u're not ready gal...

y not try to set a time for him..
let's say, u tell him u will be ready after 6 more months, and that will be the time u give it to him..
but remember, if u promised, dun let him down..

or u can just tell him honestly, it hurts, i noe, but u have to tell the truth, it's better than lying

anyways, if he dumps u for not having sex with him, that's a good sign, means u're breaking off with a bad guy...a guy that dates u for sex? No way! get rid of him asap...

but we better not think that way la...mayb tok to him about wut sex means to him..u cannot be shy in relationships....u really need to noe where u stand and y he wans to have sex with u