i didnt really read all of the post here but i think if you wanna give it to him then you need to start getting comfortable with yourself first...as in probably...masturbate for a few times....i think it keeps your hormones high....but if you feel weird even to have sex.....girl forget bout forcing yourself to get use to the feeling when he's coming on to you

Be careful, many guys will lose respect for their GF once they got the lay....

well i think it is because of the society pressure that make the TS uncomfortable. are u coming from a conservative family where it is a taboo for pre-marital sex?

if so, please ask yourself a very clear questions. are u going to follow the tradition or just forget it and just do it. end your misery life without sex.