From the topic http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/967243 it made me think deep why are girl money minded.

Thousands of years ago, money do not exist, girl will choose their partner base on security, they look for well built male who can protect them from wild animals and wild man or whatever wild things,they're vulnerable when they;re pregnant, and the years when they need to raise children. This has been genetic in female.

Fast forward to today, we no longer require mr. muscle to protect us, security took a new meaning, security = money. So girl will marry a guy when he is rich and this is why the quote ada wang ada amoi.

So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice.

reading the whole thread...

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gave me a trauma.

i am not getting married and am now traumatic over my own relationship.

thank you cupid's corner.

what then, is the definition of love? I disagree with u on this issue though I'm a man~ I have never ever thought of very a girl has money or not, not my ex, not my friends, I don't give a sh*t if they are bankrupt~

Summary of thread: girls should exploit men's lust and drain their resources. You can then be proud that you are not immature and congratulate yourself. Nothing wrong with it because it's been that way for thousands of years. Oh wait, for thousands of years women were treated like cattle.

Next thread, please.

money makes the world goes round. period

Really? Then how come you never have to pay for every thought you have, every breath you took, and for every smile you put upon your own face?

This really makes me wonder.......next time instead of driving my car to meet gals at a gathering, i will just arrive with a kapchai. Even the helmet is the turtle type. Then I'll see what's their reaction.

Yes, moorish.

The simple theory is: we opt for guys who has a heart to improve and self-motivated, they work hard and become rich, and able to feed every mouths in a family. We're not asking gals to go for those who born with golden key with lousy life attitude.

However, I see many guys here don't really understand the simple theory. They always claim those rich men are born rich and that's why they are rich, they have never tried to figure out what is the reason that they are being rich?

This is really pathetic.
If a man doesn't want to stay loyal, doesn't reciprocate, doesn't have self-control, I don't see any reason why he doesn't deserve the title of "bad man".
Again, am trying to say: marry a man who is capable to be a rich man. The attitude. Not the money.
You can ask moorish how her husband has a lucrative income? Is it her husband inherit his father's properties? Or is it out of her husband's very efforts throughout the years?

Is your turtle helment cute? 

What if the guy is not capable of getting rich and cannot provide a luxurious life?
What if the guy works extremely hard but still can't give you the life you want?
This is the real life, some people work hard but just can't achieve it.
So this guy does not deserve any gals' love??

**Relax......just giving my 2 cents**

My turtle helmet has two kitten ears and a tail.

Can you give me any example?
Or your experience?

My dad was being poor for 10 years, company closed down (bankcrupt).
Few years later only he got financial capable. But then, he was already in his mid 30s.

My best fren is a very good example. His dad used to work as a tax auditor. But throughout his life, he never did
make it big, mainly due to his kind nature. He works very hard but can't provide any luxurious life to the family.
They've been driving an 18 year old car up till today. I know for a fact that his pay is almost stagnant year after year.
They could not even afford to buy any low cost flat or houses. They were renting houses their whole life. But having said
so, I've never seen any family so loving and understanding as theirs. Sometimes I envy how well their family get along
and love each other.

Holy cow.....the kitty helmet costs more than 150 bucks.....I think I rather use a coconut shell instead to reflect how poor I am.

There mainly 2 reasons why an employee not getting increment:
1. Academic Qaulification
My brother's friend's father is an engineer, he is now at his 50s but still working as a senior engineer, in the one and the only company which he's been working for since his first job. He neither pursue his study nor gain experience and jump to another company. That's your choice. Of course. If you want to stay at your comfort zone and not looking for breakthrough.

2. Work Smart and NOT just working hard
Take up part-time jobs eg. online business, contractual projects etc, if he's a tax auditor. I know that this line has its periodical peak time and offpeak time. He can just advertise himself at newspapers, websites or anything, get some projects during his offpeak period.
Secondly, why not go for investment if capable? If he is a low-risk taker then go for unit trust, high-risk taker then go for stocks.

The helmet is cool and.................cute

and you give it to me?

Love = Tolerance
Everybody wish they can give unconditional love but when the time really comes who can actually withstand the test of love? I think unconditional love only exist on mothers towards their child. And only 0.000001% exist on relationship.

Remember everybody falls in love easily but it is just as easy falling out of love when that person fails you,
love is the motivation that we get married, but it is responsibilities that drives the marriage. That is why you see so many divorce case.

what??? if tolerance is love, then it's easy to fall in love with me~ I tolerate almost anything thrown at me~ I don't see men whom I tolerate with fall in love with me~

how can u love a baby who doesn't understand tolerance? u did mention tolerance~ a baby cries whenever she/he likes~ poops whenever he/she likes, etc.~

I don't fall in love easily~ i don't think responsibilities has anything to do with being in a marriage, it should be love and not money~ money can be lost easily~ love can't~

i think u're having dubios idea when u created this thread~ the idea of money still isn't right anyway (apart from tolerance, baby, falling in love, and responsibilities)~