Sometimes Im just worried I wouldn't get a good guy who loves me as much as my ex did...
I am someone who would love you and depend on you when i trust you, why do guys always hurt us when we're most vulnerable?
It's all unexpected...

Sebrina, do not worry about weather you will get a good guy or not. The most important thing is remember to "Do not compare your future bf with your ex" . It will only destabilize the relationship.

you sound like a girl who would pour your entire heart to a relationship but too bad things wont work out this way. In life, things will spiral out of your control, This aint your korean drama where you give in to the relationship and it ends like fairy tale

Nice advices. Thanks

go get someone new, make sure ur opposite sex loves u more than u do btw, i am one of the broken heart ones

Stay strong man

it hurt as much as we know our ex-gf/bf say they have no feelings for us or the feelings all these while is a fake one but one thing for sure that makes me happy is that i know my ex still alive and happier than before..

Couldn't agree more. I don't know why I just feel glad that she is living happily.

Just thought of sharing this article 'coz when I read it I find it very meaningful. Hope it helps

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That should help somebody who needs it.

thanks for sharing

sorry...i found the real place to post...

This post has been edited by kousou: Jul 22 2010, 07:13 AM

this sounds stupid but i will let it out anyway ...

just broke up 1 month ago and i was the one who initiated it ... and now i feel lonely ... i believe she has already got into a new relationship ... damn the loneliness some time kicks in during my sleep and i would woke up in the middle of the night ... WTF is wrong ...

So boys and girls, please think twice before breaking up ... this has happened to me for weeks ... sleepless nights ... but got ta move on ...

This post has been edited by Hou_JaI: Jul 24 2010, 07:07 PM

You are not able to cope with the sudden emptiness in your heart, that's why you feel lonely at times. Give yourself some more time to heal. Sure it does hurt at times, but you just have to learn to deal with it.

There is nothing wrong with thinking back the past as I do too but I know that I already let it go.

But some times its easier said than done.. No offense though cos' i am trying to survive this grievance too..

you should have get another one before "divorce"!

how to know if you have REALLY let go the past relationship ?
like when u went to the same place again with ur frens...but u will think of last time when were together... does that mean still haven let go?

Memories are there to stay. You have to ask yourself if you still miss your ex and wish you could turn back the time? If you have no feelings on that but only regain the memory you had during the old times then it's normal and you already let it go. That's my opinion. I still think about the memories sometimes but I never thought of wanting her back.

i do miss him once awhile..wondering how is him with the new gf.... but i dun wan to think of going back already...like i was watching drama...the guy break up with the gal...n how the gal react...it's just like how i reacted last time...i cried with the gal in the drama...if it was me last time...i dun hav such exp..i won't cry when i watch the gal cryin in the drama.... when i tot i had let go but when my relatives asked me about it...i cried which i never know why do i still cry... so i am wondering whether i had ReEaLLY let go...i dun wan to let myself dwell in this anymore...

Cry if u want to. But, it'll reach a point where u just won't give a damn. Relax, my friend, take it slow. My answer to ur ques on how to really know that u already let go is probably the same as BlueWind.

Good luck