QUOTE(Diazepam @ Oct 23 2008, 10:03 PM)
What a load of crap.
In the first place, you lack even basic comprehension
on what my post was about.
Your post is addressing something that I am not even talking about.
i think i should give simple well question and answer methods, helps your limited undestanding capabilities
QUOTE(Diazepam @ Oct 23 2008, 08:07 PM)
Woman, this is something that once you lose you can NEVER EVER get it back.
actually you can, there are plastic surgeries that specifically well do that and also you dont need to put it in to be a non virgin. hymens of females break easily to even not breaking at all so unless your partner is really old school and never lernt much about sex then ya he might get angry at it but if not, well then its not a reasonable way to see if someone is a virgin or not. the best and easiest way is through the partners actions, if they are experienced their body will show a measure of sexual know how to stimulate the situation and you dont need intercourse to know this.
issue on virginity, and what to have back. well at most times people argue interms of the hymen. so i followed tha argument, there are a lot of degrees of virginity you know i cant cover all.
QUOTE(Diazepam @ Oct 23 2008, 08:07 PM)
I don't understand why you need to have sex in a b/g relationship. Just because its so common already?
sex also acts as a filter, did you know you cna know abotu your partners body through sex? knowing how he performs sexually, foreplay are all there to test the physical body for defects to ensure better breeding. im sure you wont want to wait eons untill you get married then discover that your hubby suffers from ED.
QUOTE(Diazepam @ Oct 23 2008, 08:07 PM)
The guy has nothing to lose.
The girl has everything to lose.
perhaps i should change the terms to simple you lose that might help you to understand, but on a summary
sexually active partner + virgin = sexually active partner lose
virgin + virgin = both dont lose
the thing that most of you anti-pre martial sex people seem to forget or not know would be theres nothing to lose in both parties and this depends on who you marry in the future. for example if you get a bf or gf thats very sexually active the so called marriage night of magic will be very disappointing for the experienced party, or somehow you manage to get someone that still is a virgin.
QUOTE(Diazepam @ Oct 23 2008, 08:07 PM)
She loves him which is why she's keeping herself a virgin - otherwise, whats going to be so blardy special on the wedding night?
Your line of argument is typical of buayas la. Try and con the girls into thinking that if they dont give in, it means they dont love the bf.
Perhaps girls should carry around a legally binding pre-sex agreement. Sign first - you try it, you marry it.
on answering wedding night specials, and giving in.
another thing i have to comment, sex is a skill and the first night will not be magical. there are heaps of statistics that show men actually have low stamina during the first time and it would be hurtful for both sides due to the lack of skill, awkwardness and so on, its not going to be hollywood wonderful sex or that well you get a chance to burst the bubble. so i can tell you know based on stats your first night is going to suck, unless of course your bf is skilled which his night will be disappointing and honestly he would have to love you damn much to actually tahan that long.
last but not least, yes it does apply the other way. rejecting sex to your partner can frustrate him/her, he has all the right to dump you cause basically you are not appealing his needs as a partner. basically you suck at being a gf
on the others............
QUOTE(Diazepam @ Oct 23 2008, 08:07 PM)
You have bastards that go around treating girls very very nice until they have sex, then they start being real bastards and then break off. Their agenda is only to sleep with as many virgins as they can get.
And still girls are stupid enough to give it to them.
Perhaps girls should carry around a legally binding pre-sex agreement. Sign first - you try it, you marry it.
i didnt touch these two because well, its to general you precieve that every couple the guy that asks for sex and dumps the female. this is not always the case, there are couples that well are of the otherwisse. i know one couple where the guy dumped the female cause she wanted too much sex, theres nothing much to argue upon here cause i dont want to waste time on your generalisation.
also not all girls and guys follow the conservertive strain of thought as you do, thus the girls are stupid and legal binding agreements are pointless to debate upon. i dont question your moral and well values towards virginity but instead provide you a picture of what sex provies and what it actually is around the world. i did mention however that i dont mind you being all wanting virginity, but please understand sex before shooting wildly on things like "magic night" and which side loses. you'd understand what i mean when you really get sex.
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