for whatever reason you want to have it, or he wants to have it, have it safely. Pills, condoms, and whatnots that you know. Its not premarital sex is big no no, its the premarital unplanned birth that would give you the biggest headache.

Well, once the girl decided to spread the legs, there's no turning back. If you are not ready, then don't. When can one be ready, you may asked? It would depends. If there is any golden rule about readiness, then I think, it would be a cultural fact, or even a event to be followed.

This post has been edited by gsuave: Dec 5 2008, 06:02 PM