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This post has been edited by StereoPony: Oct 2 2009, 01:48 AM

i think both of you didn't get mine~

sad to said you are too money minded that guys will simply don't like it and ignore your presence if you are overly money minded...for me, every women in this world are money minded the important thing is whether they had overly money minded or not...i.e all they care is money money and their self interest and her husband own interest...( related to money )

alamak do you even felt being in love b4????? you got the whole idea of love so wrong.
when you fall in love, it is not the other party tolerate you, it is suddenly your tolerance level for that particular person you love increase 1000000X.
everybody around you can tell you he is such a scumbag but you just cant see it, that is why they say love is blind.

falling in love and getting married is 2 different thing, pls understand this b4 getting married.
Falling in love is the gift from nature
Marriage is invented by man long ago to trap woman, unfortunately nowadays it seem to trap both parties.

it is easy and honeymoon when you fall in love and having a relationship.
it is tolerance when in marriage especially when children are involve.

It is not easy to maintain a marriage nowadays, when everything is so expensive, unlike in the 60s, my parents time or my grandparents time, everything is so easy going.

Money and love, can come and go just as easily in life if you;re careless. so never ever think love is forever.


The problem is the way human are design
Our instinct tell us to choose wisely
Our emotion that is causing the mistakes
we're govern by both and this is recipe to disaster.

same with a lot of guys
I ask them why you married B (B just so so in looks department)
oh because I find her responsible, very "kwai" type, thrifty, blah blah
and why do you choose your mistress...oh coz she is pretty, sexy and good in bed

This post has been edited by moorish: Oct 2 2009, 09:08 AM

epic fail

There is another point to consider, depending on your occupation. It helps if you rub shoulders with the right people, making yourself visible to these people. How do you do this? By going beyond what you are required to do. A lot of people limit themselves by doing only what is required. They do not go above and beyond. How will your boss know if you can be a manager, if you don't first show that you can by taking up extra responsibility? By knowing the right people, I mean staying away from colleagues who are negative and alienate themselves by stereotyping management, criticising them all the time. You need to mix with the right people and take some risks. It isn't purely about the quality of work you put out. Why do you think you hear people talking about their bosses all the time? Ever heard someone say this," I don't know how my boss got to where he is lah. He doesn't know anything also?"?

what I'm saying is that tolerance is not enough or the only requirement to be love~ it may be a typo on your previous post but tolerance as one of the criteria for love? there are thousands of rich but fat, ugly, diseased, almost dying guys who can be tolerant to u~ is that love? what if the amount of tolerance is infinite, will there still be love?

being in a relationship in which your own tolerance level is abnormal would be defined as obsession by me~ in many cases for immatured people, it would be called infatuation~

children or not, love doesn't mean any different for me~ does it change in meaning towards your spouse in your life? perhaps, it is time to sit down and reflect~ tolerance is everywhere, even my housemates know how to off their speakers and switch to headsets when it's time for one of us to sleep~

maybe your 'tolerance' for money is very low~ that would mean high expectations~

I agree that money is not only governed by money~

these guys belong in hell~ maybe u took the hell bus mistakenly~ in my opinion, LYN is full of guys from earth, we're not heavenly but we're much better than those u just described~

hawk, the reverse is true, but not in the sentence I've written it in, please review the sentence again~

Stop thinking about money for once, and you might understand.

no need fallin love. grow in love la.

whack the girl head. fall asleep. den plant yr seed. let it grow. as it grow, so does her love, coz deflower adi...

den her love grow, yr pocket oso grow big big.

Case solve.

Girls who go after rich fat ugly disgusting guys, I think its clear to everyone and herself that is not love, and why do you think rich guys must be fat and ugly? I've seen plenty of rich handsome guys who carry themselves with charisma, who talks about things I would only dream of, who dines in restaurant and orders wine I've never even heard of, who are really romantic.

And do you not agree with me when you fall in love, your tolerance level towards that person increase 90000000 folds?

Obviously you have never experience unconditional love, but I dun mind sharing with you here, I strongly believe now unconditional love exist only in mothers. Loving your husband and loving your children is 2 different thing, loving your children is so powerful, its like out of this world.

Your baby can cry like crazy and vomit and poo poo all night long, this is what I went thru this 3 months, sometimes I get very frustrated but this only lasted 3 second the most, after that I start worrying if she is ok, is there too much wind in her stomach. She wont know how to tolerate me, but I will give everything to her, this is unconditional love, in the end the even more scarier part is, you feel it is all so worth it.


its not my tolerance towards money is low, it is bcoz I'm mature in life experience, and
i know what it takes to have a family.

give you another tips,
you will only know a persons true character when they die.

Moorish is cool.

mooorish , is that your baby ? nice picture,, boy eh... must be the prince in the house.

so how much does the prince running cost ah ? how much to maintain him ah ?

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Added on October 3, 2009, 12:51 pmtalking about love and falling in love im not the expert lah,,,

but as i m concern money is everything in the current future, love is just the transition part only,

so money is love, love is money they go along with each other,

the i fall in love theory is like hmm applied in story books lah,, reality love is money, cause human created money to create that love, so to love the money
to respect the power money can do, and what you can with it,

we dont respect money is because having too much of it cause a lot of trouble, and not having it makes a person suffer in the current century.


so how to choose, choose both but the money as a first choice,

so what you should do, girls encourage your penis or guy to make more of it, support him and say things like you can do it..

guys, concentrate where all the money is, like in the women industry, one place you can make so much of money that you can never imagine, cause the money you make, your vagina take away and give it to another penis,

so it is like economic,, " money again "

so how? our life is revolve around money, so if you say moorish is not cool you are not right,

moorish has a point, well for me, if im the gal,

1) marry the rich one, dont bother about the sex, then make sure i get 70% of what he has when i divorce him

2) find the one with what you wanted, which was the poor good man and have an affair with him cause you love him and enjoy the money together

isnt it the best thing to do, gal have money, no worries, guy get the girl he loves bonus with money.

rich guy not bothered, cause he can find another younger gal to married, and everyone is happy



This post has been edited by sonyman: Oct 3 2009, 12:51 PM

U is made of fail.

Her name is Noreen
The cost is quite high, considering we edi balance and try our best to keep cost low.

Consultation during pregnancy at Pantai Indah each time around RM80 X 11 RM880
Buying herbs and Birds Nest through out the 10 months RM2500
Stemcell RM2500
Sterilizer RM330
Breast pump RM298
Bottles and blah blah RM100
PlayPan RM280
Stroller RM330
Car Seat RM119
Thermometer RM190
Confinement Lady RM3500
Csec RM6500
Anmum materna and Lacta for 6 months Rm300
Baby hammock RM400
Bedding RM400

Baby Cot free take from bro
Bouncinet free from cousin
some clothing and accessories free from cousin

Clothing and pampers?
monthly paeditrician consultation and vaccine?
plenty more etc etc $$$

This is just the beginning

alot of them are, indeed. Men denied the facts that this the how the world is working and still living in their own fantasy world, instead of being more ambitious and hardworking to bring their own level up, and get the chun girls that they dream of ( but they cant get them initially because they can't even take care of themselves yet), they blame the girls for being materialistic and money minded, so come out with the statement " this kinda girl give me also I don't want"


ada duit ada ah moi. very true. and you think simply any girls can get rich, smart, presentable looking, responsible guys? you think guys that fit in this checklist are stupid? they are choosey as well! so this is the part that why girls we should have the initiative to build up our own career, be financially independant, be smart and have the ability to stand on our own feet, and of course, be charming.

I don't understand why the guys in this thread make it such a big deal untill the extend of cursing TS that her marriage life will not last, when she just pointing out the fact?

it is so obvious rite.. if 2 men put in front for any girl to choose, both share the same standard of look, both love the same, both are sensitive, but one is already financially stable and another one is still struggling, isnt it obvious which 1 a girl will choose?

same goes to you guys wat, both girls for you to choose are equally gentle, nice, caring, but 1 with hot body and angelic face, another one is so so only some more no sense of fashion. which one you go for?

so my point here is, there is no free lunch. do not look down a girl that try to get a man whom is FINANCIALLY STABLE. Like I said, it's not easy to tie the heart of a succesful man, girls have to pay very much effort to keep herself up the standard, if not easily husband go out find ee lai lor like you all said.

same goes to guys, want to have chun and sexy and smart wife, go work harder and earn more money

congratulations on posting a write up about how to be a better prostitute.

heheh so girls that are smart, sexy, intelligent and financial stable but look for a good quality husband = better prostitute?

warh then you must have came from a nation with a very high standard defination for prostitutes man.

If i am so truly smart, sexy intelligent and financiall stable, i will insist to be very choosey on my husband. so in other words, i rather be called a BETTER PROSTITE, than to lower down my standard and get a lazy husband that cant even feed himself properly and I have to come home everyday to ask him how's his day and asking around among my famliy members if they have any jobs to offer to my this "poor but dunno why he's just better than a rich husband in your eye" husband.

900000000+

Love with a price tag. Nice. If more women voluntarily insist on being an object like you, forums like these arent even needed. Its about time you start a movement to 'educate' the girls about the benefit of selling yourselves and make us men's life easier.