i'm confuse who is who d... Lena314, u face same problem or...

Haha....Why worry when u already know what you want?
There's always a good reason why couples choose to breakup - for something not good of course.
Reminiscing your past relationships will only make you want to make the same mistake again.

TS,
first you should be happy ur bf is attractive/wanted

second, if you know very well ur bf loves you very much, and that he shares his sms and whatever the girl did/flirt to him, it shows that he's being honest with you.

maybe from another point of view, ur bf is also proud that another girls likes him. showing u how much attention he has from other girls, maybe he is hinting you in a way to treasure him and love him as much as he loves you.

you can't stop what others can do, you cant just go and give a big slap to the other girl and ask her not to like your bf.. be urself, love your bf like you always did. and most importantly, trust your bf.

don't let the other girl affect you.
in most cases, couples that broke up because they got 'stolen' - also started of quarreling too much out of jealousy.

ya ya..hold him tide if you still love him alot..but if he really choose for that girl..then how strong u hold for it..his heart still will fly to that girl..just like some of my ex..my ex choose to be with another girl and lie to me..he told me that between us lost already something..hmmp..i accepted the reason..but i still cried for so many days..haha..few days later i go and check his profile and msn..and i saw something that was really hurt me a lot..he already got a new gf after 1 day we broke up.. ..but now...haha..he already broked up with that girl..and he find me back..

woh, seem lot of girls also got the same case..
i don't know why some girls really wanna "step their legs" inside other ppl relationship..->no offence
my bf's ex also admit that she still like him after broke up, until he's been with me now, she confessed like him..
but my bf not because of this avoid her or what, they are still friend..but abit close..
sometimes i also not really happy bout this, can say jealous
but must always remind your bf that, friend is friend.. remember ur current gf status is different from them..
then maybe do something that attract ur bf, u know lar..some guys fall to others girls because some of those girls do some so call "tricks" let your bf fall to them

u should have learnt your lesson by now

yaya.. mine problem facing is my bf ex lolz...
she keep on contact my bf...
i know past relationship is pass dy..
but my heart feel uncomfortable to her exist...

haha! i did ask him whether is he happy that there is a gal like him..(i asked in a teasing way) den he jus smile den say yes la (in a shy way) but den he say "i stil love u very very much"..
yeah i noe i cant stop her from expressing her love to him, thats y i din kacau that gal, jus make sure my bf tell me everything..i told my bf if she is using higher attack skills to him (skills to attract my bf) i wil not hesitated to take action..hahahaha!! (tell the gal's mum) den she wil be finish. hahaha!jus my imagination 2 "smack" her!

jealousy is also a case in every relationship..i find that nowadays guys r very controlling at their gf..example..my fren(gal)..have 2 report who is she going out with...need 2 ask permission sumore from the guy..if the guy dun approve, den she wun ask her parents..if the guy approve oni she wil ask her parents...if my bf do like that 2 me..i sure "smack down" him den break off wit him!!

well... i know ur mean..
Just worry cos both of us started the relationship not even half year ohh..
can be say not stable lol... both oso not very understand each other...
and dunno wat he/i thinking anyway...

Now what can i say is:
If he is belong to mine, he wont fly away de...
If he not, then how hard i hold his heart oso he will fly back to her lolz..
Just be confident to myself and the way he handle his ex lolz...
Hope he wont disappointed me anyway...

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Added on April 23, 2008, 10:58 amwhat can i say is not report to bf la...
just make sure he know wat u doing and where u have been when with..
and in other word, i oso hope he can let me know too..
just make sure both can be honestly telling wat each other doing some times..
it's cant be say control de...

This post has been edited by Lena314: Apr 23 2008, 10:58 AM

wah he come back n find u again ah?!?!! ur ex rely is an idiot..i dun like this kind of guys...take us ladies 4 granted...wen wit us...find another gal..dun even appreciate..oni come find us wen need us back...i also cried a lot...haha!my bf say im a "ham bao lou po" ..i noe how it feels 2 c the guy u like with a another gal...pain pain pain oni...but i wil soon 4get him..thank god 4 my frens...making me happy n myself again...FRIENDS ARE SO IMPORTANT!!!

its not good to be a thrid party...

someone who can snatch other ppl's bf ..while the couple is still in a good relationship, means the person only love themself and do not care bout others. narrow minded

yeah i noe wat u mean aso....i also would like 2 noe wat my bf is doin n where he is..but those controlling guys wun even let my fren talk or go out wit guy frens even there is gals coming 2geta!!!!sometimes 2 controlling aso no good..dun have the freedom to do anything...if 1 day the guy decided 2 break off wit the gal..den the gal wun have any1 close 2 turn 2 cuz wen she is with him...his bf forbbiden her 2 mix around..who is the 1 who wil suffer more???sure lah the gal...kasihan..

u wanna hire assassin or not?

yaya.. u right... FRIEND are main character when v are down..
with them accompany, it's really make us feel more safety..
same as me, when break off wif my ex...
My friend really care about me... and arrange a lot of activity for me...
even though i din feel happy mood to it, but very appreciate them..
THANK Q for caring about me... MY FRIEND

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Added on April 23, 2008, 11:22 ami understand well ur friend feeling...
previously my ex oso control me till i cant even breath...
this oso 1 of reason i break off wif him...
suddenly get back to freedom n single life...
i tell u... it's really really cant suite on this life...
totally feel ur life like less apart o..
it's cant be say suffer just the way u choice ur life to be..
since ur friend are comfortable n like the way her bf control her...
then wat for u worries ler... maybe she just need this type of controlling ler...
it's depend to a ppl to choice the way their communicate in their relationship
wat can v say is just pray for her lol...


This post has been edited by Lena314: Apr 23 2008, 11:22 AM

hmm...at 1st i have no hard feelings on tis gal...(in my case)..but then she keep on "step her leg" deeper n deeper until i rely cant stand her...of cos i wil feel jealous i actually did tell my bf im a bit jealous, jus tel him but din show him that i saw very down bcuz of tis problem...he noes im sad, thats y he keep assured me that he wun fall 4 that gal..but like u say..who knows...mayb he is falling her 4 but din dare 2 tel me oni...thats wat i think

You should confront the girl.

Hahaha....are you a Leo?

hahaha..im not leo but my bf is leo...im capricorn...astrology have connection with tis love thingy???maybe jus a tool 2 make us feel better cuz it wil sumhow twist from bad 2 good..

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Added on April 23, 2008, 4:47 pmhahaha..assassin 2 kill those "b****y" gals??? i rather ask rapist 2 rape them hahaha!!! jokin jokin


This post has been edited by gracechew: Apr 23 2008, 04:47 PM

intro the girl to me.. i settle her for u
lulz

hahaha!!how u going 2 settle 4 me??kill or rape or both????jokin jokin hahhaa!!jus slowing let the gal feel boring den i think she wun be interested in my bf anymore...

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Added on April 23, 2008, 5:21 pmoh ya..n i 1 2 ask

凡事要看淡一点，

乐在当下，享受当下，

不要为当下的失受太大的伤痛与烦恼，

这是我们必须努力学习的生命过程，

每天都应该从心底锻炼'放下'的酒脱，

往后才会有一番格局与自在

wat is this means???i duno how 2 read chinese....

This post has been edited by gracechew: Apr 23 2008, 05:21 PM