how come so many ppl break-up...? is it a relationship really cant tahan lama...?? haiz sad~

+1 damn true.. and especially if they already have someone else in their heart. last time he's the person who cares most about u, but after having someone else he will only think u're a nuisance and irritating to him. they just won't know how hurting it might be to be treated like that

damn true.
how someone who seems to care and treasure you so much could turn into some cold blooded human the next sec.
hmm.. yea. i think that's the best way until i completely let go.
hope it won't take too long..

how do i wish i can do tat cuz no matter how hard i try but yet i can't do it cuz i love her so much n gave my heart to her for 2 1/2yrs~

that's exactly what i've been thinking for these 2months.
if they really did loved us like they said.... how could everything just vanish within 1sec?
the thoughts that he never loved me really scares me..
i know it's no point worrying bout that anymore, but still i can't keep it away from my mind
lol. reminds me of myself. i am one emo girl.
things would be more difficult for you since you're having LDR
it's either let go.. or try to be happier if it's not too late.
good luck.

Hah, impossible...

I am tired of courting and at the same time, sometimes, i tag along with friend who happens to be attached....(observant)

I see...

I always think that myself, may not go to club at all.

I know one person told me, that "being young is only once", so i am thinking.

actually i nvr go b4 too~~  just knw from my fren~~ they all cLubbing kaki~~

Nothing wrong or unusual of not going to club.

However, like the obsession of DOTA, problem is that some people equate me as boring, when i do not go to club...i mean, sometimes....i need to be careful.

I am okay with cafe or pub, it is less raunchy for me

if u know some ppl will be hurt, then why were u still so direct? haha
cakap tak serupa bikin 

Not going clubbing does not equate to boring. And I sometimes don't get it why ppl love clubbing so much. For those who nvr been there before, I suggest u guys just go at least once. At least know what its like, then u could judge it urselves. I used to like it, but it just gets duller soon after.

I've finally picked myself up from this one-sided love, well I mean, I don't consider myself being in a broken relationship because it never was in the 1st place haha.. I've grown fond of the friend of mine, and despite me knowing she had a bf of 4 yrs, I just stepped across the line I drew for myself. An uncontrollable feeling developed over the time period.

My ethics knew it was wrong to be pursuing someone who is already unavailable, but my irrationality just told me to try, because I never know. This mindset alone led me to this mess lol, it sux, really. Its difficult to find a girl who suits all the criteria u ever wanted in a girl and the thought of myself having to give up hurt me so much... As soon as I knew I stand not a chance, its just... painful.

Decided to just stay the same way as it is, good friends. I'm glad I could be the someone she could rely on and place her 100% trust in me, could only hope this lasts and is maintained..I'll admit I have still been thinking of her for these past few weeks, its just implanted in me. Well, but life goes on.. As much as it hurts, I just hope I can get over this.

Hey peeps, really encouraging advises given here. I must say you guys are doing a great job. I'd just like to take your time to tell you that I have read a very powerful book, by a psychologist... and it changed my mind about the way i view my relationships. It's just a 50 page book, but by going through 10-15 pages, I felt stronger already. I am a college student, and i'm not so sure about the rules here, so i dont want to be sounding like i am advertising. Do contact me if you'd like to know more about this book. And i'll tell you where to get it too.

And what we think about the "One" or "Soul-mate" is soo wrong man... Gosh.