steeling guys.....not my thing but then anything can happen.

My story is my bf last time had a gal, and i was shocked cuz when i know him and got close to him, i didn't know he had a girl he liked. Then with all the might i have in my heart, i make them two together, like play matchmaking.

Then i was so sad i cried and cried for days. Just hiding myself in the room and cried. Best is, my bf called me and ask me advice and keep on smsing and talkng to me, and caring for me. He seems like he liked me.

Then there was one day, it strucked him, i told him that it does not matter what i want or what i think is right, u have a gf and all that is important that is u console her and not me. He was shocked and then he learned that i will not and i pledge that i don't steal another girls guy. And i wun kau guys. Unless the guy tell me he like me, i will not accept him.

After that he say he wanted to break up with the gal (after 1 week ) and i was supporting him. I dunno why.... my heart just keep on supporting him. Then i kinda unknowingly hugged him and stayed with him.

After that i know that he liked me all this while, had a crush on me for a year edi, but he is too shy to confest and is afraid that i might reject him, hemake this whole girl story up to make me confess to him first.

I was suppost to be angry but i was happy to know that he didnt like her. But poor girl, she cried for months.....

so...............i feel bad, but what can u do? i am with my bf for over a year now and things are good.

so....sometimes, u just cant control urself.

or course what i am trying to say here is the girl who is keep on contacting ur bf, may not be able to control herself, she just looking for comfort, like rebound guy. In my opinion

HiHi..i m new here.. my bf also give people stealed.. just dont hold your bf too tide..

hey... girl... i really feel u very brave to test HIM..

well this wat i do recently to another guy (telling me how he very liked me, but i not sure is him telling me the true)..
What just i know is.... after i accept him in day 3, just realise he already got gf (they hv been separate for 2times)..
That really make me SHOCK... Sound like i'm stealing guy... But in fact i really dunno HER existing..
feeling really down n sad when u get to know that HIM got gf but still after u...
haiz....

there's a lot nowadays.. even it wil happen to almost every couple.. n yes, i agree with u.. dun mess n fight with the gal.. no worth a cent at all.. it will make u look like a loser more.. jus like my case, i fight n mess wif the gal, end up i look like the 3rd party more than her.. n wat u cant believe my bf/guy believe on her rather than me.. so gal, juz stay cool n calm.. like fishing (my fren taught me), release it sometime n pull it back on right timing..

like this punya bf, throw in tong sampah liao la. trust 3rd party more than own gf?
and you girls complain getting in a mess. no disrespect. reli, love is blind huh

This post has been edited by Petre: Apr 29 2008, 10:06 AM

sometiems the gal does not know the guy have gf! usually in this situation. The gal shd call up the guys gf then both pretend as very close frens. He sure pee in his pants.

girls who steal other people's bf's are biatches.
they shud be b***h slapped really really hard.
they're lying if they say they didn't know the guy they like has a gf.
if she likes him, she'll know everything about him.

I have a gf , I love my gf.
Ppl who try to spanar my gf, will be met with a farking pissed off dude holding a farking big and farking expensive golf stick.

Im not afraid to say that I have told her friends off before. They offer to come fetch her for yamcha at 10 in the nite. Yeah bullshit, she has a bf with a perfectly good car who can send her, who the hell needs them. LOL.

But thats it, sometimes girls look at it as just a good will by her fren but then again, we guys know. All this are bullshit tactics aimed at trying to court a girl. Mweh, im a guy, i know the sleazy underhanded tactics, other guys do.

XD .
Sometimes girls are oblivious to the fact that another guy is chasing her and not just being nice until its too late.

Guys on the other hand are horny son's of b****es who should learn how to control their d*** and tink with their brain instead of that snake in the pants. LOL .

Regardless, either way, guy or girl, ppl who try and steal anothers significant other are scum .
And that fact that if you succeed in getting that piece of shit, just be aware, what goes around comes around.

If he/she can leave their partner, whats goin to stop they from leaving you for another cause clearly, that person has relationship issues and you even bothering to exploit that flaw in that person just to get laid is even more retarded.

Mweh, people who post up shit like I stole another persons bf and sounds proud of it should be shot. Its people like you who come online and give confidence to other retards like urself that makes this world a f***in nuclear warzone for love.

Hence making some girls so paranoid and clingy to their bf and etc.

But yes, I am in a happy relationship for 3 yrs and I'd hate to see my gf taken away from me just cause some mofo went to lowyat.net and said

"I like this girl, she has a bf, should i go for it?"
and instead of ppl f***in him up for being such an *******. they push him along and say go for it.

Sweet god. Whats wrong with you ppl. Ive seen countless posts in multiple threads. U SHUD GO FOR IT.

Man, in my case and for many others who tink like me. U SHUD GO FOR IT, YEAH I AGREE, U SHUD GO TO HELL.

Calm down calm down... cool ya..

wah... good point...
can try de..

im think in this 4 years we have been so much progress..i taught him a lot of things, he 2 taught me a lot of things..Example..im an english+cantonese background,so i duno mandarin,he is super chinese backhground,in order 2 woo me,he learn english (from zero to something at least)hahaha!i alwis teach him how 2 communicate in english,hear english songs..there r more ..what i have learn from him is patience,not 2 get angry easily (i often get angry easily)hahaha!!like if we have a problem,we will talk it through,say everything what is bothering us...I mean..i c a lot of couples..after 1 year or so..they wil break up bcuz non of them willing 2 step down n say IM SORRY..(eventhough they r wrong) wen i did wrong..i dun say im wrong..i will twist everything so i wil be the 1 who is right hahahaha!!normally he wil be the 1 who say..OKLAH IM WRONG PLEASE DUN ANGRY ME ANYMORE DEAR...but now,i wil say im sorry if im wrong,learn 2 ask 4 forgiveness...mayb u wil think its jus sumtin normal what we do in our relationship but 4 us i really mean a lot... so i think my relationship with him is stil "panas" hahaha!about that gal..she stil wouldnt give up although i ask my bf 2 ignore her sms...she jus sent a mms 2 him with a sunset pic n midi song "close 2 u"

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Added on May 1, 2008, 10:36 pmyeah i din pull or control tight tight,i wil jus ask him whether the gal do anything 2day..or he wil ownself tel me what she did...how 2 show that gal i have a strong relationship with him if i dun even know her...i din even sms or call her 2 confront her bout tis b4....i jus let my bf handle it...i hope he wun do anything wrong behind my back... sometimes i feel like i dun deserve him...mayb he deserve this gal...mayb this gal will make him more happy if they r 2geta..haihz..duno la..jus hope everything wil cool down between them...


This post has been edited by gracechew: May 1 2008, 10:36 PM

just trust ur self.. take it as exam from god.....

walau model mum ah???sumore ask u 2 meet her???!!! i think i would not meet her if i am u...it is so hard 2 face someone who had been "fishy fishy" with your bf...thinkin about what they did behind your back jus sucks terribly...sumore need 2 face her... i don't think i can handle it...sumore she is a model...somehow will be good looking gua!!! i didn't fight with that gal..don't even know her...im trying my very best 2 cool down...if she step over the line...i think i mus interfere already...

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Added on May 2, 2008, 12:16 pmi understand what u r trying 2 say...i din stop my bf 2 comfort her..as she says she is not happy with her bf...i mean..if there is nothing between them its ok...i also told my bf try 2 calm her down s i tot she needs sum1 2 talk 2...everybody needs some1 2 pour out their problems n feelings, but later on i found out that tis gal have feelings 4 my bf...i dun rely mind at 1st...but tis gal kept on coming like a hungry lion!!! my good deed actually turns out 2 be a disaster 2 me...backfired...what wil i feel....will she ever thought that what she is doing now actually hurts me a lot...i dun think she even care...all she thinks about is herself...im the one who is stupid enough who actually thinks that showing her kindness wil help her get through her tough moments....what a world....

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Added on May 2, 2008, 12:29 pmthat gal is a christian...she even sent a msg sound almost like tis..

sometimes GOD giv us pain so we can make ourselves whole again..HE giv us bla bla bla i cant remember....i oni remember the last sentence...sometimes HE takes everything away from us so that we will know the "value" of the person...

so what does this means...is she trying 2 say that when my bf decided not 2 reply her sms den she noe how "worth" is my bf 2 her???or is she trying 2 say...my bf ignore her is a loss 2 my bf????


This post has been edited by gracechew: May 2 2008, 12:29 PM

seriously, this wont stop. ask her out, 3 of you. ask ur bf to settle this. i'm not saying anything suspicious about your bf but it will show what exactly is the situation here. just ask ur bf out, and tell teh girl u meeting her in person, 2 of you. means, none of your bf n the girl know its a 3 person meeting. surprise is the element. no chance for them to pakat etc.

settle it there n then. if not, police case? confront the girl's parents? seriously, sounds serious but then again, dun think the whole issue, is serious?

good luck

if the gal got any dignity, after u ask her and ur bf out and talk about it, tell her ur not getting very comfortable with her. And if she REALLY need support, u also can be her fren and when she need help, both u and ur bf go find her. In that way, she will stop looking ur bf as a rebound guy. Cuz if not mistaken, she is vulnarable and then there is a guy who treat her so good wor, sure got terpikat la

i dunno if she tried to control herself or steal ur bf, but i suggest u met her in pairs. Never go alone. Sometime, u go instead of ur bf. This way she knows that ur insaperable and she cant get in between (if she is a slut)

plus, me and my bf and always together when it comes to anything, and my bf will reject anyone asking for help in love matter when it is a girl cuz he knows i am not comfortable. Talk to ur bf and tell him that u feel jealous, scared u lose him, liddat u make him feel good also (cuz i need him mah, man ego la) and at the same time, do good for both of u

i m dat stupid gal who call da gal who r realy in love v him..always sent love msg..call him dear,ask him miss her more and say love him..i duno wat my bf do to her...at da end da gal tell evryhting to him..my bf angry den say break v me..as my bf need her help in hw,so we get bac togther he din tell her..so da gal now even more aggressive!i duno wat i should do..realy hate tis tyoe of gal...

y break with u? i dun get it. Gall tell ur bf what? u didnt do anythign wrong also

well, i never in de positionb4 la..
but my god bro been in ur shoesb4.
at de end both oso he dun wan coz he said his ex oways nag n nag n nag........
den she didn't trust him anymore. so sad lo c him tat time.. he said tat time like wan commit suicide nia..
so de end all oso dun wan lo..
better still..

so my advice is try not to push ur guy too had la..
he's oso susah ma..
stuck in de middle.. pitty him oni..
if u r sure n had confidence in him den gv him sometime to settle de prob la..
u push him too much hor.. later end like ma god bro de case den more teruk!!!
if u feel tat ur guy will cheat on u den get a life la..
both ppl together need love and de most important is TRUST..

p/s: no hard feelings ya!!

for me i think there r 2 options: 1st if u can tahan the girl's attitude then do nothing lo don put too much pressure on ur bf too think he s kinda honest for being frank good eh tis type of guy ..2nd if u cannot tahan just tel ur bf u would like to meet the girl up n offer her advice n consultation whenever she encounter any problems wif the bf..come straight to u instead of ur bf ..befrens wif her .. ,ppl say know thyself,know the way to win ma lol

u n ur bf r not yet marriage, so it is reasonable other wan to fight with u...sorry of using example below...
' u tried a dress in boutique, u luv it n u decided to buy later...there is another gal cums in n luv it very much also, she nvr tried it but straight away take n pay at the cashier......'YES, u luv the dress n u tried it, u hint everybody that u want it, but the problem is u haven;t pay it!!!!
if i reli like the dress, of coz i will hold it in my hand, nt let anyone grap it before me...

Luv is fair game, winner takes all...u couldn't blame other trying to 'grap' ur bf, BUT....u can prevent it. Since ur bf n the gal ald atr that stage( i mean keep sms, phone....) u cannt stop it inone short, but u should tell ur bf SERIOUSLY, u dun like it...sms n calling is nothing, but if she keeps flirting with ur bf, u r sick of it! then i think ur bf would be behave a bit....
n u r onli 20~~~~u can actually scan for a better one...

gals, if u dun wan the dress to be graped, better hold it tight...because i will grap the one i like if the owner doesn't watch it well...