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 Do you think its ok to steal a guy from other ppl?

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kanzakicyn
post Apr 27 2008, 09:33 PM

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steeling guys.....not my thing but then anything can happen.

My story is my bf last time had a gal, and i was shocked cuz when i know him and got close to him, i didn't know he had a girl he liked. Then with all the might i have in my heart, i make them two together, like play matchmaking.

Then i was so sad i cried and cried for days. Just hiding myself in the room and cried. Best is, my bf called me and ask me advice and keep on smsing and talkng to me, and caring for me. He seems like he liked me.

Then there was one day, it strucked him, i told him that it does not matter what i want or what i think is right, u have a gf and all that is important that is u console her and not me. He was shocked and then he learned that i will not and i pledge that i don't steal another girls guy. And i wun kau guys. Unless the guy tell me he like me, i will not accept him.

After that he say he wanted to break up with the gal (after 1 week sleep.gif) and i was supporting him. I dunno why.... my heart just keep on supporting him. Then i kinda unknowingly hugged him and stayed with him.

After that i know that he liked me all this while, had a crush on me for a year edi, but he is too shy to confest and is afraid that i might reject him, hemake this whole girl story up to make me confess to him first.

I was suppost to be angry but i was happy to know that he didnt like her. But poor girl, she cried for months.....

so...............i feel bad, but what can u do? i am with my bf for over a year now and things are good.

so....sometimes, u just cant control urself.

or course what i am trying to say here is the girl who is keep on contacting ur bf, may not be able to control herself, she just looking for comfort, like rebound guy. In my opinion
kanzakicyn
post Apr 29 2008, 02:12 PM

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sometiems the gal does not know the guy have gf! usually in this situation. The gal shd call up the guys gf then both pretend as very close frens. He sure pee in his pants.
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post May 5 2008, 09:18 AM

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if the gal got any dignity, after u ask her and ur bf out and talk about it, tell her ur not getting very comfortable with her. And if she REALLY need support, u also can be her fren and when she need help, both u and ur bf go find her. In that way, she will stop looking ur bf as a rebound guy. Cuz if not mistaken, she is vulnarable and then there is a guy who treat her so good wor, sure got terpikat la

i dunno if she tried to control herself or steal ur bf, but i suggest u met her in pairs. Never go alone. Sometime, u go instead of ur bf. This way she knows that ur insaperable and she cant get in between (if she is a slut)

plus, me and my bf and always together when it comes to anything, and my bf will reject anyone asking for help in love matter when it is a girl cuz he knows i am not comfortable. Talk to ur bf and tell him that u feel jealous, scared u lose him, liddat u make him feel good also (cuz i need him mah, man ego la) and at the same time, do good for both of u
kanzakicyn
post May 8 2008, 10:36 PM

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y break with u? i dun get it. Gall tell ur bf what? u didnt do anythign wrong also

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