Lose what exactly? Hymens can tear from normal exercise/physical activity. What is there to lose exactly?
Sex is a natural part of life and relationships. The bond between people are stronger with sex.
Once again, what is she losing? The importance of virginity is entirely a social construct and it really MEANS NOTHING. I place no importance on virginity, its just about as important as the first kiss. There's some emotional attachment to the first person, but like your first anything, its not a big deal.

Guys who care about whether a girl is a virgin or not are bloody insecure.
Its quite true, rejection of sex is a sign of rejection of love. Sex is part of the relationship, you just don't understand that point yet. Maybe you're just young, naive and innocent. Maybe you'll come to understand the point some day.

The TS's boyfriend has been great, he has not forced her to do anything, but instead is trying to get her out of her shell. Its obvious the TS likes it too, she's just afraid. Truthfully, that fear exists because of the teachings people like you give, its denying a very important aspect of ourselves, which is probably why so many couples are miserable.
meru meru... im sick... can sex me up to cure me?