it hurt as much as we know our ex-gf/bf say they have no feelings for us or the feelings all these while is a fake one but one thing for sure that makes me happy is that i know my ex still alive and happier than before..

But some times its easier said than done.. No offense though cos' i am trying to survive this grievance too..

you can make friends.. in midst of friendship, there should be a prince waiting for you..

if nothing ever happen, how do you even called it 'love'?
you can only treat it as crush and most crush fade easily thru time.

so, you just go be helpless, cry, torture yourself a bit and have some self pity time.. but on what cost? will it affect your study/work, your relationship with family or your own personal health? imo, you are putting this TOO important that you start to neglect EVERYTHING else.
Its normal to be sad when you broke up, then you grief over it and then you contemplate and reflect on the relationship issues (what when wrong, whose fault, etc), discuss with friend/family instead of being stubborn and stagnant from the point of your break up til now.
So TS, ask yourself..Is it time to wake up?

last time i rage when i see my ex's things lying around, end up throw them out.
nowadays either i give them back. and if they don't want, depending on the value, will just sell it off. else, throw it.
yeah you right, its very very tough to get rid of them especially those that have high sentimental value.