being a virgin or not really is nothing..but society perceive girls who are not virgins as 'dirty' and have no 'value' and thus lose respect towards themm...i dont see anything disrespectful about being a non virgin unless you're always sleeping around with guys you dont have feelings for..then you are doing harm to your body and risking your health.

I think people who lose their virginity to some1 they love is a wonderful thing..Sex is beautiful and pleasant if you're doing it out of love. It is like a time that couple learn to udnerstand each other, and tighten bonds. society makes sex a taboo conversation sometimes..and i dont know why..is not like they dont need it..sex is like a necessity in life..esp for men...hiding that just show that sometimes ppl is living in denial..