let me state first hor. i'm not gay LOl.

Lazy , how are you le? dint heard from u. Suffering from breakdown?

so bored.. im still in office now le.. working overtime sian aaa and worst tomorrow have to come back work, public holiday leh!!!

tml i have to work also le. But got work is good, can keep yourself occupied

painzz , you work in which field?

smthg creative

This post has been edited by painzz: Jun 5 2010, 01:09 AM

private and confidential.

Graphic design till so late? you're the boss or you rushing deadline

This post has been edited by Neonlight: Jun 5 2010, 12:59 AM

I feel sad when people cannot let go of the past and keep whining about it online . . .

time for me to get myself busy again =)
no nid think so much XD

just to let it go only..partially...dats y whining it online..

Hi guys, just posting here and looking for someone to talk to.

If you don't mind, I'm here to listen.

already one month since the day we brokeup.. sometimes i still holding my phone and looking at our photos. gosh. i miss him but i hate him so much

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Added on June 15, 2010, 8:01 pmlet's talk..

This post has been edited by bbcheryl: Jun 15 2010, 08:01 PM

Slowly ba it's only been a month

Understand is hard to forget those memory, but sometime is good to separate then to be together. Probably it will be a release for for you.

Get yourself a life, maybe learning new thing, get yourself more pretty, meet more friends, or concentrate on study & so on.

You still young, no matter how life still continue.

long story short, we were on and off for the past 2 years, without any serious commitment on her part.

I haven't contact her for around 8 months or so until the past few weeks and she back to her previous self where she would flirt around with me and so on.

We finally met each other last weekend to celebrate my birthday. I still find myself harbouring a certain amount of feelings of her.

Finally i told her to fly kite if she wasn't serious about us and I'm not willing to go through the same sh1t ever again.

So how have you been coping with the feelings with her while you told her off?

the truth is

i have never truly grief her loss, even during the period where we lost contact.

There are periods that I would want to wind up and break down and cry, but i just couldn't do that.

I guessed yesterday was the climax of my pent up frustration with her, and i realized that for the most part there was a deep seething anger within me has reached a boiling point.

As for how am I coping with it right now, I couldn't put in into words. I just feel numb and would like to cast away any thoughts of her for the moment.

I just felt that I have wasted the last 2 years of my life, for nothing.

just let go, and move on
u got many more years ahead, 2 years is nothing

I have wasted 7years for another girl= same shit
another 2 years for this girl= shit

i dunno if i have many more 2 years to waste.

This post has been edited by Tyler__Durden: Jun 16 2010, 11:57 AM

Decided not to dwell in the past is a good thing. While you feel that you have wasted your time for the last 2 years and you ended up with nothing, can be quite disappointing. You are angry at her because she wasn't giving her full commitment into you as well as the relationship for the past 2 years.

Rather than focusing so much energy on getting angry with her, have you tried finding some activities to vent out?

I did for the past 8 months doing my own thing and focusing on my career and my life. I could say I was doing quite well at that. I did not however held a grudge against her on what happened, it's all in the past.

For the most part I'm angry about people weaving in and out of my life as if I'm a nobody. I don't mind being friends as long as both sides agreed on not to cross the line beyond that.

Hence the anger was pointed towards her lack of respect of me as a person who's trying to lead a decent normal life.

This post has been edited by Tyler__Durden: Jun 16 2010, 12:10 PM