I think, almost every person ends up having THAT one that they loved, although life made them apart

don't blame yourself - it's always the two of you who made some mistakes that lead to the breakup.
Breathe out and focus on your feelings and your thoughts.
It's ok to be sad, but don't overdo with it - life still goes on

think about all the good things you can do to yourself - your dreams and goals that you can reach, hobbies you can have, parties and movie-nights with friends...
it's time to become a better version of yourself

keep myself busy and keep my mind occupied with other stuff.. time will heal... of coz every now and then will cross your mind and I guess it is normal to miss that particular someone or the moments... but after some time, it will fade.. everything withered over time... move on... let it be a memory ...


I listened to this song hundred times....

**Passerby**

This post has been edited by anilin: Jun 20 2020, 12:32 AM

Just be happy for yourself that they're happy.

Wow...! This is very hard. Different people, different methods to deal. Perhaps having some new hobbies. Getting know with more new people but avoid from attracting with any of them quickly. Traveling to ease your mood & experience some adventurous journey. Watch more comedy movies. Avoid to listen & watch broken hearted songs & movies.

The way to get over a broken relationship is to realise that the relationship is over and there is no way that it will ever come back. If you keep on thinking about what you had then you will never know what you will have. There ia a partner for you out there and you will find them one day. That should keep you going.

Why is it when relationship turns sour, it really becomes really really sour and bitter.

I had this ex then we ended up going back and forth for more than 2 years.. we really loved each other but then our relationship also built on a shitty foundation because I got into a relationship with her right after breaking up with her best friend.. so we were doing everything in secret and then everytime my ex find out, we break up.. then after few weeks start talking again and on and on for more than 2 years.. j still kinda miss her la but during each breakup I was really lost like I was going crazy.. then I started my how phase 🤪🤪

Everyone has their own way of getting over a relationship.. some people cry, some don't even talk about it.. find whats suits you best.. if talking about it and crying about it helps you to move on, go ahead with that.. if you're not that expressive kind of person, find a way to distract yourself from it.. find a hobby or something to fill your empty time because honestly its the empty time that makes us overthink and get depressed.. if you're always busy the you won't have time to be sad

exactly, time will heal.. but time will also destroy you so try to be wise and use the time to benefit yourself

wah so easy ah bro XD

Yeah sometimes it is not that easy... I know many pals on xanax like lil peep due to a relationship... i guess some boys are stronger than others

Keep strong bro

Hope that time will heal your pain

How to get over a bad breakup
Step1. Grief and be pathetic all you want (include stalking).
Step 2. Pour your sob story to friends until they cannot stomach it anymore.
Step 3. Start your self improvement project. Can be workouts, learning a new language, side income, restyling your wardrobe. Anything. Do it even if you are still sobbing.
Step 4. Repeat Step 3 but hopefully with less sobbing.

In the end hopefully you have gained some new skills and be a better person for the next.

Just don't get rebound spare tire if you are not ready for the next one. Not cool.

It has been 3 weeks, i was really sad for the first few days, crying and drinking.
Then i started to moving on and accepts it, I’m really rational most of the times but sometimes I’m moving backward. Like right now I’m awake because i dreamt about her, all those good memories became so painful to think about.
This back and forth process is so torturing.

Open a thread lah.

Hi all , just broke up after 4 months . I really like her to the point of giving it my all , I feel like I have no integrity left in myself at this point . We communicated when we are unhappy with each other and fight , at least I did . She exploded suddenly and went for the breakup . Although I know I scolded and shouted her a lot but I think everyone deserves a chance . She says that her personality is the freedom type and does not wanna be tied to a relationship . Been drinking for a week and been waking up earlier day by day . Really pains me to see her leave me . How many relationship when you walk till the end instead of these kind of reasons actually it’s only that you don’t love the person that much anymore ......

Keep yourself busy with work, work and work

It feels sucks