care about your future family.

And yes, I will sure live long.

I also don't know why, too

But then, I ever sent a complaint letter to my college's vice president cos he ignored the facility of computer lab, which lacked of headphones for over 2 months and finally college called me and I met him up at his room face to face. At the end problem solved.

I don't mind they come and pawn me and flame me. Let's have fun!

Poyozer, told you already. Gals who go after financial security is not because they aim for materialistic enjoyment, but for uncertainties in the future.

Wow.. if girls willing to follow her adv.... hope u all will find true happiness n love with ur future hubby.
Gud luck.

From: http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/967243



This post has been edited by viper88: Oct 8 2009, 11:44 PM

What are you trying to say is totally different than Moorish’s statement.

it's one thing to disregard or not take other people's opinions of you too seriously ... but to completely ignore them and be all "high and mighty" that you are right is something else.

be proud of choosing a rich husband? that's called "stuckup" and "arrogant" and a "show off". Be HUMBLE.
Be proud of your husband, not of your choice that he's rich.

This post has been edited by spunkberry: Oct 8 2009, 11:45 PM

The real question is not whether girls should be money minded or not.

It's how long you can hold on until you can find an above-average financial standing man, because you know you need to go all over to look for one, since most people aren't rich.

You fear uncertainty. Some people fear it more than others. Most people are materialistic to an extent, but some actually motivate themselves materialistically.

Men have that problem too.

But if you ever snap along the way while looking for a suitable person to marry...

That's your business.

And life goes on.

This post has been edited by Deadlocks: Oct 9 2009, 12:04 AM

eh debbie i just remembered, u flamed me for not having money that's why i throw my statement etc or some things u threw out.

what do you know about me?

why do you talk as if you know me?

do you?

i don't know you. i don't care about your sis or cousin or whoever married who and who and who.

if u are a girl that values more than just money, good for you. if you value money only then GTFO.

simple as pie.

average or whatever u think i am, go ahead and think.

if that's your perception about me in forum/online persona, then i think u're just hot headed and always trying to prove you are right!


don't be a hypocrite.

u talk as if u know thigns about me. and u talk as if i know things about u.

1. u don't know me, so don't assume. u look stupid.
2. i don't care about you or your family.
3. i hate you stupid girls who only care about money.

and for no.3, you respond to me as if you are one of them.

2nd version

So guys, be proud when you choose a sexy wife with big booby and long legs, and to those guys who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the father instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice.

How do you feel Moorish?


This post has been edited by POYOZER: Oct 8 2009, 11:55 PM

Salience,

Since when did I flamed you that you are poor, no money? Do quote the statement and if it's my fault, I will apologize.

Please run through the thread before you put your statements here.

Yes, please prove me that I care ONLY money.

Thanks.

p.s: i've just replied Salience and away for awhile, after posted Salience' reply only I see so many of you turned up!

This post has been edited by debbieyss: Oct 8 2009, 11:55 PM

i don't know where it is. i didn't go through the whole thread.

oh i foudn it

"Your ego got hurt?
Prove that with your average pay and "not likely to aim high kind of attitude" can also get a wife and the wife is willing to spend the life time with you, then."

ego? what does this have to do with ego? are u brainless? do u even know what is ego? do u know how to use it?

average pay? how u know whether my pay is average? how do u even know what i do or what position i hold?

its very simple actually. ppl go in and out of threads dropping in their thoughts. sometimes they get bitten, sometimes they don't. and sometimes they bite back, sometimes they dont.

i usually don't bother but then, i was bored and u spoke like u knew everything. i hate people who think that they know everything. not everything revolves aorund them or their self centered thoughts.

your nurture is not my nurture.

i just drop my 2 cents on girls that only value cash; which was in fact, super super plain and simple but u took it rather personally by attacking me personally, hence, giving the impression that you are a victim in broad sense of a girl that cares so deeply only own cash because you can relate to it personally.

so emo

true?

but since u like to bite so much, bite bite lor. i also will bite back in a way i will find entertaining rather than trying to prove a point.

This post has been edited by Salience: Oct 9 2009, 12:12 AM

LOL

This is just words, what should I care for? I'm not telling lies and all the scenarios I shared were true.

This is a great chance for me to speed up my typing skill so that I can think fast and type fast!

I hope all of you can prove that I'm wrong. And I hope one day I would regret this mindset grown in my mind since I was secondary school. I seriously do hope so.

So come and prove me that I'm wrong, you all guys who claim that gals look for financial capable men are evil!

the point is that there should be a good balance between finance and love, nobody is really saying to place either higher than the other.
your cousin sisters were blinded by love, or what they thought was love. love hurts right?

i say a good balance, but everybody knows love conquers all right? lol

Everyone also wants financial security. It is not a sin. Even god ordered us to work to find money to support the family.

But not until...

So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice.

This post has been edited by POYOZER: Oct 9 2009, 12:38 AM

lol don't bother those guys coz they're just some pathetic scumbags got dump by their gf for someone better

Basically, end of the day me and moorish aim for the same thing: financial capability husband.

Yes, I fear uncertainties and that's why I cherish my life very much, I aim high, I studied very hard, I worked very hard; I hope my future husband does the same. You can't ask me to cling on someone who has promised to work hard but after years he can't show any improvements but only complaints, change jobs, criticisms on others, blame the governments, blame the social...

You get me?

You can assume that I'm one of that. But please take off the word "stupid"!

I don't know your occupation and I don't know you in person. The reason why I flamed you was because of the words highlighted in red!


Above this was your first post here. You flamed someone you don't know in person and scolded her "stupid" and "damn".


Again, you didn't even want to share any convincing statements or facts to prove that I'm wrong, instead you were using insulting harsh words!

1. I don't need you to agree with me, but I hope you know how to respect even if you don't agree and you are in anger.
Again, you claimed that I offended you and I misunderstood you that you aren't an average man.
Tell me how can I convinced that I have wronged you? Tell me what else you can defend yourself as an average man by using those vulgar words when you disagree with someone and you are in anger?

2. I do neither interested to share you the stories of my family and friends. My motive is to tell you the real life examples, which I experienced, seen and felt all by myself. Unlike you, you guys who come in and flame me just like a kid, besides showing up the talents of vulgar meaningless words, you don't show a mere knowledge and pursuasive facts that you know about. Don't you know debate is to tell everything about facts? Have you ever participated in debate before?

In fact you are not the first guy came in with such a rude manner. Those "presentable" guys who came in and joined the debate, though they disagree but they have concrete statements and facts such as silverhawk.

You tell me this world is not about me alone that what kind of attitude you are showing up here then?

BUT those girls who really choose men for money, *grins* her marriage/relationship/affair shall never last

i don't get u. why are you trashing some girl u don't know???