at least he still respect you ... you should feel proud of him ... and your problem is you are not ready yet and he haven't prove to you that he can be rely on ... give urself and him some time ... and try to avoid as much as private time with him just in case you thought he had a chance tonight ...

if you feel irritates then just simply control his hand to a place u think is comfortable ... i think your bf still can be train ... hahahaa