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My gatal BF
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St0rmFury
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 Oct 18 2008, 11:19 PM
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For a relationship to work it needs 2 things: emotional and physical intimacy.
Your man has already showed you that he cares for you emotionally and now wants to be physically intimate with you as well. You should be flattered because he only wants to do it with you instead of with another girl. So for you to dump him because he only wants it to be with you is a foolish and immature thought. Sex is natural in a healthy relationship and its a way of showing your love for one another. That's why they call it "making love".
By rejecting his advances you are essentially sending a message that you are rejecting him (at least half of him), so imagine how bad he must feel. He loves and and wants to show it, you love him but you are pushing him away. Girls always fault guys for wanting sex, but how often do they realize that they are also denying sex as well? Why must wanting sex (something natural) be seen as a negative thing while denying sex (unnatural) is the opposite?
So my advice, if he's making you uncomfortable, tell him what he's doing wrong and guide his hands so that you will feel more relaxed. It's probably his first time as well so I believe he is still not sure how or where to touch a girl. Don't deny yourself a pleasurable act of love just because you have "stage fright".
Hope that helps.
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St0rmFury
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Oct 20 2008, 08:06 AM
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Like a member here once said, you stand a better chance of getting hit by a car in Malaysia than getting pregnant (using protection of course) so go for it.
Oh by the way, I forgot to add on point. Your boyfriend is not gatal, he's normal. You on the other hand... are not.
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St0rmFury
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Oct 21 2008, 12:32 PM
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QUOTE(vey99 @ Oct 21 2008, 10:19 AM) Just abstain if you are not ready. Whats the point in giving in to pressure? If he loves u , he will wait for u. I can easily turn it around and say if she loves him, she won't reject his advances. |
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St0rmFury
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Oct 24 2008, 11:00 AM
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Its quite simple really, I believe someone made sex taboo as a way to prevent unwanted pregnancies and reduce STDs from spreading. Soon the idea begins to spread and now we have silly situations like these.
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St0rmFury
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Dec 7 2008, 11:26 AM
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Morals are for pussies.
This post has been edited by St0rmFury: Dec 7 2008, 11:27 AM
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St0rmFury
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Dec 10 2008, 09:42 AM
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QUOTE(GeneWiz @ Dec 10 2008, 12:01 AM) ohh c'mon, if he is juz wanna eat you up, why the 'respect you and stopped' thingy means? i'm in the same problem here, even worst act... me and my gf has been together for almost 5 years since we were secondary. i've tried to ask for sex since i was 18, she was 18 too, we were together for almost 6 months like TS. ok, i was too 'newbie' to sex thingy and she stopped me for further intercourse. of course i stopped, she is definitely my type of girl and i do really really love her, what can i said? i don't even ask her any time limit or any T&C in order to complete the intercourse with her, i hoped everything goes naturally. -snip- You girlfriend is an evil evil b itch for denying sex even after 4 years of courtship. I would advise you to dump her, but that would mean 4 years of work down the drain. It's up to you, man. This post has been edited by St0rmFury: Dec 10 2008, 09:43 AM |
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