there is a gal who admits that she liked my bf. my bf alwis tells me everything bout her including what she sms-ed to him n what she said wen she called him..she alwis tells my bf that she is not happy wit her relationship wit her current bf, n of cos my bf alwis console n advise her to leave her current bf...This eventually made her liked my bf cuz she thinks my bf is caring towards her..My bf cant jus push her away cuz she is my bf colleague's daughter...(the mum doesn't know bout tis) She knows that my bf already have me but she continues to make contact wit him n flirts sumore!!!!!! I don't know whether im right in jus letting her do tis 2 my bf, as i know that my bf loves me very very much...i noe that he wun cheat on me but on the other hand i cant stand tis gal's attitude using her self pity problems to attract my bf to care 4 her. So do u think it is right to ruin other ppl's relationship jus bcuz u c their relationship is happy?? My bf n I have been 2geta for 4 years.... my bf is 23 and im jus 20 (that idiot gal is same age s me)

"remind" ur bf that he alrdy have u...

Always good to face to face with her, sometimes ignoring it will make thing get worse. You bf might fall for her, assuming that she is good in flirting . But if she admit openly to you that she is going after your bf, then it would be an open war

i have never meet her b4..oni saw her pic at msn wen my bf show me her pic..quite nice looking actually haha!i tot of calling her to scold her 4 acting like tis but im thinkin...its not good 2 scold ppl suddenly wen she din even noe me at all..i jus let my bf 2 handle her but i make sure my bf tell me wats her next war love strategy hehehe!

dont scold her.... just let ur bf know that he shouldnt does it again... if he cares ur feeling... ask him to show how much he loves u

hmm. 1 word. Careful.

also, are you hotter than her in any sense? Thats a fact to be considered too.

War Love Strategy... I like the sound of that

Anyway have faith in your boyfriend. She doesn't go touchy touchy with him I think its okay. I mean just talking things out and giving advice is something anyone would do for a friend anyway. But if she lean on his shoulder, cry on him that kind of thing cannot la.

A guy won't fall for a girl just because he is caring for her. Usually its because a girl cares for him.

yeah he cares for my feelings...he cried wen i say i 1 2 break off wit him since a gal is so interested in him..(like a baby,hahahahaa) now he tries 2 ignore those sms she sent 2 him..problem is not my bf..is that gal..so desperate housewife hahahaa

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Added on April 20, 2008, 2:14 pmhahaha!! thanks 4 ur compliment on my "war love strategy"...i have the same opinion that a fren would aso advise n console but tis gal is very emotional..alwis thinkin the negative sides...makes it harder 2 kick her butt away hahaha! I will have faith in my bf, thanks 4 the advise ya!

This post has been edited by gracechew: Apr 20 2008, 02:14 PM

OF COURSE NOT!
what a silly thing to ask...

i think its ok as long as u think youre better than the attached girl why not go ahead and try.

yeah silly thing 2 ask but sum how i think in your life u wil face mayb this kind of problem..sum ppl think s long s the guy or gal have not yet marry den they can try 2 steal their partners away...c the "main actor/actress" love which 1 more..thats wat me n my bf have been debating about...

stealing is not good oh

This post has been edited by pinkling: Apr 20 2008, 04:04 PM

Just be more careful. Sometimes guys tend to fall for girls because they are pitiful. The guys will think that it's their responsibilities to look after those type of girls.*____*

But the good thing is that your bf is ignoring her. And I hate those trying to be pity-all-the-time-girls. Should I say no self-respect.=s

As long as u havent marry with ur BF... ur BF still open to public and everygal stand a chance...

It depend on how good u lock ur BF..... capture ur BF heart....

remember, this is a good time to see how ur BF..... sometimes u can act jealous to ur BF.. and see how ur BF react....

But i think your bf is rather steady and stable, seeing him telling u everything about the girl, from sms to msn. Which i think is rather a good thing, it clears him up.

U'll have to interfere, via your bf. Ask your bf to set things straight between him and her. Draw some lines.

Don't worry, it's only usual for girls to feel insecure and jealous

IF ever your BF in the end got stolen, then you know la - lucky he was stolen NOW than after marriage.

TS...caution..
it is your bf to decide.
and for tat girl, she shud be happy what she have now, once it is all gone, never get one till u meet someone who is right.

general point of view; pencuri siang.

hmmp..just watch out lo..some girls like to use those trick to catch boys heart de..hmmp..luckz for you girl..

maybe you can appear in front of her and show how lovely you and your bf are... or last choice you can always call her mother up

I never fight with a girl over a guy. If I like a guy, and I find out another girl likes him too, I back off.
If a girl likes my boyfriend, I let him choose.