i believe most ppl have to meet a few wrong one before the meet the right one
me myself, also have past relationships that did not work out
but apart from all the heart breaking event, i think i did learnt something from each of my ex, and the sweet memories they gave me.

Just remember the good, and forget about the bad things
Life will be happier

I'm trying, thanks for the advice.

It sucks to be a person with photographic memory.

Yup, at least you might learn something from your past. The sad thing is that you haven't found the right person yet. Give it more patience.

I hope so, but i'm losing faith.

I don't deserved this.

You know that you don't deserve this, don't give up just yet.

Thanks bro, after a time of self reflection I think I can already move on.

I'm glad I can start my day today with a smile on my face, hopefully I'll get my confidence back as soon as possible.

Thanks again to others as well for taking your time to give me some response.

Glad to hear that you finally have a smile on your face.

Take care

haha,i give u a comment here,thanks,haha,i think its really useful,i like it,now i know its actually oxytocin working n that i really nid that guy,haha,really funny,anyway,its so nice of u to put this up,its really good,keep it up,haha,i even think of printing it out n read it more often so that i remember all the steps,haha,so thanks again

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Added on June 25, 2010, 10:29 amhaha,this is really good,i think it really helps us a lot,thanks ya,i even think of printing it out so that i can read it more n even memorise it,haha,anyways,thank you

This post has been edited by kwan91: Jun 25 2010, 10:29 AM

Hey all...i just broke a 6 years relationship with him... No 3rd party involved...but it's just sadness and loneliness...Alot of things i do reminds me of him...it's a mutual breakup bcoz we cant seem to compromise with each other.
Sometimes i would think if im asking too much? i just need a listener...

Care to tell us what was the cause?

U could always share it with us

i am having a pretty messed up life currently, family probs, career wise...and he left me at such times becoz he feels he couldnt support me in any way and that my depression is making him angry sometimes.
He thinks i should grow-up...
fyi, yes, i admit i do call him in the middle of the night or go to his house without asking him first. that's cause i needed him so much, i needed a listener. nvm...maybe he just doesn't want to be that "rubbish bin" of mine listening to all the craps from me...
i always ask myself will i treat him the same way if he is having a depression or a hard time...after so many things we've been through, he just gave up on me...maybe he thinks he can find a better girl...

It sounds that you really have lots of things bottled up inside, with your family problems and your career has given you a tremendous pressure and you needed somebody to listen to your rants. He gets angry because he feels helpless that he couldn't do anything to make you feel better, and he seems didn't understand very well that all he needs to do is just be there with you and listen.

Have you tried looking your friends and confide your problems?

everyone deserved to hav a better one...

oh god. i just realized my ex actually had a gf just the 3rd week after we breakup. sigh..

And it's your birthday today. Bad day for you.

i met some heart-broken girls, (not guys lar cos i shan one).

They were really so hurt that their minds are somewhere else and they lived like a zombie. They are like the three monkeys, with eyes but cant see us, with ears but cant hear us, with mouths but kept weeping all the time and kept repeating why. The worst and most dreadful part is : they kept going back to the guys.

So if u are heart-broken, never ever go back to the ex, it only dread them most. They would not be able to take it. Then a reunite would really be out of the question.

Only ladies with sensible mind will turn the guys back.

Only time can heal. Or time can tell.

The reason i shan guys is bcos i cant really handle a guy crying with tears bursting in front of me, and somehow i think guys get over this kind of stuff easier than girls.

well, yeah. actually realized it two days before. i was like..why why why he treat me like this? after all, i've seen tru already.. and i realized i'm living happier now. and i'm really glad we breakup. i'm going to enjoy myself tonight

Now you're more happier than before. Glad to hear that and happy birthday

Thank you bluewind *huggss**